I am just now coming to this realization about my wife. As in, today. I was accepted and graduated from a prestigious university's paralegal program in North Carolina. It was a condensed program of 1 year rather than two. We had to pass every segment with a B+. I am no genius, so this was difficult for me but I did it. I spoke with my wife often about many ethical questions dealt with Today she was bickering about a few different things. I told her that she was being unethical and she said "unethical? What do you know about ethics? I said " You mean other than the ethics training from Duke and the semi-annual ethics training I've done twice a year for 8 years at my firm? You truly have 0 idea who I actually am. If it weren't so gross, it might have impressed me to be in a relationship for 12 years and they not know the basics about the other person and what drives them to succeed? That takes skill, a dedication to your craft beyond my ability well done." She was so confused lol.
My ex is a clown ..... Spent years disappearing when i needed him most, and then when he discarded me finally i was good I didn't NEED anything from him, and i was like cool im good here bye, now he's made cause he made himself disposable
It’s all about them the best way to describe a narcissist image your a new car they will drive you about show you off to there friends then they get bored and park you up and get the next model then one day they will come past your way and realise you were the best thing that happened to them and want to get back in change the locks no matter how much they want you back never unlock the abuse again ❤
I’m finally single again! My narc husband moved out a year ago and got an apartment, and then he came back. Well I finally asked him to leave and after having to say it about 20 times, he went back to his apartment. Oh it feels so good to be in my own energy, when he was here I felt so sick from toxic energy, I thought I would collapse from weakness.
Been divorced since August Decided to leave relationship 1 yr ago. I've asked and told her she's not welcome here ever again at least 15 times. Have even had to call Sherrif to make her leave 2 times. Even though she's been rotating 8 to 10 men over the last 4 months .She still thinks she can show her face around me. They have no respect for anyone.
The narcissist understeimated me until i discarded him caught him off gaurd snatch the power grid back now he lives in my neighborhood, and when he sees he makes a seen honk his car horn stops in the middle of the street i have no reaction at all juat keep going where i need to go i wamt nothing to do with devils advocate ever again.
I realised what he was but became trauma bonded to the narcissist so found it hard to leave the relationship but eventually left and am slowly healing and breaking the trauma bond. He took so much from me including parts of myself. He broke me but I didn’t let him destroy me. As you say Joe, I never needed the narcissist in reality he needed me. Glad I’m out of it. Best thing I ever did was walk away.
Yes I just didn’t want to believe this person I’d thought of as a good friend was in fact an emotionally abusive covert narcissist . I spent too long pretending things weren’t happening. Then walked and never looked back. A painful lesson learned. If it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck…..
True! I left 4x over 17 years. Nows hes 82, incontinent and is in general cognitive and physical decline. His need is great and he is facing his fate alone.
This is so true! He completely underestimated me, told me as much, and admitted he wanted to be empathetic like me but couldn’t learn it so he crushed me do to jealousy and the reverse discarded me. All textbook and Joe knows!
Yes he started to punish me financially emotionally mentally but i left not too long after.. 3 months in i sensed something 7 months in i left for good..happy new year to me ❤❤
My narc ex literally told me: “you are smart, but I am smarter” 😅 Funny to hear that from a guy who believes in a bunch of conspiracy theories. A truly intelligent person would never say something like that, especially to his alleged “I’ve never loved anyone like this before” woman
They leverage your reputation with those around you to coerce you to do their will. They'll also wrap themselves in other peoples reputations , if you talk about the abuse, the truth threatens the reputations of those useful idiots they've manipulated to abuse you by proxy. Even if these people believe you , they'll stick to the script to keep from being shamed having to admit that they were conned by a narcopath.
He use to tell me he could get anyone he wanted!so he knew exactly what game he was playing! I Disappeared on him now he’s playing his hoover game smh it gets old after a while
Most of us that have experienced narcissistic abuse has experienced the most painful emotional abuse possible. Most of us heal and go on and find happiness. Narcissists will never find Happiness. They only know how to act happy. These people have no souls and don’t see themselves when they look in the mirror they will all end up alone and bitter. I offered Love respect and loyalty in return. I received disrespect, betrayal beyond comprehension. It’s my personal opinion Demons control these people and require exorcisms. Unfortunately, it’s the most horrific thing you can do to another person that makes them feel better. Imagine a vampire that was starving to death, but didn’t want to kill anyone. Then, finally, as the pain inside became too much that first kill was made and it felt good. Every time they made a kill, it was easier to do and became a lifestyle. They’ve been practising for centuries. How else do you think they got so good at All the evil shit they do, but suck at the simple tasks that simple people do every day. I pray for my wife
They use others & abuse them. Its a dis order of immaturity /arrested development. They are mentally stuck in a childs mind - if u can cut ties its for your sanity and you will do it eventually..with all the knowledge u gain from these videos you will break thru the fog. PEACE.
It just occurred to me this evening. That’s what my ex would always do. She would always have a trip planned to make it look like she was in it for the long-term. We had something to look forward to something that would make me think she wasn’t abusing or not, loving me or maybe living a double life
Good evening ! 🍷🍷 One more perfect video ! 😊. Images of the nature are spectacular, I watched on full screen , enjoyed soooooo much ! Thank you Joe ! 🤗❤
That was a test. They see how giving and easy you have empathy to help. For me it was helping with a speeding ticket and three year's later and ten's of thousands of dollar's and you are supporting them in a dead end relationship. Don't ask me how I know 😂
...and a hearty and well timed...Thank You to you also. I can see some of 'them' ...around me, neighbours...and there definitely appears to be some form of...meltdown going on to each of them. It is not my affair...I unsettle them. But I have noticed...'stuff'. What goes around...DOES...come around, to us all. The internet has really opened this subject up...good! Thanx again Joe...great clip
This video resonates with me! My ex fiancé would tell me that if I didn’t stay with him that I would be losing out. I’ll admit that he did make good money and he had a lot of goals, but he was emotionally abusive. We are not together anymore. I’m not losing out on anything!!!
Thank you Joe love your videos. You channel is my favorite and one of the best. I was wondering if you can do a video about female covert narcissistic abuse. If you are able it would be much appreciated. Thank you again.
Surely in this day and age it’s never been easier for a narcissist with dating apps etc to get endless supply? I think this is why we are seeing a rise in narcissism. In the past they were stuck to finding supply in their small vicinity but in the digital age they can get it anywhere in the world if need be. The phone is a weapon for them. Yes I agree information on narcissism through networks like UA-cam is educating victims but I think today’s world has helped them more.
“What grows in the dark, dies in the light” 🕊
Leave them in the dark because you’re light:)
👍I LOVE THIS! 👏👏👏💯🎯🎯🎯❤️
Yes!
Sound like moulds.
Your a genius explaining the Narcissist personality disorder 😊
They dont realize people catch on and will leave! So dumb narcs.
They underestimate you because they don´t know you... They don´t care to really get to know you. It is sad but not your problem.
The one I was getting to know literally told me I underestimated you yoooh😂😂😂😂
I am just now coming to this realization about my wife. As in, today.
I was accepted and graduated from a prestigious university's paralegal program in North Carolina. It was a condensed program of 1 year rather than two. We had to pass every segment with a B+. I am no genius, so this was difficult for me but I did it. I spoke with my wife often about many ethical questions dealt with
Today she was bickering about a few different things. I told her that she was being unethical and she said "unethical? What do you know about ethics?
I said " You mean other than the ethics training from Duke and the semi-annual ethics training I've done twice a year for 8 years at my firm? You truly have 0 idea who I actually am. If it weren't so gross, it might have impressed me to be in a relationship for 12 years and they not know the basics about the other person and what drives them to succeed? That takes skill, a dedication to your craft beyond my ability well done."
She was so confused lol.
You should never need someone you should want to be with someone.
Told my ex narc not to underestimate me. He found out the hard way.😂
They over estimate themselves
My ex is a clown ..... Spent years disappearing when i needed him most, and then when he discarded me finally i was good I didn't NEED anything from him, and i was like cool im good here bye, now he's made cause he made himself disposable
They are great story tellers 😂
It’s all about them the best way to describe a narcissist image your a new car they will drive you about show you off to there friends then they get bored and park you up and get the next model then one day they will come past your way and realise you were the best thing that happened to them and want to get back in change the locks no matter how much they want you back never unlock the abuse again ❤
I’m finally single again! My narc husband moved out a year ago and got an apartment, and then he came back. Well I finally asked him to leave and after having to say it about 20 times, he went back to his apartment. Oh it feels so good to be in my own energy, when he was here I felt so sick from toxic energy, I thought I would collapse from weakness.
Good job👍🏾
Been divorced since August
Decided to leave relationship 1 yr ago.
I've asked and told her she's not welcome here ever again at least 15 times.
Have even had to call Sherrif to make her leave 2 times. Even though she's been rotating 8 to 10 men over the last 4 months .She still thinks she can show her face around me.
They have no respect for anyone.
@@Rob5215life Oh I understand, it’s crazy when you have to say the same thing so many times. Good for you on the divorce. That’s a major milestone.
@tinalight7106 life has been real easy going and peaceful.
The toxicity is merely a foggy memory now. .
This knowledge is the most valuable
@@Rob5215life Agreed. This last week has been very peaceful as well.
The narcissist understeimated me until i discarded him caught him off gaurd snatch the power grid back now he lives in my neighborhood, and when he sees he makes a seen honk his car horn stops in the middle of the street i have no reaction at all juat keep going where i need to go i wamt nothing to do with devils advocate ever again.
I realised what he was but became trauma bonded to the narcissist so found it hard to leave the relationship but eventually left and am slowly healing and breaking the trauma bond. He took so much from me including parts of myself. He broke me but I didn’t let him destroy me. As you say Joe, I never needed the narcissist in reality he needed me. Glad I’m out of it. Best thing I ever did was walk away.
Yes I just didn’t want to believe this person I’d thought of as a good friend was in fact an emotionally abusive covert narcissist . I spent too long pretending things weren’t happening.
Then walked and never looked back. A painful lesson learned. If it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck…..
@@fainitesbarley2245absolutely true we won’t be fooled again.
True! I left 4x over 17 years. Nows hes 82, incontinent and is in general cognitive and physical decline. His need is great and he is facing his fate alone.
This is so true! He completely underestimated me, told me as much, and admitted he wanted to be empathetic like me but couldn’t learn it so he crushed me do to jealousy and the reverse discarded me. All textbook and Joe knows!
Yup. That's what happened to me. He needed me. But, devalued me so I left abruptly.
Yes he started to punish me financially emotionally mentally but i left not too long after.. 3 months in i sensed something 7 months in i left for good..happy new year to me ❤❤
My narc ex literally told me: “you are smart, but I am smarter” 😅 Funny to hear that from a guy who believes in a bunch of conspiracy theories. A truly intelligent person would never say something like that, especially to his alleged “I’ve never loved anyone like this before” woman
😂
😊😂 They're idiots.
1 Corinthians 8:2, KJV
And if any man think that he knoweth any thing, he knoweth nothing yet as he ought to know.
They leverage your reputation with those around you to coerce you to do their will. They'll also wrap themselves in other peoples reputations , if you talk about the abuse, the truth threatens the reputations of those useful idiots they've manipulated to abuse you by proxy. Even if these people believe you , they'll stick to the script to keep from being shamed having to admit that they were conned by a narcopath.
100%
Exactly my situation!
Narcs are legends in their own mind unfortunately for them. .
He use to tell me he could get anyone he wanted!so he knew exactly what game he was playing! I Disappeared on him now he’s playing his hoover game smh it gets old after a while
Most of us that have experienced narcissistic abuse has experienced the most painful emotional abuse possible. Most of us heal and go on and find happiness. Narcissists will never find Happiness. They only know how to act happy. These people have no souls and don’t see themselves when they look in the mirror they will all end up alone and bitter. I offered Love respect and loyalty in return. I received disrespect, betrayal beyond comprehension. It’s my personal opinion Demons control these people and require exorcisms. Unfortunately, it’s the most horrific thing you can do to another person that makes them feel better. Imagine a vampire that was starving to death, but didn’t want to kill anyone. Then, finally, as the pain inside became too much that first kill was made and it felt good. Every time they made a kill, it was easier to do and became a lifestyle. They’ve been practising for centuries. How else do you think they got so good at All the evil shit they do, but suck at the simple tasks that simple people do every day. I pray for my wife
Wow... incredible comment.
Boom. God bless
They use others & abuse them. Its a dis order of immaturity /arrested development. They are mentally stuck in a childs mind - if u can cut ties its for your sanity and you will do it eventually..with all the knowledge u gain from these videos you will break thru the fog. PEACE.
The slaver needs the slave more than the slave needs the slaver.
At 5:13 - the shot of the woman staring at you and blinking deeply is DEEP 😮
Never again! I was needy I guess just didn’t know how low I stooped with her. Wow. What a huge mistake. I did finally wake up and took off.
Another inspiring video Joe! Spot on!
It just occurred to me this evening. That’s what my ex would always do. She would always have a trip planned to make it look like she was in it for the long-term. We had something to look forward to something that would make me think she wasn’t abusing or not, loving me or maybe living a double life
Hey Joe. Just to thank you so much for your videos they really have been helpful. Keep up your great content 🙂
Good evening ! 🍷🍷 One more perfect video ! 😊. Images of the nature are spectacular, I watched on full screen , enjoyed soooooo much ! Thank you Joe ! 🤗❤
Your videos are excellent.
Thank You for your compassion and time spent.
💜💜💜
Had to block a hot chick after she asked for 50 bucks...broke asz
Good shout, gotta be careful with those
That was a test. They see how giving and easy you have empathy to help. For me it was helping with a speeding ticket and three year's later and ten's of thousands of dollar's and you are supporting them in a dead end relationship. Don't ask me how I know 😂
Hahaha I did the same thing
@@Delbzy crying a river of tears 😭 needing help 🤣
...and a hearty and well timed...Thank You to you also. I can see some of 'them' ...around me, neighbours...and there definitely appears to be some form of...meltdown going on to each of them. It is not my affair...I unsettle them. But I have noticed...'stuff'. What goes around...DOES...come around, to us all. The internet has really opened this subject up...good! Thanx again Joe...great clip
They underestimated GOD Almighty himself. FOOLS AND LIARS!
This video resonates with me! My ex fiancé would tell me that if I didn’t stay with him that I would be losing out. I’ll admit that he did make good money and he had a lot of goals, but he was emotionally abusive. We are not together anymore. I’m not losing out on anything!!!
That felt good. Thanks 🐝
Thank you ❤
Thank you Joe love your videos. You channel is my favorite and one of the best. I was wondering if you can do a video about female covert narcissistic abuse. If you are able it would be much appreciated. Thank you again.
I feel my husband’s ex was one of
4 years
Man... I feel their pain, and i cry for them. But i also stay away from them.
Very good!!!!
Wow! from minute 7:30 on!! Right on!
Surely in this day and age it’s never been easier for a narcissist with dating apps etc to get endless supply? I think this is why we are seeing a rise in narcissism. In the past they were stuck to finding supply in their small vicinity but in the digital age they can get it anywhere in the world if need be. The phone is a weapon for them. Yes I agree information on narcissism through networks like UA-cam is educating victims but I think today’s world has helped them more.
Perhaps I've missed it. Would you please talk about the theory of "supply" -- negative and positive. What does this supply do for the N?
So my ex took but she also gave love so dearly for 7yrs.
Good voise too go too Sleep too
🙏👌👍🧐🙏🙄🙏🤠!