I'm officially back. Going into the 30 day challenge in January, I was already dealing with months of health issues. Felt terrible throughout the whole challenge but pushed through and completed it. Funny enough, literally the day after I uploaded the final video and completed the challenge I got salmonella 😂 Was on and off dealing with health issues ever since. Also crypto absolutely exploded and I had some big wins in that department so was having fun taking time off from UA-cam. If you care about money right now, you should at the very least be paying attention to crypto right now. If you missed me while I was gone, you should follow me on IG as I was active there the whole time I was gone here. Excited to be back and already have a bunch of new videos filmed and ready to go. Anyways, let me know what you think of this style of video - definitely different than what I've done before. See you guys again very soon. - Benjamin
Honestly super impressed you stuck through because you believed enough that every man can cold approach when you felt like shit. Would never have guessed you felt awful. But hey man…. This was an excellent video and I am trying my best to hook my single friends on to this, because I found the woman of my dreams and they certainly can too!
it’s not easy when you are alone and spot someone attractive. it’s a lot more easy when you are with someone who has experience, being recorded and mic’d up 🎤. A lot of the anxiety goes away when it’s recorded.
Balls of steel...he approached more women in one day than I've approached in my life. That being said, the interactions were awkward and uncomfortable and a little hard to watch. Props for the effort and putting yourself out there.
Sonjay is the type of guy we all want to be! Get back up from rejection and go forward for the next. The majority of guys would block themselves after the first one.
I watched your videos a lot in my high school days when you were still “based Zeus.” You helped me tremendously with approaches and just learning basic social skills, I can say I’m happily engaged because of the lessons you taught my younger self. I’ve even helped a few friends out with approaching girls, or just being social. You’re a hero that doesn’t wear a cape
Sanjay, try not to apologize you come with complements and kind energy with the intent to make their day, not asking for direction! Great job on that last one and for grinding 👏👏👏
Someone should be coaching women on how to communicate with men, if ur not interested in him, don't destroy his confidence for the next woman he approaches. If women think it's so easy to approach and risk rejection, then why don't they do it.!
It's the whole masculine feminine thing, where the masculine is the take charge person and the feminine is the submissive person. Personally I like it when a girl makes the 1st move. Honestly most of the women I've been with have approached me over the years (45).
The last woman was interested in him and she was more mature with social interaction and she is studying that in college. All women can benefit from this college class.👏
Finally you made a video 😭 after 4 months please continue this series. And take care of your health if you get sick again then we are not able to access these qualities and valueable videos on UA-cam
Looks primarily>>>>>> for approaching like that But if you avg looks Try on your workplace, gym, any group, mutual friends and slowly slowly natural build connection, Their will be high chances But you can try on stranger Worst will be she say no 😅 But may be 10 out of 1 girl you build your connection
65 y/o and this what has always worked for me: 1. Look for a reason to approach (I like your shoes, you seem like you need "x", can I sit with you, this is the best seat in the area! ). 2. Would it be out of the question if you can answer a question? 3. I think you can have a great day / smile if only you gave me your "'x''.
The best advice is to be yourself and have good self esteem of who you are already and that’s regardless if you’re a guy or a lady, Be yourself of who are and you will have that special someone come across just an opposite of you.
Listen, what I’ve experienced in these months while having cold interactions with women is that with those who have an average physique or aren’t as attractive, I have about a 30% ‘success rate’ for getting their Instagram or social media. But the more beautiful and attractive the girl is, it’s strange, but I have a higher percentage of ‘success.’ I’ve thought that maybe it’s because the prettier she is, the fewer men will approach her with confidence and ‘a pair of balls
This is true. Not many men have the courage to approach very attractive women, so fewer men approach them. This makes it easier for you to stand out by approaching them, which they often appreciate.
he's got the right idea, but the self doubt shines brighter than any smile - he's practicing, that's good 👍 just remember, if you're willing to walk away, she's gonna get defensive and want more attention - sometimes less is more
I'm pretty much the same, a 32 year old software engineer with zero girlfriend relationships in his life. Having been rejected literally hundreds of times from girls for several years now, honestly for me approaching a girl expecting a successfull outcome seems like jumping into the sea expecting to remain dry. This video is great and really touching and helpful to me, i gives me courage.
I have seen many cold approch tutorials but this one is legit the best one on UA-cam. Sanjay is a brilliant student and you are guiding and correcting him on his week points very accurately 👑
You can even see 8 minutes into the video when both you guys are talking, how closed stance, shoulders forward, feet together, he is compared to your open stance, shoulders back, chest out, feet apart. An open stance reflexes confidence and boldness. A closed stands signals weakness. I've noticed bold man never lean into women to speak. They stand/sit upright and let the women lean into them to listen... food for thought :) It's not about being rude to the woman, its about sending the massage that you are an important person and what you have to say is important so you are not going to bend over backwards to get someone to listen to what you have to say. If she doesn't want to listen to you, that's ok she probably isn't going to be a good match for you anyway.
Speaking from diaphragm comes from a place of being grounded, secure and confident. It’s not something you can tell someone to do and they just do it. They have to feel secure within themselves, which means working on overcoming their fears, insecurities and inadequacies.
I would like to see more videos like. I think it teaches men how to actually approach, what to say, what not to say and overall make the conversation more natural.
Supermarket approach… “Hi… I haven’t made any dish with zucchini… do you have a fav zucchini recipe?” Or grab something and say a bit loudly “what the heck is this!? Do you know what this is and what dish can be made with it?” It really is so easy to approach PEOPLE…. Just act normal… say things that if some stranger approached you, you wouldn’t feel it’s weird.
Gentlemen…. Real talk…. I teared up watching this one as I realized how much I resonate with him and the inferiority mindset. Sooo real and never realized where it stemmed from as I wasn’t always this way. Only recently. So glad I came across this vid and deserves a sub❤
"I used to work with a woman who didn't have much of a personality and I believe might of suffered from social anxiety, didn't do well in social situations She never had a problem getting boyfriends since she was cute/attractive, despite her "social awkwardness". Cases like that make me angry and pissed off because its a reminder that the reverse is normally not true, guys, men, who are described that way, will normally have a difficult time getting girlfriends, attracting women.
Great video, also interesting to see how other people do. Not an expert, but personally I don't think there's any point in exchanging names so early in the interaction. Better focus on more engaging stuff. Most people forget names super easily anyway. Also ending sentences with "or..." shows a lot of uncertainty/low confidence.
And this is why cold approaches are better suited for extroverts. But yeah appreciate the video. That's a guy I would say is a pure introvert. All the other UA-camr who claim to be introverts is dubious.
Cold approaches are best suited for 6'4 muscular white Gigachads. It doesn't matter what your personality is, women nowadays only want the top 1% men. It's brutal, but it's true, 63% of men in the US are single for a reason and I can guarantee you that it's not because of their personality, and that number is only gonna get higher.
@@dusanstojsin4938Cold approaching is an utter waste of time today, and especially when done in this manner it's absolutely useless unless you are a GigaChad, because only a GigaChad is high value by default, therefore being the giver in the transaction. In every other case, you are no different than a street beggar asking for change. In the original mystery method, you don't even approach the target directly. In fact, you don't even give the idea that you are approaching them for the sake of getting to know them; everything is done obliquely where you build status around the target and get them to chase you instead.
@@dusanstojsin4938 If you are an ugly, poor man, will any of this work? I have some doubts. You can be good and know how to do things, but if she doesn't like you aesthetically and you have a menial job, you won't get far with women.
Wow! This guy makes sense in what he says. I am glad that the host is picking up all these things. Learning game does not get you a Woman in the very beginning, but with time [his]skills will grow and then he will meet a good woman who can like his chemistry. 2024, USA
I would say most guys need a guide on what to do on the actual date. As a 40+ y.o. virgin with 5-10 dates under his belt, I have had limited success getting the number, but it all falls apart on the actual date. Horribly awkward, never know what to say or how to keep a conversation flowing, yet I can chat, joke, and banter for hours with my male friends or even female friends where there is zero mutual sexual interest. Sometimes I think MGTOW is the way forward. I am so far behind the normal dating norms, and I was raised as a traditional, monogamous guy. Lost 80lb over the past year, and I'm trying to make up for lost time.
Don't try to make up for "lost time". As you try that, more time goes out of the window. Find something you really enjoy. I thought for 15 years that I needed a gf to be happy. Now in my 30s I'm finally cured. I realized I don't need a woman, love is fake, it's all a social construct, status symbols, and so on. Only I can make myself happy. NOBODY can do it for me.
*Go frequent dates my friend* ,after a bunch of bad dates (let's say 10-15 dates) you will be an expert in dating,just observe the girls what they are saying,they will the one to teach you, Remember my friend no one was born expert but you surely can be a master *in any field* ,you are not god that you will not fail,Even jesus failed in his lifetime(ofcourse not failed in dating....but I hope you understand what I am saying). And Yes,if you wanna know my dating life then.....I was in that school as well as college where girls outnumbered boys,so....I was more comfortable in front of girls than boys......If you didn't got that privilege then you have to work *little* hard than me,but surely you can
Believe me. Most Indian guys aren't very social/ comfortable to get the limelight. Mostly they are introvert or think about the surrounding situation alot. Sanjay did well. Kudos.
Zeus AND Eminem back! This is crazy! What type of crypto to get into Zeus, tell us more! Bitcoin is in that 68-70K range but yeah if you got in earlier in the year back when it was 20, that would have been good for you glad to hear it man!
Benjamin you need to meet the people who payed your program like this dude so they can get more results. Because when you are there you can see and tell them the mistakes they are making. Plus when you are there they have this support feeling like a big brother, so they get brutally rejected you encourage them and give them hope
1, He is chasing moving Targets. He is chasing her. Low Value. 2. Complimenting her in the beginning shows she is more important than you. Low Value. 3. Sonjay never learned anything. Always start conversation by noticing something new, curiosity is the best conversation starter. No Directness, be Indirect.
Absolute banger of a video! Loved how you broke everything down. I saw a lot of myself in Sonjay. I am also 31 and have never had a long term relationship. This inspired me to get my physique in order + do more cold approaches.
The l have a boyfriend response is what traumatized me to the point of NEVER talking to woman again. It just kept happening over and over drove me NUTS
looks like the one that he finally 'got it right' is more of a chemistry thing, it looked to me that she was in the mood and he was also very much relaxed in her presence but it could also be after all other awkward interactions this felt like chillaxing
Also he approached her multiple times by accident so she was familiar with him. This verifies the hoe_math theory of familiarity. The more familiar a woman is with you the more attractive you become to her.
Great job. Two things that helped me also 1) Start off short conversations with no intention of getting numbers so there is less pressure on you so that you can focus more on your tonality rather than making conversation. 2) open the conversation with some random question like "Is that dog yours?" or "What book are you reading". Its a lot less awkward for both of you than commenting on appearances and it allows the conversation to flow better and opens the door for humor
I am also hesitant in terms of talking to girls but I try to talk to any girl you I find nice and attractive. At starting it was awkward and there were long pauses but by time everything starts getting easy. Don't be Afraid to Try !!!
I think it also depends of the person you talk to (the character and mood)....and it is also importent whether you like this person in first place or not
I really have a hard time understanding the desire to learn cold pick up. 90% of people meet their mate through friends or at work where you get to know people naturally. Personally I am a giant flirt but I never try to pick up women in a cold pick up. It’s usually a slower get to know you thing and the women usually make the move on me. I think I cold approached 3 women in my whole life and I’ve dated over 50 women.
U are right it´s very unusual to approach a girl in the public out of the blue, depends on the country where you at. But when I see a girl in public that is very attractive it would´nt come to my mind to approach because....it kinda feels wrong idk.
Don't you guys see that it is a torture? We live in a society in which we need tô humilate ourselves in front of women while they avaliate if we are good enough for them 😢
Hey Benjamin, I've been watching your videos for a while and I did my first approach (two girls) an hour ago. I know you have said before asking for directions is ineffective as you're just wasting their time, but it's what I did. I proceeded to ask where they were from and we had small talk for a minute about travels and stuff, like you do in your videos all the time, but didn't ask for the number. It feels a bridge too far, for now I feel like I have to get used to talking to girls without having the 'number goal' in mind.
You need to find it in yourself to genuinely be interested in getting to know them in a brief amount of time, then you should be the one to cut it short and ask for their number to hang out some time.
I’ve heard and known that some random guys doing this on the streets had the cops call on them and almost got charged and go to jail for being a random weirdo trying to approach random women’s on the streets 😮
Dear , Sanjay i approached 300 women and still continuing 😉 My advice for you , pick 100 boys or Elder male and make them laugh Do this until you get 20 boys laugh on your jokes or just compliment them This will bost your approching and humor level And because they are males , so you will not feel approach anxiety I applied this method and got 70 girl's number And 10 dates 🗓️🌹 And 6 girls are wanting me to go to date with them 😉
Introvert or not, there's nothing natural about cold approaching women. If you're treating meeting women like a numbers game, and have such a bad social life that you can't find activities, classes, events etc to attend where you meet people in a natural way, then hanging out in public and waiting to target the first attractive woman you see and randomly walking up and telling her she looks good or you wanted to come and say hi, then no amount of pick up training is going to help.
I'm officially back.
Going into the 30 day challenge in January, I was already dealing with months of health issues. Felt terrible throughout the whole challenge but pushed through and completed it.
Funny enough, literally the day after I uploaded the final video and completed the challenge I got salmonella 😂
Was on and off dealing with health issues ever since.
Also crypto absolutely exploded and I had some big wins in that department so was having fun taking time off from UA-cam.
If you care about money right now, you should at the very least be paying attention to crypto right now.
If you missed me while I was gone, you should follow me on IG as I was active there the whole time I was gone here.
Excited to be back and already have a bunch of new videos filmed and ready to go.
Anyways, let me know what you think of this style of video - definitely different than what I've done before.
See you guys again very soon.
- Benjamin
Honestly super impressed you stuck through because you believed enough that every man can cold approach when you felt like shit. Would never have guessed you felt awful. But hey man…. This was an excellent video and I am trying my best to hook my single friends on to this, because I found the woman of my dreams and they certainly can too!
Hope you get better boss
Glad you’re feeling better bro and good to have you back.
In this video it seems you're being a poor mentor in order to demonstrate week points. Is that the case?
"crypto absolutely exploded" What is he talking about? the past 3 months everything has been in a downtrend / crashing.
Claps for Sonjay. Shit's not easy!
100%
btw he's name is Sanjay
Indian guyyy@@shashanknetikar541
Nope, it’s not.
it’s not easy when you are alone and spot someone attractive. it’s a lot more easy when you are with someone who has experience, being recorded and mic’d up 🎤. A lot of the anxiety goes away when it’s recorded.
He approached more strangers in a day than I have in my lifetime
Bro, true😂
Bro this guy Sanjay got balls of steel. Approaching any living being without hesitation. Respect
I'm not sure about the living being part 💀
That's the key - living being. Men put women on the level of goddesses then terrify themselves. Get out of your head. She isn't special.
He has the balls.. He just sounds like he's tipsy trying to act as sober as possible.
this made me crack up, that's a good observation 😅
@@Mr.C.365 maybe he got some vodka in his bottle
Man…. The attention to detail in your coaching is spot on.
Balls of steel...he approached more women in one day than I've approached in my life. That being said, the interactions were awkward and uncomfortable and a little hard to watch. Props for the effort and putting yourself out there.
Sonjay is the type of guy we all want to be! Get back up from rejection and go forward for the next. The majority of guys would block themselves after the first one.
I had to pause this vid a few times to digest the cringey parts. Then I realized: stomaching the cringe is what makes dudes good with women.
Meee tooooo bro i thought that im the only one
No, good looks does.
Same boat, this guy has balls
I watched your videos a lot in my high school days when you were still “based Zeus.” You helped me tremendously with approaches and just learning basic social skills, I can say I’m happily engaged because of the lessons you taught my younger self. I’ve even helped a few friends out with approaching girls, or just being social. You’re a hero that doesn’t wear a cape
It shows how cold blooded and unfriendly women can be. Props to the guy for having the guts to do this.
Sanjay, try not to apologize you come with complements and kind energy with the intent to make their day, not asking for direction! Great job on that last one and for grinding 👏👏👏
Someone should be coaching women on how to communicate with men, if ur not interested in him, don't destroy his confidence for the next woman he approaches. If women think it's so easy to approach and risk rejection, then why don't they do it.!
Thats what i think.. These dating coaches always teach men to approach that makes women feel superior.
Thank u, this is well stated
part of me agree whit this bro, women does not have to do anything and just wait for men to appraoch
It's the whole masculine feminine thing, where the masculine is the take charge person and the feminine is the submissive person.
Personally I like it when a girl makes the 1st move. Honestly most of the women I've been with have approached me over the years (45).
As a man you Have to Approach women. Women will never approach men unless they’re Brad pit looking like
The last woman was interested in him and she was more mature with social interaction and she is studying that in college. All women can benefit from this college class.👏
Him "I wanted to say hi"
Her "I have a boyfriend"
💀
real.
dodged a bullet
14:31 you could really feel how his energy changed at this point which is why it worked out well imo
I'm 100 percent sure everyone felt very excited n happy for Sanjay after his first success....kudos sanjay
Finally you made a video 😭 after 4 months please continue this series.
And take care of your health if you get sick again then we are not able to access these qualities and valueable videos on UA-cam
Looks primarily>>>>>> for approaching like that
But if you avg looks
Try on your workplace, gym, any group, mutual friends and slowly slowly natural build connection,
Their will be high chances
But you can try on stranger
Worst will be she say no 😅
But may be 10 out of 1 girl you build your connection
65 y/o and this what has always worked for me: 1. Look for a reason to approach (I like your shoes, you seem like you need "x", can I sit with you, this is the best seat in the area! ). 2. Would it be out of the question if you can answer a question? 3. I think you can have a great day / smile if only you gave me your "'x''.
Big respect to him.
The best advice is to be yourself and have good self esteem of who you are already and that’s regardless if you’re a guy or a lady, Be yourself of who are and you will have that special someone come across just an opposite of you.
His voice tonality is monotonous and robotic. Acting class would be helpful to him. His bravery is off the charts.
yeah thats the main thing with him, his body language is a lil awkward but not that bad, but his voice has no emotion to it
Listen, what I’ve experienced in these months while having cold interactions with women is that with those who have an average physique or aren’t as attractive, I have about a 30% ‘success rate’ for getting their Instagram or social media. But the more beautiful and attractive the girl is, it’s strange, but I have a higher percentage of ‘success.’ I’ve thought that maybe it’s because the prettier she is, the fewer men will approach her with confidence and ‘a pair of balls
This is true. Not many men have the courage to approach very attractive women, so fewer men approach them. This makes it easier for you to stand out by approaching them, which they often appreciate.
It's because she wants instagram followers.
@@sanjayshorey4225 😆🤣
he's got the right idea, but the self doubt shines brighter than any smile - he's practicing, that's good 👍 just remember, if you're willing to walk away, she's gonna get defensive and want more attention - sometimes less is more
I'm pretty much the same, a 32 year old software engineer with zero girlfriend relationships in his life. Having been rejected literally hundreds of times from girls for several years now, honestly for me approaching a girl expecting a successfull outcome seems like jumping into the sea expecting to remain dry. This video is great and really touching and helpful to me, i gives me courage.
You should honestly apply for my program.
@@realbenjaminsedaI dpn't. But either way i live in Greece, you wouldn't be able to help me none the less.
I have seen many cold approch tutorials but this one is legit the best one on UA-cam. Sanjay is a brilliant student and you are guiding and correcting him on his week points very accurately 👑
You can even see 8 minutes into the video when both you guys are talking, how closed stance, shoulders forward, feet together, he is compared to your open stance, shoulders back, chest out, feet apart. An open stance reflexes confidence and boldness. A closed stands signals weakness. I've noticed bold man never lean into women to speak. They stand/sit upright and let the women lean into them to listen... food for thought :) It's not about being rude to the woman, its about sending the massage that you are an important person and what you have to say is important so you are not going to bend over backwards to get someone to listen to what you have to say. If she doesn't want to listen to you, that's ok she probably isn't going to be a good match for you anyway.
We need part 2 of this!!
Speaking from diaphragm comes from a place of being grounded, secure and confident. It’s not something you can tell someone to do and they just do it. They have to feel secure within themselves, which means working on overcoming their fears, insecurities and inadequacies.
This is such great stuff. To show the mistakes and talk about them in real time, it's amazing. 🎉
I would like to see more videos like. I think it teaches men how to actually approach, what to say, what not to say and overall make the conversation more natural.
Good job Sanjay, most men wouldn't even approach woman but he went for it without hesitation, faced failure head on an eventually succeeded!
He already has a lot of girls in the bag because he has balls, he is gonna succes for sure
Supermarket approach… “Hi… I haven’t made any dish with zucchini… do you have a fav zucchini recipe?” Or grab something and say a bit loudly “what the heck is this!? Do you know what this is and what dish can be made with it?” It really is so easy to approach PEOPLE…. Just act normal… say things that if some stranger approached you, you wouldn’t feel it’s weird.
Gentlemen….
Real talk….
I teared up watching this one as I realized how much I resonate with him and the inferiority mindset. Sooo real and never realized where it stemmed from as I wasn’t always this way. Only recently. So glad I came across this vid and deserves a sub❤
You make the best version of these videos on UA-cam. Just is real and simple
"I used to work with a woman who didn't have much of a personality and I believe might of suffered from social anxiety, didn't do well in social situations
She never had a problem getting boyfriends since she was cute/attractive, despite her "social awkwardness".
Cases like that make me angry and pissed off because its a reminder that the reverse is normally not true, guys, men, who are described that way, will normally have a difficult time getting girlfriends, attracting women.
Getting mad over things like that is just weak, just put in the work
@@p.e.3653 yeah and men are the only gender that have to put in the work
The worst part is many women pretend or believe they have it just as hard as men in dating
sore loser
Guys have to be literally perfect in every aspect of life or die trying.
*Seeing this really highlights how introverts don’t need to become extroverts to be successful in dating.*
Washington Square Park!!! 🌳🙌 one of the best parks in New York City!
Great video, also interesting to see how other people do.
Not an expert, but personally I don't think there's any point in exchanging names so early in the interaction. Better focus on more engaging stuff. Most people forget names super easily anyway. Also ending sentences with "or..." shows a lot of uncertainty/low confidence.
I think the biggest thing for him is mood into the conversations since this guy is too professional
And this is why cold approaches are better suited for extroverts. But yeah appreciate the video. That's a guy I would say is a pure introvert. All the other UA-camr who claim to be introverts is dubious.
Cold approaches are best suited for 6'4 muscular white Gigachads. It doesn't matter what your personality is, women nowadays only want the top 1% men.
It's brutal, but it's true, 63% of men in the US are single for a reason and I can guarantee you that it's not because of their personality, and that number is only gonna get higher.
@@dusanstojsin4938Cold approaching is an utter waste of time today, and especially when done in this manner it's absolutely useless unless you are a GigaChad, because only a GigaChad is high value by default, therefore being the giver in the transaction. In every other case, you are no different than a street beggar asking for change.
In the original mystery method, you don't even approach the target directly. In fact, you don't even give the idea that you are approaching them for the sake of getting to know them; everything is done obliquely where you build status around the target and get them to chase you instead.
@@dusanstojsin4938 If you are an ugly, poor man, will any of this work? I have some doubts. You can be good and know how to do things, but if she doesn't like you aesthetically and you have a menial job, you won't get far with women.
@@dusanstojsin4938 Based.
@@dusanstojsin4938not really..there are many chads but they suck at dating cuz they are introvert
Wow! This guy makes sense in what he says. I am glad that the host is picking up all these things. Learning game does not get you a Woman in the very beginning, but with time [his]skills will grow and then he will meet a good woman who can like his chemistry. 2024, USA
I would say most guys need a guide on what to do on the actual date. As a 40+ y.o. virgin with 5-10 dates under his belt, I have had limited success getting the number, but it all falls apart on the actual date. Horribly awkward, never know what to say or how to keep a conversation flowing, yet I can chat, joke, and banter for hours with my male friends or even female friends where there is zero mutual sexual interest. Sometimes I think MGTOW is the way forward. I am so far behind the normal dating norms, and I was raised as a traditional, monogamous guy. Lost 80lb over the past year, and I'm trying to make up for lost time.
Don't try to make up for "lost time". As you try that, more time goes out of the window. Find something you really enjoy. I thought for 15 years that I needed a gf to be happy. Now in my 30s I'm finally cured. I realized I don't need a woman, love is fake, it's all a social construct, status symbols, and so on. Only I can make myself happy. NOBODY can do it for me.
No offence but I would like to ask you about how you look
*Go frequent dates my friend* ,after a bunch of bad dates (let's say 10-15 dates) you will be an expert in dating,just observe the girls what they are saying,they will the one to teach you, Remember my friend no one was born expert but you surely can be a master *in any field* ,you are not god that you will not fail,Even jesus failed in his lifetime(ofcourse not failed in dating....but I hope you understand what I am saying).
And Yes,if you wanna know my dating life then.....I was in that school as well as college where girls outnumbered boys,so....I was more comfortable in front of girls than boys......If you didn't got that privilege then you have to work *little* hard than me,but surely you can
I wouldn't ever joke about being a sociopath or anything along those lines ever
He sounds too monotone.
Hardest part is approach. Sanjay is already better and more confident than most lol
Believe me. Most Indian guys aren't very social/ comfortable to get the limelight. Mostly they are introvert or think about the surrounding situation alot. Sanjay did well. Kudos.
Yo that tree at 4:18 had a massive ball.
It's about to have a baby
Zeus AND Eminem back! This is crazy! What type of crypto to get into Zeus, tell us more! Bitcoin is in that 68-70K range but yeah if you got in earlier in the year back when it was 20, that would have been good for you glad to hear it man!
Benjamin you need to meet the people who payed your program like this dude so they can get more results. Because when you are there you can see and tell them the mistakes they are making. Plus when you are there they have this support feeling like a big brother, so they get brutally rejected you encourage them and give them hope
The boy is back
1, He is chasing moving Targets. He is chasing her. Low Value.
2. Complimenting her in the beginning shows she is more important than you. Low Value.
3. Sonjay never learned anything. Always start conversation by noticing something new, curiosity is the best conversation starter. No Directness, be Indirect.
Dude Sanjay got balls of steel 🔥
Absolute banger of a video! Loved how you broke everything down. I saw a lot of myself in Sonjay. I am also 31 and have never had a long term relationship.
This inspired me to get my physique in order + do more cold approaches.
How to improve one's confidence if you always receive "no"? It might improve after a "yes," but it is a vicious cycle.
The l have a boyfriend response is what traumatized me to the point of NEVER talking to woman again. It just kept happening over and over drove me NUTS
looks like the one that he finally 'got it right' is more of a chemistry thing, it looked to me that she was in the mood and he was also very much relaxed in her presence but it could also be after all other awkward interactions this felt like chillaxing
Also he approached her multiple times by accident so she was familiar with him. This verifies the hoe_math theory of familiarity. The more familiar a woman is with you the more attractive you become to her.
Great job. Two things that helped me also
1) Start off short conversations with no intention of getting numbers so there is less pressure on you so that you can focus more on your tonality rather than making conversation.
2) open the conversation with some random question like "Is that dog yours?" or "What book are you reading". Its a lot less awkward for both of you than commenting on appearances and it allows the conversation to flow better and opens the door for humor
Sonjay has balls, he knows what he want. He have is objective, is mission.
I am also hesitant in terms of talking to girls but I try to talk to any girl you I find nice and attractive. At starting it was awkward and there were long pauses but by time everything starts getting easy.
Don't be Afraid to Try !!!
I think it also depends of the person you talk to (the character and mood)....and it is also importent whether you like this person in first place or not
Yessir! Lets go Sanjay!
I really have a hard time understanding the desire to learn cold pick up. 90% of people meet their mate through friends or at work where you get to know people naturally. Personally I am a giant flirt but I never try to pick up women in a cold pick up. It’s usually a slower get to know you thing and the women usually make the move on me. I think I cold approached 3 women in my whole life and I’ve dated over 50 women.
U are right it´s very unusual to approach a girl in the public out of the blue, depends on the country where you at. But when I see a girl in public that is very attractive it would´nt come to my mind to approach because....it kinda feels wrong idk.
I need to see more videos like this , thank you for the video. Hope that was a date afterwards
Because they rather be with a bear
Don't you guys see that it is a torture? We live in a society in which we need tô humilate ourselves in front of women while they avaliate if we are good enough for them 😢
Respect to Sonjay 💙
Hey Benjamin, I've been watching your videos for a while and I did my first approach (two girls) an hour ago. I know you have said before asking for directions is ineffective as you're just wasting their time, but it's what I did. I proceeded to ask where they were from and we had small talk for a minute about travels and stuff, like you do in your videos all the time, but didn't ask for the number. It feels a bridge too far, for now I feel like I have to get used to talking to girls without having the 'number goal' in mind.
Itd that you add the blow outs to show the reality that its a numbers game and its about inner confidence keep it up 💪
One of the many reasons why i don't approach. Shit's brutal.
Very hopeful ending 🙂 Great video
it is hard but he is there, good job
he sounds like a person on Xanax when approaching, just a bit of confident speech he would get far
why blur his face, when u reveled it in your thumbnail lol??
He generates face with AI for thumbnails
@@sparkle4211right cuz if that was really his face he would’ve got more numbers I was confused at first 😂
Probably because it’s a paid actor. Don’t believe any of these dating gurus
The thumbnail guy is like a Chadpreet lol, this guy is probably not.
He goes "so does nothing pop in your mind when talking to them" 😂😂🤣🤣
You need to find it in yourself to genuinely be interested in getting to know them in a brief amount of time, then you should be the one to cut it short and ask for their number to hang out some time.
Well done Sonjay🎉
My G is back! lets go
I’ve heard and known that some random guys doing this on the streets had the cops call on them and almost got charged and go to jail for being a random weirdo trying to approach random women’s on the streets 😮
The smiths, New York 500 days of summer run!!!
In the beginning I was like this guy is cooked but he’s got balls to approach and he was getting a lot better every interaction
He is a 9 to start with.
Need more of these type of videos!
14:32 - the moment she asks You a question is Game on, she is in. All you need to do is lead and DON"T fuck it up. :)
Yeah and he ignored her question 💀
He is also Indian like me , I can understand how he suffers like most of the Indian men. 😢
"It looks like a sociopath's apartment" 😭
Bro just needs to shown his masculinity and it'll be easy...he was kinda insecure too
Dear , Sanjay i approached 300 women and still continuing 😉
My advice for you , pick 100 boys or Elder male and make them laugh
Do this until you get 20 boys laugh on your jokes or just compliment them
This will bost your approching and humor level
And because they are males , so you will not feel approach anxiety
I applied this method and got 70 girl's number
And 10 dates 🗓️🌹
And 6 girls are wanting me to go to date with them 😉
11:15 skateboarder dude looks exactly the same as him!
And he got my full attention at that moment LOL
It's totally him 10 years ago.
Kjæresten din bak deg, du kan ikke se ham virkelig virkelig virkelig omg (0_0)
Where do you filming those approach? Because I live in London and maybe we can approach on the field together
bro blured face in video but forgot on thumbnail
Introvert or not, there's nothing natural about cold approaching women. If you're treating meeting women like a numbers game, and have such a bad social life that you can't find activities, classes, events etc to attend where you meet people in a natural way, then hanging out in public and waiting to target the first attractive woman you see and randomly walking up and telling her she looks good or you wanted to come and say hi, then no amount of pick up training is going to help.
just go gym and lift heavy, earn money and do a lil bit of show off, be confident and care a lil bit and thats enough
Amazing Content
You can just barely see me, but im actually sitting way off in the background in the first shot 😂
Lmao what are u wearing?
Sanjay ❌ Sonjay ✅
this shits hard, and sounds and looks way too exhausting. can't do it
That’s the reason why you can’t do it
Central Park
Place full of tourist and hardly and single girls