Coming Out to My Straight Best Friend

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  • Опубліковано 31 лип 2024
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    Timestamps
    00:00 Intro
    00:58 Q+A Time
    1:51 Have you ever done anything gay with Donny?
    2:16 What qualities do you appreciate in me?
    3:48 When did you know you’d be bros for life?
    4:43 Donny how did you process Mark coming out as your straight best friend? Goor or bad?
    5:31 Have y’all ever felt like the relationship was fading or changing?
    7:00 Who can bench more?
    7:12 Hey Donny
    7:14 When did you decide to quit drinking and did Donny quit as well?
    7:59 Hey Donny what’s your favorite book?
    8:28 How you ever seen each other naked before?
    8:57 How did you find peace with yourself after the break up?
    9:38 Should I quit my job even if I’m just being petty?
    9:42 What movies do you two quote the most?
    9:59 Does Donny have a a girlfriend? Move in?
    10:08 Why is it so hard to make new friends in your 30s?
    10:52 How do you know a relationship is over even if you’re still in love with them?
    11:18 How’s it feel to have a friend like Mark who’s gay and an influencer himself?
    11:34 Do you even lift bro?
    12:00 Dancing Donny
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  • @theoforger
    @theoforger Рік тому +287

    I’m from a country in which the term ”LGBT rights” doesn’t even exist. 6 years ago, I was in high school, gay, lost and depressed. Then I discovered this channel. I used to binge watch everything and fantasize about the future. Not the healthiest way of thinking, I know. However, this channel was my first realization that I could and I want to live a happy life. It planted a seed in me to make it a reality.
    6 years passed, here I am, just finished moving to Canada. Of course, life is still hard, but this is the first time I can say I’m willing to live every moment of it. I feel alive.
    Thank you Mark, for changing my life forever ❤

    • @gianlucaevangelista2318
      @gianlucaevangelista2318 Рік тому +15

      The exact same thing happened to me 7 years ago (even if I live in Italy and there are some LGBT rights here). Mark saved my life when I wasn't able to call myself gay without feeling I was wrong. He showed me that there was a chance to be happy even for me, and he gave me the strength to come out for the first time. I will never thank him enough for what he did for me, and I'm happy to know that I'm not the only one who had this kind of experience. A big hug @Ramundeus, I can feel your story as it was mine ❤

    • @theoforger
      @theoforger Рік тому +10

      @@gianlucaevangelista2318 It’s amazing how we resonate! And it feels nice to be heard. Hugs to you as well❤️

    • @louisdewit4429
      @louisdewit4429 Рік тому +8

      Fantastic. Good on you.
      Good luck. ❤ From a 65 year old dude from Holland 🇳🇱 who struggled in the seventies. Came out ‘78 in London. Had my first lover 6 weeks later and moved to his country.
      He died but love 💕 is love. Happy to read this all. 😊

    • @stevekirschman354
      @stevekirschman354 Рік тому +3

      Wishing you much love

    • @willgaukler8979
      @willgaukler8979 Рік тому +3

      ... following your heart is always best ... safe journey's on your lives future travels ...

  • @pjaybasmaignee
    @pjaybasmaignee Рік тому +166

    The way Mark is just randomly cutting up a pineapple w/o a plate or cutting board. And Donny just staring. 😂😂😂

    • @zanderscheurkogel4222
      @zanderscheurkogel4222 Рік тому +5

      He could barely focus on talking while Mark is cutting the pineapple.

  • @StanChris
    @StanChris Рік тому +127

    Name a more iconic duo than straight and gay best friends 😤😤 I’ll wait

    • @yaaraadrianavardi4163
      @yaaraadrianavardi4163 Рік тому

      They both look gay

    • @Sergio-tb5ko
      @Sergio-tb5ko Рік тому +4

      Two gay friends!!! 🤷🏻‍♂️ 🥴🥴🥴🥴🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️

    • @YOUTUBEUSER00033
      @YOUTUBEUSER00033 Рік тому

      Literally a racist white bottom and straight white gworl are more iconic 😂😂

    • @jbabyluvs2004
      @jbabyluvs2004 Рік тому +6

      You & Calvin of course! 😅💙💯

    • @pjaybasmaignee
      @pjaybasmaignee Рік тому

      @@UA-camUSER00033 teehee 🤭 😂

  • @tallactordude
    @tallactordude Рік тому +157

    The big challenge in this video: listening to Donnie answer a question at the same time that Mark is hacking away at a pineapple with a big-ass knife.

    • @andre_p
      @andre_p Рік тому +5

      My eyes went from Donnie to Mark and both were watching that knife so intently ! Not sure Donnie felt comfortable, but kudos for not losing his train of thoughts during Mark’s little chef show !

    • @SandyRief2023
      @SandyRief2023 Рік тому +4

      The mom in me wanted to scold him for getting pineapple on the floor lol

    • @moonvariant
      @moonvariant Рік тому +1

      ​@@SandyRief2023 And the juice. And the maybe cut scrach on the table. And the juice.

  • @feg3akatrey144
    @feg3akatrey144 Рік тому +23

    Great video. I’m a 53yr old gay man with a straight best friend of 33years. Met randomly, I was a child of privilege, he was not. Polar opposites in a way that helps us balance our respective lives with the devil’s advocate approach. No one could have predicted we’d become brothers like we have, sharing fears and failures we wouldn’t with anyone else. I hate that some people assume because we are close that there must be/have been a sexual component… never, not once. We have been told by others that we bicker like a couple married 60+ years, which is a compliment because we can be harsh in our truths to each other but ALWAYS resolve things quickly and with love. Truly, one of my greatest joys in my older years is this amazing friendship from the days before we became who we are now. I hope y’all have as many/more years ahead too!

  • @kathythompson8758
    @kathythompson8758 Рік тому +12

    Love the sit down with Donny. Great friends warm the heart. Thanks guys

  • @Liam_29_T
    @Liam_29_T Рік тому +13

    This was so wholesome and pure. You guys are the definition of friendship. Also, Mark, you are a big soft teddy bear ♥

  • @davidscott688
    @davidscott688 Рік тому +38

    True friendship is precious

  • @_innerantisocial
    @_innerantisocial Рік тому +15

    This is soooo heartwarming, you’re lucky to have one another ☺️

  • @josephcrangle4669
    @josephcrangle4669 Рік тому +32

    It may not see remarkable to your generation, but to my generation (I'm 60), a straight and gay friendship like your's is a revelation, and a testament to how much attitudes have changed in Western culture.

    • @pjaybasmaignee
      @pjaybasmaignee Рік тому

      Did you have many friends back in your younger days? Or was it hard to do so?

    • @russrichardson991
      @russrichardson991 8 місяців тому

      Ditto, my brother

    • @Random-sk6hm
      @Random-sk6hm 3 місяці тому

      I'm a gay guy and my best friend is a straight guy and I'm grateful to those who came before us for paving the way

  • @Venus.velour
    @Venus.velour Рік тому +9

    I met my best friend in college too!!! he's straight and one of the biggest supporters in my life, I love that he accepts me for who I am and all that I have been through. In Marks words "I'm in a safe space, when I'm with you".... I've realized that Mark has become my older brother in a sense, I grew up with him and found myself just by watching all of his videos, Thank you Mark!! I appreciate all of your wisdom and experience! You gave me the strength to be who I am.

  • @nikkilogan7726
    @nikkilogan7726 Рік тому +5

    MUCH RESPECT! 😎🙏💖✨
    I love the friendship between Mark & Donny, growing up in different lives but accepting each other for so long makes it a lifelong friendship that bonds them together! Love it!!
    Thanks Mark & Donny for this!
    You guys are the "bro's" for life! 😎🎉✨

  • @thesilverdragon1963
    @thesilverdragon1963 Рік тому +14

    The look on Donny’s face as Mark is hacking away at that pineapple 😂-like Donny was just waiting for that Oooops (blood everywhere) moment he could see coming!
    Seriously, been watching your channel for a decade now and you two are absolutely one of the best examples of true friendship I’ve ever seen.

  • @SweethomeSABANnation
    @SweethomeSABANnation Рік тому +4

    This was such a great Q&A. So light and fun!

  • @nucderpuck
    @nucderpuck Рік тому +6

    I remember DJ Donny from waaaaay back when your channel was just starting. He seems to be a great guy, and it's wonderful to see that you guys are still best friends.

  • @CarlCSmith
    @CarlCSmith Рік тому +4

    This friendship makes me so happy 😁 Its so nice to see I just had a smile on my face the whole video

  • @johnrobinson2552
    @johnrobinson2552 Рік тому

    Thank you Mark for taking time in sharing one of life's adventures! I'm so glad you have a good friend to share and confide life's many adventures. From a fellow hoosier in Linton Indiana. Cheers!

  • @jaumknows
    @jaumknows Рік тому

    It's been years since I started following this channel and your friendship is the one of the best things I've seen around here. Love you guys

  • @MarvinNeumannOfficial
    @MarvinNeumannOfficial Рік тому +8

    So good to see Donny back again in a Q&A. :)

  • @darren4664
    @darren4664 Рік тому +22

    Donny’s such a keeper!!!

  • @OLDS98
    @OLDS98 Рік тому +14

    Cherish the friendship. Cherish each other. These kinds of friendships are hard to come by. Continue to invest in each other.

  • @ezelldaniels6064
    @ezelldaniels6064 Рік тому

    This is so dope. Cherish your friend bro he is one of a kind and it's rare to be blessed with real friends these days. Great podcast and great content y'all ❤

  • @tonyanderson6235
    @tonyanderson6235 Рік тому

    Wonderful conversation Mark and Donny. I loved it very much.

  • @jadenkhor3523
    @jadenkhor3523 Рік тому +9

    i absolutely love watching videos with donny in it because you not only get a sense of how amazing their friendship truly is and how far they've come together as broddies but at the same you sorta notice how mark's personality (i think? probably?) rubbed off on donny in terms of his mannerism or choice of words. and of course, the video ended with both of them being shirtless. a must, i'd say 🤭

  • @WannabeSuperTwink
    @WannabeSuperTwink Рік тому +1

    This was so fun! The best kind of throw back

  • @StopThePrejudice
    @StopThePrejudice Рік тому +54

    Excluding the atrocities of Mark cutting that pineapple on the wooden coffee table and getting juice everywhere, this was a great video!

  • @avraampavlidis2862
    @avraampavlidis2862 Рік тому +8

    Donny is becoming hotter by the hour

  • @kjg1225nyc
    @kjg1225nyc Рік тому +1

    I loved watching this. I shared this with my straight best friend. We've been best friends for 46 years and never gone longer than a month without speaking with each other.

  • @jolu77
    @jolu77 Рік тому +1

    Great video, Mark. I love that fact that you, without thinking, pealed pineapple straight down on the floor and chopped it right on the woodtable surface. :D

  • @tarheeldunesboy6287
    @tarheeldunesboy6287 Рік тому +2

    Mark, one of your best videos. Great job Donny. Thx guys.

  • @patrickmclaughlin2088
    @patrickmclaughlin2088 Рік тому

    This was so good. Great to see a great friendship

  • @escooter1
    @escooter1 Рік тому +2

    Red Rising!!!!!!! Absolut!!! One of the best!!!! I loved the Q&A!

  • @168KDW
    @168KDW Рік тому

    Thank you for being full of love and light 🌈

  • @josephdanielj1665
    @josephdanielj1665 Рік тому

    Amazing video , love it ! I so wish my best friend was still around

  • @marcblais
    @marcblais Рік тому +2

    8:30 My favourite part of this whole video is just that adorable beautiful doggo coming into frame and the boys trying not to be distracted by him while answering questions hehe

    • @seaweedbeach
      @seaweedbeach Рік тому +1

      That doggy was so cute wanting attention

  • @jerrysmith3515
    @jerrysmith3515 Рік тому +9

    It is refreshing to see two guys so close and one be gay and one be straight.

    • @andre_p
      @andre_p Рік тому +3

      They have moved their personal boundaries to include each other, so they feel totally at ease. Emotionally and mentally they are one. Beautiful.

  • @Jaguar79gt
    @Jaguar79gt Рік тому +4

    wtf... the part with the pineapple, i was a little bit afraid 🙈😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Itsbayali716
    @Itsbayali716 Рік тому +1

    What an awesome friendship!! Love it!! 😊❤

  • @ezequielperez9926
    @ezequielperez9926 Рік тому

    Whoagh the lighting is superior in that first shot ❤

  • @marcosromero3987
    @marcosromero3987 Рік тому +2

    You guys did great I loved it you guys were being yourselves and that's very cool

  • @sobelou
    @sobelou Рік тому

    That was very sweet. What a beautiful friendship!!

  • @oldsouthpaw
    @oldsouthpaw Рік тому

    I love when you have Donny on the Video's, Mark you seem so much happier in Indi, it's your place dude. Thrift and antique stores are great places to make friends, ya'll should hang out there to find cool and interesting friends.

  • @caseyflorida
    @caseyflorida Рік тому +2

    Donnie and Mark's relationship is so great!

  • @wfellow1
    @wfellow1 Рік тому

    Great video, always like seeing Donny. Impressive knife handling skills

  • @thepretender44
    @thepretender44 Рік тому

    Love this friendship! You guys are adorable 🥰

  • @user-wl4ue6sx4o
    @user-wl4ue6sx4o Рік тому +1

    Lots of love, beautiful video!

  • @GrotrianSeiler
    @GrotrianSeiler Рік тому +2

    The shirts off at the end was pretty hilarious and so unnecessary and they did it anyway. Funny

  • @teetertotter5787
    @teetertotter5787 Рік тому +13

    Iconic friendship goals. But also the knife, the table, the pineapple juice everywhere with the laptop and iPad sitting there. The random yellow bottle in the bottom left corner. What is going on, dude?

    • @seaweedbeach
      @seaweedbeach Рік тому +2

      I know right, why’s he cutting straight on the table 😬 lol

  • @terrydavis174
    @terrydavis174 Рік тому +3

    Very simple to understand. You both have a brotherly relationship. And both family's are not judgemental of other people .

  • @abidsalim6183
    @abidsalim6183 Рік тому

    Hi guys 💚 your friendship is amazing !!

  • @alweb360
    @alweb360 Рік тому +32

    Gay, straight or whatever you guys are so lucky to have such friendship. I have tried to have friendships with lots of guys and get pushed away once they find out I value the friendship. I never try to go past the stage of casual acquaintance any more. It's just too hard.

    • @ScribblebytesWorldwide
      @ScribblebytesWorldwide Рік тому

      What do you mean "they find out you value...". Please explain.

    • @alweb360
      @alweb360 Рік тому +1

      @@ScribblebytesWorldwide Find out I value means that I explain to them that I think I am their friend because I thought we had a good time on some occasions together and I also freely gave my time to help and I enjoyed these experiences. Referring to our relationship as friendship must have offensive. Sometimes it's hard to explain things. I hope this clarifies things. Thank you for your interest 🙏

  • @jimjefftube
    @jimjefftube Рік тому +1

    So nice that you two have one another as best friends.

  • @abdelr.palacios5870
    @abdelr.palacios5870 Рік тому

    I was so engaged with the conversation on the video to mark starts to peel the pineapple and letting the skin go to the floor, boy please tell me you washed your hands before 😂😂😂.

  • @FrancisDominic
    @FrancisDominic Рік тому +8

    I adore you both so much

  • @danielrueda7498
    @danielrueda7498 Рік тому +6

    Beatiful friendship

  • @dragonicelv
    @dragonicelv Рік тому

    This video reminded me to work more on my friendships. And I could just have like 1 or 2 more good friends :) thank you!

  • @michaelparks9836
    @michaelparks9836 Рік тому

    OMG. I am so happy that you are here in Indy…. Love your friendship…

  • @tylersterling1786
    @tylersterling1786 Рік тому +2

    I love Red Rising!!! Good choice, Donny! If Mark doesn't like it he's missing out! 😜 Also, what an amazing relationship for two guys, so close and safe and familiar. More male friendships need to be this way. Amazing.

  • @tennismonkey09
    @tennismonkey09 Рік тому

    The red rising series is SO GOODDDDDD

  • @bbsteele671
    @bbsteele671 Рік тому

    I love Topo Chico!! Saved my life & keeps me in shape!

  • @pianomanjarkell
    @pianomanjarkell Рік тому +2

    That pineapple was not ready to be cut, but loved the primitive way it was done hahaha! Highly enjoyed the Q&A.

    • @acetrap
      @acetrap Рік тому +1

      Not gonna lie it was kind of hot loool. I went from saying mark what are you doing to oh ok cool 😄😄😄😄

    • @pianomanjarkell
      @pianomanjarkell Рік тому

      @@acetrap haha, agreed 💯 percent!

  • @Mcflyeon
    @Mcflyeon Рік тому

    Nice to hear Donnie accepting you along with both of your friendship

  • @iwnunn7999
    @iwnunn7999 Рік тому +15

    Donny is a treasure.

  • @CamberHill
    @CamberHill Рік тому

    Thanks, boys that was insightful,

  • @bigbufobufo
    @bigbufobufo Рік тому +3

    I hope this friendship never ends 😊

  • @moxxus
    @moxxus Рік тому

    thank you for showing the world what a healthy male relationship can look like. most men need other men as friends but it's gotten so rare and hard to find. good stuff

  • @eddieboygarcia3523
    @eddieboygarcia3523 Рік тому

    That was a real best buddy truly … Guy u got my RESPECT YOUR BOTH ARE AMAZING PEOPLE love u all guys ❤❤❤God bless🙏

  • @lionelpayette4628
    @lionelpayette4628 Рік тому

    Great video!!! 👍

  • @vixtorocha
    @vixtorocha Рік тому +1

    red rising is SO GOOD

  • @mobi83v37
    @mobi83v37 Рік тому

    I have a friend I meet when she was 20 (I was 24) 16yrs later we see each other weekly at least once if not 2-3. She has a kid now and I couldn’t be more happier for her.

  • @silvertopaz509
    @silvertopaz509 Рік тому +3

    You are very lucky men to have a friendship so tight. It's rare.

  • @x10xiii13
    @x10xiii13 Рік тому +1

    Dangggg, that old q&a video with DJ Donny D feels like yesterday!

  • @Bjd79
    @Bjd79 Рік тому

    Well done Q&A.

  • @freedomchance9982
    @freedomchance9982 Рік тому

    Great video!!!

  • @suhugo9546
    @suhugo9546 Рік тому

    Dude man, I saw the Stand by Me movie poster and thought this guy know his movies! The film is a classic! ❤

  • @michaell906
    @michaell906 Рік тому

    Love seeing you both. ❤

  • @StefanDimitrovBG
    @StefanDimitrovBG Рік тому

    I love Red rising btw, an awesome series.

  • @moldar81
    @moldar81 Рік тому

    If I hear about AG1 one more time. I will smack you silly. I've been seeing ads on TV today too haha 😆

  • @TheForeignersNetwork
    @TheForeignersNetwork Рік тому

    Well this was adorable

  • @geraldmckillip5594
    @geraldmckillip5594 Рік тому

    One of your BEST videos , 👍👍👍

  • @dadoo985
    @dadoo985 Рік тому +1

    Shirtless!! 🔥🔥😍👬💍💘. Thank you MarkE

  • @jessebp11
    @jessebp11 Рік тому

    Yes Mark, continue to surround yo self with pos happy people. 👍😜👍

  • @drwhotardis
    @drwhotardis Рік тому

    Thanks for the birthday present.

  • @DRAVIDIAN500
    @DRAVIDIAN500 Рік тому

    this is so sweet! ive never had a friendship like that.😪

  • @ken306809
    @ken306809 Рік тому +6

    Good Lawd , Donny is a Big Hunk Of A Man ( at 11:36 with his shirt off )

  • @vagas99
    @vagas99 Рік тому +1

    Donny’s package was looking at me the entire video lol😂

  • @3zoz948
    @3zoz948 Рік тому

    2:20 I can’t ignore the smile Mark, when he says open 😂💔

  • @acetrap
    @acetrap Рік тому

    Your friendship is so cool

  • @JapChinLuvr
    @JapChinLuvr Рік тому +1

    Congrats to both of you for allowing your "common sense" to over-ride social pressure, and giving up the alcohol. I'm 69, and have totally abstained all of my life (except to try one drink several years ago - and I felt rather "guilty" for doing so), so I really don't know the internal challenge involved in making the decision to go alcohol-free. Over the years I've had a couple of room-mates who had drinking problems that I tired to support and help them out of - one successfully, and on not successfully. I celebrate the success, while being aware that the other was his choice, and not my "fault". Again, a big "congrats" to the two of you!

  • @RCSlim123
    @RCSlim123 Рік тому

    1:59 that gulp by Danny says something else :P But it's their memories to keep ;)

  • @chinolokkz3693
    @chinolokkz3693 Рік тому

    Mark all this time I thought yall was together lol 😂
    But love your friendship 😁
    That's awsome 👊🔥

  • @decpticons_destroy
    @decpticons_destroy 11 місяців тому

    “When you stop arguing”! That’s been my philosophy ever since I first dated 25yrs ago!

  • @chouaibsasmr
    @chouaibsasmr Рік тому +2

    Ahhh good old Donny, true friendships never die.

  • @johniii8147
    @johniii8147 Рік тому +7

    This makes sense to me. My best friend of many years now is a str8 guy and we just always bonded since we were roommates in collage. Nothing ever sexual we just bonded and still talk all the time. Both of our spouses are a bit jealous of our relationship but get it. It really is like a brother thing. I'm so personally grateful for him is he didn't give a shit I was gay coming out in collage. Just don't touch my junk I remember him saying and we're good.. It was funny and sweet at the same time. Now we just bitch about his wife and my husband together on daily struggles of making it work.

  • @akbizzle1
    @akbizzle1 Рік тому

    In a single word… ADORABLE

  • @jelder5758
    @jelder5758 Рік тому

    Love the Q&A, glad y’all have each other as best friends ❤ And side note Mark watching you cut that pineapple 🍍 was super cringy lol 🫣😱🤯 so glad you didn’t cut yourself!

  • @pedrotorres211
    @pedrotorres211 Рік тому

    I can’t believe you are still coming out to people lol 😂❤🎉

  • @mail2toan
    @mail2toan Рік тому

    Omg, better mop up that floor man. I got too distracted after the pineapple cutting fiasco; can't concentrate on what was being said after that...! Lol

  • @AlonsoLioneth
    @AlonsoLioneth Рік тому

    The thumbnail 😂😂

  • @loriduhaime9583
    @loriduhaime9583 Рік тому

    First time seeing u guys on UA-cam I'll definitely subscribe to ur channel I like ur friendship keep it up