Bam Margera Speaks Out! | That Surprise Podcast Ep. 4

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  • @joelsheppardmorgan
    @joelsheppardmorgan Рік тому +117

    This is great therapy for him to be honest! You created a space where he felt heard and showed such empathy. More ppl need someone like you in their lives.

    • @baddie1shoe
      @baddie1shoe 8 місяців тому +4

      It’s such a relief to feel heard, seen, and connected-no matter in what state we are.
      I hope he does choose some form of sobriety-he seems interesting.

    • @Livingingratitudeforever
      @Livingingratitudeforever 5 місяців тому +3

      It really is. Especially when she asks him, “how does that make you feel?” Because not enough of us are asked that in general. 🥺🥹

  • @KandisStarr
    @KandisStarr Рік тому +13

    BAM! I am 13 yrs clean.. no program , you have to truly want it.. programs made me want the substances ... You can do it! You have to see the problem with it to truly want it.. I'll keep you in my highest vibrations! Love...

    • @VixxSarah
      @VixxSarah 8 днів тому

      Congrats! It's different for everyone. Addiction is closely linked to mental health and illness in some. For others, it can be genetics. For me I needed a concurrent science based program that worked on my mental illness and my addiction. There's not many of these programs where I am.
      Typical programs fail most, I don't like AA, but it works for a small amount of people, so we need to have it for those people.

  • @ann.tidote6232
    @ann.tidote6232 Рік тому +198

    When you handed Bam his wand and he got happy and said thank you was so damn wholesome 😂😭😭 I love watching him swish that thing around ❤

    • @Shannon_Moore
      @Shannon_Moore Рік тому +10

      I love their chemistry!

    • @shanna2.2.2
      @shanna2.2.2 Рік тому +12

      He really seems like he can just be himself around her and actually be heard when he speaks, it makes me happy for him since it truly looks like he doesn’t have any good people surrounding him

    • @gypsywoman9140
      @gypsywoman9140 Рік тому +12

      I was also thinking how wholesome and pure they are together. She's wearing sunglasses cuz he is, he wears a headband to match hers, like something we'd do while young with our best friends. It's very nice to see this side of Bam. The stuff they're talking about is not wholesome or sweet, but their bond is heartwarming. I hope they remain friends for the rest of their lives.

  • @salome_333
    @salome_333 Рік тому +21

    Was Bam an attempted mk ultra but lima style??

  • @petrabethyname7142
    @petrabethyname7142 Рік тому +15

    Why don't you love me to life
    😭 💔

  • @faysalals1
    @faysalals1 Рік тому +48

    Ban should sue Lima for using his photos without consent to advertise her product

    • @jessicashaver1628
      @jessicashaver1628 Рік тому +2

      Rehabs have people sign a thousand things as they're checking in no doubt likeness is owned for time in there ect

  • @fbitchesbuyhouseplants6454
    @fbitchesbuyhouseplants6454 Рік тому +46

    When bam said to his mom “why don’t you love me to life” instead of death 🥺

  • @cant_argue_with_facts
    @cant_argue_with_facts Рік тому +98

    " you're killing me, why don't you love me to fucking life!" Wow! Those are strong words! As a mother if my kid(s) said anything like that to me I would honestly have to re evaluate myself.

    • @billwilliams328
      @billwilliams328 Рік тому +3

      Not when your child is an addict…

    • @esmeraldagreengate4354
      @esmeraldagreengate4354 Рік тому +13

      ​@@billwilliams328 if one of my kids turns out to be an addict you can guarantee that as their parent I will be taking a long hard look at myself.

    • @backwoodsgeorgiagirl5594
      @backwoodsgeorgiagirl5594 Рік тому +4

      @Bill Williams one of my kids is an addict and the hardest thing I had to accept is that I can't fix him. I can't ductape him to a chair until he promises to stay sober ( did try) I can't have hin arrested or committed. I can't make him do anything bc if I could he would not be an addict

    • @billwilliams328
      @billwilliams328 Рік тому +1

      @@backwoodsgeorgiagirl5594 I'm sorry to hear that, I hope he finds the strength to fight back against it.

    • @deadassdgaf100
      @deadassdgaf100 Рік тому +1

      but WHY tho...🤦🏻‍♀️?
      parents are to "guide their children in the way they should go, but once they're adults, they're responsible for their own decisions.(and reevaluating YOURSELF, not only does nothing in the way of a "solution", but is also a foundationally selfish outlook to possess of the situation overall.
      if your child ever became an addict....
      (and believe me - addiction does not discriminate. anyone is just as susceptible as the next person - as far as the possibility)
      ...my suggestion:
      focus on what is missing / needed / should be prioritized as: needs to be "reevaluated" through the perspective of just what you're child find important, in that aspect, NOT YOURSELF (especially of things you can't now change, anyway.)
      👀 but that's just me & wtf do i know? take it for what y....... but💁🏻‍♀️ im just sayin.

  • @L_Pants
    @L_Pants Рік тому +218

    Who else can say “Well I was just filming my music video, minding my own damn business, when Bam Margera texted me wanting to come over”. That’s amazing 😆 Love it!!

  • @sheaboisvert9077
    @sheaboisvert9077 Рік тому +422

    “Why don’t you love me to life” wow, that hit home. Wishing all the best for Bam. 💜

    • @melissadecker2288
      @melissadecker2288 Рік тому +12

      I felt that too

    • @shermsmoke
      @shermsmoke Рік тому +13

      Some shit jus be hittin different..

    • @alliematelski1767
      @alliematelski1767 Рік тому +7

      That's so sad to hear breaks my heart and I never was really ever down that much with bam way back when

    • @Gmodenjoyeronsteam
      @Gmodenjoyeronsteam Рік тому +5

      That was some real shit

    • @Troyr420
      @Troyr420 Рік тому +4

      Why do people say this after death then they won’t love you ? It makes no sense .

  • @Iwishiknew87
    @Iwishiknew87 Рік тому +37

    It’s sooooo fucking sick that they use Bam’s one weakness ,Phoenix- his child, to get him where and what they want!!! This is scary, it’s exactly what they did to Britney! All he wants is to be left alone and be able to see his son!!!

    • @TruthSeeker777-dc9rw
      @TruthSeeker777-dc9rw Рік тому +4

      Bam predicted this back in 2019 he made a video saying if him and Nikki ever break up that she would use Phoenix against him.

    • @anandabliss9997
      @anandabliss9997 3 місяці тому

      Well he’s also a multimillionaire that’s because they’re greedy and want his $$$$.

  • @The_DropBear
    @The_DropBear Рік тому +18

    got the guy on a list of drugs longer than his arm but destroy the guy for "being on drugs" hollywood is toxic..

  • @almostteatime6758
    @almostteatime6758 Рік тому +17

    I love Jess mad that Bam is taking up a bed in HIS own house
    These people are so ungrateful, they should be rolling out the red carpet when he comes by

  • @ediesaffron3593
    @ediesaffron3593 Рік тому +25

    35:03 lol I love Bam’s impression of AA meetings, it’s so accurate 😂 I’m 7+ years sober off of opiates and NA meetings never worked for me. I know it helps a lot of people but I personally felt that those meetings were a negative influence on my mental health.

  • @kathaRoo
    @kathaRoo Рік тому +10

    Can you talk about Lamar Odums treatment centre? I’m curious now. I wouldn’t think he was a trustful person

  • @rioclemens
    @rioclemens 11 місяців тому +18

    Bam listen, I’m 9yrs sober off Herion & I tried for years to go to meetings & I learned it wasn’t for me!! & that’s okay! Meetings are not good for a lot of people!!

    • @rebeccaspratling2865
      @rebeccaspratling2865 10 місяців тому +3

      Exactly. Everyone is different and not everyone will respond the same to different modalities.

  • @violent_world
    @violent_world Рік тому +4

    Move out of corporate America dude... find a tropical island away from all the leeches around you, skate around, paint and do a lot of introspection, away from drama, stress, drugs and fuckheads.

  • @PhoenixRagna
    @PhoenixRagna Рік тому +69

    you can just tell that Bam is intelligent and caring. He is excentric. that's not against the law. Poor thing has his whole family after him.

    • @eliushi6220
      @eliushi6220 Рік тому +4

      Exactly this! He is intelligent and excentric and after everything his family has done he still loves them.
      That man has a lot of love in his heart. If it was me i probably would have stopped loving them a while ago.
      But on the other hand, you never know how you act in a situation you haven't been in yourself.
      But i really think that his family and ex wife and mrs L. (with the 100 different last names) are the biggest
      reasons that Bam has a hard time to get sober.
      They are totally trying to break Bam in a million little peaces, but he is strong and he is still standing.
      Super super super sad that they 5150th him again.
      #freebam
      I hope he gets out soon and alive. I am really afraid for his life now.
      And i really hope he will gets to see his son as much as possible in the near future. He already missed so much of his little life.

  • @jessmarie148
    @jessmarie148 Рік тому +41

    BJ please don't stop, giving him the platform to speak is EXACTLY WHAT HIS FAMILY IS AFRAID OF..they love when he has these "rant" moments but honestly he's just struggling. yes he may be a alcoholic it gosh look at the MESS/SHIT SHOW he's been living the past 5 years alone!
    I just commend u i really do. and any of us who have followed u since the first 100 subs KNOW u are a good person❤😊

    • @zariballard
      @zariballard Рік тому +2

      Oh my gosh, at first I thought you wrote to please STOP giving him a voice...my bad! Yes it's exactly what his fam is afraid of and good 💯

  • @tiffhtx019
    @tiffhtx019 Рік тому +87

    I truly appreciate how Bam uses the props with no hesitation 😂❤

  • @cassiewilloughby7105
    @cassiewilloughby7105 Рік тому +13

    If Bam is funding his family's life, then that's extremely likely to be the reason they keep him in the news ' gossip makes money and 'crazy' people or famous people on drugs going to rehab is great gossip according to the tabloids.....so I guess they got to make a story out of BAM and plain clean living won't make the headlines so they got to make shit up

  • @mindingpeople
    @mindingpeople Рік тому +31

    Today it was in our news that Bam is currently on a 5150 hold in a psychiatric hospital and I was really worried! It is very sad that he was already warning that he felt hunted.

  • @maryssalynnemedley8871
    @maryssalynnemedley8871 Рік тому +389

    I missed Bam. Grew up with his show, jackass, all of it. I just wish him health, happiness, and a good relationship with his kid.

    • @HollieAndApollo
      @HollieAndApollo Рік тому +6

      Same! I second this! ❤

    • @andrewwolf4963
      @andrewwolf4963 Рік тому +13

      Bam lives in a bubble it seems, he doesn’t know half of his own story , I think he truly is intoxicated 90% of the time based on his lack of intuition and awareness. But it was good to see him sound sober on this episode.
      I hope the 5150 turns into a positive for once but his family needs to stop. He needs to make these decisions on his own and for himself.

    • @krisr3612
      @krisr3612 Рік тому +4

      Please add freedom and liberty to that list.

    • @valeriewarren9337
      @valeriewarren9337 Рік тому +1

      Same here.

    • @Troyr420
      @Troyr420 Рік тому +1

      I miss the old bam too but I wish he went into UA-cam stunts like Steve o to stay in the spot light .

  • @likemesomeyoutoob
    @likemesomeyoutoob Рік тому +146

    You are kind to Bam, I believe he really needs that.

    • @fatrat137
      @fatrat137 Рік тому +3

      I feel like he needs someone to grab him by the balls though like he did to Novak when he was trying to help him with his addictions...but also needs the nice (possibly female) support too

  • @piistheword
    @piistheword 9 місяців тому +13

    OMG I just binged the whole series and watching Bam go off on angry rants while waving the puffy pink pom pom around has my stomach muscles hurting from laughing.

  • @beepbopboop7727
    @beepbopboop7727 Рік тому +14

    The more he gets 51/50’d the worse a pending custody agreement is going to be.

  • @Nemo71340
    @Nemo71340 Рік тому +30

    I met Bam not too long ago in LA at the airport and what’s weird is he was totally coherent and seemed totally sober. Stopped and took a picture with me and was very nice. I was actually pretty happy to see him because he did not look bad like he does now and it was less than three months ago.

  • @IrritationX
    @IrritationX Рік тому +297

    I feel so badly for Bam, mostly because of Phoenix. Once you take a man's son, he's got nothing left to lose.

    • @Jjjbbb5678
      @Jjjbbb5678 Рік тому

      Hes a drug addict he needs to clean up before he sees his kids

    • @Tsudkyk
      @Tsudkyk Рік тому +62

      Especially how they used his kid to lure him to a location. It’s manipulative and disgusting.

    • @Troyr420
      @Troyr420 Рік тому +9

      I just feel bad for him in general

    • @Jay-n262
      @Jay-n262 Рік тому +32

      Family and friends are supposed to be supportive. Not controlling and manipulative, after 2 years in treatment centers they were trying to put him back in. That comfortable life they've had for the past 2 decades is from Bams money.

    • @planetluna9554
      @planetluna9554 Рік тому +26

      I have a lot of empathy for Bam but let’s not forget no one took his son, he lost custody due to his drug/alcohol abuse. As we can all see, Bam is still using. Personally if I was in his shoes I might have chosen to get sober the first day I lost custody so I could have a chance to fight the custody battle.

  • @nicolae6173
    @nicolae6173 Рік тому +193

    I see this, I can hear Bam’s truth and pain, and so much trauma. Talking about everything was clearly putting him in a heightened state and I am glad he could sense this and knew he needed to step away! It wasn’t you, you are kind and empathetic. It’s so messed up, all the people around him need to see the vulnerable open honest person he is and not the person that they judge for the history of addictions. He wears his heart openly and I love him for this, and want to protect him too from all the unnecessary drama that keeps piling on. Be well Bam and stay true to yourself, and grow in your own power!

    • @Iwishiknew87
      @Iwishiknew87 Рік тому +7

      I understand both ways too, this isn’t the way to go about getting him sober.. and also the money is a driving factor behind most of their actions..

    • @frawrg
      @frawrg Рік тому +6

      As a Bam fan of 20+ years, I don't think I could've said it any better. ❤🙌

    • @kirpdeb
      @kirpdeb Рік тому +4

      Bam still sees the good in his friends and family even though they have behaved so dishonest, manipulative and greedy towards him. I hope that he learns who he can trust and how much he can trust them. He needs to learn to trust himself MORE.

    • @km.8997
      @km.8997 Рік тому +3

      @@apriljk6557 You realize treatment/seeking help to change the negative ways/behaviors people deal with trauma is available to anyone, not only addicts, right?
      Most people are not born bad people.
      The behavior she described usually stems from trauma, a mental health decline and/or mental illnesses.
      You do know sober people deal with those issues too right?

    • @baneh1329
      @baneh1329 Рік тому +3

      @@kirpdeb By feeding into that shit, your helping him kill himself, I want you to be aware

  • @lindsayrios5506
    @lindsayrios5506 Рік тому +10

    You should sue Steven o for defamation

  • @maddhatter586
    @maddhatter586 Рік тому +178

    I feel so bad for Bam dude, his family may think they have his best intentions in mind but they are going about it in a terrible and toxic way.

    • @lindsey5690
      @lindsey5690 Рік тому +12

      That an he makes the money an there greedy af unfortunatly.. they say money changes ya.. I understand they think there helping him but this is totally the wrong way to do it.. they shouldn't have forced rehab on him.. he should have hit rock bottom an that way when he does decide to get sober he does it for himself an nobody else.. but they just want his money an that's so shitty of his family .. love ya support ya BAM!!

    • @lauramyers4547
      @lauramyers4547 Рік тому +1

      His family is toxic and awful. They have no good intentions for bam only themselves.

    • @MichaelMcCabe-eb2bo
      @MichaelMcCabe-eb2bo Рік тому +4

      Bam was my hero he is a legend

    • @thatdarlin
      @thatdarlin Рік тому +2

      This

    • @Freud_Mayweather
      @Freud_Mayweather Рік тому +8

      They don't have good intentions they think they own him and are entitled to everything he makes just like Brittany Spears father

  • @L_Pants
    @L_Pants Рік тому +6

    Can we please raise a glass to the Queen telling the star of Jack@ss to his face that the things they did were weird and gross 😂 ALL HAIL! 🥂👽 BJ, you are a badass. LYMI🩵

  • @ronlords698
    @ronlords698 Рік тому +12

    I love BAM BAM and support him he's a badass and him and Ryan Dunn were the only reason Jackass was ever a good show love you BAM hope you get shit working in you're corner you deserve a Badass life with you're son.

  • @debbieross7074
    @debbieross7074 Рік тому +54

    As much as it may hurt, Bam needs to get a good lawyer and get away from his family. He's in a cesspool of toxicity. Phoenix will see all this BS when he's older and see how his Dad wanted to be with him. So very sad situation here. Love and healing prayers for Bam. 🙏💖🙏

    • @beepbopboop7727
      @beepbopboop7727 Рік тому +6

      Exactly. He knows what they are trying to do and still walks into their bear traps.

    • @lauramyers4547
      @lauramyers4547 Рік тому +8

      You are exactly right. And unlike most of us, this is all documented and will not be hard for Phx to find when he’s old enough to look for it.

    • @leanna5922
      @leanna5922 3 місяці тому +1

      I was thinking the same thing. Sometimes for a person to get better, they have to cut out the toxic people. And sometimes those people are family. It is sad but they do it to themselves. He has got to cut them out for good

  • @linkes28
    @linkes28 Рік тому +4

    He doesn't want to have a seizure that's why he drinks during the interviews. Poor guy must be so frustrating living his life st the moment. He just needs to step back get his finance back under his control and sue the crap out of everyone. Family court to get access to his son, his mom and brother for defamation, Lema for mismanagement of his welfare and funds. Sell the castle break every single link to these people. Then write a book about it and move on.

  • @Laughwithmeoratme
    @Laughwithmeoratme Рік тому +7

    If his fam was really there for BAM genuinely they wouldn't accuse him of using fake pee on the test, and always thinks the worst of him. It's sick

  • @beepbopboop7727
    @beepbopboop7727 Рік тому +23

    Nicki wants to wait five days so she can arrange with Lima to set him up.
    I think Bam needs just go through the lawyers.

  • @KateKosmo
    @KateKosmo Рік тому +7

    What's really messed up is that's BAM'S HOUSE but they treat it like it's theirs & Bam can't even be in his own home without them telling him what to do! That's crazy that Bam doesn't even live in his own house bc otherwise he has to be around them. Even his mom said he cant be there until the lawyers sort the shit out with his brother...no have the brother leave then bc its not his house, its BAMS! WTF MAN! Bam, you're not going to see this, but EVICT THEM! I'm saying evict bc they have lived there long enough & definitely have mail coming there so, legally he has to, to get them permanently removed.

    • @TruthSeeker777-dc9rw
      @TruthSeeker777-dc9rw Рік тому +1

      I remember an episode of Viva La Bam and Bam, Dunn and everyone who are the regulars were at Castle Bam and April is yelling at everyone to get the hell out of HER house! Lol it’s Bams house!

  • @christelmckeon1951
    @christelmckeon1951 Рік тому +14

    Omg what Bam said about sitting around trading war stories all day is triggering. I totally feel that way about it. I've been sober for 9 months. I don't like sitting around talking about what I used to do.

    • @JM-mr6pz
      @JM-mr6pz Рік тому +3

      SAME it's the worst part of treatment

  • @TiffanyLevineDangerNTrouble
    @TiffanyLevineDangerNTrouble Рік тому +6

    Hi BJ, I’m a REHAB CEO. I have been attempting to contact you, but your proton mailbox is full.
    I love your channels and have been following the crazy story with Bam, Lima and the twins. I would like to offer my support/services with whatever you may need. I have led treatment programs since 2012. I have worked all around the country- CA, TN, FL, and currently GA. I'm happy to offer expert advice or answer your questions as they arise.
    I think what you're doing is admirable.
    With gratitude,
    Tiffany
    PS- are used the same technology in my treatment center in 2016. There’s a Dr. Phil connection although I am not certain if he has a connection specifically with Lima or not. It is not inconceivable. I will give you more info off-line.

    • @simplymonca
      @simplymonca Рік тому +1

      Hello! You can reach BJ at thatsurprisewitness@gmail I’ll let her know to look for you.

  • @shelleygold4923
    @shelleygold4923 Рік тому +6

    This shit would make ANYBODY flip a fucking lid.

  • @Blu_MooN14
    @Blu_MooN14 Рік тому +181

    Thank you so much for all you do, BJ. I know Bam really appreciates having a kind hearted person around him after everything he's been through. Through you, he has found a platform where he can speak his truth without people jumping down his throat and scrutinizing every little thing he says. You and your community are amazing! ❤

    • @wendysavvy4351
      @wendysavvy4351 Рік тому +5

      I agree, and well said!! 👍🏻

    • @87cindyd
      @87cindyd Рік тому

      ​@@wendysavvy4351 😮 makes no 🎉😮

    • @AlphaPhatFilms
      @AlphaPhatFilms Рік тому +9

      he's somebody, she's nobody... he's desperate and unhinged, she's not very creative and needs some money... do i have to spell it out or is this starting to look like something you shouldn't be thankful for?

  • @AustinD1993
    @AustinD1993 Рік тому +23

    Been waiting to see Bam this clear saying everything He needs to clearly!!! 🖤🖤💜💜💜
    💜🖤💜Thank You BJ for sticking with him and not giving up or turning against him like everyone else does!!!!

  • @doordee3663
    @doordee3663 Рік тому +4

    Bam is going to Lamar Odom's? I don't trust any of the kartrashians

  • @langinable
    @langinable Рік тому +31

    What a pleasant surprise. Love bam and I pray he gets more time with his son.

    • @disf5178
      @disf5178 Рік тому

      He's meth'd out of his gord.

  • @mishaa7263
    @mishaa7263 Рік тому +4

    steve-o is so holier than thou it's kind of annoying... dude has the shadiest past way more than Bam and being so public shaming is a bad look

  • @carolinep.7580
    @carolinep.7580 Рік тому +14

    Phoenix will appreciate this one day ❤

    • @lronhubbard8580
      @lronhubbard8580 Рік тому

      That's what these females don't get when the children grow up they'll see who was right and who was wrong.

    • @Retr0-Cynik
      @Retr0-Cynik 2 місяці тому

      He would be disgusted

  • @MaTtYMcBlack
    @MaTtYMcBlack Рік тому +13

    Free Bam

  • @dizzy_star
    @dizzy_star Рік тому +35

    Bam 100% predicted what his current situation is. This was a great interview and hopefully y’all will get to have more in the future. My only question is: BJ, what’s your cat’s name? 💖

    • @breebree7935
      @breebree7935 Рік тому +6

      Asking the real questions! The people want to know! 😂❤️

  • @rainao4803
    @rainao4803 Рік тому +4

    Is Bam not allowed to speak on Lima? He always seems to change the subject quick when her name comes up.

  • @ruthvermeulen2098
    @ruthvermeulen2098 6 місяців тому +4

    It feels like I’m watching a parody of myself talking to my therapist.😂

  • @CuriousLindZ
    @CuriousLindZ Рік тому +3

    Misery loves company bam. Success YOUR OWN WAY is the best revenge. 28:38

  • @manifestwthedomesticgoddess
    @manifestwthedomesticgoddess Рік тому +39

    It is so sad hearing him talk about finding out all his own families scheming to get him out of the way, he was perfectly coherent and honestly clever and smart talking about the mic and it makes sense that Jess staged it to bitch about bam. Like where is this genuine love they supposedly have for him and that is igniting all their "fear" for his wellbeing. They act like he's in the way. Man I just want to give him a hug. Now they got him locked up like wtf 🥺

  • @arghyetlol
    @arghyetlol Рік тому +6

    I grew up in PA and spent a lot of time in West Chester as a teen. My friends and I use to drive by Castle Bam every so often and had a couple of friends in the West Chester area. He's the reason that area has notoriety now (Besides Sean Penn lol.) But Bam left a resounding impression on his and my small seemingly insignificant hometown with a population of 5,000 in PA, also. I continue to root him on! Love you to bits Bam!!

  • @alexlc1989
    @alexlc1989 Рік тому +12

    If there's one thing that's at least consistent with Bam is he never changes his story. He loves his son more than anything but he knows he can't be around Nikki. I'm glad he mentioned the lawyers doing the work cause he knows he can't do it himself without being set up. Again, good job BJ with asking the important questions. Should've asked him about Jessica's brother tho. He's been rampant online about her as well.

  • @UCanC2Tv
    @UCanC2Tv Рік тому +3

    They want him to unalive himself. This is all to push him to that. Then the baby mama and parents get everything and life insurance. Its about his money

  • @brandonhernandez9077
    @brandonhernandez9077 Рік тому +3

    Dude is an addict with no program he’s obviously his own problem cause apparently not one thing is his own fault

  • @betterwiththeirish
    @betterwiththeirish Рік тому +4

    All those drugs together, it’s a wonder Bam isn’t dead! What a horrible mix

    • @lronhubbard8580
      @lronhubbard8580 Рік тому

      He was on two different kinds of stimulants at one time.

    • @betterwiththeirish
      @betterwiththeirish Рік тому +1

      @@lronhubbard8580 and seroquil an anti seizure medication which is actually pretty bad when you read about it.
      I’m amazed they weren’t concerned about things like serotonin syndrome with all those antidepressants and suicidal ideation. Just one of those drugs has a very bad reputation for causing that often!

    • @gina_st.george
      @gina_st.george Рік тому

      ​@Better With The Irish seroquel is actually an atypical antipsychotic, primarily used to treat bipolar disorder, schizophrenia, and occasionally insomnia. Every prescription drug has some kind of dangerous side effect...not everyone who is prescribed seroquel suffers with suicidal ideation. Many people, like myself (I've been prescribed seroquel since 2011) have taken it with fantastic results.

  • @cindiwindi
    @cindiwindi Рік тому +10

    Omg I clicked so fast hi everybody!

  • @meganlovesdogs
    @meganlovesdogs Рік тому +7

    So I understand that BAM needs help and sustained sobriety and his family claims they “love” him… What I don’t understand is how are they having him committed and taking his assets because he’s using drugs and alcohol? There are many people on drugs and they can’t be committed… It’s like everywhere he goes, he either gets committed, arrested, etc? And legally, how is his son being withheld from him? So he can’t see his son for a year because he’s an addict? He has the right even if it’s supervised. I can’t imagine the emotional damage this is doing to his son… it’s ridiculous 😢

  • @truebelieverthasit6265
    @truebelieverthasit6265 Рік тому +7

    I'd like to know more about Nikkis sobriety

  • @wendysavvy4351
    @wendysavvy4351 Рік тому +115

    This was one of his best interviews with you! 🎉 He describes everything with so much emotion, he definitely feels more than the average person! And that's why he gets hurt so easily. I've liked him since back in the day, & grew up with two guys that were very much like him. So yeah, I was definitely a tomboy. Bam, I love the energy you exude... Don't ever leave this planet because of the foolishness of others. Ok?! You are a gift, even though many are trying to take you down. Always RUN!!! Especially, if facing them brings nothing but tears. My own family is a mess, so i get it. 😮😢

    • @elliesmith8139
      @elliesmith8139 Рік тому +13

      All negative emotions stem from hurt. There is no hurt like the pain of having your child kept from you. I wish him the best!

    • @MetalSammie
      @MetalSammie Рік тому +2

      Amen! 🏡🙏✌️

    • @baneh1329
      @baneh1329 Рік тому

      @@elliesmith8139 The best thing for the kid at this point

  • @anunez3450
    @anunez3450 Рік тому +134

    Yall need to stop judging bam and listen to what he's saying. This is actually normal behavior (once a victim realizes that they can speak).Then It feels like at any moment the mic can be taken away not to mention he is reliving what he's saying which is why he expresses himself with such aggression. I thank BJ for being so patient with Bam because sometimes all we want is validation. And it is part of the healing process.😊

    • @cant_argue_with_facts
      @cant_argue_with_facts Рік тому +13

      This ! 🫶🏼 I have been saying the same thing in commemts in every interview ! It's like people don't understand this is the FIRST time he has been able to say WHATEVER and actually tell HIS TRUTH ! Yes he has been interviewed on other platforms, but he was highly edited and coached. You can clearly tell this !!

    • @MonsteraFairy
      @MonsteraFairy Рік тому +12

      Yes, THIS! I have experienced it myself. Ofc not exactly in the same way as Bam. But when people around you, MANY ppl, that are supposed to care for you constantly gaslights you and go behind your back and don't ever listen. Once you're able to openly talk, in a safe space, it's like a plug being opened and everything just flows out with all the anger and all the sadness. I feel so fucking bad for Bam, growing up with him on TV, I truly hope he will get his justice and maybe one day can find peace after all this chaos. WE SUPPORT YOU BAM 💜🖤💜

    • @lolababs206
      @lolababs206 Рік тому +3

      Exactly

    • @diabloakland
      @diabloakland Рік тому +3

      Thank you! I’ve been in this situation before where i was finally able to tell my side!

    • @lronhubbard8580
      @lronhubbard8580 Рік тому

      @@cant_argue_with_facts he still can't say whatever. If he'd just expose the seaorg then he could say whatever.

  • @kro527
    @kro527 Рік тому +11

    Love the way kitty was listening to Bam so intently. 😆

  • @salome_333
    @salome_333 Рік тому +70

    Bam you are incredibly sweet, naive..a good heart. No wonder you got addiction issues but your good heart is still intact.

  • @jimmyjump8335
    @jimmyjump8335 Рік тому +4

    Somebody not mocking, shitting on, backstsbbing bam.

  • @ediesaffron3593
    @ediesaffron3593 Рік тому +6

    6:28 *BJ’s cat enters the chat* BJ your cat is soooooo adorable 🥰

  • @Death2TheCore
    @Death2TheCore Рік тому +4

    Fucking love you BAM hang in there 🤘

  • @myentertainmentblock232
    @myentertainmentblock232 Рік тому +8

    BJ seems like a awesome person to talk too, i mean she just listens, isnt judgemental, and makes the occasional callout of yeah cant do that

  • @Talentedtadpole
    @Talentedtadpole Рік тому +8

    Bam is surely neurodivergent. Ignorance and prejudice about this is causing some of the problems and his difference is being used as an excuse to manipulate and look him up. Happens all the time. He's a big, expressive, creative dude who needs to do things a certain way and to MOVE.
    Neurotypical people can be evil atypical people.

    • @yesterdayseyes
      @yesterdayseyes Рік тому

      I was SA'd by a so called " neurodivergent" person as a child. No one cared because I'm just a normal person, I'm not worth protecting. Anyone can be evil, especially people who put certain groups on a pedestal and openly hate "normal".

  • @thatdarlin
    @thatdarlin Рік тому +10

    I love Bam-isms. The part about his brother's kid's vitamin water being missing and it really sucks, and Bam goes "you know what really sucks, you really suck", haha!

  • @beepbopboop7727
    @beepbopboop7727 Рік тому +4

    I just don’t understand why Bam keeps on giving his connection locations, and going back into the dragons den. Like, Bruh. Does he not seem how it’s a bad idea?
    He should listen to his lawyer, get a PR manager and a therapist, and fucking listen to them.

    • @natashacosta9646
      @natashacosta9646 Рік тому +1

      I think he still wants sanity to prevail, for any of these people to come to their senses and stand up for him. I don’t think they will but I’d bet that’s what he’s hoping for.

  • @foxphene7574
    @foxphene7574 Рік тому +51

    I hope Bam learns his worth. Even just from having your kindness and support through this shit. He deserves to get his story out and express his feelings - without it resulting in having his civil rights taken away. I can't imagine not being able to see my kid or trust my family. Love you mean it BJ, K, bye x

  • @coryfulloheart581
    @coryfulloheart581 Рік тому +3

    This Lima not very bright saying crap like bam has to think we on his side not even realizing he eventually see the vids of her saying that crazy

  • @TheSteveShow321
    @TheSteveShow321 Рік тому +2

    Hey, im a recovering addict. Im from the area. South Jersey. I know how to help bam. You actually said it on your interview with him. Ibogaine. I have done it myself. I know this can save his life. I wrote a book about my addiction and recovery. I want to talk to him about ibogaine. Im not some groupie that just wants to talk to him. I want to help. Is there anyway I can get a book out to you or bam and help me help him? im going to keep annoying you until you tell me to kick rocks or you help me out. ill keep trying to get in contact wit you. i will also send a book and letter to castle bam and hope someone gets it. i really think this can save his life. please respond.

  • @Vaalka
    @Vaalka Рік тому +8

    It's like, because of Bams past , everyone around him believes he deserves the way he is being treated. They're hitting a struggling man while he is trying to get back up.
    If they disliked him so much why didn't they just cut him out of their lives? They're sticking around because of what Bam can do for them. He does not deserve this. It's pure cruelty. They're all so up their own asses thinking they're right and what they are doing is just, & some of them don't even care whether what they are doing is right or just they are just taking advantage of the family. They are all selfish, bad people.

    • @lolababs206
      @lolababs206 Рік тому +1

      Of course they won't cut him out of their lives, they're all living off of him and want him out of the picture with no ability to control his $$$. They're so full of it.

  • @viventmagnifiquement
    @viventmagnifiquement Рік тому +3

    Wow honestly you should sue Steveo for defamation

  • @viddy_welll
    @viddy_welll Рік тому +50

    So excited to hear what Bam wanted to say! 🎉

    • @shawnpahl
      @shawnpahl Рік тому

      What was it… He was saying like 10,000 things that made no sense!

  • @sianjones2760
    @sianjones2760 Рік тому +5

    I think they tricked him again in latest 51.50 imo

  • @HorrorcoreArtists
    @HorrorcoreArtists Рік тому +7

    Bams never gonna get better because he doesn't want to.

  • @koicaine1230
    @koicaine1230 Рік тому +5

    Bam was doing GREAT with the Shaman, they should have left him alone. Outside of that, he would probably do great with just Therapy, like I have treatment resistant Depression and Panic Attacks (a few decades long) and have spent my life on prescriptions that don't work and have horrible side effects. I tried to get into the Psilocybin Clinical Trails but I didn't meet the criteria they were looking for at that time. I was getting worse and working to get an appointment at a Psych Clinic at the local hospital to get Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation and possibly Esketamine Treatmens. In the meantime, I started going to a Therapist. It's working so well that I actually canceled the appointment I had gotten for the TMS and Esketamine Treatments.

  • @jesss491
    @jesss491 Рік тому +29

    His family is using him just like Britneys family did. We need to get this man free! Prayers for bam ❤

  • @MariaEOD
    @MariaEOD Рік тому +5

    Sadly, if this man wasn’t worth the money value that he has occurred, no one, not even his “family” would give a shit about him! They’d probably let him roam around the town or county soullessly without caring what he did or said, dead, alive or incarcerated! So sick!

  • @acampomft
    @acampomft Рік тому +4

    He's a broken record.

  • @Laughwithmeoratme
    @Laughwithmeoratme Рік тому +3

    Is he sure 100% that his son is his and not his brothers

  • @thegoodanfamily9817
    @thegoodanfamily9817 Рік тому +11

    "Love me to life" 💕-Bam
    I loved that statement.

  • @leizaharpur9899
    @leizaharpur9899 Рік тому +6

    He has a big heart & he was fked over big time. I'd be very worked up & vocal too. And the psych drugs they put him on? He's gonna be a long time coming off them

  • @purplehayes1993
    @purplehayes1993 Рік тому +2

    I honestly don't think he's ever truly dealt with Ryan Dunn's passing..

  • @kaytlinwhitlock5534
    @kaytlinwhitlock5534 Рік тому +3

    So basically the people living in Bams house don't want him to be there even though it's HIS house??!! Is that what he was trying to say? Like them trying to pin the mic being stolen on him being home was all a setup right?

    • @TruthSeeker777-dc9rw
      @TruthSeeker777-dc9rw Рік тому +2

      Yes 😢

    • @TruthSeeker777-dc9rw
      @TruthSeeker777-dc9rw Рік тому +2

      @@patrickschlicky7940 He doesn’t live with his family. That is his house that his brother is staying at. The reason they got into a confrontation was because his brother was in a group chat plotting to get him committed, and he wasn’t doing anything wrong, they just didn’t want him there at his own home. Regardless if Bam has substance abuse issues, does not give anyone the right to try and keep his house from him.

  • @JamieJai
    @JamieJai Рік тому +4

    i am soooo beyond pissed... i missed the begining of live premier so i had to come back - but to see him speaking facts and speaking them so hilariously!!😄
    and to know now what i feared from the day he was rushin back to Cali... i fn KNEW it!!!!😭
    they just USE his son to lure him. and fk jess i fn OWNED his ass on twitter!!! i said 1 thing to him and he literally responded in 1min 😹😝 it was too fn funny!! and Bams 1000000% right cuz i know E1 in my friend group really liked the cky stuff in jackass. fk the rest of em!!
    but how fn convienent that thats what started the legal ish, Bam seen the text crusty lynn wanted him back in Cali so he could keep the castle.🤬
    it has me absolutely gutted... i want to throttle them all.... omg yesss he's sayin it now. im absolutley gutted.. 😭😭😭😭

  • @Musicsports
    @Musicsports Рік тому +13

    Bam was really in a good place during this interview. Very interesting. The family needs to watch it and learn from their mistakes.

  • @gigglingchaos1795
    @gigglingchaos1795 Рік тому +10

    CA is utterly corrupt with this stuff

    • @publiushoratiusclocles7952
      @publiushoratiusclocles7952 Рік тому +1

      It's not just California. He said in a previous podcast that they treated him worse in Florida.

  • @casmiller82
    @casmiller82 Рік тому +3

    My mother told me before I was pregnant that I would end up giving her my child like she gave me to her mother. It was like a joke in a way. Well I became pregnant an I really didn't want the child an I tried to sneak out to get an abortion because my apt was at 6am an she caught me an made me miss my apt. Then talked me outta it an into shame. Once I had the baby she got me on pain meds. She was prescribed these pills an never took em an gave em to me. I was very sad because I didn't want to be a mother an I was on drugs now because of my mother. Then my mother threw me in rehab an while I was in there she sent me court papers to the rehab to take my child from my custody. Then I ended up just giving up. She had all my friends and my whole family in there against me. So I gave up. Then she never allowed me to see him. Unless it was through a truck window. Then she got cancer and it went to her brain an while she was in the hospital she helped my stepdad get custody of him. While she was in the hospital i was pregnant an gave birth to a baby girl. And now she is dead. Iv been a clean for 13yrs and have a family an 3 kids an iv been a great mother. Moral of the story is my mother had to die so I could live.

    • @rebeccaspratling2865
      @rebeccaspratling2865 10 місяців тому

      I am so sorry she did that to you. It seems to me like she had guilt for giving you away so in her mind a way to make up for that was to raise your child and pass it on to you. To force pregnancy and birth onto someone who doesn't want a child is criminal. I believe she gave herself cancer. I'm glad you're sober. Sobriety is so hard to get to when you've been through such a severe trauma as you have. I am so proud of you. 💛 🫂

  • @GenXtothe7thPower
    @GenXtothe7thPower Рік тому +22

    Bam had REALLY GOOD instinct to put together this emergency interview with you! It's a shame what his own family are doing to him, Sometimes you just have to cut those ties, regardless.

  • @spiritqueen1978
    @spiritqueen1978 Рік тому +6

    I love how some alcoholics like Jess think they are superior to other alcoholics because they drink beer instead of liquor. If you drink every day to the point the fridge is stocked with beer then you are a alcoholic. Plain and simple. A addicts opinion on another addict is irrelevant. You have no right giving an opinion. You need to worry about your own issues.

  • @ryukomatoi592
    @ryukomatoi592 Рік тому +19

    I was so shocked that his stupid bro tracked him and 5150 him for no reason! Jess is such a freeloader!

  • @Clementine_D
    @Clementine_D Рік тому +18

    I'm a recovering addict and this would have infuriated me if my family did that to me

  • @juliana.x0x0
    @juliana.x0x0 Рік тому +15

    My family did some very similar things to me. They abused and manipulated me, isolated me until I acted out. Then, I'd be institutionalized against my will and HEAVILY medicated.
    The medications would give me awful side effects, and my behavior was always used against me, even when it was a result of the medications. Then, they'd institutionalize me again for trying to get rid of myself or acting out or running away. It was an awful existence.
    I have no contact with them anymore, I got away right before I turned 18 and never glanced back.

  • @mmminno
    @mmminno Рік тому +15

    Man, my heart breaks with the thought that he probably still never saw his son before they 51/50'd him.
    I hope that BAM goes full no contact with everyone but Phoenix

    • @RedsBigRig
      @RedsBigRig Рік тому

      Was this when he was “on the run”

    • @mmminno
      @mmminno Рік тому

      @Ray Lewis it was after he was "on the run". He attended court with his lawyer after his family made that claim, proving he was never really on the run.
      I believe it was after that that he did the interview with BJ that's recorded here. Though I could be getting the timeline mixed up. He went to California a day or two before this video was posted, he was supposed to meet up with his girlfriend and son in Cali and it was another setup just like Florida.

  • @samanthabroaddrick2529
    @samanthabroaddrick2529 Рік тому +4

    I love the spaceship background with pink space lol beam me up BJ! 💖🖤 🚀