My gentle spirit is exhibited when I interact with others. I choose to think before I speak and or respond. The more observant I am the more gentle spirited I can choose to be. I watch, listen, and pray before I allow the issues of my heart to impact my actions. That is how I use my gentle and quiet spirit. God bless you Dr. Daf. This video was a confirmation received in my spirit. ❤
Dear Dr. Michelle, please consider these video ideas: - your thoughts on modesty - what elegant woman should avoid in terms of looks (not only clothes)? - would you speak out against pornography and onlyfans?
Amen! This is timely. So often we try to cultivate our femininity, outwardly, but God has giving us the “secret sauce” in His Word. Thank you for sharing this biblical design. 💕
I've been trying to work on being less aggressive and reactionary in my own mind. Thank you for this beautiful message and all the work you do, Dr. Daf! 💕
Thank you so much for this video… i have been struggling to have a quiet spirit and release all the anger and sadness I have inside but this made me realize how easy it is to start!! Thank you so much 💛
This is the best video I’ve seen of someone speaking about how femininity relates to God’s Word and explaining how to have self control. New subbie and glad to be here 💕
Being gentle is something that God has been speaking to me about and I'm so grateful for this video. I'm high-spirited and always full of energy. I am glad to hear that I don't have to be "quiet" to have a gentle and quiet spirit. Sometimes I can be all over the place ( in a good way ) and I'll pause and say to myself, "You need to be more quiet" which doesn't come to me naturally. It's also important that I discern when I'm doing too much and I need to slow down. Thanks once again Dr. Michelle, I'm certainly going to listen to this more than once.
That is so challenging. I completely understand that. It takes a lot of prayer, strategies and a good support system. You will get there. Don't give up 🩷
From🇰🇪 I really love your podcasts gurl and the fact that you qoute Bible verses is really amazing 🤩 .working in men dominated field has really amplified how I deliver different situations 💔🥺 this is therapeutic, thank you 😊
Me too sis! Am from 🇿🇲 working in the conservation field with 98% men. After watching her videos, it has transformed me and helped root and rest in my femininity. I have seen results from how my male colleagues treat me with respect, my family and friends. Truly wonderful to hear from someone of a similar background
Thanks for this. I’ve been “traveling” out of my feminine due to life’s circumstances and this helped me gain perspective and direction on how to get back. ❤
This is a CHALLENGE.single mom, handling all finances & financial responsibilities, scheduling & negotiating maintenance & repair work on home, business & car....Supporting yourself when male contractors intend on bullying you out of more monies for work done....working out logistics for self, kids & other family members....SOLO😢
Wow this was so beautiful ,I am very quiet but they're times where I cant control myself when I see the people that I love . My biggest problem is oversharing, what can i do to not be like that ?
That can be difficult I know first hand. What I do is before I see these people (usually on my way there), I say a prayer and ask God to put a guard over my mouth. I ask Him to help me to watch everything that I say. And every single time, right before I do it I feel a strong nudge not to. It's my decision to comply or ignore it. But God is faithful and always creates space for an escape. I hope that helps 🩷
I used to have a gentle spirit…I let my toxic family change that. I am asking God to restore me and I will work on it using these tips/info. Thanks ❤ ps I need to refill my 29:11 😅
I'm sorry to hear that. Thank God Jesus can really do that for you. Blessings and love to you babe 💋 ps we're having 50% off all fragrances now use the code: Elegance ✨
Wow I almost came to tears. I have noticed I am the most gentle and quiet person I know. This video and your voice reminded me how little I was valuing myself. My presence. Thank you for your encouragement and love. I am inspired
Thank you so much for this Dr. Daf I can’t say enough how many times I’ve questioned how feminine I am in reality to it I’m actually being perceived as. I’ve been told that I am feminine and submissive and I know that, but I also know that when I get angry that’s when it goes out the window, so this video is definitely helping me return back to faith and become the woman I know I was meant to be in her entirety. Thank you.🫶🏾
I really struggle with this. I naturally have a loud voice, I can't help but join in on conversation. It's very difficult for me to just remain silent and when I fail at this it makes me feel like it's useless to keep trying.
I've been told I look serious and sad. Normally I'm just reserved and chill. I'm also introspective and In my thoughts a lot. What or how can I change?
Some men seem to be more attracted to serious...even sad looking women over bubbly, smiley ones, I've observed. My husband would be one of them. Haha! He says one of his absolute favorite things about me is how serious I look with a touch of melancholy. He tends to be more smiley and jovial. Surprisingly, he says he's always been turned off by smiley, bubbly women. Remember, opposites often attract. 😘
Some men seem to be more attracted to serious...even sad looking women over bubbly, smiley ones, I've observed. My husband would be one of them. Haha! He says one of his absolute favorite things about me is how serious I look with a touch of melancholy. He tends to be more smiley and jovial. We have been happily married for 17 years. 🥰 Remember, opposites often attract. 😘
May I ask, if I’m gentle and sweet most of the time but extremes excited and cheerful and loud at my child’s football game. Is this okay or is this masculine? Sometimes I get overly excited! Please give me advice beautiful woman of God.
That’s fine hun. It’s the aggressive attitude that is not feminine. Being excited is actually a very feminine trait as most men can’t express that without being stared at with “sus” 😂
Hi love 💕 There is a time for everything and that is appropriate at a football game. As long as you are not aggressive, rude or inappropriate be yourself 🙌🏾🩷
How can I be this gentle with a difficult child whose rebellious? I am a single mother right now! My daughters are 11 and 12 currently. My youngest is finding her identity and is rebelling at the moment. She doesn't listen or wants to comply! She's dealing with a wounded feminine Energy as well. She was molested at 7 years old. She's been to therapy and I see how she only listens to men and not women . How do I deal with this? Should I schedule us with a family or individual therapist?
I know it's very difficult to deal with this especially as a single mother. Therapy would be necessary and helpful to both she and yourself. Do you have a relationship with Jesus?
I hate it. I hate that I am going video after video trying to learn how to be this perfect Christian woman. I'm not bad at all,I'm just talkative and stand up for myself. But if I wanna be married this is the personna I have to be
@@shweshwe_k8177 the Lord will help you. Thats what the Holy Spirit does. You don't have to be hard on yourself. It's a journey and it happens progressively. Thank you for watching 🤍
God made sure you made this in time before meeting up with colleagues at a workshop. I need inner peace and gentleness to handle this week.
He is always on time 🩷 Best wishes to you at your meeting ✨✨✨
ready to break this curse and have a gentle and quiet spirit, not by my might but by being led by the Holy Spirit. thank you for this
Learned this by observing my grandmother, thank God i was raised by her 💕
What a blessing 🩷☀️
Divinely Feminine women are the Strongest, most Powerful. I genuinely wish all Women were of this character.
My gentle spirit is exhibited when I interact with others. I choose to think before I speak and or respond. The more observant I am the more gentle spirited I can choose to be. I watch, listen, and pray before I allow the issues of my heart to impact my actions. That is how I use my gentle and quiet spirit. God bless you Dr. Daf. This video was a confirmation received in my spirit. ❤
I used to be like this. Now I’m trying to get back into being more gentle spirit
Dear Dr. Michelle, please consider these video ideas:
- your thoughts on modesty
- what elegant woman should avoid in terms of looks (not only clothes)?
- would you speak out against pornography and onlyfans?
Yes 🩷 thank you for the suggestions
Amen! This is timely. So often we try to cultivate our femininity, outwardly, but God has giving us the “secret sauce” in His Word. Thank you for sharing this biblical design. 💕
Exactly 🩷 you're most welcome honey
I've been trying to work on being less aggressive and reactionary in my own mind. Thank you for this beautiful message and all the work you do, Dr. Daf! 💕
That is wonderful. You will get there. You're so welcome my love 🩷
Thank you so much for this video… i have been struggling to have a quiet spirit and release all the anger and sadness I have inside but this made me realize how easy it is to start!! Thank you so much 💛
This is the best video I’ve seen of someone speaking about how femininity relates to God’s Word and explaining how to have self control. New subbie and glad to be here 💕
Being gentle is something that God has been speaking to me about and I'm so grateful for this video. I'm high-spirited and always full of energy. I am glad to hear that I don't have to be "quiet" to have a gentle and quiet spirit. Sometimes I can be all over the place ( in a good way ) and I'll pause and say to myself, "You need to be more quiet" which doesn't come to me naturally. It's also important that I discern when I'm doing too much and I need to slow down. Thanks once again Dr. Michelle, I'm certainly going to listen to this more than once.
‘Think about why things bother you? Are you approachable, are you teachable?’
This was an excellent message. I am working on having better attitude and spirit. God is helping me. I still need work but I am doing alot better.
My family is my greatest stress and aggravation in my life. But Im learning to insert those better boundaries with them all.
That is so challenging. I completely understand that. It takes a lot of prayer, strategies and a good support system. You will get there. Don't give up 🩷
You delivered this message in such a beautiful way! Thank you for helping us ladies elevate and become the women God destined us to be.
Thank you so much for your encouragement love 🩷
You’re such a gift to us women.
From🇰🇪 I really love your podcasts gurl and the fact that you qoute Bible verses is really amazing 🤩 .working in men dominated field has really amplified how I deliver different situations 💔🥺 this is therapeutic, thank you 😊
So grateful to hear that honey. Thank you for watching 🩷
Me too sis! Am from 🇿🇲 working in the conservation field with 98% men. After watching her videos, it has transformed me and helped root and rest in my femininity. I have seen results from how my male colleagues treat me with respect, my family and friends. Truly wonderful to hear from someone of a similar background
@@Blissful8640 ♥️
You definitely practice what you preach! Beautiful inside and out ❤❤
I love how candidly she gave this message!!
Thanks for this. I’ve been “traveling” out of my feminine due to life’s circumstances and this helped me gain perspective and direction on how to get back. ❤
Thank you for filling my cup. I so badly needed this.
I'm so thankful! God bless you 🤍
I’ve been working on this. I grew up watching women be very vocal and others extremely passive. I’m trying to wiggle myself in the middle.
Yes there is a middle ground. Modesty in general will always save you. Thanks for watching 🩷
Thank you all so much! Yesterday I experienced this and felt shame afterwards as if maybe I was being too masculine. God bless you all. ❤️
Help me in this area Holy Spirit! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Keep doing God's work Sis. So happy I came across this video. This was a message sent to me by God.
God lead me to your channel. I am truly blessed. May God bless you 🙏
Thank you. You inspire me to break old, bad habits.
Your voice is so beautiful,u sound like an angel❤
Scriptures 1 Peter 3:4-6
This is a CHALLENGE.single mom, handling all finances & financial responsibilities, scheduling & negotiating maintenance & repair work on home, business & car....Supporting yourself when male contractors intend on bullying you out of more monies for work done....working out logistics for self, kids & other family members....SOLO😢
I was at court today. I was loosing it and during the break, I quickly went to watch your clip so I gather myself😅Thank you.
This was definitely helpful thank you God and thank you ❤
I often struggle with a few things you mentioned and this video is timely. I found your tips so helpful. Thank you for sharing ❤
Wow this was so beautiful ,I am very quiet but they're times where I cant control myself when I see the people that I love . My biggest problem is oversharing, what can i do to not be like that ?
That can be difficult I know first hand. What I do is before I see these people (usually on my way there), I say a prayer and ask God to put a guard over my mouth. I ask Him to help me to watch everything that I say. And every single time, right before I do it I feel a strong nudge not to. It's my decision to comply or ignore it. But God is faithful and always creates space for an escape. I hope that helps 🩷
I used to have a gentle spirit…I let my toxic family change that. I am asking God to restore me and I will work on it using these tips/info. Thanks ❤ ps I need to refill my 29:11 😅
I'm sorry to hear that. Thank God Jesus can really do that for you. Blessings and love to you babe 💋 ps we're having 50% off all fragrances now use the code: Elegance ✨
I really needed this reminder. Its not what you say its how you say it. Having ease instead of being reactionary
Perfect timing 🙏🏾
Thank you so for this information. You keep getting softer & softer 😍😍❤️❤️❤️❤️🌸🌸🌸
🩷 you are most welcome darling
This was a great video, thank you.
Thank you for watching honey 🤍✨
This video came right on time. Went through an ugly breakup over the weekend and I needed this. Thank you for sharing ❤
I'm sorry to hear that honey. Praying for your healing 🌊
I love you Dr Daf. You have a wonderful job shaping up my life.❤
Wow I almost came to tears. I have noticed I am the most gentle and quiet person I know. This video and your voice reminded me how little I was valuing myself. My presence. Thank you for your encouragement and love. I am inspired
Praise God for this video. God bless you
I knew I was in the right place when you said “ that part of you who wants to snatch someone’s wig off” 😂🤗
So Good to watch your videos Dr. Daf.... I pray for such a gentle and quiet spirit .... Thanks you... With love from Ghana.
I have been needing this for a couple of months now. Glad I found you.
I am thankful to hear that!
Another great video! You could write a book for women on these topics.
I've been working on this and decided to move out. I could only work so far
Amen to that ❤🙏🏽Thank you for these wise words and how gracefully you delivered them, dear!
Thank you so much Dr. Daf!! God bless you and your family ❤️🙏🥰
Thank you so much for this Dr. Daf I can’t say enough how many times I’ve questioned how feminine I am in reality to it I’m actually being perceived as. I’ve been told that I am feminine and submissive and I know that, but I also know that when I get angry that’s when it goes out the window, so this video is definitely helping me return back to faith and become the woman I know I was meant to be in her entirety. Thank you.🫶🏾
That is great news darling. Those moments count the most. Wishing you the best on this journey 🩷
Amen ! I am so glad that I came across your video. Great video 🥰💖
Aww thank you I'm glad too 💋
Thank you for this video. It was very helpful. I think I'm ready to re-watch resolving conflict videos.
You're most welcome honey ✨
Thank you very much, Dr Daf. ❤🙏🕊
This is a very nice piece. God bless you Dr Michelle for this beautiful content.
You are simply brilliant!
Thank you Dr. Michelle
Love this. Continue to do what you do, your helping us ladies more than you know ❤
Thank you so much for creating this content , truly appreciate it.❤❤💐💐
Thank you Dr.Daf❤️🩹
Good morning gorgeous❤
Nice. Thank you for sharing
Thank you so much for this video and the information you shared with us! It was an on time word for me. ❤
You are most welcome darling. Thank you for watching 💕
Wow, this is a great message. Thanks doctor daf ❤
I really struggle with this. I naturally have a loud voice, I can't help but join in on conversation. It's very difficult for me to just remain silent and when I fail at this it makes me feel like it's useless to keep trying.
Love this video! So perfect!
Thank you for this beautiful message. God bless
Thank you for watching sweetheart 🩷
Thankyou so much. You really blessed me with this
You are most welcome love 🩷 Glory to God for knowing just what you needed ✨
Such a good video ❤ thank you!
Amazing video. I’ve learned so much. Thank you for this.
That's great to hear honey!!! You're so welcome love 🩷
This was very helpful thank you for this video
I'm so happy to know that. You are most welcome. Thank you for watching love 🩷
thank you so much amen
Do you have any recommendations for finding therapist that specializes in these kind of topics?
I’d love to hear this topic, however its very hard to stay engaged with the music overlapping your voice .
Thank you
I've been told I look serious and sad. Normally I'm just reserved and chill. I'm also introspective and In my thoughts a lot. What or how can I change?
Be yourself but try to engage with people when you can. Even if it's the slightest smile. Remember to be present in the moment to enjoy your life ✨
@@drmichelledaf Thankyou🤍
Some men seem to be more attracted to serious...even sad looking women over bubbly, smiley ones, I've observed. My husband would be one of them. Haha!
He says one of his absolute favorite things about me is how serious I look with a touch of melancholy. He tends to be more smiley and jovial. Surprisingly, he says he's always been turned off by smiley, bubbly women. Remember, opposites often attract. 😘
Some men seem to be more attracted to serious...even sad looking women over bubbly, smiley ones, I've observed. My husband would be one of them. Haha!
He says one of his absolute favorite things about me is how serious I look with a touch of melancholy. He tends to be more smiley and jovial. We have been happily married for 17 years. 🥰 Remember, opposites often attract. 😘
@@juliabliss1477 oh, wow! This is encouraging. Lol. I'm actually melancholic in temperament
I honestly wish I learnt or was taught this things earlier in life I’m struggling being totally feminine . It’s messing my relationship
I'm sorry to hear that but I hope that by learning these things and implementing them, things will turn around. 🩷
@@drmichelledaf thank you 🙏🏽
❤ Thanks
May I ask, if I’m gentle and sweet most of the time but extremes excited and cheerful and loud at my child’s football game. Is this okay or is this masculine? Sometimes I get overly excited! Please give me advice beautiful woman of God.
Its ok, you are being natural when feeling exciting😊💜
That’s fine hun. It’s the aggressive attitude that is not feminine. Being excited is actually a very feminine trait as most men can’t express that without being stared at with “sus” 😂
Hi love 💕 There is a time for everything and that is appropriate at a football game. As long as you are not aggressive, rude or inappropriate be yourself 🙌🏾🩷
I'm very sure your child will have fond and warm memories of you being the cheerful mum at his/her games.
How can I be this gentle with a difficult child whose rebellious? I am a single mother right now! My daughters are 11 and 12 currently. My youngest is finding her identity and is rebelling at the moment. She doesn't listen or wants to comply! She's dealing with a wounded feminine Energy as well. She was molested at 7 years old. She's been to therapy and I see how she only listens to men and not women . How do I deal with this? Should I schedule us with a family or individual therapist?
I know it's very difficult to deal with this especially as a single mother. Therapy would be necessary and helpful to both she and yourself. Do you have a relationship with Jesus?
Yes I do so I've given her over to HIM! I am going to schedule a family therapist again! I@@drmichelledaf
I hate it. I hate that I am going video after video trying to learn how to be this perfect Christian woman.
I'm not bad at all,I'm just talkative and stand up for myself.
But if I wanna be married this is the personna I have to be
@@shweshwe_k8177 the Lord will help you. Thats what the Holy Spirit does. You don't have to be hard on yourself. It's a journey and it happens progressively. Thank you for watching 🤍
You are so beautiful ❤
“I’m not quiet I have adhd”
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What an excellent teaching. You embody this so well.✨🤌🏼🌸
You are the sweetest! Thank you beautiful 🩷
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