ENFPs in 20 Words
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- Опубліковано 26 лип 2024
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I always joke: Everyone talks about the inner child, but I have a whole toddler group.
Feel it🤣🤣🤣
Well as an enfp that chose the path of diligence in studies and certain hedonism I realised I have to be somewhat alone to avoid developing too many addiction
But I also stop seeking people naturally as now I observe people in silence underdeveloped my social abilities so i have a hard time knowing what to say and my ideas are difficult to be expressed so I still got much to learn and I said this whole comment to expect a reply whether my life sucks idk but a fortune teller told me I an going to suffer a one sided marriage
@@hyjjjkyikk3158 i enjoy solitude and contemplation so much too, then when a stimulus comes into the scene, i become a golden retriever!!
you don't have to get married to love
Yeah, full house😂
"controlled chaos minus the control" love that line.
As an ENFP , I learned 20 new vocabulary words today that I can use to describe myself on my social media profile. So...thanks for doing most of the leg work!
lol, this is such an ENFP comment.
@@notverynotoriousg5674 Thank you! Yes, ENFP's value the opportunity for prestige while being efficient (its nice someone else came up with 20 flattering adjectives we can copy paste , saves time 😂)
@John Morgan first off, thank you for your delightful comment. yes I agree. As an ENFP writer and journalist, how could I NOT know these words, right? Fortunately we are the types that see beyond the surface and read between the lines. So I'm sure you could intuit what I meant by- I "learned" that these are THE "20 new vocabulary words" to describe our personality, hence can now copy paste to social media profiles and save time so I don't have to take a moment coming up with my own words to describe myself etc 😀
@@fowchiiiliedpuppiesdied most of my best friends and soul mates are INFJ 🥰🥰🥰
Nooooooo dont steal my idea ToT xDDDDDDDDDD
ENFP: When your friends call you "the most optimistic skeptic ever"
OH MY GOD Yesss!!!
Thank you for helping me learn.
He used such flattering and elegant words , but the only problem is I can't remember them for more than 2 seconds.
I write things down on a notepad app in my phone
LOL! Very relatable
I can't like this enough. As an ENFP who thought I was an INFP due to trauma, you're reminding me of my biggest strengths and helping me remember who I am. Thank you.
this
ME TOO! I thought I was introverted most of my life due to trauma and homeschooling. Thankfully videos like these helped me realize I was an extrovert and discover my strengths as an ENFP😊
Never let anyone squash that little light inside of you.
@@derf93 golden!!
Went through this too
I always think I'm a chilled person until I see people purposefully take advantage of someone weaker than them
"if you put an enfp in a group of people, morrrrre .... stuff will happen. " 😄. The way you said that tickled me. ☺️. - enfp
For a short video, this is the best sum up of ENFPs that I've seen so far. Congrats.
I agree! It was SO FAST yet SO MUCH!
I felt my cheeks redden, even though they're so ✨MELANIZED ✨😂💯
I think ENFPs remain child-like precisely because what is child-like is dismissed and diminished in an oppressively rigid, judgmental adult world. We champion both the misfits and the children within ourselves 🥳
I like your explanation. Why _is_ everyone expected to become stuffy and on-edge?
Yesssss!!!❤
My co-worker called me Whimsical. I was confused by her comment so i started researching personality types and taking tests. ENFP. Love finding these videos that help me understand why i think and feel the way I do. I do have a child-like spirit that hasnt been jaded by the evil world. Im everyones biggest cheerleader until i isolate from an over-load of emotions.
@@pelosishammer50 I'm with you 💯percent🎉!
@@fowchiiiliedpuppiesdied thank you, I love this explanation. To return the favour, INFJs have always been my greatest inspirations and the ones who can not only see the same depth I see, but also put the important parts into words. Delenn from Babylon 5 was my first guiding light as a teen; Beau of the 5th Column is currently giving me hope for the world; and my greatest inspiration in life is my mother who is an xNFJ.
I was watching Frank James video of types interacting with their shadow types. Most of them were at odds with each other, but the ENFP and INFJ formed a natural team without even having to talk about it, making me grin.
I have a friend and a co-worker who I think is an enfp. I could say, most of this words truly fit her. She's bubbly and fun. And as an introvert, she's one of the select people I'd love having around. We have lots of deep talks and meaningful conversations that I love. To me she's like the sun, but she once told me that sometimes, she's like a moon too. There are times when she's in the dark and not always that she's complete. She's one of the few people whose friendship I'd treasure for life even if in the future we'll make our separate paths.
As an ENFP, my dream tattoo has always been a sun and a moon that intercept. This is how id describe myself too!
@@SesnoOjukwu Sun/moon kind of reminds me of ying and yang as well. I have always wanted a yin and yang koi fish tattoo. You should totally get the sun moon tat!
I've always wanted to be known as a swashbuckler. Thank you.
I didn't even know what that word was until this video 😂
Now we just need the outfits!
Bittersweet - I've always struggled with this and it's been a source of anxiety for me. Never in any moment have I truly felt singularly happy or sad. Even in most of my happiest moments , I've been haunted with cynicism. And even in some of the most painful times, I've found myself smiling , even laughing at the irony. And it's terrified me to think that I can't truly be completely happy or sad. Logically speaking, it is an advantageous trait, but it still bothered me. Now I know I was never the only one.💚💚💚
Intimidating is one I get, “intimidating but kind” was said to me recently. I wasn’t sure how to take it but I don’t mind tbh. think it’s that childlike directness coupled with being rebellious and quickly reading links in ideas and people which people aren’t used to seeing so they’re intimidated by it.
I’d be mortified if someone was genuinely scared of me however that is never what I’m putting out there. I’m nice! 😂❤
I think we’re also intimidating by being unpredictable even to ourselves. Not to mention the fact that other types regularly underestimate us. Matured ENFPs can create drastic changes at a fast rate which also scares people who don’t like change and prefer structure. We may take the whole ‘New Year New Me’ game seriously since we learn and move so fast making us unrecognizable to people we used to know
I think the simple fact that we're extroverts is enough to begin having people be intimidated by us albeit unintentionally. I know myself I talk loud and I talk fast and I move fast. People who are more introverted or reserved or prefer to move at a steadier pace find that a bit unnerving. Also, I don't mind it when children find me intimidating because it's always during a time of discipline when a firm word or direction is necessary. I always tell the kids I'm in charge of "I could be your best friend or your worst nightmare how you behave determines what you get." Finally come as champions for the misfits and the disadvantaged. I think if you put us in a corner where someone we love is being mistreated we won't be intimidating we'll be downright scary! I rarely get to that point anymore but when I do don't mess with me just give me what I want and everything will be nice again.
As an ENFP, I can’t believe my luck for finding this channel! It’s so validating and induces lots of joy! Thank you!
My sister ❤️ She’s hilarious and chaotic and loving and creative. She’s beautiful and great with people but remains humble at the same time. ENFPs are so cool!
my ENFP describing words -
inbetwener
wagabond
little hero
your pet Dachshund?!
@@user-uh5tb9er4o i dont understand?
@@piotrlatuszek171 so sorry! i thought it was a poem/riddle you had written! and i was guessing the answer... i had a pet Dachschund and these words would suit him perfectly!
@@user-uh5tb9er4o i thought so it is some strange miscomunication so i made myself more clear... also it shows how much you loved your dog ^___^
The second he said “platypus” I was like “yup that’s me how did he know my spirit animal” -enfp
And we control people from underneath the table... so they can jam and be appreciated by the people around them.
I like elephants
"Shine On You Crazy Diamond"
It's funny you said that. I used a tag line for my web design company that was " Shine online you crazy diamond"
Im an ENFP who just want to Light up everyone 🔥..however most people come at me with firehoses and helmets 😂😂😢
Bruh... you know DA STRUGGLE 🥺💯 worst part is I used to come at MYSELF with hoses once I saw others not go ⚡"super saiyan"☄️ with energy along with me. 😔🤷🏾♀️ Getting better at smiling boldly and without backing down though! 👌🏾
Yes. They just don't get the picture 🥲
@@katttttt do not change but let others not be changed too
Feeeeel you!!!
Might I suggest 🪔 help them find where to touch that won't burn their fingers, a connection point.
Gotta keep that Light lit. Folks tend to fear what appears beyond control.
I feel like bittersweet is a unique point and I would love to hear more about it. The depths of beauty and profound sadness can sometimes look the same and it’s a very difficult dichotomy to have to experience and embrace. It’s not a choice at all just an observation that takes time to learn how to manage rather then develop a bleeding heart. Such hard work. Anyhow, thank you for another great video.
KALEIDOSCOPIC OH MY GOD.
This is such a nice concept! I can’t wait for the ISFJ video if you’re doing this for each personality
This is one of the best ENFP videos ever The iconoclastic point is not something that's often talked about in some of these videos love it
yeah was thinking the same lately man...
Our eloquence appreciates yours. Really, job well-done Nathan. Your words are music to my ears!
Heavily related to the part about pouring your soul into your creations. I’m an artist who does exactly that with my works and if I don’t feel a personal attachment to something I’m creating I drop the project and start a new one… yes I have many unfinished works 😂 oh well it’s part of the learning process. If my soul isn’t in the piece I don’t want it.
I love using the words paradoxical, intense, scatterplot, colorful, jumbled, anonymous, open hearted, flirty, random, and psychedelic to describe my ENFP brain. I strongly feel that many couldn’t handle peering into my jumbled scatterplot of a thoughts.
Add occult to the list.
I made a comment with some of my favorite words too!
I think my favorite word is perspective. Not necessarily as a word itself, but because I think it resolves pretty much every conflict.
I also like virtue, sphere, elephant, raccoon, and yinyang. Yes im kind of preachy lol. I guess it's a Te grip or something like that
Oh and I really like your words too btw.
As an ENFP, this feels a little like reading the Horoscope, part of me wants to go ''yeah bro thats literally me'' but all of these words are just compliments that everyone probably feels represented by
I like how ENFPs make up new words and use slang words that has either been out of use for quite some time, or reinvented.... the wit is what draws me to them. They are such fun people.
Totally agree with this! Their inventiveness with language is appealing ~ Nathan
Learner, Empathetic, from the island of misfit toys, Activating, likes to connect in short conversations such as in line, Connectedness. Likes to strike up conversations anywhere.
True!
brilliant!
My sister is ENFP and this is amazing!
Love ENFPs, I recently met one very nice and the convo and energy was awesome as per usual. They're just amazing and everything you said is true.
Kaleidoscopic
More otter than platypus, otherwise spot on.
This video lit my heart on fire, and soared a fleet of hot air balloons of my flights of fancy at the hope of being seen, square into their center target, skyward.
this was such a fun format!! thank you, spot on and was just the pep talk i needed this morning :) make it a great day, yall!!
OMG you use these as pep talks too?! *phew* not nearly as alone as I thought! 🎉😁 I hope you have a blessed day, character cousin! (assuming you're an ENFP or similar to one too)
@@reflectwithrenee hope your day is fun and fabulous, my dear character cousin! :) :)
This is excellent - well done!
Thank you… ur videos help me accept myself because you frame my personality in such a lovely, whimsical, positive way. I really appreciate that
ENFP here! Yes to all of these! But we're also...uplifting, melancholy, wide-eyed, creative, bubbly, moody, wacky, starry-eyed, inclusive, daring, audacious, sanguine, wanderlust-driven, sensuous, and passionate!
can see how some of these words can be used for infps too, but a more muted version
DUENDE ! The word u used to describe ENFP in a previous video. I love this word soooooo much . Loved the video, would have liked some negative aspects /words too, or are we just THAT GOOD ! 😋
bro my favorite word to describe myself has been "idiosyncratic" my whole life - enfp
My favourite word too!!!
Conduits for creativity and a catalysts for change, that's good, I'm going to use that ;) ENFP here, felt lots of synchronicity during this video.
I'm impressed at how amazing this was for lots of reasons. Thx for making it!
LOVe your work....LOVE being an ENFP .....I feel all "swivety" inside!
Spot on
"More stuff will happen"
Great concept can't wait for more!
One of your best! Keep up the great work!
You just won my heart with these words. I love words especially fascinating and aesthetic sounding ones lol ❤❤❤❤
The F in ENFP basically means that a person is selfish. Not necessarily in a bad way, but they thrive on feeling good, and are (from the perspective of others) wholly incapable of tolerating negative emotions. This makes them seek out things that gives them positive vibes, and avoid negativity like the plague. (That’s why they’re “childlike.”) But, because they’re also extroverted (and not greedy or materialistic), the things that give them good feelings are almost always other people - shared experiences, social life, and happy gatherings. This mutes their innate selfishness, and makes them fun to be around. In short, ENFPs are indispensable at weddings, and useless at funerals.
There's a catharsis in sharing energy with someone who's grieving. To uplift and inspire in someone's hour of need. Interesting way of thinking of it though, definitely feeds the desire to find meaning and purpose, connection, fulfillment.
Thanx for the pep talk this morning! I appreciate it
! literally wrote the same response make it a good one today1!
Bittersweet - Optimistic and cynical
I heavily relate to all of these words, I especially love the novel ones you really put effort into this :)
Such a cool idea for a video series :3 PLEASE consider making some more of these for other types as well :D
watching again, so accurate, thank you!
Great list!! I concur with all!
DANG, it's in your username?!?! Are you one of our personality type ambassadors?! How do you sign up?! 😂
I would love this for all the types especially infp and isfp
Do ISFP's like ENFP's?
Butter me up for that subscription why don’tcha
Controlled chaos is my favorite
I'm an ENFP and I agree with all these words but especially recently I feel strongly with catalysts because I've taken up this supporter role in my friendships lately where I am the number one person to go to when they have ideas or want to do something. I can encourage people and give them advice because my knowledge is broad. Not necessarily deep but very broad.
Getting to know my personality better 😅
I’ll send you a kill list if you go down that dark path ~ Nathan
Just awesome !
Ty great video
This is great!
Aw, thank you, I'm an ENFP and this warmed my cynical little heart. ☺
So spot on!
why do i found this relatable even tho i identity as an entp
Huh... There you go again Nathan, inflating my self image! And you're so good at, too! Stop it, will you, please... Please...
These emojis tho 😂😂😂
Just watched one of my favorite movies, ‘Auntie Mame’ and I think she fits this bill.
Colour and chaos.
Meraki, love it!
I really appreciated the bittersweet part - I've been becoming more cynical and not feeling alright about it in one way but knowing it's based on reality in another and feeling confused.
Catalyst is one of my favorite words. It's about leverage.
I also like:
Perspective
Virtue
Sphere
Didactic was cool too. And iconoclast. Very cool :) Not the meat metaphor though.
Swivet - that is about the "comfort zone" saying that some ppl love. I've always hated that saying because what about when you are comfortable with trying new things? Ppl will still try to push others to feel uncomfortable, rather than embrace new things themselves.
And meraki. That was a new word for me. Thanks for the new word.
Edit: oh yeah, kindness is divinity. That is my mantra lately
That's a really good mantra. I agree with it's message
THIS IS MY NEE FAVORITE VIDEO EVER
The reason ENFPs are child-like, is because we choose to embrace those parts of ourselves. Those parts of ourselves that were there since the beginning, those parts that the world is constantly trying to kill. Without dreams of childhood, painful as they may be to bear, the world is locked into a stasis.
I feel seen👍💕😀
Doesn't it feel SO GOOD?!?! And reading like-minded comments from your "character cousins" is the icing on the cake for me.
@@reflectwithrenee it's gorgeous! We are a bunch of weirdos, ready to paint the town red🙃😂💕
Need to start charting I guess
Man, i thought i was an INFP, but after this, i think i might be wrong
In 4 words: Mr.Bean who cares.
Enfp is like my best friend type
Sincerely, an intp
"moree stuff will happen...." Haha I love that. And all the other words too!
I’m an INFP who has always wondered why I would be perfectly matched to ENFP. Now I know why. This glimpse to an ENFP in 20 words has me absolutely fascinated 🥰💖🤭 I can’t wait to end up with one!
I'm crying and laughing at the same time.
Bittersweet - I hate this word. Honestly, I think bitter just works, in most contexts. People say "oh it's bitter sweet" and then they just list the negatives. No, that's just bitter. Lol.
Also, thank you for mentioning that we are not just optimists. I describe myself as a realist, and that includes the good as well as the bad. Pessimists tend to co-opt the word realism but that's just a lie. Because they're ignoring the good. (But I think it's because they are trying to feel guarded and secure, and when you are under attack, you don't want to show your vulnerabilities.)
But yeah I get accused of being naive, optimist, idealist, etc, and it's usually an insult from lesser life forms
16 Personality types and levels of contentment in life
I'm a current ENFP who's now 28 years old (and former ENFJ, from ages 18-21) who is married to a 30-year-old INFJ man for a few years (and dated while I was an ENFJ)... and I gotta say... WOW. I caught myself blushing as I reminisced about how he told me that I represent various words in this list (while the remainder of the list God told me Himself through self-discovery and maturity).
I thank you for the time and effort you put into this and look forward to the INFJ one so I can see how I already describe or could possibly better describe my husband's perspective/personality traits. 💯👍🏾😁
😊🎉*squeals with excitement* 🤭🥳
Former? What?
That's not how types work. You can't be former anything. Consider ESFJ btw, Fe dom with decent Ne may seem like ENFP.
yeah former what??huh????
You can’t change type 😹😹
@@vixen7774 why shouldn't you be able to? Especially after a life crisis, your personality might be exposed to change.
Swashbuckling ♥️ I feel it's one of the most representative words. In your opinion, which type(s) are the best romantic match for ENFPs?
I've been with a INTP for 12+ years. I bring her out of her shell.
I think ENFP is one of the most open types. I guess it depends in the person though. Im not as compatible with T types because they're less kind and I can't stand that. I think im really only compatible with NF, or maybe SF if they are very open minded. Because i need to feel acknowledged, and Ts always want to ridicule.
With Ti in the seventh slot, I thought the plural for Moose was Meese until I was 27.
*zing* ... I have actually been called- even, at times, accused- of being a catalyst. Literally. As in I was sometimes put in situations for the simple purpose of, by my existence there, creating change without a plan as a workable plan for creating change was not found by the use of logic or psychology. Not even kidding a little bit.
I can do this. Getting rid of my dummy look. Starts now!!! Words story telling, make acquaintances into friends and I don't know how to be a child probably a good thing. My start to an ENFP tipe
They can seem intrusive and childish to some when not healthy.
#20 I turned on captions and am now highly amused!
Brilliant, Creative, Quirky, Deep, Artistic, Sensitive, Playful, Unconventional, Amusing, Insightful, Perplexing, Deviant, Whimsical, Adventurous, Spontaneous, Introspective, Curious, Abstract, Friendly, Nostalgic, Thoughtful, Expressive, Warm-Hearted, Aesthetic, Reflective, Noble
Can you do more ENTJ and ISFP videos?
You know, this is the one .. I was feeling like an ENTP might be me for a while, then see. .. along came something said about ENFP and I was off again, floating free I did ponder, as I did wander If I could be that over yonder or should I stay home and cease to roam instead of through the world carome? Yaye or Naye, thither or yon .. Should I go or just be gone? Could I belong among the throng, known so gleefully as ENFP?
Which is to say, I heard something that made me wonder if I hadn't settled too quickly. Then, I proceeded to iinvestigate every other possibility. I landed on or near, instead of coming straight to here.
Hey Bossman rhink ya could do this for the infj s ?
Actualisational
I love that word too! Actualization. That is one of my mantras.
I used to think I was actualized because of being gay. I thought that coming out of the closet caused me to face myself and realize who I am. But I couldn't understand why im so different from most gay men. Sure im flighty but im not quite so... catty. Im not a group type person either, cuz I like to be different and gay guys can't stand that from me. So I think about actualization a lot.
And now I think it's more because of my personality type. As an NF.
Isfp next plssssssss :')))))
I feel like Nathan would enjoy The Good Place series, anyone with me on that?
His videos and the series are kinda similar in that they explore the same ideas many different ways and despite the plot not really changing its still very interesting
Yo, that's one of my favorite shows of ALL TIME, and barely anyone else I know gave it a chance! Like come on, it's a fever dream of a show, but had so much wisdom, brilliant humor... I can rave about it for quite some time 🤣💯
Probably the best show I’ve seen! I loved the Buddhism references especially since I recently became a Buddhist. But the real question is: Is Michael in hell and the show is just his journey for him to reach Nirvana? You may notice the opening seen starts with him and the very last seen finishes with him ..
My ENFP boyfriend and I loved this series
Aspire
Ebullient
Changeable
Kaleidoscopic
Agile
Swashbuckling
Didactic
Flighty
Eloquent
Idiosyncratic
Champion
Egalitarian
Global
Expressive
Swivet
Meraki
Ideological
Childlike
Bittersweet
Iconoclastic
Catalysts
The answer for the question seventeen are alpha brain waves.
Adults are mostly in beta waves and children mostly in alpha.
My theory is ENFPs have special talent with reaching different brain waves at will.
Read about brain waves if you want, its surprisingly intresting.
I always saw myself as an alpha. I just didn't expect it to be this way.
@@Chigger 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Wow that sounds fascinating. I thought you were mumbo jumbo at first but it sounds like you're actually coming from a scientific perspective