Preschool teacher who works with neurodivergent, special needs, and neurotypical kiddos all together here! Just wanted to say that neurodivergence is often simplified to a "condition" rather than being a way that people experience the world. You guys are Avery's parents and know her experience better than anyone else, and it warms my heart to see that you are already advocating for her and learning what her perspective on the world looks like. Oftentimes, I see adults becoming frustrated with toddlers (especially neurodivergent toddlers) because of how their behavior is affecting them, but it seems like you are developing an understanding of your child solely based on care and empathy. With that being said, I truly hope you guys are able to invest time and care into yourselves too. I know all too well how exhausting it is spending the day with very young children, and it's important that adults don't get overestimated too, as these factors will also impact your interactions with your children. I don't usually comment, but I'm so enamored with your family and wishing you four all the best! 🧡
I'm an autistic young adult (add generalized anxiety disorder and ocd to the mix) and I used to say I was a firecracker toddler and child. My mom says I was constantly screaming, kicking, punching walls and things like that. I felt angry, upset and overstimulated all the time but as a child you don't have all the tools to say how you are feeling yet. My mom took me to child psychologist and she only said "oh, according to the tests he's gifted so everything else must be typical child behavior". Now that I'm diagnosed we can confidently say that in fact it wasn't typical child behavior, it was my autistic ass trying to cope with the world without knowing that it wasn't (and still isn't) made for me. Having such an early inkling will definitely help Avery because even if you don't know the exact condition/disorder/whatever, it will most likely prevent future years-long meltdowns. I got diagnosed because I had a three year long meltdown and I thought it was depression.
We have an 18 month old son, who is young enough that we don't quite know yet how he will experience the world but getting glimpses of his little personality, things that cause him stress, where he finds joy. These types of chats with you both give me hope that we can be good parents to whomever our child ends up being, and you are seriously role models for advocating for and providing a safe, loving environment for your child - especially as a 'non-traditional' family like ours. Thank you for sharing your story, from starting your journey to parenthood to these stages of toddlerhood with two littles. You're one of my favorite channels to watch on here and I really appreciate all you do for this community by being open to sharing.
I really love when UA-camrs are real. Just sharing what’s actually going on in their lives. I understand somethings should be kept to yourselves but it’s just so refreshing for me personally. I love seeing y’all’s stuff on Instagram but, let’s be real , everything people post on Instagram looks perfect. It’s refreshing to see that other parents have a their own struggles and helps others including myself feel less alone. I FELT the whole making it to the end of the day feels like an accomplishment 😅 I truly hope y’all are guided well to navigate the tough situations and hope y’all have support to have a little date night now and then ❤ y’all are great parents and you can totally tell how much y’all love each other and your children ❤
It’s so important and ultimately helpful in both directions to share your parenting struggles in your videos. We are glad that stopped by to update us. We can learn from each other. Be good to yourselves. ❤
Hi Guys, Avery sounds a lot like me when i was a child. For me (to this day) beeing outside in nature is always calming me, when I was little I could entertain myself for hours with stuff I found in the garden. Also I find that sounds in general are a lot for me (from a noisy environment to classical music) I just do better in silence. And since I learned to organize my surroundings (everything I own has a place) and got more minimalistic, my mind got a lot calmer. To many choices frustrate me and that starts with choosing an outfit in the morning. You will find ways that will work for Avery, until then I send you all the strength. You are doing your best! ❤
Thanks for sharing:-) my son is autistic and I can def relate to all of this and being excited to make it through the day. My son has a PDA profile of autism and would get upset when he was given the thing he wanted as well. With the proper diagnosis comes the proper way to help your child so it’s important. Spreading awareness is important as well since most of our lives happen behind closed doors and people don’t realize they need to reach out to see if you need a break etc. like take the kids overnight or babysit while you shower. Not just to say “take care of yourselves” it’s not enough. Love you guys you’re awesome :-) and things do get easier and better for her and for you :-).
My brother and I are both neurodivergent, diagnosed at 17 and 23, you’re doing great for acknowledging it soon and learning about it! It will help avoid some uncomfortable situations growing up 🥰
I know this won’t ease the everyday stress, but you guys are doing everything right when it comes to Avery. First and foremost, you are advocating for her. That step alone is huge. When I was younger my parents were really hesitant to accept my diagnoses because they felt like it meant that they had failed or that people were trying to say that I was less than. Eventually they came to see that accepting the diagnoses only allowed me to get better help and eventually overcome many obstacles and thrive. You are clearly fighting everyday for Avery and her quality of life. You are taking her to specialists and trying out different services--doing as much as you can to help her. At the end of the day, that's all that you can do. If anything, I think having some of your experiences captured in your vlogs is great because you can always look back and see just how hard you have worked to fight for her. There is no question that you two are amazing parents who are doing everything you can for both of your children. Just remember that it's okay to not always be okay. Take little breaks for yourselves when you can. And know that you have many people cheering for you all and rooting for you from afar!
It's been awhile since I've commented. My brother is neurodivergent & we struggled the first year we got custody of him- screaming, kicking, hitting, punching. He has sensory processing disorder. Everything overstimulared him. Shopping can still be a struggle but he has so many resources now- sensory sack, weighted blankets, fidget/sensory toys. I know there are days it's so difficult & feels like you're the only one but we're all in this together ❤️
Thank you for doing this, really hope you're guys are getting the support you need! Please don't forget about yourself, you need to really feel like yourselves, for you and for the babies too. You are Always your first priority! Love you all!! ❤️
So excited for your next chapter in your new home 💞 Lots of love and family support and the salt life too!! Best wishes for a smooth hassle free transition for you all! A little PT for Wilder sounds like a wonderful supportive idea! I believe it will be very helpful! You two are such loving caring Mom's, it shows that you truly enjoy each other and your children ❤
Thinking of y’all and praying for y’all as you continue to navigate parenting Avery and Wilder. I can imagine your days are difficult and feel forever long. The toddler years are already so stressful and with neurodivergence I can only imagine the added stress you both feel to keep Avery feeling safe and loved. Overstimulation is ROUGH! It’s hard to navigate, but it’s refreshing to hear that you’re not alone. There’s other out there going through the exact same thing. Sending love to you and yours ❤
I feel for what you are going thru. My son was born with fragile factor x. The hardest part is explaining it everyday. Hang in there you are both amazing moms and you have this. Just know it doesn't rain everyday and the 🌈 are beautiful when they come.
My son is 10 and also neurodivergent. He is very intelligent, but has problems concentrating longer in school or organizing himself independently. I have seen many professionals, but no one can give an accurate diagnosis. He is just the way he is. He is a great boy, we love him and hope that despite the difficulties he can successfully complete his school career. I wish you all the best with Avery. I know how frustrating it is when you get little clear diagnosis to work with and how much you are looking for people who are in the same boat. Stay strong and help her find her way always telling her she is good the way she is, eventually she will be an adult and you will wonder how the time went by so fast. All love from Austria (Central Europe)
It's hard to navigate parenting an ND child, as an autistic adult I prefer the term (autistic) meltdowns over tantrums. I think it's because the word tantrums is associated with toddlers being toddlers. I highly recommend getting her earmuffs or noise cancelling headphones. As she gets older it will be easier to teach her coping mechanisms and she will learn to recognise and communicate what is causing the sensory overload. You're going to feel a lot of guilt but you're raising her with love and kindness and that makes a huge difference
Mommy and Avery day was so awesome. And it looked like both of you had a BLAST at the new play center. I wish I had something that nice to play on like that when I was younger. The love between Wilder and Avery is super cute; it was so nice when she sang to him when he was on the jumper. If possible, you'll have to try to catch a video withe Wilder and Moose. I don't know anything about the issues you're having with Avery, so I'll refrain from commenting other that to say I hope things get better for you all. You're such a nice family and I REALLY enjoy your videos. Bernie ❤
I was the same when I was a baby, I used to scream and get very overstimulated (I believe it was sensory). At the time neurodivergence wasn't as recognized so my mum had no idea what was going on and all doctors told her was the same "shes just a toddler shes going to throw tantrums" but my tantrums as a baby weren't normal, I never wanted a toy or anything, I would just randomly start screaming and crying for hours on end
Mom of 5 here, my preteen was recently diagnosed with ADHD. The mom guilt is so real, everything you guys said you are feeling is exactly what I'm going through now too. You are not alone on this journey to help our children have bright positive futures. Thank you for sharing. I love you guys and your courage. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
As someone who is neurodivergent (autistic & ADHD), and also as someone with 2 years of college education in early childhood education, I can tell you that there is a difference between tantrums and meltdowns. Tantrums are willful. The child knows what they are doing, it's often to gain attention or to get something they want. Meltdowns however, the child has no control over. They can be from overstimulation, understimulation, being tired, being hungry etc. (or a combination of any of the above). The biggest thing to note is that a child having a meltdown is not "being bad". They just don't know how to regulate their emotions.
You guys are doing amazing, I do feel for u both, parenting is very very hard, don’t be too hard on yourselves, sending lots of love to you all x 17:29
Gosh Sam and Alyssa you are wonderful Mothers and an amazing couple.. I have been following your channel from the very beginning. I have followed your journey and watched you grow and develop into wonderful, kind and caring human Beings and Mothers. Sending you love and best Wishes and positive vibes from the Land of Oz .. (Australia) 🇦🇺🦘🦘
As a neurodivergent adult who was once a neurodivergent child, you two are doing just what you should be doing. Trying your best to help her and getting professional help - early intervention is great for a wide range of neurodivergent conditions and I wish my parents had caught on sooner and done what you guys are doing when I was Avery’s age. She will thank you when she’s older, but it is hard and it’s okay that you express that it’s hard❤️
Your awesome i love your family two adorable kids and two awesome parents love you sam and alyssa you and love your family you atr probably an awesome cook alyssa awesome video
You are both doing the best you can, just showing you acknowledge what's going on with your children IS good parenting. You guys are and have been my inspiration for a looooonnnngggg time. Have a gf check.. married.. babies is all something i want with my current 4 year gf. Dont ever stop posting even if its little bits!!!!
You two are heroes! You know what is best for your kids despite of opinionated people. Stick with your gut and heart intentions ❤ Also I couldn’t help but notice Alyssa wearing a #OTH sweatshirt. Love that show! 👍
I have so many questions about the move too! Any chance for a q&a if it's easier to film? I remember you guys building this house as your dream house, and being able to be by sam's sister. Are you moving to Wilmington to be with your mom?
My daughter reminds me so much of Avery. She is six now for years I struggled to know what she had. With no answers she also had colic as a baby I finally received answers for what she had. She just has severe ADHD, which causes meltdowns and mood swings and high energy for long time . I always thought she had autism or something like that but nope, just ADHD it’s just rare for girls is what they told me.❤ you will get answers soon. Avery is an amazing kid.💞
Has Avery been in a sensory room before? Do you have a quiet space for her where she can calm down when she is overstimulated? Fish tanks can have a soothing, calming effect .
If only half the parents out there did half of what you do for your kids the world would be better. You are doing everything you can you beautiful ladies! Love you, be strong! Haters will hate regardless of anything and they know shit
My best friend's grandson is Avery's age and is going though the same thing. I have a 2 nephews, one 9, one 18, on the sprctrum. Older one misdiagnosed for years, hated school because of being bullied. When he and his family moved to Ohio, he was properly diagnosed and went from failing school to honor roll. My 9 yr old nephew is super smart, but social settings can set him off. Before COVID he was dong ok in school, he is doing online learning now because of social anxiety brought on by months of being at home during lockdown. I have a biological nephew who is 11 who is on the sprectrum but he has learning difficulties along with social ones. The reason I am telling you all this is that spectrum is so wide...With just the tiny bits you share with us, Avery seems so smart. She is very verbal. I understand this makes things difficult for your family. I have watched my family go through similar things. The more you learn about it, and the more people you talk to who are in the same situation, from my experience, it really helps. My 9 year old nephew has weighted vests that help him when he has a meltdown. He actually will put it on when he feels a meltdown start. My daughter's best friend works as a school system in OH helping getting kids diagnosed and developing programs for them. Reach out to support groups and other places that can provide help for your entire family. I wish you the best!
Raising children who are opposite from each other must be difficult for any parent. You can never compare them. Each child will have their own personality and character. You can only do the best you can and teach them at their own ability. Hang in there.
Urgh I don't want to sound like an annoying person giving you advice but have you looked into doing a gut microbiome test for gut health and a mineral/vitamin analysis? There is such a big connection between the brain and gut health. This route could make a big difference to her behavior if you can find an imbalance and correct it. There are sooo many good resources in the US for this (I don't live in the US but wish I did). Sending love ❤️
7 day a week screaming 14 hours a day…. Wow. As a single parent of a daughter. Who was a pretty easy baby and slept rly well I was still drained… I cannot even fathom what y’all went thru!!!! I don’t think I could have survived that….
You are doing great I have two neuro divergent girls they are 22 and 20 my youngest is autistic anxiety mood disorder depression PTSD and dermatillomania and my oldest is severely ADHD anxiety depression PTSD and trichotillomania I was a single mom until my oldest was a sophomore the best thing I did for both of them was Montessori school. My youngest also has mirroring hands and feet. Reach out a time if you have questions
Hi ladies i totally get it with Avery’s neurodivergent thing. I was just like her when i was young as i am considered a neurodivergent person also idk what will happen to her as she grows up all i know is for me the hyperstymulus never went away.
Preschool teacher who works with neurodivergent, special needs, and neurotypical kiddos all together here! Just wanted to say that neurodivergence is often simplified to a "condition" rather than being a way that people experience the world. You guys are Avery's parents and know her experience better than anyone else, and it warms my heart to see that you are already advocating for her and learning what her perspective on the world looks like. Oftentimes, I see adults becoming frustrated with toddlers (especially neurodivergent toddlers) because of how their behavior is affecting them, but it seems like you are developing an understanding of your child solely based on care and empathy. With that being said, I truly hope you guys are able to invest time and care into yourselves too. I know all too well how exhausting it is spending the day with very young children, and it's important that adults don't get overestimated too, as these factors will also impact your interactions with your children. I don't usually comment, but I'm so enamored with your family and wishing you four all the best! 🧡
I'm an autistic young adult (add generalized anxiety disorder and ocd to the mix) and I used to say I was a firecracker toddler and child. My mom says I was constantly screaming, kicking, punching walls and things like that. I felt angry, upset and overstimulated all the time but as a child you don't have all the tools to say how you are feeling yet. My mom took me to child psychologist and she only said "oh, according to the tests he's gifted so everything else must be typical child behavior". Now that I'm diagnosed we can confidently say that in fact it wasn't typical child behavior, it was my autistic ass trying to cope with the world without knowing that it wasn't (and still isn't) made for me. Having such an early inkling will definitely help Avery because even if you don't know the exact condition/disorder/whatever, it will most likely prevent future years-long meltdowns. I got diagnosed because I had a three year long meltdown and I thought it was depression.
We have an 18 month old son, who is young enough that we don't quite know yet how he will experience the world but getting glimpses of his little personality, things that cause him stress, where he finds joy. These types of chats with you both give me hope that we can be good parents to whomever our child ends up being, and you are seriously role models for advocating for and providing a safe, loving environment for your child - especially as a 'non-traditional' family like ours. Thank you for sharing your story, from starting your journey to parenthood to these stages of toddlerhood with two littles. You're one of my favorite channels to watch on here and I really appreciate all you do for this community by being open to sharing.
I really love when UA-camrs are real. Just sharing what’s actually going on in their lives. I understand somethings should be kept to yourselves but it’s just so refreshing for me personally. I love seeing y’all’s stuff on Instagram but, let’s be real , everything people post on Instagram looks perfect. It’s refreshing to see that other parents have a their own struggles and helps others including myself feel less alone. I FELT the whole making it to the end of the day feels like an accomplishment 😅 I truly hope y’all are guided well to navigate the tough situations and hope y’all have support to have a little date night now and then ❤ y’all are great parents and you can totally tell how much y’all love each other and your children ❤
It’s so important and ultimately helpful in both directions to share your parenting struggles in your videos. We are glad that stopped by to update us. We can learn from each other. Be good to yourselves. ❤
Wow they do look so similar! ❤
Hi Guys, Avery sounds a lot like me when i was a child. For me (to this day) beeing outside in nature is always calming me, when I was little I could entertain myself for hours with stuff I found in the garden. Also I find that sounds in general are a lot for me (from a noisy environment to classical music) I just do better in silence. And since I learned to organize my surroundings (everything I own has a place) and got more minimalistic, my mind got a lot calmer. To many choices frustrate me and that starts with choosing an outfit in the morning.
You will find ways that will work for Avery, until then I send you all the strength. You are doing your best! ❤
I felt like I was genuinely sitting down having a real chat with you guys, I’m glad you opened up more ❤
Thanks for sharing:-) my son is autistic and I can def relate to all of this and being excited to make it through the day. My son has a PDA profile of autism and would get upset when he was given the thing he wanted as well. With the proper diagnosis comes the proper way to help your child so it’s important. Spreading awareness is important as well since most of our lives happen behind closed doors and people don’t realize they need to reach out to see if you need a break etc. like take the kids overnight or babysit while you shower. Not just to say “take care of yourselves” it’s not enough. Love you guys you’re awesome :-) and things do get easier and better for her and for you :-).
Just sending lots of love and good vibes. Making it to the end of the day is a total victory! Thanks for sharing your family with us.
My brother and I are both neurodivergent, diagnosed at 17 and 23, you’re doing great for acknowledging it soon and learning about it! It will help avoid some uncomfortable situations growing up 🥰
I know this won’t ease the everyday stress, but you guys are doing everything right when it comes to Avery. First and foremost, you are advocating for her. That step alone is huge. When I was younger my parents were really hesitant to accept my diagnoses because they felt like it meant that they had failed or that people were trying to say that I was less than. Eventually they came to see that accepting the diagnoses only allowed me to get better help and eventually overcome many obstacles and thrive. You are clearly fighting everyday for Avery and her quality of life. You are taking her to specialists and trying out different services--doing as much as you can to help her. At the end of the day, that's all that you can do. If anything, I think having some of your experiences captured in your vlogs is great because you can always look back and see just how hard you have worked to fight for her. There is no question that you two are amazing parents who are doing everything you can for both of your children. Just remember that it's okay to not always be okay. Take little breaks for yourselves when you can. And know that you have many people cheering for you all and rooting for you from afar!
It's been awhile since I've commented. My brother is neurodivergent & we struggled the first year we got custody of him- screaming, kicking, hitting, punching. He has sensory processing disorder. Everything overstimulared him. Shopping can still be a struggle but he has so many resources now- sensory sack, weighted blankets, fidget/sensory toys. I know there are days it's so difficult & feels like you're the only one but we're all in this together ❤️
it should be medicine it's a case of ADHD
thank you for keep on making videos! sending you love & virtual hugs!!
Oooh welcome back missing you and that song
Thank you guys so much for sharing! Sending lots of love!
Your both trying your best with the children you were blessed with 💕
Thank you for doing this, really hope you're guys are getting the support you need! Please don't forget about yourself, you need to really feel like yourselves, for you and for the babies too.
You are Always your first priority!
Love you all!! ❤️
So excited for your next chapter in your new home 💞 Lots of love and family support and the salt life too!! Best wishes for a smooth hassle free transition for you all! A little PT for Wilder sounds like a wonderful supportive idea! I believe it will be very helpful! You two are such loving caring Mom's, it shows that you truly enjoy each other and your children ❤
Thinking of y’all and praying for y’all as you continue to navigate parenting Avery and Wilder. I can imagine your days are difficult and feel forever long. The toddler years are already so stressful and with neurodivergence I can only imagine the added stress you both feel to keep Avery feeling safe and loved. Overstimulation is ROUGH! It’s hard to navigate, but it’s refreshing to hear that you’re not alone. There’s other out there going through the exact same thing. Sending love to you and yours ❤
You guys sweeties parents for them.. you can see the love you all have for one another .💙🫂💙
You guys are such amazing parents! I wish my parents were a fraction of you two are !
I feel for what you are going thru. My son was born with fragile factor x. The hardest part is explaining it everyday. Hang in there you are both amazing moms and you have this. Just know it doesn't rain everyday and the 🌈 are beautiful when they come.
your son may be having anxiety attacks like me , it can be controlled with medication
Don’t feel guilty or sad ladies. You’re doing the best you can with the information you have. You got this💜💜
Your doing a fantastic job xx
My son is 10 and also neurodivergent. He is very intelligent, but has problems concentrating longer in school or organizing himself independently. I have seen many professionals, but no one can give an accurate diagnosis. He is just the way he is. He is a great boy, we love him and hope that despite the difficulties he can successfully complete his school career.
I wish you all the best with Avery. I know how frustrating it is when you get little clear diagnosis to work with and how much you are looking for people who are in the same boat. Stay strong and help her find her way always telling her she is good the way she is, eventually she will be an adult and you will wonder how the time went by so fast.
All love from Austria (Central Europe)
It's hard to navigate parenting an ND child, as an autistic adult I prefer the term (autistic) meltdowns over tantrums. I think it's because the word tantrums is associated with toddlers being toddlers.
I highly recommend getting her earmuffs or noise cancelling headphones.
As she gets older it will be easier to teach her coping mechanisms and she will learn to recognise and communicate what is causing the sensory overload.
You're going to feel a lot of guilt but you're raising her with love and kindness and that makes a huge difference
Mommy and Avery day was so awesome. And it looked like both of you had a BLAST at the new play center. I wish I had something that nice to play on like that when I was younger. The love between Wilder and Avery is super cute; it was so nice when she sang to him when he was on the jumper. If possible, you'll have to try to catch a video withe Wilder and Moose. I don't know anything about the issues you're having with Avery, so I'll refrain from commenting other that to say I hope things get better for you all. You're such a nice family and I REALLY enjoy your videos. Bernie ❤
love you guys! ❤ you have the cutest kids! keep doing you!!
I was the same when I was a baby, I used to scream and get very overstimulated (I believe it was sensory). At the time neurodivergence wasn't as recognized so my mum had no idea what was going on and all doctors told her was the same "shes just a toddler shes going to throw tantrums" but my tantrums as a baby weren't normal, I never wanted a toy or anything, I would just randomly start screaming and crying for hours on end
Miss you guys beautiful family 🫶💙🥰❤️🌈🙏
Mom of 5 here, my preteen was recently diagnosed with ADHD. The mom guilt is so real, everything you guys said you are feeling is exactly what I'm going through now too. You are not alone on this journey to help our children have bright positive futures. Thank you for sharing. I love you guys and your courage. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
it's great who was diagnosed early in his life me he was 30 years old
As someone who is neurodivergent (autistic & ADHD), and also as someone with 2 years of college education in early childhood education, I can tell you that there is a difference between tantrums and meltdowns. Tantrums are willful. The child knows what they are doing, it's often to gain attention or to get something they want. Meltdowns however, the child has no control over. They can be from overstimulation, understimulation, being tired, being hungry etc. (or a combination of any of the above). The biggest thing to note is that a child having a meltdown is not "being bad". They just don't know how to regulate their emotions.
You guys are awesome parents ❤
You guys are doing amazing, I do feel for u both, parenting is very very hard, don’t be too hard on yourselves, sending lots of love to you all x 17:29
You both are doing great don't listen to others when it comes to your kids
@SamandAlyssa. I don't know if it was ment for me but here I am
No pressure S & A, you both have plenty on your plate. We love you Wierdo's. Tc
Gosh Sam and Alyssa you are wonderful Mothers and an amazing couple..
I have been following your channel from the very beginning. I have followed your journey and watched you grow and develop into wonderful, kind and caring human Beings and Mothers.
Sending you love and best Wishes and positive vibes from the Land of Oz .. (Australia) 🇦🇺🦘🦘
As a neurodivergent adult who was once a neurodivergent child, you two are doing just what you should be doing. Trying your best to help her and getting professional help - early intervention is great for a wide range of neurodivergent conditions and I wish my parents had caught on sooner and done what you guys are doing when I was Avery’s age.
She will thank you when she’s older, but it is hard and it’s okay that you express that it’s hard❤️
Your awesome i love your family two adorable kids and two awesome parents love you sam and alyssa you and love your family you atr probably an awesome cook alyssa awesome video
I get it. Take your time. Will be here when you are ready🤗
You are both doing the best you can, just showing you acknowledge what's going on with your children IS good parenting. You guys are and have been my inspiration for a looooonnnngggg time. Have a gf check.. married.. babies is all something i want with my current 4 year gf. Dont ever stop posting even if its little bits!!!!
You two are heroes! You know what is best for your kids despite of opinionated people. Stick with your gut and heart intentions ❤
Also I couldn’t help but notice Alyssa wearing a #OTH sweatshirt. Love that show! 👍
he is doing quite well with 2children they are great as parents Wilder and look like each other a lot when Avery was his adorable age 💞💞😿
Sam and Alyssa you are great moms and are doing great with Avery and Wilder Avery is such a kind hearted kid and Wilder will be as well
I have so many questions about the move too! Any chance for a q&a if it's easier to film? I remember you guys building this house as your dream house, and being able to be by sam's sister. Are you moving to Wilmington to be with your mom?
My daughter reminds me so much of Avery. She is six now for years I struggled to know what she had. With no answers she also had colic as a baby I finally received answers for what she had. She just has severe ADHD, which causes meltdowns and mood swings and high energy for long time . I always thought she had autism or something like that but nope, just ADHD it’s just rare for girls is what they told me.❤ you will get answers soon. Avery is an amazing kid.💞
Much love!
She had such a good time!
hey guys! I was thinking, since Avery gets overstimulated does being a nature help? Like going on walks or short hikes?
totally random observation but is that Scott's Body Shop from One Tree Hill?
You’re not alone. I have a 4 year old son with autism level 3. This life is HARD. 💚💚
good parenthood
wow really super magnifique wonderful family 🌈🌈💗
Yup I have!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️
Has Avery been in a sensory room before? Do you have a quiet space for her where she can calm down when she is overstimulated? Fish tanks can have a soothing, calming effect .
You're great mums.
If only half the parents out there did half of what you do for your kids the world would be better. You are doing everything you can you beautiful ladies! Love you, be strong! Haters will hate regardless of anything and they know shit
I'm agree both you about life
😊 Coisa mais linda ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ felicidades.
I'm probably very much in the minority of your following who is also gluten free and vegan, so I very much appreciate the cooking and grocery vids!
Really miss your vlogs.
I have a matching keith scott body shop hoodie lol
My best friend's grandson is Avery's age and is going though the same thing. I have a 2 nephews, one 9, one 18, on the sprctrum. Older one misdiagnosed for years, hated school because of being bullied. When he and his family moved to Ohio, he was properly diagnosed and went from failing school to honor roll. My 9 yr old nephew is super smart, but social settings can set him off. Before COVID he was dong ok in school, he is doing online learning now because of social anxiety brought on by months of being at home during lockdown. I have a biological nephew who is 11 who is on the sprectrum but he has learning difficulties along with social ones. The reason I am telling you all this is that spectrum is so wide...With just the tiny bits you share with us, Avery seems so smart. She is very verbal. I understand this makes things difficult for your family. I have watched my family go through similar things. The more you learn about it, and the more people you talk to who are in the same situation, from my experience, it really helps. My 9 year old nephew has weighted vests that help him when he has a meltdown. He actually will put it on when he feels a meltdown start. My daughter's best friend works as a school system in OH helping getting kids diagnosed and developing programs for them. Reach out to support groups and other places that can provide help for your entire family. I wish you the best!
As someone who knows nothing about vegan food, isn't yogurt dairy? Or did you have non-dairy yogurt?
That was a non dairy vegan yogurt :)
i hope wilder is doing better and getting bigger
don't worry with super parents like them anymore Wilder recovered pretty quickly 💓
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Raising children who are opposite from each other must be difficult for any parent. You can never compare them. Each child will have their own personality and character. You can only do the best you can and teach them at their own ability. Hang in there.
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Love you guys hope things are going well and hope you any more video log soon so see you soon ok love martin Joseph harry
Urgh I don't want to sound like an annoying person giving you advice but have you looked into doing a gut microbiome test for gut health and a mineral/vitamin analysis? There is such a big connection between the brain and gut health. This route could make a big difference to her behavior if you can find an imbalance and correct it.
There are sooo many good resources in the US for this (I don't live in the US but wish I did). Sending love ❤️
cute wider, look happier boy , avery is cute with her brother.
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He looks like you! There's no possible way there was a mix up! He's your twin to me. I think its the hair color but yeah
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7 day a week screaming 14 hours a day…. Wow. As a single parent of a daughter. Who was a pretty easy baby and slept rly well I was still drained… I cannot even fathom what y’all went thru!!!! I don’t think I could have survived that….
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Definitely sound like she can use some occupational therapy!!! My son is the exact same OT works wonders
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You are doing great I have two neuro divergent girls they are 22 and 20 my youngest is autistic anxiety mood disorder depression PTSD and dermatillomania and my oldest is severely ADHD anxiety depression PTSD and trichotillomania I was a single mom until my oldest was a sophomore the best thing I did for both of them was Montessori school. My youngest also has mirroring hands and feet. Reach out a time if you have questions
yes me too I have been seeing a psychiatrist for several years and medicated too
Hi ladies i totally get it with Avery’s neurodivergent thing. I was just like her when i was young as i am considered a neurodivergent person also idk what will happen to her as she grows up all i know is for me the hyperstymulus never went away.
Physioteherapy is strongly against those jumpers and as a medical professional I trust other medical professionals.
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Have you heard of misophonia? I have that and this sounds familiar to me
Wilder looks like you Alyssa yes he looks like Avery but he also looks like you Alyssa
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I'm sorry..... but I'll say if any parents can handle this it's u two. Hopefully there's therapy that will help her be more comfy in her own skin
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