Just for the record, SLIGHT fat shaming really does work. However, the reason why the experts started telling people to not fat shame people is that because they figured out that if you are too harsh about it, you will crush their self esteem so hard, they won't feel like they are worthy of self of improvement and will give up before even starting to try. too much fat shaming = bad not enough fat shaming = just as bad
I think it genuinely depends on the individual in question. Some people are able to take even "cruel" criticism and use it to fortify themselves and embark on self improvement. Others simply crumble. For that reason I wouldn't shame anyone because unless you know the person in question very well, you just don't know how they'll react.
“Fat-shaming works!” LOL Well if someone can take the hit and use that to get into shape then yeah. Bit of self-deprecating humor and tough love and you’ll be shaving off the pounds in no time.
it also works to desensitize yourself to your own self sabotaging negative thoughts. people, including you, can just hurl insults at you all day but if at the end of the day you're still standing, that's a testament to your own power
Man, not for me. I can take real talk like, “Listen, you say you’re trying to lose weight, but you just ordered a pizza.” That’s a good kick in the reality bone. But if it gets cruel and personal, I fall apart. I still remember being young, losing some weight and wearing a new shirt to boost confidence (you know how it is, enjoy some tangible progress like going downs shirt size) and these punks at the gas station yelled, “Fat bitches should try to dress up!” Not only was that the end of that particular weight loss effort, but I remember it more than a decade later. Maybe it’s different for men?
@@83gemm Yeah, men are better at just rolling with it, or getting angry and turning that anger into fuel. Don't let them win, my friend. Never let them win.
@@83gemm It's different in that we know no one except one or two people really close to us, give a shtt about what we feel and go through. You haven't figured that out yet?
Getting dragged into other people's drama is a guaranteed way to fuck up your own life. If you met her in a bar and found out later, that's different. Being a knowing participant is no excuse.
Yeah, by and large the easier it seems that you'll get laid, the more you find out that the difficulty comes on the back end of the deal. Like, COULD the guy have banged her and then escaped unscathed? Sure, initially, but if the woman wasn't cool with like a one night stand kind of deal, and thought the banging was going to lead to a long term relationship, that could easily lead to a very dark outcome, especially if she's got your contact information and knows your name. I know this from personal example, because there's this chick out there that I KNOW I could fuck with very little if any prompting, but that would open up a can of worms so big, I'd never be able to escape it.
225ish is a 38 so from my point of view it’s close. I dropped 39 lbs on the keto diet to 221. I went back up to 236 and had a weight contest and killed the office by only losing 12lbs. I’m kinda screwed because I rather buy another belt than buy the 36 jeans 👖
😂 😂 😂 Really Bill! I think you play the tough guy while thinking "Oooh really, the girls like my outfit." YES ✊🏻 But I won't admit it in front of my girl! 👍🏻🤫🤙🏻 😁 Nia is 100% right, guys who have to talk about "how strong they are" while being in a divorce and the wife is looking around? And you getting cought in this mess, this can end very badly because this superman may have a gun!
I was 227lb and 36 jeans, but it was getting close to a 38. I'm not jacked, but I've gone to the gym frequently years back. Come to think of it, I do have good shoulders, so maybe you're right.
Do you want to stay in this city/are planning to? Do the couple plan on staying in this city? Does the husband own a gun? If the answer to any of these questions are no, I say do it and run!
I've been listening to this podcast for well over a year and just realized you are highly influenced by Archie Bunker 🤣 cracks me up whenever you use the voice that sounds like him
She is a disgusting human not only cheating on her husband but the whole watting to divorce him till after he gets his bonus so she can take more money in the divorce is crazy. Your helping a woman use a fellow man.
😂 😂 😂 Cute is OK Bill! Especially if the girls wants to bite in your cute as*! NOTHING wrong with cute! (it's not I WOULD SLIT MY WRISTS, but it's still a BANG 🤙🏻) 😂 😂 😂 She likes what she is looking at, nothing wrong with that! The other way around too! A lot of girls I had were cute, and it was not a 🤯 "slit the wrist" thing, but it was great and the life went on!
Regarding fat-shaming: Yeah you shouldn't be cruel and going out of your way to make people feel bad about their appearance. But when you go see Top Gun and see these fit people looking great and doing athletic things, if that makes you feel threatened and insecure about your level of fitness, then own up to that. That's your problem, not society's "standards". That's the line that I think people are trying to hold firm on (like when Demi Lavato tried to shame that ice cream store).
It's Ansel Elgort. You can just about hear Nia say it before Bill cuts her off. I don't know when this podcast is from, but I'm guessing the movie in question is Baby Driver. That sounds about right. That was when he started becoming more of a household name (enough for Nia to know about him); his previous films were mostly for teen audiences. I imagine his Instagram following would've jumped up to 1.2 million after that movie.
I think it's Baby Driver. You can hear Nia say, "Ansel El...," right before Bill cuts her off. He's talking about Ansel Elgort. It checks out. I did a quick Google search, and his dad is a photographer and he went to that LaGuardia school.
I say go for it. Just make sure to use protection or you'll be the one on the hook for your next bonus. Their marriage is over. She's already been down to the clerk's office, got her paperwork. You're not ruining anything. It's not even about him. Its just NSA sex at this point. If you had met her and she were single, would you do it? If so, go for it. If not, pass.
@@watching99134 I'm not saying she's looking to trap him. I'm saying if she happened to get pregnant, she likely wouldn't hesitate to take him for child support because it's his responsibility.
He did not even mention his height, you nerd. He might be just a normal man height, like me... Around 6'3" or 6'4"? Then that makes it right about right for that height and that weight without being crazy jacked. Some people grow to full adult size.
@@a.m11558 AND/OR! ....we were a category of asshole that a substantial population of already existed, and continues to, and he just ended up as a vocal representative of us.
As a male, I like to look cute and say that my outfits are cute lol. I color coordinate my gym clothes. I don’t really understand why you wouldn’t? Like, you want to look messy?
Lol. That guy is going to hit it no matter what they say.
Her husband's gonna get his revenge... with his mouth.
@@rotierender_lurch "what'd you do? Blow him?"
You betcha!
@@rotierender_lurch 😂
Forrrreal
Just for the record, SLIGHT fat shaming really does work. However, the reason why the experts started telling people to not fat shame people is that because they figured out that if you are too harsh about it, you will crush their self esteem so hard, they won't feel like they are worthy of self of improvement and will give up before even starting to try.
too much fat shaming = bad
not enough fat shaming = just as bad
I think it genuinely depends on the individual in question. Some people are able to take even "cruel" criticism and use it to fortify themselves and embark on self improvement. Others simply crumble. For that reason I wouldn't shame anyone because unless you know the person in question very well, you just don't know how they'll react.
When I had a lil weight I wanted to lose, I'd use Cole Robinson (the best fat shamer ever) for inspiration, lol, dudes crazy 🤪
You can't crush self esteem... it's SELF esteem. It has nothing to do with other people.
Lmao “Yes that is sarcasm, well just keep reading” doesn’t, he waits cause he knew she wasn’t done. I burst out laughing when she stepped back in
Haha at 1:00 when nia calls bill cute, I busted out laughing at his response, I've said exactly that!!!
“Fat-shaming works!” LOL
Well if someone can take the hit and use that to get into shape then yeah. Bit of self-deprecating humor and tough love and you’ll be shaving off the pounds in no time.
it also works to desensitize yourself to your own self sabotaging negative thoughts. people, including you, can just hurl insults at you all day but if at the end of the day you're still standing, that's a testament to your own power
@@caralho5237 exactly
Man, not for me. I can take real talk like, “Listen, you say you’re trying to lose weight, but you just ordered a pizza.” That’s a good kick in the reality bone. But if it gets cruel and personal, I fall apart. I still remember being young, losing some weight and wearing a new shirt to boost confidence (you know how it is, enjoy some tangible progress like going downs shirt size) and these punks at the gas station yelled, “Fat bitches should try to dress up!” Not only was that the end of that particular weight loss effort, but I remember it more than a decade later.
Maybe it’s different for men?
@@83gemm Yeah, men are better at just rolling with it, or getting angry and turning that anger into fuel. Don't let them win, my friend. Never let them win.
@@83gemm It's different in that we know no one except one or two people really close to us, give a shtt about what we feel and go through. You haven't figured that out yet?
Getting dragged into other people's drama is a guaranteed way to fuck up your own life.
If you met her in a bar and found out later, that's different. Being a knowing participant is no excuse.
Yeah, by and large the easier it seems that you'll get laid, the more you find out that the difficulty comes on the back end of the deal. Like, COULD the guy have banged her and then escaped unscathed? Sure, initially, but if the woman wasn't cool with like a one night stand kind of deal, and thought the banging was going to lead to a long term relationship, that could easily lead to a very dark outcome, especially if she's got your contact information and knows your name.
I know this from personal example, because there's this chick out there that I KNOW I could fuck with very little if any prompting, but that would open up a can of worms so big, I'd never be able to escape it.
Are you the husband in this story?
@@tampa2360 are you the wife?
Lol mia with the small town acting class "you're an actor" speech 😂
The way bill and his wife laugh together makes me remember not everyone sucks.
Jeez
The actor is Ansel Elgort and the movie is likely the remake of Carrie. He's still doing well in 2022
MVP right here
Baby driver himself!
i’m pretty sure he talked to a bunch of underage girls on the internet and such. i’m not sure if he’ll get any roles ever again
Never heard of him
@@alexisa2206 seriously? What a creep
No comments on how the wife is actively waiting on her husbands bonus to then divorce him? Wild out here
Lol, thats called good timing :D
Nia did address it at the end...def a red flag.
You born yesterday to not understand women want mainly money/support from men?
@@adsadsaddFQ Thats why I called it out tf
It is wild out chea my dude
I’m 220 with a 36 waist line 😂 I couldn’t stop laughing
I was 20 years ago, now, well I will keep that to myself.
225ish is a 38 so from my point of view it’s close. I dropped 39 lbs on the keto diet to 221. I went back up to 236 and had a weight contest and killed the office by only losing 12lbs. I’m kinda screwed because I rather buy another belt than buy the 36 jeans 👖
190 with a snug fit in a 34 inch pair of jeans. I'd be about a 36 inch waist at 220.
My people
Depends how tall you are
Hooking up with a taken lady brings bad karma and fucks up with your energy. Don't do it
Only if you believe in karma
Nah , go for it
"This line feels different...."
Ya because you think it's going to be so easy to get away with it.
I love these two (Bill and Nia) they totally belong together.
0:25 glad OP is realistic with himself. being in denial can be self destructive
Depends on his age. He may need to hit the hotel on his way out of town. If you’re in your 40’s go for it!
I love how the actor is clearly Ansel Elgort lmaoo
Nia absolutely on point with that advice!
Run through it like the boston marathon
Bill Burr has a great laugh, lol, and pretty good advice.
Nia showing wisdom
😂 😂 😂
Really Bill!
I think you play the tough guy while thinking "Oooh really, the girls like my outfit."
YES ✊🏻
But I won't admit it in front of my girl!
👍🏻🤫🤙🏻
😁
Nia is 100% right, guys who have to talk about "how strong they are" while being in a divorce and the wife is looking around?
And you getting cought in this mess, this can end very badly because this superman may have a gun!
Holy shit Bill literally had to ask his wife if “destress” is a real word. If that doesn’t give a glimpse into the psyche idk what could.
He's not familiar with your goofy cringe millennial lingo.
@@johndong7524 haha, dong
@@Kyryyn_Lyyh Normal people just say rest or take the edge off. Destress is a typical newspeak for weaklings.
The guy is tall which explains the measurements. I'm 6'5", weigh 230lbs, and wear 36 in pants.
I was 227lb and 36 jeans, but it was getting close to a 38. I'm not jacked, but I've gone to the gym frequently years back. Come to think of it, I do have good shoulders, so maybe you're right.
230, 36 jeans, and 1000 years old. I really think it's not that unusual. If you're 5'8", then yeah you're probably jacked.
Waiting until his next bonus check before divorcing him? Oof.
This is my first time hearing Nia. She sounds awesome. And...yeah, her take is the right take. Take the flattery and move on.
Most of the time her presence detracts. He's the funny one.
@@jimwerther not really she she has a cool personality and they dont really back down from each other which leads to entertaining convos lol
Nia is fucking annoying. She brings nothing to the table except an unbearably annoying voice
Great advice! Leave that shit there👍
I have a 36 waist at 200 and that's about when I start looking a bit emaciated, some people are just wide as hell.
6'1, hit 215 once. 38 at that chub level. All my shorts lost their buttons and all my fruit of the loom waistbands gave up the ghost
yes you should be thrilled lmfao
Do you want to stay in this city/are planning to? Do the couple plan on staying in this city? Does the husband own a gun? If the answer to any of these questions are no, I say do it and run!
Guy said he was leaving town, and the husband was a financial professional (unlikely to be violent).
I've been listening to this podcast for well over a year and just realized you are highly influenced by Archie Bunker 🤣 cracks me up whenever you use the voice that sounds like him
Yes if she's into it. LOL
Lol I’m 227 and size 36 pants. Definitely muscular but I still have some belly. You don’t have to be that lean
“This feels like a crossable line”
Definitely do it brother you’ll regret it if you don’t
if he's a jerk, f*ck yea, get in and get out! then repeat as often as necessary :D
I love bill's jesus christ..he says it alittle bit alike george carlin..rest in peace georgy
Now I’m really curious who the actor was. Damn it!
Ansel Elgort. You can just about hear Nia say it before Bill cuts her off. The movie in question is probably Baby Driver.
While I was listening to you wife tell him to walk away and do the right thing I knew you Bill would say " Do it"
Don't always agree with Nia, but was with her on everything she said.
I use TMMPC as my private “therapy session”.
Nia seems cool af. Good for ole billy ball bag
To the guy getting invited to have sex with the married woman. Don't. That sounds like the premise of a Law & Order episode.
Sturgis😂
Naa, you gotta go for this woman. You don’t get many of these and when you do they’re not always hot.
Nah he should tell the dude she wants to rob him so he avoids the pain and yeah maybe then fuck her.
A woman like that would cheat on someone who comes along better looking with more money in a second
@@tipoftheiceberg7034 you don’t keep her you just take her up on the offer 😂
@@tipoftheiceberg7034 he’s not trying to wife her
She is a disgusting human not only cheating on her husband but the whole watting to divorce him till after he gets his bonus so she can take more money in the divorce is crazy. Your helping a woman use a fellow man.
😂 😂 😂
Cute is OK Bill!
Especially if the girls wants to bite in your cute as*!
NOTHING wrong with cute!
(it's not I WOULD SLIT MY WRISTS, but it's still a BANG 🤙🏻)
😂 😂 😂
She likes what she is looking at, nothing wrong with that!
The other way around too!
A lot of girls I had were cute, and it was not a 🤯 "slit the wrist" thing, but it was great and the life went on!
"Amateur Actor" is the term.
Is this the “Ball and Chain” podcast ? When people write you they start by saying “Dear Bill.”
SMASH IT AND RUN!
100% smash
"Slightly unsafe city"
"Baltimore"
Jesus Christ
Uh, no.
It might be his last piece. You never know what tomorrow brings. Go for it bro. She’s supposedly divorcing him anyway.
what actor do u think they were talking abt?
I was thinking maybe the dude from the Elvis movie but that’s just a shot in the dark
@@chriswrangler5680 yep Stringer Bell is played Idris Elba
@@chriswrangler5680 pretty sure he’s asking about the actor in the last story lol
Bruh they literally said the name idris Elba 😂
Looks like someone has a attention problem thereeee
Ansel Elgort
Ansel Elgort
I’m 245 with a 36 waist. The bulk of my mass is just above the belt line.
Lol yea as one from Baltimore I can attest it’s shit.
Fat shaming does work!
I'd say do it. 100%. Especially since he's leaving.
Regarding fat-shaming: Yeah you shouldn't be cruel and going out of your way to make people feel bad about their appearance. But when you go see Top Gun and see these fit people looking great and doing athletic things, if that makes you feel threatened and insecure about your level of fitness, then own up to that. That's your problem, not society's "standards". That's the line that I think people are trying to hold firm on (like when Demi Lavato tried to shame that ice cream store).
Peep game ... You better accept ANY compliment you can get at your age, man ...
FAT SHAMING WORKS
lmao
wtf Bill used to weigh 117kg?
Actor guy was talking about Miles Teller huh?
Ansel Elgort
Who’s the actor?
Ansel elgort
Wating to divorce the guy till after he gets his next bonus. Holly shit weman are evil
*this woman is
Ftfy
anyone figured out what movie or what actor theyre talking about?
It's Ansel Elgort. You can just about hear Nia say it before Bill cuts her off.
I don't know when this podcast is from, but I'm guessing the movie in question is Baby Driver. That sounds about right. That was when he started becoming more of a household name (enough for Nia to know about him); his previous films were mostly for teen audiences. I imagine his Instagram following would've jumped up to 1.2 million after that movie.
The actor is Michael landes
Nope
@@ParisMauriceB who?
I'm 210 and wear a 36 in pants and a xxl in shirts
Haven't actually watched the video yet but my reaction to the title is this...;
Ask OJ
What movie are they talking about?
I think it's Baby Driver. You can hear Nia say, "Ansel El...," right before Bill cuts her off. He's talking about Ansel Elgort. It checks out. I did a quick Google search, and his dad is a photographer and he went to that LaGuardia school.
Who is the actor
He might be really tall
Stringer Bell. 2:50
hahaha
I say go for it. Just make sure to use protection or you'll be the one on the hook for your next bonus. Their marriage is over. She's already been down to the clerk's office, got her paperwork. You're not ruining anything. It's not even about him. Its just NSA sex at this point. If you had met her and she were single, would you do it? If so, go for it. If not, pass.
If she's married to a hedge fund manager she's not looking to trap a guy with a baby especially if she has her own money.
@@watching99134 I'm not saying she's looking to trap him. I'm saying if she happened to get pregnant, she likely wouldn't hesitate to take him for child support because it's his responsibility.
who's the lady complimenting bill "cute"?
I think the real important question is if that chick is hot or....not? If she is then do it. Your moving anyway
who's the cute lady from the thumbnail
I also say do it
RUN!!!!! ..this woman sounds sketch to me
06:35 yep Nia summed it up, she is clearly rinsing her current guy...avoid Ladies such as this
As someone who lives in MD, bmore is a S*** hole lol
How why does this vid have a pic of this chick rather than his beautiful and funny wife? Curious minds want to know.
And my response if I was jerk no I would bite them wow man way to make the conversation gay bro
I'm 225 and where a 36 in pants
Nia's laugh is weird. Still love ya billbag!
Explain to the folks at home how you’re dressed
3:10
Always a bummer when I click a Bill Burr clip, realize Nia is on it and have to move on. Oh well.
Why?
ps the wife is a Iowa 7 so eh.
How does he know those messages aren't from the husband, trying to lure him into a trap?
Extremely unlikely. He doesn't seem to have the temperament.
You're overthinking it.
He did not even mention his height, you nerd. He might be just a normal man height, like me... Around 6'3" or 6'4"?
Then that makes it right about right for that height and that weight without being crazy jacked.
Some people grow to full adult size.
Christ did some short dude steal your girl?
@@billycostigan1247 lol, no I was just,razzin him.
Good return, btw
@@i.am.not.herbert hahahahaha why thank you
Jesus Christ, Bill's podcast has raised a generation of Bill Burrs in the comments section, we all have his humour now and talk the shit he talks
@@a.m11558 AND/OR! ....we were a category of asshole that a substantial population of already existed, and continues to, and he just ended up as a vocal representative of us.
Nia wrecks my gead
These podcasts are much better without her
Damn after she said that shit about taking her man for all he is worth. Don’t touch that woman or you will be next.
How if she knows you're leaving? She going to copy your cc number from your wallet while your pants are on the floor?
As a male, I like to look cute and say that my outfits are cute lol. I color coordinate my gym clothes. I don’t really understand why you wouldn’t? Like, you want to look messy?
being called cute is usually by a girl who wants to be friends
Pretty sus
I want you to know that I support your alternative lifestyle. You should be able to be your fabulous self without discrimination!
Slay queen
#mostofbalftimore lmao we wish
Can someone please explain to mia that "cute" to a man means "ugly but fuckable "