Creating New Patterns to Find Safe People | The Dr. Cloud Show - Episode 265

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  • Опубліковано 14 жов 2024
  • Lily is trying to move on from her past and forgive those that have wronged her. The problem is her patterns for relating to people keep bringing her to unsafe people. Dr. Cloud talks about how these patterns can bring us to what's familiar, not necessarily what's good for us. It's only when we change what we're familiar with to positive sources that we can use the familiar to create new patterns and find safer people.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 12

  • @tcancella7286
    @tcancella7286 3 місяці тому +1

    Great video, so helpful

  • @adiroots
    @adiroots 2 місяці тому +2

    What is familiar for me are emotionally unavailable people and one-sided relationships. In a lot of my connections, I feel like no one hears me and sees me truly. I am trying to break away from these unhealthy patterns, but it has been so hard.

  • @dee0731
    @dee0731 2 роки тому +12

    Yes the book “ Safe People” by Dr. Henry Cloud changed my life 🙌🏻☀️

  • @JacquieDestrampe
    @JacquieDestrampe 2 роки тому +13

    Aw my heart breaks for this caller. Praying she can get the help she needs and find a good group of supportive friends.

  • @texaslovelylady
    @texaslovelylady Рік тому +4

    Narcissist impede the communication skills and emotional freedom of expression in safe trusting mature ways.
    I feel her so much, I am facing having to return to my family and hate it because I know it won't be different.

  • @godzillamanstreb524
    @godzillamanstreb524 29 днів тому

    I am this caller…..same story, thank you Dr Cloud ✨

  • @lindareboh-king1064
    @lindareboh-king1064 2 роки тому +9

    Love Henry cloud books Safe People is very helpful

  • @kellychristensen4059
    @kellychristensen4059 2 роки тому +4

    Gosh I just LOVE this man! SOOOO good! There is healing & hope!

  • @sh6460
    @sh6460 11 місяців тому +3

    Sounds like changing your taste buds, at first you can't get enough sweets, but off of them for a while and 2 donuts are too much.

  • @trustyourself144
    @trustyourself144 2 роки тому +1

    Tell me more....

  • @bethbluett4211
    @bethbluett4211 Рік тому

    Sometimes young women dress in a way that attract the wrong kind of people.

  • @CocoShade
    @CocoShade Рік тому

    That lady needed it as