Bam Margera is SCARED | That Surprise Podcast Ep. 2

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  • Опубліковано 30 вер 2024
  • Part 1 here: • The Bam Margera Interv...
    Bam Margera discusses his freedom, #FreeBam, his conservatorship, Steve-o, Johny Knoxville, Jeff Tremaine, his guardian Lima, and more.

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  • @Tarotqueen-uv1qy
    @Tarotqueen-uv1qy Рік тому +74

    I’m a recovering addict who did the Florida shuffle and let me tell you there are so many recruiters looking for addicts with money and or good health insurance not because they care but because it’s easy money.

    • @Atrainswrld
      @Atrainswrld Місяць тому +2

      There is this guy from the Chicago area who sends people to FL for rehab and tries to make it sound all good. They say they cover the flight and all that and give you a scholarship. I forget the guy's name, but he is a hustler piece of sht. Lots of people dying when they get out. I think pompano beach or some where near there. Heard after you finish the program, they put you out on the street. A rehab treatment place. Also the insurance is out of state coverage. Fck Florida treatment.
      This chick rocks man, gives you the real story about people who the media trys there best to make people look crazy..

    • @12kayalabai
      @12kayalabai Місяць тому +2

      YUP.. to put you away... and siphon his money from pills to pillow cases to food and therapy sessions while inpatient 😮wow

  • @kurv89
    @kurv89 Рік тому +457

    Fun fact: "Lima" means slime in Finnish 😊

  • @tdmccoy1211
    @tdmccoy1211 Рік тому +592

    Ok wait y'all..... I'm beginning to think Bam needs to see the Amanda Rabb story ... He needs to see what we see about Lima, and THEN decide if he loves her. (Hi, Lima! We all know you're watching and reading!)

    • @palmer491
      @palmer491 Рік тому +23

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Ali.Bruni143
      @Ali.Bruni143 Рік тому +42

      She definitely is lmao 🤣 🤮

    • @tdmccoy1211
      @tdmccoy1211 Рік тому +52

      Also, maybe Bam can tell us exactly how many sisters Lima HAD and where they all are??? Or at the very least maybe him trying to find out will help him AND his family see who this chic really is.

    • @christa8021
      @christa8021 Рік тому +69

      Bam needs to see what Lima has done to him first. It’s clear he has no idea what these people have been doing to him all this time.

    • @BreeBerzerker
      @BreeBerzerker Рік тому +50

      You know she's steaming rn. It's true, if he's only just found out about BJ you know that he's been sheltered from Limas full true story too. If her own sisters can't be accounted for, and everything that happened with Amanda Rabb, how can you trust her with your own well being, or your loved ones.

  • @legally_ellecee1309
    @legally_ellecee1309 Рік тому +49

    I need to incorporate “I sippy sip from a cuppy cup” into my regular conversational phrases😅 Another great interview, thanks for giving a Bam a platform to speak out

    • @skylarlahr3841
      @skylarlahr3841 3 місяці тому +3

      I am consciously trying to myself!!!😭🤣❤️

  • @christiecruzxo2841
    @christiecruzxo2841 Рік тому +55

    This is straight up body brokering what they are doing to him. Happens a lot in the recovery community, happens to blue collar workers with shitty insurance I can’t even imagine how bad someone with actual wealth would get taken advantage of. This was so eye opening. THANK YOU for giving him a safe place to land to tell his story ❤

  • @krisap1635
    @krisap1635 Рік тому +74

    "I had 3 broken feet".......I cannot stop laughing. Everytime he waves his pink Fluffy wand I just lose it. Lol

  • @theearlynovamber8295
    @theearlynovamber8295 Рік тому +28

    Wait, Lima..? Wasn’t that the chick that was “taking care” of that one girl that was homeless and abusing drugs, and gained so much weight and ended up dying in her care?

    • @simplymonca
      @simplymonca Рік тому +7

      Yep

    • @zjanne1
      @zjanne1 7 місяців тому

      What..?

    • @Limuh2
      @Limuh2 3 місяці тому

      @@zjanne1 I beg you to research this rabbit hole of weirdness. I just fell into it this week and I feel like I've been drugged at a disco.

  • @ninjakitty8944
    @ninjakitty8944 Рік тому +221

    even though he's rough around the edges I see his loving side and it breaks my heart how he's being treated. This poor man deserves so much better than what he's going through. BJ you freaking rock!!!! Yaw sitting back with glasses on like a BOSS!❤

  • @courtmiller4116
    @courtmiller4116 Рік тому +147

    They have great chemistry together and it's really nice to see him comfortable. He told bj "love you" when they were watching the clips together. He's clearly very appreciative and grateful to have BJ on his side. BJ out here doing the lord's work 💯💯

    • @PixelTheExtraTerrestrial
      @PixelTheExtraTerrestrial Рік тому +4

      2 nurodivergent humans normally do have the best chemistry lol beautiful right ❤

    • @PixelTheExtraTerrestrial
      @PixelTheExtraTerrestrial Рік тому +2

      Also shes being human to him humanitarian its in out nature to be kind humans choose not to be thats not the lords work its built in society has pushed it out of humans

    • @courtmiller4116
      @courtmiller4116 Рік тому +6

      @@PixelTheExtraTerrestrial literally. Bam is not perfect and she does call him out on the things he needs to improve, such as being more appropriate around his son. But she does it constructively. I understand why he's losing his mind. I'm a mother of two children and if I wasn't able to see them, I literally don't think I could find the will to live. He's the most sane one in a family of toxic people. I see this cuz I've watched all the jackasses and all the spinoff shows. Bams family is controlling and codependent. They're also addicts in their own right. They're addicted to food, they're addicted to fame, they're addicted to being victims, they're addicted to controlling bam.

    • @Anonymous-lq2bs
      @Anonymous-lq2bs Рік тому +2

      Do you think he clapped her cheeks?

    • @courtmiller4116
      @courtmiller4116 Рік тому

      @@Anonymous-lq2bs I highly doubt it since she's engaged, and has morals and character. Weird that you're envisioning them fucking. Lay off the porn.

  • @paulrando1237
    @paulrando1237 Рік тому +67

    I understand addiction myself, and this interview has helped me, I really feel for Bam, I grew up inspired by Bam, he might not be in his right mind in this interview, but he is very on point and very clear, the research makes sense, great interview and wish you healing Bam, we got this recovery, keep up incredible work BJ🙏

    • @Anonymous-lq2bs
      @Anonymous-lq2bs Рік тому +1

      I love how she’s trying to get the ground rules down and Bam keeps interrupting her. Both these people have a tremendous amount of potential. Unfortunately one of them is struggling from a disease and their in my thoughts and prayers.

  • @auntyvenom133
    @auntyvenom133 Рік тому +756

    Bam should get a restraining order against Lima. She is obsessed with him & is not a mental health professional nor is she a doctor. Lima is a proven liar & needs to stop forcing her way into people’s lives & making them do things against their will. Silencing people is not acceptable. My prayer’s for Bam♥️

    • @kristofferbjrnstad3906
      @kristofferbjrnstad3906 Рік тому +14

      Maybe bam should get to rehab again?

    • @melodie7282
      @melodie7282 Рік тому +81

      @@kristofferbjrnstad3906 but if he doesn't want to it won't work. Even if he's put in rehab for 6 years if he doesn't want to be sober he won't. So rehab why?

    • @Goldie9899
      @Goldie9899 Рік тому +56

      @@melodie7282 💯 facts!! The only way to sobriety is you wanting it period!!! You can’t force it on anyone and I hope and pray for Bam’s sake and his son, HE CHOOSES to stay sober…but his family, Lima, fake friends, etc are doing nothing to help and are honestly, only pushing him further into addiction imo bc they are lying and manipulating him and he feels so alone and trusts no one!!

    • @beepbopboop7727
      @beepbopboop7727 Рік тому

      She drives everyone away. I swear she increases suicide rates just by her presence.

    • @JenniferKelly6669
      @JenniferKelly6669 Рік тому +36

      Bam deserves to be free and live the life he wants!

  • @MrStephy22
    @MrStephy22 Рік тому +60

    I hope these interviews help you with your lawsuit with Lima. I cant imagine how angry Lima and Ivan must be but i wish i could see it

    • @Nivieee
      @Nivieee Рік тому

      I bet she's raging hard as the sociopath that she is!

  • @kdog8658
    @kdog8658 Рік тому +842

    Been watching this unfold with ny boyfriend who has been sober off heroin, fentanyl, and alcohol for three years. We feel so deeply for Bam. He and I know firsthand how people will profit off of our suffering. Rooting for you Bam.

    • @cori7209
      @cori7209 Рік тому +48

      Congrats to your bf on 3 years!! I love, love, love seeing people beat the statistics! I'm 8 years clean this month. Best decision I ever made! Its so sad watching someone struggling with addiction.

    • @Neenah44
      @Neenah44 Рік тому +4

      ♥️♥️

    • @kaitlynnT811
      @kaitlynnT811 Рік тому +31

      Omg same here I myself am a recovering addict from heroin fentanyl any opiates basically since 2016 I got on methadone and I haven’t wanted it touched it or anything and I think I’m getting to the point where I’m ready to get off the methadone as well I think methadone can be a savior for many just like Suboxone but for the ones that aren’t ready to stay clean and do the work it’s just another drug to those people who hopefully someday will be ready to be clean before they end up passing away from the disease of addiction 🥺🙏🏼❤️

    • @ValenciaIsGlamourous
      @ValenciaIsGlamourous Рік тому +5

      ​@@kaitlynnT811 heyyy sweetie..stay strong love..me tooi

    • @kayetaylor5551
      @kayetaylor5551 Рік тому +7

      Well done mate.... love from a Scottish addict ❤️

  • @dalayneejo
    @dalayneejo Рік тому +266

    hearing bam talk about books is like a window into who he truly is. the way he got so excited talking about literature was sweet.

    • @upstreamworld
      @upstreamworld Рік тому +29

      Yes! And when she brought up Whim Hof and he fully knew exactly who he was and what he was about. Loved that

    • @vampire__games
      @vampire__games Рік тому +9

      When you don't have access to Internet, you read. W Bam

    • @erikagonzalez7070
      @erikagonzalez7070 Рік тому +7

      And all the countries and states. U can tell he's intelligent

    • @MantidTheHuman
      @MantidTheHuman Рік тому

      Bro what, lol he clearly don’t read. Who to forgets the title to a whole ass book you read recently?

    • @PositiveVibesChangeLives
      @PositiveVibesChangeLives Рік тому +9

      ​@@MantidTheHumansomeone under the influence. That doesn't make them dumb

  • @sabrinaspeakeasy
    @sabrinaspeakeasy Рік тому +160

    What we’re seeing with Bam and his family is a family system. Bam’s role in the family shifted from being the Golden Child, for providing the funding to bring up the life style that April and Phil could afford Bam on a grocery store baker and hairdresser’s salaries, to the Identified Patient or Scapegoat. That happens to Golden Children once they burn themselves and their talent out to enrich their families. The family, no longer benefitting from supporting the Golden Child, does a 180 and blames the way the Family Scapegoat communicated, copes (in Bam’s and most cases of high functioning high pressure talent, addiction), or lives in order to inspire conformity to the unwritten family rules and arrangements. We saw with Brittney and Bam that their brand and their brand reputation was more important than the individual and both families have used Brittney and Bam’s children as ransom and bait to control their family member. It is dysfunctional, it is sick, it is family trauma, ancestral trauma, and absolutely the most inhumane and cruel treatment to a person who worked their entire childhood and adulthood to enrich their family. Bam may be the one that shows the most symptoms, but he is by far the least sick person in this family.

    • @whiteheart6827
      @whiteheart6827 Рік тому +16

      Damn that was articulated so well.

    • @SondraC-jj8kz
      @SondraC-jj8kz 9 місяців тому +1

      BRITNEY

    • @WillBlindYouWithLight
      @WillBlindYouWithLight 7 місяців тому +3

      😮
      Blows my mind.
      Because I have been taking bible college classes.
      I learned about generational repetition... So Isaac had two sons and he favored Esau. So Esau was left with nothing because his mother and brother Jacob tricked Isaac. Years later, Jacob has many sons but favors Joseph. After Jacob took his brothers inheritance, years later, he tracked his brother down to ask for forgiveness. Not only did he forgive Jacob, but he made his own way. They depart, and Daniels brothers were so jealous of him. Tried to kill him many times. Threw him into a pit so that he would starve to death. One brother got him out and sold him as a slave. So Joseph becomes a big time dude... And the father Jacob has another new favorite. So it continues down the line until Joseph treated them as royalty and they finally seen how their own father had treated them. He ended the generational favoritism.... Anyway.... It is crazy to think this stuff still goes on to this day. Most golden children go on to be narcissistic pieces of 💩.....bam seems to genuinely want to be a better person and just live his own life without the constant bs. I promise that either April or his dad's parents did the same thing to them.

    • @amandaanderson209
      @amandaanderson209 5 місяців тому +2

      WOW. 100% this

  • @brittanymcguire7620
    @brittanymcguire7620 Рік тому +64

    the lil wand fight was so adorable. i love seeing the silly goofy side of BAM. 💚

  • @kdog8658
    @kdog8658 Рік тому +268

    I really hope this doesnt end in tragedy. I want him to live to soberly tell his whole truth.

    • @SP-qo3pd
      @SP-qo3pd Рік тому +7

      It will if he doesn't do prison time. He reminds me of my brother. No matter how hard you try and no amount of money spent will help them unless they have absolutely no choice.

    • @VintageBalderdash
      @VintageBalderdash Рік тому +6

      It’s not really a victimless crime when you start assaulting people and issuing death threats, this has an effect on other people, and accountability is a part of that. Sorry guy.

    • @CatalinaFOIA
      @CatalinaFOIA Рік тому +14

      ​@@VintageBalderdashat that point there will be legal ramifications and let the law deal with him. Adult choices have adult consequences. Instead of his family and the handlers trying to control his entire life. They need to let Bam be himself and make his own choices; consequences will follow as needed.

    • @I_Thought_This_Was_America
      @I_Thought_This_Was_America Рік тому

      Amen 🙏

    • @kdog8658
      @kdog8658 Рік тому +9

      @@windsofthewest2164 he doesn't need to do anything, i do believe that being sober makes it a lot easier to represent yourself and avoid manipulation. What i want is irrelevant though.

  • @Valoxxx
    @Valoxxx Рік тому +44

    Bam playing with the pom pom the whole time kills me 🖤

    • @soude85
      @soude85 Рік тому +1

      Love it! 🎀🩷🦄

    • @cleopatra444
      @cleopatra444 Рік тому +1

      @@soude85 is my favorite part !! 😂😂😂💗💗💗💗🦄🧚🏽‍♀️

  • @vickytimmins
    @vickytimmins Рік тому +28

    Well done for treating Bam as human (its very clearly hard based on his alcohol consumption) then the name dropping about his rich lifestyle without even realising he’s doing it. He is so privalidged but like a caged bird at the same time. He’s too damaged to even stay sober to save himself, even with your help.

  • @dalayneejo
    @dalayneejo Рік тому +57

    i feel so bad for bam. i wish him nothing but recovery, freedom, and happiness in the future.

  • @indecline06
    @indecline06 Рік тому +636

    It's amazing how Bam responds when treated with kindness and respect.

    • @ayoutubechannel864
      @ayoutubechannel864 Рік тому +58

      Imagine that, right? It reminds me of homeless people... If you just sit and talk/listen to them they get so happy and will totally open up to you! That's why the offer of support is often taken. Why would someone want to open up to a cop or someone who looks at them with prejudice and disgust?

    • @indecline06
      @indecline06 Рік тому +20

      @@ayoutubechannel864 it’s a real difficult situation. The “sober” people should know better, and change their approach. There might be little reasoning if any at all, but best to let bam live his life.

    • @woodnbikes
      @woodnbikes Рік тому +29

      @@indecline06 That's the problem, people get sober and all the of the sudden they become preachers who think they are better than everyone else.

    • @beepbopboop7727
      @beepbopboop7727 Рік тому +26

      He’s very charming. Even when shit faced.

    • @padanstarnes3035
      @padanstarnes3035 Рік тому +15

      @Wil C not all the time, I'm five years sober from alcohol. I work at a bar so I see drunks all the time. .BUT I can spot out the behaviors of an addict so I do have more compassion. One guy that was at the bar all the time getting sloshed and fired from all jobs. I would talk more to him and even went out to do "sober things" instead of just going to the bar.
      I get irritated by drunks, I'm compassionate towards addicts because I was them for most of my life!

  • @francescaetc
    @francescaetc Рік тому +93

    Steve-O was talking about you on his podcast and I was thrilled to see all the comments defending you and your quest for the *TRUTH, the whole truth, and nothing BUT the truth*
    If there is one thing in this life I have learned it is that family does you the dirtiest. Not always. But often, and I have had complete strangers show me more compassion and help me on a REAL level than my own blood relatives. Thank you BJ for what you are doing for Bam and for others. You are selfless in your quest for justice, and even though it seems like the odds are against you (and for all of us who love truth) in the end the LIARS, MANIPULATORS, and the EVIL people trying to control everything are crumbling and will ultimately FAIL. Just take a look at the history of humanity, it's cyclical and tyranny will be crushed. *The truth .. shall... PREVAIL*

    • @RatClowns
      @RatClowns Рік тому +2

      Yikes what kind of stuff was steve-o saying about her?

    • @klbfarwell
      @klbfarwell Рік тому +7

      I refused to give him a view. I figure I would see it on someone else's if needed.

    • @RatClowns
      @RatClowns Рік тому +4

      @@klbfarwell samesies

    • @Waveewave
      @Waveewave Рік тому +1

      Amen to this!

    • @Ali.Bruni143
      @Ali.Bruni143 Рік тому +10

      @@klbfarwell Same.. I cant believe he uploaded a video today called “Steve O wants bam arrested” like wtf?
      So desperate and lame..

  • @eiramiam9703
    @eiramiam9703 Рік тому +421

    My heart hurts for this man. I’ve never rooted for a happy ending in anyone’s story as much as I root for Bam. He seems like the the kindest, most genuine soul. Demons are a bitch.

    • @HughMadBro
      @HughMadBro Рік тому

      lima needs to go, his mom needs to cut her 💩 & then his "WIFE" who wants $$$ has to go!

    • @JamieJai
      @JamieJai Рік тому +11

      agreed.... i wanted to cry when he said how scared he was. DEF tome for him to evict, change gate code and hire some kind of security. the fact he cant even sleep in his own home without worring about being taken!?! no fn wonder he's up for days on end paranoid!! i would be too!!! even worse!!!😿

    • @JamieJai
      @JamieJai Рік тому +2

      @joppysole 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏💯

    • @daftbenson
      @daftbenson Рік тому +6

      Watching or finding out a friend dies is a different kind of demon, grief is the worst kind of heartbreak

    • @MEMELIFEBABY
      @MEMELIFEBABY Рік тому

      The people he is surrounded by are the demon bitches.

  • @danielleolivia4545
    @danielleolivia4545 Рік тому +29

    BJ, this interview really shows your sweet + good people skills! Honestly, both you and Bam seem like you would be so fun to hang out with! 😂 He makes me laugh so much despite his dark story. I'm a gymnastics coach and I'm totally going to start telling the kids at work they are trying to SABO me when they don't listen to directions 😂🤣 I'm sending my signal into the universe for Bams safety + healing ❤

  • @krisap1635
    @krisap1635 Рік тому +58

    It is just so sad this man cannot stay sober long enough to know what sober living really is. Everyone is using him and taking advantage of his addiction. I sure hope he can get it together for his child and has so much potential.

    • @simplymonca
      @simplymonca Рік тому +8

      Hi! So, Bam announced that he is taking control of his sobriety and has vowed not to drink for the sake of himself and his son, and has left to Colorado in order to separate himself from his triggers.

    • @Inkedaquarian76
      @Inkedaquarian76 Рік тому +9

      Yep. He has been used for money since his youth. No wonder he’s been chasing chemicals to make him feel safe and secure for years!

    • @lillymurray8408
      @lillymurray8408 Рік тому +14

      Y’all miss the point. You’re so focused on the alcohol. Do you have any idea what any of the shit he’s been through is like? Or even does to a person? As a former addict, the people trying to “help” him aren’t actually looking to help. They are getting PAID. There’s a difference. Of course he isn’t sober. He wasn’t ever properly helped. And only made worse. Also, why would he want to go get help after he’s seen what “help” looks like? He doesn’t realize that there are good people and places out there that will actually help. Shit, I’d never step foot in another rehab if I was him. Ever.

    • @jeremymiller418
      @jeremymiller418 Рік тому +1

      That's the truth

  • @litl_kim
    @litl_kim Рік тому +121

    The image of Bam, during his next hearing, pointing BJ out in the gallery to the judge and saying “that’s BJ, she has all the info about these people” is just funny to me 😂

    • @heyhey1754
      @heyhey1754 Рік тому +12

      thats going to make me smile during downtime at work tomorrow. THANK YOU lol. I like how these two have their own bond quickly

  • @cleocomyn2760
    @cleocomyn2760 Рік тому +347

    I haven't seen bam so authentic in years, all these other podcasts make him look so crazy yet you brought out his brilliance. Your a amazing person and thank you for what you do.

    • @audreyhudson
      @audreyhudson Рік тому +20

      @@iprint3d710 im almost positive he has add or adhd ( i could be wrong but i believe ive heard him say that before) with that being said, people with add and adhd ramble like this daily (even worse if untreated), they repeat themselves MULTIPLE times, they get lost while telling a story and end up telling 10 stories within 1 story and then circling back to the original story topic! It is SUPER hard to stay concentrated on what ur trying to say when u have so much u wanna say to tell ur story! Also when they get overstimulated and worked up they get whats called "diarrhea of the mouth"! Where they can talk for HOURS upon HOURS NONSTOP!
      This is NORMAL BEHAVIOR for someone who has a.d.d. or a.d.h.d. (and is untreated or not on proper dosage)!!!!
      Believe me... i have adhd and have dealt with it my ENTIRE life!!!!
      And yes i know he had taken a drink or 2..... which makes untreated add adhd worse! Heck it even makes treated add adhd worse also!!!

    • @symphonyinkart
      @symphonyinkart Рік тому +3

      @@audreyhudson I’m definite on the bi polar. I think I remember an interview where he said bi polar/ adhd is his diagnosis

    • @Isabella-io2zq
      @Isabella-io2zq Рік тому +9

      @@audreyhudson as a person with adhd i can confirm that sometimes people just don’t understand what i’m saying because i can’t organize my words (sorry for the bad english is not my first language)

    • @jamieschumacher7989
      @jamieschumacher7989 Рік тому +9

      Yeah he doesn't come across as crazy here 😂😂😂😂

    • @audreyhudson
      @audreyhudson Рік тому +1

      @@Isabella-io2zq i understood what u said!💜

  • @emilyann4549
    @emilyann4549 Рік тому +60

    It sounds like Bam has a lot of respect for this Shaman, and if left to work with him, he may have recovered.
    Maybe not, but their not letting Bam find out.

    • @danichesney1876
      @danichesney1876 Рік тому +4

      Idk.... it seems like since Shaman started coming around he has only gotten worse but its hard to say without knowing the context of their relationship

    • @diabloakland
      @diabloakland Рік тому +6

      @@danichesney1876 it seems as though the shaman told him he can’t drink or party there though and his fam ruined it

    • @psychobillynumbnuts1
      @psychobillynumbnuts1 Рік тому +3

      Idk. Sounds like the shaman enables Bam

    • @dannydanko4627
      @dannydanko4627 Рік тому +7

      @@danichesney1876 He was sober and losing weight and looking like himself again before Ape showed up and gave out the address. Maybe you werent paying attention.

  • @LucidSystems
    @LucidSystems Рік тому +9

    Pefect time to cut the interview and get some food in him. Hes repeating himself, like the knoxville boxing ring thing, and was getting more animated and hostile. Needs to do a sober interview sometime.

  • @zariballard
    @zariballard Рік тому +30

    Both of you rocking the shades and the pink poofy ears...friends for life!!!! I think it's the sweetest friendship couple ever. And a round of appreciative applause for BJ's husband who sits quietly on the sidelines (or so it appears LOL) supporting HER support of Bam against all of the corrupt and unfair shenanigans therein. I am so grateful Bam went to court today. You gave him power, BJ, just knowing that someone was on his side and the SIDE OF PERSONAL FREEDOM. Enough is enough already.

  • @lillian_r
    @lillian_r Рік тому +39

    Bam has a giving heart- sadly people will take advantage and you can hear the pain in his voice and his words. He seems defeated. A lot of people process hurt with anger.

    • @JT-xp8hx
      @JT-xp8hx Рік тому

      Like this idiot who let him get hammered and then “interviewed” him?

  • @PanicattheDiscourse
    @PanicattheDiscourse Рік тому +188

    I feel you as a neurodivergent "get" Bam on a different level. Just him being allowed to TALK is so powerful.

    • @TouchoftheTism420
      @TouchoftheTism420 Рік тому +28

      Yep! ASD and ADHD are closely linked and oftentimes overlapping. I think we're seeing a forever friendship forming here and it makes my heart happy.

    • @woolzem
      @woolzem Рік тому +23

      This comment had me thinking. Watching this interview and having gone thru a lot of what Bam has with family. Being put thru a smear campaign and being overly trusting and taken advantage of... I found out recently I'm autistic and ADHD and had been unmedicated my whole life. I'm about to get my first college degree now. I know Adderall didn't work for Bam but maybe it's because he's slightly autistic and that causes emotional imbalance. Anxiety related to sensory overload can be related to chemical dependence. Could explain the sunglasses and code. But it irritates me enough seeing peoples comments calling him a "spoiled ADHD kid" or whatever. Thanks for your comment, it was very thoughtful

    • @Nivieee
      @Nivieee Рік тому +8

      ​@@TouchoftheTism420 I agree! I have ADHD and I'm sure I have ASD too. I believe the overlap is so common, it could almost be merged together. I could see Bam having ASD too, and I feel for him. ❤

    • @audreyhudson
      @audreyhudson Рік тому +15

      I have unmedicated adhd (because all drs these days automatically think someone is "faking just to get adderall"...ps i was given adderall my whole life until i aged out of fostercare and they dropped me cold turkey... which COULD have killed me because i had be on it for at least 14 years) but i digress...throughout this whole interview i kept thinking to myself ...wow is THIS what i sound like when i get over stimulated and worked up while telling a story... i know i have a bad habit of telling stories within stories and then circling back to the original story.. sometimes MULTIPLE times in a conversation...
      I know i read somewhere that he has add or adhd, but it really erks me when people say "listen to him tell stories... he cant even stay on topic... hes rambling.... hr cant even talk "normal".... im like duhhhh no sht sherlock.. thats NORMAL for people with add adhd mainly! Like omg he has soooo much inside his mind that he wants to say and yea sometimes it might take him awhile to get to the point, but how do u expect him to "talk normal" with a mental illness and after learning the sht people did behind his back???
      And there i go rambling

    • @bradpity
      @bradpity Рік тому +7

      @@woolzem i am certain he is on the spectrum, autism runs on his dads side

  • @GenXtothe7thPower
    @GenXtothe7thPower Рік тому +51

    Bam needs his own wand! I swear that wand gave him super powers!! Rooting for you, Bam! Thank you for doing this interview with the Queen!

  • @spearminttoothpaste
    @spearminttoothpaste Рік тому +65

    The little “get in” when he thought they were taking a photo🥹 he is such a sweetheart. And so are you, BJ. Thank you for giving him a safe space to just talk, rant and rave, be himself. I hope he stays in contact and comes back for the 10 interviews. He needs a friend like you. I hope he knows that he has tens of, if not hundreds of thousands of people listening to him and rooting for him. And so do you, girl. Love you mean it k bye

    • @daniw2967
      @daniw2967 Рік тому

      ❤❤❤absolutely

    • @cameronlayman-sz9ou
      @cameronlayman-sz9ou 11 місяців тому

      You can tell he has had the cork on too long in the sanitarium... Shame they don't let you uncork your mind en actually have them hear him..

  • @stitchlightly5995
    @stitchlightly5995 Рік тому +19

    It is very clear how amazing Bam could do if around the right people and how absolutely toxic the people from his past are.

  • @denyel_
    @denyel_ Рік тому +88

    cant believe how you got dragged for these interviews or blamed for him running away
    we can tell how much you care about bam. we all want him to be well and safe.
    he seems so susceptible to bad people in this state :( god bless him

    • @anti-ethniccleansing465
      @anti-ethniccleansing465 Рік тому

      @@lronhubbard8580
      Wow, you are really committed to this narrative - posting this same wild claim in tons of threads. Judging from your name, it looks as if you probably see everything as being connected to the organization, even when there is no evidence.

    • @simplymonca
      @simplymonca Рік тому

      Hi! So, I was the head of the investigation team, and we have not come across anything pertaining to Scientology, and we have come across a lot, even information we have never made public due to its sensitivity.

    • @simplymonca
      @simplymonca Рік тому

      @@lronhubbard8580 I’m sorry, but this is not ok. I’m aware of the complexities of Scientology, but you talking like this in a situation that is unrelated, even after I’ve told you as someone with the knowledge to do so, is very concerning. I appreciate your passion, however, it is misplaced. I would appreciate if you stop, respectfully.

    • @lronhubbard8580
      @lronhubbard8580 Рік тому

      @@simplymonca the conservatorships are a dead give away. Bobby Lee recently disclosed you get new teeth when you join scientology. Steveo...it's all connected to scientology. Alanon aa na are connected to scientology as well. Lron Hubbard and Bill w were extremely close. They are also connected to mutiple big name rehabs.

    • @lronhubbard8580
      @lronhubbard8580 Рік тому

      @@simplymonca go do some rpf at gold base

  • @ChrisCashe
    @ChrisCashe Рік тому +24

    56:47 Bam's impression of Lima 😂😂😂

  • @YadaYada8
    @YadaYada8 Рік тому +103

    I’m already crying but it’s a sweet heartfelt cry for you both. This meeting needed to happen. Ok let me finish the video now. Love you, mean it!💗💜💕

    • @mermaiddiyartist8119
      @mermaiddiyartist8119 Рік тому +4

      😢😭😭😭💗💗💗💗

    • @Crosshatch1212
      @Crosshatch1212 Рік тому +5

      @@mermaiddiyartist8119 you can just imagine if bam hired a forensic for his finances l

  • @Shellchevy
    @Shellchevy Рік тому +21

    I’m so much more invested in this than I need to be. Can we please have Part 3 now.
    I also seen a certain Clowns recent take on these interviews, it’s so very sad how he has designed his own narrative in this Saga.

  • @Crunchyfrog28
    @Crunchyfrog28 Рік тому +18

    This is so sad. To have such a brutal relapse made so public. I hope we don't lose him.

    • @TuesdayTirzahOfIsrael
      @TuesdayTirzahOfIsrael Рік тому

      Lose him? This is so dramatic he drinks..he’s not strung out..

    • @HermCore
      @HermCore Рік тому

      I hope we do lose him.

    • @paigebenson6538
      @paigebenson6538 Рік тому +3

      ​@TuesdayTirzahOfIsrael look up alcohol DTs before you dismiss the seriousness of alcoholism

  • @rachelosiria7865
    @rachelosiria7865 Рік тому +98

    I'm glad anyone was able to honestly speak with him during a moment of freedom

    • @nicb2073
      @nicb2073 Рік тому +5

      I am even more glad BJ got to be the one! 💪 🦄 👑

    • @nunyabizness5343
      @nunyabizness5343 Рік тому +3

      Seriously! Gives me a little hope for his situation. So bummed that his freedom was so brief.

    • @simplymonca
      @simplymonca Рік тому +3

      @@nunyabizness5343 He’s made an update on his IG. You should check it out. It’s also on BJ’s IG as a re-post.

    • @rachelosiria7865
      @rachelosiria7865 Рік тому +5

      @@nicb2073 I'm glad it was BJ too. But I'm honestly glad anyone did it someone just needed to talk to him and get his side of things. 💞 The only problem I saw with BJ is she has a lot of legitimate questions and.... It seems like Bam really just needed someone to vent to. Which isn't her fault or his fault it's just how the interview kind of went. And we all need someone to vent to so I'm glad he found somebody. 💯💞

    • @azzydazzy2705
      @azzydazzy2705 Рік тому +3

      @@rachelosiria7865 I do agree but I can see that Bam just wants to say everything he hasn't been able to say on any other platform, inc his great friend, the failed clowns podcast. Bam may come across jumbled and somewhat excitable at times but from what I've seen in these interviews he still makes a lot of sense. Bam has a way of telling his experiences like a novel, he won't give a direct answer, he likes to give the whole background and run up to the point. Also he more than likely feels he may not get another opportunity to share his side, which I completely understand.

  • @rubiedoobiedoo5051
    @rubiedoobiedoo5051 Рік тому +101

    Bam is coherent and you can understand what he is saying. He may ramble but this dude been shuffled from all these facilities, found a Shamin that encouraged him but they came to grab him from there, he clearly has issues with his bm, mother and a few others so it's just spewing out bc he has an opportunity to talk and not be told what to say! He deserves this and people need to back up and let him speak or his pain will eat him up. Like he said he can't feel physical pain but he feels emotional pain and no one around him is listening to him.

    • @indiefairy09
      @indiefairy09 Рік тому +13

      Him saying how much pain he’s in broke my heart. He’s never going to get sober if he’s in that emotional turmoil. He needs to cut everyone out of his life asap

    • @rubiedoobiedoo5051
      @rubiedoobiedoo5051 Рік тому +8

      Right! Breaks mine too and aggravates me bc it's like no one in his life is stepping up saying no, this needs to stop. Instead they just are going to bully him and make it seem like he is the problem so he spins out of control so they can reap the benefits. Anyone that feels like they are backed into a corner isn't going to do "normal " things. And that's all BJ is trying to say too

    • @professionalcommenter
      @professionalcommenter Рік тому +10

      ​​​@@indiefairy09 Bingo! It broke my heart that all he is surrounded by is liars and manipulators. His demeanor is definitely different with BJ because she doesn't want anything from him but his friendship and his happiness. People who aren't used to that don't know how to take being around people who like the person and not the money. When Bam offered to pay for his own food, I think Prim said, no don't worry about it. I think Bam was kind of taken aback by that. I would imagine, that Bam is used to footing the bill for alot of people. I wish that Bam can see the light and cut all of these people out of his life.

    • @anti-ethniccleansing465
      @anti-ethniccleansing465 Рік тому

      @@rubiedoobiedoo5051
      What is “his bm??”

    • @Lyndell239
      @Lyndell239 Рік тому

      ​@@anti-ethniccleansing465"bm" usually means "baby's mom."

  • @Waveewave
    @Waveewave Рік тому +32

    I truly can’t imagine if my pain and personal tragedy was all over the internet and tv. That’s a different story. You validate his life. I admire your work.

  • @Curious-Irish-Angel
    @Curious-Irish-Angel Рік тому +5

    IMHO Lima bean is so invested in Bam because he is a well-known star, which in turn (if it had been successful) would have helped/jump started her new high tech virtual reality rehab idea. Therefore pioneering and funding her ventures.. 🤷‍♀️
    Especially after what happened to Amanda..

  • @vannanasun3639
    @vannanasun3639 Рік тому +15

    When she asks “when was this?” I’m not really good with math. And then he says “I seen me do that.” He’s fricken hilarious. And truly the sweetest guy, he heard himself when he cut her off and said “I hear you but..” then continued on. Not many ppl do that, especially at his status.

  • @ichangedmynameforyoutube
    @ichangedmynameforyoutube Рік тому +135

    Man, I clicked so fast!!! Thank you BJ! Your work is impeccable!!!! For TRUTH AND JUSTICE!!!! Facts ain’t defamation!!!! ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @mr.rogerscardigan
    @mr.rogerscardigan Рік тому +79

    Thank you for everything you do BJ. Just got my husband watching you as well and we are both so appreciative of your constant concern for justice. Especially for people who cannot, for whatever reason, speak their own concern. Love you mean it ❤

    • @bjinvestigates
      @bjinvestigates  Рік тому +12

      aww I love yall both

    • @Crosshatch1212
      @Crosshatch1212 Рік тому +2

      @@bjinvestigates you handled it well bj, wasn’t on the list ,You’re doing good

  • @Addicted2ashley
    @Addicted2ashley Рік тому +33

    Love how you let him be him and he totally lets you be you 😂😂 so wholesome I hope more people see his interview.

  • @ashleyclay9438
    @ashleyclay9438 Рік тому +6

    BJ I just watched what Steve-O posted about you and Bam and I hope you eat him for lunch! 😂🤣 Dude is a straight CLOWN! You called it my dear, the blame game has begun! I hope you sue their sorry defamatory asses or at least expose all their corruption, disgusting allegations, and let the TRUTH shine baby! These “men” love to sit around and gossip about Bam and their fact checkers are from Redit!?!?! 🤦🏼‍♀️ Lawwwd take the wheel and let BJ’s truth set the record straight!!! I can’t wait to watch this one unfold! Y’all they done poked the wrong bear!! Love you, mean it, kayyyyy byeeee😘🌻❤️

  • @BranTheBald
    @BranTheBald Рік тому +51

    Thank you for giving Bam a voice and treating him like a human, much love 💜

  • @eleanor111
    @eleanor111 Рік тому +156

    As hard as this is to watch, this is so essential for people to understand Bam’s situation and how no one but BJ has listened to him thus far. BJ, you should be really proud of your efforts, this extends to all your team behind the scenes. I hope Bam is able to find himself on the path to recovery soon, it would be great to hear more from him when in a sober state.

    • @Rebecca-1111
      @Rebecca-1111 Рік тому

      There will be. She is hoping for this Thursday.

  • @derpleyew
    @derpleyew Рік тому +46

    I am SO relieved to hear he’s being arraigned and has a hearing date. You are the one beacon of hope for this situation.

  • @sineadbales2801
    @sineadbales2801 Рік тому +122

    Bam has to want to get sober. No one can force this upon a person. He’s living with so much pain it makes me sad. We love you Bam ❤

    • @wendysavvy4351
      @wendysavvy4351 Рік тому +2

      Definitely...😢

    • @boganshazz821
      @boganshazz821 Рік тому +1

      Noone can force him ,but you back a person into a corner, and sometimes they have an 'ah ha' moment.

    • @BreeBerzerker
      @BreeBerzerker Рік тому +7

      ​@@boganshazz821 being backed into that corner can also be completely detrimental to that person.

    • @boganshazz821
      @boganshazz821 Рік тому +2

      @B Elliott Absolutely, just my experience and knowing many recovered addicts who were backed into a corner.
      Feeling lesser than, being ostracised and the forced recollection of all the embarrassing things I did saved me.
      Clearly, it's not going to work for everyone, and personally, there was a lonnnng period of addiction before I felt cornered. Sadly, there's no one size fits all treatment plan.

    • @jeffl4802
      @jeffl4802 Рік тому +2

      @@boganshazz821 rock bottom isnt the answer and he has been sober for periods of time. It didnt help him the way we would like it to.

  • @aaronball9815
    @aaronball9815 Рік тому +17

    Bam is actually really intelligent. I hate to see that intelligence go to waste. I really hopes he gets the help he needs. Prayers for him and his family.

  • @santanavirtuosa
    @santanavirtuosa Рік тому +8

    I’ve actively avoided these Bam Margera videos telling myself I’ll binge one issue at a time and ITS STILL CONNECTED TO SLIMA 😩 she is a cancer (and not the openly affectionate/moody zodiac sign like me)! You are on her case, I’m so proud of your deep dive !! ❤

  • @Stacy_SJA
    @Stacy_SJA Рік тому +11

    WHY are people living in his home?

  • @noirweiss
    @noirweiss Рік тому +183

    BJ is so patient. Very good engagement the whole way through out. Bam seems so very excited to tell his version of events. I wish him the best.

  • @meganbuckley7760
    @meganbuckley7760 Рік тому +113

    It's so hard to see bam like this. BJ you're awesome for giving bam a chance to speak his truth. Bam is his own person and his decisions to recover should be made by himself! He needs more friends like you 💜

  • @skeetlejuice522
    @skeetlejuice522 Рік тому +5

    Bam i use to hang with you with a group called slowchildren in havertown back in the early 2000's Migel angelo and the rest of the group love you and we know who u really are.

  • @tammydaniels170
    @tammydaniels170 Рік тому +6

    Steve O and his video talking “smack” about Bam and you throughly PMO. Bam has serious issues yes, but you are far from “a crazy lady” as Steve O is trying to pass you off as. Carry on BJ!

  • @elisa-beary
    @elisa-beary Рік тому +118

    Awww when you ask WHY would Ivan pay for someone who could pay for themselves? And he says, “I DONT KNOW!? It’s a mystery and it’s my LIFE!” It is devastating to me. Regardless of what’s right or wrong if their helping or now the fact that he doesn’t know what’s going on, who’s there for the wrong reasons- it’s scary and sad.

    • @jeffl4802
      @jeffl4802 Рік тому

      Sounds like a money laundering scheme to me

    • @TouchoftheTism420
      @TouchoftheTism420 Рік тому

      @Wicked Nems
      What is radio bam?

    • @hiya1399
      @hiya1399 Рік тому +6

      @@TouchoftheTism420 It was a radio show he did like 20 years ago on SiriusXM radio.

    • @anti-ethniccleansing465
      @anti-ethniccleansing465 Рік тому +2

      @Wicked Nems
      It is really shady to me that as soon as Bam starts talking to BJ, his family has him arrested for multiple charges because they were confronted with what Bam’s been learning of what they’ve been doing, and don’t want Bam talking to BJ anymore.

    • @simplymonca
      @simplymonca Рік тому +1

      @@anti-ethniccleansing465 Hi! You have to get caught up on his IG. He went to court with representation and it went well. He stated that Jess has lied and is now suing for defamation and also starting the eviction process to get Jess out of his house. Also, he got drug tested to prove he wasn’t using and has declared that he is going to be sober starting yesterday. Because of BJ and all the information he has received, he now feels unpowered to get control of his life.

  • @patriece2215
    @patriece2215 Рік тому +95

    Hearing him talk makes me so sad and the fact that no one listens to him. Everyone just wants to keep him in facilities and take advantage of him but no one cares that he’s speaking up for himself

  • @jayjay-602
    @jayjay-602 Рік тому +73

    You know what makes me sadder than any of this whole thing? I feel like you’re probably the first person Bam has been able to fully trust in a long long time ☹️ when he said “I have all the time in the world…. For you” 💔 he probably hasn’t felt safe with someone in a decade or more. I cannot imagine.
    You’re a literal ANGEL 😇 , BJ! You’ve probably given this man more peace of mind than he’s had in decades.

    • @painalpeggy
      @painalpeggy Рік тому +15

      Hes got the shaman too. He just needs a nontoxic support system

    • @upstreamworld
      @upstreamworld Рік тому +6

      My thoughts exactly, wow! She is a literal Angel and honestly I felt such a sister-brotherly love in this whole sit-down! Bam is such a lovely soul and so is That Surprise Witness

    • @kkittycatkat1990
      @kkittycatkat1990 Рік тому +9

      He looks at her in a completely different way than the first time. He trusts her _and_ sees her as an ally which is huge, because I don't think he has ANY! Whatever happens, she gave him a voice when noone else would.
      Back when he was on Dr. Phil, even Phil told the family to lay off him (if I recall correctly).

    • @jayjay-602
      @jayjay-602 Рік тому +5

      @@painalpeggy very true, *everyone* needs at least a small group of supporters they can trust - especially someone struggling with substance issues & mental health struggles. & yes, you’re right - it does seem like he trusts the Shaman based on how he speaks about their relationship, and I was surprised & impressed to hear that the Shaman made the trespassing interventionists leave his home! Way to go, Shaman!!

    • @Retr0-Cynik
      @Retr0-Cynik 2 місяці тому

      ​@painalpeggy He HAD a non-toxic support system. He had a beautiful wife and child, friends who loved him and career opportunities that anyone would be more than happy with, and he thew it all away for drugs and alcohol.

  • @LexiUnicorn
    @LexiUnicorn Рік тому +16

    I’m just so angry that people target neurodivergent people and addicts. It’s so transparent what’s happening here. How is it in these cases the same names crop up. They are like vultures circling people that actually need help not parasites in their lives. Thank you bj for covering this.
    I’m an ex addict and I can’t even imagine how hard circumstances like this make healing and change. It must be a living nightmare.

  • @jomama5186
    @jomama5186 Рік тому +14

    I'm rooting for you BAM ! Great job young lady !!!

  • @Wakenbaketv
    @Wakenbaketv Рік тому +26

    JUSTICE FOR BAM! Did you see the steveo clip just released on steveos wild ride? He’s just sitting there acting like he’s on his high horse making Bam sound horrible.

    • @SpecialAgent-zn1vv
      @SpecialAgent-zn1vv Рік тому +5

      Eww. Soo cringey!

    • @Wakenbaketv
      @Wakenbaketv Рік тому +8

      @@SpecialAgent-zn1vv I know! I hope BJ talks a little bit about it, she was the first person I thought of. I hate that just because SteveO is clean he thinks he can talk down on people struggling still. That’s now how it works!

    • @SpecialAgent-zn1vv
      @SpecialAgent-zn1vv Рік тому +4

      @@Wakenbaketv Reckless how Steve-o casually and without merit created a narrative that inferred the responsibility of an adult human being and further, the outcome of thier choices to a journalist.

    • @morbidmeasures
      @morbidmeasures Рік тому +3

      Called him out!!!

    • @Wakenbaketv
      @Wakenbaketv Рік тому +6

      @@morbidmeasures yes! I did the same on steveos actual video too because everyone in the comments was praising Steveo and looking down on bam. I understand the disclaimers bj gave in the beginning of both interviews so far. She straight up says she isn’t sure if bam is being truthful or not but wanted to give him a platform and that’s totally fine! But one thing we’re NOT gonna do whether we believe Bam or not, is put him down or make him sound like he needs to be arrested for his own good bc he DOESNT.
      They need to let him live with the Shaman and clean up and focus on his health mentally and physically rather than crowd around him with cameras and tabloids everytime things start to look up for him.

  • @deborahchilders8934
    @deborahchilders8934 Рік тому +84

    I'm so glad you were able to interview Bam before all the additional craziness happened. You've given him his voice back.

  • @bridgettsilva9169
    @bridgettsilva9169 Рік тому +8

    Did anyone else watch the video where he talks about all his head injuries and the times he had literally head trauma from filming Jackass. So any out of normal behavior he’s immediately accused of being on drugs. Not like the multiple times he had head trauma. 🤔but I don’t know! I’m a silly little maniac too!

  • @sharlafoster8116
    @sharlafoster8116 Рік тому +11

    Bam is such a sad story about how talent and money and hangers on can become very very dark. Bam should have to face his consequences WITHOUT someone with a financial conflict being involved.

  • @boogiemonstermom677
    @boogiemonstermom677 Рік тому +19

    "It's a fing mystery, and it's my gd life, and I can't take it anymore!" This is such a heart wrenching statement to hear from Bam. You can see the pain in his eyes. I'll never understand how they can do this to him. At this point, how can they not realize they are indeed killing him with all that they've done and continue to do?! Or is this the point, because in fact they don't want bam the person living happily, but the brand he has created or his other possessions? This is what goes through my mind when it comes to his family/friends. I hope I am mistaken, but this is what all of this looks like to me. A nefarious plot, and it isn't for the goal of getting him sober 😔

    • @leahdavis1832
      @leahdavis1832 Рік тому

      I don’t think they care so much whether he lives or dies. Since he’s quit funding their lifestyles I’m sure they’d love to get their hands on his money.

  • @brittanyprunty1440
    @brittanyprunty1440 Рік тому +28

    My eyes are glued. You are one hell of an awesome human being.

  • @ReeCrowsFray
    @ReeCrowsFray Рік тому +46

    I absolutely adore this blossoming relationship. It’s usually the most unlikely duos that end up being more connected than “birds of a feather”. I love this and how happy he seems to be around you. The instant “click” between you is actually beautiful and hilarious 😂😂😂😂 I pray he’s able to get full control of his own life, mind, and f’in soul! To live the way he wants without harm. He really is very brilliant so it actually down make sense the you two would click so easily ❤️❤️🌻🌻

    • @bjinvestigates
      @bjinvestigates  Рік тому +30

      came as a big surprise to me! hahah

    • @VictoryXR
      @VictoryXR Рік тому +23

      @@bjinvestigates That Surprise Friendship 😂😂😂😂

    • @A_ndrea
      @A_ndrea Рік тому +12

      @@bjinvestigatesI feel like he’s better off sitting down with you than with literally ANYONE ELSE in his life - 💯

  • @southerncharmcreative
    @southerncharmcreative Рік тому +67

    i love that you're getting all of your answers to these questions on camera cause this just makes for perfect evidence to submit when/if you ever decide to sue his mama and her entire circus of clowns for defamation 😅

    • @itsjustme...whitney6972
      @itsjustme...whitney6972 Рік тому

      His mama is brainwashed by the experts lol 😂it's so sad whay society has done to make these goofs worship another human that's just like you. Industry is crooked n political bullshit let's all NOT vote. We the people of the power. Blue n red. Is bullshit. W need to communicate n come together. Damn quit listening to everyone. Do the research. N no not Google 😊

  • @simplyevelynco
    @simplyevelynco Рік тому +6

    What is so sad about this interview is that the people who are his friends are feeding him the alcohol knowing it’s the very reason why he gets arrested etc. and as I watch him speak my heart sinks. Cause anything he speaks about will not fall as valid. We have been drilled in our heads that an under the influence person is not to be believed. As per “experts” they cannot differentiate from reality and a made up world. They say people who drink tell the truth. And I believe that.

  • @alexlc1989
    @alexlc1989 Рік тому +67

    Damn BJ you really went hard on the questions. You held your ground and kept him in check to get the answers we all needed. Thank you for being honest to him that his behavior around Phoenix in the restaurant wasn't good, despite his strife with Nikki.

  • @katzvlog5541
    @katzvlog5541 Рік тому +9

    Seems like the Shaman is really helping Bam make some progress. Lima betrayed him by going there with a camera crew. Shows what her true motive is. And if his mom did disclose the location to Lima then she also betrayed Bam. If he likes the Shaman so much and it's actually working for him then why would they try to screw that up for him? It doesn't seem like the top priority is to help Bam. More like there doing it for money/publicity

  • @mandycandy2120
    @mandycandy2120 Рік тому +32

    I'm not BAM but it feels to me that he's so aggressive because he's been hurt so many times. You can tell he truly loves deeply those who support him. And even those who don't.. #FreeBam

  • @jomama5186
    @jomama5186 Рік тому +10

    This is very sad and very scary that this can happen to people and that their families can be Manipulated into thinking they're doing the right thing for a family member Is and they all warmed up just being taken advantage of. He could have been overmedicated and killed or anything in one of those places. I will definitely be keeping him in my prayers. He just seems like a big kid and just a very sensitive and caring person

  • @sherriv4860
    @sherriv4860 Рік тому +5

    Bam Marjera is right. Physical pain doesn't really hurt. Emotional/ mental pain hurts. Stabs you inside.

  • @deirdrecorey3876
    @deirdrecorey3876 Рік тому +15

    I love when BAM. touched you gently and says "I HEAR YOU"..
    You can hear that he's been talking to "professionals" for an extended period of time. He's forgotten how to talk to people....

  • @amandaduerk5866
    @amandaduerk5866 Рік тому +8

    57:57 she ALSO said she was Soooooo in debt that she almost jumped off a bridge?!!!

    • @lolababs206
      @lolababs206 Рік тому +2

      Yes she said it in the No Jumper interview with Adam22

  • @madeleinechenoll4568
    @madeleinechenoll4568 Рік тому +21

    Been following this so hard. It's great to see him see how much you have put into all of this and you being on his side. ❤ keep up the great work bj. You do amazing things.

  • @Mojojojo85757
    @Mojojojo85757 Рік тому +6

    GURL 👀 I just found ur channel 😂 this video is a hot mess but I truly applaud you for making it work, you def have the patience of a saint. I appreciate what u do I’m loving the content, loving the research and WORK you put into it. I’ve watched a couple videos now I def couldn’t do what u do… may the truth guide you, and the good Lord protect you ❤

  • @PatrickDolan-qc5nq
    @PatrickDolan-qc5nq Рік тому +4

    ALARM BELL: bam mention the Lincoln Park singer suicide,"he didn't tell anything wrong". That's a serious cry for help. Bam really needs to get some help, like broken record, but that is a major sign that bam needs some serious help. No one mentions suicide, or a A suicide for al.ost no reason. This dude is in distress.

  • @melissamoonfire4323
    @melissamoonfire4323 Рік тому +11

    Girl I click so freaking fast I can't wait to see this ...

  • @randofromiowa
    @randofromiowa Рік тому +26

    Im so sorry for everything you have been put through by your family and supposed friends Bam. I hope you can find some trustworthy people to help you get all of those toxic moochers away from you.❤

  • @CatalinaFOIA
    @CatalinaFOIA Рік тому +67

    32:36 😢 I feel so bad for Bam. He needs a fair and unbiased judge to mediate the custody issues between Bam and Nikki so he doesn't have to have any contact with her.

    • @indiefairy09
      @indiefairy09 Рік тому +10

      I feel so bad for his son! Having an addict dad is enough trauma but adding in all the other bs I can’t imagine what’s he going through. He’s only 5 but I’m sure he has a clue! This situation is so bad all around. Using his kid as a pawn is so gross

    • @jeepernj99
      @jeepernj99 Рік тому +16

      He’s in no shape mentally to have any custody of his son. At the moment.

    • @Muertenoir
      @Muertenoir Рік тому +9

      If I was in Nikki’s shoes, I would not let him have Phoenix unsupervised. Not in this condition. I think Nikki doesn’t want their son to see Bam like that.

    • @mntwinsfan1988
      @mntwinsfan1988 Рік тому

      Lol the judge will give the kid to the mother. Not some drug addicted psycho. Bam is a massive piece of shit.

    • @Itsgotahemi
      @Itsgotahemi Рік тому

      Ligma yourself and your 4 subscribers lmao

  • @ashley8597
    @ashley8597 Рік тому +4

    Did anyone pick up on him saying the shaman rolled a 33?

  • @deanstatham5689
    @deanstatham5689 Рік тому +9

    I’ve got a horrible feeling they was trying to get him back into a conservatorship because the rental agreements his family have on Bam’s property are about to expire and they know Bam ain’t going to allow them to renew the rental agreements so the only way they stay in control of his assets is by stripping him of his rights

  • @korn-tv2032
    @korn-tv2032 Рік тому +7

    Eww did you see steve-o’s video he posted today? Every single point you made so far, he has a counterpoint of bs for each…including trying to paint the narrative that tmz is getting their info from reddit and not bam’s family directly. Steveo is such a snake he is definitely in on all this bs. Keep speaking the truth!!

  • @Nicolecacola
    @Nicolecacola Рік тому +14

    Wow BJ! I’m so impressed with how you still conducted such a thoughtful, insightful, and respectful interview given all circumstances. I love you and all you do! I wish we were friends lol, you seem like an older sister I never had. 🥰

  • @gothiccastle1681
    @gothiccastle1681 Рік тому +21

    Bam has such high praise for you, I hope you’re internalizing that !! you’re very dedicated and thorough , love love love

  • @killthemusic0583
    @killthemusic0583 Рік тому +5

    FreeBam!

  • @xoxoBrittany
    @xoxoBrittany Рік тому +13

    Oh my gosh, as a recovered addict! This is scary as hell ,people can be held against their wishes based on someone's opinion who is NOT extremely qualified! Bam surely needs help with a mental health professional life in the spot light isn't always roses and lights!❤

    • @anti-ethniccleansing465
      @anti-ethniccleansing465 Рік тому

      @@lronhubbard8580
      It’s not a disease. It’s simply something that will always be desired, because the drugs felt great. For example, I smoked cigs for 25 years. I quit, but I always think about it and miss it terribly, particularly when I fell anxious or stressed. It’s not because it was a disease, it’s just because my memory of how great the habit felt for me will always be there, unless I get dementia.

  • @Bizzy7891
    @Bizzy7891 Рік тому +20

    Can't thank you enough for everything you do to speak up for the voiceless! Love you mean it!!!💚💚💚

  • @kdog8658
    @kdog8658 Рік тому +21

    From his report, he was completely sober at rhe Shamans and they cane to stage an intervention? They got no conscience.

    • @y2ksurvivor
      @y2ksurvivor Рік тому +2

      Almost like they want him to remain unstable, so they can continue admitting him to facilities against his will. Like they need to destabilize him even when he's achieved some stability on his own... because, well, how else can they make a believable argument in court that he's incapable of caring for himself? Just my opinion.. conspiracy.. allegedly. It just all seems very insidious on their part.

  • @Growsomeskin
    @Growsomeskin Рік тому +14

    If only there were more BJ's instead of Lema's, and more Bam's than Jesse's in this world! You guys are real!

  • @jane0luther133
    @jane0luther133 Рік тому +31

    Bam is a sensitive guy who has been manipulated so much by so many people, it must be so refreshing for him to trust someone again.

  • @coralee1577
    @coralee1577 Рік тому +20

    Ok I'm not gonna lie, I laughed really hard when Bam said ' I love my mom, but I'll put a bear trap on her foot if she tries to come over" he's funny af.
    Imagine having a great sense of humor and people try to take every word you say and use it against you? Thieves of joy fr

  • @sergiovalenti7255
    @sergiovalenti7255 Рік тому +11

    Steve-O is referring to you as the “Looney Lady” on his UA-cam video from today. 🤔

    • @ThatSurpriseWitness
      @ThatSurpriseWitness Рік тому +1

      The failed clown w a p3do tattoo. Oh no whatever shall I do?

    • @Eggpicker
      @Eggpicker Рік тому

      @@ThatSurpriseWitness and then he laughs and brags about covering up the tatoo. gotta be sober to do weird penis torture porn too, bam doesnt realise it but he dodged a bullet with jackass penis torture porn forever. He just needs to get back on track and produce his own content again.