The Dr. Cloud Show | When friends don't respect boundaries - Episode 118

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  • Опубліковано 9 лют 2025
  • In this segment of The Dr. Cloud Show, Kate calls Dr. Cloud at the end of her rope with a friendship. Every time she tries set to boundaries around bad behavior from a friend, the friend emotionally spirals out of control. What can she do at this point?
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 24

  • @Grelotmystiqueetal
    @Grelotmystiqueetal Рік тому +6

    This role play is really helpful!

  • @Brownspdr
    @Brownspdr 4 місяці тому +1

    The conversation starting at 11:33 was so insightful. The light bulb finally came on for me! I am watching it for the fourth or fifth time before having a conversation with my own dual "friend." Thank you for the role play, Dr. Cloud! That part truly closed the loop for me. 🎉

  • @bridgeegibson2790
    @bridgeegibson2790 5 місяців тому +1

    Thankyou. I’m relistening. This particular podcast helps me recognize the pattern and to hold my boundaries and not make these relationships anymore.

  • @Lindalouise333
    @Lindalouise333 4 роки тому +15

    The tyranny of the weak! How true. Thank you Dr Cloud for showing how to handle these situations. Excellent call, manipulative patterns to set limits & boundaries against childish behavior.

  • @triciahallknaut6932
    @triciahallknaut6932 Рік тому +2

    Thanks doc. Most people don't seem to have the common courtesies & that the Church needs to teach people how to be respectful! That is what I think is our nation's greatest need!

  • @8lack8erry1
    @8lack8erry1 2 роки тому +5

    Wow that role play was like a movie. I found you just now as ive been searching for masters in couselling and psychology/ clinical psychology information in the uk and I just discovered this. I am hooked lol and I cant wait to look through all of your videos. Straight to the point!

  • @bridgeegibson2790
    @bridgeegibson2790 8 місяців тому +1

    This is so familiar to me. I’m now out of that snare but have to be very careful not to get ensnared again. Your programmes are helping to reinforce what I have learned

  • @wentworth3721
    @wentworth3721 3 роки тому +3

    Stumbled on this guy's videos, and I am now hooked.

  • @julialuyt990
    @julialuyt990 Рік тому +2

    Brilliant, thanks. But it's hard to say those words... I've been practicing healthy boundaries now for about 7 years. It's getting intellectually and verbally easier but not emotionally easier. I've got many one sided relationships and it's draining. So thanks, I've learned a lot today!

  • @shamsig3769
    @shamsig3769 3 роки тому +6

    It was very helpful because I am in the same situation. Thank you

  • @DUHnitra
    @DUHnitra 2 роки тому +3

    Praise God. 🙌💕✝️ Thank you for this!! ❣️💯

  • @annberlin5811
    @annberlin5811 Рік тому +1

    You have to feel safe in a friendship

  • @Bicentennialbaby76
    @Bicentennialbaby76 2 роки тому +1

    I thank you for role playing. I need to FEEL, experience and hear. I love the modeling. You help coach me to my voice. Thank you, Doc.

  • @rdbeckett590
    @rdbeckett590 3 роки тому +1

    Love all the self help books 📚!!!! Been a fan of you and Townsend for years and years!!! Very helpful !!!!Thank you for helping so many. Blessings ! 🙏❤️

  • @pbfloyd5757
    @pbfloyd5757 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you! I needed to hear this!

  • @N4T4713
    @N4T4713 11 місяців тому

    This was great! Thank you 📝

  • @danielarasgattino320
    @danielarasgattino320 4 роки тому +2

    This was really helpful, thank you Dr. Cloud!

  • @Mindsetolympics
    @Mindsetolympics 3 роки тому +2

    Thats a real awkward situation to be in 🥴🥴

  • @fulgore1
    @fulgore1 Рік тому +1

    This sounds like the person in question has borderline personality. Untreated they leave a trail of destruction in every relationship they have. Codependents are often the hardest hit given their attribution style.

  • @annjames1837
    @annjames1837 4 роки тому

    “Bad men cannot make good citizens. It is when a people forget God that tyrants forge their chains.” Patrick Henry

  • @Katie-me5kp
    @Katie-me5kp Рік тому

    How do I get my pastor to stop trying to push me to be friends with his friends again.... His friends are too toxic for me. The stress alone will kill me. How can I possibly forgive them if I don't feel safe? I simply can't afford to be their friends again.

  • @paulwarren8832
    @paulwarren8832 2 роки тому +6

    Dude, hold your tongue and let the lady finish already! You must have interrupted her 20 plus times. Not good.

  • @CocoShade
    @CocoShade Рік тому

    This was brilliant!!! Honestly!!! Brilliant!!!