The Bam Margera Interview | That Surprise Podcast Ep. 1

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  • Опубліковано 30 вер 2024
  • Welcome to the first episode of That Surprise Podcast. This week I sit down with Bam Margera.
    Legal fund to help with lawsuit Bam's guardian filed against me for telling the truth: www.gofundme.c...

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  • @KorinNicole
    @KorinNicole Рік тому +166

    The way he is rushing and info dumping reminds me of someone who has not been listened to in a really long time.

    • @LameosaurusRex
      @LameosaurusRex 5 місяців тому +9

      Exactly what I came here to say.

    • @80deeann
      @80deeann 2 місяці тому +4

      Yeah same. I trauma dump like this alot.

    • @12kayalabai
      @12kayalabai Місяць тому

      ​@@80deeann same here

  • @NUFAN1313
    @NUFAN1313 8 місяців тому +81

    I cannot believe what a crazy rabbit hole this entire thing has become. There's a huge cast of characters that don't seem to have anything in common, but they're all something connected. At this point, I fully believe Lima is a genuinely dangerous person, most likely working with even more dangerous people. The web is indeed twisted and I am SO invested.

    • @12kayalabai
      @12kayalabai Місяць тому

      She was probably 😢forced into from a young age.. no telling what kind of abuse she suffered

  • @ezmima1175
    @ezmima1175 Рік тому +579

    Bam using that pink fluffy pen to make his points has me cracking up 😂

  • @xxprettylittlethings
    @xxprettylittlethings Рік тому +556

    It's so painful to see him ramble like this, because I understand it. When a lot has happened to you and you finally are in a place to tell somebody it all comes rushing out with out any semblance of order. You'll be part way through one story and it'll trigger another story that feels more urgent to tell. It's like a dam breaking.

    • @spiritqueen1978
      @spiritqueen1978 Рік тому +53

      Also, Bam has ADHD which will make your thoughts go all over the place.

    • @kelleibabbles
      @kelleibabbles Рік тому +31

      Yes I can relate to this! And yes add/adhd makes it so much worse! Also when you can’t talk to people much/often, have to filter yourself or lie, keep stuff in etc.. and some of it is just who some of us are too, but these circumstances exasperates it greatly! I’m like this, I’m adhd, probably neurodivergent also, and I constantly struggle with this (plus I talk too much, even sober). It’s so hard, impossible even, to control in the best of situations, so I can’t imagine him even attempting to in this one, after all he’s been through. And let me make it clear that this has nothing to do with substance use or abuse, being sober or not! And what makes it worse is people who act like your high or crazy bc you can’t keep your thoughts straight and you start rambling even more when you realize they are giving you “that look” or that type of reaction. The harder you try to control it the worse it gets in my personal experience..

    • @candic0re
      @candic0re Рік тому +2

      Agreed.

    • @x518BEATDOWNx
      @x518BEATDOWNx Рік тому +12

      Yep! Manic scatterbrain. I get it from time-to-time myself.

    • @giannaraggio1207
      @giannaraggio1207 Рік тому +1

      😊

  • @elisabethhowse
    @elisabethhowse Рік тому +166

    You've come full circle...it takes the dude a moment to gather his thoughts and verbalise, so it's really refreshing that you just let him talk, and how interesting and charming your conversation is. You definitely Did A Thing, lol.

    • @bjinvestigates
      @bjinvestigates  Рік тому +50

      aww thank you

    • @elisabethhowse
      @elisabethhowse Рік тому +16

      @@bjinvestigates you are most welcome, you had your name dragged through some shit to get here, and you deserve credit where credit was due. Your interview was cozy and professional, and given enough time to speak Bam is interesting as all hell to listen to. The SpongeBob "take that haters" was fucking hilarious...you took the flak and then hit the target in the classiest way...lol..

    • @elisabethhowse
      @elisabethhowse Рік тому +12

      @@bjinvestigates if you'd cut him off every second as soon as he went on little side points, I'd have been watching stevo interview him...fnar fnar.

    • @anamegoeshere
      @anamegoeshere Рік тому

      @@bjinvestigates why you interviewing a "has been" hmmmm i mean bam threaten to kill his own brother but heyy lets get him for a interivew........ ARE WE SERIOUS?
      bj is a fail and i guess will INTERVIEW ANYONE as long as she makes $$$ off of it

    • @Terryterryterryterryterry
      @Terryterryterryterryterry 8 місяців тому +6

      @@bjinvestigatesdude, fr. Those clips of him with Steve-O were heart breaking for me. You can tell Bam's been through a lot. And sure, you could say he brought some of it upon himself, but I don't think it's helpful at all to say I told you so. Yes, he's fucked up, but that doesn't mean he deserves to be screwed over.

  • @Knives101
    @Knives101 Рік тому +43

    I know a lot of Bam's erratic behavior could be blamed on him not being sober but I wonder if Bam has been checked for CTE/TBI? With all the slams and head shots over the years, it is very possible that he is suffering from CTE/TBI. Look at how Antonio Brown has acted.

    • @nikkiforte
      @nikkiforte 9 місяців тому +8

      That's a very good point.

    • @sarahalbers5555
      @sarahalbers5555 9 місяців тому +9

      OMG! I said the exact same thing. Repeated head trauma will definitely scramble your brain. The list of Pro Football players who have been diagnosed both pre and post mortem.
      He needs a full neurological work up. I feel for this guy, I really do.

  • @jenniferbach4658
    @jenniferbach4658 Рік тому +357

    I am 3+ years sober, my heart aches for him. I know why he drinks. It fucking hurts when you feel used by everyone you love, and gaslit the moment you speak up. He probably feels like a puppet cash cow. He's being used and abused by the fools claiming to want to help him.

    • @angelapate4888
      @angelapate4888 Рік тому +14

      It truly is heartbreaking and I def agree! Huge Congratulations to u!! That's a huge accomplishment & I hope u keep up the great work ur putting into ur sobriety journey!! ❤

    • @deirdrecorey3876
      @deirdrecorey3876 Рік тому +22

      He reminds me of BRITTANY SPEARS...... He's got so much to get out & trauma tells him this could be his only chance to speak.... It's rambling to us, it makes sense to him. I hope he reads comments. All of us here do honestly care about his well being... FU@K LA AND EVERYONE THERE.... JUST LIVE A REGULAR LIFE..... GET SOME ACREAGE AND CHOP WOOD FOR HEAT...

    • @greg-op2jh
      @greg-op2jh Рік тому +8

      Yeah I have been sober for over 2 and it does just make my heart ache. Congrats on being sober love❤

    • @lolalynnk
      @lolalynnk Рік тому +19

      It is heart breaking. I hurt for Bam also bc I know how he feels. Sobriety is one of those things that can never be forced upon someone. People need to learn compassion and understanding for others struggling with addiction and mental health disorders. No one chooses to be an addict. We can only choose whether or not we'll use. There's ways to encourage someone without taking their basic human rights away.

    • @Goldie9899
      @Goldie9899 Рік тому +9

      Agree completely!! He needs to be around supportive, positive people he can trust!!

  • @NotFalling4it
    @NotFalling4it Рік тому +51

    I feel like we saw the real Bam here, he seemed relaxed and comfortable. Polar opposite to the Steve O interview where I think he was spoken to like he was an idiot. Clearly he’s not.

    • @blastfiendsunite420
      @blastfiendsunite420 Рік тому

      Yeah cause he could say whatever he wanted and not be held accountable. And no, he was spoken to like an addict coming from the perspective of an ex addict...

    • @NotFalling4it
      @NotFalling4it 7 місяців тому

      @@blastfiendsunite420So because you’re an addict you think you deserve to be spoken to like an idiot, right got it.
      Not what I would allow that’s for sure, but I guess we all have different standards of how we allow others to treat us.
      I think you should lift your standards if that’s what you find acceptable.

    • @Retr0-Cynik
      @Retr0-Cynik 2 місяці тому

      He was sober when he was interviewed by Steve-O. Dude is wasted in this.

    • @mysschief
      @mysschief Місяць тому

      @@blastfiendsunite420it’s not because he’s an addict, and that’s coming from another addict. It’s to keep the leash on him, and to discredit his character.

  • @Tearingthroughyouropinion
    @Tearingthroughyouropinion 10 місяців тому +51

    This is phenomenon investigative journalism at its finest! BJ needs to get Britney Spears and Bam on this show together! Now that would be a fireworks truth display!

    • @KevinGonzales-zv9xb
      @KevinGonzales-zv9xb 7 місяців тому

      I don't think Britney would go anywhere near that bum! Britney is a beloved Entertainer, this guy is a slob!

    • @tabithalarue
      @tabithalarue 5 місяців тому +1

      I'm sure they'd have almost identical experiences

    • @caitlazers46
      @caitlazers46 4 місяці тому

      I would pay a lot of money that I don’t have for BJ to interview Britney.

  • @Journalist1113
    @Journalist1113 Рік тому +84

    I just want to give the man a hug, he really seems like he wants to be understood. I'll be your friend, Bam. You need good friends and people who'll be on your side and not influence you negatively.

    • @francoisnel5253
      @francoisnel5253 Рік тому +12

      He needs to learn about boundaries, accountability... things his parents never taught him. He also needs truth in his life about the realities, such as Steve-O who tried to help him in that regard. Everyone wants the fame he brings, he has bipolar and when on a manic episode / drug and alcohol binge he doesn't need people motivate that spiral of ideas, but stability. The drugs and alcohol makes everything worse. He needs to treat his anxiety and have solid support.

  • @lillylou1163
    @lillylou1163 Рік тому +411

    As a ex h addict I get it. He isn't ready to stop drinking. You can not force people into sobriety and make them sober. I really hope bam finds his sobriety on his terms soon. Thank you for letting him talk. Ik addicts sound crazy but when we're forced into treatment and go through all this we have so much to say it's almost word vomit. It's stressful and you feel crazy. Again thank you for being good to bam.

    • @4ThoseAbout2RaxxWeSaluteU
      @4ThoseAbout2RaxxWeSaluteU Рік тому +15

      It's beyond addiction at this point. He simply took too many hits to the head.

    • @ediesaffron3593
      @ediesaffron3593 Рік тому +35

      Exactly!! I’m an ex opiate addict & the only reason why I’m sober is because I finally WANTED to get help. Forcing someone into treatment doesn’t work, it might for a little bit but it won’t last. The person has to really truly want to get better, I wish more would understand that. I personally didn’t understand it myself until I dealt with addiction myself.
      Ps.. congrats on sobriety, proud of you ❤

    • @caylaflower_iii
      @caylaflower_iii Рік тому +9

      @@4ThoseAbout2RaxxWeSaluteU this is absolutely just not true. He just needs to be sober a while and allow his body to recover. You'd be very surprised at how a person in recovery can bounce back.

    • @lmpfunk
      @lmpfunk Рік тому +20

      @@ediesaffron3593 Same here! I was forced into treatment 3 times to no avail. Finally when I was on my own it ran its course and I was SO READY to be done. That was 7.5 years ago! I’d even argue that forcing treatment actually elongates active addiction (adds more shame and guilt which further perpetuates the cycle)
      Congrats to all that have stepped away from a substance, whatever that looks like for you. I’m proud of you, and you’re loved ❤

    • @rabajdajr3001
      @rabajdajr3001 Рік тому +2

      ​@@ediesaffron3593I mean I partially agree with you , but from losing 5 ex girlfriends from opioids I would have to say you still need to try. People want to do things on their own time but unfortunately when you're playing with hard drugs any day could be your last, so it's really no joke there is no better time. People need to try it's a process, in life many times you can't wait for your perfect moment with anything life passes you by or passes you away. I honestly wish I tried harder and forced them. I tried plenty spent tens of thousands in and out of rehabs and Suboxone, but I should have just said enough is enough and held them to it. Maybe a few of them would have survived. All young beautiful women gone before 30, some leaft children behind. This epidemic is horrible and we need to make a change

  • @aquamarine0023
    @aquamarine0023 Рік тому +80

    My heart is touched that Bam wanted to come on your channel and that you gave him an outlet for him to finally speak! It is heartbreaking that he has been essentially held prisoner without even access to the internet and kept in the dark. These people around him, like Lima and his mother et. al. want to keep it that way to keep him easily controlled. Bam seems like essentially a kind hearted guy who comes from a dysfunctional family and he is an easy target for these vultures to take advantage of. Thank you BJ again for giving him a voice, he seemed so very touched for all you have done to advocate for him and protect his rights. You truly are using your legal knowledge to give a voice to those being taken advantage of and I respect you for this immensely. Bam, I wish you all the best and hope that you can love yourself enough to keep getting better and to get clean and sober and get rid of the vultures in your life sucking the life out of you. Cut them out even if they are family if they are toxic. Keep getting better for you and for your little boy! Wishing you the best ❤️

    • @ggvbayareaoakland5914
      @ggvbayareaoakland5914 Рік тому +3

      Don't you think maybe bam is the toxic one? I mean I watched for 20 years of Bam beating up his step dad, scare the crap out of his mom. He has burned bridges and is completely in denial. Bam needs some, hard, tough love! He needs to dry out for atleast a year and get help.
      I'm alive today because my family gave me tough love and I got help!

  • @_ms.mannequin_
    @_ms.mannequin_ Рік тому +24

    I think it's bullshit his own brother lives in Bam's house! And has a restraining order against him! Bam worked hard for everything he got from the ground up, His brother is a grown man who should have his OWN house! It's sick and sad!

  • @uwu-di3hr
    @uwu-di3hr Рік тому +55

    You offering your washing machine and then doing a cute lil handshake with bam made my entire day omg

  • @afterthestorm221
    @afterthestorm221 Рік тому +388

    Sad it took a stranger to reveal the missing hidden pieces so Bam is able to mentally assemble the truth.
    These betrayals from family and friends are what causes trauma that leads to an addiction.

    • @rabajdajr3001
      @rabajdajr3001 Рік тому +17

      I agree, these supposed friends and family are more concerned about looking like they care then actually helping. Now I admit I can tell bam is off the wagon and just needs to take a break so that this doesn't continue to spiral .but I agree that this thing has gotten so much worse due to all this outside influence. What Tremaine and dick house our him thru was absolutely wrong. Over the top pressure to adhere to their assine agenda. Cost this guy probably a million of his own money and ruined his image and health. He needs to sue them if he can. How is a company called jackass allowed to try and intimidate bam into their agenda? Did they do that to Steve o in the other movies or Novak? What makes them allowed to do it now? Obviously because they want to PC and also found a way to screw bam out of his share of the profits. Millions of dollars they saved in their pockets for removing him from his own Franchise! Tremaine 💯 percent ripped off bams cky ideas for his own gain. This is how these Hollywood vampire's get your talent and throw you away. I stand with bam, a d hope he gets his fair share.

    • @danysanerd2383
      @danysanerd2383 Рік тому +9

      Punishing the addict, & breaking their bonds, i.e., employment family, etc, it all really just increases the addiction and drives the level/ depth of addiction so much harder and farther. I've never seen anyone except for Steve fucking oh the failed clown ever actually 'quit' because someone 'made him'? (because his was just for attention it wasn't real addiction 😅 just kidding)

    • @rabajdajr3001
      @rabajdajr3001 Рік тому +5

      I stand with bam, 💯 percent since day one. But one thing I found weird was him dropping the number 33 all over this interview. If you don't know that is a sure sign of being a mason or even worse. Does he think it's funny or cool? You will see it happen all over the place when people drop that number. It's a calling card, idk if he's signaling something subliminally or he's just unaware..but to anyone else becareful using that number in publications. It's no joke, let's hope he stays safe and well

    • @RegentDeMarquis005
      @RegentDeMarquis005 Рік тому

      Yessss

    • @douglasusrey
      @douglasusrey Рік тому +2

      Jesus loves you!

  • @motheroats
    @motheroats Рік тому +258

    BJ understands the assignment
    BJ investigates
    BJ delivers
    15/10 💅💅💅 can we please get a federal investigation into these cases?

  • @CandiBenson
    @CandiBenson Рік тому +78

    I think you did a great job. Bam was understandably excited, he found someone that he could discuss the most horrible time in his life with. Someone that would listen and not call him crazy. Can’t wait for the next installment!! ☮️❤️

  • @kendyyyx
    @kendyyyx Рік тому +54

    You guys seem to get along so well 😂 and he seems so respectful and grateful for all your hard work with sharing his story ❤️
    So glad he’s getting to get his story out

  • @hiya1399
    @hiya1399 Рік тому +244

    People really don't know how dangerous psychiatry is until you're taken against your will and drugged without your consent.

    • @ArianTheDon88
      @ArianTheDon88 Рік тому +13

      Or enabled and let loose and kill your child on his bike with a car. What then?

    • @leerussell451
      @leerussell451 Рік тому +3

      ​@@ArianTheDon88nice scenario

    • @leerussell451
      @leerussell451 Рік тому

      @@ArianTheDon88 no one cares about your pseudo MA buddy

    • @ArianTheDon88
      @ArianTheDon88 Рік тому

      @@hiya1399 you're in denial and still need help. Not in a position to preach anything to me. Your problems caused your situation mostly not the help you needed in that acute phase.

    • @ArianTheDon88
      @ArianTheDon88 Рік тому

      @@hiya1399 when you are a danger to other people you ALWAYS Have to be taken your autonomy because you forfeit any autonomy you have. You might as wel let school schooters keep shooting by your wacky logic.

  • @lolabambina
    @lolabambina Рік тому +58

    Lima and her lawyers are somewhere freaking out over this interview ❤

    • @j.3779
      @j.3779 Рік тому +2

      Love it hahahaha

    • @j.3779
      @j.3779 Рік тому

      @@Queenofdacastle lima is his guardian. Well she forced him lol. She is part of everything

  • @PrettyPettyPisces
    @PrettyPettyPisces Рік тому +274

    I adore your bond with Bam. You can tell he is to the moon happy he FINALLY can share the truth from his experience. Bam, you're so loved and we all want you to receive justice.

    • @danysanerd2383
      @danysanerd2383 Рік тому

      Yeah you could see how much he was irritated with Steve Oh, the failed clown was making him by trying to control the narrative like he did. What a shit fuking 'friend' Steve O is

    • @juliemartin9658
      @juliemartin9658 Рік тому +10

      He's an intelligent, sweet guy. It's so sad to see him here, now. I think he's got a lot of pent up anger he doesn't know how to deal with. I also think the death of Ryan did a number on him and he's got to deal with all this trauma. The shaman probably could have made some progress with him, if a true shaman. Who knows. I've watched him since his MTV shows. He looks, sounds and has the same mental stuff my brother does. I watch the decline in my brother and Bam and wish I had a magic wand to heal them.

    • @LisaJean23
      @LisaJean23 Рік тому +6

      ​@@juliemartin9658 I think the conservatorships or guardianships aren't helping him, either. You don't have control of your life! Of course you're going to be angry.

  • @SharStar80
    @SharStar80 Рік тому +102

    Now… there’s a warrant out for his arrest 😢
    They certainly have good timing! 🤔
    I’m a recovering addict. My heart goes out to Bam.❤I believe in Bam!
    Thank you BJ !!!

    • @12kayalabai
      @12kayalabai Місяць тому

      What??? Because he spoke out they probably paid someone to accuse him of something

  • @danichesney1876
    @danichesney1876 Рік тому +229

    I appreciate you giving him an unfiltered platform. Everyone has that right, no matter their circumstance. I hope the best for Bam. I grew up on CKY and jackass. He deserves to live a happy and healthy life, and his kid deserves to have his dad around.
    After the last 72 hrs of news, definitely wishing him the best and sending love and light his way.

    • @Dboy118
      @Dboy118 Рік тому +4

      CKY crew ❤️

    • @elisakatarina1435
      @elisakatarina1435 Рік тому +2

      💯♥️

    • @quickieg8064
      @quickieg8064 Рік тому +3

      She was letting him hit the pipe lol

    • @CrystalsOn4u
      @CrystalsOn4u Рік тому +2

      @@quickieg8064 just watched steve-os video on this and it is pretty bad...

    • @quickieg8064
      @quickieg8064 Рік тому

      @@CrystalsOn4u yea Steve brought me here too cause I was curious and I wasn’t disappointed

  • @KatieBeeLee
    @KatieBeeLee Рік тому +50

    Wow, BJ, I am speechless. I just found this channel but listened to the other one for a long time. You actually do some really really good work for real people like Bam! Unveiling the truth with real receipts. You deserve millions of followers! 🎉❤

  • @lynnmedley
    @lynnmedley Рік тому +138

    Your entire mission is to let Bam be Ban…of course you would not try to control or manipulate him. Great job! I hope he watches all your video and comes back

  • @Quli3n
    @Quli3n Рік тому +85

    dude as soon as bam realises youre not trying to use him for his face and that you were here to talk about the real shit and you werent intimidated by him being so direct. i love you BJ it warmed up my heart you did AMAZING with bam, the interview made me happy you showed him theres good people out there that want to hear him out because as soon as he seemed to have finished expressing himself he was WAY waaaaaay calmer than when the video started
    seriously the entire time i was ready to go " ooo i see it the psycho energy" but i didnt... Like ive met some really really horribly bad people in my life like if you knew what i meant you would agree with me but the way tmz and all were describing him i was expecting him to barely be able to finish most sentences i expected half of what he said to make no sense at all -- but all of it made sense to me ?? like okay yeah he moves his arms around alot when he talks and is a bit loud but as a adhd myself that wasnt medicated, i used to move ALOT when i talked and was loud your body tries to compensate the intensity of the thought by pushing out physical energy and (im not talking about DV btw theres an implied limit tht you shouldnt be crossing) and when you have to mask your adhd all the time well you end up feeling like being yourself is just not okay and you think youre crazy BUT because youre still functionnal nobodys trying to get you the right ears to help and tthey usually blame you for not trying hard enough. i go through similar myself with my family. hope bam finds the right ppl tht want to help him work through his stuff

    • @heatherulm8587
      @heatherulm8587 Рік тому +2

      I have ADHD too and I move my arms rapidly. And I do rock back and forth alot because I have anxiety and crave opioids 24/7. I completely know how you feel.

    • @mermaiddiyartist8119
      @mermaiddiyartist8119 Рік тому +2

      @@heatherulm8587 me too 😅. We’re often the honest people in the room. Not the opioids for me but i get it. 💗

  • @flazada
    @flazada Рік тому +135

    This is freaking massive, your speaking for the silenced my friend. You've already made a difference in so many peoples lives. You need your own show....like national and Jake and Shelby executive produce that ish. Good job girly.

    • @elexis3728
      @elexis3728 Рік тому +3

      I concur all that shit!👏🏻👏🏻

    • @flazada
      @flazada Рік тому +8

      @@elexis3728 seriously, who else can say they got this kind of interview with someone as suppressed as Bam? NOBODY! It's insane.

    • @elexis3728
      @elexis3728 Рік тому +5

      @@flazada the network’s HAVE to pick this up. There’s way too much proof to deny or make light of just how suppressed he has been

    • @Goldie9899
      @Goldie9899 Рік тому +4

      Perfectly stated!!! Everyone needs someone like BJ in their lives and what she’s doing on her channel…is beyond amazing!!

    • @taylorose
      @taylorose Рік тому +1

      this!

  • @BellaZ209
    @BellaZ209 9 місяців тому +3

    No one is gonna point out how he said he has more lawsuits than Puff Daddy?! This was done 9 months ago!!😮

  • @Sammy-cm9ce
    @Sammy-cm9ce Рік тому +177

    "I can't even sleep on my back because theres been so many knives in it."
    Thats real shit
    Bam, we're all so happy to see you ❤️
    You deserve so much better than how they've been treating you ❤️

    • @nunyanope4988
      @nunyanope4988 Рік тому +7

      So are we talking about the same Bam who recently told his family and friends to “bring him his child” or he’s going to hit the pipe till he dies.
      The guy is mentally and emotionally abusive to the people who love him the most and he’s only on this podcast for validation. Junkies shouldn’t have access to kids and no sane person would use their kid as a bargaining chip.

    • @CATDOJAA
      @CATDOJAA Рік тому

      That’s bullshit, he put himself there. Stop defending shitty behavior

    • @rayplaysgames_RPG
      @rayplaysgames_RPG 11 місяців тому +1

      That's exactly how an addict thinks and speaks. Every problem is external. It's always everyone else's fault. Everyone back stabs you... blah blah. In reality the problems are internal and everyone he claims backstabbed him was actually trying to help

  • @Baphometh69
    @Baphometh69 Рік тому +106

    You can tell he’s been DYING to talk with someone that’s on his side, because he’s so excited! I wish he’d be able to relax a bit so that everything was a bit more coherent, but I know it’s hard when you have a thousand things on your mind.
    Thanks for the video BJ. It’s sad that he got a warrant out for his arrest just as this was set to be released. His family is obviously in a toxic state, and I fear for him as long as they’re still in his life- at this point they should not have contact at all until he has healed, and obviously they have their own demons to work with as well!
    BJ ilu🖤🤍🪬🖤🤍

    • @indiefairy09
      @indiefairy09 Рік тому +17

      Yea I don’t understand how you’re going to send someone to rehab but drink with them the night before?! Talk about mixed messages. He’s never going to stay sober with the people he has around him.

    • @xXSjapXx
      @xXSjapXx Рік тому +6

      They need him enabled and blind, otherwise their worlds come crashing down. Leave Bam, secure your Financials and leave that side of the world to rot for itself!

    • @PrettyGhostX
      @PrettyGhostX Рік тому

      ​@@indiefairy09 I've been an addict and even if it doesn't makes sense, it kinda do in "that" and especially when it's alcohol. It's like a last hurrah and to them it makes perfect sense. And was it Memorial day it was about to happen

    • @francinesmith7884
      @francinesmith7884 Рік тому +1

      ​@@PurpleHeart-gh6svnah, i don't think so. I think he was just excited someone was actually on his side. Having all your loved ones & the entire world shitting on you, whether you initially deserved it or not, & trapping you in an unfair, years long hell where you can't defend yourself is torturous. He's just psyched to tell his side, & he's always been a bit manic.

    • @lronhubbard8580
      @lronhubbard8580 Рік тому

      It's all connected to scientology

  • @beauty4ever94
    @beauty4ever94 Рік тому +789

    Bam literally has an arrest warrant out for him TODAY (4/24/23). BJ thank you for giving the people a voice to speak their truth.

    • @nicolae6173
      @nicolae6173 Рік тому +48

      So sad, he needs a break from that cycle!

    • @sassagrass7095
      @sassagrass7095 Рік тому +9

      What is it for?

    • @Kriissttaccyy09
      @Kriissttaccyy09 Рік тому

      For all kinds of crazy shit something like 5-6 charges.. they're saying .... Before police arrived Bam supposedly disappeared and ran off into the wooded area

    • @Dailytoastandword
      @Dailytoastandword Рік тому

      ua-cam.com/video/7tuKj8--mdk/v-deo.html here's the warrant video. Its bs. They are trying to set him up again.

    • @alfonzo9289
      @alfonzo9289 Рік тому +11

      Whatttt?! What for now?!

  • @Slammyho
    @Slammyho Рік тому +200

    I think a lot of people will blame him being “erratic” because he’s not sober, but y’all keep in mind this man has been to NINE rehabs in the last 1.5-2 years & now learning all this info. Telling that much trauma off the rip is A LOT to handle- SOBER. OR. NOT.

    • @meeeeeeeeeeeep
      @meeeeeeeeeeeep Рік тому +4

      EXACTLY!!!

    • @leavecowsalone
      @leavecowsalone Рік тому +11

      This. It is torture and takes a toll on you. So glad he sat down for this for history documentary purposes and THANK YOU BJ FOR THIS JOURNALISM!!! Hopefully this will all shake out in Bam’s favor, I am glad this is documented.

    • @WookieWoman
      @WookieWoman Рік тому +12

      Not to mention he may have actually been prescribed Adderall for add/adhd, and is currently not medicated. Totally tracks **(as far as him seeming to not be able to stay focused/jumping subject topics and his speech pattern. I'm not referring to addiction or his personal behavior.)**

    • @LisaJean23
      @LisaJean23 Рік тому +4

      ​@@WookieWoman do some research into unmedicated ADHD and addiction. It is beyond alarming! Hell, unmedicated/untreated ADHD can cause all sorts of other mental health issues besides addiction.

    • @PixelTheExtraTerrestrial
      @PixelTheExtraTerrestrial Рік тому +1

      ​​@@LisaJean23 yes and no lol no 2 people with adhd are the same some people with adhd do not react well to adhd meds my brain for instance had to have a break from the ritalin i was on from age 9 to 17 cuz i spiraled into rage episodes from anxiety as i had at the time undignosed autisum and i was overwhelemed most men with adhd do not react aswell to adhd meds as females they tend to rewact better to therepy and also adhd is not a mental health dignoses its classed as a nurodevelmental disorder oh and im 33 and back on ritalin and doing great again now adhd meds litro r a tool to help us focus and stay on task thats all they do lol they dont magicly fix shit

  • @ivegotwords
    @ivegotwords Рік тому +258

    I knew from the very beginning that once Bam understood you and what you’re about he’d get it. There was all of these people around here filtering him from the truth and he just had to get past that. So proud of you girl!

    • @LamelKendrick
      @LamelKendrick Рік тому +5

      Is anyone gonna mention that Bam clearly wants to sleep with this woman? He requested 10 sessions...I mean come on.

    • @LamelKendrick
      @LamelKendrick Рік тому +3

      And she's really into him too, you'd have to be blind not to see this chemistry

    • @yesyjam1
      @yesyjam1 Рік тому +11

      @@videoforge1389 she’s happily engaged. I don’t think she’s married. And yes he’s there ❤

    • @SwimDeeep
      @SwimDeeep Рік тому +7

      @@LamelKendrick lol to be honest I doubt he’s her type. She is happily married

    • @huntergrant6520
      @huntergrant6520 Рік тому +1

      ​@@LamelKendrick isn't he hiding in the woods right now?

  • @BengalTiger29
    @BengalTiger29 Рік тому +24

    Im so happy you did this BJ. The treatment that addicts and mentally ill people get in the media and in every day life is deplorable. You’re doing an amazing thing by giving BAM a safe space to speak his truth and not only does it clearly mean the world to him but to addicts and mentally ill people everywhere whom have had their voices silenced and disregarded

  • @andreaellerbeee
    @andreaellerbeee Рік тому +24

    I have a feeling this took ALOT of time and patience..... but all the best things do! So raw and real..... like conversations are supposed to happen! Nice job guys!

  • @elisa-beary
    @elisa-beary Рік тому +180

    Praying this blows up… for Bam’s voice to be heard but also for BJ. She so deserves to blow up on all her channels!!! ❤

    • @UnlikelyWeTry
      @UnlikelyWeTry Рік тому +10

      It’s gonna get some wind. I wish it was a stock I’d buy lol

  • @maryjanedoe
    @maryjanedoe Рік тому +265

    I hope people understand just how big this truly is. Thank you, BJ, for giving Bam a chance to speak his truth !!!

    • @CreativeCreatorCreates
      @CreativeCreatorCreates Рік тому +9

      Absolutely!

    • @mariqua7146
      @mariqua7146 Рік тому +9

      BJ is just wonderful. I love you're compassion to really help The People.

    • @benw4401
      @benw4401 Рік тому +3

      His alcohol fueled "truth".

    • @Astral_Blaize
      @Astral_Blaize Рік тому

      @@benw4401 oh yes, sooo fueled. look at all the rage with those pink pom poms and that fluffy pen 🙄people like you are irritating. Like you know him or are best buds.

    • @maryjanedoe
      @maryjanedoe Рік тому

      @Ben W the truth that is documented on paper and video??
      just because someone drinks doesn't mean they're a liar.
      He deserves to be treated like a human being. sick or not.
      The fact that anyone thinks that the shit Lima is doing to people is okay, is fucking nauseating and i sincerely pray for you people....
      People have died in her care, and she lied about it....
      she uses her own sisters as science experiments ...
      she herself claimed she almost killed herself--- while being in control of others lives?! WTF????
      and i bet money that Nikki would light up a drug test like the 4th of July, yet people try to pretend she is a saint or something lol
      people are so warped.... he's getting his truth out... and they don't like that. so they're gonna try to silence him.
      people need to quit being so naive and trusting these money hungry demons like video game creator Lima. she is no doctor.

  • @yagurl_
    @yagurl_ Рік тому +79

    FACTS AINT DEFAMATION

  • @petanoonan1529
    @petanoonan1529 Рік тому +3

    I'm done after fat an opinionated BS input that BAM needs help. His a adult and earned his money. They want him as a pet as another commented

  • @Chipscheesealiciakeys
    @Chipscheesealiciakeys Рік тому +30

    I still have so much love for him and I’d give anything to see him winning again ❤

  • @TheMakeupChair
    @TheMakeupChair Рік тому +605

    The part of Bam’s story that gets to me, is what is the end goal for these people, there are so many people in the world who need help with addiction why focus on this one guy, is has to be for money, all these people being paid to ‘help’ are doing more harm, it’s scary.
    I feel, to me, they want Bam on a tight short leash, but Bam isn’t their pet.
    If they really, truly wanna help, then they should pay for everything, not force him to pay them and for his treatment that they decide on, it’s awful. See how quickly they’d sign him up for more treatments if they were the ones paying for it out of pocket.

    • @patricklary81
      @patricklary81 Рік тому +47

      Because he's got money. It's a money racket, that's usually pulled on insurance companies. But because bam has money, it's a sure bet to keep him locked away in treatment.

    • @ms.juhntialit3008
      @ms.juhntialit3008 Рік тому +22

      😢😢😢😢To think being poor is bad, and to have money seems worse is so unsettling 😢😢😢people/family who hate you can take you and lock you 😢😢😢

    • @soude85
      @soude85 Рік тому +14

      Hey Sinead, love to see you here! Yes, it’s like they want him to be a parrot in a cage, whilst living off his money-just look at his mother… smh

    • @doordee3663
      @doordee3663 Рік тому +31

      Over $600,000 for Bam's "treatment" total racket. That is precisely why exposing this control/abuse is so important!

    • @Southerncomfort420
      @Southerncomfort420 Рік тому +5

      Amen to that.

  • @longlivebeans
    @longlivebeans Рік тому +293

    Bam seems more comfortable here than he did on Steve-o’s podcast.

    • @sherrythomas3028
      @sherrythomas3028 Рік тому +19

      I noticed that too.

    • @jaspervanderburgh81
      @jaspervanderburgh81 Рік тому +35

      Steve insist on his sobriety, and he knows the difference, it isn’t rocket science. It is difficult to change .

    • @Wusgoodfatlip
      @Wusgoodfatlip Рік тому

      He’s fucked up lmao look at his eyes

    • @Kinespojken
      @Kinespojken Рік тому

      Because Steve-O is his friend and don't buy his bullshit stories

    • @zaneroberts3813
      @zaneroberts3813 Рік тому +32

      Steve o seems like a gimp these days like the dude that got sober and now hes better then everyone and telling them how to live

  • @lucypurr1246
    @lucypurr1246 Рік тому +147

    Its like he knew without knowing. And then finally seeing the proof, you can see him adding it all together in his mind.. just like we saw him do on the other body cam footage. Thank you so much BJ for letting Bam get this off his chest! Giving a voice to the ones who had their voices taken away for so long is what its all about! Love you mean it!❤❤

    • @matlock38
      @matlock38 Рік тому +2

      Yup his experience is like “The Truman Show” played by Jim Carrey

  • @odessaknows3783
    @odessaknows3783 Рік тому +7

    Something super shady about Limas husband paying 300,000 for Bam to go to rehab. NOPE, it don't make sense.. Usually, If it feels sketchy and looks sketchy THEN IT'S SKETCHY... PERIOD ‼️🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

  • @mrkrabstinysadviolin1400
    @mrkrabstinysadviolin1400 Рік тому +21

    Forced rehab DOES NOT WORK and WILL NEVER WORK. I’m a recovering addict myself, who had to CHOOSE and be WILLING to recover BY MYSELF, without ANY outside intervention, ZERO manipulation from others. I’ve somewhat willingly went to rehab before, but that was due to an ultimatum from my boyfriend at the time and even though I checked in voluntarily it didn’t last for more than a month from that point, neither the sobriety nor the relationship. When I finally got clean it was all me. I did reach out to someone in recovery who helped me immensely but it was MY choice to do so, and I was READY. That’s the ONLY WAY. You can NEVER force someone who isn’t ready into recovery, and even if you manage to it WILL NOT last. And I can only imagine the extra trauma it would cause. This forced medical treatment bs needs to stop NOW. It only hurts and even kills people, it NEVER helps. Did you know that the majority of fatal overdoses are directly after a period of (usually unwanted) sobriety like after rehab or jail? You know what it does do though? It makes a SHITLOAD of MONEY for certain people… 🤔

    • @danysanerd2383
      @danysanerd2383 Рік тому

      ❤❤❤ Thank you for your heartfelt input, I'm in too fragile of a place to add any relevant portions of my own testimony. But I just needed to take the time to make sure everyone imagines me nodding in complete agreement with you the whole time!

  • @mandyylolo
    @mandyylolo Рік тому +280

    People can say it’s “wrong” for you to interview him knowing he wasn’t sober but no one has let the man just BE. Sobriety is the only way for him but he hasn’t discovered that himself yet so who is ANYONE to force sobriety on him and deprive him of basic human rights?? I mean COMEON….GREAT job BJ, even if he doesn’t remember the actual interview…he will remember you’re the only one who let him be HIM and gave him the time of day. 💖

    • @angelapate4888
      @angelapate4888 Рік тому +22

      U worded this perfectly! I wholeheartedly agree!

    • @greg-op2jh
      @greg-op2jh Рік тому +12

      100%

    • @anonymous-wk1nr
      @anonymous-wk1nr Рік тому +30

      Yes. Thank you! I hate when people view addicts like they’re not even people. Like they should be thrown away or locked in some treatment centre for life. It’s so much more complex than “all addicts bad”. A lot of addicts are really good people

    • @dandylioness78
      @dandylioness78 Рік тому +14

      Exactly..Sometimes people need to be heard..Regardless of what’s going on..We all make bad decisions sometimes

    • @JessaLynn8
      @JessaLynn8 Рік тому +3

      Well said! ❤

  • @sarahanne2512
    @sarahanne2512 Рік тому +120

    Bam is very transparent. Talking about how he went on a boat with a stripper and pissed her bed lol. You can call him a lot of things but definitely not a liar

    • @cindiwindi
      @cindiwindi Рік тому +7

      Yes indeed!!

    • @symphonyinkart
      @symphonyinkart Рік тому +11

      Adhd bi polar - notorious over sharers lol.
      It’s an accurate account.

    • @katyajovich2308
      @katyajovich2308 Рік тому +2

      @@symphonyinkart what do you mean “adhd bi polar” are you saying he has been diagnosed with both of those conditions?

    • @TheCEM421
      @TheCEM421 Рік тому +6

      and then she threw an apple at him...I was cracking up...Bam is so funny without even trying to be funny, thats one of the things Ive always loved about him.

    • @sarahanne2512
      @sarahanne2512 Рік тому +2

      @@TheCEM421 swear I thought the same thing. I was cracking tf up! Dudes such a character 😂

  • @nickelcitybear
    @nickelcitybear Рік тому +47

    Bad hygiene is an indicator of depression but last I checked depression wasn’t illegal

    • @misfitkid3926
      @misfitkid3926 Рік тому

      Or is it.

    • @sutsh5363
      @sutsh5363 Рік тому +1

      Let himmmm have is ownnn mindddd.

    • @HannahHexter
      @HannahHexter Рік тому +3

      And the first indicator of relapse 😐
      yall are hurting him rather than helping him with this stupid free Bam shit. Cut these conspiracy theory interviews and let this poor man get the help he needs.

    • @aaronbalakey5377
      @aaronbalakey5377 Рік тому

      ⁠​⁠@@HannahHexteryou don’t understand how sinister and manipulative the “rehab” industry is, and those “interventionist” type of people who did that to Bam bc of his sweat pants, those are the most evil of them all in this business… check out a movie called “Body Brokers” it gives people who don’t know anything abt the industry a good idea what it’s really like….
      The excuse/lie about Bam having bad hygiene because of his sweat pants, that was nothing more than a sinister, manipulative, and disgraceful lie that Steve Timmer** **(sp?) made up just so he could send/force Bam into a different in patient facility. Because all these different rehabs give guys like Steve money every time they bring a client in… it doesn’t matter if it’s a repeat client either. So Bam was about to get out and should have gotten out, but Steve wanted more money… it’s sooo fucked up

    • @-Greetings-Earthlings-
      @-Greetings-Earthlings- Рік тому

      And being a skater

  • @Marcia.Marcia.Marcia
    @Marcia.Marcia.Marcia Рік тому +33

    As a mom, grandma, and recovering addict wish I could give Bam the biggest hug! I've many great memories of watching him and laughing so hard with my kids at his and Ryan's shenanigans through the years. They gave us so much! I hate to see him having this done to him especially by family and know that all too well from shît my own siblings have done to me and my children. I hope he's able to overcome this mess to live a free, happy life full of blessings. Thank you BJ!! ❤❤

  • @blueninja115
    @blueninja115 Рік тому +264

    I really miss the old Bam. He's been through a lot of crap so I can't knock him, but he was someone I idolized growing up. He introduced me to bands I listen to over a decade later. I even put a matching tattoo on myself. Everyone else was into Johnny and Dunn, but Bam really resonated with me. It hurts to see him like this. He needs love and support more than anything, rather than attacks. If you see this, I love you man 💜 Keep your chin up.

    • @symphonyinkart
      @symphonyinkart Рік тому +3

      He isn’t going anymore. ….
      Can you remember yourself in ur 20s.
      I get it tho. We all have nostalgia back then. But I like to reference myself and ageing.

    • @slendertvdrake2137
      @slendertvdrake2137 Рік тому +7

      you should still idolize him. Hes extremely funny, hes got a lot of balls and from what hes done with his whole life, he will always be able to do whatever the fuck he wants, and nobodys else can really do that. So thats why you should idolize him. But fuck yea brother your comment is forsure out of love.! And I love you for being a bam fan

    • @symphonyinkart
      @symphonyinkart Рік тому +11

      @@slendertvdrake2137 idolise is such a dangerous term. Lol.
      To observes, understand, relate and ultimately respect- well yeah. I think that’s what you mean
      I think many misconstrue this

    • @You-Tube-FBI
      @You-Tube-FBI Рік тому +17

      Why idolize celebrities?
      I never understood this concept.

    • @foreheadnutz
      @foreheadnutz Рік тому

      You act like bam was an unground phenomenon or something bams popularity from 99 to 2006 can never truly be explained he was a massive star on commercials the biggest video game series in the world at the. Everyone in highschool around 97-99 played those cky tapes relentlessly.

  • @dinagildner7473
    @dinagildner7473 Рік тому +225

    I love how Bam wore the headband and talked with the fluffy pink wand in his hand. Congratulations BJ!👏👏👏

    • @anima6035
      @anima6035 Рік тому +8

      It literally warms my heart lol, and I love the fact Bam really likes BJ - she's sober, focused, intelligent, successful, good hearted AND funny (ie a good influence and example of how life can be without the drugs and alcohol). I hope they spend more time together!

    • @DeafJackRussell
      @DeafJackRussell Рік тому

      totally agree that just shows this dude aint changed he still cool af and the man 😂😂 i hope and pray he gets back to where he was financially and even more because u know he will spread the wealth to his loved ones

    • @OG-GHOST2
      @OG-GHOST2 Рік тому

      Men will do just about anything for vagina

  • @CatalinaFOIA
    @CatalinaFOIA Рік тому +116

    My mother, 66, has been an alcoholic ever since she was 16. She became a non-funtional alcoholic in 2008. They attempted to get her into rehab a few times in 1986-87 and it was a no-go. You CAN'T force anyone into a rehab and plan on them staying sober! It doesn't work that way. My mom is still a non-functioning alcoholic 😢 it's sad; yet we have accepted her choices. She is an adult, making adult decisions and she isn't going to be backed into a corner. It wouldn't matter if my mother was poor, middle class or wealthy; addiction has no bounds. Nor would it change our minds in attempting to do a rehab scenario because FORCED REHAB DOESN'T WORK!

    • @bexactlyyy
      @bexactlyyy Рік тому

      Sorry for my ignorance, what does a non functioning alcoholic mean?

    • @FreakMeat74
      @FreakMeat74 Рік тому +10

      @@bexactlyyy Generally it just means you can't perform life's duties, working, eating, keeping the house clean, personal relationships etc. Of course it's a spectrum but that's the gist.

    • @CatalinaFOIA
      @CatalinaFOIA Рік тому +2

      ​@@FreakMeat74You nailed it 💯

  • @Baby.Annihilation
    @Baby.Annihilation Рік тому +11

    Coming from someone who had my very first manic episode at age 26, randomly, unprovoked and not only was I unaware of what was happening at the time, but so was my family.
    One day I was fine, that night my husband told me he no longer loved me and the next day, my brain short circuited. I had an intense urge to drink heavy liqour, without thinking about the consequences, I went and cheated on my husband, I was sneaking out in the middle of the night to drink and drive and all of a sudden I would either have ZERO feelings and emotions one minute and at the drop of a dime I would have emotions on the opposite end of that. I would get so overwhelmed and upset that I couldn't keep up with myself and I would become severly confused. I would be arguing with my husband and I would bust out laughing at some points and then mentally breaking down, confused and forgetting what I was trying to say.
    I ended up being diagnosed with bipolar 1. I could not begin to tell you how many times I was asked what kind of drugs I was taking during a manic episode.
    It irks me when people immediately assume someone is behaving off due to drugs but fail to consider some sort of mental illness being the culprit

    • @Neferkida
      @Neferkida Рік тому +2

      Reading you is the first time that I feel like I can relate to someone’s experience 🥺I had mine when I was 15, my family was going through a lot and I was bottling up to not be a burden, I was in class started to have a laughter, lost control and felt like my body was stuck on “laughing mode” and I couldn’t stop, I was trying to say “help” but bc I was “laughing” everyone around was confused and thought I was joking, a sec later I tilted my head down, thought “I’m sad” and bursted in tears and started passing out at the same time, and it just felt like I was watching my body act up from inside my head 😣 but anyways, I hope you’re doing better since that time and have people around you to support you in those moments ❤️ I understand how you felt

    • @Sennacherib-e9g
      @Sennacherib-e9g 5 місяців тому

      You said it was random/unprovoked but then also said it was provoked by your husband saying he doesnt love you.

  • @dorothys8893
    @dorothys8893 Рік тому +16

    I love bam he is such a teddy bear 🧸 but in all honesty it must be hard to interview him he’s all over the place

  • @elexis3728
    @elexis3728 Рік тому +34

    I don’t have the word’s to emphasize just how important this is. Not just in this moment of time but from here on out things are going to change for Bam AND BJ! BJ!, you are amazing.

  • @victoria_is
    @victoria_is Рік тому +238

    Watching this as the news is reporting that Bam is “on the run again”. My heart breaks for him. I hope one day he’s actually free from all this chaos and gets the peace and happiness he’s been robbed of for years

    • @edp3202
      @edp3202 Рік тому +3

      Does his family just want the money?

    • @meeeeeeeeeeeep
      @meeeeeeeeeeeep Рік тому +16

      ​@@edp3202 yes they're just using him!

    • @Megan-rr6qg
      @Megan-rr6qg Рік тому +36

      I think he confronted his family with all his new evidence and they’re doing what they’ve been doing saying he’s unhinged or dangerous or an addict- and in some cases he is- but in this case I feel like he might just be pissed and acting like it and he has every right to be mad

    • @awesome-o7220
      @awesome-o7220 Рік тому +6

      its his brother...

    • @Matto-5000
      @Matto-5000 Рік тому +8

      @@Megan-rr6qg I dislike Jesse that leech so much.

  • @jillitaknapp
    @jillitaknapp Рік тому +133

    It's clear to me that Bam needs to deal with a lot of issues: addictions, trauma, etc. He's been forced treatment and lied to which is a whole other trauma that he needs to face. He needs to heal. Part of healing is exactly what you did with him here. I'm not an addict but I do understand healing and recovery comes first from an inner desire; not outer forces. Thanks BJ for letting him speak and showing him what he asked for. I'm wishing him only the best and my hope is he can recover from all of this.

  • @Joshua-fz5zx
    @Joshua-fz5zx Рік тому +4

    There are always two sides to every story. I'm not sure who or what to believe. It's clear he needs helps though. It seems like one of the worst things an addict can be is charismatic. They can BS their way through life until the inevitable finally happens. My struggle was food and alcohol. I'd get morbidly obese and neglect all of my responsibilities. I can only exist like a robot if i want to live a normal life. Extreme discipline. I become a super version of myself. If i relent at all it goes bad quickly. Perhaps living life according to a strict schedule and using exercise for your dopamine fix would be beneficial. That helped me for what its worth. I wouldnt get too wrapped up into the drama. Its important to know that addicts will do anything to avoid responsibility and get their fix. Im not saying he's lying about anything or everything. I'm just saying to keep that in mind.

  • @DemonEvidence
    @DemonEvidence 5 місяців тому +3

    It really pisses me off that he obvioisly couldn't even tell his side of the story, before this; like on Steveo's podcast, you could tell he wanted to say stuff but couldn't; most likely cause he was being highly repressed and afraid of being put back into the torture, mk-ultra facility, forced onto 18 messed up drugs and the podcast not even released. It's so nice to see him so freely saying what he wants. Eff those evil a holes. They'll end up getting what they deserve. (Idk if steveo realizes the crimes being comitted against Bam. I hope not, anyway, cause I currently like steveo, unless he's complicit.)

  • @meganbuckley7760
    @meganbuckley7760 Рік тому +132

    i can see how much Bam trusts you, BJ. He's so comfortable talking to you and telling you EVERYTHING (good, bad and ugly). So proud of you for giving Bam a voice💜💜keep doing what your doing

  • @toditron
    @toditron Рік тому +10

    Bam is kind of a mess by nature, but it seems like the people around him are helping him fail for their own purposes. It's like they are the ones putting flaming bags of poop on his doorstep, but Bam keeps on stomping them and getting shit on his shoes.

  • @peaceknot
    @peaceknot Рік тому +163

    This is so surreal. Actually interviewing Bam after all that has happened. The power of the internet. Good for you, BJ!

  • @Jean-qd6nf
    @Jean-qd6nf Рік тому +15

    You're the best for allowing Bam to speak his mind! Nobody will get sober when forced. I'm empathetic towards his situation. ❤

  • @onegrlindawrld6297
    @onegrlindawrld6297 Рік тому +13

    Betrayal is the deepest of wounds I feel bad for Bam . He's lookin sick with it( the purple around the eyes) .
    Look forward to the rest of his side .
    Thanks BJ

  • @cassv5619
    @cassv5619 Рік тому +9

    Does TMZ wait till he's sober?
    At least you're doing it for him, not as a gotcha moment. Xx

  • @Katy-ys6rn
    @Katy-ys6rn Рік тому +65

    I will say, for addicts, the night before or day of agreeing to go to treatment can be the most life threatening time as there is often this "last hurrah" mentality that leads to reckless behavior and for so many ends in OD and sadly death. So for his BROTHER and these people presenting as the moral authority over Bam to facilitate the behavior is downright dangerous and fucking hypocritical!

    • @Katy-ys6rn
      @Katy-ys6rn Рік тому +2

      @@CreatureCargaux I completely get it. Glad to hear you came out the other side and I wish you continued success in your journey. It's something we carry so much shame about, so I think it's important to acknowledge success and healing and learn to be proud of the person you are today. Thanks for sharing your story💗💗

  • @spiritqueen1978
    @spiritqueen1978 Рік тому +310

    As a former addict I couldn't imagine how hard it must be for Bam to even try and begin to get sober when your own family is constantly out to get you and the public eye is constantly on you judging everything you say and do. Much love and light being sent to Bam Margera. 💖

    • @Bizzy7891
      @Bizzy7891 Рік тому +5

      This is exactly what I was trying to stress to Jess this whole weekend with him running his stupid mouth!

    • @spiritqueen1978
      @spiritqueen1978 Рік тому +5

      @Bizzy7891 yeah, I had a conversation myself with Jess in the comments. He just wants to continue to blame everyone and continue to talk about his brother very publicly. He just doesn't care. How much is Bam supposed to put up with from these people. I can totally understand why he hit his brother. Anyway I have actually been talking with Bams friend Rob Swavely and he fortunately is a good friend and trying to help Bam at this very moment.

    • @Bizzy7891
      @Bizzy7891 Рік тому +2

      @@spiritqueen1978 good hopefully he can talk some sense into Jess and drop the charges cause he had it coming running his damn mouth the way he was! Yeah yeah assault is assault but come on they're MF brothers FFS!!!

    • @spiritqueen1978
      @spiritqueen1978 Рік тому +3

      @@Bizzy7891 really, it's like how many times can you kick a dog until it snaps and bites back.

    • @spiritqueen1978
      @spiritqueen1978 Рік тому +1

      @Bizzy7891 I don't know if he can talk any sense into that block head jess but Swavely helping Bam with other things at the moment.

  • @Vanessacurry84
    @Vanessacurry84 Рік тому +4

    Eww they tried to put me on seroquel once it’s awful it’s like ur body doesn’t wanna move but ur brain is kinda awake and it causes tons of weight gain even if I took it at night I was a zombie the next day it was awful

    • @JohnnyNada
      @JohnnyNada Рік тому

      It's nasty

    • @gina_st.george
      @gina_st.george Рік тому

      Your dose probably should have been adjusted. I've been on seroquel for over 10 years, and it's worked wonders for me. I was over 150 lbs when I first started taking it. I weigh less than 130 now. With any prescription that causes drowsiness, it takes your body some time to adjust to the side effects.

  • @lowboyyy
    @lowboyyy Рік тому +6

    he was at a bar in Richmond a little while ago,he was nice af to everybody.

    • @spiritqueen1978
      @spiritqueen1978 Рік тому

      Cause he's a great person and friend 💖

    • @lowboyyy
      @lowboyyy Рік тому

      @Spirit Queen I believe so,addiction is a cruel thing and does not discriminate.hurts me to see people talking about someone going through a tough time

    • @spiritqueen1978
      @spiritqueen1978 Рік тому

      @lowboyyy exactly, it makes me even more upset as an former addict myself when I see other former addicts like Steve O being so judgemental towards Bam.

    • @lowboyyy
      @lowboyyy Рік тому +1

      @Spirit Queen same here,that's the one that bothered me the most,my friends never gave up on me or shamed me and they had never gone through it,and shunning people or being mean to them just makes them dive further in and become more reclusive.

  • @SLOANHOOKS
    @SLOANHOOKS Рік тому +17

    Amazing work BJ ❤

  • @itsjust_Q
    @itsjust_Q Рік тому +32

    BJ PLEASE TELL US YOU WASHED HIS SHIRT!!!!! His face was pure joy with the thought of you washing it for him 🥹🥹🥹😭🤟🏻🦄

  • @spiritqueen1978
    @spiritqueen1978 Рік тому +112

    My heart aches for Bam. I hope this man can just break away from all these negative people. How in the heck can this man get himself clean with all these negative people constantly trying to set him up and take away his freedom. Much love, light, and prayers are being sent to Bam. 💖

    • @justmemessy
      @justmemessy Рік тому +5

      This. I wasn’t able to get clean myself until I changed my entire environment and everyone in it.. He cannot heal because he cannot relax. Heart breaking.

    • @spiritqueen1978
      @spiritqueen1978 Рік тому

      @@justmemessy extremely heartbreaking 💔

  • @x83b6an0s9cm
    @x83b6an0s9cm Рік тому +38

    Thank you for giving Bam a voice ----- don't listen to the haters. You are doing a good thing.

    • @ryukomatoi592
      @ryukomatoi592 Рік тому +3

      I am so sick of those haters on reddit and instagram

  • @kristiriley
    @kristiriley Рік тому +92

    I think that Bam finally seeing the body cam footage, with his Mom there sitting right beside him, acting as if she had nothing to do with any of this, hit him hard. That's why he asked for "an intermission." Even though he's known for a long time, like he said, I'm paraphrasing here, but his mother has been the one behind a lot of the main things controlling the aspects in his life. It may seem as though like he's coming off as if he's mad at her. But in reality, he's hurting very bad.
    As far back as I can remember, Bam & Ape have been trying to make their relationship work. They've done many reality shows for therapy & nothing is obviously working.
    It just breaks my heart to see this. I personally don't think Bam has been the same person since the day he found out Ryan Dunn passed away. Just remembering & thinking back to the footage of him arriving to the scene where Ryan's accident was, was absolutely devastating to watch. Ryan took a piece of Bam with him that day, & he's never been the same since. 😢

    • @kristiriley
      @kristiriley Рік тому +5

      @@kelsielovesbbu I want to make it clear, that it wasn't his family. At least I don't think so anyways. I believe it was a news station reporting on it, & they just so happen to catch Bam showing up as soon as he had found out. It is heartbreaking to see.

    • @shannap.lawnerd125
      @shannap.lawnerd125 Рік тому +3

      @@kristiriley Yes, it was a couple news outlets that showed the footage. I remember that, and I’ve even seen it more recently on a different YT video (can’t remember what channel) but yeah it was gut wrenching.

    • @mirzinho8721
      @mirzinho8721 Рік тому +1

      Could you link the body cam footage? I can't find it anywhere

    • @alyciamarie4163
      @alyciamarie4163 Рік тому +2

      So what does his family plan to see him and when he gets there he’s arrested every time? I’m kinda lost on bam drama Bc it’s never ending. If he had no money and no way to make it they wouldn’t even care.

    • @shannap.lawnerd125
      @shannap.lawnerd125 Рік тому +1

      @@mirzinho8721 It’s shown on the videos BJ has here on her channels. I believe she has a Bam playlist.

  • @Kate-hs7gb
    @Kate-hs7gb Рік тому +48

    Betrayal cuts like a knife 😢 Love how Bam appreciated the truth that you’ve Investigated BJ 💖

  • @coloradokittenfoster7459
    @coloradokittenfoster7459 Рік тому +79

    I really hope Bam is okay, wherever he is, and I hope he doesn’t do anything rash.

    • @lmpfunk
      @lmpfunk Рік тому +19

      They called the cops on him, there’s a warrant for his arrest and he’s on the run 😞 Just hope they leave him alone one day. Forced treatment does. not. work.

    • @lauralove1119
      @lauralove1119 Рік тому +4

      Yeah worried and the guy I hope the same thing.

    • @kuatojones6950
      @kuatojones6950 Рік тому +1

      ​@@lmpfunkif he doesn't need rehab then he's just a criminal and should be in jail. Rehab is for people who want it.

    • @rabajdajr3001
      @rabajdajr3001 Рік тому +1

      Same, I think he's too strong to do something terrible. I will say though I've been out to the castle in pa. His house is a good ways from the main road or any near by stores. It's probably 5 miles from any town or major intersection. There's a lot of woods and streams he could escape through, he wouldn't be able to follow the main roads for fear of being seen. Hopefully he had his cell phone on him and he probably got picked up later. I doubt he's still out there but it's alot of places to hide .I don't know how much the cops searched for him or not. Let's hope he's safe and made it out of there

  • @craftingemily
    @craftingemily Рік тому +27

    I am going to use “I ain’t a wizard” now when people want me to read their brain. Thanks Bam. And thank you for your truth.

  • @kainaildit
    @kainaildit Рік тому +15

    Bam is a grown ass man and you did an amazing job giving him that voices and being like a voice for bam when all we see are the blogs tryna trash his name you definitely gave him a safe space he is comfortable

  • @clownshark_
    @clownshark_ Рік тому +28

    youre still a human and still allowed to have opinions and thoughts and speak them while being an alcoholic. anyone else can drink during an interview or a business meeting…
    just because your an addict doesnt mean your stupid

  • @erinedwards6637
    @erinedwards6637 Рік тому +36

    You can tell Bam has so much too say and he’s been silenced so much that he thinks he gotta talk so fast to get out his thought then sometimes doesn’t know how to word things and it’s sad bc he’s a human being who deserves to be heard no matter what! I applaud you BJ for all the good work you do girl. ❤

  • @courtneylane7639
    @courtneylane7639 Рік тому +356

    As an addict myself you cannot force anyone into sobriety. It's something we have to decide on ourselves. Bam has suffered a lot of unresolved trauma and his family is doing more harm than good by forcing him. Thank you for giving him a voice.

    • @coralee1577
      @coralee1577 Рік тому +11

      I have literally said this exact same thing on her Bam videos too. I fully agree. I'm a recovering addict and seeing people try to force him into getting sober drives me nuts because they're doing so much more damage than helping. If they really wanted to help they should have actually done some research on how to help addicts instead of trying to force him to do what they wanted. Don't get me wrong loving someone in addition is hard, but unfortunately it's a disease of the brain and you have to go about it properly.

    • @anti-ethniccleansing465
      @anti-ethniccleansing465 Рік тому +9

      What’s up with Bam’s eyes? That was very worrying to see what his eyes looks like when he took his sunglasses off. At first I thought it was red eyeliner make up, but on closer inspection, it definitely isn’t make up. Is that alcohol or drugs causing that? Or maybe even diabetes?

    • @The0mn0mn0m
      @The0mn0mn0m Рік тому

      @@anti-ethniccleansing465 probably hasn't slept between running from Lima, his effed up family, and the sht his "wife" is putting him through with phoenix :(

    • @simplymonca
      @simplymonca Рік тому +6

      @@anti-ethniccleansing465 Hi! So he was actually wearing purple eye shadow.

    • @celenastruthers5231
      @celenastruthers5231 Рік тому +8

      I agree . I didn’t get sober for anything but me , and my 2 boys !

  • @Jerzybred908
    @Jerzybred908 Рік тому +46

    Bam deserves to see everyone that was conspiring against him, these people wanted him to be in the dark. They absolutely don’t want bam to learn the truth

    • @annihilxte
      @annihilxte Рік тому +2

      I bet they are all scurrying around trying to figure out how to dodge the bad press from this interview. Seriously can’t wait to see the rest. He deserves to be free

    • @Jasonhoods
      @Jasonhoods Рік тому +1

      ​@@annihilxte does it matter to you he beat up his brother and threatened to kill him and his dad?

    • @anti-ethniccleansing465
      @anti-ethniccleansing465 Рік тому +2

      @@Jasonhoods
      My brother used to beat me up all the time before he moved out and got married. Nothing too bad - just bruises and knocking the wind out of me. That’s siblings for you! My mom told him that as long as he didn’t draw blood, then it’s ok lol.
      And Bam would never kill his parents. You can see in this video that he just expresses himself in a fashion that isn’t literal, simply to show how hurt and betrayed he feels.

    • @Jasonhoods
      @Jasonhoods Рік тому +1

      @@anti-ethniccleansing465 you cannot possibly be using anecdotal evidence to show why its okay for a man in his 40's to get wasted and attack another person...
      I get that you like Bam and I do too but he's going to die if people keep making excuses for him.

    • @anti-ethniccleansing465
      @anti-ethniccleansing465 Рік тому +2

      @@Jasonhoods
      Lmfao! So dramatic. 😂 “He’S GOnnA DiiiiiE bEcAUsE oF yOu gUYs!!” 🙄 His choice to drink or not drink is up to him. Nobody else. Us random commenters on social media certainly hold no power over Bam’s thoughts! If and when he has had enough, then he’ll quit and it will finally be an honest effort because nobody is forcing it upon him. He’ll have his own motivations.
      And you know, I wouldn’t be surprised at all if one of the main reasons he drinks is because it helps relieve pain after he abused his body for so long, and broken countless bones.
      Lastly, do you have any brothers?? My brother and I still got physical in our 40s once because of a big verbal fight. We still love each other; we just needed to spend a bit of time apart. No big deal. Siblings have it out some times. It’s sibling shit when there’s a lot of hurt involved.
      You come off like you have little life experience, and/or are a very controlling/judgmental person. How old are you?

  • @njcolvin92
    @njcolvin92 Рік тому +4

    Bro these rehabs see bams name and since he's self paying they're going to find any reason they can to extend his stays. Flicking a cigarette in a bush would usually get a warning and then would get the boot. Extending a stay for the cigarette is insane. They are just greedy ass facilities. Same thing happened to me when I went to treatment. My parents have money and were paying out of pocket and all the body brokers sniff blood then the rehabs themselves just keep selling you more and more and providing nothing near what is promised. If you have insurance the second they don't immediately approve more time they say you're out and it doesn't matter you don't have any exit plan in place.

  • @jessseg4100
    @jessseg4100 Рік тому +70

    It’s so heartbreaking to watch the police cam footage along with Bam. He was betrayed by EVERYONE around him!! It’s so sad! I pray he gets positive people around him and he finds himself on the right track 🖤 I absolutely love his personality and realness. Sidenote, I wish Britney could do the same! Maybe she’ll message you next BJ! 🤞🏼

    • @skamarfire
      @skamarfire Рік тому +3

      He is the victim now

    • @Evilia33
      @Evilia33 Рік тому

      Time stamp please.

    • @Aluttuh
      @Aluttuh Рік тому +2

      his corporate handlers dont give a rats azz about him

  • @autumnrose6373
    @autumnrose6373 Рік тому +143

    This is HUGE!!! This is better than any therapy he could ever receive. Imagine you have NO ONE on your side and then find out there's one person that has cared enough to do the digging and hard work of fighting for what's right and not giving in to people that want to silence Bam. I was addicted to drugs 6 years ago. You need SUPPORT to get thru it. People there to ENCOURAGE you. Not take advantage of you and make it harder than it already is. I'm so proud of you for doing this BJ. You're smart, strong, and BELIEVE it what is right no matter the push back. That's so rare these days.

    • @x50ShadesofSlayx
      @x50ShadesofSlayx Рік тому +3

      💯

    • @autumnrose6373
      @autumnrose6373 Рік тому +1

      Oh wow!! I didn't know that... I could see why he would want to get his side of the story out before he did.

    • @stonyanderson9028
      @stonyanderson9028 Рік тому +3

      I thought the same thing. I have a lot of trauma and sharing it with a new therapist is very hard to do. I had one fall asleep nodding out while I was crying reliving the night my fiancé was killed. I haven’t been back to therapy since. I felt she didn’t care or understand just like most others. If I saw someone not only cared but was so invested in what happened to me It would help so much

    • @autumnrose6373
      @autumnrose6373 Рік тому

      @@stonyanderson9028 exactly! Some therapists are in it for the wrong reasons.

    • @autumnrose6373
      @autumnrose6373 Рік тому

      @@Zevanno2021 rehab doesn't work if you're forcing someone to do it. They have to be willing. I went to rehab 4 or 5 times and all of them required me to set it up myself bc of the fact you can't want it for someone more than they want it theirself.

  • @rearrangingdeckchairs
    @rearrangingdeckchairs Рік тому +56

    I have only just started watching this and I am SOOOO EXCITED!!! THIS IS THE BEST!!!! I wonder if this is why they’re chasing the poor guy through the woods for allegedly punching his brother who’s been collaborating with his mom (while living on Bam’s dime) and Lima Jevremovic to assassinate his character and get him back into guardianship/conservatorship hell. Will be sharing this as hard as I can. BJ, you are an absolute inspiration!!!
    💜⭐️💜⭐️💜

    • @itsjust_Q
      @itsjust_Q Рік тому +3

      It’s freaking wild right?!? I try to explain to people what’s going on but they’re so out of the loop they don’t get 🦄

    • @rabajdajr3001
      @rabajdajr3001 Рік тому +2

      ​@@itsjust_Qyeah it is, let's just hope the cops don't pull any forceful Stuff with him and end up shooting him out there. I'm glad he's standing up to his family. That's his house his brother living off him and calls the cops? Ridiculous. TBH maybe doing 6 months in jail will calm this whole situation down cold turkey. He just needs some time to gather himself together

  • @klbfarwell
    @klbfarwell Рік тому +8

    Bam has a lot of people working against him. 😢

  • @ShelleyBean1808
    @ShelleyBean1808 Рік тому +11

    Seraquil is such a strong medication on its own! I was a zombie 🧟‍♀️ just being on a low dose for 6 months! There is no way he should have been on that much medication, crazy!
    I feel for you, Bam ❤
    Fantastic work as always BJ 👏 👑🏆🥇🎀 xoxo

    • @GiraffeLoverJen
      @GiraffeLoverJen Рік тому

      OMG, yes! I feel for him. Seroquel was rough. I would get so sleepy and sleep so heavy that I ended up losing my job because I would sleep through my alarm clock and not make it to work on time.

  • @zombietrash416
    @zombietrash416 Рік тому +55

    Nobody would've said no to this interview. If you're a youtuber with 100k subs, it doesn't matter what the person's on, you would be stupid to turn an interview with someone like Bam down. Everyone that's saying you shouldn't have done it wouldve done it themselves if they were in that same situation. Good job girl.

    • @kylabella05
      @kylabella05 Рік тому +7

      100% and honestly out of all the UA-camrs, he picked a good one to be interviewed by. In my opinion 😊

    • @everythingelseisregular
      @everythingelseisregular Рік тому

      i think you were too focused on the documents and the things you’ve researched instead of hearing him out. practice makes perfect though i know you were probably excited and overwhelmed

  • @laselenne8682
    @laselenne8682 Рік тому +91

    I cannot believe this is the first time he’s watching the body cam footage. His reaction to all this. You know he’s being genuine (yes, he doesn’t sound sober)
    For BJ to have this impartiality and showing him everything….phenomenal.

    • @Laura-ny4up
      @Laura-ny4up Рік тому +14

      She gave him a platform .
      If anything it’s a beginning to HIS truth .
      I do hope BAM finds sobriety when he’s ready . 🫶🏽

  • @jessiebg
    @jessiebg Рік тому +17

    Sobriety should not be a prerequisite for telling one’s story … when in literature or media has it ever been?

    • @ballistic02
      @ballistic02 Рік тому +2

      true.. as long as they are coherent enough to tell the full story(to the best they can) without purposefully leaving facts out.

    • @thatswhatshesaid6326
      @thatswhatshesaid6326 Рік тому +1

      I agree! It’s not her job to police his actions. I don’t think anyone thinks Bam isn’t an addict but that doesn’t take away from his life story. If anything it’s part of it.

  • @nickelcitybear
    @nickelcitybear Рік тому +3

    actually, yes, forest fires do start with a lit cigarette .. I don’t agree with the additional 90 days but let’s not kid ourselves about how fires start

    • @WyoRockstar13
      @WyoRockstar13 Рік тому

      Yes, Forest fires do start with cigarettes…Idk 🤷🏼‍♀️Florida is a swamp so not very likely….He was littering which isn’t great but Is it a reason to extend his rehab session?

    • @nickelcitybear
      @nickelcitybear Рік тому

      @@WyoRockstar13 oh absolutely not .. a citation for littering at the very most

  • @ReeCrowsFray
    @ReeCrowsFray Рік тому +21

    Oh lord this just keeps getting better. The complete and utter stoic demeanor of BJ is so professional it has me doubled over in laughter 😂😂😂

    • @ThatSurpriseWitness
      @ThatSurpriseWitness Рік тому +6

      Wait til episode 2 😅

    • @aircnc9385
      @aircnc9385 Рік тому

      @@ThatSurpriseWitness fucu&episode2

    • @ReeCrowsFray
      @ReeCrowsFray Рік тому

      @@ThatSurpriseWitness oh it did NOT disappoint! 🤣🤣🤣👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @Laughwithmeoratme
    @Laughwithmeoratme Рік тому +58

    Best thing about BAM especially in interviews, is he just lays it ALL out lol names and everything he doesn't hide nothin! I love it

  • @Jennifermcintyre
    @Jennifermcintyre Рік тому +10

    The timing of this coming out and the reports that he’s threatening to kill his family and on the run/warrant for his arrest 😳 damn!! What’s going on?!?

  • @Ali.Bruni143
    @Ali.Bruni143 Рік тому +27

    It looks like they’re currently trying to set Bam up again. What an awful family and group of people who just constantly exploit him and ruin his life. Love your work BJ!! Please never stop.
    FREE BAM 💥

    • @therivergiveth
      @therivergiveth Рік тому

      Amazing how bad your judgement is. Truly stunning. I hope you can't vote.

    • @Ali.Bruni143
      @Ali.Bruni143 Рік тому +4

      @Doves idk, but money & greed sure makes people do heinous things..

    • @dimitri-dn4gv
      @dimitri-dn4gv Рік тому +2

      @@therivergiveth derp derp derp “hup yous cun’t boat” 🤡

    • @Astral_Blaize
      @Astral_Blaize Рік тому

      @Doves The family is the common denominator. Doesn't matter how you want to try and spin it. Putting up with his madness??? He is their son. He gave them a lot when he was younger. They aren't "dealing" with him best they can. They are pulling James Spears on him. Family doesn't mentally, physically, medically or financially abuse each other. Especially not your own children. They are complicit. They've signed off, they've worked with who ever else is and has been involved because he is an adult. You are also very ignorant when it comes to BJ. You should maybe do more research, these aren't for views. She has a law degree and is/was a lawyer and unless you didn't watch all of the video or have not followed this on her channel you would know she has the receipts. So she gets no joy or humour out of these sorts of topics. Human rights violations are no joke. You are sounding like the abusers who took away Britney Spears human rights. Are you related to her family by chance.

  • @NT-is8pv
    @NT-is8pv Рік тому +4

    Why is his family in his house .. they want his assets for sure

  • @amyrose5310
    @amyrose5310 Рік тому +4

    So same day your video comes out, and there is warrant for Bam issued in Philly by his family, with his brother who threatened you claiming assault charges against Bam...which I think seem highly questionable. April the mom, made remarks they are only seeking him to once again put him in treatment. What questionable timing on the part of his family. In fact, the whole things seems fake to me, and designed to put him away again. Shameful. A star with money who will not work like a drone. I do not know why they cannot just let the man live his life. I hope he goes to Europe or Mexico or something and just starts fresh. If he is wise he will cut all these people out of his life.

  • @PrettyGhostX
    @PrettyGhostX Рік тому +12

    Clearly Bam has a bit of a rough lifestyle and he's allowed to have that, if that is his choice. And clearly his mind isn't that rough out for him to not remember things and not to seem coherent. He can (still) be creative and doing what he loves, when he's NOT on forced 18 medicines. At this point - LET HIM BE! He's an adult and maybe not the "average" adult person but he's Bam✌
    Great job BJ I look forward to the next video ❤

  • @peeweemore1496
    @peeweemore1496 Рік тому +5

    I agree. He is an adult. He can make his own choices. People (Lima) are profiting off of him. They don’t care about his well being. He is his own person. He is allowed to make his own choices but it is not ok to baker act him or continue to use the system’s loopholes to hold him hostage while making $1300 day. Keep letting him speak his truth. It is not on you whether he an adult chooses to drink. No Matter what he can chose to live his life the way he wants. Whatever he does and the good or bad consequences that come are solely his doing which is how adult life is. He is not crazy and does not need to be held hostage. That obviously doesn’t work. He is proof.