Same, but as a man it gets a bit more intense. The amount of physical confrontations I get into with explorers. I try talking to them and they just want to dominate socially. That turns hostile quickly
Need some more info here. I've just started (potentially) dating an ENTJ (type A) and I'm an ENTJ (type T) here. Any clues on what's going to happen or what I might expect?
I am an ENTJ woman and in fact we like the debate but we dont like to fight. We dont get emotional while debating....I might be loud and passionate about it but once the debate is over thats it. And we are not so cold hearted like that either, if I love someone I do love that person and not because I love that person it means that I have to be all over them all the time. Love is an action, infactuation is a feeling. I like your videos. You are funny.
This is actually pretty accurate. I was with a ENTJ girl for almost two months... before she dumped me for essentially being too emotional for her to handle. XD
I’m an ENTJ woman... and yes my husband put me in charge of his diet, fitness, and finances. He now engineers/mixes for four major record labels and does 5k charity runs regularly.
I'm an ENTJ female and no, I don't care HOW u get there, just get there ON time, IN BUDGET to MY STANDARDS. Oh and I've already figured out the most efficient way to get there, but because I love u I will allow u to be "creative" and independent for the sake of your ego.....and maybe if I'm in a generous mood I won't tell u afterwards I "told u so" ;) 😂 No seriously, I care most about results and am open to being proven wrong and am keen to learn a more efficient and effective path to achieving my ambitions. I'm judge on actions and results, so if you can prove it me then fine, I'll adapt my strategy.
An ENTP man will literally turn your life around. We live for efficiency and proving ppl wrong through debate but you’ll probably not debate so we will turn it into action lol
Dude your type sounds super productive and great for CEOing, and also thanks for reassuring me that I should never attempt to date an ENTP. I'm ENFJ. I'm often not on-time, very creative, and I just finished a book literally titled How to Do Nothing about the dangers of efficiency 😂
@@Marianna-d7rI am one also, and same. They're very funny, witty, intelligent, usually emotionally intelligent, kind, honest, they stick to their values, devoted, affectionate because we're secretly squishy under our prickly thick shells of protection, to name just a few. The rest often depends on each individual infj as each one is unique.
Ok so I am an INFJ with an ENTJ wife. Literally every point you make is laughably accurate. However, because my ENTJ wife respects me she doesnt seek to dominate me wherever possible. But she also cant help it sometimes lol. So when she tries it, I just shut her down calmly and tell her "I'm not one of your staff members." Or I actually listen, and if its constructive I'll take her advice on board. I think the biggest issues would exist if you had an immature INFJ with an immature ENTJ. From my perspective as an INFJ who is always wanting to help others and gets emotionally weary easily, its nice to have a partner that never needs much help and can always view challenges dispassionately.
it's all true!! the most unnerving thing about ENTJs, using my boyfriend as an example, is their ability to basically read your mind, but somehow, not your feelings. so it's like he gets what i'm *thinking* , like creepily accurately, but my feelings are in a foreign language, so he simply doesn't pick up on them. it's the weirdest thing, 'cause of course, as in INFJ, other people's feelings are all i ever notice. overall, he's like a highly sophisticated humanoid robot, but the programmers got ahead of themselves and put it out there before mastering anything to do with human feelings. it's like his feelings are bug in the otherwise efficient system.
@@itsaishawhite i'm glad you had a breakthrough! MBTI makes it so much easier to understand people. i was so glad i had this information when he and i first started dating. i guessed his type, he took the test a couple times and always got ENTJ. with an ENTJ in particular, because they are so strange when it comes to human interaction, it really helps in dealing with them. like if you don't know them very well, it's easy to dismiss them, thinking are just a-holes. ;-)
retrogradepink It sounds like you’re approaching things from a healthy, mature place. I’m sure that helps make things successful. The more I’m learning about MBTI the more the world is making sense to me and even the way I interact with others. It’s nice.
Thats because our dominant function is extraverted thinking...acting much the same way dominant extraverted feeling would for an ENFJ or an ESFJ. The difference is we pick up and respond to the way other people think incredibly easily instead of emotion, and can become overwhelmed by it.
@@thomasbrown3793 yeah, i can imagine having other people's thoughts on your radar all the time would be very overwhelming! that's the interesting thing about the INFJ/ENTJ pairing. it's like they're so similar but at the same time absolute opposites.
I am an entj, and I have been called intimidating by countless men. It doesn’t help that I’m 6ft either. I just don’t understand it, I’m a very nice person. Sure, I’m incredibly independent and I don’t beat around the bush and I also come off “too strong” sometimes.... you know what. I’m not helping my case here.
My big sis is an ENTJ. She's super smart and very pretty... Beauty and brains for sure. I wanted to be just like her when I was a kid, but I really enjoy being and enfp. Anyway, a lot of this is true. She is usually in control of the conversations, but they're mostly good conversations. She can be intimidating at times, in fact, she was the one on who was always on top of my grades in school when I was growing up.. I dreaded it whenever she visited it, but at least it helped keep me on top of my work. She's a goal-getter and achieves everything she sets herself for. She is also good an channeling her "F". She'll be like Adele: a love so deep and intense. Definitely one of the most impressive people I know. but may I add: since she is so accomplished, her standards are rightfully high... as they should be. ;D
I wish my sis appreciated me like how you appreciate your sis but mine hates my controlling personality and hates it when i help her to make her grades better and i don't blame her because when we were younger she was always compared to me so she may hate me for that i love her so much but I'm not good at showing that
I am an INFJ and married to an ENTJ. Met online 10 years ago and married for 5. This is a personality type that I would definitely suggest. You can get into great conversations and debates with them. They aren't the touchy feely type person in my experience, but do provide so much more. If you're familiar of the love languages, they are more of the acts of service type (not sure if they are all this way but for mine it is). To me they are rock solid in both personal and professional life. I highly suggest an ENTJ.
I’m an ENTJ and had a beautiful, year long relationship with an INFJ. We had such a great connection as we both thought deeper, worked hard, appreciated independence and gave space to one another. Both our types are extremely picky and only shoot for the stars in partners, so when we got together we agreed part of it was because each other were definitely top tier individuals and suitable for our goals and for life together. We broke up after he went to college, but the love and friendship is definitely still present and we both want to see this to the end. An INFJ-ENTJ relationship can be a fantastic balance as long as there is maturity, understanding, and sacrifice from both partners!!
ENTJ female here. Lol if you're expecting no feelings In a relationship you're in for a surprise. If we're invested it can be a bit overwhelmingly ... lovey.. but eh we do eventually revert to business mode. Given, the awkward uncomfortable with feelings bit is true. We're also stalwart and loyal to those we care for. The walking out of a relationship without looking back bit. That usually happens when it's clear there is no good coming from Staying. Anywho. We look for an equal that can stand beside us. Thanks for the chuckles though.
I love roses, including the bravery and confidence to give them. but I would know the color meanings, so best they knew what they were doing, or I might get the wrong idea. Would try them to turn into rose bushes for the challenge. Or let them dry. Was recently given flowers from the florist by staff, in a boss lady coffee mug, with a very nice card. We also love hearing words like 'Best Boss Ever', because it reminds us that making a difference in the lives of employees. People are what motivates us to be great leaders. Most don't like their jobs or bosses. If I can make a difference and change that if only for my team, then I've made someone's life better. I won't give my secret to leadership, but I can promise ENTJ females have a secret recipe to create great teams. Because female ENTJ's are confident and non conformist, they come under ambush for not exhibiting expected female behavior that revolves around males. ENTJ is a rare leadership personality that can empower and inspire. That is not done by bully behavior. ENTJ females are genius strategists who use their powers for good.
@@dr.uselessYIIK You mean others don't have that luminous capacity? Responded to a post, that included the questionable liking of roses for a specific Myers Briggs psychological composition. Must be my ardent ENTJ personality. Cool.
Yes, actually it cracks me up, because when he first posted the girlfriend videos, I obviously liked how he said he always wanted an intimidating lady (INTJ or ENTJ), and now he got one!
I love this series! This was hilarious! I’m an ENTJ. I’m not gonna lie I have a hard time knowing what to do with peoples feelings. That’s not to say we don’t care about people’s feelings or that they’re not allowed. It’s just a learning curve...a steep learning curve...for us on how to deal them effectively for the best outcome for both parties. Honestly though a lot of ENTJs have a soft spot for those who have a feeling function high in their function stack
So my experience is they want a challenge and for you to compete with them for dominance rather than just easily dominating you though. You know. . . my experience from hearing about others’ friends’ experiences.
😂😂 the memes about ENTJs are hilarious. Why people find us intimidating is beyond me. We’re just running our own race, trying to take our loved ones along for the ride if we can. Would secretly love it if someone called me Daddy though. >_>. *Too shy.* *Would never ask.* Stop looking at me. O.O 😂
Frank : So this lady really wants you to go to this dot. Me : /Remembers World War II Research./ “Today on D-Day, we’re not just going to make a mark in history. We are going to make a mark in geography.”
Being an INFJ, I think an ENTJ girlfriend would turn me into a right little namby-pamby. "But honey, you know what I'm like... feelings, and poetry... and stuff." SMACK!! "Sorry, honey!!"
As an ENTJ women this was scary accurate. At least 85% of the things you said were spot on. It explains why I find romantic things cringy (dates, massages, etc) and how my go to solution to ending any sort of romantic relationship is ghosting. I usually stay away from romantic relationships because there are too many parts that I don't like about them, and I find tough conversations, where I or the other person feels emotionally vulnerable, close to impossible to have (I don't know what to say, how to act in the compassionate way that they may need, and sometimes I feel so out of control that I start laughing). I find this unfair to my partner. Also I find close relationships distracting from my goals and daily routines.
Being vulnerable with the right people is braveness, just don't give up, everybody struggle with something, just work on improving yourself, people who care will be patient and support you on your journey and close relationship aren't a distraction people can be great support and it is an amazing thing when two partners that have their one goals also have common goals as a couple, it SHOULDN'T be one or another! - after all, your goals must be for helping people and makeing something good for the humanity ( at least I really hope so) something must motivate you to want to work and I really hope that this thing are the people and the future!🌺
I am an INFJ and my husband is an ENTJ. Going strong almost 10 years! ENTJs are awesome because they will often defer to those with more expertise in order to grow, so my hubs asks me all the time to forecast relationships or how to be more compassionate/diplomatic. It's def a sub/dom type relationship, but I know that's what I need. I seriously don't know how to budget like what do you mean I can't spend my rent money on meditation pillows and a new juicer...
@@scarlett8123 my middle school teacher that was a ENTJ woman was called the general but was also very popular among students because she was great both as a person and teacher. For some rason she took me under her wing and had a sweet spot for me, she made sure to help me alot both academicaly and emotionaly because I was bullied back then and in a dark place. She and my family made sure I learned haw to stand up for miself against my bullies and protected me. I will always admire her! May her soul in rest in peace! For a young inexperienced INFP like I was back then her mentorship was a divine gift.
@@sunsun5290 try following through it is way faster and better for both parties because they have productive communication and both learn their lessons with suffering less consequences and building more trust!
I’m similar as an INTJ (or a very “soft” ENTJ) and find ISFP’s to be deeply fascinating, inspiring people, but a little hard to understand. I will constantly upset this ISFP friend of a friend and I’ll have NO idea what I’ve done to trigger her but she’s suddenly MAD and my idiot baby Fi starts panicking and it’s just... a mess.
ENTJs in anime: Erza Scarlett Natsu: She's Coming!! Gray: Oh man we're screwed! Lucy:Come on guys she can't be that bad... Beats up both male protagonists within first two minutes of screenplay... several times😂😂
This was hilarious and on-point (I have made a PP presentation and even a mini book to profess my love), but I don't like how ENTJ's are always made out to be emotionless. I have emotions and I expect others to have some too. Otherwise, that prob. means they're dead. My problem is when people can't openly discuss their feelings. They're not rational and they're emotional for the sake of being emotional. I always seek to understand what the problem is and when someone can't give me an answer, they're giving me nothing to work with. That's when I take my cue to exit. If you can't use your words and define your emotions then you probably need to spend some time alone until you can define them. I'm warm, affectionate and emotional, but I'm also going to hold you accountable, I will confront you with ease while maintaining my composure and making eye-contact, and I realize that's unsettling for a lot of people.
I think those unwanted "let me help you" are more ExFJ thing. People often falsely believe those types as angels but nope they are demon when unhealthy. "The world is the way it is" is more of SJ qualities. Damn, ENTJs are truly one of the black sheep in MBTI community. ENTJs are independent and hate being followers, not the same as being bossy. They are also the most awkward extrovert out there. They do not have Fe in their main stack nor they have Fi in the first 2 slot. Instead they got Te + Ni which get them in trouble most of the time in social settings when they are young and inexperienced. I also find them nerdy. Most ENTJs are truly mistyped.
@@Emilia-ti5lz same for me I used to wonder why I don't feel like others why I can't understand their feelings and when my BFF left me I didn't feel anything and I wondered if that was normal I really loved her and cared about her but our friendship was toxic but when I read about my type it says that we can move on relationships easily I still don't understand ppls feelings but I respect them I also thought I was an introvert u r not alone sis
I wouldn't say im an awkward extrovert. I am very confident but i have to build rapport with people and usually on an intellectual basis or shared interests
I am an ENTJ girl with an INFP girlfriend and it's the funniest thing because she always wants to talk about her feelings and stuff so that we can "have good communication". I still love her anyway ❤️
A good conversation about goals, dreams, ambitions, reasons behind emotions etc. ARE important! It is good that you cherish your partner no matter your differences!💖
ENTJ woman with a dramatically sensitive kid...don't know his type coz he is just 7 but I am really trying to be more emotionally aware. It is soooooo hard.
I looked up the infj girlfriend meme. "I don't how I feel but I know how you feel"...dead haha. Another I loved "everyone that's broke up with me is a narcissist."
I’m an INFJ and I want to say my dad was a ENTJ. We had a pretty complicated relationship. It was two different philosophies colliding with each other. However, if there was anything that me and my dad bonded over, it was the fact that we could have intellectual conversations. I could ask him questions about certain topics and we would have a conversation about it.
Wow you’re just like me… I’m also INFJ and my dad was probably ENTJ now that I think about it. We also had great intellectual convos even if we otherwise had a complicated relationship
I LOVE ENTJs and they are some of my best friends - I actually find I can discuss my feelings with them quite well. BUT they need people to be moving all of the time and DOING stuff. And I need to sit and meditate A LOT. They are high on growth like we are, but I need to delve into the depths of one idea, not tackle the entire horizon of possibility with a single subject. I choose one guru, like Frank James, for instance, and watch the hell out of him instead of going off fly by with all of the UA-cam personality types out there. Having said that, I think you mimicked that type pretty well. I mean, if you like dominance, and pirate hats, it could be a thing. (More John Wayne in that Dr. Phil, but you were pretty close).
@@nailaighil7485 My teacher is a fearless tyrant and an entj. I know 4 entj's and two of them have the tyrant archetype. I don't believe entj's are bad, just incompatible with infj's. Conflict arises between te and fe.
@@reemaalotaibi5405 Stress really? Are you sure you are an entj? haha just kidding! I think you guys can be alright but can go on harsh/inconsiderate mode sometimes and you take your frustrations out on other people. Another entj is one of the coolest guys I know but he has gone some through a lot of shit in his life. I guess an entj has to go through shit to become more sensitive just like myself to become less sensitive and have better boundaries.
@@reemaalotaibi5405 Correction, I don't think it's bad to be sensitive, after all we all have emotions and we should all respect each other's human nature and not overstep our boundaries.
Frank, You’re telling me Adele is somewhere arguing with her partner & being called Daddy? Guess that formula is what makes good music. Lol. There’s room for us all on the Resting B. Face spectrum. Trust me.
Infj, and I have an entj husband. Other than being extremely aware of where he will be in 5 years (So therefore I will be too), and a little micromanaging, and having a surgery scheduled to remove his phone from his hand and ear (just kidding, I would have scheduled that for him) he's a really beautiful soul. No bad intentions reside in this man, he truly is a wonderful person, just has a hard time with my feeling perspective. If you can learn to break issues down into logical conclusions, put information into very short pockets of time so you can be heard,and be a very independent person, ENTJ men can be great for us. But,you do need a higher Faith,because you will never feel completely heard or understood, but the reliability of them always coming home to you is real.
Haha you need to be direct and outspoken your opinion to your people if you are in debate. Sometimes is good for talk to other people about your opinion. But we are just do to make an effective way to solve a problem. I really don't care if you hurt or not for solve a problem. As an ENTJ you can learn for deal for people will critism you. You need to stand out what your talk, want to achieve or someting you want to reach. So far, I never meet an INFJ in my social friends cause my dominance always make type F run from me. From what I read, I admire with INFJ. You need to be yourself in positive way I think.
My sister literally just told me she was sad and I said “Then stop being sad, and you won’t be sad anymore” “That’s not how it works” “ *THEN MAKE IT WORK* “
I tested as an entj. I was like this test seems inefficient, can't be right because I'm an empath. Then I watched this video. Shit. Is it possible to be an entj then feel the pain of all the people you conquered? Talk about cursed...
Yeah im an entj and empath too. Its true. Its like im the predator and i can feel the victims pain as i bite into it lol terrible terrible very conflicting.
It is, indeed. I'm most certainly an ENTJ but you probably wouldn't realize it unless you happened to catch me under certain conditions. Most of the time, I try to reign in my more dominant side and take on a softer persona because the typical ENTJ traits have been to my detriment more often than not. There's nothing I hate more than feeling like a liability or a burden to others, but that's exactly what happens if I allow myself to be my blunt, straightforward, confrontational self. It causes unnecessary drama, poisons the social environment, and forces others to make allowances for behaviors that wouldn't be tolerated in anyone else. I refuse to let that happen. My worst fear is waking up one day and realizing I've become the supervillain everyone jokingly calls me. Heh.
@@maladjustedmaverick6619 same here. i want to tell people how to deal with their issues. But ive Learned ppl want sympathy, comfort And encouragement... then sometimes they're willing to hear my thoughts. That happened today. I just kept my mouth shut. Everything inside me wanted to March up to the problem and blow it away. But relationships don't work that way. Regardless us ENTJs make results. We just got to do it tip-toeing around people's feelings 🤣
Just had my yearly review, and the main criticism I had was that I’m a strong, bold personality that’s obviously very smart, and I come across as a bossy know-it-all. I thought “I fail to see how this is a bad thing.” My husband once told me that I’m the most terrifyingly competent person he’s ever met.
It isn't something bad! Good leaders are something amazing, the approach IS important but people often feel intimidated by competent competition, only the ones that aren't insecure about themselves will feel inspired and will choose to stay and they will definitely be in for a win! Take it as a complement, but don't forget to continue progressing improving!We always have what to work on!
You know, these videos are not only entertaining but are also informative for those who are not looking for a relationship. They give an excellent overview of what to expect from interactions or friendships from other types which I think allows for a better understanding which may help diffuse any possible conflict... That isn't worded well, but I think y'all should understand.
I am ENTJ and I would probably agree with him at all points, we are cocky,our EQ =0, and we only understand stuff when we rationalize.My favorite moment of the video that made me laugh is " let me show you presentation about my love" and the reason why it was so funny it's because I ve done similar stuff to my poor ex.boyfriends - I feel bad for them.I remember when in order to "improve" my relationships and conclude on where we stand in argument with my ex I made him Sat, take a pen and pencil and prepare presentation of pluses and minuses we have in relationships and I would do the same and then ultimately we would compare, finalize where stuff is wrong and try to agree to fix it or fall apart.My boyfriend was so lost but I guess feeling the fear of losing sex life he was sitting there trying his best 😂😂😂😂😂.Back than I was damn serious now I realize how hilarious that could look.
oh, that is too funny! the other day my ENTJ boyfriend asked to check in with me, to see how i am feeling. a few months ago we had a terrible fight in which i revealed i had all these feelings bottled up, and he was taken by surprise. so, he was checking in with my feelings, but the way he said it was basically like he was asking for a job performance review. like, is doing everything right? how can he improve? are there any things i would like to see done differently? it was so well meant, very kind, but the delivery, as always with him, is so clinical. :-)
retrogradepink when I visualise ENTJ feelings I see a toddler in a nappy/diaper by a fire sitting in a cave surrounded by darkness with a big unattended tear falling from his confused face. Any other ENTJs get me or am I alone on this??? Haha sorry I crack myself up
retrogradepink btw your boyfriend truly adores you. I feel his pain but we only analyse and “check in” when we truly care so be reassured that he is madly in love with you and probably terrified that he’s allowed himself to be so vulnerable with someone. Haha when an ENTJ falls its a long way back up to the top of that brick wall you’ve just knocked down. Be gentle with him he’s walking blindly where not a many ENTJs have gone before :)
@@SheenaHolly It can sometimes work, my hubs is close, ESTJ... the relationship has made me MUCH stronger and less sensitive. His lack of empathy sucks sometimes but for the most part the marriage is great and has made me grow as person, to become more balanced! ✌❤
Frank. Please go to 3:40. The perfect dating experience for ENTJ girl is when you involve in her project, if possible. If not, ask her to tell you about progress of her projects, her dreams or her goals. Trust me. She will be so much impressed. 6:45 please. Black and white! Brown is not bold enough.
My ENTJ ex was SO ENTJ, he broke up with me over the phone after 8 years together (engaged 4 of those years) when we'd only seen each other the day before. He did make a point many times that to him emotions were a sign of weakness to him though so, I guess he did the best he could. (He probably viewed me as weak, which just amplifies how I'm better off without.) He wasn't too concerned about how his cowardice would scar me for life as a result but hey, we INFJs are tough cookies. Lessons learned... Never ignore your gut if you think something's awry. Don't accept all the blame when a relationship fails, because it takes two to tango. Emotions are not a sign of weakness. They help us communicate. Some of us worse than others.
It depends on the ENTJ! I for one don't demand more than I demand for myself and don't demand only for my own good and I demand with politely most of the time!
@@dianadragomanova3377 Too easy, i've got google plus google hangouts instagram facebook discord telegram Kik line gmail me with my user name @gmail.com no space. yahoo i've even got a deviant art account if you want to chat there. Lady, i've got nothing but space and opportunity.
On behalf of ENTJs, let me just put it out there: "We're against having emotions, not against using them." Jk. ENTJs(not all) are actually very good at controlling their emotions, and even find objectivity in managing them. I'm okay with telling people I love them/they're doing a good job if that keeps them motivated. Efficiency is key. If you don't effectively manage your fEelinGs, they will get out of hand and you will miss out on your goals, make people unhappy=they will do a bad job= your goals won't be reached. Hehe.
Well said!👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 And usually (not every ENTJ) when we say things really mean them, they tend to be honest and direct, not being afraid to make an objective remark in order not to feel down! That is something which must be appreciated and usually is by strong individuals!
lol As an ENTJ, I must say, #HARDPASS on INFJ/ENTJ romantic pairings; it's best to just admire from afar, without closing the psychological distance. During my wayward (read: emotionally stunted) years, I kept a vintage bottle of triple distilled INFJ tears in my cellar--went marvelously with a tender rack of ISFJ. But these days, it's all love...from afar.
@@gabrieldelorme-trepanier2570 1.) I used to consult a lot across Medicine, Academia (humanities, social sciences, etc...), NPOs and HR departments around the world where one can’t swing a cat without hitting an INFJ or any XNFX, for that matter-they’ve often been (largely respected) colleagues of mine. 2.) The chief issue amongst us usually concerned communication difficulties rooted in Te vs Fe. Dominant Te, particularly, and most definitely in “business mode,” can often be unintentionally wielded like a battering ram-it’s direct, matter-of-fact and possesses subzero fucks about imparting a certain emotional tone or positively impacting the emotional vista in some way; because we are not empaths that “feel” the emotions of others, we often don’t realize Te’s effects on Fe users and so hurt feelings are likely to abound. ENTJs are naturally combative; we exchange/test/vet ideas through feisty, spirited, sometimes heated debate and we respect those who can do the same. Admittedly, we can be a bit dismissive of Fe because we may perceive it as unnecessary sugarcoating or hypersensitivity-the latter of which might inevitably make us uncomfortable because we don’t actually enjoy destroying another’s feelings (when unwarranted); we simply are not as adept at reading/deciphering emotional states and we don’t like to have our inadequacies or shortcomings thrown back at us or be blamed for something we didn’t even realize we were doing. 3.) Speaking personally, the development/maturation of my Ni (better able to foresee the best way to communicate/approach a situation) and Fi (more in touch with what I actually feel about something) has made it easier to get along with INFJs.
I’m an ENTJ female married to an ISFP male. I always joke and say I married someone ultra sensitive so I don’t feel like a monster and that if I dated another ENTJ it may end in violence 😆
I dated one. Worst experience ever for a feeler. They rationalise all feelings and can't grasp metaphors. "You're too deep, simplify it for me" I had to talk like a kindergartner for him to understand my way of thinking/seeing the world. Even then.
1.) ENTJs, auxiliary Ni users aka iNtuitives, who can't grasp metaphors? lol Utter bullshit. 2.) It's far more likely that you just can't type and, in actuality, made some poor XSTX miserable af. 3.) "Feelers" that value Te, like IXFPs, don't seem to mind us nearly as much as the rest of you spineless MFers, and so it's quite possible the defect lies with YOUR particular ilk. 4.) I'm sure "speaking like a Kindergartner" = using well conceived, complete sentences that don't aimlessly meander and wax tangential like the incongruous varicose veins you'll likely have one day.
Ob Solete I think they mean that ENTJs speak in a very literal manner. I know ENTJs like this who you need to explain things very very thourougjly for them to understand
And that is exactly what I meant. Also this comment wasn't that long after we broke up so I was a bit frustrated with it at the time. I'm talking I had to define everything down, the simplest things I had to teach him about things like he didn't know a chicken was a bird. That sort of thing. And (for example) I would explain why a chicken is a bird (e.g has wings, a beak, feathers, etc) and he'd go "oh that's too complicated, I don't follow you, whatever,"
Didn’t you marry an ENTJ, lol? I tested as an ENTJ. I can be emotional and I care deeply about people and enjoy seeing people reach their potential and grow as human beings; I just have a hard time dealing their emotions. It’s frustrating to see how emotions can sometimes cause people to loose focus and not seek solutions. Emotions are a gift when we don’t let them control us or paralyze us. I think I’ve softened with age and self awareness. I think my ENTP husband has helped. We were blessed with a strong willed ESTJ son, a lovely ENFJ daughter and a firecracker ENFP. We have a very exciting household, lol. Love your videos. My degree is in psychology and I love analyzing people. Your content is Fun and great in helping others understand interpersonal relationships. It’s great to see how you have grown as a person. Thanks for your humor and compassion. You’re unique soul❤️
Hi Frank, No. - Arguing is arguing and debating is debating. Arguing has the undertone of anger and debating is proving and convincing others of your points in the debate with the back up proof, facts and research. - Able to dole of discipline isn’t disciplining a lover, boyfriend, partner or husband. It is referring to pulling them up on what they did if they didn’t think through their actions before committing them. Then again, as an INFJ, you may interpret the above points that are in the video in a different way as they are not very well explained / elaborated.
I made the mistake of watching this video in public, I laughed so much but they were probably too intimidated to tell me I looked like a crazy lady! Haha Mr Frank James you did not fail me with this genius description of the beautiful ENTJ woman, it’s a pity we can’t date, you would be too jealous of my hot moustache ;)
I’m an INFJ male and i love ENTJ females but i admire them from a distance as soon as we get close and build a relationship arguments start and loyalty checks but still I love them. I don’t get along with ENTJ males.
which 👏 one 👏 next 👏
Me 🖐️
😳
Joking. INFP!! ♡
I N F Peeeeeeleeease. Or INFJ. That would be funny.
@@jessicajohnson8424 Yes please!
@@kl3069 It WOULD be hilarious to watch him rip apart dating an infj!
ESFP!!
As an ENTJ woman I have been told to “calm down” so many times when I wasn’t actually upset. It’s just my voice and enthusiasm 😅
Saaaame! 🤣
DUDE YES LMAO!
Same, but as a man it gets a bit more intense. The amount of physical confrontations I get into with explorers. I try talking to them and they just want to dominate socially. That turns hostile quickly
Right!!!! It’s annoying
Yes!
Can I just say...ENTJ's DO NOTICE YOUR FEELINGS! They just don't care :)
Or don't know how to handle it 😂
Emotions aren't our strong suit.
Just an enfp wondering people like this exist 👽
TRUTH.
As an INTP I can relate, I don't care about my feelings either.
LMAOO
I’m an ENTJ girlfriend.
Yeah, my boyfriend is and ENTJ too.
We basically talk all the time.
Need some more info here. I've just started (potentially) dating an ENTJ (type A) and I'm an ENTJ (type T) here. Any clues on what's going to happen or what I might expect?
thats soooo coool, I love me an entj (I'm an entj, and happy to see a couple of entj) pls tell us more
thats soooo coool, I love me an entj (I'm an entj, and happy to see a couple of entj) pls tell us more
Oh mean..
Super, good communication is important, no matter the personalities!👏
I am an ENTJ woman and in fact we like the debate but we dont like to fight. We dont get emotional while debating....I might be loud and passionate about it but once the debate is over thats it. And we are not so cold hearted like that either, if I love someone I do love that person and not because I love that person it means that I have to be all over them all the time. Love is an action, infactuation is a feeling. I like your videos. You are funny.
As an entj female 100% accurate
As an ENTJ male, 110% spot on.
Wow is so 100% accurate. You know i'm so admit the word you say
INTP man here and you just described my dream woman! Wonder if there are ENTJ woman like this in Albania even tho the culture here...
I'm an intp....and I find it extremely difficult to express emotions....do "Entjs" express emotions fluently ?
This is actually pretty accurate. I was with a ENTJ girl for almost two months... before she dumped me for essentially being too emotional for her to handle. XD
Actually ENTJ girls so hard dealing a realtionship with a person who too much emotional. Its like we have to live in rollers coster.
as an entj girl, this was the reason i had dumped my ex
As an ENTJ man, this was a reason why i had dumped my ex 🤷♂
No joke, this is true
Well ...... I don't see anything wrong with that 😶
Nevan I. Whats your sign😩
"I'm depressed"
"Then stop"
My goodness, why didn't I think of that? 🤨
i know right
Used to say something along these lines when I was married; made sense to me 😂
@@thomasbrown3793 😬
@@thomasbrown3793 do you.... do you understand now?
@@calebwilliams586 I understand I shouldn't say that 😂
I’m an ENTJ woman... and yes my husband put me in charge of his diet, fitness, and finances. He now engineers/mixes for four major record labels and does 5k charity runs regularly.
Impressive.
This is the ideal woman to me, personally. -intp
Whoa.
We just see the potential and won't stop till it becomes a reality
Oh, well good for him lol
I'm an ENTJ female and no, I don't care HOW u get there, just get there ON time, IN BUDGET to MY STANDARDS. Oh and I've already figured out the most efficient way to get there, but because I love u I will allow u to be "creative" and independent for the sake of your ego.....and maybe if I'm in a generous mood I won't tell u afterwards I "told u so" ;) 😂
No seriously, I care most about results and am open to being proven wrong and am keen to learn a more efficient and effective path to achieving my ambitions. I'm judge on actions and results, so if you can prove it me then fine, I'll adapt my strategy.
This. 👆👆👆 My fellow ENTJ Female. Could not have said it better!
YES!
Are you my reflection? Hahahah
An ENTP man will literally turn your life around.
We live for efficiency and proving ppl wrong through debate but you’ll probably not debate so we will turn it into action lol
Dude your type sounds super productive and great for CEOing, and also thanks for reassuring me that I should never attempt to date an ENTP. I'm ENFJ. I'm often not on-time, very creative, and I just finished a book literally titled How to Do Nothing about the dangers of efficiency 😂
As an ENTJ female, I can confirm having a lot of these traits while being in a dating relationship
Hi
I am an INFJ
I like an ENTJ girl
What should you advice me to attract her?
@shardar khan
You just need to look like smarter than her, especially in something that she lacks
Or
Just hear her advice and do it
@@dyahnurkhasanah8825 Okey
Gratitudes😀
I am also an ENTJ female
I’m an entj male, don’t think I’d ever find a gf
This guy actually ended up marrying an ENTJ
Right! 😂
Right!!
My thoughts exactly!!! And I'm ENTJ and attracted to INFJs haha
@@leticiateixeira3761 Can you elaborate on why you're attracted to them? Just curious.
@@Marianna-d7rI am one also, and same.
They're very funny, witty, intelligent, usually emotionally intelligent, kind, honest, they stick to their values, devoted, affectionate because we're secretly squishy under our prickly thick shells of protection, to name just a few. The rest often depends on each individual infj as each one is unique.
Ok so I am an INFJ with an ENTJ wife.
Literally every point you make is laughably accurate. However, because my ENTJ wife respects me she doesnt seek to dominate me wherever possible. But she also cant help it sometimes lol. So when she tries it, I just shut her down calmly and tell her "I'm not one of your staff members." Or I actually listen, and if its constructive I'll take her advice on board. I think the biggest issues would exist if you had an immature INFJ with an immature ENTJ.
From my perspective as an INFJ who is always wanting to help others and gets emotionally weary easily, its nice to have a partner that never needs much help and can always view challenges dispassionately.
Wow! You sound very mature indeed. Hats off to you
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏In general immature behaviour SHOULD NOT be excused by personality! Healthy and calm communication is essential!
(Ps:ENTJ🙂)
From what I understand, so is he at this point. LOL.
This was really refreshing to hear as I’m an infj and I could never imagine that pair working.
@wadeos2123 12 years married and couldn't be happier my brother.
it's all true!! the most unnerving thing about ENTJs, using my boyfriend as an example, is their ability to basically read your mind, but somehow, not your feelings. so it's like he gets what i'm *thinking* , like creepily accurately, but my feelings are in a foreign language, so he simply doesn't pick up on them. it's the weirdest thing, 'cause of course, as in INFJ, other people's feelings are all i ever notice. overall, he's like a highly sophisticated humanoid robot, but the programmers got ahead of themselves and put it out there before mastering anything to do with human feelings. it's like his feelings are bug in the otherwise efficient system.
retrogradepink Omg...I got to the end of this and now I think I may have dated an ENTJ in the past. It’s all making sense now.
@@itsaishawhite i'm glad you had a breakthrough! MBTI makes it so much easier to understand people. i was so glad i had this information when he and i first started dating. i guessed his type, he took the test a couple times and always got ENTJ. with an ENTJ in particular, because they are so strange when it comes to human interaction, it really helps in dealing with them. like if you don't know them very well, it's easy to dismiss them, thinking are just a-holes. ;-)
retrogradepink It sounds like you’re approaching things from a healthy, mature place. I’m sure that helps make things successful. The more I’m learning about MBTI the more the world is making sense to me and even the way I interact with others. It’s nice.
Thats because our dominant function is extraverted thinking...acting much the same way dominant extraverted feeling would for an ENFJ or an ESFJ. The difference is we pick up and respond to the way other people think incredibly easily instead of emotion, and can become overwhelmed by it.
@@thomasbrown3793 yeah, i can imagine having other people's thoughts on your radar all the time would be very overwhelming! that's the interesting thing about the INFJ/ENTJ pairing. it's like they're so similar but at the same time absolute opposites.
I am an entj, and I have been called intimidating by countless men. It doesn’t help that I’m 6ft either. I just don’t understand it, I’m a very nice person. Sure, I’m incredibly independent and I don’t beat around the bush and I also come off “too strong” sometimes.... you know what. I’m not helping my case here.
Gurl same. I am 5'1.5" and I still get called intimidating. Like holdup lemme get a step stool to tell you why you're wrong lmao
Me too. Although im 5"5 but im broad and strong. Poor guys in highschool hated playing basketball with me 😅
If it makes you feel any better, if I were a guy, you'd be exactly my type. XD
It's the Si blind spot. One former boss used to salute me and I'm 4'11.
I dont care if ur entj but 6ft man
My big sis is an ENTJ. She's super smart and very pretty... Beauty and brains for sure. I wanted to be just like her when I was a kid, but I really enjoy being and enfp. Anyway, a lot of this is true. She is usually in control of the conversations, but they're mostly good conversations. She can be intimidating at times, in fact, she was the one on who was always on top of my grades in school when I was growing up.. I dreaded it whenever she visited it, but at least it helped keep me on top of my work. She's a goal-getter and achieves everything she sets herself for. She is also good an channeling her "F". She'll be like Adele: a love so deep and intense. Definitely one of the most impressive people I know.
but may I add: since she is so accomplished, her standards are rightfully high... as they should be. ;D
Thanks for being so kind about your big sis.
I wish my sis appreciated me like how you appreciate your sis but mine hates my controlling personality and hates it when i help her to make her grades better and i don't blame her because when we were younger she was always compared to me so she may hate me for that i love her so much but I'm not good at showing that
My ENFP younger sibling is very resentful of my achievements. It's nice to see someone who takes it in stride.
Omg I too am that big entj sis and have an enfp sis. So sweet of you to say that!!
Duaa Sabah Helping someone without their request is usually humiliating to people
I am an INFJ and married to an ENTJ. Met online 10 years ago and married for 5. This is a personality type that I would definitely suggest. You can get into great conversations and debates with them. They aren't the touchy feely type person in my experience, but do provide so much more. If you're familiar of the love languages, they are more of the acts of service type (not sure if they are all this way but for mine it is). To me they are rock solid in both personal and professional life. I highly suggest an ENTJ.
FJ's first album title: "Strengths and Wacknesses"
nice
*strenths
I’m an ENTJ and had a beautiful, year long relationship with an INFJ. We had such a great connection as we both thought deeper, worked hard, appreciated independence and gave space to one another. Both our types are extremely picky and only shoot for the stars in partners, so when we got together we agreed part of it was because each other were definitely top tier individuals and suitable for our goals and for life together. We broke up after he went to college, but the love and friendship is definitely still present and we both want to see this to the end. An INFJ-ENTJ relationship can be a fantastic balance as long as there is maturity, understanding, and sacrifice from both partners!!
Wow, this was beautifully said! - ENTJ/ESFP
Compromise, maturity and good communication are always important!
ENTJ female here. Lol if you're expecting no feelings In a relationship you're in for a surprise.
If we're invested it can be a bit overwhelmingly ... lovey.. but eh we do eventually revert to business mode.
Given, the awkward uncomfortable with feelings bit is true. We're also stalwart and loyal to those we care for. The walking out of a relationship without looking back bit. That usually happens when it's clear there is no good coming from Staying. Anywho. We look for an equal that can stand beside us. Thanks for the chuckles though.
In reality, entj lady can be the most sensible and no bs kind of woman! You never know. They might like roses too. You never know!
You never know!
What does liking roses have to do with anything?
@parul I mean, yeah, I guess I don't.
I love roses, including the bravery and confidence to give them. but I would know the color meanings, so best they knew what they were doing, or I might get the wrong idea. Would try them to turn into rose bushes for the challenge. Or let them dry. Was recently given flowers from the florist by staff, in a boss lady coffee mug, with a very nice card. We also love hearing words like 'Best Boss Ever', because it reminds us that making a difference in the lives of employees. People are what motivates us to be great leaders. Most don't like their jobs or bosses. If I can make a difference and change that if only for my team, then I've made someone's life better. I won't give my secret to leadership, but I can promise ENTJ females have a secret recipe to create great teams. Because female ENTJ's are confident and non conformist, they come under ambush for not exhibiting expected female behavior that revolves around males.
ENTJ is a rare leadership personality that can empower and inspire. That is not done by bully behavior. ENTJ females are genius strategists who use their powers for good.
@@alpineusa9727 All this from a little thorny flower, huh?
Cool.
@@dr.uselessYIIK You mean others don't have that luminous capacity? Responded to a post, that included the questionable liking of roses for a specific Myers Briggs psychological composition. Must be my ardent ENTJ personality. Cool.
i had to come back to this video and state that, as an entj myself, i'm so proud frank ended up marrying and having a baby with an entj woman
Same
Yes, actually it cracks me up, because when he first posted the girlfriend videos, I obviously liked how he said he always wanted an intimidating lady (INTJ or ENTJ), and now he got one!
Where did he mention that his wife is an ENTJ? 🥹 I wanna see it
I am an ENTJ female and I got dumped because I was "too emotional"? People are strange..
Me an ENTJ girlfriend:
Ends a 2 year relationship because they started to demand too much of my time and attention
I love this series! This was hilarious! I’m an ENTJ. I’m not gonna lie I have a hard time knowing what to do with peoples feelings. That’s not to say we don’t care about people’s feelings or that they’re not allowed. It’s just a learning curve...a steep learning curve...for us on how to deal them effectively for the best outcome for both parties.
Honestly though a lot of ENTJs have a soft spot for those who have a feeling function high in their function stack
Juanita Dennis I agree, especially INFP’s and ENFP’s, they tend to be the easiest to get along with compared to the rest of the F types!
Soooo true! Spot on girl 😇
I just give them a hug the least awkwardly as possible, while wondering if I’ve held them long enough or too long.
Oh man, XNFP’s go straight to my heart it’s insane.
We can do anything we set our minds on! 💯
If you're looking for a dominatrix, I'd say this is your gal.
Idk the dominatrix ladies I have known are surprising meek outside of that arena😂
Jonathan Locke
PERFECT.
Thats true but weakness disgusts me
Wh at
That’s overly strong wording. Every type has their weaknesses, and you could just as easily have had a different personality or temperament.
So my experience is they want a challenge and for you to compete with them for dominance rather than just easily dominating you though.
You know. . . my experience from hearing about others’ friends’ experiences.
Anyone watching this now that his wife is ENTJ?
😂😂 the memes about ENTJs are hilarious. Why people find us intimidating is beyond me. We’re just running our own race, trying to take our loved ones along for the ride if we can.
Would secretly love it if someone called me Daddy though. >_>. *Too shy.* *Would never ask.* Stop looking at me. O.O 😂
well-said
Frank : So this lady really wants you to go to this dot.
Me : /Remembers World War II Research./ “Today on D-Day, we’re not just going to make a mark in history. We are going to make a mark in geography.”
Entj girl here agreeing with the you, especially the daddy part 😂😂
@@yunami599 i would prefer mommy
@@daughterofgorgias7235 i prefer daddy!😁
Being an INFJ, I think an ENTJ girlfriend would turn me into a right little namby-pamby.
"But honey, you know what I'm like... feelings, and poetry... and stuff."
SMACK!!
"Sorry, honey!!"
🤣😂🤣
LOL
Shit thats actually accurate😂
I would have thought you'd found an abusive one at that.
😂
As an ENTJ women this was scary accurate. At least 85% of the things you said were spot on. It explains why I find romantic things cringy (dates, massages, etc) and how my go to solution to ending any sort of romantic relationship is ghosting. I usually stay away from romantic relationships because there are too many parts that I don't like about them, and I find tough conversations, where I or the other person feels emotionally vulnerable, close to impossible to have (I don't know what to say, how to act in the compassionate way that they may need, and sometimes I feel so out of control that I start laughing). I find this unfair to my partner. Also I find close relationships distracting from my goals and daily routines.
Being vulnerable with the right people is braveness, just don't give up, everybody struggle with something, just work on improving yourself, people who care will be patient and support you on your journey and close relationship aren't a distraction people can be great support and it is an amazing thing when two partners that have their one goals also have common goals as a couple, it SHOULDN'T be one or another! - after all, your goals must be for helping people and makeing something good for the humanity ( at least I really hope so) something must motivate you to want to work and I really hope that this thing are the people and the future!🌺
Oh god, As a ENTJ women i Couldn't agree more. Especially the last line 💯😭
this is so true!!! wow just spot on!! i always felt exactly like this but never knew why
"Sitting here laughing my head off while I attend to my goals.." Thanks for the good video. --ENTJ
I am an INFJ and my husband is an ENTJ. Going strong almost 10 years! ENTJs are awesome because they will often defer to those with more expertise in order to grow, so my hubs asks me all the time to forecast relationships or how to be more compassionate/diplomatic. It's def a sub/dom type relationship, but I know that's what I need. I seriously don't know how to budget like what do you mean I can't spend my rent money on meditation pillows and a new juicer...
All brown 😂😂 looks at my own wardrobe.... All black..... IT'S PRACTICAL!
Same..
Me too! 😂
It really is!
HAHAHA a long time friend of mine is ENTJ and her ex-husband called/calls her the general.
Hmmm interesting... My parents and my brother has started calling me like that when I was 3.
@@scarlett8123 my middle school teacher that was a ENTJ woman was called the general but was also very popular among students because she was great both as a person and teacher. For some rason she took me under her wing and had a sweet spot for me, she made sure to help me alot both academicaly and emotionaly because I was bullied back then and in a dark place. She and my family made sure I learned haw to stand up for miself against my bullies and protected me. I will always admire her! May her soul in rest in peace! For a young inexperienced INFP like I was back then her mentorship was a divine gift.
@@leliavoinea5934 I'm glad that she help you!
Turning conflict into lessons like “I can grow from this with you”
Well said, well done! Productive debates are important!👏👏👏👏👏👏
@@sunsun5290 try following through it is way faster and better for both parties because they have productive communication and both learn their lessons with suffering less consequences and building more trust!
"Being a feminist doesn't mean that I have to actually get along with other women " 😂👌🏻
I'm ENTJ girl, all of these are almost true about me
"ENTJs are cute."
- From an INTP
ENTJ: FI is not allowed here!
Me an ISFP: 😨
Uh-huh. - Also an ISFP
Well I will stay anyway - INFP
I’m similar as an INTJ (or a very “soft” ENTJ) and find ISFP’s to be deeply fascinating, inspiring people, but a little hard to understand. I will constantly upset this ISFP friend of a friend and I’ll have NO idea what I’ve done to trigger her but she’s suddenly MAD and my idiot baby Fi starts panicking and it’s just... a mess.
Unhealty Isfp is shadow function od ENTJ....
ENTJs in anime:
Erza Scarlett
Natsu: She's Coming!!
Gray: Oh man we're screwed!
Lucy:Come on guys she can't be that bad...
Beats up both male protagonists within first two minutes of screenplay... several times😂😂
😂ffffuuuckkk that's y I like herr
Michael Kimani
XD
This was hilarious and on-point (I have made a PP presentation and even a mini book to profess my love), but I don't like how ENTJ's are always made out to be emotionless. I have emotions and I expect others to have some too. Otherwise, that prob. means they're dead. My problem is when people can't openly discuss their feelings. They're not rational and they're emotional for the sake of being emotional. I always seek to understand what the problem is and when someone can't give me an answer, they're giving me nothing to work with. That's when I take my cue to exit. If you can't use your words and define your emotions then you probably need to spend some time alone until you can define them. I'm warm, affectionate and emotional, but I'm also going to hold you accountable, I will confront you with ease while maintaining my composure and making eye-contact, and I realize that's unsettling for a lot of people.
Hahaha haha are you my soulmate (ENTJ here too) 😅
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏emotions are to be analysed! 👏👏👏👏👏👏
As an ENTJ, I agree with you 100%
I have a friend, that is ENTJ! And I have to call her "commander" :( (but she has no mustache)
Whenever there's a movie character who's badassery impresses me, they are often typed online as ENTJ, ESTP or ENTP.
I think those unwanted "let me help you" are more ExFJ thing. People often falsely believe those types as angels but nope they are demon when unhealthy. "The world is the way it is" is more of SJ qualities. Damn, ENTJs are truly one of the black sheep in MBTI community.
ENTJs are independent and hate being followers, not the same as being bossy. They are also the most awkward extrovert out there. They do not have Fe in their main stack nor they have Fi in the first 2 slot. Instead they got Te + Ni which get them in trouble most of the time in social settings when they are young and inexperienced. I also find them nerdy.
Most ENTJs are truly mistyped.
Caffé Mocca wow someone finally got it spot on 🙌🏻
@@Emilia-ti5lz same for me I used to wonder why I don't feel like others why I can't understand their feelings and when my BFF left me I didn't feel anything and I wondered if that was normal I really loved her and cared about her but our friendship was toxic but when I read about my type it says that we can move on relationships easily I still don't understand ppls feelings but I respect them I also thought I was an introvert u r not alone sis
I wouldn't say im an awkward extrovert. I am very confident but i have to build rapport with people and usually on an intellectual basis or shared interests
@@Emilia-ti5lz Same here, only in my case I was actually diagnosed with Asperger's. I'm good at hiding it, thankfully.
THIS COMMENT SHOULD BE ON TOP
I am ENTJ. Laughed SO hard! But... try to be a little more enthusiastic next time, OK? 😉😎
I am an ENTJ girl with an INFP girlfriend and it's the funniest thing because she always wants to talk about her feelings and stuff so that we can "have good communication".
I still love her anyway ❤️
A good conversation about goals, dreams, ambitions, reasons behind emotions etc. ARE important! It is good that you cherish your partner no matter your differences!💖
ENTJ woman with a dramatically sensitive kid...don't know his type coz he is just 7 but I am really trying to be more emotionally aware. It is soooooo hard.
The one dislike is from someone with a veiny head.
I looked up the infj girlfriend meme. "I don't how I feel but I know how you feel"...dead haha. Another I loved "everyone that's broke up with me is a narcissist."
lol i'm saving the best ones for last
i can exactly imagine the psycho look on someone's face when they say "i don't know how i feel but i know you you feel" LOL so funny.
I’m an INFJ and I want to say my dad was a ENTJ. We had a pretty complicated relationship. It was two different philosophies colliding with each other. However, if there was anything that me and my dad bonded over, it was the fact that we could have intellectual conversations. I could ask him questions about certain topics and we would have a conversation about it.
Intellectual conversations are the best!👏👏👏🙂
Wow you’re just like me… I’m also INFJ and my dad was probably ENTJ now that I think about it. We also had great intellectual convos even if we otherwise had a complicated relationship
I LOVE ENTJs and they are some of my best friends - I actually find I can discuss my feelings with them quite well. BUT they need people to be moving all of the time and DOING stuff. And I need to sit and meditate A LOT. They are high on growth like we are, but I need to delve into the depths of one idea, not tackle the entire horizon of possibility with a single subject. I choose one guru, like Frank James, for instance, and watch the hell out of him instead of going off fly by with all of the UA-cam personality types out there. Having said that, I think you mimicked that type pretty well. I mean, if you like dominance, and pirate hats, it could be a thing. (More John Wayne in that Dr. Phil, but you were pretty close).
Would never date an estj or entj. I have an entj acting teacher, every time she talks to me I feel she's attacking me lol.
Well i don't attack people 😂😂😂
@@nailaighil7485 My teacher is a fearless tyrant and an entj. I know 4 entj's and two of them have the tyrant archetype. I don't believe entj's are bad, just incompatible with infj's. Conflict arises between te and fe.
As an entj it is pretty stressful when people think you are attacking them when you clearly mean well. Well, I sure hope your teacher does lol
@@reemaalotaibi5405 Stress really? Are you sure you are an entj? haha just kidding! I think you guys can be alright but can go on harsh/inconsiderate mode sometimes and you take your frustrations out on other people. Another entj is one of the coolest guys I know but he has gone some through a lot of shit in his life. I guess an entj has to go through shit to become more sensitive just like myself to become less sensitive and have better boundaries.
@@reemaalotaibi5405 Correction, I don't think it's bad to be sensitive, after all we all have emotions and we should all respect each other's human nature and not overstep our boundaries.
As an ENTJ Female, I really enjoy the humor you bring to the MBTI personality conversations. Keep them coming!
"ENTJs are scary...for me. But at the same time, I think, I need them in my life. I dunno." -an INFP
Frank,
You’re telling me Adele is somewhere arguing with her partner & being called Daddy? Guess that formula is what makes good music. Lol. There’s room for us all on the Resting B. Face spectrum. Trust me.
who knew that's what it took to be a great singer?
Frank James The more you know.
the fact that he's married to an ENTJ now XD
Was thinking the same thing 😂
Infj, and I have an entj husband. Other than being extremely aware of where he will be in 5 years (So therefore I will be too), and a little micromanaging, and having a surgery scheduled to remove his phone from his hand and ear (just kidding, I would have scheduled that for him) he's a really beautiful soul. No bad intentions reside in this man, he truly is a wonderful person, just has a hard time with my feeling perspective. If you can learn to break issues down into logical conclusions, put information into very short pockets of time so you can be heard,and be a very independent person, ENTJ men can be great for us. But,you do need a higher Faith,because you will never feel completely heard or understood, but the reliability of them always coming home to you is real.
Why oh why couldn't I have been born an ENTJ? There needs to be a Fantasy Island theme park for INFJ's to guiltlessly dominate and not give a shat.
My thoughts exactly!
Haha you need to be direct and outspoken your opinion to your people if you are in debate. Sometimes is good for talk to other people about your opinion. But we are just do to make an effective way to solve a problem. I really don't care if you hurt or not for solve a problem. As an ENTJ you can learn for deal for people will critism you. You need to stand out what your talk, want to achieve or someting you want to reach.
So far, I never meet an INFJ in my social friends cause my dominance always make type F run from me. From what I read, I admire with INFJ. You need to be yourself in positive way I think.
You can be whatever you want...you just need to work hard and change
My sister literally just told me she was sad and I said
“Then stop being sad, and you won’t be sad anymore”
“That’s not how it works”
“ *THEN MAKE IT WORK* “
This was getting close but living for the day you cover ESTJ girlfriend so I can laugh even more!
Funny how he's married to an ENTJ now.
Lol yeah
How do you know
Watching this three years later from when it originally came out, makes me wonder if he would know that this personality would be his wife.
I tested as an entj. I was like this test seems inefficient, can't be right because I'm an empath. Then I watched this video. Shit. Is it possible to be an entj then feel the pain of all the people you conquered? Talk about cursed...
Yeah im an entj and empath too. Its true. Its like im the predator and i can feel the victims pain as i bite into it lol terrible terrible very conflicting.
Intp-a here. Its most likely the estrogen
ENTJs are not psychopaths. They have no special joy in hurting people around them, quite the opposite.
It is, indeed. I'm most certainly an ENTJ but you probably wouldn't realize it unless you happened to catch me under certain conditions. Most of the time, I try to reign in my more dominant side and take on a softer persona because the typical ENTJ traits have been to my detriment more often than not. There's nothing I hate more than feeling like a liability or a burden to others, but that's exactly what happens if I allow myself to be my blunt, straightforward, confrontational self. It causes unnecessary drama, poisons the social environment, and forces others to make allowances for behaviors that wouldn't be tolerated in anyone else. I refuse to let that happen. My worst fear is waking up one day and realizing I've become the supervillain everyone jokingly calls me. Heh.
@@maladjustedmaverick6619 same here. i want to tell people how to deal with their issues. But ive Learned ppl want sympathy, comfort And encouragement... then sometimes they're willing to hear my thoughts. That happened today. I just kept my mouth shut. Everything inside me wanted to March up to the problem and blow it away. But relationships don't work that way. Regardless us ENTJs make results. We just got to do it tip-toeing around people's feelings 🤣
Just had my yearly review, and the main criticism I had was that I’m a strong, bold personality that’s obviously very smart, and I come across as a bossy know-it-all. I thought “I fail to see how this is a bad thing.” My husband once told me that I’m the most terrifyingly competent person he’s ever met.
It isn't something bad! Good leaders are something amazing, the approach IS important but people often feel intimidated by competent competition, only the ones that aren't insecure about themselves will feel inspired and will choose to stay and they will definitely be in for a win! Take it as a complement, but don't forget to continue progressing improving!We always have what to work on!
Oooh, another ENTJ coloratura soprano here!
You know, these videos are not only entertaining but are also informative for those who are not looking for a relationship. They give an excellent overview of what to expect from interactions or friendships from other types which I think allows for a better understanding which may help diffuse any possible conflict... That isn't worded well, but I think y'all should understand.
Frank, the fact that you haven't read Harry Potter gave me a lighting bolt shaped scar in my brain.
I am ENTJ and I would probably agree with him at all points, we are cocky,our EQ =0, and we only understand stuff when we rationalize.My favorite moment of the video that made me laugh is " let me show you presentation about my love" and the reason why it was so funny it's because I ve done similar stuff to my poor ex.boyfriends - I feel bad for them.I remember when in order to "improve" my relationships and conclude on where we stand in argument with my ex I made him Sat, take a pen and pencil and prepare presentation of pluses and minuses we have in relationships and I would do the same and then ultimately we would compare, finalize where stuff is wrong and try to agree to fix it or fall apart.My boyfriend was so lost but I guess feeling the fear of losing sex life he was sitting there trying his best 😂😂😂😂😂.Back than I was damn serious now I realize how hilarious that could look.
Diana Dragomanova Love it!!! Haha
oh, that is too funny! the other day my ENTJ boyfriend asked to check in with me, to see how i am feeling. a few months ago we had a terrible fight in which i revealed i had all these feelings bottled up, and he was taken by surprise. so, he was checking in with my feelings, but the way he said it was basically like he was asking for a job performance review. like, is doing everything right? how can he improve? are there any things i would like to see done differently? it was so well meant, very kind, but the delivery, as always with him, is so clinical. :-)
retrogradepink when I visualise ENTJ feelings I see a toddler in a nappy/diaper by a fire sitting in a cave surrounded by darkness with a big unattended tear falling from his confused face. Any other ENTJs get me or am I alone on this??? Haha sorry I crack myself up
@@MasanthaKeno lol! :-D
retrogradepink btw your boyfriend truly adores you. I feel his pain but we only analyse and “check in” when we truly care so be reassured that he is madly in love with you and probably terrified that he’s allowed himself to be so vulnerable with someone. Haha when an ENTJ falls its a long way back up to the top of that brick wall you’ve just knocked down. Be gentle with him he’s walking blindly where not a many ENTJs have gone before :)
I’m an ENTJ female and I feel like this is pretty accurate lmao
No! Not for INFJ. If you consider this type SEEK PROFESSIONAL HELP. Or save time and just trust me on this.
Could you explain why please?
ha ha taken under consideration
@@gabrieldelorme-trepanier2570 INFJ are sensitive types and easily hurt. ENTJ are low on empathy. Bad combo.
@@SheenaHolly It can sometimes work, my hubs is close, ESTJ... the relationship has made me MUCH stronger and less sensitive. His lack of empathy sucks sometimes but for the most part the marriage is great and has made me grow as person, to become more balanced! ✌❤
Myb cuz he's infp idkkkk
all these fellow ENTJ women here make me so happy - y'all stay true to yourselves man - i love you all
Frank.
Please go to 3:40.
The perfect dating experience for ENTJ girl is when you involve in her project, if possible. If not, ask her to tell you about progress of her projects, her dreams or her goals. Trust me. She will be so much impressed.
6:45 please.
Black and white!
Brown is not bold enough.
Yes!!!!
Just had to come back here since I found I you married an ENTJ🤣
Okay but holy shit! That comment about "if you're arguing then you are argumentative" spoke to me with the utmost firmness.
My ENTJ ex was SO ENTJ, he broke up with me over the phone after 8 years together (engaged 4 of those years) when we'd only seen each other the day before. He did make a point many times that to him emotions were a sign of weakness to him though so, I guess he did the best he could. (He probably viewed me as weak, which just amplifies how I'm better off without.) He wasn't too concerned about how his cowardice would scar me for life as a result but hey, we INFJs are tough cookies.
Lessons learned...
Never ignore your gut if you think something's awry.
Don't accept all the blame when a relationship fails, because it takes two to tango.
Emotions are not a sign of weakness. They help us communicate. Some of us worse than others.
Any extrovert I’ve been around always felt draining. Must be like kryptonite idk
Ha! Whiner :-P
This was hilarious but also ENTJ’s we aren’t caregivers. We just give instructions... that are really just, you know, demands. 😊
It depends on the ENTJ! I for one don't demand more than I demand for myself and don't demand only for my own good and I demand with politely most of the time!
@@АнтонияКараджова-к1у giving instructions that are demands IS being polite. 🙂
THIS. This right here is what I need in my life! 😂
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As an entj that stays singles I cried with laughter of this , thank you
RUN FRANK, RUN! As fast as u can from the ENTJ female. NOT 4 U!
LOVE!!!
hey we're nice 😔
well...ouch (I was going to suggest a list of points why ENTJs make good partners and realised that was such an ENTJ thing to do)
An Extroverted INTJ would be too much.
Hence the more extreme stereotypes. lol
No, we are just right!
Naturenerd1000 😂😂truth
Ah believe, me ENTJ and my INTJ best friend for last 10 years have been quite a duo to say the least
So our boy Frank did a classic Ni and somewhat predicted he'll end up married and raising a family with an ENTJ? ...
watching this again after knowing that his wife is entj ^^
as ENTJ female, i confirm these ENTJ relationship traits are 95% true.
On behalf of ENTJs, let me just put it out there:
"We're against having emotions, not against using them."
Jk. ENTJs(not all) are actually very good at controlling their emotions, and even find objectivity in managing them. I'm okay with telling people I love them/they're doing a good job if that keeps them motivated. Efficiency is key. If you don't effectively manage your fEelinGs, they will get out of hand and you will miss out on your goals, make people unhappy=they will do a bad job= your goals won't be reached. Hehe.
Well said!👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 And usually (not every ENTJ) when we say things really mean them, they tend to be honest and direct, not being afraid to make an objective remark in order not to feel down! That is something which must be appreciated and usually is by strong individuals!
Thank you Harvey Specter, you nailed it 👌
This is the best soap opera! Who will Frank end up with? Find out next time on MBTI girlfriend...
3:13 SAME! And intimidating doesn't mean scary, bitchy, and rude. Just means she oozes this certain type of confidence composure.
👏👏👏
haha. I'm an INTJ female, and I love this LMAO. I feel like an ENTJ inside, but I'm an INTJ outside.
lol As an ENTJ, I must say, #HARDPASS on INFJ/ENTJ romantic pairings; it's best to just admire from afar, without closing the psychological distance. During my wayward (read: emotionally stunted) years, I kept a vintage bottle of triple distilled INFJ tears in my cellar--went marvelously with a tender rack of ISFJ. But these days, it's all love...from afar.
Why would you say that may I ask? Was one of your relationship like that?
@@gabrieldelorme-trepanier2570 1.) I used to consult a lot across Medicine, Academia (humanities, social sciences, etc...), NPOs and HR departments around the world where one can’t swing a cat without hitting an INFJ or any XNFX, for that matter-they’ve often been (largely respected) colleagues of mine.
2.) The chief issue amongst us usually concerned communication difficulties rooted in Te vs Fe. Dominant Te, particularly, and most definitely in “business mode,” can often be unintentionally wielded like a battering ram-it’s direct, matter-of-fact and possesses subzero fucks about imparting a certain emotional tone or positively impacting the emotional vista in some way; because we are not empaths that “feel” the emotions of others, we often don’t realize Te’s effects on Fe users and so hurt feelings are likely to abound.
ENTJs are naturally combative; we exchange/test/vet ideas through feisty, spirited, sometimes heated debate and we respect those who can do the same. Admittedly, we can be a bit dismissive of Fe because we may perceive it as unnecessary sugarcoating or hypersensitivity-the latter of which might inevitably make us uncomfortable because we don’t actually enjoy destroying another’s feelings (when unwarranted); we simply are not as adept at reading/deciphering emotional states and we don’t like to have our inadequacies or shortcomings thrown back at us or be blamed for something we didn’t even realize we were doing.
3.) Speaking personally, the development/maturation of my Ni (better able to foresee the best way to communicate/approach a situation) and Fi (more in touch with what I actually feel about something) has made it easier to get along with INFJs.
@@obsolete2319 Thanks for explaining this from your perspective!
@@obsolete2319 I like how you explain!
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I’m an ENTJ female married to an ISFP male. I always joke and say I married someone ultra sensitive so I don’t feel like a monster and that if I dated another ENTJ it may end in violence 😆
I dated one. Worst experience ever for a feeler. They rationalise all feelings and can't grasp metaphors. "You're too deep, simplify it for me" I had to talk like a kindergartner for him to understand my way of thinking/seeing the world. Even then.
1.) ENTJs, auxiliary Ni users aka iNtuitives, who can't grasp metaphors? lol Utter bullshit. 2.) It's far more likely that you just can't type and, in actuality, made some poor XSTX miserable af. 3.) "Feelers" that value Te, like IXFPs, don't seem to mind us nearly as much as the rest of you spineless MFers, and so it's quite possible the defect lies with YOUR particular ilk. 4.) I'm sure "speaking like a Kindergartner" = using well conceived, complete sentences that don't aimlessly meander and wax tangential like the incongruous varicose veins you'll likely have one day.
Ob Solete I think they mean that ENTJs speak in a very literal manner. I know ENTJs like this who you need to explain things very very thourougjly for them to understand
No my metaphors didn't suck he was a narcissist. Also I'm an INFP as your point 3) specifies, so I don't know what you're talking about lol
And that is exactly what I meant. Also this comment wasn't that long after we broke up so I was a bit frustrated with it at the time. I'm talking I had to define everything down, the simplest things I had to teach him about things like he didn't know a chicken was a bird. That sort of thing. And (for example) I would explain why a chicken is a bird (e.g has wings, a beak, feathers, etc) and he'd go "oh that's too complicated, I don't follow you, whatever,"
@@TheRaGiTe Ha ha ha 😘.
ENJT is here, dislike people finding excuse talking about feelings, just f*cking make things done. Thank you
ENTJ Strengths: Willing to dole out discipline. "Why is that in the relationships section?" Oh you innocent little unicorn.
I've never laughed at myself so much - thank you!!! Ya'll need us ENTJs.....YOU LIKE IT!!!!
Didn’t you marry an ENTJ, lol? I tested as an ENTJ. I can be emotional and I care deeply about people and enjoy seeing people reach their potential and grow as human beings; I just have a hard time dealing their emotions. It’s frustrating to see how emotions can sometimes cause people to loose focus and not seek solutions. Emotions are a gift when we don’t let them control us or paralyze us. I think I’ve softened with age and self awareness. I think my ENTP husband has helped. We were blessed with a strong willed ESTJ son, a lovely ENFJ daughter and a firecracker ENFP. We have a very exciting household, lol. Love your videos. My degree is in psychology and I love analyzing people. Your content is Fun and great in helping others understand interpersonal relationships. It’s great to see how you have grown as a person. Thanks for your humor and compassion. You’re unique soul❤️
When he said should we see if YT wants to take a break, YT literally showed me a commercial wow
Hi Frank,
No.
- Arguing is arguing and debating is debating. Arguing has the undertone of anger and debating is proving and convincing others of your points in the debate with the back up proof, facts and research.
- Able to dole of discipline isn’t disciplining a lover, boyfriend, partner or husband. It is referring to pulling them up on what they did if they didn’t think through their actions before committing them.
Then again, as an INFJ, you may interpret the above points that are in the video in a different way as they are not very well explained / elaborated.
I made the mistake of watching this video in public, I laughed so much but they were probably too intimidated to tell me I looked like a crazy lady! Haha Mr Frank James you did not fail me with this genius description of the beautiful ENTJ woman, it’s a pity we can’t date, you would be too jealous of my hot moustache ;)
🤣
😂😂😂😂😂you are a lady with a hot mustache 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 even ,, emotionless" ENTJ is laughing loudly!
Now I can show this and not have to explain myself.
Ty Frank!
I’m an INFJ male and i love ENTJ females but i admire them from a distance as soon as we get close and build a relationship arguments start and loyalty checks but still I love them. I don’t get along with ENTJ males.
Who is here after FJ married an ENTJ?
I laughed myself silly with how well some of these fit with my ENTJ fiance. Especially the 10 year plan and the powerpoint presentation
ENTJ Woman here. We're just very passionate people!