Why Sigma Males Have Stopped Caring About Being Nice
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- Опубліковано 26 чер 2024
- Why Sigma Males Have Stopped Caring About Being Nice. "It's better to be hated for who you are than to be loved for who you are not," said French author André Gide. In life, there are two types of men: those who strive to make everyone like them and those who focus solely on liking themselves. Typically, it's the latter who end up more fulfilled and respected. The very act of choosing to respect yourself, rather than prioritizing others' needs, naturally garners more respect from those around you. Sigma males epitomize this principle, having abandoned the futile pursuit of being the nice guy. Not to be mistaken for being bad, sigma males are inherently good men, but they refuse to bend over backward to please everyone. This commitment to authenticity and self-respect sets them apart, making them both admirable and enigmatic. In this video, I'll be discussing eight reasons why sigma males have stopped caring about being nice. #sigma #sigmamale #achievegreatness
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If you're curious about why sigma males have stopped cared about being nice to others, then you should definitely watch this video. Maybe you can learn something about how sigma males operate that you didn't know before. Either way, I hope you enjoy the video, let me know in the comments if you agree with the points I made.
Chapters:
00:00 Intro
00:58 Most people act out of their own self-interest.
01:58 They don’t need anything from anyone.
02:59 They are quietly dominant.
03:50 The Narcissistic Allure.
04:51 Action over talking.
05:46 They lack a scarcity mindset.
06:32 Being nice is never enough.
07:35 The fakeness in being nice.
08:29 Conclusion (Like & Subscribe!)
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''I've had enough of bein' nice
I've had enough of right and wrong
I've had enough of tryin' to love my brother
I've had enough of bein' good
And doin' everything like I'm told I should
If you need a lover, you'd better find another
Suspicion takes the place of trust
My love is turning into lust
If you get on the wrong side of me you better run for cover
I've had enough of being trodden on
My passive days are going to be long gone
If you slap one cheek, well, I ain't gonna turn the other''
The Who - Had Enough - 1978
Action over talk is huge in my world
100%.
99.9% talk is trash.
Yes but once you made your move you telegraph it
“ So a man thinks in his heart, so he will become, and what fills the heart so the mouth will overflow”
“ It is our actions that defines us”
They choose people not because they need them , it's because they want to
Absolutely
This video presents a particularly strong set of key points.
The sigma male, through the journey of life, eventually comes to realize that being nice can only bring disrespect. He comes to realize it is better to be honest and never mince words. That's when people realize that he cannot be conned or exploited.
Inclusion of the quote by Winston Churchill, a very wise man who handed Hitler his first major defeat, is especially worthy of note.
People taking advantage of the niceness and not reciprocating it .
Better to be feared and respected...Than liked and popular, just as strong as being weak in this world now. Sigmas have all the positive qualities but quietly and not broadcasting it...But proving through acitons.Peace
People lie with words but they have not learned how to lie with their actions, and they believe words are enough, and with sigmas it is not
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I think generally when we see anybody in true need, say an old lady, we're more than willing to help if we think they genuinely need it, but we're not stopping to help every person seemingly stranded on the highway either, especially if we have little knowledge on fixing cars. As well, we can almost be savage when we see somebody taking advantage of others because they hang their niceness over their heads, or they are expecting profuse praise for it. There's nothing worse than the guy who did a good deed, but then wants reciprocation which demands far more effort than just the small little good deed. IOW, in such a case, the little good deed was nothing less than a trap, and it's probably a core reason why a lot of people don't want help, even when they need it, because they suspect the wanted reciprocation will be costly.
We live in the twisted world where morality and kindness comes back to us as daggers and bullets. I always was a nice guy, I still am a nice guy and I will die a nice guy. I will always be myself. I refuse to believe I am the wrong one here. NO ! World has gone insane. Society values all the wrong things while what's truly precious goes right outside of the window. I am 25 years old, hardworking disciplined, respectful guy who is also social outcast and virgin. I barely have any will to live left in this fake world but I keep pushing through for my family and people I care about. I am ex military and now an active firefighter. In time I will burn beyond control, but before that happens, I will continue to do my best for those I love. Because in truth, me as a person, I am already dead.
They always show love and respect and if they don't receive the same precipitation back, they would treat you for the person you are and not by your words your actions will tell them everything
My goal is to be known as a good man rather than a nice one
Most people are ridiculously ignorant.
Most interesting video. I would agree with most of your points.
Never said I was nice in the first place.
Super kindness also masks ulterior motives...
Indeed. “ Flattery” 💯
I'm still nice but not to nice. That's the difference.
There is nothing wrong with not being too nice. However, most men go to the opposite extreme, and just become toxic a-holes, which only the toxic weak and damaged women find attractive. And who the hell wants a toxic woman?!
I disagree. When your traveling your own path it's a good idea to make alies. And what simpler way to make alies than just being kind. Being nice takes a lot less energy than not. Living is hard enough as it is and foongbyour own way is 10x harder. You have to come up with unique solutions andbthat takes time and energy. Energy that can be utilized in more productive areas, instead of being consumed by stress, anger, and other wasted emotions. I'm more productive stress free.
choose people who choose you
Fakeness being nice did not hit the bullseye
Especially loved the last important point about why people are faking being kind and nice. What a great articulation of the hard truths that most people are oblivious to. Your videos continue to organize my scattered intuitive knowledge into neat chapters of a book. Very rewarding and comforting as I even gain some new insights and famous quotes to embrace.
Yes, a Sigma coming into himself..this is what I like to see. It's wonder to be a wonder to yourself isn't it? Discovering you're a Sigma is better than winning the lottery jackpot if ya ask me...if not better...well..it's certainly close to it!!
Yes, I agree...
Very, very very good video !!!
Great ty 👍
Nailed it👍👍👍😃
Exceptional !
You are amazing brother!!!!🎯🫡🔥💯
A Sigma is the 8th Wonder of the World.
Each Sigma is a One of one off of the assembly line of Life.
Discovering one is a Sigma is like winning the lottery jackpot.
Having Enemies is way better than being fake surrounded by fake freinds.
F that...Im a KILLAH Sigma in Rare Form bretheren.
Amazing ❤
For this video i would give a qoute from Chameleon the shapeshifter of kung fu panda 4:
1 Never trust anyone
2 someone always gets hurt
3 no one is interested your feelings.
If you’re not a genuine person, you’re not worth my time. I’m not saying my time is more valuable than yours, but my time is worth more than false pretenses.
Agreed!
Howdy.
My answer to the header question.
Getting tired of derailment of dscussion and gaslighting.
Regards.
I've watched your videos for years and learned many things. Thank you! But I think I discovered the event that made me a sigma, and I now see where you are wrong and right, at least, for me. I doubt I can explain it in words right now, but I will try. My mother was abusive to my father who was weak because his mother (in 1922) was fucking a PA state policeman, and had my father out of wedlock. She bore him and dropped him off at her parents for 12 years. When she married a good man she came to collect him. He always know he was a bastard. My mother was similarly damaged. At about age 12 she cornered me about something I was very upset about. As in, cornered me in a bathroom and wouldn't let me leave until I told her what was bothering me. Fad psychology, of course. After many minutes of badgering, I finally relented, and told her. She stood up in triumph and pronounced that she had succeeded. I swore "Never again will that c+nt or any other ever get the best of me." You can imagine the results on your own time. THAT is a sigma. And no one has ever gotten the best of me since. But there is a price for such an emotional decision. Actually, several prices. But it is possible to use this to your advantage. There are 100 books that lead me to where I am now, but I'll give you two, and leave you with a clue that will make them both work. The clue first: Intention must be emotionless. Read that sentence 50 times. Willpower is utter bullshit. The books are "The Emotion Code" by Nelson and "Life by Intention" by Zellmer. Neither of these books are genius, they are simple books about technique. Apply emotionless intention to these two books and you can fix your whole bullsh)t life in a few months. The books are not trivial, but they are not Jordan Peterson's "Maps of Meaning". If you are not a useless fool, you will find utility in this. By the way, i read 'Maps of Meaning'. It's badass. After I read it twice. And it's still over my head. :-) The bottom line: Freedom is close at hand, but it's also very hard to see. Those two books + my "emotionless intention" are the most exciting things I've ever seen.
I have a "deep understanding of human psychology" only in that I understand that human psychology is not very deep.
I got in trouble with the wife because I don’t care about my birthday, and she said I have to respect other people’s feelings if they want to celebrate MY birthday.
People should use their own youtube if they want to comment
Child abuse, taking advantage of your kindness, being ignored on job applications. Even if you nursed old women to death, your contribution is denied. It doesn't make you cynical but indifferent.
Hhhhhhhmmmmmmmm for sure reall man
My self-interest is to be liked by my colleagues.
if this is true then i've been sigma since i was 5
Fellow sigmas.. I have been told I am "emotionally unavailable" and I "have traits that could be described as being on the spectrum of an avoidant personality disorder."
whats your take on this
Most of world is not built for us in mind. People interpret us wrongly (or even unable to interpret) and what they provide as diagnostic/solution are not suited for Sigma's. I would favor non directed work where you are in full control of the process. Most of the 'treatments' are for non-Sigmas that hide behind emotions, Simgas don't do this change is not really needed for us, we already have a clearer view of the world (our world) it is very hard for anyone to understand. I would suggest to dig deep into your core values, and sees which one you do not respect, leading to a transgression of your own values. For sigma core personal values are really important, because we do not rely on other.. If we violate our own rules we cannot trust ourself and we already not trusting others due our Sigma traits. I really sees it as being lefty in a world where everything is made for right handed. Find someone who is supportive, that you fully trust. You must stay in control of the diagnostics. I find out going to my own speed is way faster than following others plan especially on topic related to myself. If you follow the 'system' you will be dragged into their world, their problem and their solution which are not necessairly adapted for Simgmas... Their methodology is for people that are unable to take action by themselves .. we are not like that.
CAUSE FJB