Dear Dad (Official Music Video)

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  • Опубліковано 20 вер 2024
  • Welcome to our channel Howe Happenings. This project has been 8 months in the making. "Dear Dad" is based on a dark chapter in my life that hurt me really bad. I didn't know how to let those feelings out of my body and soul, so I went to one of my best friends for help. Tanner Howe is an extremely talented song writer and artist. Music is therapy for me and this song has helped me release any pain and anger I had left in me. I will go into more detail on that process in a Documentary coming out next week. I truly hope you all enjoy this song, if you have been through a similar situation I hope this song can help you heal and move on, if you haven't I'm sure you can share it with someone who has. PLEASE comment down below and share your thoughts, I would forever be grateful to hear what you have to say. As always please Subscribe, Like and Share.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 120

  • @JasmineonImpact
    @JasmineonImpact 3 місяці тому +7

    Living with your dad and having him neglet you is a different kind of pain trying to make him proud . Im done im gone .

    • @HaileyPage-sn7qb
      @HaileyPage-sn7qb 2 місяці тому

      My dad left me when I was younger and I miss him so much I’m crying it’s so much pain to feel this way 😭😭😭💔💔💔

    • @LoafOfBeans424
      @LoafOfBeans424 3 дні тому

      I was living with my neglect parent. I’m soon 30. I really try to forgive him. But he still forgets me. Even me and my childs birthdays.. 💔 I’m so sorry.

  • @HarleyLilo1988
    @HarleyLilo1988 4 місяці тому +5

    Perfect song. Especially hurt when your dad drops you like bad habit. After you had to say good bye to your own son. He basically just left and hasnt been seen. But he loves my step mom. Family

  • @davidmccalljr.6866
    @davidmccalljr.6866 5 днів тому

    my dad was too busy messed up on drugs and lied constantly and made me lie awake at night wondering why he didn't want me. now I'm a father and doing my best to show my kids dad's gonna always gonna be there.

  • @theresayeckl6540
    @theresayeckl6540 4 роки тому +22

    Very well done. Sad but true for so many children.

  • @heatherherling8651
    @heatherherling8651 Рік тому +4

    I’m so sorry for anyone that had to go thru this… just know your not alone I’m going thru this too I’m only 14 and my dad is like this. I’m better off with my mother. He lied to me for all my years to make me cry he thinks it’s funny until I have a heart attac. He made me cry so much, by telling me things that happened even tho it assent true😭😭

    • @howehappenings7280
      @howehappenings7280  Рік тому

      I’m so sorry to hear this! I hope this song helps in anyway, I know it has helped me 🤍

  • @howehappenings7280
    @howehappenings7280  4 роки тому +14

    PLEASE LEAVE A COMMENT BELOW, 🙏🏽I WOULD LOVE TO HEAR YOUR THOUGHTS!! LOVE YOU ALL SO MUCH 💖

    • @alycatgf
      @alycatgf 4 роки тому

      Please, please!- Put the Lyrics out there for us! I cannot find them anywhere! You are amazing, by the way! Don't stop what you're doing, because you have so much talent and your songs touch your fans to the very core and soul of our beings...!!! Thank you!

  • @saeroun-church4
    @saeroun-church4 4 роки тому +8

    This is so amazing....i love this video....

    • @howehappenings7280
      @howehappenings7280  4 роки тому

      COMMUNITY SAEROUN wow thank you! I’m honestly left speechless with all this amazing feedback 🥺🥺🥺🥺😭😭😭

  • @KevinLandBand
    @KevinLandBand 4 роки тому +6

    Wow! Tanner this production (audio and video) has me floored. I officially believe in MNO !

    • @TannerHowe
      @TannerHowe 4 роки тому

      Kevin Land thanks man! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @hunterhowe7157
    @hunterhowe7157 4 роки тому +9

    Can’t stop watching this 😭😭😭😭

  • @leese465
    @leese465 9 місяців тому +7

    If i didn't know better you would think the artist himself didn't just write the song but actually experienced what he is singing about.

  • @damawardle1828
    @damawardle1828 4 роки тому +5

    Love love !!!!

    • @howehappenings7280
      @howehappenings7280  4 роки тому +1

      Dama Wardle thank you Dama!! Love you 🥺😭💖

    • @damawardle1828
      @damawardle1828 4 роки тому

      HOWE HAPPENINGS love you too 🥰🥰😍🙈

  • @alecdenby1316
    @alecdenby1316 4 роки тому +5

    Such a great video! Very touching.

    • @howehappenings7280
      @howehappenings7280  4 роки тому +1

      Alec Denby ALEC!!! Thank you so much my dude 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺 your support means a lot to me 😭😭😭

  • @lorettabell6527
    @lorettabell6527 4 роки тому +7

    This is so well done!!!!! I am so impressed and proud of you Candise 💛

  • @DJJusJay
    @DJJusJay 3 роки тому +2

    Great song and work on the video. I came from the behind the scenes vlog!

  • @sherrylbegay8904
    @sherrylbegay8904 4 роки тому +7

    💕 I told some friends. 👍🏻

    • @howehappenings7280
      @howehappenings7280  4 роки тому +2

      sherryl begay thank you thank you thank 🥺🥺😭😭😭😭 so grateful for people like you 💖

    • @sherrylbegay8904
      @sherrylbegay8904 4 роки тому +1

      @@howehappenings7280 I got a lot of good feed back. Good job. Proud of ya.

    • @LalaHunt-r3n
      @LalaHunt-r3n 5 місяців тому +1

      I told my friend but they just laughed at me so oh well I love your song

  • @XXXXBUGSXXXX
    @XXXXBUGSXXXX 4 роки тому +15

    I don’t know how many times I have watched this and each time I cry at the same time. You and your family hold such a special place in my heart and I’m loving seeing the good and the ugly. You’re so inspiring to be so vulnerable and I hope someone is able to connect with you from this. This definitely touched my heart as a parent point of view and too make sure our kids come first. NO MATTER WHAT ❤️💕

    • @howehappenings7280
      @howehappenings7280  4 роки тому +2

      Haley Walker I can never thank you enough with all your positive and loving words you have shared 💖 so many people have reached out and shared there personal stories and it makes me feel so grateful that this song has made people feel strong and not alone 🙏🏽

    • @LalaHunt-r3n
      @LalaHunt-r3n 9 місяців тому +1

      Same I’m crying right now

  • @lisanorris1299
    @lisanorris1299 4 роки тому +6

    I love you guys. This shattered my heart 💔💔 the struggle is real

    • @howehappenings7280
      @howehappenings7280  4 роки тому +1

      Lisa Norris love you Lisa!!! It totally is 🙏🏽 keep sharing the song ☺️

  • @LalaHunt-r3n
    @LalaHunt-r3n 8 місяців тому +4

    You just described my life

  • @mollyhahn6125
    @mollyhahn6125 3 роки тому +6

    My dad left me at 10 years old. It is so hard because he made so many memories with me and then just threw them away. But I just turned 14 and i had the worst birthday without him because now I am more aware of everything

    • @howehappenings7280
      @howehappenings7280  3 роки тому +1

      I’m so sorry about that! It’s really hard to understand why these situations happen to us. I hope this song helped you in anyway! Stay strong and remember there are people around you who love you 🧡

    • @mollyhahn6125
      @mollyhahn6125 3 роки тому +2

      The song did help but it feels like nobody around me love me. Because it’s just hard to know if someone loves me

    • @txangie800
      @txangie800 Рік тому

      Honey look forward to the life to come, do great in school, learn a great trade and when you have your children love them like you never thought you could. take them to all the things you enjoyed during the time you did have with your dad and live for your children. And bury those lonely times without him. Young man you are so loved my last son who is now 23 didn't meet his father till he was 13 and told me he'd be fine in life without him, i guess he saw he didn't need him and now my son is in the Navy and is also entering the police academy to be able to give his future kids a better life don't allow those memories to bring you down you are somebody and can do it all yourself!

    • @Kratos-788
      @Kratos-788 4 місяці тому

      I understand you pain to brother. My dad left me at 10 as well I'm 18 now and we had a lot of good memories but now they just feel like junk in the trash

    • @HaileyPage-sn7qb
      @HaileyPage-sn7qb 2 місяці тому

      Ik your pain my dad left me when I was born he didn’t want me around him and now I’m 14 years old and I miss him but he doesn’t want me around him 😞😭😭😭😭💔💔💔💔💔

  • @lindseyoleary5907
    @lindseyoleary5907 4 роки тому +5

    This video is absolutely amazing! This song touches really close to home, you truly are an inspiration being so vulnerable to share your story with the world❤️❤️

    • @howehappenings7280
      @howehappenings7280  4 роки тому

      Lindsey O'Leary ugh thank you so much 😭 it feels really good to feel so much support. I don’t feel alone anymore, a lot of people have shared there stories and it’s amazing what music can do 💖

  • @vivianvargas5913
    @vivianvargas5913 4 роки тому +7

    So inspiring! Thank you for sharing your story! This song. These words. I’m left speechless.

  • @anikaortiz126
    @anikaortiz126 4 роки тому +7

    😍😍😍😍 love u and your mamma !!! Ya’ll really did it with this one ! Much love always u da strongest girl i know , native power !!

  • @friendz906
    @friendz906 4 роки тому +6

    Soooo well made 🙌🏼❤️ love it

  • @theonlygench5862
    @theonlygench5862 4 роки тому +7

    The message to this song/video... I felt that 🙌🏽

  • @allstar052009
    @allstar052009 4 роки тому +8

    So powerful, props for being able to put yourself out there like that! Very well done!!

    • @howehappenings7280
      @howehappenings7280  4 роки тому

      allstar052009 I appreciate that so much! I feel so thankful for the amazing feedback 😭

  • @beav1962
    @beav1962 4 роки тому +8

    This touched me to me core...This made me cry so hard that I had to stop the video several times to wipe away my tears... With the Love and understanding of your husband and Family, this deep wound will heal with time. Fabulous job with everyone involved! Thank you. Christine Barker

    • @howehappenings7280
      @howehappenings7280  4 роки тому

      beav1962 thank you a million times Christine 💖 you have only ever shown so much love and support and you have no idea how much that truly means to me 🙏🏽

  • @mstudio7401
    @mstudio7401 2 місяці тому +1

    2024 respect my music perfect

  • @jillianlangiewicz1620
    @jillianlangiewicz1620 3 роки тому +1

    Wow Candice!! So proud of you being able to express your feelings this way. It was beautiful and it is only his loss that he doesn't get to have your love in his life. You are amazing and surround with love and that is all that matters. Both of my kids don't have their fathers in their lives but it is better that way.

  • @hnfrost6446
    @hnfrost6446 4 роки тому +4

    AMAZING🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @piperarcher9706
    @piperarcher9706 4 роки тому +5

    There's nothing more painful than the ache that loved ones leave when they don't. ♡

  • @pokeson1861
    @pokeson1861 Рік тому +2

    My dad took his life before I was born my mother told me he wasn’t really ready to be a dad yet ❤ Stay strong y’all Don’t give up ❤

    • @RonnieOsby
      @RonnieOsby 9 місяців тому

      I thought you loved my dad loves but I've been alone without in my I haven't seen my dad for

  • @matthewgomez8255
    @matthewgomez8255 4 роки тому +9

    This was done really well. Good job guys!!!

  • @Coffee-person
    @Coffee-person 2 роки тому +1

    i love your song.. im so sorry that this happened to you.

  • @blazeit3860
    @blazeit3860 11 місяців тому +2

    this hits

  • @sierrarice2819
    @sierrarice2819 4 роки тому +4

    Nice work

  • @hunterhowe7157
    @hunterhowe7157 4 роки тому +7

    OMG!!! I love this music video!!! Great message and such talent all around from the artist and videography!!!! Beautiful work you guys!!!!

    • @howehappenings7280
      @howehappenings7280  4 роки тому

      Hunter Howe love you babe! Couldn’t have made it through this process without you 🥺🥺🥺🥺

  • @txangie800
    @txangie800 Рік тому +2

    Incredible song Thank you it is much needed so these children and adults can feel it and hopefully let it go and love and cherish their own kids

  • @smrtcookie
    @smrtcookie 7 місяців тому +1

    Just WOW!! Spectacular!

  • @CiaraCici-r3p
    @CiaraCici-r3p 16 днів тому

    This is very real , i wanna send it to my dad. But i dont at the same time. I dont wanna forget him. But he has started a whole new family , hes still his same old self. Idk.

  • @LalaHunt-r3n
    @LalaHunt-r3n 8 місяців тому +4

    So true

  • @shinyev3281
    @shinyev3281 3 роки тому +4

    It's been 12 years now you want me f you you had your chance your dead to me I felt this song

    • @howehappenings7280
      @howehappenings7280  3 роки тому +1

      I’m sorry to hear that! So hard, I’m really glad this song can help in anyway 🥺

    • @shinyev3281
      @shinyev3281 3 роки тому

      Thanks

  • @tierragratefultofatherGod222
    @tierragratefultofatherGod222 5 місяців тому +2

    ❤❤

  • @heatherherling8651
    @heatherherling8651 Рік тому +1

    This is so true because, this is me to my dad… he took a picture with my sisters mom and my sister but not me.. he is soooo mean to me…😢😢😢

  • @Josephthedp
    @Josephthedp 4 роки тому +7

    LOVE THIS!! 🙌🏻🙌🏻

  • @LalaHunt-r3n
    @LalaHunt-r3n 9 місяців тому +1

    It’s true this it the song of my life

  • @Laylalove.Barley
    @Laylalove.Barley 2 місяці тому +1

    My dad died and I never got to see him
    😢❤

  • @sarahegerton
    @sarahegerton Рік тому +1

    this song hit hard

  • @kathyflannery8681
    @kathyflannery8681 2 місяці тому +1

    Same I love haw my dad left me

  • @shinyev3281
    @shinyev3281 3 роки тому +1

    You are so strong for being able to make this

  • @shandeanbell9635
    @shandeanbell9635 4 роки тому +4

    Incredible 💖 I love you candise

    • @howehappenings7280
      @howehappenings7280  4 роки тому

      Shandean Bell I love you very much Sunshine 🥺😭💖🔥

  • @kaetlynagatep5398
    @kaetlynagatep5398 4 роки тому +5

    I have absolute chills. This entire production is incredible. I loved it. ❤️

  • @gwendolyntsosie3395
    @gwendolyntsosie3395 3 роки тому +2

    I love this!

  • @noahfranklin8473
    @noahfranklin8473 2 роки тому +1

    too my dad who left me and my sisters and my brother

  • @Josephthedp
    @Josephthedp 4 роки тому +4

    😭😭😭😭😭

  • @steventorres1427
    @steventorres1427 4 роки тому +4

    Wow...👏👏👏 well done you guys. I remember getting goosebumps when you told me about this project prior to filming and my first thought was how I grew up in a similar environment and how traumatic it was. I'm glad I'm over it and all is forgiven but for many it's not the same, for some scars run deep and for others they still bleed. This is definitely a message to all and it needs to be heard (P. S. I hate that guy with the beard 😝😂).

    • @howehappenings7280
      @howehappenings7280  4 роки тому +1

      steven torres my guy!!!! I will never forget the feeling I kept getting to have you play the role, you absolutely crushed it! Thank you so much for helping me share this message 💖🔥

  • @JasmineonImpact
    @JasmineonImpact 3 місяці тому +1

    😢 man i needed this my dad always rejected me

  • @Emily-df2gk
    @Emily-df2gk 3 роки тому +1

    This is true my dad was never there for me but when he was in my life he used me and lied to me it's my fault hes not here

  • @JailahStrickland2549
    @JailahStrickland2549 2 місяці тому +1

    Oh my god my dad has hurt me so bad he lived me up in till I was 9 then left and changed he called his first three daughters his oops kicked his 15 year old daughter out I told him the way he made me feel and he said sorry that's just the way things are now

  • @AntiGreenScreen-dq8ni
    @AntiGreenScreen-dq8ni 6 місяців тому +1

    My dad left me. I was 6 and ive been waiting for him because he promised but he never did. I want to die

  • @kermit-the-gay-frog7973
    @kermit-the-gay-frog7973 Рік тому +1

    I love this song so much I personally have a pretty rough relationship with my dad so I relate very much

  • @ArianaBrowne-n2d
    @ArianaBrowne-n2d 5 місяців тому +1

    The same thing happened to me 😢

  • @unknownmask2786
    @unknownmask2786 3 роки тому +1

    I listen to this every day bec my dad never saw me when I was born and never came andy mom raised three kids me andy sister and brother

    • @unknownmask2786
      @unknownmask2786 3 роки тому

      And I wonder why did my dad leave me

    • @howehappenings7280
      @howehappenings7280  3 роки тому

      I’m glad this song is able to speak to you! I know it isn’t easy. God bless your mama! ❤️

  • @rebekahcastaneda3339
    @rebekahcastaneda3339 9 місяців тому +1

    This is what my dad did

  • @pokemongirl2024writes-vw7kn
    @pokemongirl2024writes-vw7kn 2 місяці тому +1

    my dad left and im a kid even though my mom has someone else none loves me besides her and my grandma

  • @txangie800
    @txangie800 Рік тому +1

    I only called my daughters father once in her entire life for help because she was getting in the party scene to much so he'd just talk to her about things that could happen and he told me thats her F-en problem and hung up in her entire life i never asked him for anything When child support got him then he called me asking to drop the amount or he'd lose his house i said No!

  • @KennedyAncondo
    @KennedyAncondo 6 місяців тому +1

    I'm 8 years old and my dad left me I don't know when but my birthday is coming up I haven't seen him since my 7th birthda

  • @francescadinardi8778
    @francescadinardi8778 Рік тому +1

    Period

  • @txangie800
    @txangie800 11 місяців тому +1

    Where's dear Mom?

  • @alexandradowns817
    @alexandradowns817 22 дні тому

    Im adopted and 28 i still have yet to meet my real parents i was taken away at birth went through the. System ended up with an older married couple with one other adopted and one bio thatvthe parents had
    Well lets just say i talk to noone of them due to
    Being told before i get married after losing my father that i was way to hard to deal with
    Well if i was to hard to deal with growing up why are you here lying 🤥 so for the past 2 years i havennt spoken to them and dont plan on it
    Im the blame of everytbing and thats just how it goes sometimes
    Only god can judge me its pretty bad after everything yoj cant even trust the ones who raised you SAD

  • @rekohawk2856
    @rekohawk2856 Рік тому +2

    Never met my dad

  • @seanrochon9240
    @seanrochon9240 23 дні тому

    Lrean look

  • @ciangrant2253
    @ciangrant2253 2 роки тому +1

    Sounds like my dad f him

  • @only1ofthisgirl
    @only1ofthisgirl 16 днів тому

    ❤❤