INFP... the Ultimate Girlfriend?
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My INFP best friend already subscribed to your channel but I have to share this with her anyway~
Infp here! Everything true-the good, bad and the ugly! My friend gets insulted? I turn into a little ninja within seconds. Need to defend -wether friend wants it or not! Must!
Apologize to my car whenever i get the wrong gear(stick driving) and it makes that nasty sound!
Plan 100 things on a good day, full of enthusiasm but have to cancel everything 2 days later (and apologize) bc i realize this involves far to many ppl! I think infp are very loyal, loving girlfriends but i also think we can be hard to handle and getting on our boyfriend's nerves quite a lot! Maybe just stay with the infp dog??? Need to think about this idea now..for hours...days...! Could you do a vid on which types are good matches?
Thanks for the infp video ans SORRY for my english😉❣
The fact that you wrote this comment at like 4 AM...the random shaving halfway through the video....something tells me u were in the struggle making this last night
Damn it 😂🧚🏻♀️✨
Frank James
- Nice- you just gotta mess with the withering SE. And yes, Very fine manners. Keep rockin it!
Me, an INFP: Why won't anyone date me??
Also me: _won't open up to people_
Jessica Croteau I’m always up in everyone else’s business trying to help them and the second they try to help me or ask anything I instantly turn into a ghost 😂
I’m the same, but with talking. I want them to talk to me, but I don’t talk to them, but then they talk too much, and then...
MEEEE
But why u gotta call me out tho 😭
Facts! 💯👏🏻
80% Internet population is INFPs. But mostly they dont say anything. They r just lurking and liking comments and videos without even saying anything.
Hello fellow infp reading this comment ily and tc u deserve the love and care u give to others ❤❤
Fizzy Rose Those like buttons are how we communicate on the internet.
That explains why my son only comes out of his room to tell us something funny he read on the internet. Lol. He is so funny tho!
@@evaungvari8769 👍
Welp, now I replied lol. But thanks for exposing me. 😂😂😂
Lol that’s me. I feel like most of my life is just having feelings about things on the internet
INFP girl here - We are quiet but want to talk and then when we try we regret it and just want to be alone again. Good luck dating us!
This is exactly how I be
Sounds like me
INTP here its ok if your intelligent and sweet xd
Me too INFP!🙌 Exactly how I roll too
Accurate haha I'm also Infp girl haha
As a straight male INFP, I am in fact the ultimate girlfriend
I used to be a straight male INFP, until I fell in love for the first time.
@@CaveyMoth whats your new MBTI?
@@hiimnormal6285 Well, I became a bi curious male INFP, lol.
@@CaveyMoth I don’t fully understand being bi curious. I wanna know what it’s like!
@@ChugaFool I don't know, man. It's like being bi, except you don't really know if you like the same sex. Guys don't immediately seem attractive to me..but as I get to know them, they seem to become attractive in a way. It's weird.
I didn't realize I was going to be roasted when I clicked on this video.
Same 😔
Sorry
lmfao but actually
Infp's taking stuff personal since day one! (Honesly same lmfao)
🤣🤣🤧
Me, an INFP: *wants a boyfriend desperately*
Also me: *Rarely leaves the house, never talks to anyone, gets super embarrassed when a guy flirts and the very idea of actually opening up to someone is terrifying*
Edit: Jesus Christ. Should we start an INFP therapy chat or something? It seems like we need it lmao
Yes!!!!! That is so me! How do we achieve this goal??! 😂
@@libbyb4067 I don't know 😂
The way I was able to counteract this was by finding an extrovert type that was able to push me to open up more. ENFJs are the best
Oof that sucks. INFJ is just hyper focused on finding a soulmate and i can confirm this is true
I cringe low key😂
"This is somewhat ironic, given that they want an authentic connection, but would then hold back, so that you can't create one." This is it. This is my dating life.
I never realized my basic and obvious intimacy issues until that moment....unfortunately this awareness won't change anything.
I eanted to comment the same😂
What I'm thinking is none of their business, but I gotta know what they are all about lol it was always my mindset.
I only retract myself if I feel I'm being played, which is fairly often. I just don't date tbh. Authenticity matters to us because we always feel pressured to be fake and gladly consume all the fake around us. It's not really ironic it's just sad.
LuvIzLuvX0 same
INFP girl here, some of us actually don't cry easily over anything.... when we're in front of other people. We cry silently in solitude 👍🏻
Yes!
Truee
👏👏👏👏
When I cried in front of my there for the first time, I kept apologizing 😢😭.
Whereas when my friends are crying in front of me, I was like, “It’s ok boo. Cry it out, it’ll make you feel better 🫂.”
We can lead with Fi but be extremely private with it!
I am an infp and I am not sorry.
Was that too mean?
Sorry
Its okay sweetie -an infp
exactly
Sorry, not sorry - Reese's
I suggest you guys look for Heidi Pribe’s MBTI articles on Thought Catalog or maybe check out some of her books as an INFP, though she’s written on ENFPs too.
Is that sorry but not sorry?lol
"do I want to be dark or happy sunshine?" oh, the constant struggle
I feel this deep in my soul because this affects me on so many levels, from things as shallow as my fashion sense to deeper things like my moods, social life and taste in music...I feel sometimes like walking polar opposites... it's unreal
i ain't no sunshine, i ain't no dark,but yet, i'm an INFP reeeeee (i'm kinda weirdo tho)
@@yak3543 lol. Most of us are. Don't worry,you are just as sane as I am.
omg this is sooo true xD I thought I was crazy struggeling with stuff like this xD
DAMN TRUE. I wanna be a badass but i cant help but see all those sad people, and help them.
"Do I want to be dark and brooding? Or do I want to be a quirky, sunshine girl?" Omg my life
Honestly..choosing an aesthetic is so difficult 😂 I like being both
INFP wardrobe : only black and punk outfits for the moody days, colorful and shining outfits for the great days.
I just decided to look like rays of sunshine on the outside all the time but y’know inside is different lol
Omg I can relate so much to this
omg... why is this me
Me, INFP: I'm gonna go cry now
Other people: why?
Me: I don't know, I'll think of a reason later
Damn, makes sense!!
🤣🤣🤣
So me
Never related more
LITERALLY lol sorry
INFP wakes up from a dream:
"I met the perfect lover and we went through so much... Goodbye my dear. I shall mourn all day for you."
I had the opposite, I woke up from a dream after many negative dates, now feels bad for it all day
THAT LEGIT HAPPENED TO ME
And that’s how I ended up with 194829483 imaginary relationships with boys in my dreams that will never exist
I rarely get love in my dreams, my dreams look weird as shit
This is too accurate..,
" I don't feel the authentic connection. I'm done with you"
I'm still single because of this.
Beth Azzawi haha ikr. Where do i find !!
Beth Azzawi same
I was doing this before I even realized what the hell I was doing
Same here hahaa
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I'm an INFP, but I disagree with the helping toxic people. I'm such a baby, so if you hurt my feelings, I want nothing to do with you anymore.
Aly Recinos exactly get the fuck out of my life for life
I learned that when the toxic person destroy me but hey there is 4 years I don't see her so im better😎
Same. Hahahahhaha I dont a want a stress in mylife.
I can hardly feel anymore, so I always try to help, none of it is a burden for me. shrug
I wish I had your confidence 💖
"Strong need for affirmation and extreme dislike of criticism "
Infps who clicked on this video expecting ego-stroking from the title : 👁👄👁
I don't need or expect affirmation. I am invisible and I like it that way, but criticism hurts.
I also prefer to be invisible, less drama that way, that being said, let’s me view other peoples drama
As an INFP I also prefer to be invisible but crave a deep connection with someone, which I have almost never had. Naturally, I dislike criticism and conflict in general but that goes the same for conflict between others in my presence and I'll always try to de-escalate the situation.
I’m an INFJ and I’ve been married to and INFP for almost 16yrs. She’s perfect.
Justin Meyers 😭😍
That’s sweet 💘
The idea of finding the perfect INFP sounds amazing.
Aawwwwww
I am an infp and my best friend in an infj and we are like the most inseparable duo, I would have married her if she was a guy lol 😂
this dude's literally the PewDiePie of the Myers-Briggs Personality Types
That's just insulting
That’s what I was thinking
Even the way he talks it's like pewdiepie.
@@elfaro1607 That's just insulting.
Yes, the way he says 'weaknesses' is like Felix's 'women'
Video title: INFP...the Ultimate Girlfriend?
Next recommended video: INFP: 10 reasons why you're still single
😂
Dang
Same, lol 😂
Heyyy! "Still" single?! I'll have you know that I dated years ago! So take that.
SAME
Me, an INFP: Dreaming of having a literal soulmate
Also Me: What if I got too clingy? What if I'm too distant? What if I get too emotional? What if we got misunderstandings and I can't talk? What if they fell out of love? What if--*(the list goes on)*
Me a few moments later: Let's just stay single till we die.
*Repeat*
Yup. That was my decision too. And, honestly, I don't feel I've missed much. It's good to be a spinster with a peaceful study so I can pursue my own interests and live my own life.
I've never related to a comment this much🤧
SAMEEEEEEEE
Me daily.
I literally have a thing where I fear going on in life without a soulmate and children... every time I think of myself as an asexual I get scared and fear my future self and think of the vast vistas of how I will never get married and die without children... it just scares me as an infp... still one of my greatest fears!
INFP: *(exists)*
Sorry
Mary H
😂😂😂 yes, no kidding
i am an INFP I say sorry to people who bump into me because I hope they don't have a grudge on me .
@@funny.gon-12 but do you say sorry to inanimate objects?
kind if in a way a fell really guilty
if they get broken or really close
Lmao! Awesome. At least we have that in common. 😊
Me an INFP: taking everything to heart and feeling a little offended
Also me: it’s a joke. It’s a joke. It’s a joke. It’s a joke. STOP FEELINGGGGG STUPID BRAIN
LOL
Or when someone says something serious that's too much to handle...It's just a joke!
Ugh like whyyyyyyyy
💀💀
And let’s be honest. You put “a little” offended as to not come off as too sensitive or rude. - from another fellow INFP 🥲
Thought I had quiet borderline personality disorder...
but I'm just an INFP.
ChucksAreForShmucks feel you
for real
Lmao :D
same
My ex (ESTJ) has Borderline and I'm INFP. We didn't look like in anyway so... Why are you saying this? Could somebody explain, pls?
Pd: English is not my native language, so, I'm sorry if I'm wrong :(
INFP: "I have a perfect loving boyfriend"
"But he doesn't know I'm his girlfriend" 😀👍
It took a few seconds before it landed😂
Infp's : I'm convinced we are soulmates 🥺😫✨.
Yea well mine exists only in fiction
i pray we can touch the ground for some time, at least some of the time. can we? lol
Yeap, because he doesn't know about my existence. Literally. But hey, in my mind we are already married with kids and have a great big house somewhere in Northern England. So, it's fine
I'm INFP and I only disagree with the "I hate thinking" meme. Like, INFP's OVERTHINK EVERYTHING! 😂😂😂
I think That's the joke. IN types get to think a lot but when you're F it hurts yourself because you realise there is pain, you're lonely, your life sucks ect. That's why we end up hating our own thoughts process.
Thank you. I hate all the shitty stereotypes that fake INFPs with blue hair and tumblr accounts have perpetuated. I think plenty thank you very much and I'm not emotionally distant just because I don't have leaky eyes.
Yes.
The overthinking is real.
The only other thing I really disagreed with was a letter from Hogwarts. Naw, just send Caspian my way for some deep conversation instead. Hahaha
I alway told myself that my worst weakness was over thinking everything, infp represent
Leticia Negrao INFP here and I’ve analyzed the world and more with my brain... more than is beneficial. Learning I can just be at peace and don’t always have to be thinking 💗🌸💗
Infps say sorry constantly they earned themselves a free passport to Canada.
That’s Not Mayo so true
I'm INFP and Canadian so I'm at home here lol
Hero of Time *Sneeze* I forgive you.
Alyssa S. See Alyssa, you’re already ahead of the INFP game. Slow your roll buddy.
My cousin and I have been keeping tally of who says "I'm sorry" the most. Its horrible. I hate it and so does she. It comes out of my mouth like a reflex. We dont even think about it. She apologizes to pots and pans when she drops them or accidentally kicks the chair at work, so I think she wins. INFP the struggle is real.
Me, an INFP constantly trying to “fix” people and always seeing the good in people even when they are bad because I think they just need a little more love to help them be a better person.
I’m an INFP but I do the exact opposite. I see everyone and their flaws, I even see my own and beat myself up for it (mentally lmao). My view of the world is pessimistic so I can’t be let down if you expect the worst :D there would only be nice surprises. I’m aware that this perspective of the world is very stupid but wygd oh well
@@queeenie OMG I thought I was the only one who thought like that fellow INFP (guess we are the same personality type for a reason)
Also as someone in there late 20s I can tell you that you'll come to be a lot more forgiving and empathetic about people's flaws as you age. But its still hard to get past your own flaws
@@queeenie Facts, I fucking hate people but would never say it because i don't hate them enough to hurt them.
@@queeenie Same but from far away I fix everyone in my mind knowing it's just not possible to actually do it
me too 🥺
Me, an INFP: desperately want to be in a relationship with someone
Also me, when someone opens up: *runs away* / *hides somewhere* / " *stay away from me, weirdo, you're creeping me out* "
OMG this is me right now!!!! I thought i'm crazy before i knew that was my personality!!!😂😂
@@thisgirl9670 LOLLLL sometimes we just dont want it, I like the idea of a relationship but I really dont wanna be in one, turned own at lest 3 guys last year realizing I’d rather get to know myself than deal with a parent right now.
😁😁😁😆
I'm an INFP girl and I started talking to a guy (found out later he is ENFJ) but my parents are against relationships and also I have social anxiety which makes it harder.
Frank : C’mon INFP girlfriend, you’re important to me. You’re the subject of my video. Doesn’t that make you happy?
Me, a tearful INFP girlfriend: _y i s s_
Sounds like my infp friends,
They only allow themselves to cry in front of me, the infj friend
Yessss
This is so me😂
I'm also currently crying and I don't know why...
@Mia Smith That does sound like me. So I would say he could be infj.
One of the best ways what I know to check it are:
- how much friends does he have (and is he really close to them? Since infj have very few friends, and we tend to be super close with them)
- if there is a social gathering (like a party), does he at first not want to go, but when he is there, he doesn’t want to leave even though he stays quite awkward and a bit silent.
- infjs also tend to have deep and meaningful talks, usually about how they feel. They only do it when they trust someone a lot. Also they will always put others on the first place. And try to let you talk About your worries and fears, we tend to be natural therapists.
- normally we are very silent and seem very introverted. But with close friends or people we trust, we tend to be more extroverts than a normal extrovert. We will keep talking all the time, smile, laugh, have fun and show our own emotions.
- the last thing is the most useful if he is an empath as well. Does he know how you feel, even though he even doesn’t look at you or hear you talk?
@Mia Smith That are kinda all the points I can think of what my friends say about me. Or what I know from myself
My girlfriend is INFP so I can confirm that INFPs are the ultimate girlfriends
Edit: She broke up with me due to mental health issues. still the best girlfriend I've ever had. 11/10
Awww
Thankyou !!
Thank you🥺
thank you 🥺
Ahaha... thank you. Now I’m crying
''This is a safe space for all INFPs''
After 10 minutes of roasting them.
😂😂😂
T^T
This comment smells like infj
😆😆😆
I'm not lying that i was so happy when he said "come on, infp girlfriend, you're important to me" 🙂💀
Me too ^^
Can not relate.
Me too. It was too weird because he obviously hates us but that moment was soooo touching!
He was being sarcastic
we desperately need help, one moment of positive affirmation made us feel happy after like minutes of roasting :)
Frank James making fun of my type is probably the best thing that happened today
Ana Maria I was the 69th person who liked your comment, that's the second best thing that happend to me today XD
I know right. I’m INFP and i love it. But then again, I’m single and still half-hurting after realizations from his recent advice video about being a hopeless romantic. lol. So by the way, some tests tell me im INFJ. Isn’t that because I like INFJ personality more than i like mine. My thoughts are everywhere rn btw. I love Frank James. He’s cool.
Same infp but still laughing... showing we infp are charismatic and accept the truth... regardless of how he said we dont like criticism
🤣 exactly Ana Maria!! It’s completely the best thing to happen to me today too!! I’m laughing all the way through!!! It’s all true🤪fellow INFP here too!
hope you have a better one I was sick today
the sudden "NO!!" kinda scares me lol. please don't yell at INFPs 😂😂😂😂
yes it's too much for an otherwise mellow video
Yes we are jus smoll beans :3
It was too aggressive!! 😭😭🙈
Truth has been spoken
Okay, i'm still confused. A lot of these characteristics and maybe memes and these comments here are like saying INFPs are emotional. I always consider myself as infp, and i do know i'm emotional as hell on the inside, but i'm too good at keeping all my emotions to myself that a lot of people thinks i always don't give a fuck, so naturally i don't easily cry, at least not in front of anybody
same here. probably emotional trauma
Yeah I never cry. we have cognitive introverted feeling so we keep our emotions more to ourselves and don’t outwardly express them very much. I have three INFJ friends who cry all the time...and I’ve never cried once in front of them haha
I don't cry in front of others too🤣
same
Yes
I am an INTJ guy, and I met an INFP girl once. She was so sweet and polite, saying sorry for every little "mistake" and making sure everyone's needs are met. It honestly made me feel like she is too good for this cold world. Since then, I know what personality I want in my girlfriend.
Too bad all INFPs are sitting in their house, like myself.
I have an INTJ bf and let's just say they need to work on being more feely lol although he has helped me mentally mature more as an INFP 🥺
But, the world is too draining U-U 😂
(INFP here lol)
@@KittyUnicorn56XD Couldn't agree more honestly. Even back as a kid, when everybody was excited to go out for party, I was more excited for it to end so I could go back home haha.
@@pear1ycur1y83 INTJs have hard shells, but deep inside they are fragile! And afraid to show that side. But eventually it will come out :]
Btw, if any INFP reads this, how did you guys meet your SO? Because I rarely come across your kind, and when I finally do, they are taken.
INFP: *makes a tiny mistake* IM SORRY
Everyone: it's no big deal. You're okay
INFP: You sure?? Oh i'm so sorry
Everyone: don't be sorry it's okay
INFP: .....sorry
Pia Nano
Me a couple days ago ^.^
My friend always gets annoyed with how much I say sorry and she always laughs and says “no more sorry!” 😂😂😂
@@zm1197 same same
Yes...
Yepppppp
Frank : infps think everything is a personal attack!
Me,an infp, with tears in my eyes : is-is this a.. is this a perso-
Omg I relate
Definitely, he attacked us verbally 🥺😅 he's an infj totally roasted us😂😂
I'm an INFP and I'm sorry
sorry
sprry
sorry*
sorry
I’m sorry too 😭
"obsseses over a relationship with someone they've barely spoken to"
OMG! I FEEL SO ATTACKED!😭
Lol!
STOP SAME 😂❤
I love the INFPs I know! So stylish, shy, chivalrous and creative! But do not ask them what they want. Deer in the headlights.
I recently told my INFP son, I'm sorry I was so bossy when you were little. (INFJ here) I didn't realize I was stressing him out and boring him to death with my "insightful" advice and lectures. XP Now we are closer than ever!
Hahaha Ni doms sure love to explain in excess, but your advice is necessary (referring to INTJ Dad)
True.
Very much tru
Oh we know what we want.. we just don't want to be an inconvenience to others and not hear their opinions before representing our own...
"Will the INFP dismantle my couch if bored?"
Me an INFP: Yes.
Elfaro I’ve done this before... free armchair on CL became my hobby
i used to pluck out the stuffing from my chair so yup XD
I was laughing over this until I realized Ive done something similar. My friend was trying to put together a new fan and couldnt figure out how to put it together so my thought was 'Ill just take it apart and put it back together with the other part so then it will all fit together, Ive done it with pens before' and then my friend panicked because I just randomly started dismantling things while she went to the other room to get the instructions... Im not very bright sometimes.
@@gjones9186 accurate AF
....I wanted to learn about upholstery...
“Good INFP, have a treat!”
Why did this make me perk up and feel good about myself lmao attacking my type is the best thing you’ve done I love this
As an INFP, being compared to a dog is one of the best compliments I've ever gotten.
Yeah! owo
Hell no, it’s insulting to me
🙄 it should'nt be "just like a dog". although what he said is true, but still insulting :))
Dogs are to eager for company - I'm more like a cat - observing others in solitude.
I’m a lot like a puppy. If I admire someone I tend follow them around.
As an INFP I always laugh at the 'we're always crying' comment. I legit spent over 2 hours yesterday teared up for all of the native wildlife killed in the bushfires over here.
S Lou Every type has been crying over the Australia fires and animals
I'm weird but i cried for 2 hours with the death and destruction of a fictional word in a game. I'm so hurt that I haven't have return to the game to finish at %100 🥺🥺😭😭
I had before-bed-crying session for people who get muscular dystrophy
I always cry with short stories..but i also dont like opening up and let people i dont trust see me cry
As an INFP I cried once because I watched a montage of a pretty forest. 😂
Oh my god the apologizing thing isn’t even exaggerated I remember stubbing my toe once in an empty room and saying “sorry” really quietly without even thinking
Oreo someone bumped into me and I said sorry when they were about to apologize.🤦🏻♀️
Woahh 😂😂
I said sorry to the lady after me in line when I got out of the public toilet... in really low whisper
Omg I just laughed out loud and snorted at this comment 😅🤣
@@nanochan1168 what a mood
As an infp all I want are pets and love
Oh my god I'm a dog
As an INFJ I am love.
Literally yes! I agree hahaha
@@daniii3915 As an another INFP Im am Depression.
*me: INFP cat person*
Oh my god...I’ve become the very thing I swore to destroy..
3:30 I'm just scared of replying so I procrastinate until I've forgotten that someone texted me
That's a huge problem for me right now xd
Can't be more accurate than that!
It’s nice to not be the only one 3 years later :)
This had me giggling... I'm an INFP, but I'm comfy with myself and do not get offended easily. Smash like if you're a confident INFP :)
I'm getting there. Looking in to Philosophy, buddhism and listening to Jordan Peaterson's lectures is a huge help at making it happen.
@@KeeperOfKeys22 I listen to Peterson!! Some helpful stuff from him, but nothing beats Dan Mohler because he lives and demonstrates what he believes and teaches like few others I've known of in modern times. Authentic truth - INFP approved.
Me too! People are even surprised that I really take action immediately because of their constructive criticism ;)
I have my confident days but most of the time my INFP is showing lol
Im not on that level of confident yet but i just hope ill be confident enough soon. So ill leave a like
INFJ actually means "I Need Frank James." Don't let him fool you.
"Why doesn't anyone understand me? Oh crap, she understands me, I need to GTFO, now!"
😂
So true 😂😂😂
I'm weak! Soo true😂😂😂🤣💀
I’m so INFP that I’ve been in a relationship with Frank James for the last year and he doesn’t even know.
He’s so INFJ that this is actually kind of the perfect relationship for him.
I hope the barista at Starbucks doesn’t mind…
I hope he will see this😅😅
I sincerely hope you know your every word is being silently judged by thousands upon thousands of INFP girls.
It took me five years in UA-cam to start commenting 💀
@@cbcimutebi5564 SAME
Lolol
No, INFP's are judging THEMSELVES based off his words.
@@cbcimutebi5564 nahh I as an INFP am pretty aggressive when it comes to discussions. I'm lowkey a debator lmao
One time I was in a store and I bumped into a mannequin by accident and immediately apologized to it before realizing...it was just a mannequin.
TRUE INFP STATUS 😂
ENTP here and same thing xD
i guess i am kust clumbsy and well raised xD
As you should have😆😆
I feel that so much. I apologize to people when I pass by them too closely. I apologize if somebody bumps into me. In public when I'm not with friends of family, the only words I know are "I'm sorry."
Kara Shea one time I was talking to someone and I was saying sorry about something and then he goes to me "you should stop apologizing so much" and not 2 seconds go by and I apologize again... for apologizing the first time lol 🤦🏻♀️ Why do we do this to ourselves lol
@@maryh2730 There's polite, then there's overly polite.... And then there's INFPs....
someone: hurts INFP's friend
INFP: flips table
INFP: apologizes to table
INFP: cries softly over broken table and holds a funeral for it
Hahaha, so relatable to me haha
And friend has no idea what INFP is even so upset about because friend is an INTP with no spine and wants to appear normal.
Oh my god I have literally been in a similar situation to this 😂 except instead of holding a funeral I just cried and kept apologising over and over to the people who actually owned the table because I put my fist through it and felt super shitty for damaging someone else’s property😂
I wouldn't flip the table because I know that I'm gonna feel terrible for hurting it. But, I'd definitely be really mad at the person who hurt my friend.
I know everything it's not 100% accurate for every single person and even though we are INFPs we can have little differences but yeah, I would burn that table to ashes and don't feel a thing. XD
As an INFP girl who's dying for a gf, I scream for a relationship on the inside but actually NEVER talk to any strangers at all.
Strangers are strange, that's why.
I once had an old lady talk to me on a tram about the importance of looking people in the eye. She was an oncology nurse. It was inspiring and TERRIFYING at the same time. Her gaze never left my eyes.
@@ZielonaPastela i can imagine... Having someone looking into your eyes is scary... It's even more scary when you look back at them (that's why I hardly look people in the eyes)
@@its7amm It is scary! I even tried to work with those weird UA-cam videos where you have a person looking at you for several minutes to practice eye contact... But they don't work, the real thing is something else.
@@ZielonaPastela i feel u sis. For me, i couldn't even look at the camera during a Zoom call or a Google meet. Not to mention stare someone in the eyes for several minutes. Big obstacle for making new friends🤣
@@its7amm If they are an INFP they may also be looking sideways 😂. I don't know why, I sometimes feel that if I look someone in the eye for too long something bad will happen. Nothing too specific, just bad.
As an INFP, Everyone thinks I'm happy and emotionally stable so they come to me for advice, to which I am able to give actually good advice.
But no I am not as happy and emotionally stable as you think I am and for whatever reason, I suck at giving advice to myself so I just suffer in silence because I'm too scared to open up but at the same time I tell a lot of people really personal things but the truth is they aren't that personal to me and actually double as a cover so people don't know the things I'm really worried about. I'm just damn good at not letting it show brother.
Edit: Just want to say I'm glad that this little... rant? Vent? Could resonate with so many people! However, I just want to be sure that nobody leaves this comment with a sour taste in their mouth. Being an INFP is great! I mean this comment in itself was just me pouring out my heart a bit and seeing if people could relate, I'm glad some of you can! But yeah I don't want anyone getting down about it, it is what it is and us INFPs have a very important and crucial role to play in life, just like everyone else
I felt this right down to my core, sis.
.... you got me there 🤧😳
You’re literally describing how i am???
Gosh yeah. That was so spot on.
Oppssies 🙈 its just the first layer. Stay tune to the second layer.
I’m an INFP.
The thing I perceive the most from this:
The INFP girl is the original manic pixie dream girl.
Omg yes I ducking believe it
i can vouch for that
Oh fuck
Yeah, whenever I see something about maniac pixie dream girls I relate so much it hurts. I'm not trying to be like childlike, clumsy, artistic and melancholic, it's just part of who I am.
I'm feel so dumb complaining about that.
@@marina2150 i can relate so hard. I honestly hate being childlike tho bc people think I'm dumb.
I love how his beard just disappears half way through the video leaving a saucy little mustache.
I was thinking the same thing haha. I thought I was going crazy.
I was looking for this comment lol
😂😂
💚😛😍😘💚
whYy (what the...)
Frank : “Good INFP, have a treat”
Me : instinctive serotonin rush 😊😳
"I don't FEEL the AUTHENTIC CONNECTION. I am DONE with you!"😂😂🤣🤣 That line had me ROLLING. I'm INFP but I don't think I could be that mean. But if I'm not feeling it, I'm not feeling it, ygm?
😂😂😂😂😂😂
I couldn't say it, but would surely distance myself in silence >_
I'm an INFP woman and my boyfriend is INFJ. We've been together and living together for almost 15 years now! And we're still going strong, still very much in love, having good laughs and fascinating conversations. So yes, I'd say INFP and INFJ are a pretty good match ;)
INFP-T been 10+YEARS With my women..
Not a relationship,, but I’m an INFP and my best friend is an INFJ. I always say we r literally friend soulmates or something I swear
@@aiti1028 My best friend is an INFJ too and I also think we're soulmates.
awww thats so sweet Im INFP and my crush is INFJ lmao
15 years and still not married yet? 😳
Someone once told me that I didn’t have to say sorry for doing the thing. I said, oh. Ok. Sorry. 😭
Yep. Feeling sorry about almost everything, then feeling sorry because you're saying sorry too much and is making the other person uncomfortable... Happens all the time and drives me nuts. I have to bite my lip pretty hard to stop myself from apologising all the time
Same!!!
Actually I don't think there will be anything wrong with saying sorry many times. Just think it's a polite gesture and *not blame yourself*
Thats not how you finish a sentence starting by "Somebody once told me.. "
NA NJI I have a problem saying sorry in general 😅 I think it but don’t say it
I'm a male INFP but it's good to know that I can make the ultimate girlfriend I guess
me too. very sad. anyway...
Compromise: Femboys.
Is it just me or whenever I have a question on my mind I search it up on the internet and get extremely interested in that topic. My friend once went through my search history and she was very concerned about me. 😂
I feel you 😂 I go to EVERY source of information until there's no more to look up to 🤣 I become such a nerd and I love it.
me too but ultimately i become a jack of all trades, master of none
@@sofitocyn100 story of my life
Yup, same
Aaah. That explains. I went into this rabbit hole of serial killers lately. No I'm not planning to be one 😂
Are you an INFP having a bad day? 1:58
Bad days dont exist for us!!
Thanks
CeeCee Jimz I’m having a pretty shitty week tho ...
@@bushikciwa perspective matters
I honestly enjoyed getting praise here
I read the other day that we INFPs are inherently on the spectrum for BPD by our very nature, due to our sensitivity. How awesome is that? Meanwhile, we live in a world ignorant to psychology, and rampant with the worst kind of projection, and full of people willing to tell you what you want to hear in order to use your care and warmth to fill a void within themselves.
INFPs: Psychology needs to be your favorite thing in the world so you can learn to read people, and so you can cope better with the understanding that people are messed up and untrustworthy due largely to emotional repression. This is pathologically passed on in our culture, and most cultures, in how we neglect a child's emotional development by suppressing expressions of negative emotion in favor of them doing what we want, meeting our needs and expectations, and conformity. In fact, that emotional repression and lack of psychological growth is the fundamental cause of all that's wrong in the world. Hatred and war can only come from a place of emotional repression.
i think about this legit every day, and it's so so so refreshing to see people with similar thoughts
I love psychology! I recommend Dr Grande's youtube channel ua-cam.com/users/RioGrande51
I really love the topic of narcissism! I realized the people I felt unhappy with are narcissists! Then I dont blame myself anymore! A total shift in mindset!
I prefer philosophy and history to ponder on the human condition...and memes cause they're lit
@@cdorothy444 watch it all the time since I've discovered I was in a 4 year relationship with a vulnerable narcissist a few mths ago.
@@thunderouswanderer7753 those are right alongside psychology for me. Anything that stirs the craving for knowledge and fires up the intellect eh? It's all just cetegories for the sake of our understanding of a single subject we call life after all ;)
I'm an infp lady and I found my husband by joining the computer club at the university. I know almost nothing about computers, I just wanted to date a geeky guy. It worked out, 14 years of marriage later and we're still going strong.
FJ: You're not a wizard.
ME: *Cries salty INFP tears*
Danielle Hunt ewwww.
Why be a wizard when we are obviously just robots made of flesh? Running the same loop of lifeless existence over and over.
Strict-9 studios Sssssh! *Fellow robot, the humans can not cope with this forbidden knowledge...* ;P
Yer a wizard, Danielle!!!
-another infj
@@TheEmpressElizabeth I'm a wot?! XD
But we are wizards! 💜🌿✨
i realised he had a mustache 10 minutes in the video.
that's why I'm not a sensor
I noticed it too at 8 minutes but at the start, Frank was more unkempt. Did the INFP GF change you? :O
I noticed it after reading your comment😂 thanks fellow INFP❤️😅
Guess I'm still asleep. The only thing I noticed was reading Voltaire :)
Wow, I didn’t notice. O.o
He was a bit unsaved for about 6 min, and then after that he shaved the rest and left a bit of moustache. I guess that's why you didn't notice it.
"These extreme shifts in moods, are what some doctor's might call a disorder" LMAO 🤪😂😂🤣
This is like reading my diary.
y’know i came here to be complimented and honestly I’m feeling so attacked rn
This video sums up the first 2.5 decades of my life as an INFP.
5:17 my fav. part. Cuz it's not looking great anymore #exausted
"Not everything you read on the internet is true" - Abraham Lincoln
Thumbnail: "INFP....the ultimate girlfriend?"
Me a single-as-a-pringle INFP: *Click*
... uhm... but pringles come in these tall tubes full of chips... oh, are you one of those people that's into a group relationship sort of set up?
@@kstormgeistgem461 Once the INFP pops, uhh..the fun don't...I don't know.
I just came back to this video and saw my comment and I was like uhhhh what do they mean, XD single as a Pringle is just a alliterative turn of phrase you could say, its just means I'm single and not even close to going out with someone XD
And get roasted by his sarcasm yet he's right, still we will be like only🤗...
-gal with the same phase as you dear buddy.
"don't invade an infp girlfriend's space" is so true, it's like the red light for me
Cuddling is fun, I like to cuddle. But space is important, give me space when I need it.
I honestly think that INFPs are like cats.
@@ZielonaPastela Do INFPs scratch? That would be cute.
@@CaveyMoth no, we just poke other's elbows. softly.
Me, an infp: raised in a home where emotions are judged and made fun of, everyone I know, them: why don’t you have any emotions?, me: you don’t know the half of me😂
Saaaaaaaaaammmmmmeeeeee
That’s why I bottle them 🥺
Oh my God...I feel this.🥺
yep that's me and they said it's alright to cry lol
Thia means you have trauma from abuse. I feel that once we heal, we may become ambiverted.
I've done things like hypnosis, EFT, Qigong and energy healing to heal trauma. Slowly, I'm realising that a lot of personality is trauma. Didn't like my old behaviours. Love my confidence and faith in life now
As an infp, I can’t stand it when aliens invade my space 😤😤
I actually almost cried because of a dead bee. I see so many bees randomly dying at my house...I feel bad for them T^T
And then one of the bees was still alive and I tried to help it go to the plants but it stung me. My hand hurt, but I felt more sad for the bee because after it stung, it dies. So I was the reason that bee died 😭
Now I’m sad about the bee too 😭
That happened to me last summer. I stepped on a bee and she stung me. I bent down and told her how sorry I was. 😢
@Gabriella Gaby I'm an infps I don't cry easily but when anything bad happened to my family or pets that I cherish the most died, I overflow like fountain 😂 but behind closed doors
Would You Help A Bee Survive After It Stung You? | Outrageous Acts of Science
ua-cam.com/video/nTVsqc2CCGo/v-deo.html
😭😭😭😭😭😭
The INFP disappearing when a text arrives is so me HAHAHAHAHAHAHA Help, I want to answer but I don't know what to say :(
Same🤣 That always happened to me. Just like this morning, my friends texted something in the group and I really don't know what to reply. I wanted to ignore and do my own stuff but at the same time, I feel kinda bad cuz one of my friends seem like there's something in her mind(you know what I mean?) so I tried saying, "HELLO" but then...
no one answered. They all went *krik krik*
...
I mean, DID I DO SOMETHING WRONG? Am I boring? Or am I just a bother?😢
Thankfully my bestfriend is an ENFP, I say whatever I want and sometimes just leave them on seen coz I know she understands I don't know what to say sometimes so she fills in for me in conversations
@@thesundaygist5019 relatable af
“Have difficulty scolding and punishing others” is an INFP weakness 😂😂😂😂 I must get stronger at scolding and punishing others!!
i'm rather good at it...thanks ESTP father... :-(
It depends on the scenario I believe, even parenting does not always involve punishment nowadays...
We can't 😁 did tried and apologised right after followed by heart to heart talk session with some explanations of why what just happened with waterworks offcourse
I’m 18 and an INFP. I haven’t dated yet but I hope to be the “perfect” girlfriend or at least as close as possible😂 I’m too afraid of hurting feelings
You will, and they will hurt you too. It's part of growing Timmy 🤣
It's okay though, we have to learn to forgive as it's also another face of love.
(yeah I'm very INFP...)
@@carliiuxiiz i just move on when im hurt
Still struggle with forgiveness if someone criticise me extremely over and over
I'm 28 and an INFP, and I haven't dated SINCE I was 18. XP
I'm 50 and have also never dated. I know there is not a man who could love me and if I did find one, he would want more of my time and attention than I am willing to give to a non-fictional person. I write and writers do not have time to fall in love.
It can be done. I've been married for 30 years to my ESTJ. You just have to be more terrified of being alone, adrift, unloved, and unaccepted for the rest of your life than you are terrified of the challenges of finding a mate. You have NO idea how fearful I was of making the wrong choice. I put a LOT of thought into what I really needed to be safe and whole before I seriously dated. Insane rationality driven by paranoia. I worked hard to figure out what I needed instead of what I wanted. Big difference.
I first met my guy three days after I figured it out and six weeks later I realized that THIS man really was MY guy. Took me another seven weeks of very awkward (mostly fruitless) flirtation to get his attention. In the end I was so frustrated with his obliviousness that this overcame my own feelings of shame (for being an awkward idiot) and made me more blunt and forward than I'd ever been in my life. The cool thing is that this set a tone with the entire relationship. I've been safe (hell, it's necessary) to be clear with what I want from day one. Once he knows, I get it. (If he can. I've had to understand his limitations and only ask for things he's able to provide. I'm not getting heart-felt poetry, but he does have it on his schedule to bring me flowers on the first Saturday of every month.)
This is hilarious! As an INFP I once had a friend who said “stop saying sorry all the time!”, I proceeded to apologize just in a different way and exited the social situation promptly. 😂 can’t help it I guess!
ugh i hate people who tell me to stop saying sorry all the time, it literally means you don't like me cause that's like my core personality
@@kalucawow that makes sense... My ex used to tell me that and he ended up getting toxic later. I always thought that of course he was right and I was probably just being too annoying at the time.
I know a few INFPs and they are such wonderful people; I connect with them so much. I freakin love INFPs.
Thank you, this made me feel good. :)
Kara Shea aw, that makes me happy. It’s true
This comment made my day aloooot better😢💓🔥🔥
Omg, I was crying and you and this video made me feel so much better, thank you! 💞
ImHappy I understand how you feel; sending you virtual huuuugs 😌
INFPs r sensitive ppl and they do care about world and wana make everyone happy. They have a natural healing aura that attracts many broken ppl but in process of keeping everyone happy they stress out their selves way too much
So, INFPs r like cute puppies who just wana make this world a better place ❤❤❤
They r innocent childlike and angelic but they r not weak. Try to mess with them n they will turn your world upside down :D
-INFP
Do you know the difference between them and ISFJs?
Scm Y i know why you mean. People seem to be confusing them.
This makes me emotional, thank you
@@mariathomson4492 I guess I'm just a little confused as that description sounded like an ISFJ to me, but maybe they are both similar that way?
Scm Y they are actually SUPER similar in behavior. Pls don't take offense, sometimes people converge in ideals. I'm an INFP and my little brother is an ISFJ and we have so much in common that when we switch internet accounts, people usually don't notice a difference. It makes trolling very fun.
I'm INFP and my ex's said I'm the rarest to find, hard to forget and a person full of love. They said at first, we won't be together for a long time..but after a month and year, they appreciated me more than i imagine and they don't want to let me go. But here is the thing, those people I've date tend to love me more without they realised they become more emotional and restrict my freedom (which is INFP thing ), then i got hurt, gave them chance to realised it what they have done, they do it again. In the end, I can't bear with it..so i break up with them. I'm loyal.. but i tend to seek for win win situation physically, mentally and emotionally. I take it seriously. That's why I'm afraid to fall in love and have any relationship again. I'm sorry to a people who tried to take my attention. But i just can't open up anymore.
*FYI, english not my first language. Tq
i hear that.
Ikr .. restricting part is hurtful
that sucks.. as an infp i just wish for a relationship that allows us both the freedom which is why if I ever date someone, I don't want to become a toxic and manipulative gf bc i believe that if we really have faith in each other, restricting someone in doing what makes them happy is unnecessary and i hate it if it happens
This is me EXACTLY omg I couldn’t have explained it better
As an 100% INFP girl, I hate telling people I'm sensitive or consider myself as the victim, and btw, I'm not that much of a crybaby.
"cries softly over a dead bee"
Pretty much this. I wrote a poem about dying millipede because I accidentally stepped on it and felt so bad. I still feel guilty about it to this day 😂
MEEEE 😂😂 I always think I wouldn’t survive if I’d run an animal over with my car 😭
Ya know whats just as bad? When its raining and all the snails are out and you accidentally step on one. The guilt that follows oml
I'm sorry, I do care about animals but I don't have any kind of soft spots for insects, including bees, centipedes, or whatever
I laughed at my baby cousin when he was crying and felt bad and cried with him 😂
@@elizabethharris1851 ey me too lol
The waknesses always gets me 😂
Every single time!!
Me too! 😆 Why is that funny..?
@Colleen Dioneda SAME. I laugh out loud literally.
Joey Jo Joe Shabadu probably coz he's a wizard 😅
Me tooooo 😂 every single time 🤣
Dude the “airport girl if ur out there.....I don’t even know if I remember what you look like”
That hit me...cuz I do that....
I felt both triggered and entertained while watching this 😂😢😭
Me: "Naah, that doesn't fit. Not all INFPs are that sensitive..."
Frank: "You're not a wizard."
Me: *starts to tear up*
This moment got to me, I’d like to live in my fantasy forever and wife Luna lovegood and live in hagrids hut and become a counsellor at Hogwarts and bake cookie for clients:) ive been living in this fantasy for 2 weeks. I’m 10 years too late to get my hogwarts letter, BUT I can still go there in my imagination. I’m a wizard I swear.
I hope you get your hogwarts letter one day too- it’s never too late:)
@@beejoy7076 We might be in a witchy world already and just have to see it 🧙♀️ 🧙
@@hagebuttea you are onto something here, life is already magical:)
My response to that is, "No, but I am a druid. Hogwarts isn't good enough for me!"
My mom is an INFP. She's vegan and single!
Please be my dad.
Kat ^^^ My kids in 5 years.
that's me too haha I just don't have a child
I was like, heeey, did my kids write this? lol
“does it count as an apology if i don’t regret it?” why am i like that
The only good thing about being a Female INFP is that, when we find someone, they’re really good. Bc it’s very hard to find someone. Plus, it means that someone loves us so much that they wanted to know more. So, they opened us up.
At least there is a good thing as a female INFP compared to a male INFP
"this is ironic, they want an authentic connection but then they hold back, so you can't create one"
that sounds about right
But we do...
-infp😅😬
I'm an INFP married to an INFJ, spoiler alert: it's awesome.
Was that too braggy? :(
Also an INFP that married an INFJ. It was awesome at the beginning. Then it turned ugly. Currently divorced
Also an INFP married to an INFJ! Total soulmate connection - it's a lot of work but it's so so beautiful and good 🥰
Maya W. I agree. I thought he was my soulmate, but he hurt me too much and I can't forgive him.
Noooo I’m here for it and that gives me hope!!!! (INFP here)
Malieka they didn’t deserve you. Trust me. INFP to INFP 💖 I know how much you tried to make it better. They didn’t care and that’s on them not you 💖
“I don’t feel an authentic connection with you, I’m done.” Yup that’s me 🤣🤣🤣