Man Claims His Ex-Wife Is Mean, Vindictive, And Cruel

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  • Victor claims his ex-wife Brandi is an alcoholic who becomes abusive when she drinks. Brandi says she doesn’t think she’s an alcoholic but admits she becomes “volatile” when she drinks to excess.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 116

  • @claytonlusby2505
    @claytonlusby2505 4 роки тому +128

    She cheated because he didn't give her enough attention and love? I'm so sick of that worn out excuse. If its true and you're unhappy, get out of the relationship! Its that simple.

  • @Atlastheyote222
    @Atlastheyote222 3 роки тому +69

    “I’m not an alcoholic but when I do drink I drink too much”
    That’s what an alcoholic is..

    • @railwaychristina3192
      @railwaychristina3192 4 місяці тому

      She's a binge drinker. With personality disorder, no amount of love is ever enough for an empty soul with no sense of self. Ironically, manifests itself as selfishness.

  • @stephaniegarner2228
    @stephaniegarner2228 4 роки тому +62

    On a funny note.....i laughed when he told her she doesn't have morals and she was like because you took my morales from me!!! 🤦‍♀️🤣

  • @Enoughalready20237
    @Enoughalready20237 3 роки тому +40

    When a narcissist makes an accusation, it’s and admission (projection).

  • @Bearsie413
    @Bearsie413 4 роки тому +44

    Wow nothing is her fault... yet she drinks to the point she is nasty and mean. Yelling in front of children, disgusting

  • @ControlledChaos145
    @ControlledChaos145 3 роки тому +31

    I feel like this is what everyone pictures when they hear the name brandy

  • @deeprollingriver5820
    @deeprollingriver5820 4 роки тому +111

    And to think once upon a time they were madly in love

    • @deborahsunflower939
      @deborahsunflower939 4 роки тому +4

      They should play their first dance wedding song.

    • @lily-joyheal9954
      @lily-joyheal9954 4 роки тому +6

      How sad is that :(

    • @GravesLilDarkAngel
      @GravesLilDarkAngel 3 роки тому +3

      @@deborahsunflower939 I think that would be hurtful in this case, I think the relationship wasnt one meant to be.

    • @julieadam3180
      @julieadam3180 3 роки тому +4

      Things can change I was happy with my x husband and thought he was with me. Didn’t stop him being a serial cheater.. best thing he did was leave me m so happy in my life now ..

  • @memama4389
    @memama4389 4 роки тому +18

    I can't believe I never saw these clips!! I'm glad they popped up!! and glad I can casually comment about it now lol love u Dr Phil

  • @carlhicksjr8401
    @carlhicksjr8401 7 місяців тому +2

    Here's the thing...
    If you've lost trust with someone to the extent that you're putting GPS on her car, you need to just be honest and call it quits.
    And if you have trust issues generally, you shouldn't get into a relationship until you deal with them.

  • @james-bryannaadams6928
    @james-bryannaadams6928 4 роки тому +11

    She’s LOADED...omg. I hope she’s better...she deserves a better life.

  • @nicoleharry7294
    @nicoleharry7294 3 роки тому +4

    Shes not even sorry..when she opens her mouth..why is the audience laughing, the man needs his running shoes.

  • @laurabrown7133
    @laurabrown7133 3 роки тому +6

    My ex was VERY similar to Brandy, who also has a drinking problem. He refused to change, cheated, lied, got into fights and run ins with the law. I left for good.

  • @williamj.dovejr.8613
    @williamj.dovejr.8613 3 місяці тому +2

    She needs to leave the cosmetic surgery alone and leave him alone.

  • @lorageiger2275
    @lorageiger2275 3 роки тому +6

    Paying 500$ a month back for an advance means it was a big advance and guy is making some serious money. Good for him

  • @gabemarcus7926
    @gabemarcus7926 4 роки тому +61

    0:56 "She hits me in front of the children"
    Dr. Phil different episode- DO NOT EVER put your hands on a woman in anger! Whether there's evidence or not
    Dr Phil this episode- Silence
    Wouldn't you think that's double standards?

    • @shruti8271
      @shruti8271 4 роки тому +3

      It's never ok. Point period blank

    • @ramcharge2704
      @ramcharge2704 4 роки тому +4

      It's never okay l! From both sides it's not okay to hit each other especially in front of each other.

    • @GravesLilDarkAngel
      @GravesLilDarkAngel 3 роки тому +2

      You dont do that period and it's a shame he didn't say anything over it like he would over woman.

    • @BeckBeckGo
      @BeckBeckGo 3 роки тому +1

      It's not ok to hit anyone if you have any other choice. But he justifies this double standard with the caveat that it's especially not ok to hit someone who is smaller than you. Because it's much harder for a smaller person to defend themselves under those circumstances

    • @theodorerobert6774
      @theodorerobert6774 3 роки тому +1

      He probably uses the logic that women are unlikely to be able to physically dominate men like men are able to do to most women. Abusive girlfriends are not likely to be able to dominate a man in a fight without a weapon. So when a man abuses a woman, it will cause more damage.
      In my mind though, in the laws eyes it should be the same and treated very seriously. It’s still abuse and men shouldn’t have to just deal with being scratched, punched, and kicked

  • @cocopersiflage4705
    @cocopersiflage4705 4 роки тому +33

    She’s 43?!? She looks 53.

    • @mindyourbizok
      @mindyourbizok 7 місяців тому +2

      Yes.
      I thought she was much older than 43.
      She looks way deep into her 50s.

    • @fredperry523
      @fredperry523 3 місяці тому

      & she behaves like a teenager !

  • @colleenshea2293
    @colleenshea2293 3 роки тому +3

    He sure had a lot of patience !

  • @elizamk05
    @elizamk05 3 роки тому +2

    This lady does not look like a normal human.

  • @crissygodbey7826
    @crissygodbey7826 4 роки тому +40

    Anyone else notice at :27, the dude's writing with an unsharpened pencil....

  • @amandadixon905
    @amandadixon905 3 роки тому +3

    Omg fighting in front of kids unbelievable

  • @f3arl3sscountdowns81
    @f3arl3sscountdowns81 4 роки тому +13

    People who usually accuse are the ones who are doing

    • @BeckBeckGo
      @BeckBeckGo 4 роки тому +1

      Oh no, they're both fools and she's definitely a drunk lunatic

  • @danbelliveau2550
    @danbelliveau2550 4 роки тому +28

    She kinda looks like Bruce jenner

    • @tracychambers2358
      @tracychambers2358 3 роки тому +1

      I would say she looks like merri from the browns

  • @barbaralonero9860
    @barbaralonero9860 3 роки тому +2

    Yeah dude you were smart to walk away from that one

  • @RH-xs8gz
    @RH-xs8gz 3 роки тому +8

    She’s 43? Damn. Looks like 53.

  • @memama4389
    @memama4389 4 роки тому +13

    this guy could do so much better waow.. I wonder what is appealing in the first place about this woman when men like her

    • @vvecna
      @vvecna 4 роки тому +2

      he did a mistake and then got stuck whit her.

  • @thomasfisher763
    @thomasfisher763 4 роки тому +27

    The guy literally said "she was so drunk she admitted to cheating. Then she hit my hand, busted her nose, and blood went everywhere !" .... hmmm🤔 lol

    • @shananigans6717
      @shananigans6717 4 роки тому +5

      Then she said that I did run up on him and he did put his hand up

    • @Thindoublechin
      @Thindoublechin 4 роки тому +7

      He stuck his palm out to keep his drunk psychotic ex wife away and she crashed into him. Noses break pretty easy, my wife and I were just playing around once and bumped my nose off her knee and broke it. I didn't even know.

    • @joegregor6060
      @joegregor6060 3 роки тому +2

      She repeatedly ran her face into his fist-

  • @johnblossom8447
    @johnblossom8447 3 роки тому +14

    Other than the alcohol, this sounds like my ex wife. My ex has mental health issues. The whole, “You turned my son against me,” sounds like my ex, too. My son was older. My son and I went fishing and came home to a very brief note. My ex abandoned us for a man she met on social media. He was the same age as my wife, 50 years old, and hadn’t had a job in 12 years. They live with his parents. The whole reason she left is to be with a person who never tells her she has done wrong. She can’t accept any constructive criticism. She was a hoarder and wasted a lot of money. She left a mess for me and my son to clean up. She never was a mother to any of the kids. She had a 4 year old daughter when I met her. I did more to take care of her daughter than she did. It was all about her. She never helped the kids with homework. I did. She never took the kids to school or picked them up. I did. After my step-daughter moved out, my son, who is the youngest was at home. She rarely did anything with him or for him. She rarely cooked. She never went grocery shopping. Yet, she said I was the problem. I can relate to this man.

    • @jillianetuk5189
      @jillianetuk5189 3 роки тому +6

      I am sorry that happened to you

    • @sparkysmom7149
      @sparkysmom7149 2 роки тому +1

      As a wife and Mother, I'm so sorry you and your son and step daughter had to go through that. Some people are so obsessed with themselves and or addiction that they destroy entire families. My mother did both. God bless you

  • @kublakhan1334
    @kublakhan1334 3 роки тому +1

    These two need to go their own way now.

  • @doeeyes2
    @doeeyes2 3 роки тому +2

    What a disaster

  • @Deathbyfartz
    @Deathbyfartz 3 роки тому +2

    i mean she's not wrong when she says she's insane XD

  • @steroidbarney8273
    @steroidbarney8273 3 роки тому +1

    That woman is out of his league.. no wonder he gives everything to her

    • @_AnniesDragon_
      @_AnniesDragon_ 3 роки тому +1

      She looks like she was born a man!

    • @mr.j3371
      @mr.j3371 Рік тому

      She looks she could be a dude

  • @Gunnar.J
    @Gunnar.J 3 роки тому +1

    Thank God he left that trash.

  • @bloodtypedating
    @bloodtypedating 3 роки тому +2

    She lives in the past she thinks.she could have had

  • @kateca94
    @kateca94 3 роки тому +4

    I agree with her. If a guy is being manipulative my feelings of frustration come out when I drink.

    • @redblueyellow2552
      @redblueyellow2552 3 роки тому +4

      Seriously? You support her? She's a narcissistic drunk woman.

    • @londym.
      @londym. 3 роки тому +1

      We don’t know what went on. We don’t why she is behaving like this, we would get it if we were in her shoes. You’re right. Men can drive a woman crazy, no excuses but I just don’t believe men are so amazing honestly especially in such cases when he points out what you did wrong only and not reflect on himself also. What was his part? 🤷‍♀️ Emotionally, women don’t need you to just bail them out, was he there emotionally? We don’t know. If many of us saw us mad they would think we too were evil not knowing why.

  • @roscoe4092
    @roscoe4092 3 роки тому +1

    She’s literally named after an alcoholic beverage

  • @Empressbee79
    @Empressbee79 2 роки тому +2

    “She hit MY hand, busted HER nose and blood went everywhere.” 🤔
    She may be a drunk but that statement doesn’t sit right with me.

    • @mrenae6798
      @mrenae6798 3 місяці тому

      Exactly! Was thinking the same thing

  • @BeckBeckGo
    @BeckBeckGo 4 роки тому +16

    These two are both childish. She's only worse because she's drunk all the time.

    • @violetmoon6233
      @violetmoon6233 3 роки тому +3

      Can you please tell me why you think his childish? Just interested in a different perspective . I think he was so dependent and enabling .

    • @BeckBeckGo
      @BeckBeckGo 3 роки тому +2

      @@violetmoon6233 so I actually had to listen to this again because I’d actually forgotten this one.
      I think there must have been context from other clips. Because in this clip, he really does seem fine. I think I’m going to have to watch the rest of the clips to figure out my mindset when I wrote that. I might have an L here. I’ll let you know if something jogs my memory.

  • @Herandezbrothers
    @Herandezbrothers 2 роки тому

    Whoever did that woman’s makeup...
    *shameonyou*

  • @AdmiralColdhead
    @AdmiralColdhead 4 роки тому +2

    Love makes you weak.

    • @violetmoon6233
      @violetmoon6233 3 роки тому +1

      I truly believe most people think Co dependency and obsession is love.

  • @Lyerbait13
    @Lyerbait13 3 роки тому +2

    She hit your hand and bloodied her nose???

  • @tracyross5831
    @tracyross5831 3 роки тому

    Her name is a "Red FLAG ❗❗❗

  • @babybear7904
    @babybear7904 2 роки тому

    Well I guess we can blame her parents for naming her Brandy aka a name of a certain alcohol LOL

  • @sandys.6768
    @sandys.6768 3 роки тому

    I find this woman despicable. I'm glad this man got a divorce and hope he never went back to her. She's not only an alcoholic, but she's also a narccist.

  • @kayb2930
    @kayb2930 2 роки тому

    Claims that she's all these things? Claim is a very ignorant word in this situation. Shame on the editors and whoever titled this video. This man is a victim. Period. The lack of accountability and pandering is disgusting.

  • @stevec3526
    @stevec3526 3 роки тому +2

    A totally toxic woman...

  • @christinemadrazo6755
    @christinemadrazo6755 3 роки тому

    Brandy needs to also stay out of the sun.

  • @johnfairweather9188
    @johnfairweather9188 3 роки тому

    The plastic surgery was a waste of money.

  • @amandadixon905
    @amandadixon905 3 роки тому +1

    That boy is an 11 year old he's sweet

    • @oreocookie8213
      @oreocookie8213 3 роки тому +1

      I actually used to know that kid personally. He was on my brothers baseball team. He’s a nice kid

  • @venetiaanortrup8514
    @venetiaanortrup8514 3 роки тому

    What drove her to it.
    Him?
    Yes

  • @KevinGonzalez33470
    @KevinGonzalez33470 3 роки тому

    She is for the streets….

  • @railwaychristina3192
    @railwaychristina3192 4 місяці тому

    Anti social personality disorder 😮

  • @misckin6238
    @misckin6238 2 роки тому

    Wow he was a simp that's why he paid the price. No sympathy here

  • @freddiestranger9783
    @freddiestranger9783 5 місяців тому

    This woman was damaged from a child and never healed from her child trauma and that includes other unknown trauma as well. GIVE YOUR LIFE TO THE LORD JESUS CHRIST TODAY

  • @baileyrossvisuals
    @baileyrossvisuals 2 роки тому

    He has a great hairline

  • @buttercupdudden2644
    @buttercupdudden2644 3 роки тому

    GET PAST HIS HAIR-

  • @marcuswhittie5807
    @marcuswhittie5807 3 роки тому

    1:42🍾🍾🍾
    1:43 🤪🤪🤪

  • @DavidPerez-ez1mw
    @DavidPerez-ez1mw 3 роки тому

    Don’t she look like the bride of chucky doll from the movie??

  • @chilliecheesecake
    @chilliecheesecake 4 роки тому +1

    I'm spiderman

  • @kvillapando02
    @kvillapando02 3 роки тому

    Wow. She's 43 but looks like Trump.

  • @Botaku1996
    @Botaku1996 9 місяців тому

    Ohh u abused me but I wanna get back with u wtf is this seem like u tryna gaslight him

  • @ericdonnelly5824
    @ericdonnelly5824 3 роки тому

    Bet he was over the moon to have a beautiful, gawjus lady on his arm, if she didn’t turned to the booze and become the person it makes, jeeeez it’s hurts him to brush her off his arm and go separate ways. It’s a real shame

  • @chrisbowe1386
    @chrisbowe1386 3 роки тому

    women always use the attention and love card, why not the same for men, you have to give it also to get it.

  • @albuquerquehotspot7835
    @albuquerquehotspot7835 Рік тому +1

    Bruh sounds like you shoulda known from the intro long ago to gtfo

  • @danielescobar7618
    @danielescobar7618 3 роки тому

    wig or weave

  • @londym.
    @londym. 3 роки тому +2

    I don’t know why but I don’t really feel sorry for men much…🙄. If he had the opportunity he would probably do the same to someone else who was fully present and treated him well and truly loved him.

  • @tiredsin895
    @tiredsin895 4 роки тому +2

    Donald’s trumps perfect wife.

    • @vvecna
      @vvecna 4 роки тому +4

      u r really sad person aren't u?

    • @tiredsin895
      @tiredsin895 4 роки тому +1

      @@vvecna why would you assume that?

    • @carajones8935
      @carajones8935 3 роки тому +1

      Ridiculous, immature statement.