❤️🩹 THE TINDER SWINDLER! 💰THE RED FLAGS 🚩 I SAW 👀 A MILE AWAY!!!! ✈️ | Fumi Desalu-Vold
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#tinderswindler #simonleviev #netflix
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I had a man on a dating website try to ask me for money once and I just straight up said no. Tried to give me a sob story I didn’t care about at all.
Men and Women that have assets, do not go to social sites like Tinder to date. Like Fumi said they don’t need to. If they are looking for a serious relationship, they hire matchmakers to do the screening for them.
Indeed. Plus these people tend to prefer discretion and privacy. Something sites such as Tinder don't seem to be
Omg this is what I was thinking when I watched it. Also I was like “why is he asking them for money if his fake daddy is rich?” He could have asked his family for money if he really was from that type of family. There’s no good reason to be asking a woman at all. I had sooooo many questions watching this 🤦🏾♀️
@@traetrae11 exactly!
Common and Tiffany met on Bumble. So this is not necessarily true!
@@GOYSTube and Common is a serial dater who won't commit. He is a walking red flag. He knew when he met all the women he has dated that he had no intentions of long term anything but keep dating them...Men know from day one. It is women who need some time to assess who a man says he is...
As generous as I am, I am too mean to give my hard earned money to any man. It's not for me as a woman to keep a man. I don't lend money if I can't afford to lose it. Too many dishonest people including family who only contact when they want something. When they can't get anything else out of you, you never see or hear from them. Thank you fabulous Fumi!
Amen sista!!!
oh guys the update: the Leviev family( the real diamond boss) is sueing the fake Simon leviev for defamation of their name in this whole debacle.
And they should. I hope they win
My eyes BUGGED OUT 20 times their normal size when she flew away with him mere hours after they met! 👀 I'm like this woman must not care if she's ever seen alive AGAIN!! If I don't even let men pick me up in their car on the 1st date, best believe I'm not about to LEAVE THE DAMN COUNTRY with them on the 1st date! No ma'am 💀
This is me right here. It takes a good while before he can know where I even live. I heard leaving the country & my mouth dropped
Even the fact that she gave her passport info, like girl aren’t you scared if they find you or use your information for some activities. Like literally under 12hrs you’ve give passport info… could never be me that’s for sure
Exactly, all she saw was thinking about was being apart of that lifestyle. She's a gold digger fr
Cecilia is a perfectly gullible, naive candidate for duping and fraud. I broke up with my ex in lockdown so I decided to try tinder for a month. I put a picture of my favourite breakfast on my profile from my favourite hotel. A very sharply dressed man who seemed somewhat wealthy but not flashy messaged saying "great that you like xyz hotel too". I spoke to him, flirted with him but my gut told me he was a womaniser looking to sleep with a variety of people and emotionally unavailable. He asked for my number and I said no
I’m switching over to Netflix right away to watch this Swindler’s documentary. Seems like a lot of lessons to learn from this. Real life Millionaires actually don’t boast nor advertise themselves
Your behind,, I guess I' watch this movie before anuty fumi ..go and see it ,,I wish all this white lady we learn ...
What you haven't watched it!!lol
Happened to me for nearly 3 years. I thought the person would marry me so I became everything to them with nothing in return. I tried harder and it did not matter. Paying bills, paying for school, doing their assignments so that they wouldn't stress, and more. I truly thought to believe in the saying that 'you fight for what you want.' That is not true when fighting by yourself. Everything was a game to that person. It was fake future promising. They never wanted anything to do with me. That is what I learned. They only wanted the money. Having lost over $100k+, I continue to live daily being grateful that I exist, and healing, and loving myself. Love to Fumi and each and everyone on this platform.
You said “strawberries caviar you will poop it out” that’s a quote I’ll place in the back of my head. Jokes aside all that is lust and glam is temporary
Almost fell off my chair 🤣🤣. Funny, because it's true.
Fumi there are many like this guy living to scam women online, living in poverty and putting on a fraudulent life with photos, then coming out eventually with disaster stories and needing money to recover. I have experienced such a person but I was not one to be drawn in to what didn't sit well in my Spirit. I thank God for keeping me. This man asked questions such as have I ever been used by any man from another country, asked me what my savings were, etc. I kept those things in my back pocket and eventually was asked to send 1.2million dollars for medical bills, and this was after I chose to end the communication and was about to travel to buy real estate in Jamaica. He knew and felt this was an opportunity to swindle me, he never got one cent from me, and I sent him a prayer for recovery over every hurting area of his life. He NEVER replied again, the end. Ladies be careful as the world we live in is full of wolves in sheep's clothing, until they're ready to show their true colours. Fumi thanks for bringing these dark topics to light, and I pray that women will not only listen to your videos but take heed and not say love made me do it. Stay blessed 🙏💯♥️
1.2 million dollars is a lot. I thank God for you
Just as I watched this I shared with my 16yr old in the university, this is real life happenings every day and our world right now is becoming fake, I must tell you I enjoyed this episode because you exposed the antics of swindlers. We are too tender hearted sometimes that we don't think, sometimes it's not just the money but the association, I want to be seen with an handsome dude etc in all, nothing last forever not even the glams. Thanks fumi, I love you.
My favorite girl was the one who won't stop selling his items. Those name brands where worth it. She was so smart and I just wish she had more of his stuff to Sell 🤣😂🤣. I'm so GLAD she did. Good JOB on this video and everything you said it's very accurate.
I know anyone could fall a victim but, I just can't wrap my head around it. Infact, the Nigerian/Black girl in me won't allow me because, what if I'm sold and kidnapped for some shit 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂🤣🤣🤣
When it looks too good to be true...IT IS! Go in with VIGILANCE ladies. Any man who asks for money, never repays then asks for more is trouble. Thanks for making this vlog Fumi, women need to see this!
OMG Fumi, what got me was how the ladies fell from him and started protecting him like mother hens. Try my African behind and he would find out why Vultures don't have feathers on their necks. Last I heard, he is still in the game!!!
You look FANTASTIC. I pray i look like you in my 50s. Keep inspiring us! You have been a blessing in many ways!
I watched it and I was a bit torn also because a person can't do anything to you that you don't allow at least at this magnitude. They saw his lifestyle and got duped. The ladies were not innocent either they pursued their own desires which got them here. I don't know any millionaire that put their entire lifestyle on front street. When I see a person flaunting like that, I give them a side eye just like those on instagram..... smoke screen.. Love you Fumi I lovvvveee the entire format of your channel. It covers real life situations and those story times are theeeee best.
You're so right Fumi, the scales are not balanced, when they want so much and give nothing they are scammers testing you
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The child who was carried on the plane was probably a “prop” of sorts! Part of the charade!
I totally agree.
Exactly.
I definitely agree.
My thoughts as well
I agree100%
Spoken like a Queen. True wisdom right there, I love it 😊
when I don’t feel like answering a question I’ll start answering like Simon. “My enemies are after me!”
Hahaha! This documentary was jarring to watch
My mum past away when I was 12 years old and I feel I had an angel 👼 guiding me through my life. I’ve been exposed to some of this life of lies while I was young but NEVER had been this stupid and naive like these girls. Sleeping with a guy within 24 hrs and going anywhere private with them. I always bring my friends and go to public places never hotel or their houses. These girls were after the materials and not love. Fumi you were placed in this world for a purpose and you’re the best. I said it again you’re a life changing person in so many woman out there. May God keep blessing you…. Greetings to Adrienne and Ola ❤️🥰
I had goose bumps watching your review..however I have seen the documentary weeks back. BUT SIS, YOU'RE GIFTED! I truly hope that the cups you've filled without even knowing God will repay you 🙏 ❤ ♥ All of my love
The women ignored every Red Flag and Simon knew they were caught up in his web.
I love the t shirt auntie Fumi,it looks crisp 👌🏿👌🏿👌🏿
The level of LONELINESS n vulnerability we women put out there makes us so blindedto these swindling men.. they come from our neighborhoods, churches , online landline. These men are EVERYWHERE. LADIES WATCH OUT... FIND MEANING 4 UR LIFE THAT SUPERSEDES THIS GNAWING NEED 4 A MAN that can lead to death!
I was always told to never give/ lend money to men. If they need it, they will ask their family or friends or take out a loan. Why would a " millionaire" need to borrow money from a woman or anyone for that matter?
I’m nit sure how I feel about the ladies setting up a GoFundMe to recoup losses from their own fantasy traps? Also, Simon setting himself up as a BUSINESS consultant now? It seems that he’d have more credibility as an author telling incel men how to attract women.
Exactly
Background checks would help. I've been running checks since I was 18. Turned up DUIs, legal issues, possible predatory behavior, etc.
Thank you for this Fumi, ladies like me who are in their late thirties are so vulnerable. You just opened my eyes.
I’ve been waiting for your words of wisdom on this one.
Me too!
@@krismajor1570 She got so much in depth with this than other UA-camrs did. Her advice is just so much more valuable as a result.
Ms Fumi. Your elegance and charm is phenomenal. Good bless you ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you so much Aunty Funmi, for finally speaking on this issue, I think just as with life, we tend to attract what we are. Like you said, these three ladies all fell for the glitz and glam, and totally threw care to the winds. Though, sometimes these smooth operators (fraudsters) are often not this glaring to detect. They might even date you for years and introduce you to their families, while using you to fund their secret family elsewhere or even a building project that they might be working on. Like you said, when in a relationship, it is important to always weigh and compare what your partner has invested in you to that which you have invested in him/her. If the scale is tilted one-sided, then that is a red flag to run.
Cousin Fumi ( you are my fabulous cousin in my head) you said some real stuff!!! Caviar and strawberries you will poop it out🤣🤣🤣 but that’s so true. Love does take time and that’s why it’s important to love yourself first ♥️♥️♥️♥️
Nice video.Well done big sis.Abeg no use you and ula make example for divorced couple,God forbid! It is not ya potion jareh,on a lighter note.
To my fellow sisters please be careful and Wait for God’s time is the best. Thank you Auntie Fumi for the message 🙏
I don't even need to watch the documentary after your review... excellent break down and insight into each person
Today I am taking the time out to say how much I have enjoyed watching your videos.This is the first time I am posting to encourage you to keep on giving such valuable knowledge to the unsuspecting. Your years of experience is such a useful tool you use to guide, you makeup hacks add sparkle and your laugh is infectious! Kudos to you! Keep doing what you are doing to warm this planet where hope is lost so much of the time.
I wish some damn man would ask me to wire him some money. That’s a whole 🚩. Nope I’m not that desperate. Don’t EVER give a man money period.
my response would be. i was just gonna to ask you for some ( money)
Exactly!
I grew up in Nigeria from a young age we watched movies about scammers and their tricks, our parents explain to us about how scammers trap women, I know some Nigerian men scam women online but I wish I could explain to women how to avoid scammers.
Wow you are so right about this, if you grow up around such lifestyle you can spot the fakery a mile away not just for men who claim to be millionaires but footballers, musicians, actors or even business men with money. If they are always showing off RUN...It’s a red flag. Don’t be fooled. Value yourself more and know that with more money equals more problems or BS. Find a nice man to build your life with. It will save lots of headaches.
A con artist is a brilliant actor. Con artist can't plant roots or settle down. But the glitz and the glam is where one's heart is. That's the only way you fall for the con.
Hi Fumi,you’re looking fabulous as always. Some people can be dogs. I was swindled out of money before, but not a lot. I saw where it was headed, and I cut it off, and stop all association with that person. I was almost taken off to a strange country, but GOD spoke to me, and I listened, and because I did, my life was spared. This kind of thing is happening all over the world everyday. There should be seminars to teach young girls and women about these things, because so many just don’t know. Thank you Fumi for sharing. I love you my darling. You and your family have a very blessed week. God bless you all 🙏🏻🥰🤗💞💞💞💞💞💞💞
This is a very deep analysis! I immediately thought trafficking too when she went on the private on day 1. Alarm bells.
I was thinking of opening back up my Netflix account to see this, but your run down was all I needed!
You get on a plane with a man you do not know. You sleep with a man this quickly. Men who value what they have do not behave like this. Men who protect women get to know them in safe situations.
Keeping it real. Thanks for your take Fumi, I agree with you 100%. I know that I would not be going in a car with some strange dude on the first date, much more a private jet, not sleeping with a stranger. I would not be taking it a loan or credit card for anyone.....all the red flags were there, but these ladies got caught up with the glitz and glam. Good lesson for other young ladies and young men who are looking for love, not to mistake glitz and glam for love and affection.
100% correct, people be careful out there...all that gillters is not good!
I am very happy the world learnt about this situation the way we did... because sticky situations like these can easily go another way.
Thank you for such a wise chat! Hopefully the ladies will take heed.
Thank you Fumi! I've been waiting for your take on this. I love your balanced review of splitting the justice: equal parts wine and oil. I also appreciated very much you sharing your insider's view of this world. It can be easy to get caught up when you are not privvy to this lifestyle.
Fumi you are right🙌 millionaires don't sit on social media they are busy making money!
aunty fumi you r very correct, my son meets ladies online, and during superbowl he brought the young lady he likes over, when they arrived, the young lady wanted to tour my house she also wanted to see my photo albums of baby pictures family photos of us , i thought it was strange.. then my husband said to me hunni this is a smart young lady she was checking out the family making sure we r who our son says we are..(fumi most women now r caught up into material things and dont asked the correct questions )...well done with the reveiw... bravo fumi
This is such a sad story but unfortunately a realistic one. This happens every day. One of the downsides of the internet and social media is that you can be whoever you want to be. Only speaking for myself but these so called finding love websites are not for me. Not knocking anyone who uses them but as I commented they are not for me personally
I felt bad for all these women in this movie, but the first gal was so desperate for love it was really kind of sad. What she did with this guy that she didn’t even know for 24 hrs was scary.
Auntie Fumi your assessment is spot on!!! Always a pleasure to hear your opinion❤️
Everything u said aunty Fumi is so true. We take too many unnecessary risks and its disheartening sometimes
I've seen women swindled with less effort than this just because the men knew their victim was lonely... and they tended to be cheaters. I feel so sad for women who are prayed upon, but TAKE NOTE OF THE SIGNS AND ARMS YOURSELVES.
Patience, it's okay to take your time to know someone.
Discernment.. to know when someone is into all of you and not just your bank account
Effort should be taken by the one chasing
Honesty, the moment you catch a person on a lie... don't ignore it especially if they were trying to overwhelm you in "good feelings."
Thank goodness for this Fumi, the documentary and the CONVERSATION. Men can scam, Women can scam but you don't have to be THEIR LAMB to the slaughter.
I’m new to your site and I ❤️ you’re vibe and energetic personality 😊 I love how you are breaking this down!
Very interesting topic. I've been talking about this topic on my platform, the danger of the "Online dating." It's time to educate women about the danger and red flags.
I'm going to get so Nigerian with this comment😂
Aaahh! Aunty Fumi! Your wisdom is from above ma. You have broken down this film with such finesse and beautiful maturity and experience. The part about Simon's child?? Oh my word😭♥️ This is a very beautiful video. What happened is indeed a tragedy but as a woman much much younger than the victims in the documentary, learning the ropes, I cannot, shall not and will not be as naive. Thank you for this. Really.
I don't know if this comment can tell how excited I am about this review😂😂
Queen Fumi,
Great that Fumi Nation inspired this video. I have said this before & I will say it again. You are a wise woman, giving “on point” advice, trying to help the sisters & the brothers. Thank you!💕
Thank you so much Fumi. I've watched the series as well and I completely share in your perspective. You don't travel to an unknown or even known destination with someone you just met a a hot 15 minutes ago. LADIES WE NEED TO BE CAREFUL AND GUARD OUR HEARTS, WE NEED TO PICK QUALITY OVER MATERIAL THINGS!!!!!!
Nowadays love is so rare, just noise. Ladies Stand on your own else you will become vulnerable. Learned that the hard way.
That guy was shameless.
That’s was the secret of his success. Until he went too faaaaaarrrrr!!!!! Dammit! The baby mama & thé child & the latest mark all on the same jet ????? OK !!
You speaking truth and facts😊
Great video Fumi I think the issues with these and many women is loneliness, desperation and in this case, association (being associated with someone who is seen as wealthy or having a certain lifestyle) plus wanting ''love'' by any means is what landed them in this. We got to lead with value, discernment and common sense, online gives people many vails they do not get to hide behind in real life. I thin online or offline we got to question where are we operating from and to vet people for months to a year because many are in a rush and it can end not so great. Fantastic points made as expected
Beautiful review aunty Fumi. I was super shocked when I watched it. Love you so much.
He is a professional thief😂
I love you Fumi for your honesty!! I thoroughly enjoyed this documentary, it was just very fascinating.
I've watched the documentary and was shocked that she was willing to put herself in such a financial jeopardy for this guy. But Fumi made me realised some details that I overlooked. About the baby and the alledge ex.
That is exactly wgat I said on my fb page, she was blinded by his looks and the glitz...no woman in their right man would go on a vacay with a man she just knows. I had no sympathy for Cecile, the 2nd lady was a victim the 3rd om was smart
GOD said man looks at the appearance but HE looks at the heart. ❤
My West African queen. Just love how u express urself. Very detail respond to this issue 👏 👌 👍 God bless.
This is the best review Abt this documentary
Your skin has such a beautiful glow!!! 💥💥💥
it's about building together. You are right, money doesnt build a marriage. I am married and is more than money. And women need to change the way they chose their man...
Most women aren’t even marrying men with money. The second highest cause of divorce is financial difficulty. So yes, it is important. It’s clear love alone Doesn’t sustain it.
Wow sis I love how you analyse this their of a man! You really gave solid advice on this! And we love you for this! Thank you, sis, for doing this episode. I really enjoyed every moment. I hope these girl have learnt from their experiences. I can't wait for the next episode, all my love 😘😘😘😘
Oooohhhh Mamma Fumi, SPEAK!!!❤ Mikonos in South Africa, I see the vacation picks are from Cape Town. The devil is a liar..... Thanks soo much mamma.
I had to go back to watch more due to u being a whole vibe
In Africa when the guy invite you in her private jet at the first date seriously your first thing you are thinking is is he the ritualist so that will block you to go anywhere with him
Damn right 🤣🤣🤣😹😹😹😹🥂
@@kareenah9290 🤣😂😂
This is why you must create the life you want. A swindler will give it to you temporarily.
We are say be Vigilant ladies etc …. Don’t missed the other parts Fumi has highlighted 🧜🏿♂️ . Simon put on a real show !! That’s good enough to turn HEADS ! Especially if it’s not something you’ve seen before! don’t underestimate Simons power of deception!
Auntie Fumiiiiiii….I love your look today🥰, you look beautiful as always♥️….the makeup, accessories, outfit oh God!!! I live, I love 😍😅
Aunty Fumi my God I love your commentary and that part about asking about the child was so insightful and true.
Hi Fumi Fumination I love your teaching skills and to the point Love you dear from South Africa
Tinder is one of the worst and dangerous sites, Its famous for two things, murder and hook-ups! I love your makeup, your energy and your honesty, that women don't always have to show skin to look demure or attractive.❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🤗
Thanks for the insights and words of wisdom. Another fabulous episode!
So many RED FLAGS in it.
"Strawberries caviar you're gonna poop it out"... Love you Fumi😂
They are so naive . The glitz and glamour dazzles their eyes so they can't see anything else that is coming .
The Leviev family is suing him….
Happy Sunday to you and the family Fumi 😘😘😘
Fumi nation checking in ❤️🔥
These women, so sad!!!! Beware indeed
Im waiting for the coverage of Inventing ANNA
Yessss!!! I saw the Tindler Swindler BEFORE Inventing Anna & my jaw was on the ground at the similarity between the 2, except it was the male version in Tindler Swindler and a female in Inventing Anna! Totally gives you insight into the manipulative narcissistic personality types!
Exactly what I was wondering... what would a millionaire be doing on tinder... good one Fumi
Fumi where did you get that absolutely adorable Donald duck t-shirt from Love it❤️
Wow Fumi! I thought I could retell a story/movie…. 😃 I hadn’t heard about this documentary so of course I was intrigued to go watch! But Sis you broke it down so well I didn’t feel I needed to watch it! Great insight you had to offer! This was unfortunate & sad!
Great breakdown I’ve seen this all over social media but I had no plans to watch.
A main red flag for me would be vanity and flashiness. It's almost always overcompensating for something. Trying too hard to impress is a form of desperation and desperation is dangerous in every aspect.
Fumi, do you know Madame Speaker? If so, could you please make a video commenting on her video called: Storie Time- Loosing a house for divorce-being a proverbs 31 woman almost destroyed me. I think this theme could also help us especially, women. It’s the opposite to this video you made, because they are not riches or look like,but it’s related. Also, while there are sewindlers on social media, there are may of them attending churches and looking for women to feed them or to be taken advantage of. You really love your sisters. Thanks 🙏
I watched that video, so sad but there were TONS of red flags! The guy was a bum from the beginning!
I watched the video last week. There were lots of red flags and incompatibilities, esp his financial mismanagement.
I think similar to these women in Tinder Swindler, there wasn't much personal responsibility for her choice to date and marry that man. Least of all how she attributed it to being Prov 31 as the issue.
I would never give a man money