How To Get Confidence like Tyler Durden

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  • Опубліковано 13 чер 2023
  • Fight Club is easily one of the most influential movies in the past few decades. And why? because it's relatable. It tells the story of a depressed consumeristic man who finds his way into a less depressed consumeristic life by the means of a man named Tyler Durden.....
    yeah hes pretty much literally me.
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  • @Drpebba_
    @Drpebba_ 9 місяців тому +38

    Holy cow, the quality on this video is top tier. I can tell you're a credible source of advice just by the way you speak. It's Genuine. Never lose that, please!!

  • @adithyanb4895
    @adithyanb4895 10 місяців тому +96

    Confidence is sexiest trait a man can possess.

  • @minecraftspiderqueen
    @minecraftspiderqueen 10 місяців тому +62

    Keep this up mate.
    If there is truth behind your words, then you will go far kid.

  • @plabdien
    @plabdien 9 місяців тому +86

    You have something really good going on here. Keep on the grind!

  • @joaqu7002
    @joaqu7002 Рік тому +40

    This is actually really good advice

  • @MarcusAlexander-hu8er
    @MarcusAlexander-hu8er 10 місяців тому +5

    Love your vids, thank you bro

  • @markflakezCG
    @markflakezCG 7 місяців тому +12

    (3:30)
    I once had long night conversations with a girl I had a crush on. To lighten the interaction and have a more open chat, I decided to have a small drink but with high percentage. Surprisingly, this worked for me, I was able to relax and communicate more freely. However, it's important to note that this approach isn't for everyone. Personally, I tend to feel less comfortable in conversations, with the exception of conversations with close friends and loved ones.
    Anyway.. I think you giving great Advice man! I will try to work on it.

  • @gloomys5435
    @gloomys5435 Рік тому +89

    literally the point of fight club was to reject self improvement, just let go

    • @abreian
      @abreian  Рік тому +71

      as much as I agree, the next logical thing from “letting go” which idk what that means to you or anybody, is becoming the best version of yourself. Tyler’s quote about self improvement is referring to working towards a meaningless goal just because to give yourself some dopamine hit like masterbating. If someone is to find their purpose and work towards it, it is not meaningless, and it provides an outlet for fulfillment as well as not just looking for meaningless joy in the consumeristic dopamine filled world.

    • @arfius6134
      @arfius6134 10 місяців тому +8

      Tyler didn't tell to REJECT self improvement ...

    • @PapiStolet
      @PapiStolet 10 місяців тому +7

      My theory when Tyler says self-improvement is bullshit and self-destruction is the answer is that getting out of your comfort zone and doing things you don't want to do, like when he says to space apes starting and losing a fight, that's true self-improvement is not the one that makes you feel good in the moment but has achieved long-term benefits. Accept self-destruction (improvement).
      Let me know your theory I’m interesting

    • @Beleth420
      @Beleth420 10 місяців тому

      I thought the point was to stop wasting your life and that its literally showing us, how men need purpose or we will become like that. Obviously everything is up to interpretation I've not actually watched it for about 6 years lol. Oh and that the current working climate and how we are as a society is ruining our mental and basically become zombified having stagnated in such a boring mundane 9-5 life when we used to have purpose not just a shitty job and be a wage slave being depressed all the time LOL. All these men come to tyler because they have nothing to live for. I think I need to rewatch now aha.

    • @PapiStolet
      @PapiStolet 10 місяців тому

      @@Beleth420 great thought mate, we just need a purpose in life :)

  • @realityisawasteland
    @realityisawasteland 7 місяців тому +2

    The intro is Awesome

  • @AMXLBEATS
    @AMXLBEATS 8 місяців тому +4

    Thats straight to point
    Btw your abs are insane dude 🔥

  • @loganleslie9814
    @loganleslie9814 Місяць тому

    Great physique brother.I respect you work ethic.

  • @speggie9628
    @speggie9628 9 місяців тому +4

    😭😭the way these jokes be placed

  • @oldskoolguy...
    @oldskoolguy... 4 дні тому

    Learn from different peoples from which you inspire the most and collect all the stuffs to be a better version of yourself

  • @ajaykumar-ml1dt
    @ajaykumar-ml1dt 7 місяців тому

    good content.

  • @Dandoskyballer
    @Dandoskyballer 10 місяців тому +60

    Step 1: have split personality disorder.

    • @kaylebsingsstuff
      @kaylebsingsstuff 3 місяці тому

      Check, what's next?

    • @mrdudeman57
      @mrdudeman57 3 місяці тому

      ​@@kaylebsingsstuffreal

    • @Upuiff09
      @Upuiff09 3 місяці тому +1

      step 2: HAVE SPLIT PERSONALITY DISORDER

  • @jlau9268
    @jlau9268 15 днів тому +1

    He's also Brad Pitt, i bet that helps a lot too.

  • @top_10________
    @top_10________ 2 місяці тому +3

    Anyone notice he wrote durdan instead of durden

  • @xxRetardGamingxx
    @xxRetardGamingxx 10 місяців тому

    underrated song at the end

  • @lordeddy05
    @lordeddy05 8 місяців тому

    Thank ya

  • @Squeshit
    @Squeshit 8 місяців тому +12

    Self improvement is masturbation. Now, Self destruction.

  • @katjaanderson769
    @katjaanderson769 3 місяці тому +5

    You have a great voice to listen to. And when you stop caring about what other people think (within reason: you don't have the right to hurt people) improves your life *dramatically*: you stop letting the opinions of "other people" affect your behavior, and how you feel about yourself. (And if Tyler were an out of shape dude, no one would have been inspired by him. Sorry, not sorry.) All the best.

  • @clingz_vidz
    @clingz_vidz Місяць тому

    I think just have fun with it.

  • @lionforlambs9167
    @lionforlambs9167 8 місяців тому

    Good one❤😂

  • @parkerbanks1704
    @parkerbanks1704 6 місяців тому +3

    Ik im late but along with being strong, confident and hot he also rejected self improvement, favouring destruction. Hence the paradox

  • @paulomurici9075
    @paulomurici9075 6 місяців тому

    Peak soundtrack

  • @auxfraudstar
    @auxfraudstar 11 місяців тому +10

    MEN WHO WEAR THE BLUE RALPH LAUREN BATH ROBE WILL BE REMEBERED FOR MILLENIA 🗣🗣

  • @Snewhy0
    @Snewhy0 5 місяців тому

    If u not prepared mentally don't do it. Do it , but prepare. Don't jump all in 😂

  • @seynpurrp
    @seynpurrp 8 місяців тому +3

    step number 1.
    have plot armour.

  • @AkshanshVerma-xu8nd
    @AkshanshVerma-xu8nd 8 місяців тому

    Bro got the same abs genes

  • @death8987
    @death8987 11 місяців тому +4

    Ima do these things and come back with the result

  • @warrior77-profi
    @warrior77-profi 7 місяців тому

    Be yourself

  • @sagarsahil8728
    @sagarsahil8728 Місяць тому

    I watched your videos and I like it so much I am thumbnail designer and video editor also a movie lover I will love to edit your videos

  • @Potter12349
    @Potter12349 11 місяців тому +1

    one letter w

  • @minhkhang3274
    @minhkhang3274 6 місяців тому

    whats at 6:00?

  • @shadowmomochiuchiha6839
    @shadowmomochiuchiha6839 9 місяців тому +12

    "Self improvement is masturbation."

    • @TheP0dcastHub
      @TheP0dcastHub 5 місяців тому +1

      "But self destruction" 🫰

  • @lewieanderson6579
    @lewieanderson6579 11 днів тому

    Just be a figment of your imagination like Tyler durden

  • @jesuslopez6873
    @jesuslopez6873 8 місяців тому +1

    1. It's Brad Pitt

  • @GUYISNOTNORMAL
    @GUYISNOTNORMAL 4 місяці тому

    American pyscho is a movies not abt killing ppl but how u should feed ur "good side" also ur hobbies amd ur bad side so u wont be the nice guy or full on bad guy anime shit
    Fight club just dp something that makes ur life better just not stressful hobbies just enjoy life

  • @vonthedon3
    @vonthedon3 Рік тому +3

    Interesting brother, never watched the movie but nonetheless good video

    • @abreian
      @abreian  Рік тому

      thanks for the support von, keep up the good content

    • @socialdestroyer
      @socialdestroyer 10 місяців тому

      go watch it!!!!!

  • @ieatwater325
    @ieatwater325 8 місяців тому

    3:29 dude what💀💀💀

  • @wwleoo
    @wwleoo 8 місяців тому +1

    You are telling me to get a gun?

  • @lumenknight5673
    @lumenknight5673 11 місяців тому +6

    He’s not you where’s your homeless man mansion bruh?

  • @abdelmajidzaki-hw8ii
    @abdelmajidzaki-hw8ii 7 місяців тому

    What's the intro theme name ?

  • @justmeeagainn
    @justmeeagainn Рік тому +67

    I think you missed the idea that Tyler was a psychotic delusion of an insane mind, and was not supposed to be someone to be emulated. You also missed the idea, if you were foung to emulate him, where he declares "self improvement is masturbation".

    • @radiogoon1354
      @radiogoon1354 Рік тому +41

      Everyone has their own Tyler durden, the narrators Tyler was everything that he wanted to be, not everyone's Tyler is out to destroy consumerism. You must become your own Tyler, be how you want to be, look how you want to look, speak how you want to speak, the more you do that the more you will let yourself become Tyler durden.

    • @ethanwall6994
      @ethanwall6994 10 місяців тому +21

      "People do it every day. They see themselves as they want to be. They just don't have the courage you have... to run with it," - Tyler Durden
      I think what he's trying to say is that Tyler Durden embodies what you want to become. So no, we're not literally becoming Tyler from the movie, rather, we are self-destructing who society and those around us are telling us who we are and letting go of all of the bullshit to become an authentic version of ourself free from fear

    • @minecraftspiderqueen
      @minecraftspiderqueen 10 місяців тому +5

      Mate, i am him.
      I don't think you understand.

    • @mstrslay3752
      @mstrslay3752 10 місяців тому

      ​@@junij3524He probably meant that u shouldn't be like Tyler Durden, in the movie, as he promotes literal self destruction(1 hr sleep a day, starts a terrorist org, lives in a dilapidated house, steals human fat to make soap...) and discourages literal self improvement (improving ur physique (bus scene), getting a decent job, a decent home, sleep schedule...). I personally see it the way the two other people who replied see it tho, just explained what the guy commented is probably saying.

  • @silverleaf1261
    @silverleaf1261 8 місяців тому

    TYLER IS SOMEONE ELSE

  • @Seiven2077
    @Seiven2077 Місяць тому

    Bro, if you are sub5 no one will talk to you. Taje that into account wheb you build your flawless theory of confidence

  • @Beasty_76
    @Beasty_76 10 місяців тому +4

    Buddy you missed the whole idea. You're not supposed to be like them. The characters itself like they are supposed to be. Be yourself.

    • @abreian
      @abreian  10 місяців тому +4

      It’s just a video about confidence at the end of the day man, im not saying to be exactly like Tyler Durden.

  • @Gmanj26
    @Gmanj26 10 місяців тому +1

    Best video, but how do you stay in his mindset?

    • @abreian
      @abreian  9 місяців тому +1

      you must adapt into your own mindset, his mindset is only a template for confidence.

    • @Gmanj26
      @Gmanj26 9 місяців тому

      @@abreian thank you bro, got it nailed now!

  • @sikegaming8873
    @sikegaming8873 5 місяців тому

    self improvement is masturbation ~ Tyler Burden

  • @nervinokaras
    @nervinokaras Рік тому +5

    What's the difference between your mother and a washing machine?

    • @abreian
      @abreian  Рік тому +18

      when I dump a load in the washing machine, it doesn’t follow me around for a week.

    • @GentlemanGaming1122
      @GentlemanGaming1122 Рік тому +4

      ​@@abreian 😂😅 fucking hell that is funny.

  • @someguyinazoo
    @someguyinazoo 9 місяців тому +6

    Tyler Durden is an Ideal for lonely men,like the people who follow Andrew Tate is his everything they aren’t he’s strong charismatic and gets the women he wants. But I’m the end not even the Narrater could ache I’ve it instead he learned that Durden is wrong and learns who he is

    • @Ben-zg8xk
      @Ben-zg8xk 9 місяців тому +9

      Durden was a nihilistic extreme, the movie is a warning against this type of masculinity. Its funny that although tyler durden is supposedly anti modernity and anti consumerist, he represents everything that our society values in men. The point of fight club is for men to have a balance of the narrator and tyler durden, and to cultivate real human connection.

    • @aliimrankaya4952
      @aliimrankaya4952 8 місяців тому +1

      😅😂 You just wanna be good guy

    • @enthalpyart220
      @enthalpyart220 8 місяців тому

      actually u should go for detail

  • @XBLxMaverickX
    @XBLxMaverickX 7 місяців тому

    🫵🏽🫡

  • @Arya-rg3xx
    @Arya-rg3xx 5 місяців тому

    self improvment is masturbation

  • @kyle8175
    @kyle8175 8 місяців тому

    drugs

  • @Ector2099
    @Ector2099 2 місяці тому

    In both american psycho and fight club, the whole message is that people become futile by only focusing on "self improvement", but in my opinion, some aspect has become futile if you're only putting effort on that, and nothing else. No, self improvement is not masturbation, but masturbating on your ego with self improvement is.

  • @lumenknight5673
    @lumenknight5673 11 місяців тому +1

    Sigma the Alphas and Betas

  • @Fightclubfan69
    @Fightclubfan69 7 місяців тому +3

    I still dont and will never get this masculinity shit

    • @kazattak
      @kazattak 7 місяців тому +1

      dawg FR did these people understand the point of the movie 😭

  • @heltych
    @heltych 6 місяців тому +1

    confidence is good when you have a clear purpose. no, being masculine is not a purpose.

  • @Wander06
    @Wander06 6 місяців тому

    Shit sounds like a castrated Tyler Durden

  • @jasminegrace8097
    @jasminegrace8097 10 місяців тому

    U look like my ex

    • @abreian
      @abreian  8 місяців тому +5

      who says I’m not

  • @cali9059
    @cali9059 8 місяців тому +3

    tyler is not supposed to be a role model.

  • @infaredx
    @infaredx Рік тому +636

    The whole point of Fight Club was the same as American Psycho, you're not supposed to like him or want to be him.

    • @lukestreng3660
      @lukestreng3660 Рік тому +293

      not completely true, the message he brings is great. Rip loose from consumerism and follow your dreams. become who you really want to be instead of constantly frying your brain with dopamine all day. Nevertheless, the way in which this is potrayed is very dramatic to make the movie interesting and to show the duality in the narrators own personality and tyler.

    • @bigsmoke2287
      @bigsmoke2287 Рік тому +92

      I agree that you don't want to be like bateman but you do want to be like Tyler durden in the sense that he wants people to break free from all of the things making them weaker in turn destroying the weakness and creating new strength.

    • @ryken4456
      @ryken4456 10 місяців тому +29

      I want to be like him.

    • @chefboyardee4674
      @chefboyardee4674 10 місяців тому +13

      And look at what society has made men.

    • @minecraftspiderqueen
      @minecraftspiderqueen 10 місяців тому +2

      I am him.

  • @umanuu
    @umanuu 8 місяців тому +1

    i feel you're missing the point of Tyler Durden's character by trying to be like him

    • @Thebootlegmariobros
      @Thebootlegmariobros 8 місяців тому +5

      Hes trying show how having some of tylers good traits can help in improvement

  • @user-gr8mx4hc6q
    @user-gr8mx4hc6q 9 місяців тому

    You talk too much

  • @tipoftheiceberg7034
    @tipoftheiceberg7034 8 місяців тому

    Bro packin some BEEF in his draws wtf😅. But nah youre too young you dont realise that the message is DONT become that

  • @kefir8257
    @kefir8257 8 місяців тому

    You don't wanna be like him, stop.

  • @justheretoinspireyou5803
    @justheretoinspireyou5803 6 місяців тому

    The lips story is the most untyler durden thing ever Tyler was far from homosexuality

  • @infaredx
    @infaredx Рік тому +8

    also adding the clip of you licking your lips definitely wasn't necessary

    • @abreian
      @abreian  Рік тому +18

      It certainly was necessary

    • @hasantnaz2235
      @hasantnaz2235 Рік тому +2

      @@abreianof course it was necessary. It brought the while video together

    • @SpecialAbonnent
      @SpecialAbonnent 8 місяців тому

      Of course it was, it broke my nofap streak

  • @nonishah1069
    @nonishah1069 2 місяці тому

    If you're watching this your already lame