AMEN!!!! SOMEONE ALWAYS TEACHING US HOW TO BE A WIFE A MOTHER A WOMAN FOR THEM BUT WHERE IS THE CONSTANT MALE TEACHING! OH HOW THIS WOULD CHANGE THE WORLD!!!!
The problem with that is father’s are not in the homes. Boys need men to learn from but if men are absent from 70 percent or more of black households for the past 50 years we can now start putting things into perspective.
@@elizabeth9345 I know exactly what you’re saying, as a divorce man I knew more after the divorce than before. So I give Devon a little bit of space, but I don’t like the fact that he always seems to cater to the women’s point of view but does not embrace manhood at all. That just makes me discount anything that comes out of his mouth. So I feel you, but at the same time, I’ve got to give the brother some grace, because maybe he was heavily wounded just like I was when I came out of my divorce. Let’s just watch as he “evolves”…
As a Christian young woman who is ready to establish a meaningful and sustainable relationship with someone who shares the same Christain values as me, I loved this. Wise words from such an empowered panel of men.
Such an on time message. "Thank You " Sarah Jakes- Robert for sharing this segment. I asking God to work on me, and thru me,... setting boundaries in all relationship(s)!
Devon hit it on the head!!! I think it's going to take communication and then patience for the man to meet her where she's communicated the change in her and her vision.
This is where there is struggle sometimes. Statically 🤔 she's ready to evolve before he finds the need or desire to. ❤ great conversation. This needs to be taken into the urban communities.
The beauty of women evolving, is learning to give room for men to do the same! This was a fruitful conversation rooted in transparency, grace and permission to grow. Awesome job SJR!!
Sarah, I haven't even gotten to the discussion yet but the DISCERNMENT and WISDOM you have displayed simply by the selection of men on this panel is PHENOMENAL!! I'm familiar with each of their work individually so to see them together, assembled to give us women insight... its powerful and almost overwhelming. Thank you for this!!!
This was so good! Coming from a 43 year old woman of almost 20 years of marriage (next month 12/27), I can totally hear my husband and I discussions in this panel. We are now at the point of which Bishop Jakes said, "you disrespected me, I think you're stupid sometimes....where are we going for dinner?" Lol I had to pause at that moment and laugh....so US! Thank you Pastor Sarah! :) 💟
@travelingtaata Tell her keys continue this discussion after dinner. Neither man nor woman can process thought on an empty stomach. I get hangry, personally. And dinnertime my husband and I will continue these discussions over a bit of food.
T.D Jakes asking " Where we gon" eat was on point ? As a widow my husband and I used to close some conversations like this and kept it moving. Its just the real side of marriage but in a good way.
"You can go 40 days without food.3 days without water. 8 minutes without air.But you can't go single second without God.Amen!Whatever may happen in this world;Christ remains unchanging forever & ever" 😘🙏🥀
Amen .💓I'm so happy to hear this from you 💓 Wishing you a happy Sunday. Wishing you health, luck and happiness, May God bless you all the days of your life. 🎉 @Click_on-profile-to-write-me_
Shew! 25 years of marriage here and thank you for the biggest nugget, DON’T INTERRUPT ME!!! My husband has expressed this so much and I still do at it 🤦🏽♀️ From here on out, I got it! 👌🏽🙏🏽
This was beautiful! I think that the world is fight man and woman about relationships but to see men speak up and break down what they need helps women understand how to love them correctly 💕
This is awesome! We need more gatherings and meetings like this. Where we can be taught how to connect and learn how to have relationships the right way!
This was aaaaaalmost good!! They kept deviating from the specificity in her questions and I was extremely interested in their answers to what she was specifically asking. It's like, they wanted to talk about what they wanted to talk about 😂.
Sarah did her thing! She asked the right questions; responses in some cases were not aligned to the questions. Men need to be intentional on working on wholeness and traumas; your wife is not your therapist. Same can be said for women.
Thanks Pastor Sarah! An eye-opening discussion. I don't believe many of us women realized how much of an effort it takes men to effectively communicate. But the key is to seek to understand one another and through that be in a better place for reciprocity.
Thank you soo much for all the wisdom and Love that you bring Pastor Sarah, Your dad, Bishop TDJakes, and all your brothers who bring so much to the table. Love you all. This was such an Amazing Panel, as well as all the Women including Pastor Serita Jakes in this conference!!!!🙏 ❤ God bless you All and the women who were present!!!! Thank you!!!!!
I appreciate this. I’ve interrupted and I’ve attacked the answer in the past leading to future unhealthy disagreements and so I really value hearing from a man’s perspective who I’m not dating so I don’t take it personal or feel biases towards.
Some get defensive when questions are asked, and even interrupt the questions by talking over you. I absolutely hate this and it presents another trauma to me because I am not free to express myself. That's what I get. I've never tried to tell him what to do. I'm am overly tired of it appearing to be women's responsibility to heal men's trauma when they need to want healing by seeking that help, deliverance, the couch for themselves. The trauma happened is not the victims' fault, but if they continue to walk around unhealed, mentally unhealthy, hurting people that really love them... that's their fault 😢 it's not my fault if you were victimized, and neither would it be yours if it happened to me. Whatever happened to me in my past, I sought help to become whole. I pray that God will heal male trauma. I believe that He has already provided the answer. Male pride, anger, has to be broken so that their hearts will be open to receive inner healing so that they don't default on having real love in their lives. I enjoyed this panel discussion. Men, go to that healed place so your woman evolving does not intimidate you. I cry and pray for your healing.
This made me reflect this morning. I've always wondered about the male response and why it doesn't always feel proportionate. Could it be I've triggered trauma........ Really insightful. Thank you. ❤
I’m happy that we have a man panel. Because why have a women evolve and leave the man behind then we end up in household where our mindsets are so different. I wish they had more conferences with Man .
I love it. Love it. I'm teaching some ladies about how to deal with the man. They said everything that God taught me as a woman to understand men. Yes, yes, yes. Ve bless
It was amazing to be in their presence and the conversation after the cameras was even more deep! If you haven’t attended this event, it is a must if possible!
I pray everyday that someone would minister on a regular to men, men don't want to be accountable a lot of times after trauma, flight is so easy for them.
Bishop Jake’s was the only one bringing wisdom on this panel for me, he’s also the oldest and longest married male, so I feel his life lives up to the words he speaks! ❤❤❤🎉
We also hold back from asking, bringing up tough conversations.... and we wait for the "proper" time to bring things up, the proper way to bring things up, the proper way to say things, etc... The molehill becomes a mountain... 🧘🏽♀️
So true, when you give your woman a safe space and there's trust, she WILL move a mountain for you! Amen!
Facts!!!!!!!!!!!
*aman
I’m telling you!!! ❤️
Correct 💯
Men need more communities like this where a group of wise men lead and hold each other accountable ❤👏🏽 Hopefully someone on this panel continues this.
AMEN!!!! SOMEONE ALWAYS TEACHING US HOW TO BE A WIFE A MOTHER A WOMAN FOR THEM BUT WHERE IS THE CONSTANT MALE TEACHING! OH HOW THIS WOULD CHANGE THE WORLD!!!!
The problem with that is father’s are not in the homes.
Boys need men to learn from but if men are absent from 70 percent or more of black households for the past 50 years we can now start putting things into perspective.
Absolutely ❣️
I totally agree with you amourhenry... I have always been saying and thinking this
Having a men's panel is genius. I love this. I have to make it to Women Evolved 2024
PAstor T D Jakes is right
This panel of men were a beautiful depiction of great , classy, empowered, respectful men!
I second that!
Please don’t get carried away. Devon shouldn’t be giving relationship advise. He didn’t even give grace to Megan smh.
@elizabeth9345 grace will eventually run out...humans grace is limited
@@elizabeth9345 I know exactly what you’re saying, as a divorce man I knew more after the divorce than before. So I give Devon a little bit of space, but I don’t like the fact that he always seems to cater to the women’s point of view but does not embrace manhood at all. That just makes me discount anything that comes out of his mouth. So I feel you, but at the same time, I’ve got to give the brother some grace, because maybe he was heavily wounded just like I was when I came out of my divorce. Let’s just watch as he “evolves”…
I don’t know why they never allow women panels at men conferences. Great panel, but men need to hear this lol
‘Ask questions, don’t make statements’ 💯
As a Christian young woman who is ready to establish a meaningful and sustainable relationship with someone who shares the same Christain values as me, I loved this. Wise words from such an empowered panel of men.
Such an on time message. "Thank You " Sarah Jakes- Robert for sharing this segment. I asking God to work on me, and thru me,... setting boundaries in all relationship(s)!
Devon hit it on the head!!! I think it's going to take communication and then patience for the man to meet her where she's communicated the change in her and her vision.
This is where there is struggle sometimes. Statically 🤔 she's ready to evolve before he finds the need or desire to. ❤ great conversation. This needs to be taken into the urban communities.
The beauty of women evolving, is learning to give room for men to do the same! This was a fruitful conversation rooted in transparency, grace and permission to grow. Awesome job SJR!!
Men evolving I haven't seen that sermon yet lol.
I like you already, you are very annoited..:-) Could we be friends already please...👏🏽
Don’t build your life on things that change. Build on core values together. ❤❤
😮 Amen.
That was good.
Praying I don’t interrupt and learn to listen and give him space to process his emotions. ❤❤
I love TD Jake's so much! His wisdom is heavenly. I am a better person because he ministers to me
He's false teacher wake up
He is a false teacher and a lier
@@k.h.a.n.a9346 Amen
Explain
This is what happens when you don't know God for yourself
Sarah, I haven't even gotten to the discussion yet but the DISCERNMENT and WISDOM you have displayed simply by the selection of men on this panel is PHENOMENAL!! I'm familiar with each of their work individually so to see them together, assembled to give us women insight... its powerful and almost overwhelming. Thank you for this!!!
This was so good! Coming from a 43 year old woman of almost 20 years of marriage (next month 12/27), I can totally hear my husband and I discussions in this panel. We are now at the point of which Bishop Jakes said, "you disrespected me, I think you're stupid sometimes....where are we going for dinner?" Lol I had to pause at that moment and laugh....so US! Thank you Pastor Sarah! :) 💟
Where are we going for dinner?
She will tell you you are not taking her serious, its reason enough to divorce.
May God mature some of the women.
@travelingtaata Tell her keys continue this discussion after dinner. Neither man nor woman can process thought on an empty stomach. I get hangry, personally. And dinnertime my husband and I will continue these discussions over a bit of food.
T.D Jakes asking " Where we gon" eat was on point ? As a widow my husband and I used to close some conversations like this and kept it moving. Its just the real side of marriage but in a good way.
Amen Bishop Jake you always say the right things at the right time with the right intention!!!! Love you Bishop God bless you
Waaaau bishop Jake's you just hit the nail on the head. It's all about having core values.
"You can go 40 days without food.3 days without water. 8 minutes without air.But you can't go single second without God.Amen!Whatever may happen in this world;Christ remains unchanging forever & ever" 😘🙏🥀
Amen .💓I'm so happy to hear this from you 💓 Wishing you a happy Sunday. Wishing you health, luck and happiness, May God bless you all the days of your life. 🎉
@Click_on-profile-to-write-me_
You can’t go a week without KFC chicken.
@@oama2009 🤦🏾♀️🤭🙏🏾
Come on and say AMEN!!!! 💯💯🍓🎶💯🎶🥰
I’m going to be putting this on a shirt and etc….. if that’s okay with you
I love what you are doing Sarah. Stay encouraged!!
Amen!
Amen!!!
May God answer this prayer
More of this panel please! Happy you kept it in there. So insightful
We need this panel continued! Very powerful 👏
Shew! 25 years of marriage here and thank you for the biggest nugget, DON’T INTERRUPT ME!!!
My husband has expressed this so much and I still do at it 🤦🏽♀️
From here on out, I got it! 👌🏽🙏🏽
This was beautiful! I think that the world is fight man and woman about relationships but to see men speak up and break down what they need helps women understand how to love them correctly 💕
This panel of men and the conversation was so good ❤
Amen Blessing Thank You 🎄 Beautiful Merry Christmas 🎁
Bringing us back together from where the world tries to keep us apart and divided from our families Man Woman and Child(ren)🙏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
They really do need a space to evolve too and rise up. God help our men!
Thank you VERY VERY MUCH FOR THIS DISCUSSION PANEL. Pastor Sarah. I needed this. This should be a regular thing. This makes me want to move to Dallas.
This is awesome! We need more gatherings and meetings like this. Where we can be taught how to connect and learn how to have relationships the right way!
This was aaaaaalmost good!! They kept deviating from the specificity in her questions and I was extremely interested in their answers to what she was specifically asking. It's like, they wanted to talk about what they wanted to talk about 😂.
Sarah did her thing! She asked the right questions; responses in some cases were not aligned to the questions. Men need to be intentional on working on wholeness and traumas; your wife is not your therapist. Same can be said for women.
“Ask questions. Don’t come with answers “ 13:12 … “men need this . Men need that ..,” y’all need to stop
Thank you Pastor Sarah Jakes Roberts for sharing this powerful conversation with the man they speak what is on their hearts.
I have been saying this for the longest. Men rather show anger than hurt. Thx for this panel.
I can say I listened and took notes. I appreciate each and everyone of them for being open and honest
Thanks Pastor Sarah! An eye-opening discussion. I don't believe many of us women realized how much of an effort it takes men to effectively communicate. But the key is to seek to understand one another and through that be in a better place for reciprocity.
When we become the best version of ourselves we attract the right people in our life whether it's personal or professional
Thank you Pastor Jake’s. I love that he gave context while answering.
I missed this part in person, I'm so glad I caught it on UA-cam!! This is good!
Love this and the PANEL ❤😂 we need the whole thing
Thank you soo much for all the wisdom and Love that you bring Pastor Sarah, Your dad, Bishop TDJakes, and all your brothers who bring so much to the table.
Love you all. This was such an Amazing Panel, as well as all the Women including Pastor Serita Jakes in this conference!!!!🙏 ❤
God bless you All and the women who were present!!!! Thank you!!!!!
I am an evolving woman of God Amen ❤
I appreciate this. I’ve interrupted and I’ve attacked the answer in the past leading to future unhealthy disagreements and so I really value hearing from a man’s perspective who I’m not dating so I don’t take it personal or feel biases towards.
lol the fact that your daddy was answering all of the panel questions has me sent! i love it pastor td jakes.. this was great.
This was too good. I can't wait until I get a chance to attend women evolve. Thank yo so much Sarah.
Hearing this I’ve realized my mistake 😭😭😭
I love this.
This is great wisdom for us women!!
More more more I loved the panel (single, married, wise etc). All levels of perspectives. KUDOS
Some get defensive when questions are asked, and even interrupt the questions by talking over you. I absolutely hate this and it presents another trauma to me because I am not free to express myself. That's what I get. I've never tried to tell him what to do. I'm am overly tired of it appearing to be women's responsibility to heal men's trauma when they need to want healing by seeking that help, deliverance, the couch for themselves. The trauma happened is not the victims' fault, but if they continue to walk around unhealed, mentally unhealthy, hurting people that really love them... that's their fault 😢 it's not my fault if you were victimized, and neither would it be yours if it happened to me. Whatever happened to me in my past, I sought help to become whole. I pray that God will heal male trauma. I believe that He has already provided the answer. Male pride, anger, has to be broken so that their hearts will be open to receive inner healing so that they don't default on having real love in their lives. I enjoyed this panel discussion. Men, go to that healed place so your woman evolving does not intimidate you. I cry and pray for your healing.
💯 agree
THIS!!!!!
Home run..
I enjoyed all the men EXCEPT TD Jakes!
Wow. The Crux of the matter. Unhealthy & Unwilling men. Another story entirely.
I been single for 10 years an still is 😂 but I realize that I am alone especially when the most high with me so I'm never alone
What a great session to watch! It was informative, engaging & Bishop had me laughing too! Pastor Sarah represent Queen! 👑🔥
you say that agaian Sarah represent Queen
We need more conferences like these. I've learnt. Bishop gives jokes❤❤❤❤
This made me reflect this morning. I've always wondered about the male response and why it doesn't always feel proportionate. Could it be I've triggered trauma........ Really insightful. Thank you. ❤
This was so amazing!!! I learned so much 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Omg God is so good! Thank you Lord for leading me to this
Sister Sarah Jakes... That was geeat we as women need more sermons or talk help on how to deal with men qnd there emotion. Great🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤
Bishop TD Jakes had that on his heart, “don’t interrupt me”😂😂😂😂😂
This was definitely a wake-up call for me❤❤ love the words from men point of view. Very helpful🫶🏾🙌🏽🙌🏽
This is so full of knowledge and wisdom!!
I’m happy that we have a man panel. Because why have a women evolve and leave the man behind then we end up in household where our mindsets are so different. I wish they had more conferences with Man .
I love it. Love it. I'm teaching some ladies about how to deal with the man. They said everything that God taught me as a woman to understand men. Yes, yes, yes. Ve bless
This was sooo good!! Thank you for bringing them together. Would love more men panels. We need to know how they really feel & think too 🙏🏾❤️
It was amazing to be in their presence and the conversation after the cameras was even more deep! If you haven’t attended this event, it is a must if possible!
Thank you Sarah Jake's..so impacting
This was so so so Beautiful! And so clear! Man oh man! Yall got me on fire now! Come on God!
This panel session is so insightful 🎉
Great panel! Wow, Dexter sounds just like his mom. ❤
Loved This Panel To The Maximum Capacity
Thank you for this awesome message & panel! God Bless 🙌🏽❤️
Holding someone hostage to what or who they used to be or who you want them to be.. allow people to evolve 🙌🏾
Thank you for Sharing.. I wish I could listen to the rest. So informative. Thank you again xoxo bless ya!
Soooooo powerful! Great panel ❤
This segment was so refreshing. It was like air. I inhaled and exhaled.
This has blessed me so much and has given me a different perspective about the men's world
I pray everyday that someone would minister on a regular to men, men don't want to be accountable a lot of times after trauma, flight is so easy for them.
I definitely been through what Devon said about a woman
I guess this must be part 1 because these are very serious and important stuff for us men out here
This is a blessing and i am learning
Amen!!Love the Panel of Men giving us their point of views..
Bishop Jake’s was the only one bringing wisdom on this panel for me, he’s also the oldest and longest married male, so I feel his life lives up to the words he speaks! ❤❤❤🎉
Amazing, I was really learning and enjoying it then it finished.
Bishop TD @about 10.45 or so....is spot on! Loved this session.
Sarah plz we need part 2 🙏🙏
We also hold back from asking, bringing up tough conversations.... and we wait for the "proper" time to bring things up, the proper way to bring things up, the proper way to say things, etc...
The molehill becomes a mountain... 🧘🏽♀️
I'm around some grown ups baby yes Lord place me where I belong Amen this is a very good conversation
such a rich conversation wheww!! we need the whole thing😩
I love how there men from different seasons in their life. Single, divorced, and married. All gave some absolute jewels.
We need more of these.
The question Sarah asked about boundaries was 👌🏿👌🏿👌🏿
Thank you so much for sharing all this, so very important of all that is discussed.
Love the comments of all but wisdom from Bishop Jake’s is unmatched
This is very powerful. I needed this years ago, if I had it, I would be better dealing with something’s and people.
Wow wow what a powerful meeting very surprise thank you pst Sara Jakes it's my first time to come across to such meeting very big ✋
Finding someone who has the same core values as you .. THAT PART. Because if all fails you will still have that to fall back on .
I was hesitant to click this but wow. They are right about everything.
This is really good stuff! Great advice for us women 👏🏼
Love this!! The energy and vibes were💯💯
Great advise ask questions don't make statements,thank you Sarah
this honestly made me feel so much better about myself 😇
Yea both sides of woman and men have been hurt. No one is inferior of the other, it means we share our space. Amen
"Now where we gone go eat?" 😅 I love it
Men have trauma too! Work it out don’t take evolving out on your partner. Empathy for each other. This is good!
Women have more trauma though, notice none said they’d do the same for you. Y’all don’t ever hear that 😮