Ages 0-100 Answer: What Are You Struggling With?

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  • We brought in people ages 0-100 to answer some of life’s big questions. In this episode, we asked people "what are you struggling with right now?" Tell us what you think in the comments below!
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  • @tishellelara4280
    @tishellelara4280 5 років тому +8697

    People always struggle no matter what age .

    • @3terminatorgr
      @3terminatorgr 5 років тому +133

      The oldest guy seemed to be doing fine

    • @QueenofWheels
      @QueenofWheels 5 років тому +24

      Pretty sure that was the whole point.

    • @elisesimone613
      @elisesimone613 5 років тому +25

      Yeah I’m only 13 but I already have really bad depression and I self harm and I saw my mom attempting suicide multiple times in front of me. Life is just different for everyone.

    • @tishellelara4280
      @tishellelara4280 5 років тому +12

      @@elisesimone613 oh hunny am so sorry I know how u feel I go through the same thing but it gets better I know it sounds typical but it does .

    • @elisesimone613
      @elisesimone613 5 років тому +5

      Tishelle Lara awww thanks

  • @brian8687
    @brian8687 5 років тому +3280

    I'm struggling on the fact the video wasn't in order. You know 0,1,2,3,4....100

    • @greatexpectations9446
      @greatexpectations9446 5 років тому +24

      Brian 😅😅yeah..i was thinking the same

    • @Djanthonymosley
      @Djanthonymosley 5 років тому +9

      OCD

    • @Participant
      @Participant  5 років тому +42

      Lol. We choose to organize the video based on what kind of answers people give instead of by age.

    • @m4rwah
      @m4rwah 5 років тому +1

      Exactly like ughhhh

    • @marleycymon3512
      @marleycymon3512 5 років тому +1

      @@Djanthonymosley lol i have OCD and its frustrating🤣

  • @Userrr2901
    @Userrr2901 5 років тому +3225

    Oh man I wish my struggles were math and doing cartwheels.

    • @Brandon-mq5vi
      @Brandon-mq5vi 5 років тому +8

      Lol same

    • @yungtrapper9509
      @yungtrapper9509 5 років тому +3

      Brooo same

    • @dhamani
      @dhamani 5 років тому +11

      Same😂 I have struggles that billions of people won’t understand

    • @reb8957
      @reb8957 5 років тому +6

      She should watch this back in 10 years and see what the REAL world is like 😆😆

    • @salmaa9459
      @salmaa9459 5 років тому +3

      Well you sure did once :)

  • @spookedtea
    @spookedtea 5 років тому +2474

    1:52 broke me omfg i actually teared up

  • @itstoorainy
    @itstoorainy 5 років тому +5691

    The 95 year old man brought me instant tears. "I think I'm doing pretty well." (0:11)

    • @dv9096
      @dv9096 5 років тому +85

      Because, by this time he knew it's pointless STRUGGLING for things that are out of his hands. And probably even realized that happiness lies inside our hearts ❤️ and soul that is in firm bond with JESUS . ✝️ HalleluYah 😃 😃

    • @almochi801
      @almochi801 5 років тому +2

      Time stamp?

    • @julieannelovesbooks
      @julieannelovesbooks 5 років тому +8

      Almayo Nonono 0:11

    • @bananasplitlady3045
      @bananasplitlady3045 5 років тому +11

      @@dv9096 I'm not religious, but overall, I agree with that. Sometimes I feel like time is going by too fast, but I just have to remind myself that I can't control it, and it's best to just enjoy the moment. Happiness comes from within. :)

    • @bananasplitlady3045
      @bananasplitlady3045 5 років тому +5

      @Ligeia D.Aurevilly
      Agreed! I love talking to old people most of the time. They tend to have really interesting stories.

  • @yourmom2734
    @yourmom2734 5 років тому +1951

    Why did the 15 year old look 21 and the 21 year old look 15

    • @kalliefulton8367
      @kalliefulton8367 5 років тому +44

      Everyone is different, not every teen looks like a two year old

    • @LBay-ko9jf
      @LBay-ko9jf 5 років тому +17

      Hope your have a good day I just want you to know Jesus loves you ❤️ you are never alone even when you feel lonely. Jesus is amazing John 3:16 “ For God so loved the world that he sent his one and only son that whoever shall believe in him shall not perish but have eternal life” I you do believe it’s best to find a local church that believes Jesus as Lord and has died for our sins and rose again and now sits at the right hand of the throne and attend it and also repent meaning turn away from your sins and confess them to Jesus sounds hard but God will make a way. Also read the Bible and talk to Jesus start by saying abba father... of course we’re not going to be perfect but we believe in the one who is perfect

    • @jj.aholics
      @jj.aholics 5 років тому +16

      Nas Harm stfu

    • @LBay-ko9jf
      @LBay-ko9jf 5 років тому +15

      Dwight Schrute have a great day.

    • @whos.ziiiih
      @whos.ziiiih 5 років тому

      I was about to comment that

  • @Indyy
    @Indyy 5 років тому +447

    She is literally the most grown up 15 year old I’ve ever seen

    • @kalliefulton8367
      @kalliefulton8367 5 років тому +15

      Every teen is different

    • @eduardosolis7894
      @eduardosolis7894 5 років тому +17

      Yeah, super ironic that she wants to stay young. lol

    • @user-bb3ci3gn7s
      @user-bb3ci3gn7s 5 років тому +1

      Lol if only you saw me growing up.. you'd be like are you kid or a grown a** man. Cause no joke lot of people thought I was in my 20's when I was like 15 and 16 especially cause I am kind of chubby and had a lot of facial hair for my age. And my way of thinking is so mature. Maybe even too mature. IDK.

    • @lenameyler833
      @lenameyler833 5 років тому

      @@eduardosolis7894 it's not her fault she looks more mature I think she meant growing up mentally not physically

    • @eduardosolis7894
      @eduardosolis7894 5 років тому +5

      lena meyler I think you misunderstood. I meant to say that she said she wants to stay young forever, yet she acts mature. This had nothing to do with how she looks, I’m sorry if it sounded that way.

  • @greatexpectations9446
    @greatexpectations9446 5 років тому +17590

    I was expecting their ages will be in order 😅

    • @oezgedamla
      @oezgedamla 5 років тому +172

      same

    • @yoop9941
      @yoop9941 5 років тому +772

      Its annoying!

    • @LILK-uk5sj
      @LILK-uk5sj 5 років тому +59

      Great Expectations should have been lmao

    • @mileyw0056
      @mileyw0056 5 років тому +92

      Yeah, dosent look good if its not

    • @jennyoyster5054
      @jennyoyster5054 5 років тому +24

      Great Expectations RIGHT!

  • @richie8654
    @richie8654 5 років тому +914

    we need to find the woman at 2:05 and give her some love

  • @Subscriberswithtwovideos-gr6tk
    @Subscriberswithtwovideos-gr6tk 5 років тому +362

    I thought it was gonna be in chronological order!

    • @sun.sh.in.e
      @sun.sh.in.e 5 років тому +12

      Numerical

    • @drea94
      @drea94 5 років тому

      Okay? It's in order of struggles.

  • @idcwalaa8995
    @idcwalaa8995 5 років тому +2479

    I don't know why but the girl saying I hate homework with straight face was so funny

    • @yudai112
      @yudai112 5 років тому +22

      Lenda_4 its like shes one of the girls describing Regina George ahah

    • @hydranonymmous
      @hydranonymmous 5 років тому +3

      It is funny 😂 LMAO

    • @ElineSandes
      @ElineSandes 5 років тому

      relatable tho

    • @georgiab4751
      @georgiab4751 5 років тому +1

      She looks a little like Rosa Diaz too

    • @christiana3430
      @christiana3430 5 років тому

      Lol she reminds me of Eugene Lee Yang from try guys

  • @sarahlatham5885
    @sarahlatham5885 5 років тому +1402

    When she said, “The fear that it will overcome me.” That hit close to home☹️

  • @cottodotto
    @cottodotto 5 років тому +284

    That 55 year old woman is amazing, I wish I could hug her. It really hit me that I'm going through the same as her.

    • @ivygeorgiou4924
      @ivygeorgiou4924 5 років тому +1

      yis bich aww

    • @praynmom
      @praynmom 5 років тому

      yis bich ❤️

    • @zoemma7665
      @zoemma7665 5 років тому +1

      Me too. Hugs!

    • @nobodycares7445
      @nobodycares7445 5 років тому +2

      I wanna talk about my depression openly and don’t at the same time.

    • @praynmom
      @praynmom 5 років тому

      Nobody Cares Believe me, it’s therapeutic. ❤️

  • @lejonluz
    @lejonluz 5 років тому +678

    Im 14 and im struggling with the fear of death... Im just afraid there will be nothing in the end....

    • @jake_elwood
      @jake_elwood 5 років тому +72

      I think it's comforting in a way, that when life's over thats it, just eternal sleep.

    • @alexisthompson19
      @alexisthompson19 5 років тому +26

      Same I'm 14 too and I'm really scared of death

    • @daughterofgod2180
      @daughterofgod2180 5 років тому +50

      Sons I think you really need to meet Jesus

    • @ltstains1959
      @ltstains1959 5 років тому +42

      Bruh you’re 14 if you keep on wondering what would happen in the end you’ll get no where in life, you’ll have a hard time in adulthood if you’re afraid of thinking what would happen when you die

    • @internetvsgod
      @internetvsgod 5 років тому +5

      r/deep

  • @EvilChris2010
    @EvilChris2010 5 років тому +1838

    Anyone else notice how as children get older, specifically here at 0:20-0:30, they learn to be more specific in their understanding of things? It went from: Doing homework which is general, to math which is a specific subject of homework, to division which is a specific operation in math. I found that really neat.

    • @greatexpectations9446
      @greatexpectations9446 5 років тому +6

      you are very smart👏👏

    • @greatexpectations9446
      @greatexpectations9446 5 років тому +2

      I shocked by your name...please sir use just a small part of your brain here 😕

    • @EvilChris2010
      @EvilChris2010 5 років тому +5

      ​@@greatexpectations9446 Same comment back to you, twit.
      "I [am] shocked" that you'd even say something like that to me.

    • @lukesucksballs1069
      @lukesucksballs1069 5 років тому +2

      EvilChris2010 sooo as children get older, they learn how to speak in better sentences?? who knew!?!?

    • @anonymouscolorguardsoloist1159
      @anonymouscolorguardsoloist1159 5 років тому +7

      irwinada It’s not what they can say, it’s what they do say. Surely, the younger child who said “homework” also knew “math” specifically, and could’ve expressed that if that’s what they thought their struggle was.

  • @gabb5
    @gabb5 5 років тому +903

    0:22 *Mood*

  • @SCVTTER
    @SCVTTER 5 років тому +69

    “Am I a really happy person? I do like to make people happy.
    But I really struggle with depression, and the fear.. it will.. it will overcome me.”

    • @bonginkosisibanda9308
      @bonginkosisibanda9308 5 років тому +2

      undertvle made me almost tear up. I had to hold it back

    • @SCVTTER
      @SCVTTER 5 років тому +1

      Bonginkosi Sibanda yes, indeed.

  • @avia3.44
    @avia3.44 5 років тому +643

    The 0 year old didn't answer
    CLICKBAIT

    • @neghiethervil5606
      @neghiethervil5606 5 років тому +5

      Still enjoyed your keen observation. 🤓

    • @nikoletamat1218
      @nikoletamat1218 5 років тому

      😂😂😂😂

    • @acb2791
      @acb2791 5 років тому

      Lmaoooo

    • @shutefnut4242
      @shutefnut4242 5 років тому

      LMAO

    • @dancenow1337
      @dancenow1337 5 років тому

      That's because you're not struggling if you're not forced into this world. Antinatalism for the win! That's also why we shouldn't breed all these animals into existence just to execute them for our palate pleasures!

  • @GarnetsWeb
    @GarnetsWeb 5 років тому +568

    Oh come on, this should've been in order.

    • @KDMEB
      @KDMEB 5 років тому +9

      Garnet Fusion it really should’ve. it would’ve made more sense and more of a feel

    • @JamButter123
      @JamButter123 5 років тому

      Garnet Fusion you mean sorted???

  • @IncrediBelleJessi
    @IncrediBelleJessi 5 років тому +693

    I feel so sorry for the 55 year old woman. Sometimes a question hits too close to home 😭

    • @IncrediBelleJessi
      @IncrediBelleJessi 5 років тому +2

      @Ligeia D.Aurevilly I know

    • @praynmom
      @praynmom 5 років тому

      ❤️

    • @TheTishaVintage
      @TheTishaVintage 5 років тому +6

      my struggle since 14 and 10 years later i’m still fighting it’s hard man. wish i could feel better

    • @natashagibson4372
      @natashagibson4372 5 років тому +3

      Soraya G You will feel better. I don’t know what you’re going through (or what you have been through), but I know you can rise above and overcome! Lift the head high and live in the light. I’ll be praying for you to get better. (:

  • @needleinthehayy
    @needleinthehayy 5 років тому +480

    It triggered me when the ages weren’t in order

    • @VOLAIRE
      @VOLAIRE 5 років тому

      Yeah they should’ve been in order i was like what?

    • @drea94
      @drea94 5 років тому

      They're in order of struggles dude... -_-

  • @Yodi.
    @Yodi. 5 років тому +552

    The 15 year old should definitely play Kim Possible

    • @funandcooljokes
      @funandcooljokes 5 років тому +8

      @@antisocialsmh bro wtf

    • @laibs5623
      @laibs5623 5 років тому +1

      VLONE DEMON dude, I don’t know how old you are, but she’s 15. Calm tf down.

    • @socio637
      @socio637 5 років тому +1

      Unicxrn Purpp u gtg

    • @socio637
      @socio637 5 років тому

      Unicxrn Purpp wtf is wrong with u

    • @antisocialsmh
      @antisocialsmh 5 років тому

      @@literallyasuka2996 stfu before I kiss you

  • @catola_
    @catola_ 5 років тому +886

    why does the 21 yr old look 15 and the 15 yr old looks 21... i'm... confused

    • @stanloonauglies9358
      @stanloonauglies9358 5 років тому +29

      Oh yeah yeah bc the 15 year old is taller and has better style sense lol

    • @xblkink
      @xblkink 5 років тому +17

      So i guess we have the same username

    • @ThePokestopPapi
      @ThePokestopPapi 5 років тому +6

      Why do i see this profile picture everywhere...

    • @poopfart65
      @poopfart65 5 років тому +5

      ThePokestopPapi look up maximilianmus

    • @easytosay9805
      @easytosay9805 5 років тому +1

      Omg yes

  • @aspyatkova
    @aspyatkova 5 років тому +2594

    We should open up more about the struggles instead of pretending we’re fine, because we all are in it together
    we should have more compassion for each other

    • @sarah5386
      @sarah5386 5 років тому +16

      I really agree and I always try to encourage others and myself to do exactly that but really, it's very hard for me to be open about my struggles

    • @pandrdogypower9070
      @pandrdogypower9070 5 років тому +8

      "We're all in yhis together*

    • @esmeemeower1887
      @esmeemeower1887 5 років тому +13

      I agree but most people don't really care what you're struggling with these days

    • @YourFriendlyInsuranceAdjuster
      @YourFriendlyInsuranceAdjuster 5 років тому +8

      This reminds me of a quote. Paraphrasing because I cant find it.
      *There are 2 kinds of people. Those who know the pain of struggling either want to help others, or they wish the same struggles upon others.*

    • @aspyatkova
      @aspyatkova 5 років тому

      Athena G that’s so true!

  • @YesImJeriel
    @YesImJeriel 5 років тому +154

    Age 13: I’m currently struggling to see my parents struggle
    Edit: Thanks for all the supportive comments, it means a lot to me.

    • @kenziebabyy2942
      @kenziebabyy2942 5 років тому +5

      same, your not the only one, its so sad seeing mine struggle but we will all get through this❤️

    • @slytherinin1889
      @slytherinin1889 5 років тому +4

      This just hit me because its sooo true. When I was young I thought everything was good and that we could do anything but now being exposed to reality it just hits u right in the face and u dont know what to do with it

    • @martina8651
      @martina8651 5 років тому +5

      It's okay. It gets better after some time. I promise.

    • @Munyanyo2219
      @Munyanyo2219 5 років тому +4

      Redninjago it’s super fun bro. Especially when you get told that we’re moving down to Florida and once you get down there your dad tells you he can’t stay cause they’re getting divorced. Ahhh the good ole days

    • @darlenedoll1563
      @darlenedoll1563 5 років тому +4

      When i was 13 my parents where struggling. I know how hard it hurts and how bad it feels. If you ever need some one to talk to my ig is @xxvintyxx and my yt is catanias universe. Hang in there and hold on life will get better.

  • @ryaaaaaaaan7115
    @ryaaaaaaaan7115 5 років тому +487

    I’m struggling with watching this goddamn video since the ages aren’t in order 😡

  • @rlyallison5618
    @rlyallison5618 5 років тому +415

    the 55 year old woman who struggled with depression is breathtakingly beautiful. I hope she finds happiness. They all deserve happiness.

    • @praynmom
      @praynmom 5 років тому +11

      You just made my day!❤️

    • @rlyallison5618
      @rlyallison5618 5 років тому +5

      Margaret Newborn Omg you saw my comment!!! Stay safe and take care of yourself!!

    • @praynmom
      @praynmom 5 років тому +8

      rly allison Thanks! You too!

  • @oop2797
    @oop2797 5 років тому +2350

    I was struggling with the fact that this wasn’t in order.

  • @sim1regina
    @sim1regina 5 років тому +616

    I cried for the 55 year old woman :(

    • @mohmov8846
      @mohmov8846 5 років тому +1

      Simone Regina I want to tell her to listen to xxxtentacion- valentine it’s a song made for people that have depression and anxiety it’s like a cure

    • @oceantea8988
      @oceantea8988 5 років тому +4

      MOH MOV I don’t think that’s gonna do anything

    • @praynmom
      @praynmom 5 років тому

      Simone Regina ❤️

  • @lolokaywinnie
    @lolokaywinnie 5 років тому +194

    That 15 year old says she wants to stay as much of a child as possible...but she looks like she's at least 20 years old.

    • @kalliefulton8367
      @kalliefulton8367 5 років тому +20

      Not every teen looks two

    • @missjesley2528
      @missjesley2528 5 років тому +12

      Ikr and the 21 year old lady after her looks about 15

    • @WinterWeFell
      @WinterWeFell 5 років тому +21

      How is that her fault? Not everyone is ugly and unstylish when they're a teen

    • @aleksandraferruci2276
      @aleksandraferruci2276 5 років тому +3

      Rude

    • @socio637
      @socio637 5 років тому +2

      Sienna Johnson who said it’s her fault? Was just an observation. So many defensive ppl in these comments lmao

  • @leaf8616
    @leaf8616 5 років тому +181

    *What am I struggling with as a 14 year old?* I'm struggling with my mental health. I think I have anxiety, but my mom doesn't believe me and says I'm like all other teenagers when I try to talk to her about it, even though I don't think it is.. I want to go to a doctor but I'm too scared to talk about it to anyone now... I know other people struggle with worse things... But it still hurts when I think about how my own family doesn't believe me and that's my worst struggle right now..

    • @amandac8836
      @amandac8836 5 років тому +23

      Hey, just an internet stranger, but as someone who went through pretty bad depression and anxiety as a teenager and well into my 20's (I'm 28 now), I just wanna say that you should never feel like your mental health is not to be taken seriously. The first step is admitting you need help. My younger sister went through it too for years and is still going through it and felt like she had nobody to turn to. There are people out there who care. I wish you the best of luck and I hope you find help and support. Xox

    • @alexrei42
      @alexrei42 5 років тому +2

      At 14 there is not many things that need to give you anxiety, unless you get it from trying to be “cool” or what other people want you to be. I honestly believe that it is impossible to have real problems at this age (not including divorced parents,physical bullying,etc) Your mental health should be fine tbh and telling somebody about something like anxiety and then they don’t believe you is kinda your fault. Explain it thoroughly

    • @henrietjames1645
      @henrietjames1645 5 років тому +15

      @@alexrei42 ...

    • @carlee4302
      @carlee4302 5 років тому +37

      Trumoo Napoleon ...you don’t know what it’s like to be that person with anxiety. No matter what age you can have any mental health disorder and all of them should be taken seriously.

    • @leaf8616
      @leaf8616 5 років тому +17

      @@alexrei42 I'm sorry.. but you don't understand what I go through... I have explained it as much as I can and I've even said that I wanted to talk to someone about it before..

  • @nehsangbong7259
    @nehsangbong7259 5 років тому +3876

    1:52. Black don't crack. And I mean it in a good way. Beautiful woman. Inside and out. I wanna give her a hug.

    • @praynmom
      @praynmom 5 років тому +253

      That’s very sweet. Thank you. ❤️

    • @nehsangbong7259
      @nehsangbong7259 5 років тому +60

      @@praynmom you're welcome 😊

    • @mtraa.942
      @mtraa.942 5 років тому +45

      @@praynmom
      Omg i love you ❤

    • @underthestarsoverthemoon4259
      @underthestarsoverthemoon4259 5 років тому +42

      Margaret Newborn I struggle with depression too. I’m 26. Been struggling since age 16. You’re not alone❤️ you seem like a very sweet lady and I wish I could hug you.

    • @missuncongenial1843
      @missuncongenial1843 5 років тому +20

      There's no other way to mean it but in a good way.

  • @realSkyEyes
    @realSkyEyes 5 років тому +738

    Depression and anxiety, not able to do things because I'm blocking myself is hard.

    • @lj9759
      @lj9759 5 років тому +21

      Trust. We are always our own worst enemy. You'll get there.

    • @deekay313
      @deekay313 5 років тому +2

      Me too ❤

    • @fj4534
      @fj4534 5 років тому +6

      I feel that, much love and support to you mate, it will eventually one day be alright. I still have anxiety but my depression is I believe gone (at least for now). So nothing is static, things are always in movement, even if you don't do anything and feel powerless. You are not, just you being here is GOLD for people who love you. Don't be too hard on yourself, it is really dark and blurry, but you are stronger than you think. Don't hesitate seeking help. We are all on this earth in this universe together. Take care of yourself

    • @realSkyEyes
      @realSkyEyes 5 років тому +4

      Thank you, guys, for your kind words. I appreciate it!!

    • @Ashley-vj8ox
      @Ashley-vj8ox 5 років тому +2

      I hope everything works out for you💜

  • @a.sampson3554
    @a.sampson3554 5 років тому +11

    naturally I'm an happy person and it makes me happy seeing other people happy ... but I haven't been happy in a long time so I really related to the lady that struggles with depression

    • @praynmom
      @praynmom 5 років тому +1

      A. Sampson ❤️

  • @kih1242
    @kih1242 5 років тому +10

    On the same page as the 55 year old and the 22 year old. I’m turning 22 this year. We need more people like the 36 year old ❤️

  • @lalrinchhanitochhawng1691
    @lalrinchhanitochhawng1691 5 років тому +232

    Age 55, i love you

    • @praynmom
      @praynmom 5 років тому +13

      Thank you. ❤️

    • @des4316
      @des4316 5 років тому +2

      as do i!

  • @maya.a4794
    @maya.a4794 5 років тому +4840

    *This 15 year old girl looks 21*
    *This 21 year old girl looks 15*
    *Lmaoo....*

    • @BizarreAvenir
      @BizarreAvenir 5 років тому +219

      I've been searching for this comment

    • @nehsangbong7259
      @nehsangbong7259 5 років тому +138

      I thought I was the only one that noticed that. LoL 😂 👌

    • @jennamarcus4283
      @jennamarcus4283 5 років тому +250

      15 year olds either look 12 or 20. There's no inbetween 😂

    • @MP-kc8nr
      @MP-kc8nr 5 років тому +214

      And she wants to « stay as kid »

    • @angiekoles
      @angiekoles 5 років тому

      i thought that too 😂

  • @liliana6108
    @liliana6108 5 років тому +29

    I don't wanna spend my life paying bills!
    I wanna have fun with the time I was given!😭🙏

    • @aythnic6722
      @aythnic6722 5 років тому +1

      Fr tho.. Goodone.

    • @wilmagregory8967
      @wilmagregory8967 3 роки тому

      Wishful thinking, but fun can be had after you start working. Blessings

  • @malaak4873
    @malaak4873 5 років тому +3

    This made me cry. 😢 I hope everyone finds peace in their lives despite all struggles. We’ll always struggle for it’s a part of being humans. The attitude and mindset towards those struggles are what dictate whether we’ll be at peace internally or not. 💛

  • @tieiatalks
    @tieiatalks 5 років тому +376

    I want to hug the 55 year old woman! You’re amazing and you deserve happiness!!!! 😘

  • @jakmak94
    @jakmak94 5 років тому +205

    Depression and anxiety. Even when there is nothing wrong

    • @Brandon-tz5pn
      @Brandon-tz5pn 5 років тому +2

      Jack MacArthur welcome to life

    • @randomgirllol915
      @randomgirllol915 5 років тому

      same

    • @phant0m0th_
      @phant0m0th_ 5 років тому +3

      @@Brandon-tz5pn just no....there are normal adults who haven't struggled with it so....it isn't part of life...this shitis caused by outside factors and people dont want to acknowledge that issue. They dont want to take the blame and just put it iff as "growing up." I'll tell you this I have had depression, and ED, anxiety, bpd since I was 8...maybe even younger. So let's not act like depression is part of being an adult.

    • @Brandon-tz5pn
      @Brandon-tz5pn 5 років тому

      Bethany Francia triggered much? I didn’t even mean it that way

    • @jakmak94
      @jakmak94 5 років тому +2

      Bethany Francia also depression can be a genetic mental disorder. Also if your wondering I’m 13 so it might be part of growing up

  • @deepfocus91
    @deepfocus91 5 років тому +2

    27 struggling with depression and suicidal thoughts. Nobody warned me that life gets this hard I simply wasn't prepared. Finding a purpose and realising the harsh realities of the world and human nature is pretty tough to deal with. Gonna keep pushing forward though in the hopes of a breakthrough!

    • @praynmom
      @praynmom 5 років тому

      A.Demetriou Stay Strong!❤️

  • @waitwhat6056
    @waitwhat6056 5 років тому +11

    Age 55: I am you, except I can no longer pretend to be what people want. And people hate me for not smiling on demand, and ridicule me when I say that I am struggling with anxiety and great unhappiness. My thoughts consume me.

    • @praynmom
      @praynmom 5 років тому

      Wait, what??? ❤️

  • @rea8585
    @rea8585 5 років тому +1063

    No matter what, we will always see other people's struggles as easy and our own as super hard 🙂

    • @Participant
      @Participant  5 років тому +15

      What an interesting insight!

    • @krisjoy5069
      @krisjoy5069 5 років тому +53

      Mmmm idk about that. I don’t hear people talk about their struggles and think “wow they have it easy”. Sometimes I feel bad for myself because of whatever I’m going through, and I hear other people’s problems and it makes me feel like mine aren’t valid and I should suck it up. Which isn’t good either. Really depends

    • @ameliagray1618
      @ameliagray1618 5 років тому +1

      @@krisjoy5069 yup, when you think you have it bad other people have it worse.

    • @tybriabowser9526
      @tybriabowser9526 5 років тому +6

      Amelia gray it’s not good to compare peoples pain I hope you don’t give out that advice because it just sends people into a deeper sadness or depression

    • @angelinawilson5761
      @angelinawilson5761 5 років тому +3

      I actually see the opposite. I keep telling myself that my feelings are stupid because people have it worse.I’m working on it though.

  • @pinksoccks9017
    @pinksoccks9017 5 років тому +1229

    Ok but how is she 15?

    • @jakmak94
      @jakmak94 5 років тому +45

      ᑭᖇOᒍEᑕT ʑơᖇɠơ fbi open up

    • @mustafaabuamer
      @mustafaabuamer 5 років тому +319

      ᑭᖇOᒍEᑕT ʑơᖇɠơ she said “People my age try to grow up too fast” Bruh she’s the one growing up fast😂

    • @borgirvspitsah7329
      @borgirvspitsah7329 5 років тому +76

      Fake wokeness ..pretty cringy

    • @xzxjessxzx
      @xzxjessxzx 5 років тому +129

      Yeah i found it amusing because she dresses like she's in her 20s lol

    • @pinksoccks9017
      @pinksoccks9017 5 років тому +5

      @@Daniel-qk6bf what!? I'm younger than her u idiot, get a life!

  • @Amina-db7wf
    @Amina-db7wf 5 років тому +6

    I'm struggling with self love and acceptance

  • @thezoegee8833
    @thezoegee8833 5 років тому +2

    I’m struggling with the loss of my cat, she passed away from old age on 26th December last year. I cannot stop but to think of her every second of my life, I miss her so much :(

  • @paigeparkss3351
    @paigeparkss3351 5 років тому +163

    When that girl said that she is struggling to find people considering all of the kids her age want to grow up too fast; can we be friends? Because I feel the exact same way!!

    • @viktorthevictor6240
      @viktorthevictor6240 5 років тому +3

      I feel the same way too. I'm torn in so many directions that sometimes I feel like just ending it all.

    • @paigeparkss3351
      @paigeparkss3351 5 років тому +1

      Viktor the victor You can’t feel this way. Have hope 💓

    • @viktorthevictor6240
      @viktorthevictor6240 5 років тому

      @@paigeparkss3351
      Thanks. Good luck to you too

    • @doriahusaric9753
      @doriahusaric9753 5 років тому +1

      Same here

    • @sanaaswait2383
      @sanaaswait2383 5 років тому +1

      Saaaaame.

  • @abialston8476
    @abialston8476 5 років тому +100

    I love how they asked the baby😂

  • @st.belen.
    @st.belen. 5 років тому +4

    1:59 I totally understand. I am always so happy and I try to make others happy but sometimes my emotions get the best of me. I try to be strong and ignore all my other emotions and always try to have a smile on my face. Recently I’ve realized that by ignoring my emotions I’ve been hurting myself. ♥️

    • @praynmom
      @praynmom 5 років тому +1

      Stephanie Martinez ❤️

  • @casmeraki
    @casmeraki 5 років тому +1

    Always be open about your struggles. In a world of social media where everyone decides to only show the good bits and make it look like they have their whole life figured out. Everyone now feels that they are the only ones that deal with struggles and are made to feel more alone than ever! Simply remember that half the people around you arent just dealing with struggles but probably have the same struggles as you! And that's more empowering than ever!

  • @amnajaved6894
    @amnajaved6894 5 років тому +178

    Instead of random ages, do it in a sequence so we can get the gist of life as it goes by.
    This is a good good video. And it has come at a time when I am sure so many are struggling and struggling. I felt it on a deep level.

    • @bossbabyfuyuhiko6657
      @bossbabyfuyuhiko6657 5 років тому

      They sequence it by the topics. Like if a 5 year old and an 80 year old say they are battling the loss of a family member, they will get edited next to each other. That way, it won't be all over the place.

    • @amnajaved6894
      @amnajaved6894 5 років тому

      @@bossbabyfuyuhiko6657 ohh

    • @ambria4404
      @ambria4404 5 років тому

      @@bossbabyfuyuhiko6657 but it's still all over the place lol

    • @ambria4404
      @ambria4404 5 років тому

      @@bossbabyfuyuhiko6657 with the ages

  • @ItsPEMBitch
    @ItsPEMBitch 5 років тому +309

    Goddamn I'm such a sympathetic crier...i had tears in my eyes as soon as that 55 year old woman did! Without even hearing her story first!

    • @praynmom
      @praynmom 5 років тому +1

      ❤️

    • @Aurelia2147
      @Aurelia2147 5 років тому +6

      You can tell that she cares about others a lot and therefore perhaps doesn’t give herself more compassion and love! I want to give her a big hug and tell her that she’s amazing

    • @praynmom
      @praynmom 5 років тому +2

      Gwen Mary ❤️

    • @praynmom
      @praynmom 5 років тому +1

      Crystal Waters ❤️

  • @qwertzy7197
    @qwertzy7197 5 років тому +10

    0:39 good acting

  • @mohamadkadri2702
    @mohamadkadri2702 5 років тому +1

    Everyone in this video is so clean and pure , I love it

  • @aydinozkan349
    @aydinozkan349 5 років тому +355

    Ok but I’m just so confused how that girl is 15 when she came up I first saw her and not the age and I thought she was at least in her young 20s but she isn’t and it’s so ironic that she talks about girls wanting to grow up fast that’s crazy😂

    • @FilmTalkNow
      @FilmTalkNow 5 років тому +24

      Lil Ozzy because mentally they are still children. They just started puberty a few of years before!

    • @aydinozkan349
      @aydinozkan349 5 років тому +17

      FARTSY CREATIONS Ik but she even seemed more mentally mature so it was surprising especially for how some fifteen year olds use their early puberty nowadays

    • @newmilo3736
      @newmilo3736 5 років тому +1

      I've noticed it's happening alot often my ma is 51 and she looked eight when she was my age (13) while everyone thinks I'm in my last years of highschool or freshman in college. I think she might've had a early puberty like 8-10. I've also noticed girls are beginning to hit puberty faster like it was normal back when my mom was young to be 14 and just starting now it's really weird and late. My guess is were just adapting to changes whatever those changes are.

  • @jovananikolic9576
    @jovananikolic9576 5 років тому +204

    Struggling that their ages are not in the order

  • @oscarmancilla413
    @oscarmancilla413 5 років тому +1

    The 48 year old individual was my online professor. He was one of the the most understanding, awesome, and creative teachers that I ever had. I hope he one day lands a full-time gig because I remember thinking that he was more than worth it! Shout to Professor S!!!!!!!

    • @praynmom
      @praynmom 5 років тому +1

      Oscar Mancilla He’s an awesome guy!

  • @oop2797
    @oop2797 5 років тому +1629

    That 7 year old girl is a huge mood.

  • @arieahannagrimm2370
    @arieahannagrimm2370 5 років тому +4

    I love the girl that’s says she wants to stay a kids as long as she can. She reminds my of my friend.

  • @wartanabadanooh7157
    @wartanabadanooh7157 5 років тому +87

    28 and struggling to find a job, a stable home, a sense of purpose.

    • @Participant
      @Participant  5 років тому +16

      Lola Rose, you're definitely not alone in trying to find your purpose. Many of us spend our whole lives trying to answer that question. And sometimes our purposes change over time.

    • @wartanabadanooh7157
      @wartanabadanooh7157 5 років тому +7

      @@Participant oh wow thanks for that reply. It really calmed my nerves. Sometimes it's hard to see the light at the end of the tunnel but just being reminded that you're not alone in your confusion and worries really helps the soul.

    • @Evil_pinata
      @Evil_pinata 5 років тому +2

      Lola Rose you’re definitely not alone. I’m in the same boat.

    • @geekista
      @geekista 5 років тому +4

      Same. And I am almost 32

    • @rahulsalunke9942
      @rahulsalunke9942 5 років тому

      Same here...😥

  • @brian8687
    @brian8687 5 років тому +86

    I don't want to struggle when I get old especially financially

    • @emmez8833
      @emmez8833 5 років тому

      Bro same !

    • @margo3367
      @margo3367 5 років тому +5

      Brian Then plan while you're young because you don't know what issues you might face in the future, especially health-wise. I had to retire early because of health issues that came about when I was in my 50's when I still thought I had several working years left. I'm doing okay, but 'okay' was not my goal in retirement! Peace.

    • @ellaaa2612
      @ellaaa2612 5 років тому +1

      I am at the moment dealing with a lot of debt. I’ve learnt to be more responsible moving forward and to pay off my debt from stupid choices with credit cards and loans x my tip is to be smart with money and invest so when you’re older you don’t struggle financially x I wish I invested and saved my money when I was younger :(

    • @newmilo3736
      @newmilo3736 5 років тому

      Same that's why right at fourteen I'm gonna get a job and get a small income and climb my way to the top.

  • @TheEtienneDavis
    @TheEtienneDavis 5 років тому +1

    @2:13 Finally I hear someone else who explains it like me. I’m a “happy” person. I’m the last person anyone would expect to be depressed. My depression is crippling. I make people laugh all day but at the end of the day all I think of is the end of me

    • @praynmom
      @praynmom 5 років тому

      TheEtienneDavis ❤️

  • @lovecai_
    @lovecai_ 5 років тому +3

    I’m struggling just watching the lady cry

  • @dianag9066
    @dianag9066 5 років тому +19

    Oh my gosh...55-yr-old woman 💗. When she said she fears that depression 'will overcome her'...I've never heard it put that way. I've never been able to verbalize it that way. But that is absolutely one of the layers of depression. Much love to her, and I TOTALLY get it, emotions and all. 😊🤗💗 (51)

  • @Tullece
    @Tullece 5 років тому +102

    I'm struggling with social anxiety and panic attacks as well as depression from having to endure these things. I don't remember what it feels like to not have storm clouds looming over me, I don't remember the warmth of being happy. I'm only here because I don't want to pass on this pain to my family and friends by taking my life. I wish it would all go away because all I want to do in life is to help uplift others but I'm struggling just to help myself. I'm seeing a psychologist but I struggle to leave the house and most days I'm just in a persistent head fog and experience fatigue from overusing mental resources.

    • @Participant
      @Participant  5 років тому +22

      Tullece, we're so sorry to hear you're having a rough time. Panic attacks and being in social situations that give you anxiety can be scary. But, it sounds like you're reaching out for help, which is a great step to recovery. You're heart is in the right place, and we have confidence that your compassion will help you through this time in your life. Sending lots of love ❤️

    • @Tullece
      @Tullece 5 років тому +8

      @@Participant Thank you very much for the support and vote of confidence, your channel and videos are amazing and they are very helpful for people like myself. They help to remove any stigma with personal/social issues and encourage lively discussion and support in the comments so I appreciate what all of you involved do. One of the channels I had no hesitation with subscribing to. 💜

    • @selamtesfaye7423
      @selamtesfaye7423 5 років тому +4

      I am Soo sorry that you are going through this. I hope you would find all the help you need and get better soon cuz this world needs a compassionate person like you!!

    • @Tullece
      @Tullece 5 років тому +2

      @@selamtesfaye7423 Thank you for your kind words, I appreciate it very much. The world is greater for having someone like you on it. 😊💛

    • @praynmom
      @praynmom 5 років тому

      ❤️

  • @reticentnightingale8642
    @reticentnightingale8642 5 років тому +1

    Im 13 and struggling with depression, suicidal thoughts, keeping a smile on for others, money, being alone again, anxiety, self harm, family relationships, school, wanting to be the opposite gender but can't, holding on to a small sliver of hope, wanting to die but not wanting to burden anyone further, keeping up to my family's expectations and thats just whats at the top of the list.

    • @praynmom
      @praynmom 5 років тому

      Reticent Nightingale Please speak to someone! If you can go to a parent, talk to a teacher or ministry leader. Speak up to someone. There is help. There’s no ‘easy fix’, but there is help.
      Realising there is a problem is your first step, and you’ve already conquered it. See, you are a CONQUEROR!!!

  • @abdullahameer5419
    @abdullahameer5419 5 років тому +22

    The girl who said cartwheel was so cute :(. 😭😭😭

  • @kayla5862
    @kayla5862 5 років тому +229

    “ Doing homework, I hate homework”

  • @angiebaby8870
    @angiebaby8870 5 років тому +44

    the 55 year old lady ❤️ my heart goes out! You can tell she is really struggling with depression and was being honest when she said she's usually the positive type ❤️

  • @servicepawsandvlogs2992
    @servicepawsandvlogs2992 5 років тому +1

    “I think I’m doing pretty well”
    My heart 😭❤️

  • @andimuhammadrafly6553
    @andimuhammadrafly6553 5 років тому +1

    I'm struggling with many things. I'm going to college this year and soon i'll be separated from my highschool friends. I mean, people come and go but i'm just really not ready for it. Also i'm a type of person who really hard to eliminate something that have a personal value to me. Also, currently i try to fight back my anxiety and depressions. Watching this kind of videos made my day, got me thinking this world ain't just about myself. Thank you🌹

  • @ddramz
    @ddramz 5 років тому +9

    1:52 As my psychologist once told me: “You are more than your thoughts, you have the power to control them”; and every time my depression worsen, I remember that, and it gives me a little ease of mind. You are a beautiful person! ♥️ I hope you see this; sending you hugs 🤗

  • @Tinoupilili
    @Tinoupilili 5 років тому +24

    This 15 years old girl said that many people of her age want to grow up too fast, and she wants to stay a kid as long as possible.
    Just by saying that, she proves she's not really a kid anymore, but in th good way.

  • @richyyhcir123
    @richyyhcir123 5 років тому +1

    1:59 I felt that, wanna give her a hug ❤️

  • @danielmendoza77
    @danielmendoza77 5 років тому +15

    I can relate to the 15 year old and the little girl that hates homework

  • @jennyreed3331
    @jennyreed3331 5 років тому +26

    I'm definitely struggling with the loss of my mum. She passed away very suddenly in November. I'm only 23 and I never thought I'd lose my mum this young...

    • @gurll8784
      @gurll8784 5 років тому +4

      I lost my beloved grandma two weeks ago. It hurts so bad and I still cry thinking about her. But I know she is happy now. I know I'll see her again. Same with your mom. Bodies die, souls don't. ❤

    • @Participant
      @Participant  5 років тому +7

      Hi Jenny Reed, we're so sorry to hear about your mom. Losing a parent is never easy, but especially when we feel like they've been taken from us too soon. We hope you've been able to find a support system that is helping you through this rough time. Sending you lots of love and good vibes ❤️

    • @jennyreed3331
      @jennyreed3331 5 років тому

      Thank you all for your kind words ❤️

    • @FilmTalkNow
      @FilmTalkNow 5 років тому +1

      Sorry for your loss! I’m 26 and I can’t even imagine losing my mom this young let along 3 years younger! Stay strong!

    • @praynmom
      @praynmom 5 років тому

      ❤️

  • @foxyjai5912
    @foxyjai5912 5 років тому +22

    Finding a career that makes me truly happy..

  • @dontmindme.imjustafraidofe9327
    @dontmindme.imjustafraidofe9327 5 років тому +1

    I’m struggling with seeing other people’s struggles in the comments and only being able to show my support for them through a like or a reply, when I really just wanna give them a hug and tell them I’ve been there.

  • @almareyes2192
    @almareyes2192 5 років тому +1

    I feel that black lady so much😭💗💗 I love making people happy and being happy myself but somehow I just end up depressed, I hope that lady ends up finding a way to control her emotions and trust herself with them💗 it's so hard when the world is so different around you and you're just trynna spread some luvv💗😭

  • @underthestarsoverthemoon4259
    @underthestarsoverthemoon4259 5 років тому +13

    0:36 so agree with her and 1:52 her.
    My struggle is depression and anxiety and trying to love myself for who I am.

  • @hailey1603
    @hailey1603 5 років тому +7

    I’m struggling with anxiety, but it’s getting better every day

  • @jamesmccoy4711
    @jamesmccoy4711 3 роки тому

    This video really helped. To anyone who's going through a tough time, it's ok to not be ok. It's ok to find it hard to get up. It ok to not have the energy for the people and doing the things you love to do. It takes time but you might one day finally be ok. But for now, feel the pain and accept it instead of of ignoring it

  • @deewooten98
    @deewooten98 5 років тому

    I'm 20 and have been recently going through medical problems as well as my mental heath. I just got back from group therapy and hearing the older adults going through a LOT just really resonated with me and inspires me to keep going.

  • @kaylasmith4368
    @kaylasmith4368 5 років тому +82

    Age seven kid “I hate homework”
    Me- welp it doesn’t seem to get any better

  • @BlankDragyn
    @BlankDragyn 5 років тому +89

    I'm struggling with trying to feel stable

    • @blu3j00Ls
      @blu3j00Ls 5 років тому +4

      @Ligeia D.Aurevilly how is that comforting 😂

    • @3brendan933
      @3brendan933 5 років тому +1

      don't worry, stables are for horses. look for something that matches you better

    • @camillajefferson386
      @camillajefferson386 5 років тому

      @Ligeia D.Aurevilly This is really well said. At 28, I completely agree. It's always a struggle but we get better at getting through it - I feel much stronger now than I did in my teens and early 20s, even though life has only gotten harder over time. But it being harder doesn't bother me as much as it did at those ages, because I know I can handle it from experience. You may not feel stable, but feeling strong from getting through that instability will be worth it! (And I would say this is my struggle, too. It gives me something to work on.)

  • @heyLORDitsme
    @heyLORDitsme 5 років тому +1

    This is just goes to show you that sometimes the happiest people need someone to support them also! Always check on your happy-go-lucky silly friends! I'm telling you they need it

  • @emily-xj3xv
    @emily-xj3xv 5 років тому +11

    0:36 kudos to you,im exactly your age and you’re speaking my language. i just want to be little again

    • @kentaewonuxuxi432
      @kentaewonuxuxi432 5 років тому +2

      Me too...i wanna stay as a kid as long as possible xD

  • @greatexpectations9446
    @greatexpectations9446 5 років тому +348

    amazing video..but I wish if they were sitting down.uncomfortable feeling

    • @soapy2587
      @soapy2587 5 років тому +2

      uncomfortable feeling

    • @Meme-go9ts
      @Meme-go9ts 5 років тому +2

      Oh, how so? I'm genuinely curious... what do you mean by "uncomfortable feeling"?

    • @soapy2587
      @soapy2587 5 років тому +7

      Memé it’s like.. too formal.. like they are being interviewed by the viewers

    • @soapy2587
      @soapy2587 5 років тому +7

      it’s as if they are auditioning for something and we are supposed to judge them xD

    • @Meme-go9ts
      @Meme-go9ts 5 років тому +3

      @@soapy2587 ah, I see. Hadn't thought of that! To me, it's more the idea that they have to keep still in front of a camera that feels uncomfortable. Thanks for replying!

  • @tashieschimchim6791
    @tashieschimchim6791 5 років тому +9

    I'm struggling with:
    Depression
    Finances
    Education and education cost
    Losing weight and living a healthier lifestyle
    My expectations for myself
    My spirituality
    My career and career goal
    Finding a job that will pay me a livable wage and will accept my level of education and allow me to pursue higher education
    To take care of the people who need me
    With not always jumping in to help everyone

  • @AyurMcous
    @AyurMcous 5 років тому +1

    Struggling with finding my safe place, somewhere I don't feel in danger, unwanted or extremely judged. I just want to find a place where I'm accepted and get there as soon as possible.

  • @cadenceking8277
    @cadenceking8277 5 років тому +1

    I'm 14. I struggle with anxiety issues and depression. As well as self harm and suicidal thoughts. But I finally asked for help and I have an appointment next Wednesday for therapy

  • @awoFalase
    @awoFalase 5 років тому +41

    Great question. It’s important to create more spaces where this can be answered.

  • @susita825
    @susita825 5 років тому +16

    Struggling with fear of being alone ... and feeling not good enough

  • @leeflowers4143
    @leeflowers4143 5 років тому

    The woman who is 55 years old....who likes to make others happy when she is struggling with depression...What an amazing person! Those who try to give happiness and joy to others when they have their own struggles with it! I wish her nothing but love and pure happiness!

  • @meettheteats
    @meettheteats 5 років тому +1

    The last girl. The story of my life eliminating what doesn’t make me happy and pursuing what I’m passionate about. This isn’t easy I’ve lost friends/relationships. But I know it’s for my good.

  • @crystalthompson9828
    @crystalthompson9828 5 років тому +9

    1:42 Made me tear up. My mother is crazy and she gets on my nerves sometimes because she's currently 42 and she acts like a 21 year old at times but I can't imagine losing her. I always go for advise to her. Growing up with a single mother and 2 other siblings, we bonded and became very close. I will be torn the day I don't have my mother anymore

  • @grilledspicydeluxe7834
    @grilledspicydeluxe7834 5 років тому +6

    No matter what we don’t agree on,
    whether we like each other or not,
    whether we are kids, teenagers, adults, or the elderly,
    whether we are poor or own a billion dollar company,
    whether we are addicted to drugs or alcohol, or as clean as a bar of soap
    Whether we are a mother, father, grandmother, grandfather, son or daughter,
    “We as human beings, have struggles, and that’s what brings us together is the humanity of that struggle. That force that brings us together because we are human. That’s what brought all of us here today.”

  • @AmyStylinson
    @AmyStylinson 5 років тому +2

    I’m 22 and struggling with post-graduation. I hear mid to late 20s are some of the most depressing years of life, so just hope I can get through them.

    • @LaurenLinguist
      @LaurenLinguist 5 років тому +1

      They can also be some of the most fun! I had a blast figuring things out. I'm 31 now and figuring things out at my age just isn't as much fun because everyone expects you to have it all together by now...whatever that means...

  • @king_of_sadness
    @king_of_sadness 5 років тому +2

    The struggle is REAL