This is also why we keep our personal lives private and tend to maintain a small social circle. The more someone knows about you the easier it is to control you. Besides that, if we decide to “ghost you,” you won’t have much in terms of personal information to go off-of about us.
I’ve always thought I was different, this sigma male thing is spot on! It’s amazing, but I’m not sure if I’ve ever met another sigma male! Most of my friends are alpha or beta types! Can you do a video on two sigmas and what that friendship or interaction would be like?
@@blackhawk6695 I understand what you’re saying. Seeing one and befriending one isn’t the same. I guess I would compare someone to myself in order to identify one. I just feel like there are different degrees of sigma males. Some that show more of the characteristics than others. I’m prior military, most of my friends are alpha male types. Me being a sigma, alphas either like me or they don’t. I think being around alphas brings out more of the sigma male traits since alphas tend to try and control or dominate people around them, which is one reason why alphas sometimes clash with sigmas.
No, you didn't listen it's not about making a point as you claim and attempt to make a strawman argument, it's about people trying to control and steer the sigma in a direction and or to an outcome that a sigma does not want, like and or is not in alignment with their own interest and direction, also it's important to remember sigma's are not 100% identical we are all individuals, also sigma's are not united by principles but by personality traits such as being introverted and introspective so I think you have misunderstood what it means to be a sigma!?
@@z32luvr Walking away isn't always an option hence the sabotage Sigma will not allow others to force them in a direction or to do something they do not want!?
Sometimes "not acting/participating" in a bad situation even when they know things are gonna fall if they don't support is also a thing that sigmas do. Sometimes things need to fall down first to be rebuild again just so the other people know that they were wrong in the first time.
#5 the unblinking stare down while they talk unnerves them. Give a okie dokie with a thumbs up and continue to do what I was doing before. #8 no need to sabotage or complicate anything as it will fall apart on its own or the dumb ass in charge will screw it up, then I can say I told you so or a random sarcastic remark indicating I was right.
I think the general dilemma for Sigmas is that we know we are prone to resisting authority that impinges on our autonomy, so we overcompensate by appearing agreeable until we've aligned our forces for a counterattack or escape. "Normal" people do not understand this behavior because they use non-verbal cues to signal their intent to each other, thereby being able to predictably negotiate a middle ground acceptable to all parties. That is the essence of successful businesspeople. Sigmas have more of a cut-and-dried engineering type method of working with people, which starts out cooperative and remains so as long as other people are fair with us. When we perceived we are wrong, we do not signal non-verbally in subtle ways the way "normal" people do. We get our ducks in a row and either defeat the other person in open confrontation or escape from us. I know this is frustrating to "normal' people who may be trying to work constructively with us, but we don't pick up on their non-verbal cues, nor do we tend to express ourselves directly during confrontations until the pot is boiling over, and then we let loose with all guns at once. I've been lucky to have had some wise bosses who understood this nature and worked constructively to help me mature on the job. The best bosses understand all types of human nature. They take people as they are and work on improving their weak points. For sigmas that means learning that there is a middle ground between agreeable and confrontational.
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This is also why we keep our personal lives private and tend to maintain a small social circle. The more someone knows about you the easier it is to control you. Besides that, if we decide to “ghost you,” you won’t have much in terms of personal information to go off-of about us.
I’ve always thought I was different, this sigma male thing is spot on! It’s amazing, but I’m not sure if I’ve ever met another sigma male! Most of my friends are alpha or beta types! Can you do a video on two sigmas and what that friendship or interaction would be like?
When you see another sigma you will know..
@@blackhawk6695 I understand what you’re saying. Seeing one and befriending one isn’t the same. I guess I would compare someone to myself in order to identify one. I just feel like there are different degrees of sigma males. Some that show more of the characteristics than others. I’m prior military, most of my friends are alpha male types. Me being a sigma, alphas either like me or they don’t. I think being around alphas brings out more of the sigma male traits since alphas tend to try and control or dominate people around them, which is one reason why alphas sometimes clash with sigmas.
Number 8 is off limits for a Sigma. They do not sabotage or complicate things to make a point because it goes against their principles.
No, you didn't listen it's not about making a point as you claim and attempt to make a strawman argument, it's about people trying to control and steer the sigma in a direction and or to an outcome that a sigma does not want, like and or is not in alignment with their own interest and direction, also it's important to remember sigma's are not 100% identical we are all individuals, also sigma's are not united by principles but by personality traits such as being introverted and introspective so I think you have misunderstood what it means to be a sigma!?
Like Howard Roark not so subtly blowing up Cortland Homes in The Fountainhead?
@@dabombdawg3033 and I think you might want to think about the meaning of 100% and also hypocrisy.
A Sigma would just walk away.
@@z32luvr Walking away isn't always an option hence the sabotage Sigma will not allow others to force them in a direction or to do something they do not want!?
Sometimes "not acting/participating" in a bad situation even when they know things are gonna fall if they don't support is also a thing that sigmas do. Sometimes things need to fall down first to be rebuild again just so the other people know that they were wrong in the first time.
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I ghost them
Scary how accurate some of these are!
Very true.
That's it bro
I agree
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I wouldn’t call it sabotage, more like careful manipulation
Personally I would say you got it all but I don't agree with the sabotage part I mean for me that's where honor and integrity come in
#5 the unblinking stare down while they talk unnerves them. Give a okie dokie with a thumbs up and continue to do what I was doing before.
#8 no need to sabotage or complicate anything as it will fall apart on its own or the dumb ass in charge will screw it up, then I can say I told you so or a random sarcastic remark indicating I was right.
100%
Do a video on how you can read my mind and tell me my future I'm dead serious I want to know
no
Good luck with that!
I think the general dilemma for Sigmas is that we know we are prone to resisting authority that impinges on our autonomy, so we overcompensate by appearing agreeable until we've aligned our forces for a counterattack or escape. "Normal" people do not understand this behavior because they use non-verbal cues to signal their intent to each other, thereby being able to predictably negotiate a middle ground acceptable to all parties. That is the essence of successful businesspeople. Sigmas have more of a cut-and-dried engineering type method of working with people, which starts out cooperative and remains so as long as other people are fair with us. When we perceived we are wrong, we do not signal non-verbally in subtle ways the way "normal" people do. We get our ducks in a row and either defeat the other person in open confrontation or escape from us. I know this is frustrating to "normal' people who may be trying to work constructively with us, but we don't pick up on their non-verbal cues, nor do we tend to express ourselves directly during confrontations until the pot is boiling over, and then we let loose with all guns at once. I've been lucky to have had some wise bosses who understood this nature and worked constructively to help me mature on the job. The best bosses understand all types of human nature. They take people as they are and work on improving their weak points. For sigmas that means learning that there is a middle ground between agreeable and confrontational.
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I agree with everything you said thang you very much!!!🫡🎯💯