I’m 33 and I grew up with guys, I’m the only girl and I was in the military for 5 years. I never knew that being feminine is powerful since masculine traits are praised and seems dominant in society. I’m now on the journey of becoming more feminine and I’m excited for 2021!!
If you get into the Bible you will really tear up especially on Isaiah 53 how he was treated because of how He looked but still loved us and died for our raggedy behinds 💖💖💖💖💖💖
Anger has hardened me. My heart has become numb. I’ve walked away from church. I’ve been meditating and seeking to know God without the religious BS or circus shows. I’m on a path of self love and compassion for others. I’ve lost that part of me that God is restoring! Thanks for this video!
You are most welcome my love. I understand and I am so thankful you are returning to your God. I will be doing more videos on the Kingdom of God. Religion distorts it and that is the enemy's way of having us miss the true message and the reason Christ came. I wish you peace and blessings on your journey 🤍✨✨✨✨
Carletta it's amazing your last name is Christian, Christianity is a way of life and you look like you are coming full circle into the real truth, BE YE TRANSFORMED BY THE RENEWING OF YOUR MIND.
Spirituality is very personal, the good news is that church is only a tool to know God, I trust that you will find a tool that works for you, I have found that nature is one of the best tools we have at our disposal also learning from our traditional cultures which strive to manifest nature through its actions.
@@drmichelledaf God sent me you. I'm reading a book by Dr. Patricia Allen entitled "Getting to I Do,". It talks about how women and men have a masculine and feminine side. Not in a homosexual type of thing, but how God is El Shaddai...the breasted one who nuroushes. It teaches how as women we have a masculine and feminine side and a lot of times because of our upbringing we lean more towards that masculine side. I always wanted to have the feminine side, but I tend to meet guys that either are not the masculine side. There are times I have tried to prove that I am good wife material, which makes me sometimes have a little more masculine side when all I'm trying to do is show the man that I make a good wife. This was in my early teens, twenties and early thirties. I am 57 years young and I'm just learning this. But my ultimate goal Dr. Michelle is I want to get my softest back of being that female, feminine. This may be why my son and I have issues. In my divorce, I had to take on the role of being both the mother and father. And sometimes I may come off a little too masculine with my son not acting like a dude, but just trying to step into the shoes of being a father. I am so grateful for this video because I know in my heart God has led me to you. How can I connect with you more? Eutropia Rhodes eutropia01@gmail.com
I was sexually assaulted years ago and it became very difficult for to be feminine and to act feminine. I became defensive and always in doing. Thank you for these videos I am slowly getting back to my feminine self.
Wishing you peace on your journey to healing ❤️ It helps me by telling myself "right now you're safe." I hope that might help you too. You are not alone in this.
1. Be hygienic & carry yourself with poise (modest dressing, earthy colors, 2. Be soft & graceful (speech, movements, posture, actions) 3. Be friendly and smile (have feminine ways, be kind, confident & care about people) 4. Pliability with your mind (be aware & mindful) 5. Pliability with your spirit (have that personal relationship with God) 6. Nurturing tone of voice (slow down speech, manipulate voice, keep composure during arguments & know how to talk when)
I desire to be more feminine not just for myself but for my beautiful family. My children deserves to have a gentle and relaxed mom. My husband also deserves a wife, where everything about her exudes love and gentleness. God is able to guide me through this path as I have desired it... Now to put action and be deliberate about this. Thanks
Now it's time to indulge in your needs. Listening to rain drops helps to relax better and to enjoy nature. Ultimately it makes one open up to mother nature . Drinking moringa tea and moringa oil always helps to calm the inner body and helps with achieving smooth skin.
I'm going to be honest about this. When I was married, I took on alot of roles at the house together. I worked, cooked, and cleaned when I could. It is not normal for a woman to be cooking and cleaning and working 40 hours per week. You lose your femininity. Men are the providers and if.a woman wants her own side business, cool, but a wife shouldn't be forced to work fulltime and pay bills. I had to be masculine because he didn't give me that space to be feminine and soft. Now.fast forward now a divorced mother of three children, It's very difficult to be soft with kids running around in the store, jumping.off of things, and just acting up. Which One would I pick? Single mother for sure over a man who is.not.pulling his weight, but I would rather be married to a husband and just take care of my children and have a side business. That's one of the reasons why I will get remarried, as long as he gives me that space to be feminine and soft.
I have found that fasting and praying has helped me feel way more feminine for some reason. I don't know if it is because I dont have the energy to be anything other than softer slower more mindful.💕🌺
Thank you for this!!! I am so tired of being hard and the angry black woman. I am loving and compassionate. I want to become softer and more feminine in every aspect of my life; my looks, speech, mannerisms, walk and dress.
I need this. As a child, my father raised me to be more masculine than feminine. He was harsh and cold and still is. So I grew up learning that things like being soft and vulnerable was weak and it was something I needed to avoid. I despised love and love songs, being clingy etc. But now I will just let myself be and embrace the feminine side of me. I'm only 25, so it's not too late to try stepping into my feminine energy.
I went on my journey at 19 and it’s Improved not only my perspective of myself , but it’s changed how people approach me . I love being a woman that embodies feminine energy . Thank you so much
I’m only 14, but ever since I was young I always had masculine traits. I know deep in my heart I’m not built to be tough, loud, and manly. I’m so glad to finally realizing that I can be a feminine young woman and tune into my female powers!!
I just found this video, I am following you Gabie.I’m done with the rigid packaging as well I will become a new me like a butterfly. Good luck on your journey
And here I am running from my softness 😭✨ I have a soft voice, face, and personality. Sometimes I feel like I need to change in order to become more “womanly”, but I guess I already am. 💗
@@seweetgirlnay same here... I started doing it as a teenager because I grew up in a tough neighborhood and people would pick on me for being soft and feminine... That's my natural inclination, but the world is so rough that I find myself always fighting against it when I should be embracing it as a god-given gift
I think I'm just tired of being bitter. I was called ugly the majority of my life, friends, family, strangers- to the point that I feel ugly. I am athletic and do enjoy exercising (I'm a PE teacher) but I feel like I can be physically active, in shape and feminine at the same time. Just need some change in my life I think. Hope you have a great start to the new year.
Sorry you had such negative experiences :-( Here are a few tips to help encourage your process: 1. Start small! Invest in little things that help you "look" more feminine according to your own standards. Eg. a cute pair of earrings you like, a nice manicure (acrylics perhaps?), eyelash extensions! They instantly enhance everyone's beauty! 2. Do things that help you "feel" more grounded in your body and maybe even a bit sexy. Eg. Wear a soft, sexy perfume! Or buy a nice silky satin blouse that glides across your skin. Do a bubble bath, or light some scented candles and just relax your body and mind in a nice, clean, dimly lit room. Take a long shower and treat your body to a luxury cream! Put on some calm, healing music while you're at it. 3. Listen to subliminal affirmations that help instill these messages in your mind! "I am beautiful, I am happy" etc. 4. Surround yourself with beauty. The outward beauty will help with the inward beauty. Buy a few fake green plants. Make your space minimalist. Keep things simple. It's all about unlearning our old habits that keep us stuck, and replacing these habits with new, better habits that serve our femininity and our highest good. We deserve to be happy! Hope these tips help! They helped me step out of my masculinity, and sometimes I come back to these videos because I need reminding. Stay strong ladies! We are all beautiful :-)
This is why I genuinely look at people actions and not features or status. If you are nice, kind, peaceful, moving in love you are beautiful to me. Beauty fades
Omg I am a personal trainer and I completely relate to your comment. I made sure to start applying bb cream even before workouts and it’s helped tremendously with feeling more feminine.
I'm just beginning to leave a toxic relationship that has forced me to become hard and tough all the time. This channel has helped me try to regain my old self, my soft feminine self... It's going to be a long journey but I'm glad I've started it. Thank you ❤️
I love how you said that as a woman being beautiful is a luxury. That's so true! You just feel good when you put effort into your look. Thanks for the inspiration.
Ladies love yourself as is. You have an essence that is true to your core. You were born with specific qualities that make sense for you. Some will be attracted to it and others will not be. But no amount of advice will impact that. Be you in its most natural sense.
I love when you mentioned about highschool friends that still talk about the highschool stuff when they are already 30s. I just can't stand it. At 30s, you should be talking about planning a family, saving money, retirment plan, or something that grown ups would do.
in my case what piss me off are the people who I used to talk in high school (not my close friends)... every time I run into any of them in my hometown, they still brings some uncomfortable subjects and pointing my behavior in that time, when I was in the high school. They are a group I can avoid, but get in my nerves boiling that they think im the same person I was back then, in my 16's. Sorry for the grammar errors, Im a brazilian girl
This gives me hope that Women will soon return to their feminine selves. I look forward to the day when we won't have to hear female rappers spouting all kinds of obscenities over the airwaves. Thank you for this video. Let the Rebranding begin!
I am LOVING your channel. I developed a lot of masculine traits as a shield from past experiences, but I am healing now and am ready to relax into my feminine energy. Your channel is a life saver.
Wow!!! I’m a mom of two boys. A 3 year old and 4 months old but I’ve been putting myself on the back burner for 3 years and it’s catching up with me. Just a lot of lack of self-care and broken spirit and being harsh with my loved ones. I realized that I need to work on self care with appearance, hobbies, and prayer. I’ve been going to Zumba, racket ball at the gym with my husband, I joined a pottery class that I attend on my own for some me time. And I have been meditating, listening to gospel music, and practicing gratitude towards my savior Jesus. These changes happened as of two weeks ago, but I’m feeling a lot better already . I praised God that He led me to your video!!! This is exactly the advice I needed. Every second of it. I just subscribed 🙏🏽❤️
Amen! Glory to God! I know it is so tough to balance life and we all sometimes get to this point. I am thankful that the Lord has touched your heart and led you back to Him to blossom again. And I am happy you are here. Blessings and love to you babe!
Came here to improve my femininity and left with a WHOLE WORD🔥❤️ love how God is working through you I needed this, much love to my sister in Christ👏🏾❤️
Yes the tone of your voice is so IMPORTANT. I'm in sales and I can a test that when my voice is more loving and endearing, I close more deals than when I have a harsh voice.
That is exactly why I said EVERYONE should try their hand at retail/sales for at least 6 months of their young lives bc you will most definitely come out with a LOT of lessons harshly learned! Before I did retail, I could never code switch to my soft “I can only help you if you help me 🥺 so please don’t be angry with me, let’s be angry together🥺” voice. now look at me, customers leaving out satisfied and giving me raving reviews everytime
Wow, thank you. This is a blessing. I thought that being feminine meant being submissive and I practiced my masculine side more because I don't want to be walked all over. But I'm getting tired of "being the man" and it takes so much energy to be petty needing to be right about everything, and constantly defending myself, trying to control how people see me. Like, I just want to relax and take care of myself, age gracefully. Thank you for your work you do, it's information we need.
I'm very grateful for these videos. As a gay woman, I ended up following a very masculine approach to adopt to a stereotype which is hammered over and over again. It's been really scary breaking away from that, but I ordered a dress and have been looking after myself properly for the first time in years. Thank you for your kindness. and wisdom. God bless x
@ Jen.. Happy for you... but going forward you might want to lead with... I am a woman who is gay!!! You are a woman first!! Being gay is secondary.. that’s why you were being forced to follow a stereotype.. All the best 🙏🏽
I am a lesbian girl, however, opposite to what you could think, being raised by a man (my dad) only made me naturally feminine, delicate and soft, and this behavior always seems to attract women who are on the harder and more masculine side, which is exactly what I want, keep on working! I ensure that you will be a very feminine lady very soon!💗
@@ledesmaabril I have a bit of a vulnerable awkward question here. I have always been super attracted to feminine women. I worry that by feminising myself more I will draw in the more masculine. Wonder what your thoughts are on that. :)
@@rivkaruthgolan but then she would be unfaithful to her just to please the likes of you. It is the opposite of her preaching about self respect, being who she is. You can sort your problem if you just switch to Higher power. See?
Really interesting content. Thank you for sharing. I work in a male dominated field (oil & gas) as an engineer and project manager and I’ve learned over time that I’ve had more success tapping into who I really am versus trying to emulate all the male traits I thought I needed to have. I’ve learned I can still be successful while embracing my feminity. It takes a lot of inner work to love yourself, but once you do - it’s a game changer.
"If you rely on yourself you will always fail because you are only human." Wow! I needed to hear that. So much of this video resonates with me. Just the message I need to hear moving into 2021. Thank you, Dr. Michelle.
That's true @ some point in life we human cant always do everything urself all the time cuz after awhile it gets stressful & its alot harder that's y it's best 2 make life a little simple by getting help from another person, I had 2 learn this lesson myself as a female also that it's ok that I get help sometimes cuz I'm only 1 person @ the end of the day I learn 2 b humble & accept help & I feel better when I do that I stop getting it twisted in my head thinking I can do everything alone which is not not gonna help me @ all, I came 2 an understanding that when I get help I feel better
I am actually in love with this. Because of my past, I created this childish, boyish, and harsh personality. In some sense it gave me a feeling of protection from men to not be hurt again and kind of run away from them. With this I feel like there is still a chance to reconnect with my feminine side and become the confident, sexy, mature woman I always wanted to be.
I’m one of these women who always has to do for herself. I’m naturally feminine, soft and curvy. But because of “fighting” on these streets by myself, I’ve had to remember how to be available, vulnerable and welcoming. I have to remember I can smile and still feel safe. I’m working on it. Sweet femininity is my nature.
Wow! I just found this video and I feel so encouraged to be the woman God wants me to be. Not what the world wants me to be. Being soft does not mean weak as the world says.
Giving up my ratchett rap music... ehhh I don't know Dr.Michelle lol I love my hip hop. but I hear you and I do understand that listening to the lyrics and content does effect our perspective and how we think etc.
I also loooove hip hop, and personally, I don't think you have to give it up completely. Just choose songs with lyrics that are meaningful more aligned with your values and who you want to be. The beat doesn't really matter, if the lyrics are good and inspires good in you, it can range from trap to opera.
My Ex hated it when I listened to Nicki Minaj, Cardi B and City girls because it defiantly made me fall back. He literally wanted to break up with me because it was changing me. 😭 And looking back at it I went from knowing who I was to literally thinking I was a Bad B and it changed my femininity to masculinity. And until this day I see it around me and see how much it did to me.
Thank you for being bold enough to speak that being born again and living our lives for Jesus is the only way we can break free from our bondages and live the life that God designed for us to live. Your content is so raw and beautiful and Jesus's love being incorporated in them is just the cherry on top! 💖
Thank you for the encouragement to move and love my body. I’m in my 50s and we forget the simple things. May you continue to be blessed as you inspire women to love their gifts!
I was raised by a cold harsh father and my older brother was also an influence. He always treated me and raised me like a man. I thought I wanted to be like them, until trying to act like a man got me to where I am now. Thank you so much for making this video series. A lot of tears while you spoke because it resonated so much, but you are so lovely and positive and uplifting I could listen to you speak all day. Thank you for bringing me hope at 30 years old.
I can relate, I also grew up without a mom and even the aunties or females around treated me like I had no future. But watching such videos I am learning how to be soft despite everything
The friendship thing is really what I struggle with finding other women that are in similar stages of their lives close to my age and share similar values is really hard for me
So happy I found your channel. I didn't learn these things at my mother's knee. She neglected me, and it probably wasn't even her fault. I had a real gender identity crisis in adolescence that led to a full-blown breakdown. Boys were not attracted to me, but I had no clue as to why. Instead, girls kept coming on to me. I never felt "feminine" and your explanations of how people see femininity have really helped me. One day a girlfriend of mine said, "You know, it's okay to wear ruffles." She did a big help to me just by saying that. I've been married a couple of times but got treated like a meal ticket, not a woman. Look forward to seeing your other videos and exploring femininity, which for a long time I thought was a myth. I'm 75 and a serious late bloomer, No? Thanks.
I find it really hard to take care of myself these days since school has gone virtual and I’m in my bedroom all day, but this leads me to feeling sad and not great mentally. Seeing your videos helps to remind me that treating myself with feminine love really makes me feel better. Thank you Dr. Michelle🥰💕
@Savanna St. Laurent Thank you! That’s a good idea, I haven’t worked out in so long😩 I should probably start with yoga videos but I’m going to try. I got a jade roller for Christmas so I think I’m going to incorporate a facial massage into my morning routine💕❤️ Thank you for your support and stay blessed as well🙏🏽
My daddy always taught me growing up, to always: Stay Sweet, and for the last couple years, those words have been ringing in my heart and mind. My mother used to always subliminally clown me for how I talk coming up. This wisdom is golden and should be heeded, I order for us to be refined. Thank You! for the confirmation and affirmations.
I almost cried when you were talking about friendships, I recently broke up with my friend and everything you said was just free therapy. It's going to take time to heal and embrace my softness but with your help I feel confident to begin! Thank you 💖
Thank you so much for this. My mother really never had taken the time to sit with me and explain how important it is to embrace our feminine side. It didn't dawn on me until my late 20's how beautiful it is to embrace that side of me. I love your channel.
I love that example ! It’s like logos people always are like “ew I like the old logo” or even I phone updates “ I hate this update ! “ and next thing you know they forget it even happened or they learn to love it
thank you so much for your videos Michelle!I realized that my "boyish" manners come from the fact that my father always wanted to have a son as his first born,not a daughter. So I adapted my mannerisms because I always thought something was lacking in me, and I needed to compensate somehow. It's process, but I'm discovering my feminine side,even if no one else notices. It's for myself. Thank you for your wisdom. God bless you!
I thoroughly enjoyed watching this. I never appreciated my feminism and decided that in order to be gain respect and be more successful in my relationships with people and myself, I need to become someone I am proud of showing to the world and someone I would love to be alone with. I love the "rebranding" concept you referred to. My journey starts today :) Thank you for this content.
Gorgeous stuff!! I truly wish that more and more women will awake to their true power, their feminine gifts. This feminine energy is amazing once you acknowledge it and live it. I was not aware of it myself until I awake. Love you all!
Thank you for being so helpful! Since turning 20 recently, one of my new year's goals has been to tap more into my femininity and I am so glad I stumbled upon your channel! Lots of love from Bulgaria!
Thank you so much 🥰 I used to be extremely soft and we'll dressed in designer clothes and was very femininely however, I had an emergency and a major life altering event and I went into survival mode and stopped dressing and it threw me into a dress code and image rut I still have a fabulous wardrobe but it's is only now 10 years later, I am able to apply self care and self love and it's a struggle going back to the way I was and I thank God for this video. Just 2 weeks ago before I even saw your videos, I was tossing out my raggedy clothing. I'm on a weightloss journey and I do take care of hair and skin and nails, I just need to get out of this rut and get back to my feminine self so I can represent myself the way I used to. This is awesome young lady.....I needed this and I thank you for your ministry 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙌🏽
@@kyoung9016 that's awesome. I've lost 75 pounds since my original reply here and look 20 years younger and can wear my former designer clothing. Not bragging but I look 20-25 years younger than my age with the weightloss and I have Beautiful candy gorgeous natural thick hair 💪🏽🙌🏼💯🙏🏽
And classes for men to respect women, to stop belittling black women, to not say their goal in life is a woman with class (as my cousin points to a super fair skinned woman), and not think women are only there for sex and a meal. To not rape women. In this society I think that's wayyyyy more important than teaching girls hw to submit. Steups.
I've noticed most influencer who talks about feminity believes and have faith in God and I do think thats the secret recipe to fully transform, I really love watching your videos as you still also manage to mention God in your videos❤
It actually does. Men will just flock to you and most importantly THE MAN will just want to be more generous to you. You can try this when you go out on the weekends and notice the difference...
Thank you so much. Im in my 50's i started this journey two years ago and I fell off so this year is my year of self-care and self love keeping it simple. Thanks for sharing !!
I have watched this video a million times. So helpful. I used to be so feminine but life and people took advantage and so I trained myself to be abrasive. Now, I just want to be my feminine self because that is who God made me and I love being me. Dr. Michelle you are truly a blessing. You basically put a mirror before me with this video and now it is time to confront myself and adjust!
Wow. Such a different message from what is out there today. I'm learning to cut through what I've been trained to think and tap into who God created me to be...for my future husband, children, and happiness. Thank you!
You are a breathe of fresh air. Thank you for sharing your inner peace & knowledge. Sending you positive energy and continued blessings! From a 62 year old sista keep up the good work love.
I always click the thumb up before really getting into it. I trust the content will enrich me, & it only ever does. I’m 25yo, & finally began specifically studying femininity just earlier this crazy year. my attitude & appearance both have lots of positive change (already beginning, but) definitely on the way. Thank you so much, Dr. Michelle!
Dr. Michelle, I have just recently found your channel and over the course of two days I have watched so many of your videos. I have only been married for 3 years and it has already entered into turmoil and as I watched your videos I realize I have so many of those negative qualities that you spoke on. I grew up with a single mom who has preached to me to be independent and not ever need a man, I grew up around males and females who were tomboys, I entered the military and worked in industries that were male dominant so everything about my femininity has been broken. Of course this now transfers to my marriage, and believe me I do not want to continue on this masculine journey, I want to become that feminine woman I once was. I am so happy to have found your channel and I am slowly making the necessary adjustments. Thank you so much and god bless.
Best wishes to you. As a married woman, indeed it is highly important to let the man lead. For me I was struggling with letting him buy me stuff. I was single for a long time before getting married. So I was familiar with buying stuff for myself!! If he said he would buy me something, I would buy it before him. When he saw that I purchased it , he would become very upset
Thank you so much, you are Godsent... it's very relieving to hear someone talk about what you are going through, it reminds you that even though you're are through a season of misery that's normal and can be overcame... I'm glad today to know that being soft and feminine doesn't mean you are weak but rather that you know who you are and acknowledge your significance and purpose according to God's will...thank you,stay blessed.
Oh My God! I love how you speak about Jesus! I’ve never heard it put this way with such a feminine gentle wispy breath taking way! You have an anointing that is surely unique! I love it!
You look so pretty! Also when you mentioned about letting go of people that no longer serve you and people from highschool, that really struck a nerve for me. I needed to hear that and it was a sign for me. Thank you Dr. Michelle
WOW! This was an answered prayer! You are on time, LORD. Thank you, Dr. Michelle, for sharing your heart with us. Your words are sound, biblical, and inspiring. Took notes, but more importantly, putting it into action. Blessings...
I was in the military over 24 years and I am trying to learn how to be soft and not She-ra and thank you for helping and teaching me how to be soft and not weak 🥰🥰🥰
I thank GOD for you. I alway felt different about how I was within my family unit. I was told stop thinking you’re better than us; you’re a Jones; why are you acting like you’re different from us; and who do you think you are. I am now a senior citizen. All the things I wanted to do to me long ago is becoming a transformation into what I wanted to be like. I am encouraged, after listening to you. ✝️🙏👏🌹 42:0442:04
When you spoke about friendships, I recently had to end a friendship group with some ladies I've known since middle school and high school, over 40 years of friendship. It was extremely difficult, but very necessary. I recognized that I am in a different place and space, and protecting my peace. I can't handle the constant disrespect, the toxicity or lack of boundaries. I have had enough.
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I’m 33 and I grew up with guys, I’m the only girl and I was in the military for 5 years. I never knew that being feminine is powerful since masculine traits are praised and seems dominant in society. I’m now on the journey of becoming more feminine and I’m excited for 2021!!
Same here army strong trying to get my feminine back. So ready to feel great for myself.
That is wonderful my dear! Godspeed on your journey. You will discover a brand new world!
Good luck to you guys!! 🙏🏽
Me too 21 years in the service and working on it especially as I get closer to retirement
@Dr. Michelle Thank you! ☺️🙏🏾
Soft words turns down wrath. And harsh words stirs up strife
Yes my dear
That's something I'm still working on.
Pretty strong words to remember
TY. Needed to that reminder.🤗
Love that scripture!
My eyes teared up when you said 'When God made you, he took his TIME. He put EFFORT into creating you.' THANKS FOR HYPING US UP! 😍💞
If you get into the Bible you will really tear up especially on Isaiah 53 how he was treated because of how He looked but still loved us and died for our raggedy behinds 💖💖💖💖💖💖
@@Somashi481 RIGHT? I'm now crying on laughter because of 'raggedy behinds' 🤣 LOL!! AMEN! 💗💙
It's just amazing.
I know, that hit hard!
so god told her that? or was she there
God placed you in my life just at the right time :) thank you
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Same sis
💜 I feel the same way
me too girl
As a 33 year old man, I blush when you say "hello gorgeous"
Just goes to show men need compliments too 🤗
Anger has hardened me. My heart has become numb. I’ve walked away from church. I’ve been meditating and seeking to know God without the religious BS or circus shows. I’m on a path of self love and compassion for others. I’ve lost that part of me that God is restoring! Thanks for this video!
You are most welcome my love. I understand and I am so thankful you are returning to your God. I will be doing more videos on the Kingdom of God. Religion distorts it and that is the enemy's way of having us miss the true message and the reason Christ came. I wish you peace and blessings on your journey 🤍✨✨✨✨
So happy for you ❤️I’m on the healing path too from BS and toxic hardening relationship
Carletta it's amazing your last name is Christian, Christianity is a way of life and you look like you are coming full circle into the real truth, BE YE TRANSFORMED BY THE RENEWING OF YOUR MIND.
Spirituality is very personal, the good news is that church is only a tool to know God, I trust that you will find a tool that works for you, I have found that nature is one of the best tools we have at our disposal also learning from our traditional cultures which strive to manifest nature through its actions.
God shall restore you completely and he will give you more. God bless 🙌
i love how you emphasize the importance of God in our journeys
It is everything. You are so welcome love
@@drmichelledaf yes I conquer it is definetly everything❤❤
@@drmichelledaf God sent me you. I'm reading a book by Dr. Patricia Allen entitled "Getting to I Do,". It talks about how women and men have a masculine and feminine side. Not in a homosexual type of thing, but how God is El Shaddai...the breasted one who nuroushes.
It teaches how as women we have a masculine and feminine side and a lot of times because of our upbringing we lean more towards that masculine side.
I always wanted to have the feminine side, but I tend to meet guys that either are not the masculine side. There are times I have tried to prove that I am good wife material, which makes me sometimes have a little more masculine side when all I'm trying to do is show the man that I make a good wife. This was in my early teens, twenties and early thirties.
I am 57 years young and I'm just learning this. But my ultimate goal Dr. Michelle is I want to get my softest back of being that female, feminine.
This may be why my son and I have issues. In my divorce, I had to take on the role of being both the mother and father. And sometimes I may come off a little too masculine with my son not acting like a dude, but just trying to step into the shoes of being a father.
I am so grateful for this video because I know in my heart God has led me to you. How can I connect with you more?
Eutropia Rhodes
eutropia01@gmail.com
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That is what I love most about her videos too! All in one ☝🏽
I didn’t know so many other woman struggled with this specific topic. Very encouraging
You are not alone love 🤍✨
Likewise
I felt the same way.
right . makes believe i'm not a lost cause
I was sexually assaulted years ago and it became very difficult for to be feminine and to act feminine. I became defensive and always in doing. Thank you for these videos I am slowly getting back to my feminine self.
same here, you are not alone baby 💜
I'm sorry that you went through this.
I now know this is why I hid my feminine side, I always thought this is why I went threw that. I appreciate your comment.
i’m so sorry , your very brave💕
Wishing you peace on your journey to healing ❤️ It helps me by telling myself "right now you're safe." I hope that might help you too. You are not alone in this.
1. Be hygienic & carry yourself with poise (modest dressing, earthy colors,
2. Be soft & graceful (speech, movements, posture, actions)
3. Be friendly and smile (have feminine ways, be kind, confident & care about people)
4. Pliability with your mind (be aware & mindful)
5. Pliability with your spirit (have that personal relationship with God)
6. Nurturing tone of voice (slow down speech, manipulate voice, keep composure during arguments & know how to talk when)
Thank you
Wear certain colors/ styles
🤡🤡🤡 CULTISH
I desire to be more feminine not just for myself but for my beautiful family. My children deserves to have a gentle and relaxed mom. My husband also deserves a wife, where everything about her exudes love and gentleness. God is able to guide me through this path as I have desired it... Now to put action and be deliberate about this. Thanks
Now it's time to indulge in your needs. Listening to rain drops helps to relax better and to enjoy nature. Ultimately it makes one open up to mother nature . Drinking moringa tea and moringa oil always helps to calm the inner body and helps with achieving smooth skin.
Wise words...with His (capital H) help, you can do it. ❤
I'm going to be honest about this.
When I was married, I took on alot of roles at the house together. I worked, cooked, and cleaned when I could.
It is not normal for a woman to be cooking and cleaning and working 40 hours per week.
You lose your femininity.
Men are the providers and if.a woman wants her own side business, cool, but a wife shouldn't be forced to work fulltime and pay bills. I had to be masculine because he didn't give me that space to be feminine and soft.
Now.fast forward now a divorced mother of three children, It's very difficult to be soft with kids running around in the store, jumping.off of things, and just acting up.
Which One would I pick? Single mother for sure over a man who is.not.pulling his weight, but I would rather be married to a husband and just take care of my children and have a side business. That's one of the reasons why I will get remarried, as long as he gives me that space to be feminine and soft.
I have found that fasting and praying has helped me feel way more feminine for some reason. I don't know if it is because I dont have the energy to be anything other than softer slower more mindful.💕🌺
I can relate sis ❤️
Lol u are just hungry
Definitely!
Fasting helps your skin glow too
My sister and I are fasting right now, and I pray this same thing happens for us!
😍😍 omg I tried to be more feminine at work, ppl thought I was sick 😂😂 the struggle
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I am just a 15 year old young lady and as a little girl watching my mom, I also wanted to be feminine!!! Soooo glad I found your channel 💓
I started to be girly since I had 12 years old and still I love being feminime, this is a true strenght.
I am 61. I am learning and profiting too. Enjoy.
Thank you for this!!! I am so tired of being hard and the angry black woman. I am loving and compassionate. I want to become softer and more feminine in every aspect of my life; my looks, speech, mannerisms, walk and dress.
Can we please learn to differentiate between firm, zero tolerance, and assertive with “angry black woman”?
I need this. As a child, my father raised me to be more masculine than feminine. He was harsh and cold and still is. So I grew up learning that things like being soft and vulnerable was weak and it was something I needed to avoid. I despised love and love songs, being clingy etc. But now I will just let myself be and embrace the feminine side of me. I'm only 25, so it's not too late to try stepping into my feminine energy.
Best wishes ❤️
Absolutely love how you brought in the “new branding” perspective 🤍🦋
Thank you honey!
@@drmichelledaf very interesting!!!
It's funny how if you're not mindful and intentional with branding yoursefl, you will fall into something you prob did not mean to be.
YESS!! I wrote that down!
I went on my journey at 19 and it’s Improved not only my perspective of myself , but it’s changed how people approach me . I love being a woman that embodies feminine energy . Thank you so much
I’m 19 and started last year ! I’m so glad i found it early
Yes girl! It’s the small things that help us develop . I’m so grateful for this content. 1 yea in as huge Improvement.
That’s beautiful! Proud to be feminine
Love that! That is wonderful my dear. You are so welcome, keep shining!!
A blessing for a 19 yp queen. You're teachable, trainable and respond to wisdom. May your life be filled with abundance.
I’m only 14, but ever since I was young I always had masculine traits. I know deep in my heart I’m not built to be tough, loud, and manly. I’m so glad to finally realizing that I can be a feminine young woman and tune into my female powers!!
My rebranding starts today! Out with the harsh and rigid packaging, in with the softness & grace! THANK YOU. Your videos have been incredible 💜
I just found this video, I am following you Gabie.I’m done with the rigid packaging as well I will become a new me like a butterfly. Good luck on your journey
And here I am running from my softness 😭✨ I have a soft voice, face, and personality. Sometimes I feel like I need to change in order to become more “womanly”, but I guess I already am. 💗
No you dont need to, we men love more feminine characters in women, Well I have a youtube channel please do check out ey
I feel this! when other people pick out my soft voice I always feel bad. But now I’m learning that’s it’s a good thing! 😊 so embrace it girl!!
I've noticed that I also run from my feminity. I will intentionally come off rough. I guess it is a defense mechanism to guard my vulnerability
You always were. You just need to get back, and stay as is. 💖
@@seweetgirlnay same here... I started doing it as a teenager because I grew up in a tough neighborhood and people would pick on me for being soft and feminine... That's my natural inclination, but the world is so rough that I find myself always fighting against it when I should be embracing it as a god-given gift
I think I'm just tired of being bitter. I was called ugly the majority of my life, friends, family, strangers- to the point that I feel ugly. I am athletic and do enjoy exercising (I'm a PE teacher) but I feel like I can be physically active, in shape and feminine at the same time. Just need some change in my life I think. Hope you have a great start to the new year.
Sorry you had such negative experiences :-(
Here are a few tips to help encourage your process:
1. Start small!
Invest in little things that help you "look" more feminine according to your own standards.
Eg. a cute pair of earrings you like, a nice manicure (acrylics perhaps?), eyelash extensions! They instantly enhance everyone's beauty!
2. Do things that help you "feel" more grounded in your body and maybe even a bit sexy.
Eg. Wear a soft, sexy perfume! Or buy a nice silky satin blouse that glides across your skin. Do a bubble bath, or light some scented candles and just relax your body and mind in a nice, clean, dimly lit room. Take a long shower and treat your body to a luxury cream! Put on some calm, healing music while you're at it.
3. Listen to subliminal affirmations that help instill these messages in your mind! "I am beautiful, I am happy" etc.
4. Surround yourself with beauty. The outward beauty will help with the inward beauty. Buy a few fake green plants. Make your space minimalist. Keep things simple.
It's all about unlearning our old habits that keep us stuck, and replacing these habits with new, better habits that serve our femininity and our highest good. We deserve to be happy!
Hope these tips help! They helped me step out of my masculinity, and sometimes I come back to these videos because I need reminding.
Stay strong ladies! We are all beautiful :-)
This is why I genuinely look at people actions and not features or status. If you are nice, kind, peaceful, moving in love you are beautiful to me. Beauty fades
Yes you can
Omg I am a personal trainer and I completely relate to your comment. I made sure to start applying bb cream even before workouts and it’s helped tremendously with feeling more feminine.
"You will be the woman God called you to be" 😭😭😭 Amen.
I needed to here this. I’m starting my femininity journey after emotional neglect and emotional abuse.
I'm just beginning to leave a toxic relationship that has forced me to become hard and tough all the time. This channel has helped me try to regain my old self, my soft feminine self... It's going to be a long journey but I'm glad I've started it. Thank you ❤️
Me too sis. I'm with you in that journey being hard after recently leaving a toxic relationship.
Me tooo...
I love how you said that as a woman being beautiful is a luxury. That's so true! You just feel good when you put effort into your look. Thanks for the inspiration.
No it can be a chore at times
@@mstwelvedeadlycyns I disagree but of course that is a valid opinion!
most women on the planet do not have this privilege. They and their children are in strife. Think how fortunate u are.
I just realized that I have alotttttt to work on & I am excited to rebrand myself
Yes
Me too
I started
@@zenitsutanjiro8356 lmao no thank you
Same here
Ladies love yourself as is. You have an essence that is true to your core. You were born with specific qualities that make sense for you. Some will be attracted to it and others will not be. But no amount of advice will impact that. Be you in its most natural sense.
If you don’t like her message don’t come on here! It’s obviously not for you!!! But don’t try to sway her followers!
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So true!!!! 👌🏾🙏🏾
@@Trini190 she's just sharing her opinion. I don't think it was disrespectful.
This right here! ☝🏾
I love when you mentioned about highschool friends that still talk about the highschool stuff when they are already 30s. I just can't stand it. At 30s, you should be talking about planning a family, saving money, retirment plan, or something that grown ups would do.
Maybe people do not want a family or then some. True looking back at the high school is a waste of time.
I thank you you have opened my eyes I have never heard anyone talk this way
in my case what piss me off are the people who I used to talk in high school (not my close friends)... every time I run into any of them in my hometown, they still brings some uncomfortable subjects and pointing my behavior in that time, when I was in the high school. They are a group I can avoid, but get in my nerves boiling that they think im the same person I was back then, in my 16's. Sorry for the grammar errors, Im a brazilian girl
This gives me hope that Women will soon return to their feminine selves. I look forward to the day when we won't have to hear female rappers spouting all kinds of obscenities over the airwaves. Thank you for this video. Let the Rebranding begin!
AMEN!! That day shall come!!!!!!
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A soft answer turns away wrath. Definitely working on my tone when speaking to others.
Meee toooo
I am LOVING that you share the Gospel so ardently and unapologetically 💕
Thank you sweetheart!!
Only for this reason, I will subscribe. I Love women who are unapologetically Christian.
Amen! 🙌🏾
I love how you incorporate Christ into your channel - you are inspiring.
I am LOVING your channel. I developed a lot of masculine traits as a shield from past experiences, but I am healing now and am ready to relax into my feminine energy. Your channel is a life saver.
Wow!!! I’m a mom of two boys. A 3 year old and 4 months old but I’ve been putting myself on the back burner for 3 years and it’s catching up with me. Just a lot of lack of self-care and broken spirit and being harsh with my loved ones. I realized that I need to work on self care with appearance, hobbies, and prayer. I’ve been going to Zumba, racket ball at the gym with my husband, I joined a pottery class that I attend on my own for some me time. And I have been meditating, listening to gospel music, and practicing gratitude towards my savior Jesus. These changes happened as of two weeks ago, but I’m feeling a lot better already . I praised God that He led me to your video!!! This is exactly the advice I needed. Every second of it. I just subscribed 🙏🏽❤️
Amen! Glory to God! I know it is so tough to balance life and we all sometimes get to this point. I am thankful that the Lord has touched your heart and led you back to Him to blossom again. And I am happy you are here. Blessings and love to you babe!
@@drmichelledaf thank you 🙏🏽
Came here to improve my femininity and left with a WHOLE WORD🔥❤️ love how God is working through you I needed this, much love to my sister in Christ👏🏾❤️
Lol that's what I'm talking about! I'm so happy to hear that love. Thank you for watching 💋✨✨
Yes the tone of your voice is so IMPORTANT. I'm in sales and I can a test that when my voice is more loving and endearing, I close more deals than when I have a harsh voice.
I can totally agree tonality is something powerful
That is exactly why I said EVERYONE should try their hand at retail/sales for at least 6 months of their young lives bc you will most definitely come out with a LOT of lessons harshly learned! Before I did retail, I could never code switch to my soft “I can only help you if you help me 🥺 so please don’t be angry with me, let’s be angry together🥺” voice. now look at me, customers leaving out satisfied and giving me raving reviews everytime
@@Serenityrockstar emphasis on the harshly learned 😂. Sometimes baptism by fire is the only way to get stronger and better.
In the legal field, it will get you ignored and dismissed.
I worked in sales and would say the opposite was true
Thank you for being such a light 🤍
You are so welcome babe!
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The delightful irony of this comment. We literally are light ☺️
Wow, thank you. This is a blessing. I thought that being feminine meant being submissive and I practiced my masculine side more because I don't want to be walked all over. But I'm getting tired of "being the man" and it takes so much energy to be petty needing to be right about everything, and constantly defending myself, trying to control how people see me. Like, I just want to relax and take care of myself, age gracefully. Thank you for your work you do, it's information we need.
Sounds a lot like me lol are we twins?
This is where self love and self concept came in for me. Rewiring my mental diet. When I worked on myself internally for me.
I'm very grateful for these videos. As a gay woman, I ended up following a very masculine approach to adopt to a stereotype which is hammered over and over again. It's been really scary breaking away from that, but I ordered a dress and have been looking after myself properly for the first time in years. Thank you for your kindness. and wisdom. God bless x
God bless you too and he guide your journey.
@ Jen.. Happy for you... but going forward you might want to lead with... I am a woman who is gay!!! You are a woman first!! Being gay is secondary.. that’s why you were being forced to follow a stereotype.. All the best 🙏🏽
Thanks for your transparency.
I am a lesbian girl, however, opposite to what you could think, being raised by a man (my dad) only made me naturally feminine, delicate and soft, and this behavior always seems to attract women who are on the harder and more masculine side, which is exactly what I want, keep on working! I ensure that you will be a very feminine lady very soon!💗
@@ledesmaabril I have a bit of a vulnerable awkward question here. I have always been super attracted to feminine women. I worry that by feminising myself more I will draw in the more masculine.
Wonder what your thoughts are on that. :)
Love how you introduce Jesus and the Gospel in this video
Thank you love
For me, I'd rather hear "Your Higher Power" or something not attached to a particular religion.
Yes.
@@rivkaruthgolan but then she would be unfaithful to her just to please the likes of you. It is the opposite of her preaching about self respect, being who she is. You can sort your problem if you just switch to Higher power. See?
Jesus Christ is everything!! Turn to him and his ways.He is coming soon
The power of life and death is on the tongue. Your videos speak life into me on such an honest practical way. Thank you!
I am so thankful to hear that. You are so welcome sweetheart!
Really interesting content. Thank you for sharing. I work in a male dominated field (oil & gas) as an engineer and project manager and I’ve learned over time that I’ve had more success tapping into who I really am versus trying to emulate all the male traits I thought I needed to have. I’ve learned I can still be successful while embracing my feminity. It takes a lot of inner work to love yourself, but once you do - it’s a game changer.
we are not our jobs! A job is a way to make money. It is not the definition of ones sexuality.
I am 22 years old and no one has ever told me act masculine until now and your videos is teaching me so much ‼️
"If you rely on yourself you will always fail because you are only human." Wow! I needed to hear that. So much of this video resonates with me. Just the message I need to hear moving into 2021. Thank you, Dr. Michelle.
You're so welcome my love!! Thank you for watching babe!
That's true @ some point in life we human cant always do everything urself all the time cuz after awhile it gets stressful & its alot harder that's y it's best 2 make life a little simple by getting help from another person, I had 2 learn this lesson myself as a female also that it's ok that I get help sometimes cuz I'm only 1 person @ the end of the day I learn 2 b humble & accept help & I feel better when I do that I stop getting it twisted in my head thinking I can do everything alone which is not not gonna help me @ all, I came 2 an understanding that when I get help I feel better
I am actually in love with this. Because of my past, I created this childish, boyish, and harsh personality. In some sense it gave me a feeling of protection from men to not be hurt again and kind of run away from them. With this I feel like there is still a chance to reconnect with my feminine side and become the confident, sexy, mature woman I always wanted to be.
@Dark Horse same
Same😥😓😓. Willingly to change ☺️
Well said 💚
I’m one of these women who always has to do for herself. I’m naturally feminine, soft and curvy. But because of “fighting” on these streets by myself, I’ve had to remember how to be available, vulnerable and welcoming. I have to remember I can smile and still feel safe. I’m working on it. Sweet femininity is my nature.
Yes my dear, it is good that you can trace back to where it started and you are returning to who you are. Blessings and love!
Me to ❤️❤️❤️
SORRY. Being available vulnerable or welcoming is not something I want society to touch or have access to me. Just saying.
@@mstwelvedeadlycyns of course we all look for something different, it is fine if you want something else sweetie💗
Yazzz ...smile and still feel safe.noted
Wow! I just found this video and I feel so encouraged to be the woman God wants me to be. Not what the world wants me to be. Being soft does not mean weak as the world says.
I’m 29 about to start my journey back to woman hood as I enter my 30’s and I’m so excited 😬💕
Giving up my ratchett rap music... ehhh I don't know Dr.Michelle lol I love my hip hop. but I hear you and I do understand that listening to the lyrics and content does effect our perspective and how we think etc.
That’s a hard one for me as well, but i will do anything to be closer to the Most High!
When you're constantly reffering to yourself and other women ass a bitch it gets to you.
I also loooove hip hop, and personally, I don't think you have to give it up completely. Just choose songs with lyrics that are meaningful more aligned with your values and who you want to be. The beat doesn't really matter, if the lyrics are good and inspires good in you, it can range from trap to opera.
My Ex hated it when I listened to Nicki Minaj, Cardi B and City girls because it defiantly made me fall back. He literally wanted to break up with me because it was changing me. 😭 And looking back at it I went from knowing who I was to literally thinking I was a Bad B and it changed my femininity to masculinity. And until this day I see it around me and see how much it did to me.
Just get the beats ladies And dance with intent
Thank you for being bold enough to speak that being born again and living our lives for Jesus is the only way we can break free from our bondages and live the life that God designed for us to live. Your content is so raw and beautiful and Jesus's love being incorporated in them is just the cherry on top! 💖
You are so welcome my love. Thank you for your sweet and encouraging words. I appreciate all of your support my dear
Amen! 🙌🏾
2021 is the year to invest in yourself and rebrand yourself. Beautiful topic #goals
I have been having this in my spirit since the new year to reinvent myself and make everything brand new GLORY TO GOD FOR HIS GUIDANCE AND MERCY🙌🏽
Oh YES!!!
The tip on recognising how your voice differs around certain people 🤯 Wow! Thank you WOG! 🙏🏿❤
Thank you for the encouragement to move and love my body. I’m in my 50s and we forget the simple things. May you continue to be blessed as you inspire women to love their gifts!
Hey, love your vids! Can we get a “ how to carry ourselves as women in 2021/ mindset in 2021” ? xx
Yes, I will do a video on a similar topic. Thank you for watching love
Plz sis
Ohh yes yes yes
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Yessss please I would love that type of video
Dr. Michelle, I'm at a loss for words...I am smitted by how beautiful yet spiritually mature
Thank you so much my love! That is very kind
I was raised by a cold harsh father and my older brother was also an influence. He always treated me and raised me like a man. I thought I wanted to be like them, until trying to act like a man got me to where I am now.
Thank you so much for making this video series. A lot of tears while you spoke because it resonated so much, but you are so lovely and positive and uplifting I could listen to you speak all day. Thank you for bringing me hope at 30 years old.
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I can relate, I also grew up without a mom and even the aunties or females around treated me like I had no future. But watching such videos I am learning how to be soft despite everything
right . being so tough hasn't gotten me where i want to be.. so let me see what this femininity thing is about , lol
This is so helpful to me. I am going to work on being softer.
The friendship thing is really what I struggle with finding other women that are in similar stages of their lives close to my age and share similar values is really hard for me
Sorry to hear that we’ll here is a group it all handed us here so we’re all relating to each other on a universal connection
@@BigT_495 You got to love God cause very shortly after this and I finally really truly prayed about it I found a friend at church
So happy I found your channel. I didn't learn these things at my mother's knee. She neglected me, and it probably wasn't even her fault. I had a real gender identity crisis in adolescence that led to a full-blown breakdown. Boys were not attracted to me, but I had no clue as to why. Instead, girls kept coming on to me. I never felt "feminine" and your explanations of how people see femininity have really helped me. One day a girlfriend of mine said, "You know, it's okay to wear ruffles." She did a big help to me just by saying that. I've been married a couple of times but got treated like a meal ticket, not a woman. Look forward to seeing your other videos and exploring femininity, which for a long time I thought was a myth. I'm 75 and a serious late bloomer, No? Thanks.
haha no you're not! you grow only when YOU decide to. Hope you have a pleasant journey.... Cheers!!
Your videos are so powerful, and I love that it comes from a BLACK WOMAN!
Thank you so much sweetheart!
It’s comes from a FEMININE woman with a caramel warm complexion
I find it really hard to take care of myself these days since school has gone virtual and I’m in my bedroom all day, but this leads me to feeling sad and not great mentally. Seeing your videos helps to remind me that treating myself with feminine love really makes me feel better. Thank you Dr. Michelle🥰💕
It could start by having longer showers using a gentle soap or scented soap. Exfoliating even for 5 minutes. It doesn’t need to be expensive or taxing
@@Soneelicious Yes thank you🥰 I got some lotions and cleansers from ulta that smell AMAZING and they make me feel better💕
@@laurenj432 I’m
Happy to hear x stay blessed!
@@Soneelicious Thank you, you as well🙏🏽😁💖
@Savanna St. Laurent Thank you! That’s a good idea, I haven’t worked out in so long😩 I should probably start with yoga videos but I’m going to try. I got a jade roller for Christmas so I think I’m going to incorporate a facial massage into my morning routine💕❤️ Thank you for your support and stay blessed as well🙏🏽
My daddy always taught me growing up, to always: Stay Sweet, and for the last couple years, those words have been ringing in my heart and mind. My mother used to always subliminally clown me for how I talk coming up.
This wisdom is golden and should be heeded, I order for us to be refined. Thank You! for the confirmation and affirmations.
I almost cried when you were talking about friendships, I recently broke up with my friend and everything you said was just free therapy. It's going to take time to heal and embrace my softness but with your help I feel confident to begin! Thank you 💖
Thank you so much for this. My mother really never had taken the time to sit with me and explain how important it is to embrace our feminine side. It didn't dawn on me until my late 20's how beautiful it is to embrace that side of me. I love your channel.
I went through the same thing! I’m 26 now and just learning how to embrace this
I love that example ! It’s like logos people always are like “ew I like the old logo” or even I phone updates “ I hate this update ! “ and next thing you know they forget it even happened or they learn to love it
Exactly love
Praise Jesus ✨❤️🌿 god will transform you
Yes!!!!!
thank you so much for your videos Michelle!I realized that my "boyish" manners come from the fact that my father always wanted to have a son as his first born,not a daughter. So I adapted my mannerisms because I always thought something was lacking in me, and I needed to compensate somehow. It's process, but I'm discovering my feminine side,even if no one else notices. It's for myself. Thank you for your wisdom. God bless you!
I thoroughly enjoyed watching this. I never appreciated my feminism and decided that in order to be gain respect and be more successful in my relationships with people and myself, I need to become someone I am proud of showing to the world and someone I would love to be alone with. I love the "rebranding" concept you referred to. My journey starts today :) Thank you for this content.
Gorgeous stuff!! I truly wish that more and more women will awake to their true power, their feminine gifts. This feminine energy is amazing once you acknowledge it and live it. I was not aware of it myself until I awake. Love you all!
Thank you for being so helpful! Since turning 20 recently, one of my new year's goals has been to tap more into my femininity and I am so glad I stumbled upon your channel! Lots of love from Bulgaria!
That's great honey, I am glad you did too. Godspeed on your journey!
Thank you so much 🥰 I used to be extremely soft and we'll dressed in designer clothes and was very femininely however, I had an emergency and a major life altering event and I went into survival mode and stopped dressing and it threw me into a dress code and image rut
I still have a fabulous wardrobe but it's is only now 10 years later, I am able to apply self care and self love and it's a struggle going back to the way I was and I thank God for this video.
Just 2 weeks ago before I even saw your videos, I was tossing out my raggedy clothing.
I'm on a weightloss journey and I do take care of hair and skin and nails, I just need to get out of this rut and get back to my feminine self so I can represent myself the way I used to.
This is awesome young lady.....I needed this and I thank you for your ministry 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙌🏽
Thank you for sharing this Anne. My situation is so similar and I'm going through a transformation right now.
@@kyoung9016 that's awesome. I've lost 75 pounds since my original reply here and look 20 years younger and can wear my former designer clothing. Not bragging but I look 20-25 years younger than my age with the weightloss and I have Beautiful candy gorgeous natural thick hair 💪🏽🙌🏼💯🙏🏽
Your natural beauty is stunning!
Thank you so much honey!
I noticed it 2 & I'm a female myself & I'm the type that compliments anybody
Yes, I really think we need classes like these in our school system for girls!!!
Agreed!!
no lol as a girl in school I think a lot of us will be angry and reject femininity even more..
i disagree, we shouldn't subject our youth to act a certain way being feminine or masculine is a choice , aka it is not a requirement
And classes for men to respect women, to stop belittling black women, to not say their goal in life is a woman with class (as my cousin points to a super fair skinned woman), and not think women are only there for sex and a meal. To not rape women. In this society I think that's wayyyyy more important than teaching girls hw to submit. Steups.
Of course bw disagreed
I've noticed most influencer who talks about feminity believes and have faith in God and I do think thats the secret recipe to fully transform, I really love watching your videos as you still also manage to mention God in your videos❤
If being "softer" will help get my bills paid and my family fed and taken care of, I'M GAME!
Agreed
It actually does. Men will just flock to you and most importantly THE MAN will just want to be more generous to you.
You can try this when you go out on the weekends and notice the difference...
Thank you so much. Im in my 50's i started this journey two years ago and I fell off so this year is my year of self-care and self love keeping it simple. Thanks for sharing !!
I Love that you bring and talk about GOD in this. We can't do anything with out him.
I have watched this video a million times. So helpful. I used to be so feminine but life and people took advantage and so I trained myself to be abrasive. Now, I just want to be my feminine self because that is who God made me and I love being me. Dr. Michelle you are truly a blessing. You basically put a mirror before me with this video and now it is time to confront myself and adjust!
You go girl! Wishing you the best on your journey!
Wow. Such a different message from what is out there today. I'm learning to cut through what I've been trained to think and tap into who God created me to be...for my future husband, children, and happiness. Thank you!
You are a breathe of fresh air. Thank you for sharing your inner peace & knowledge. Sending you positive energy and continued blessings! From a 62 year old sista keep up the good work love.
Thank you so much my love!
Are you psychologist? You touched my soul and I am crying 🥺✨
I always click the thumb up before really getting into it. I trust the content will enrich me, & it only ever does. I’m 25yo, & finally began specifically studying femininity just earlier this crazy year. my attitude & appearance both have lots of positive change (already beginning, but) definitely on the way. Thank you so much, Dr. Michelle!
Dr. Michelle, I have just recently found your channel and over the course of two days I have watched so many of your videos. I have only been married for 3 years and it has already entered into turmoil and as I watched your videos I realize I have so many of those negative qualities that you spoke on. I grew up with a single mom who has preached to me to be independent and not ever need a man, I grew up around males and females who were tomboys, I entered the military and worked in industries that were male dominant so everything about my femininity has been broken. Of course this now transfers to my marriage, and believe me I do not want to continue on this masculine journey, I want to become that feminine woman I once was. I am so happy to have found your channel and I am slowly making the necessary adjustments. Thank you so much and god bless.
Best wishes to you. As a married woman, indeed it is highly important to let the man lead. For me I was struggling with letting him buy me stuff. I was single for a long time before getting married. So I was familiar with buying stuff for myself!! If he said he would buy me something, I would buy it before him. When he saw that I purchased it , he would become very upset
Thank you so much, you are Godsent... it's very relieving to hear someone talk about what you are going through, it reminds you that even though you're are through a season of misery that's normal and can be overcame... I'm glad today to know that being soft and feminine doesn't mean you are weak but rather that you know who you are and acknowledge your significance and purpose according to God's will...thank you,stay blessed.
Yes queen we need more sisters like you in the world.
Aww that's super sweet, thank you!
Going to share this series with my 24 year old daughter
Wonderful! Thank you for sharing my dear!
I had to learn to relax and not try to be so perfect. Just be happy being yourself♡
Yessss... same here. Me too.
Feminity is a true strenght, I love and I enjoy being feminime.
Oh My God! I love how you speak about Jesus! I’ve never heard it put this way with such a feminine gentle wispy breath taking way! You have an anointing that is surely unique! I love it!
You look so pretty! Also when you mentioned about letting go of people that no longer serve you and people from highschool, that really struck a nerve for me. I needed to hear that and it was a sign for me. Thank you Dr. Michelle
WOW! This was an answered prayer! You are on time, LORD. Thank you, Dr. Michelle, for sharing your heart with us. Your words are sound, biblical, and inspiring. Took notes, but more importantly, putting it into action. Blessings...
Aww that's very sweet, I am so happy to hear that love! Blessings and best wishes to you on your journey!
I was in the military over 24 years and I am trying to learn how to be soft and not She-ra and thank you for helping and teaching me how to be soft and not weak 🥰🥰🥰
I thank GOD for you. I alway felt different about how I was within my family unit. I was told stop thinking you’re better than us; you’re a Jones; why are you acting like you’re different from us; and who do you think you are. I am now a senior citizen. All the things I wanted to do to me long ago is becoming a transformation into what I wanted to be like. I am encouraged, after listening to you.
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I’m a guy and I found this video very helpful! Thank you for helping get in touch with my god given feminine side! 🥰
Thank you so much for this. I deleted all rap music and im replacing it with Jazz. Also focusing on slowing down. I love you!
I am here paying attention like I am in a class session :). Thanks much. I watched the whole video and have been inspired.
What matte lipstick do you wear? I always love your lip combination
When you spoke about friendships, I recently had to end a friendship group with some ladies I've known since middle school and high school, over 40 years of friendship. It was extremely difficult, but very necessary. I recognized that I am in a different place and space, and protecting my peace. I can't handle the constant disrespect, the toxicity or lack of boundaries. I have had enough.