MensXP: Indian Gay Men Talk About Stereotypes

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  • @Earth098
    @Earth098 6 років тому +622

    'being feminine' is also a widespread stereotype. There are plenty of gay men who are not feminine and there are plenty of straight men who are feminine.

    • @robstar2gaming424
      @robstar2gaming424 5 років тому +26

      Even bisexual man are mostly like straight men ..with masculine am i right ??

    • @alrightfame5019
      @alrightfame5019 4 роки тому +42

      @@robstar2gaming424 bro even gay man i am straight but my gay brother looks more manly than me 🤣🤣🙂🙂❤❤

    • @Earth098
      @Earth098 4 роки тому +8

      @Not a Perfect Person I never said there is anything wrong with being a feminine man, what so ever. I said, not all gay men are feminine and not all feminine men are gay. Both are true. Everybody is feminine to a certain extent, regardless of whether you are gay or straight. There are plenty of feminine straight men out there, but we don't think they are straight, because we are trained to associate being feminine with being gay.

    • @Earth098
      @Earth098 4 роки тому +7

      @Not a Perfect Person Okay good. And I tried to break some stereotypes there. I'm gay but most people don't assume me as gay because they thing all gay people are feminine or act differently. And I have some straight friends who are bit 'feminine' and they are being labeled as gay. There is nothing wrong with being feminine, but it's wrong to associate that with homosexuality. Because there are plenty of straight men who are feminine as well.

    • @avastars3393
      @avastars3393 4 роки тому +6

      Same applies to girls . Being masculine doesn't mean being gay and being gay doesn't mean being masculine. There is no such rule. Your look preference and personal interest have got to do nothing with your sexuality. I am a lesbian and i am masculine. I have a friend she is also a lesbian but she is feminine. She has long hair and wears makeup and dresses. So people don't believe she is a lesbian because according to them she doesn't have the lesbian "look".
      Like dude what is that suppose to even mean 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♀️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♀️

  • @animefreakismadigral
    @animefreakismadigral 6 років тому +2133

    Do a lesbian version.

    • @mahnoorahmed2729
      @mahnoorahmed2729 6 років тому +14

      cooldudescool yes please!

    • @oof-rr5nf
      @oof-rr5nf 6 років тому +45

      cooldudescool YUP! I might pass out of happiness if they just do an umbrella queer community thing also about bisexuals and asexuals. I'LL PASS OUT.

    • @jasmeetkaurbhambra97
      @jasmeetkaurbhambra97 6 років тому +1

      yes please

    • @ShwetaGhosh95
      @ShwetaGhosh95 6 років тому +13

      Its a men's channel basically i wonder they would

    • @DarknesGaming
      @DarknesGaming 6 років тому

      cooldudescool 7011039656

  • @cheesecake6159
    @cheesecake6159 6 років тому +1483

    "don't be afraid of the word gay because gay means happy"

    • @diptayandas5466
      @diptayandas5466 6 років тому +17

      Mamabishh But it's India..
      And I am living in West Bengal..
      Here the matter is jst the worst

    • @sujatahazra8786
      @sujatahazra8786 6 років тому +7

      Diptayan Das same here... Hopefully it gets better :)

    • @laislabonia
      @laislabonia 6 років тому +1

      Diptayan - Podus are not welcome anywhere. hahaha

    • @cardboardsnail81
      @cardboardsnail81 5 років тому +2

      lol u gay

    • @Anti_Satan
      @Anti_Satan 5 років тому +2

      Stupid

  • @bridgetteroxhburgh6790
    @bridgetteroxhburgh6790 6 років тому +215

    when he says -'' calling us meetha will get you nowhere'' .. the best part.

    • @khaldoonmirza9877
      @khaldoonmirza9877 3 роки тому +1

      Omg yes 🥰

    • @CamlangEditz
      @CamlangEditz 3 роки тому +6

      Meetha

    • @sourabhpdushi2278
      @sourabhpdushi2278 3 роки тому +4

      Ok..meethe 😂😂

    • @dakshsharma1703
      @dakshsharma1703 3 роки тому +2

      It tells a lot about a person's up bringing and culture. A self confident chivalrous man will never bully another

    • @udhav423
      @udhav423 3 роки тому +10

      @@sourabhpdushi2278 so funny that i forgot to laugh

  • @ah7910
    @ah7910 3 роки тому +75

    I’m grateful for the couple of guys you feature in this video who act less ‘sassy’. Not all gay guys act the same and it feels like the media always highlight the guys who act bitchy and catty. Thanks for showing some gay guys who just act the same as straight guys - no hate to the more theatrical gay guys in this video, it’s great they get the spotlight, showing diversity, etc - but my entire life I wanted straight society to also see ‘look, we can be exactly like you.’ - there is a powerful message in that too. We do not all act like bitchy drag queens with sarcastic humour.

    • @saurabhvloggers1447
      @saurabhvloggers1447 3 роки тому

      Plz cm my home

    • @cradleofnature1627
      @cradleofnature1627 3 роки тому +5

      Absolutely true
      Masc gays should get more representation.
      Even the pride parade needs to be more like a protest thing not a street party.

    • @shiv4781
      @shiv4781 3 роки тому

      @@cradleofnature1627 Protest for ?

    • @cradleofnature1627
      @cradleofnature1627 3 роки тому +4

      @@shiv4781 protest for acceptance in society and to get the right to marry a person of same-sex, the Right to adopt as a same-sex couple, the Right to surrogacy as a same-sex couple, the right to serve in the military, being out as a member of LGBTQ.
      Simply all the rights which straights have since the time they are born.

    • @shiv4781
      @shiv4781 3 роки тому +1

      @@cradleofnature1627 Ohh, Right. I hope out stupid politicains look after this.
      I bet they are so immature and dumb that they think same-sex marriage is wrong and unnatural.

  • @SR-yt7un
    @SR-yt7un 6 років тому +649

    these are all privileged guys. Poor guys can also be gay in India. What about them?

    • @shiwanginaithani9759
      @shiwanginaithani9759 6 років тому +141

      S R you know actually poor gays can't come out of the closets as you know people don't consider it to be normal they could accept the fact that they were gay because their parents were supportive and that is actually a rare thing even in the privileged families.

    • @kabeerkabeer7210
      @kabeerkabeer7210 6 років тому +48

      It's difficult for them to come out

    • @suraiyashaikh1968
      @suraiyashaikh1968 6 років тому +24

      Arey bhai jo baat karna chahega wo e dikhega na
      Its a delicate topic
      N these people talked about everyone who is gay
      They talked on the behalf of all the gay rather farmer or doctor or fd or whatever!!!
      N its a good source 👍🏻

    • @diptayandas5466
      @diptayandas5466 6 років тому +1

      S R Their matter is jst the worst😢😢😢

    • @Phoenix.219
      @Phoenix.219 6 років тому +9

      S R at least someone is taking the initiative....changes take time & any major changes has mostly been initiated by the privileged ones but it reaches to others too... mostly middle class get influenced by the privileged class...so just support them thinking that at least they are taking the initiative bcz although their family is supportive but still accepting in the public about sth that our society thinks as a stigma isn't easy thing

  • @1peeptom
    @1peeptom 6 років тому +544

    Loved the video! Sexuality is fluid. People fall in love with people, not gender.... The sooner we accept this simple fact, d happier v will be.

    • @Sonakshi111
      @Sonakshi111 6 років тому +56

      Wow. A straight man is trying to play the victim card here! Unbelievable. Please keep your privilege to yourself.

    • @ananyasuresh4434
      @ananyasuresh4434 6 років тому +49

      gorkha Li thats absurd, if a straight woman and a straight man can be best friends and not sleep with each other, men can share a bed it’s just your own masculinity that’s limiting you. Homosexuality isn’t a choice, don’t call it a culture it’s just who you are

    • @Sonakshi111
      @Sonakshi111 6 років тому +32

      First of all the comparison was between a straight man and a gay man. But the way you put it, shows how ignorant and hateful you are.
      And honestly if your so called ‘men to men friendship’ can’t survive through the so called ‘western gay culture’, then it was not worth it in the first place.

    • @oof-rr5nf
      @oof-rr5nf 6 років тому +5

      rochni chand YES! THIS.

    • @oof-rr5nf
      @oof-rr5nf 6 років тому +4

      Sonakshi Verma You go, girl

  • @sagek7949
    @sagek7949 6 років тому +1124

    Proud of you guys! Now these are real men! 👍🏻

    • @mensxp
      @mensxp  6 років тому +24

      YASS!

    • @PensiveLobster1
      @PensiveLobster1 6 років тому +117

      They are not men.....they are gay 🤔

    • @arbaazpsy8186
      @arbaazpsy8186 6 років тому +32

      Real humans

    • @namita4005
      @namita4005 6 років тому +81

      Pensive Lobster1 That doesn't even make sense. How does being gay not make you a man?

    • @aarohisudanofficial1543
      @aarohisudanofficial1543 6 років тому +37

      Pensive Lobster1 damn another Mr. Know it all who's actually stupid smh

  • @saipruthvi8535
    @saipruthvi8535 3 роки тому +11

    To all my dear Indian Hindus, please don't attack gays online. Dont use the words Gay, chakke as offensive words. Our culture teaches us to respect all genders and orientations. BJP is not legalising Gay marriage because it is not indian culture. WE NEED EVERYONES SUPPORT!

    • @gauravmohore3034
      @gauravmohore3034 3 роки тому

      Wtf is that bullshit you are targeting ONLY Hinduism? infact hindu mythology had LGBT characters in respectful way

    • @saipruthvi8535
      @saipruthvi8535 3 роки тому +1

      @@gauravmohore3034 No. Im asking only hindus because they are more in number and they will actually listen. Muslims will say " it is not allowed in kur religion" but Hindus dont follow religion, thats why it's easy to convince. Im not "targeting" hinduism. Im asking hindus

    • @gauravmohore3034
      @gauravmohore3034 3 роки тому

      @@saipruthvi8535 you think muslims never say gay, chakka, hijda? If you want to make a point then you gotta stop generalizing hindus and include everyone because by doing this you will make people against you instead of understanding what you say
      You justified muslims by saying they will do that because it's not allowed in ther relegion then does it justify all the bad things they had done to LGBT community? They had done mass killing of gay people.. but it's allowed in their relegion it's written in Quran to kill everyone who don't obey their profet
      Bro you just being fuckin biased

    • @islamandchristianityhater5713
      @islamandchristianityhater5713 2 роки тому

      will they listen?

    • @Ihalamadrid16
      @Ihalamadrid16 2 роки тому

      @@gauravmohore3034 nah man he’s saying Muslims are really stupid to understand homosexuality Hindus are not lol

  • @Madeeha_shinkoko
    @Madeeha_shinkoko 6 років тому +70

    This is awesome but at the same time it got me wondering. I feel like all these videos are trying to sugarcoat the condition of lgbtq community in India. They're trying to show how happy and normal it is to belong from the lgbtq community in India when it's not. The dark side needs to be talked about in order to bring change. I'm pretty sure there are several men and women who are not able to come out coz of their families or the society in general. These people were fortunate enough to have been born in an open minded family. I feel bad for those who don't have the luxury of living the way they want to and are stuck in a backward nd selective society.

    • @Hii-ec6nr
      @Hii-ec6nr 5 років тому +6

      Then again it might be harder to get those people to do videos talking about it. But they should definitely try

    • @Madeeha_shinkoko
      @Madeeha_shinkoko 3 роки тому +4

      @hbrs arsm this was literally posted 2 years ago? And is that comment suppose to make me feel bad or sumn? Next time agar roast karna ho toh dimaag use karke karein. Kyunki the lack of wit is showing.

    • @themelonlord8488
      @themelonlord8488 3 роки тому +3

      Like you are so f*cking right, they are in a society where everyone is open-minded and yk privileged and shit. They are either NRIs, upperclass or in fashion industry! like "come on, it is ridiculous , it is 21st century. come out!" and I am like honey, shut up you don't even know how it really is

    • @genflicktv7018
      @genflicktv7018 3 роки тому +3

      I don't know how you know this but you r absolutely right. Gay community in india is a very scary place and i know all these people r very brave to come out of the closet amd say all those inspiring thing but you also have to consider your safety options. I'm a gay man in rural India and its so hard just to live like this but I'm not going to come out unless i get financially stable. And have an emotional support system whom i can rely on even if i come out. I'm preparing my whole family for the truth. Leaving small signs, so that eventually when i come out they don't feel as if they didn't have a clue .

  • @elanusrat2153
    @elanusrat2153 6 років тому +318

    I think it's not about religion or society.. it's about our aunties 🐸🐸 this aunties are like omg vabi u knw wht her son is gay! Chi chi... 😑

    • @AyaanKhan-tb2ot
      @AyaanKhan-tb2ot 6 років тому +3

      u😂😂😂😂😂😂❤

    • @santanukumarmahalik3286
      @santanukumarmahalik3286 6 років тому +1

      Omg 😂😂😂😂

    • @asuka7892
      @asuka7892 6 років тому +13

      True Lmao but it's also about religion because most of the religions forbids homosexuality

    • @santanukumarmahalik3286
      @santanukumarmahalik3286 6 років тому +23

      @@asuka7892 religion is made by humans not by God. If God created them, then why would God himself hate his creation ? God loves everybody. So you can't say religion prohibits homosexuality 😌

    • @MRichi-1994
      @MRichi-1994 5 років тому +5

      @@santanukumarmahalik3286 majority of religion prohibits being gay, because a women and man can reproduce but a women and women or vice versa can't. That effects the balance in population, that may sound funny just like how China at this point is suffering from imbalance in population due to their one child policy, this is my point of view. Regardless God has prohibited drugs, in some cases alcohol but we as humans don't stop the consumption. The same goes to being homosexual, I feel neutral about it and for society also it will take time to accept them completely as who they are. I would leave God decision to God. As humans we should stop treating them as an alien or being offensive.

  • @saundaryasrinivasan1186
    @saundaryasrinivasan1186 6 років тому +109

    This video NEEDS a heart button.

  • @swamfun2sh
    @swamfun2sh 7 років тому +83

    Stop judging, start understanding! 👫=👬=👭❣🌈

    • @mensxp
      @mensxp  7 років тому +13

      Exactly! If you like our content, don't forget to subscribe for more videos! We upload one every Monday, Wednesday and Friday!

    • @swamfun2sh
      @swamfun2sh 7 років тому +1

      MensXP already done!😎 Thanks for educating the 'virtual' world 😃

    • @aaryarana9132
      @aaryarana9132 3 роки тому

      And also 🕴️ single

  • @Smileyyyyyy65679
    @Smileyyyyyy65679 6 років тому +18

    You are real men! Lots of love and hats off to your courage.

  • @noone-gs7oz
    @noone-gs7oz 6 років тому +5

    This types of video needs to come more, so that society will start to consider it as normal and not treat it as taboo. More power to you!

  • @farhasultanasheikh9760
    @farhasultanasheikh9760 6 років тому +328

    So empowering..
    Our neighbors child who is abt 9 or 10 years old has so much of effiminate behavior, i mean all other his friends always talk about bikes and cricket whereas he always talk about dolls and makeup.
    I just asked him that how do your parents behave with u? And he was like 'my dad beats me whenever i talk this girlish things!'
    Ughh, I wish his parents could see this video..
    They're human being and gays are not criminals so should be treated as normal humans.

    • @nehasheikh5492
      @nehasheikh5492 6 років тому +13

      Farha beauty I feel so sorry for this kind his parents are close minded idiots hope he finds happiness in life

    • @diptayandas5466
      @diptayandas5466 6 років тому +10

      Farha beauty that's the Fucking problem with our country😤😞

    • @TechKidShazil
      @TechKidShazil 6 років тому +21

      I'm gonna be a supportive parent when I grow up. I will not be oppressive to them

    • @TheAttitudeKhan
      @TheAttitudeKhan 6 років тому +6

      Farha beauty well dear if it's so empowering would u ever marry a 'bisexual' man ? Coz your comment tells me u don't differentiste between normal And lgbtq man ...so would u proudly date or marry a bisexual man ? Keeping in my mind that he would also want to enjoy threesomes And so on ...?

    • @gyansahu2894
      @gyansahu2894 6 років тому +17

      @@TheAttitudeKhan again u r wrong ..... its not a choice! it something u born with.
      so if she would be a from a lgbt community den she would marry a lgbt peson but if she would be a straight then she would go for a straight person.........simple isn't it?

  • @haseenasheik6232
    @haseenasheik6232 6 років тому +159

    Ishant's mom deserves an applause

  • @naivesundari
    @naivesundari 6 років тому +809

    cool video with an informational insight. Brave step by these men to come out on this platform and help spread awareness, important things with us 😀

    • @CA143ABHI
      @CA143ABHI 6 років тому

      Hii

    • @nidhibhutani3449
      @nidhibhutani3449 6 років тому +5

      Bharat Bhadu
      that makes no sense. Especially when you say solved, there is no problem to be solved. Also putting a gay man (man attracted to men) and a lesbian woman (woman attracted to women) together would just make them miserable. Its like if someone put a straight guy with a straight guy. You can't force love and attraction

    • @spock7945
      @spock7945 6 років тому +1

      it may be a tardy, long post but one might still interest going through it.
      i was initially bit irate at MenXP for not crediting the names of these for 'gentle'men upfront with their screen time.
      found it lame of them to not let us know who is who, like in their other videos.
      But i now am thankful that THAT gave the insatiable curious monkey in me.. an opportunity to know more about them, more of them! :) and what might be their mindspace.
      to begin with, i wanted to know who the Alien (or Ganesh) was. i'm now ᵃˡᵐᵒˢᵗ certain, that the fennec fox like huge ears is Mr. Ajay Arjun ᴿᵃᵐᵖᵃᵃˡ
      oddly it his him only :-/ that i didn't find any dope on, on-line.
      Ishaan, the first name in the (featuring) credits and 00:17 ¿ is doing much on the tech scene or for the Yuppie junta thedeltaapp.com/team of the LQBTQIAH folks.
      Dhruv, looks almost as charming as in his youth s3-us-west-1.amazonaws.com/co-directory-images/dhruv-dave-b3463a34.jpg
      my bad if you are not him contactout.com/Dhruv-Dave-9634653
      𝗯𝘆 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘄𝗮𝘆: i think Dhruv (and Ganpati like ears Ajay) are pretty sorted out, *however i don't subscribe to Dhruv's line of thought* (that workplace romances or even passing link-ups is 'shitting where you eat'. [most working class urban populace practically spend most time in most professions with their work-mates. so what's so odd in people finding common ground or even lust taking over]
      AND real SALUT! to Huma ua-cam.com/video/D-zDwAd-FPI/v-deo.html and Vikram :) for who they are and to the amazing person that 🙇auntyji😇`_/|\_` *is* :) she lives ON, in them! 😢💪 sniff
      they have lotsa 🐶🐶🐶🐶🐶🐶🐶 :-*

    • @abdulhaq5846
      @abdulhaq5846 6 років тому

      . thanks

  • @yuvrajkhalaik2780
    @yuvrajkhalaik2780 5 років тому +3

    I come from a background of tough people. I'm from the upper mountains of himachal(11000 ft above sea level).I have studied inna convent boys boarding school, all my life. We were bread to be tough, like literally tough as nails, we knew how to fight, how to be aggressive. But all of us might be as striotyped "manly" as a man can be, we never hurted weaker or minorities. It was considerwd against our "honor". I came from a really tough background of snow clad villages, but my parents,my culture,my environment never taught me how to distinguish someone just because they were different. I think that's what an actual man is. No chopping off huge logs for firewood or beating each other. It's about having honor and respect. Respect for others,pride and honor for ourselves.

  • @yurironoue5888
    @yurironoue5888 5 років тому +5

    "Understand who they are as people, not by who they sleep with". 100% true! I couldn't have said it better myself! :D

  • @prachee8102
    @prachee8102 6 років тому +155

    I really did the effort to scroll down all the comments. Did you??

  • @ayushis.5032
    @ayushis.5032 6 років тому +31

    "Do you guys flip?" , "Ever got attracted towards girls?" Lol!
    I personally feel, we all humans, somewhere want love and that's beyond one's sexuality. A gay man can love a girl if she fulfils his emotional void, same goes to lesbians (may not sexually)

    • @jaydevsinhsolanki9323
      @jaydevsinhsolanki9323 6 років тому

      Well said👏👏

    • @loveyourpresent833
      @loveyourpresent833 6 років тому

      Ayushi Sangotra very good

    • @TheAttitudeKhan
      @TheAttitudeKhan 6 років тому +2

      So does that imply u wud be willing to date or marry a bisexual stud if u r so supportive of their inclination really ?

    • @Cateater123
      @Cateater123 Рік тому

      Ummm not in a romantic way tho , but I've noticed many guys finally make an exception in the end

  • @arbaazpsy8186
    @arbaazpsy8186 6 років тому +309

    The guy wearing denim jacket and the one with black leather jacket ! ❤️
    All of them are so strong and opinionated
    Where are such people !
    I don't find them around.
    🙄

    • @aayush3377
      @aayush3377 6 років тому +5

      arbaaz psy find them on the set of MensXP

    • @laislabonia
      @laislabonia 6 років тому +3

      Their names are Ishan Sethi, Ajay Arjun, Vikram Hazarika, Dhruva Dave.
      Youre welcome.

    • @DarknesGaming
      @DarknesGaming 6 років тому +1

      arbaaz psy 7011039656

    • @nidhibobal1133
      @nidhibobal1133 6 років тому +3

      avik mitra looked them up but couldn't find them on FB.😑

    • @TheAttitudeKhan
      @TheAttitudeKhan 6 років тому

      @@nidhibobal1133 y r u tryna find them on FB ? U straight right ? So where is the desperate motivation to search them on FB network coming from ? Revert ...then I'll find u for them ... ))

  • @user-wv1yt
    @user-wv1yt 6 років тому +1

    Very good effort... Kudos to all of you. SO happy to see the change. I came to US in 2000 and came out to all y family in 2005. OMG how much India has changed in this regard and I mean in a positive way. Much love from US from another Gay guy who grew up in India.

  • @PankajDeoli
    @PankajDeoli 5 років тому +17

    "We always knew" 😂 1:53 his mum's a Savage.

  • @skk3465
    @skk3465 6 років тому +72

    finally men group focusing on gay guys. next should be trans men :)

    • @oof-rr5nf
      @oof-rr5nf 6 років тому +1

      thoughtful Dame I'd love learn about Indain transmen. Wherever the transgender community is mentioned, I only see trans women being talked about. There is nothing wrong with that, but . . . I'd love to see and hear from trans men who are from my country?

    • @blackshadow7520
      @blackshadow7520 5 років тому +2

      @@oof-rr5nf well...... I'm a transmale and it's a happy feeling that people wanna know like I'm struggling to explain the feels right now😅😂❤

    • @blackshadow7520
      @blackshadow7520 5 років тому +1

      @@RohanGNair yeah just like one sexual orientation "straight"?!

    • @RohanGNair
      @RohanGNair 5 років тому +1

      @@blackshadow7520 gender and sexuality are different. Only 2 genders but multiple sexualities.

    • @blackshadow7520
      @blackshadow7520 5 років тому

      @@RohanGNair Agh I meant the same can't u get sarcasm tone?! Anyways there are not just 2 genders

  • @someone5444
    @someone5444 6 років тому +57

    2 years back I was a homophobe 😔 and used to make fun of gay people 😷 not anymore 😃
    my friend is gay but he doesn't have these effeminate mannerisms 😛 just saying

    • @drujjawalrathore
      @drujjawalrathore 6 років тому +4

      some one lol...good for you

    • @mg4568
      @mg4568 6 років тому +4

      some one I'm still a homophobe :p

    • @shyanroy1532
      @shyanroy1532 6 років тому +4

      He said yep be like that till your ass get whipped off in America for being one😂😂😂

    • @avastars3393
      @avastars3393 4 роки тому +3

      Thanks for changing 🙏 🥰😇

    • @Cateater123
      @Cateater123 Рік тому

      I was homophobic , but also fantasized hot hunkies lol

  • @deenuf
    @deenuf 6 років тому +18

    I'm gay and i haven't met the person whom I can actually call my partner/ love.
    Everyone asks for height, weight, and age. Once they know I'm 30, they scoot... I'm still searching for the unconditional love

    • @meekleak9597
      @meekleak9597 6 років тому +3

      wandering soul even I m searching for a soul mate

    • @deenuf
      @deenuf 6 років тому

      meek leak
      So how do I contact u??

    • @meekleak9597
      @meekleak9597 6 років тому

      Where r u from

    • @deenuf
      @deenuf 6 років тому +2

      Kolkata

    • @bijuray9255
      @bijuray9255 6 років тому +1

      wandering soul hii

  • @nikhilverma9034
    @nikhilverma9034 4 роки тому +5

    This video gave me lot of strength in my past when i was struggling with myself. Thnx

    • @nikhilverma9034
      @nikhilverma9034 3 роки тому

      @EXTREME No man...i m straight but my boyfriend is gay.👀

  • @kiettruong3391
    @kiettruong3391 6 років тому +2

    We don't have sex, we just have sword fight.

  • @lavishaagarwal1215
    @lavishaagarwal1215 7 років тому +433

    bravo step.. more power to you all

  • @chitraksheesamaddar931
    @chitraksheesamaddar931 6 років тому +191

    You know what, no hats off to you guys.. You guys are just normal guys.. Just being romantically or sexually inclined to boys. So what?? Till the day, we'll "salute" the people LGBT community, they will never become a part of us.. So yeah, no salute.. You're dating a guy?? Cool, I'm a girl, I do too.. Listen to your mind and do whatever the hell you want or whoever the hell you want (nothing illegal of course).. But most importantly, be badass confident..

    • @Tara-kr3fq
      @Tara-kr3fq 6 років тому +3

      Chitrakshee Samaddar but being in a lgbt relationship is illegal...

    • @bonappetit7522
      @bonappetit7522 6 років тому +21

      that's the thing
      Gay relationships should be as normal as straight relationship
      we don't want "aww honey I love you as who u r, don't worry u r just as normal blaah bpah "

    • @emperoremesis9494
      @emperoremesis9494 6 років тому +2

      Exactly what I was looking for

    • @btstrash7781
      @btstrash7781 6 років тому +4

      deeksha adurty being in a homosexual relationship isn't illegal, having intercourse with a person who's the same sex as you, is illegal.

    • @goelayushi09
      @goelayushi09 6 років тому +3

      now that is how educated and liberated ppl should think like.. 🤗. Only this mindset can bring about a change. Happy to know our society hv ppl like u

  • @AxalataGilbert
    @AxalataGilbert 6 років тому +370

    Purple tshirt guy is good looking..i would love to date him if i m gay.No jk.

  • @loveshell007
    @loveshell007 6 років тому +4

    It is brave and inspiring of you guys to do this. It's a step towards normalisation and greater social acceptance

  • @shreya884
    @shreya884 3 роки тому +3

    okay isn't it about times for the Indians to understand that gay n transgender are two different thing?

  • @anudritajoshi3616
    @anudritajoshi3616 6 років тому +5

    this is such a great thing. i wish more people saw this and grow up. i also hope you'd make something like this about girls

  • @AxalataGilbert
    @AxalataGilbert 6 років тому +38

    Not gonna happen.If India accepts same sex relationships it would b great but..people can't b open due to family pressure,ruthless society.Anyways i hope each & everyone get accepted soon.Hope for the best.

    • @84y87
      @84y87 5 років тому

      But why officially though ? If gay men want to stay with other men they are free to do so but why do they want a legal recognition of this fact ?

    • @bhassadgaming6559
      @bhassadgaming6559 3 роки тому

      Now its almost legal i hope you are having a good time

  • @aayushsharma8735
    @aayushsharma8735 6 років тому +98

    Well I am also gay....😊😊

    • @oof-rr5nf
      @oof-rr5nf 6 років тому +5

      Aayush Sharma Cool! :)

    • @saumil6679
      @saumil6679 6 років тому

      Noice!!👍

    • @saumil6679
      @saumil6679 6 років тому +24

      @The Engineer Guy that's what you find attractive in a chick. Lmao.

    • @saumil6679
      @saumil6679 6 років тому +4

      @The Engineer Guy haha you interpreted it wrong. Certainly gay men do not have titties.😀

    • @jasminesingh389
      @jasminesingh389 6 років тому +11

      Aayush Sharma i hv seen u mentioning this very bravely in other video's comment section nd m proud of u nd everyone accepts u with no problems........ blessing u a very happy lyf

  • @rollingstones7876
    @rollingstones7876 6 років тому +7

    Best video I watched today ! Kudos and more power to you guys ! I wish you all lead an amazing life without any of these stigmas attached... Let's hope for a better future !

    • @mensxp
      @mensxp  6 років тому +3

      Let's sure hope that!
      For more relatable videos, don't forget to subscribe to MensXP!

  • @BhartiPuri
    @BhartiPuri 6 років тому +6

    All of them very handsome men. Sharing this video with my friends. Well done guys, loved it.

  • @mp-ig6zb
    @mp-ig6zb 6 років тому +34

    I'm a straight female, they are hot and have an amazing sense of humour.

  • @khondokerzarin5285
    @khondokerzarin5285 6 років тому +23

    These guys are so brave and cool. Like i can never have that much of confidence. Loved this video cause finally some mature people talked about LGBTQ 🏳️‍🌈 community in a developing country. ❤️️❤️️ to the boys.

    • @khondokerzarin5285
      @khondokerzarin5285 6 років тому +5

      Varoon I know that bro. I am from Bangladesh and we live in neighbouring countries and even if our everything is different, the conservative mentality is pretty similar so i meant that i am glad that people are talking about LGBT in India because that feels like a little hope. Gay marriage is considered a sin even in Christianity so I don't even want to bring religion here. Its just about the society. I don't know what felt offensive to you bro, sorry if I offended you because i had no intentions to.

    • @khondokerzarin5285
      @khondokerzarin5285 6 років тому +1

      Varoon I am not a Pakistani, I neither compared the countries nor the religions. You are forcefully trying to drag a wrong meaning out of my statement. As you have already dragged religion into it, so let me clarify that in 1971 Pakistani army killed many Muslims too so they didn't see any religion, just killed millions of BENGALIS which we are, don't teach me my history so not all Muslims are same. If someone is a murderer, he is a murderer, his religion didn't force him to kill, in this world, no religion tells their followers to kill other people, its considered a sin everywhere so don't blame Islamism. I never denied the fact that Muslims are not conservative about LGBT, of course they are, I didn't even compare Hindu or Muslim people, I just said that in some way or the other, the CONSERVATIVES of both the countries share pretty much the same mentality, i categorised them as conservatives not Hindu or Muslim. You did that. Not all Muslims are the same, just as not all Hindus are the same. Some people regardless of their religion will be open to LGBT and some people won't be, their mentality doesn't change according to their religion, their liberalism comes from modernisation. Some Hindu people are understanding towards LGBT community and some are not, some Muslims like me and my family will be understanding towards LGBT community and some won't be, but addressing every single Muslim as killers just because some inhuman people hurt other people who just CLAIM to be Muslims and portray Islam in a wrong way is really unfair. If a person is bad, he is bad, and he is considered bad according to his religion too, you are no one to blame. Every religion existing in this world considers being LGBT a sin so religion never even comes in this matter. I don't know what made you attack me. Bro just chill, nobody said anything to you.

    • @TechKidShazil
      @TechKidShazil 6 років тому +1

      Varoon Muslims in India can also be gay. You now that.

    • @TechKidShazil
      @TechKidShazil 6 років тому +2

      Varoon Can you just the f up. She/he was legitimately being nice here. Don't force your views on her/him.

    • @TechKidShazil
      @TechKidShazil 6 років тому +1

      Khondoker Zarin You don't have to reply to idiots like him/her.

  • @saumya6469
    @saumya6469 6 років тому +16

    It was really good to watch this video. All these guys seem to come from a place of privilege so I suppose that must have played a role in their being able to talk about being Gay in such a forthcoming way in a country like India. Otherwise, for an average Gay guy, it musn't be so easy to be open about his sexuality. Sad but true. Nice video 👍

  • @RishabhSharma-ey2zk
    @RishabhSharma-ey2zk 6 років тому +4

    That was really informative and kinda educational actually. Keep up the good work folks.

  • @osraikar3283
    @osraikar3283 6 років тому +6

    They deserve respect like normal people. I hate those who disrespect these people 😡😡😡

    • @even___
      @even___ 3 роки тому +1

      at least the people who ask the questions aren’t being homophobic and are just genuinely curious.

    • @even___
      @even___ 3 роки тому

      @EXTREME maybe :)

    • @even___
      @even___ 3 роки тому

      @EXTREME because i am bisexual and panromantic i guess?

    • @even___
      @even___ 3 роки тому

      @EXTREME because i am?

    • @even___
      @even___ 3 роки тому

      @EXTREME i- i’m going to sleep i’m done with you-

  • @The_Experience_Guy
    @The_Experience_Guy 6 років тому +16

    Thanks for this!

    • @mensxp
      @mensxp  6 років тому +4

      No worries bro! If you like our content make sure you’re subscribed:D

    • @DarknesGaming
      @DarknesGaming 6 років тому

      Anubhav Verma 7011039656

  • @billmacneil6781
    @billmacneil6781 6 років тому +61

    Nicely done guys!!! The guy in the white tee shirt is so hot........just the type I always went for and his ears are gorgeous!!! XXOO

    • @Phoenix.219
      @Phoenix.219 6 років тому +8

      Bill MacNeil His ears are like PK

  • @nikitabilung6034
    @nikitabilung6034 6 років тому +5

    Someday I would really like to go to a pride parade to support all of my LGBT+ guys, gals and non binary pals.

  • @meekleak9597
    @meekleak9597 6 років тому +2

    I am so happy so see so many positive comments. Keep supporting we need allies like you guys. Equality for all

  • @haikuyoung897
    @haikuyoung897 6 років тому +9

    Proud of u guys.. 😊😊I'm bisexual btw.. Hehe

    • @CM-fk6yc
      @CM-fk6yc 3 роки тому +1

      Wtf...........

    • @CM-fk6yc
      @CM-fk6yc 3 роки тому +1

      @EXTREME he gae.

    • @CM-fk6yc
      @CM-fk6yc 3 роки тому

      @EXTREME because he gae

  • @SONA._K
    @SONA._K 3 роки тому +11

    I am straight but I loved these people . 😄😄

  • @prakhar1623
    @prakhar1623 4 роки тому +4

    Omg I've been watching this video for these 2 years again and again and yeah I'm obsessed

  • @vaibhavtripathi6343
    @vaibhavtripathi6343 6 років тому +7

    thnx to God tht people around me a very understanding about gay culture

  • @kavy1609
    @kavy1609 3 роки тому +7

    Seriously I love this guys and come on its 2021 and still this so called frnds, neighbours who constantly judge you just don't give a shit to them live your life to the bestt 😉

  • @Dr.AishwaryaNair10
    @Dr.AishwaryaNair10 6 років тому +1

    From 6:08, awesome words. And it is so true as well. People don't realise that everyone has their own feelings and emotions and they have the right to love anyone they want. Hats off to you guys. I respect you for doing the right thing.

  • @amanaz450
    @amanaz450 6 років тому +18

    I've always wanted gay friends they are cool and they never judge U for who U are

    • @Rosesrii
      @Rosesrii 5 років тому +3

      That's stereotyping being party of a community doesn't make people radical!

    • @avni202
      @avni202 5 років тому +1

      Yikes

    • @soapmuncher3135
      @soapmuncher3135 5 років тому +2

      can you stop objectifying LGBTQ+ people? wym "i always wanted a gay friend"?? we're not some object. straight people like you are laughed upon inside our community

    • @diallo9668
      @diallo9668 4 роки тому +1

      @@soapmuncher3135 "I want a gay friend"
      What part of this is objectifying?

    • @soapmuncher3135
      @soapmuncher3135 4 роки тому +2

      @@diallo9668 why would you SPECIFICALLY want a gay friend? it's not like gay people are better than straight people in any way lmao, look for a friend who supports you and doesn't judge you for who you are, regardless of their sexuality.

  • @htsfarmer5709
    @htsfarmer5709 3 роки тому +3

    A small knowledge 😊:-
    Not all gays are feminine.
    Not all gays do makeup .
    Not all gays talk too much .
    Not all gays just want s*x.
    Gay or trans are not slang.
    calling gay or trans are not a cool joke .
    Transgenders may born transgender but,
    Gays are not born gay,
    It's the nature that make them
    choose to fell in love with same gender.
    Most importantly,
    Respect everyone
    Respect lgbtq
    Felling in love with someone is not a crime, regardless to any gender.❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @chaitalisarkar6154
    @chaitalisarkar6154 7 років тому +41

    Long way to go....

  • @aakashsharma707
    @aakashsharma707 6 років тому

    This channel is so good. I just found it. These people are so honest. I love it

  • @Ashi__.
    @Ashi__. 5 років тому

    okay so I'm 13 and very sure about being bisexual in a very homophobic bengali muslim family in a desi society . What I really love about this entire video is that MANY gay and lesbian people actually felt comfortable enough to comment about how they face different situations . From upper middle class to lower middle class , from hindu to muslim , from gujrati to Punjabi , everyone has their own story and voicing it out infront of so many people is so amazing to see . I am proud of everyone wether out of the closet or not YOU ARE AMAZING AND I LOVE YOU .

    • @PRIVATECLUB315
      @PRIVATECLUB315 3 роки тому

      Wtf...i pity you fliths on earth😂😂

  • @PriyabrataMohapatraiitmadras
    @PriyabrataMohapatraiitmadras 6 років тому +21

    I like white T-shirt guy. He is so cute. But at the same time, he is very mature and intelligent.

  • @sonu-wu7kq
    @sonu-wu7kq 7 років тому +136

    Hats off to you guys.....

    • @TheAttitudeKhan
      @TheAttitudeKhan 6 років тому +4

      What is so hats-offing about them ? Would u date or marry a bisexual guy for real in your life ??

    • @theroyaletea
      @theroyaletea 6 років тому +2

      @@TheAttitudeKhan well what's wrong with it

    • @alrightfame5019
      @alrightfame5019 4 роки тому +1

      @@TheAttitudeKhan ofcourse he has characteristics of both man and women by his feelings he will understand me better...

    • @CJ-bb3yv
      @CJ-bb3yv 3 роки тому +1

      @@TheAttitudeKhan yes?

    • @shiv4781
      @shiv4781 3 роки тому

      @@alrightfame5019 gae

  • @armaansheikh7266
    @armaansheikh7266 5 років тому +5

    Anyone in June 2019??..came out this year 🌈🌈🌈❣️❣️ HAPPY PRIDE

    • @avni202
      @avni202 5 років тому +1

      Good for you man 💕

    • @armaansheikh7266
      @armaansheikh7266 3 роки тому

      @@Shashank-bp7xr be happy mate 🌈❣️

  • @131_ID
    @131_ID 6 років тому +2

    “I look forward for that day my prince charming walks out”
    Awww..😍

  • @joaoteixeira822
    @joaoteixeira822 6 років тому +2

    Indian men are so cute! I would like to meet one! Brave guys! Follow who you really are and love yourselves! Greetings from Brazil.

  • @oof-rr5nf
    @oof-rr5nf 6 років тому +5

    I support you guys! Wholeheartedly.

  • @beinghamza904
    @beinghamza904 6 років тому +4

    The guy in purple with black jacket is so handsome ❤❤❤ kash ye straight hota 😭😂

    • @TheAttitudeKhan
      @TheAttitudeKhan 6 років тому

      Mahira main kaisa lg Ra hu display mein ? Bataao tho zraa plz

    • @TheAttitudeKhan
      @TheAttitudeKhan 6 років тому

      And just assume if this purple T-shirt guy is a bisexual and willing to marry u ..would u then agree to marry a bi-guy ???? Cross your heart and revert ...Dont just say yes coz u support them ...Be Genuine ..is it possible for a straight girl like u to marry a bisexual men ?

  • @TheExotic1234
    @TheExotic1234 6 років тому +1

    Women most often seem to be more accepting and tolerant as opposed to men. A lot of them probably have poor knowledge of homosexuality. They probably think it is a choice or a preference when it’s actually an orientation. It’s the way you are born, the genetics so I would say it is just as natural as anything else. It’s high time we accept homosexuality as naturally as we accept people from different community race colour caste religion etc. There is enough documented evidence in the Animal Kingdom on homosexuality. The stats says about 10% of any population is bound to be LGBT imagine in a country of 1.5 Billion people about 15 million people are forbidden by the law and forced to live a lie. Time to Change but Most importantly time to ACCEPT. Live and Let Live. Amen !!

  • @solobdstudentingermany8346
    @solobdstudentingermany8346 6 років тому +1

    Really I appreciate such bravo endeavor and we are gay from Bangladesh get inspiration from Indian Lgbtq community attempts

  • @Angeldsz24
    @Angeldsz24 6 років тому +3

    They are so cool 😂 I mean I love how confident they are about themselves!

  • @himanshushekhar3958
    @himanshushekhar3958 5 років тому +8

    I am proud of who you are.everyone deserve to live the way they want to and society should accept it but if you people say gay is something that people are born with then it is arguably...
    Love the way you are and if I were a gay, I wouldn't be ashamed to say

    • @atulr.s4792
      @atulr.s4792 5 років тому

      Well if you ever end up feeling into guys xD, do find me :p

  • @karankumarbarik2438
    @karankumarbarik2438 4 роки тому +3

    My parents are homophobic,my dad punched and hurt his small brother when he try to came out and he forcefully married him to a girl(at the time of 1995 now both old) and my mom is not much open minded and not much educated(she from village)... problem is I love them,If I will came out my mom will definitely die and if I will come out infront of my friends then there is chances to get my parents know... What can I do !?

    • @Harsh_0812
      @Harsh_0812 4 роки тому +1

      Hey. I'm in a similar situation. The best thing we can do is first be economically independent, so that we are not dependent on our parents for anything. Then, if they don't accept us after coming out, we can probably move out till they understand or even if they never do, we can live our own lives...... Ik it's very hard, but let's hope for the best 👍🏻

    • @dev_peace_soul
      @dev_peace_soul 3 роки тому

      Just become financially independent 😊

  • @nidhiskothari3484
    @nidhiskothari3484 6 років тому

    I am so glad that India is finally open about their homosexuality ,you guys are awesome 👏🏻 opening up, doing this video 😍

  • @cultwatch2580
    @cultwatch2580 3 роки тому +2

    Privileged or not, these guys are brave enough to embrace who they are! In 2021 ,99.99% are still homophobic,with dired deathly , consequences! 377 cut off from legal standpoint,but no difference at large! Politicians need to maje policies which should neutral and equal. Ishan rightly said don't be an ass as you don't know what exactly someone is going through,be it straight or gay! Just living in your bubble does not matter, use your brain before judging someone else

  • @adora2020
    @adora2020 3 роки тому +8

    I love how honest they are. ❤️

  • @brownguylovesmakeup5642
    @brownguylovesmakeup5642 6 років тому +5

    More power to you men...🙌🙌🙌

    • @mensxp
      @mensxp  6 років тому +1

      🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌

    • @DarknesGaming
      @DarknesGaming 6 років тому

      brown guy loves makeup 7011039656

    • @mkgupta3759
      @mkgupta3759 5 років тому

      Hi my 💕

  • @redpiper9836
    @redpiper9836 6 років тому +7

    Glad you'd it, we ❤support you

  • @cupid66307
    @cupid66307 2 роки тому +2

    Once My Grandfather Said Out Of Anger Your Generation is crazy when I was young Now Today My Grandpa is no more Now I get How Accurate his assumptions were

  • @uvrocker
    @uvrocker 5 років тому +1

    Masculine and Feminine - both traits are present in a person...Gender tag - Male or Female - is given by this society. I believe as a straight man who understands spiritual aspects - even true religion accepts this reality and is inclusive of all that is manifested in this creation/projection....It is sad that our own country that was full of great souls is now filled with inconsiderate souls. But my fellow humans (whatever your sexuality is) - keep believing in yourself and be brave to come out in the open...World is changing and the new generation cannot remain in the closet - more and more people are becoming compassionate and we will accept you whole-heatedly!

  • @pallavipandey4540
    @pallavipandey4540 6 років тому +27

    The guy with the denim jacket 😍

  • @saichawla6274
    @saichawla6274 6 років тому +12

    real men smashing toxic masculinity

    • @AC-ny1di
      @AC-ny1di 3 роки тому

      UGI
      UNITED GANDOOS OF INDIA

  • @fydfrdfy
    @fydfrdfy 6 років тому +19

    I am a Indian gay

  • @kalyanipareek7028
    @kalyanipareek7028 6 років тому +2

    This is a great video but try being more diverse with the cast maybe? All of them were pretty much from the same educated, urban and open minded background. Try it with gays who actually face rejection and humiliation from people around them, gays from small towns, gays raised in typical homophobic families and gays forced into heterosexual marriages etc. To cast light on the real problem. Apart from a few ridiculous questions and remarks, these respondents don't face average Indian gay problems.

  • @sugamrijal7134
    @sugamrijal7134 6 років тому +1

    The one with the blue jeans jacket thoughts are awesome he has got more humour than a straight man.

  • @DARKSHADOW-mr3cc
    @DARKSHADOW-mr3cc 6 років тому +4

    It's really strange that all of these guys are from well to do family and their struggle is nothing compared to guys who belong to middle class guys

  • @ajaychhibber03
    @ajaychhibber03 6 років тому +7

    Awesome video team. More power to anyone belonging to LGBTQI+ community. Be #fabulous & #slay
    #loveislove #nomatterwhat #nohate
    🦄🦄🦄🌈🌈🌈

  • @lilith.3826
    @lilith.3826 6 років тому +4

    The guy with white tshirt is cute asf❤

  • @pinkheart315
    @pinkheart315 6 років тому +2

    It's nice to see happy stories where more families are open and nice to accept them.
    Also since they are all single can we ship them?😂

  • @mr.uneven6850
    @mr.uneven6850 6 років тому +1

    No matter what you are .. believe me "love is just love"

  • @theserialbunny424
    @theserialbunny424 6 років тому +5

    you know what I feel when you look in the eyes of these men they look really sad! I feel they are lying that they have supporting environment. treat everyone with love and equality

  • @sjzz
    @sjzz 3 роки тому +9

    Ok it's good, but they act soo feminine ?
    Just because you are gay doesn't mean no masculinity.

  • @kiranobles5799
    @kiranobles5799 6 років тому +5

    I am myself bisexual. But I don't understand why so many gay or bisexual guys feel the need to act & talk in a cloying way. I mean it's funny & embarrassing. It only looks good on the shows or movies. I don't know, it's just cringy. BTW, that third dude with voilet t-shirt kinda looks like Ryan Reynolds. Cute.

  • @madhumitabishtt
    @madhumitabishtt 6 років тому

    this is such a great video. hats off ♥️ normal people been assuming coz LGBTQ community has been in shadows atleast for me. this helped me alot. i respect every human being ♥️♥️

  • @dawoodqureshi2023
    @dawoodqureshi2023 5 років тому

    Its not easy as an Indian to talk abt it openly or in front of camera. U guys got guds.

  • @divumahour2912
    @divumahour2912 6 років тому +7

    bravooooo💜💜💜💜💜💜

  • @deepahomereview76
    @deepahomereview76 7 років тому +12

    Really nice guys,,,, make same video for trans people,,,,

    • @mensxp
      @mensxp  7 років тому +5

      Thanks! That's a good idea, we sure will! Stay tuned! :)

    • @wafabintthaha5693
      @wafabintthaha5693 6 років тому

      Thats a really good idea... we get to know more about every type of people... 😊😊

  • @amanjamestech
    @amanjamestech 5 років тому +3

    Bollywood is also a reason for stupid questions.

  • @sweetspicy92
    @sweetspicy92 5 років тому +2

    The issue is not being gay / les / bi / straight . Issue is becoming clingy and scaring others .
    With all due respect , I bestie is a lesbian and even she agrees that it’s difficult for her to find emotional
    Connection cause everyone is too much about sex sex sex

    • @cherrycherry8688
      @cherrycherry8688 5 років тому

      Exactly!!! I am bi boy and completely agree with u!!!
      Even on some gay themed videos Indian guys start hook-up site in comment section. It's very annoying to see so many mobile numbers here and there in comment section!!

    • @Cateater123
      @Cateater123 Рік тому

      I kind of agree , I've only been liked sex .

    • @Cateater123
      @Cateater123 Рік тому

      ​@@cherrycherry8688 agreed , all they want is to fc you , and these are married straight dudes. I never use Grindr it's just gross .

  • @nikhilverma2553
    @nikhilverma2553 6 років тому

    This is the first time i saw gay indian ppl .... never thought they r so chill ... good for them

  • @janardhan2941
    @janardhan2941 6 років тому +7

    0:08 elliot from mr. Robot

    • @mp-ig6zb
      @mp-ig6zb 6 років тому +1

      lol omg kinda