Dating Over 40 with Cindy Trimm, Real Talk Kim & Dr Sonja Stribling

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  • @HardlyInitiated
    @HardlyInitiated  3 дні тому

    👉DATING CARDS: www.hardlyinitiated.com/products/dating-deck

  • @gwynethhobson9740
    @gwynethhobson9740 2 місяці тому +32

    I got married at 45. It’s not too late. Be ready you never know when God will bring your mate. Don’t put Him in a box of how He will do it. We are still going 10 years in.

  • @Cjones-fm2yi
    @Cjones-fm2yi 3 місяці тому +86

    Cindy Trimm always dropping gems so graciously.
    - Contract v Covenant
    - roles, rules and responsibilities

    • @Huff627
      @Huff627 3 місяці тому +2

      Agree as noted

  • @shawna7227
    @shawna7227 3 місяці тому +103

    Dr. Trimm is at a different frequency. You can tell she’s done alot of inner work. It’s beautiful.

    • @vlady6780
      @vlady6780 3 місяці тому +9

      I completely agree, I really wanted to hear these women minister from the word of God, and not from a position of motivation. If you filter your life and inspiration through the word of God, you will never go wrong. I love the fact that her counseling includes the word of God and not just empty advice.

    • @tawandajackson5655
      @tawandajackson5655 3 місяці тому +4

      @shawna7227 yes I love her and listen to her prayers often she's a blessing

    • @HopeRichards-t2d
      @HopeRichards-t2d 3 місяці тому +2

      Purposeful living and sharing her journey to an excellent path.

    • @Huff627
      @Huff627 3 місяці тому +5

      She has wealth of information and speaks with so much grace.

    • @sandeejaye7239
      @sandeejaye7239 3 місяці тому

      She really is. It's exudes through her exterior. That inner work is in relationship with God. To know God is all that's needed.

  • @dspenderella9671
    @dspenderella9671 3 місяці тому +30

    I think the state of women may be declining because society never wants to address the state of men. The focus is ALWAYS just on women, who are willing, but hardly ever if ever on men, who aren't willing and aren't expected to be willing to change, grow, etc. Until we deal with both sides of the equation, we'll never get the right answer

  • @876tisha
    @876tisha 2 місяці тому +10

    All 3 ladies are wonderful. Dr. Trim is so calm in her speech. I can listen to her talk all day

  • @lizjackson3269
    @lizjackson3269 3 місяці тому +12

    Amen, amen, and amen!! “Never consult an ordinary past if you want an extraordinary future!!! Give yourself the gift of goodbye!!” This is my new motto!!

  • @MiyorkerWashington
    @MiyorkerWashington 3 місяці тому +18

    This is one of the best needed broadcasts I've listened to. I'm 53 and divorce after 25 years. His lost.

  • @Healingrelationshiptrauma
    @Healingrelationshiptrauma 3 місяці тому +26

    Dr Trimm has always been an inspiration for over a decade
    Such a great Trio of powerful women!
    Love this discussion tonight
    “ come alive and live your life “

  • @DefinedByShe
    @DefinedByShe 3 місяці тому +13

    Just because you come across a good person doesn’t mean they are the person for you

  • @pinkypromise6037
    @pinkypromise6037 3 місяці тому +20

    I am happy to know after watching this show that I am exactly where I need to be. I am not seeking. I am content. God is cultivating me as a single woman. I have accountability friends who are married and sister in Christ. I absolutely love this podcast. Dr. Cindy trim has been decree and declaring things over my life for a long time. I have been following her for many many years. I am 49 thank you. …✍️🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @marcialexander3019
    @marcialexander3019 3 місяці тому +14

    If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you💯

  • @TowannaLoweHarris
    @TowannaLoweHarris 3 місяці тому +17

    My God… I only admire and closely follow a handful of women. How is it that you have 3 of them on one episode!🙌🏾

  • @camilleorr7029
    @camilleorr7029 3 місяці тому +18

    I wish I could have a one on one with Dr. Trimm. I appreciate, receive, admire and value her insights so much.

    • @Happey67
      @Happey67 3 місяці тому

      @@camilleorr7029 they had her on a few months alone.

  • @shirleybell7913
    @shirleybell7913 3 місяці тому +6

    REAL TALK!!!!! This was my FIRST time listening to your podcast and the reason why I did was because of each woman on the panel I consider them to be MEGA powerhouses in the Kingdom of GOD personally and professionally. I LOVED this episode and have decided to subscribe to your UA-cam channel. EXCELLENT interview and ELEVATED conversation that was very well needed for ALL generations and genre of believers. Selah!

  • @kimtaylor1994
    @kimtaylor1994 3 місяці тому +11

    48 & single, confident, driven, sexy, loving and bringer of peace looking for my equal…able to submit to my King!!

    • @Porthlethene
      @Porthlethene Місяць тому

      @@kimtaylor1994 Are you humble and meek? The meek will God guide in judgement. God gives grace to the humble.

  • @AshleyCorey-c2o
    @AshleyCorey-c2o 3 місяці тому +6

    I truly appreciate everything Dr. Cindy trimm has taught me! That woman really is an inspiration to me. ❤

  • @purposedpatience6597
    @purposedpatience6597 3 місяці тому +6

    Dr Cindy is the truth!!! She is so gracious, thorough and seasoned 🎉 I can listen to her for hours ❤ the rest to me are abt show as I’ve watched them over the years. Dr Cindy is a woman of humility which shows without her saying much ❤ but when she talks it’s so much depth and anointed

  • @sabrinamcafee2787
    @sabrinamcafee2787 3 місяці тому +14

    3 powerful woman!! Great episode guys 🎉

  • @DrJamiWilliams
    @DrJamiWilliams 3 місяці тому +6

    The power and the wealth of knowledge in that room. Fun fact, Se'Fana Samples, my coach at Successfully Single Academy, took some time out of our class and had us pray for you two. This platform is changing lives. We are in awe of your growth and the impact this show is making. God bless.

  • @winnifredminnoh7431
    @winnifredminnoh7431 3 місяці тому +7

    God bless you and all your panelists @hardlyinitiated.❤

  • @imonlineshopper
    @imonlineshopper Місяць тому +1

    Do the math, she got married at 60 & is married 6 years; if you know the gorgeous Dr. Trimm you know she rarely tells her age - loved this incredible conversation- these ladies are my inspiration

  • @shawna7227
    @shawna7227 3 місяці тому +29

    Everyone gets lonely even married people get lonely. You have to know your purpose and even in that Jesus was lonely in the garden because we all need relationships.

    • @ballin565
      @ballin565 3 місяці тому +6

      I’m glad you pointed this out. People can be in relationships and feel miserable or unsatisfied.

    • @shinewithoutapology
      @shinewithoutapology 3 місяці тому

      Truth

  • @soniehoff9644
    @soniehoff9644 3 місяці тому +4

    Very powerful and necessary convo for the community, for the young, the old, and the in between!
    Thank you!

  • @abigailmatamba6399
    @abigailmatamba6399 3 місяці тому +6

    DR CINDY, DR CINDY, DR CINDY AHHHHH MAN SHE IS A WELL OF EVERYTHING. SHE IS AN EPITOME OF ALL THAT ENCOMPASES WISDOM FOR LIFE. I HAD TO TYPE IT IN BOLD LOL

  • @VeganNinja137
    @VeganNinja137 3 місяці тому +8

    Dr. Trimm and Dr. SONYA🔥🔥🔥 I love Kim but she needed to be in comments with us.

    • @srthomas82
      @srthomas82 Місяць тому

      😂😂😂

    • @zelikaharris7995
      @zelikaharris7995 18 днів тому

      I think an hour should have been given to each woman. I was distracted by the different personalities and Dr. Trimm dominated the conversation.

  • @22Msyaya
    @22Msyaya 3 місяці тому +13

    What a GREAT episode!! Beautiful prayer!!

  • @tamikar.johnsondmvrealtor1751
    @tamikar.johnsondmvrealtor1751 3 місяці тому +5

    This was such an amazing episode.. i have sent it to EVERYBODY!!! Thanks for this topic!!

  • @angelat56
    @angelat56 3 місяці тому +4

    Dr. Sonja is phenomenal. Thanks for sharing!

  • @marcialexander3019
    @marcialexander3019 3 місяці тому +4

    You have to have good insight, you have to be wise beyond your years to spot which man to keep on your team, lots of chamillions and imma Do’s out there

  • @3peasinapodity
    @3peasinapodity 2 місяці тому +2

    We need programs that promote healing as families as well.

  • @thearaward6112
    @thearaward6112 3 місяці тому +3

    This conversation is so good! Thank you!

  • @ScaryToRemarry
    @ScaryToRemarry 3 місяці тому +14

    Grown folks conversation!

  • @bbjlifestyle703
    @bbjlifestyle703 3 місяці тому +4

    Cindy Trimm I've aways followed..I love her wisdom!!

  • @daphnekkarusoke1381
    @daphnekkarusoke1381 2 місяці тому +1

    This episode!!!! Thank you ladies. Dr Trimm, Dr Sonja wow!

  • @chinnjm
    @chinnjm 3 місяці тому +2

    1:05:48 Jesus ain't healed me all the way in the area of race relations. I chuckled 😂😂and then said wait sis that ain't for you to laugh that hard😂🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @charnitadixon5619
    @charnitadixon5619 3 місяці тому +11

    Awesome Episode….great commentary 🫶🏾

  • @catrinahall8581
    @catrinahall8581 3 місяці тому +10

    Oh i love it… “yelling doesn’t mean you’re winning an argument”

    • @LOBETHRVIBS
      @LOBETHRVIBS 3 місяці тому +1

      @@catrinahall8581 Yes, some folks are loud and wrong!!!

  • @chrystalsimmons
    @chrystalsimmons 3 місяці тому +1

    The best show. Loved the different perspectives.

  • @Shanice___Loves
    @Shanice___Loves 3 місяці тому +15

    All the women were amazing.

  • @chandrasealy3128
    @chandrasealy3128 3 місяці тому +2

    It was such a great conversation.

  • @leahkunihira9455
    @leahkunihira9455 3 місяці тому +4

    I personally understand the last woman's question. I've been in a place where I liked someone so much and they didn't consider it or see it and by the time they did, I had let go and felt nothing for him. This happened for two guys so, I understand her question especially because I always asked myself the same thing. Why they like me now. I didn't get either of them coz I was already out so I just couldn't.

  • @angelahicks7897
    @angelahicks7897 3 місяці тому +15

    Dr Trimm amazing yall have made it

  • @Love_Tabs
    @Love_Tabs 3 місяці тому +4

    Awww Ty, congrats on premarital counseling 🎉

  • @tvm-growthisunlimited9023
    @tvm-growthisunlimited9023 2 місяці тому +1

    This panel looks compelling and powerful. Let me settle in👂🏽

  • @metoyou2576
    @metoyou2576 3 місяці тому +3

    Let’s be responsible adults and please make sure you’re registered to VOTE and get out and VOTE. VOTE early if you can but please VOTE! 💙🇺🇸

  • @JoyChidinmaIzuka-Artist
    @JoyChidinmaIzuka-Artist 3 місяці тому +5

    This is so educating

    • @Happey67
      @Happey67 3 місяці тому +2

      @@JoyChidinmaIzuka-Artist educational is the correct word. Gosh!

  • @CharlieSmith-pj6wh
    @CharlieSmith-pj6wh 3 місяці тому +2

    A Fire Episode. Omg. Straight Boom.

  • @meaa9899
    @meaa9899 2 місяці тому

    This show was a blessing!! Thank yall 💕🙏🏽

  • @tinasimpson6597
    @tinasimpson6597 3 місяці тому +2

    Beautiful show!! Just beautiful!!👏👏👏❤🙏

  • @thinkbrighttherapy9039
    @thinkbrighttherapy9039 3 місяці тому

    Thank you for having these real and sensitive conversations. Love Dr. Trimm, renaissance woman. While I desire to be married, I am content with my current status.

  • @philw9787
    @philw9787 3 місяці тому +4

    This was good, love it!! Pray marriage relationship work, love, communicate together. Singles stay strong n keep God first! Jesus Name Amen!!

  • @frankieharrison356
    @frankieharrison356 3 місяці тому +1

    Great show with the lady OG's 💜💜💜🔥🔥🔥.part 2 with more Q&A

  • @sherryguidry8131
    @sherryguidry8131 3 місяці тому

    Amen, this was a blessed episode with blessed and highly favored people. Great courage shown by those who shared their real-life experiences. Thank you to all. I was blessed by all.

  • @tyheath4068
    @tyheath4068 3 місяці тому +21

    Most women give 💯 before they get to know their partner in dating (giving too much too soon). Covenant vs Contract is mind blowing 🤯. With this information, I will start speaking wisdom over the women and men in my family. I want to see God’s grace in everyone around me. Enlightened 💡💡💡
    Great panel. Let’s get the truth!

    • @Huff627
      @Huff627 3 місяці тому +1

      @@tyheath4068 Typically knowing the body 《sex》 before the heart is common amongst people nowadays both in and outside the church.

    • @dkgnew
      @dkgnew 3 місяці тому

      You said the whole truth right there! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

    • @I_z_ya
      @I_z_ya 2 місяці тому

      ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @vanessajennings6016
    @vanessajennings6016 3 місяці тому +2

    Very good conversation 😊

  • @mesfinlemma5209
    @mesfinlemma5209 3 місяці тому +3

    Cindy she talk intelligence i love her

  • @HillaryNamanya
    @HillaryNamanya 3 місяці тому

    1:20:50 I think the problem is having a checklist of what you want in a positive sense because that's easy to create and it can quickly become unrealistic and endless.
    I think the best approach is to focus on your non negotiables under which you can't accommodate anyone, which will also require you to reflect deeper.
    True chemistry is when you find someone that brings out your best self and you dont walk on eggshells in their presence trying to prove anything. Coz just you is enough even when you are silent sitted next to each other.

  • @pamelarichards464
    @pamelarichards464 3 місяці тому +2

    Absolutely Amazing…

  • @feliciawalker9771
    @feliciawalker9771 2 місяці тому +1

    Dating broken men....walk with caution and evaluate accordingly to your preferences
    . For me is always about communication, character, ability to lead, and disciplined. I'm not expecting anything I'm not.

  • @bbjlifestyle703
    @bbjlifestyle703 3 місяці тому

    This was soo needed from these powerful women!

  • @miquelvillaroel468
    @miquelvillaroel468 3 місяці тому +1

    Y'ALL KILLED ME WITH THE X FILES ANTICS!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @judithsakala4944
    @judithsakala4944 3 місяці тому +6

    Thank you ☺️

  • @themiaparis
    @themiaparis 3 місяці тому +6

    After 50 doesn’t mean you’re dead!!! lol

  • @rlvaughn7855
    @rlvaughn7855 3 місяці тому +2

    Thank God for the Queens

  • @jimmyjnmary3729
    @jimmyjnmary3729 3 місяці тому

    Amazing episode, thank you so much guys

  • @dkgnew
    @dkgnew 3 місяці тому +1

    Loved the call with Denise! Hilarious!!? 😂😅😂😅😂😅

  • @themiaparis
    @themiaparis 3 місяці тому +3

    Bingo night is so disrespectful 😂😂😂😂 who did Yal run that by??? 😭

  • @mrproductions8496
    @mrproductions8496 3 місяці тому +3

    And one of the ladies said that she's not taking care of a grown man but what about a man taking care of a grown woman??🙏🎬

  • @tembelihlechifamba1790
    @tembelihlechifamba1790 3 місяці тому +3

    I find it weird when Tysean says seriously dating. Why not say that I'm in a serious relationship

  • @angelknowsrealestatellc9043
    @angelknowsrealestatellc9043 3 місяці тому

    Loving this Amazing women of God!! Y'all been bringing it Hardly Initiated!! 💯💯💖💖

  • @la-nekabrown6825
    @la-nekabrown6825 3 місяці тому +1

    I felt some way about RTK calling the young lady in the clip angry. She's direct but she was being gaslit, dismissed and disrespected.

  • @judithsakala4944
    @judithsakala4944 3 місяці тому +4

    Amen 🙏🏾
    Thank you ☺️

  • @candicemarie.sonocandy
    @candicemarie.sonocandy 3 місяці тому

    Amazing panel!!!

  • @feliciawalker9771
    @feliciawalker9771 2 місяці тому

    Awesome discussion ❤

  • @mieshaames7039
    @mieshaames7039 3 місяці тому

    I was so blessed by this cast !!!

  • @MessiahTindall-x1v
    @MessiahTindall-x1v 3 місяці тому +1

    If my husbands 100 percent giving is "equal" to my 30 percent giving, I would beleive then and only then, truly my math is not matching. We will be inspired by one another. Going into a relationship saying 'lower your gracious giving" is kind of like crazy work.

  • @tanyathomas3679
    @tanyathomas3679 3 місяці тому +1

    Great Episode ❤

  • @vITALEmpress
    @vITALEmpress 3 місяці тому

    Fantastic interview!!! ❤

  • @jackiedjennings9162
    @jackiedjennings9162 2 місяці тому +1

    I’m 50’s and feel like it’s done in the dating world. No one wants a 50’s lady they’re looking for younger

  • @schemainevent
    @schemainevent 3 місяці тому +19

    Maybe bring Kim back alone where she doesn’t have to share time, she seems so vocal on IG but found her super quiet on this one.

    • @iamvalenvictoria
      @iamvalenvictoria 3 місяці тому +1

      @@schemainevent definitely agree!!! She has such great advice, I wish we were able to hear more from her.

    • @kerenpokuaa
      @kerenpokuaa 2 місяці тому

      @@schemainevent I agree on this

    • @AlwaysBeingKayJay
      @AlwaysBeingKayJay 2 місяці тому +1

      Agreed!! I watch her EVERY morning while walking and she was overshadowed in this interview. I would prefer she and Dr. Trimm together. So that we can hear the biblical aspect in addition to the world view. Or perhaps #RealTalkKim can have Dr. Trimm on her podcast and we can actually hear them both.

  • @ethundley
    @ethundley 10 днів тому

    I love Dr. N Cindy Trimm I have had the privilege to be in her presence many a times and she is absolutely powerful and wise-blessed by the Most High our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Love this panel and discussion Hardly Initiated. Keep ‘em coming!

  • @marlenerobinson2747
    @marlenerobinson2747 3 місяці тому +2

    Very inspiring podcast ❤

  • @mieshaames7039
    @mieshaames7039 3 місяці тому +1

    I’d like to hear more about the pellet and how to manage the sex drive at 50

  • @MurielSuttles-d4d
    @MurielSuttles-d4d 2 місяці тому

    🎉 This was great information ❤

  • @Christian900
    @Christian900 3 місяці тому +1

    Another Good Show
    That lady on live, she should just be friends, after 14 years and now he want to holla at you,
    Nah sis

  • @bobbydraytonjr0122
    @bobbydraytonjr0122 3 місяці тому +1

    I missed the poll, but absolutely, and I'll go a step further. If it was life or death, I would still give it to her!

  • @1trudiva
    @1trudiva 3 місяці тому +3

    2:05:32 I do believe in right person wrong time……. All exes do not deserve a second chance by far….. however pray on it…. The man god has for you will circle back around if he crossed your passes once. You or him may not have been ready the first time!!!! Go to God for answers… he is not the author of confusion but clarity!!! Don’t ask ppl answers on something God has for you!!!

  • @m.b.658
    @m.b.658 3 місяці тому +1

    There are men who aren’t willing to get the help they need. I’m married and my spouse and I haven’t had sex since November 2023. We are young and I don’t feel like there is a valid reason not to be getting it in.

  • @CBizTVMedia
    @CBizTVMedia 3 місяці тому +2

    For those non-boss ladies. Just regular chicks. Any men out here for us?

  • @KendraLove6
    @KendraLove6 Місяць тому

    I enjoyed watching.

  • @soniehoff9644
    @soniehoff9644 3 місяці тому +2

    We put limitations on ourselves because of limitations people put on us at an early age therefore, we find it difficult to grow into adulthood! We stay STUCK in our childhood of dysfunction that we do not know how to cultivate healthy relationships in every areas of life.

  • @3peasinapodity
    @3peasinapodity 2 місяці тому

    She needs to listen to Vanessa Williams' tune, "Save the best for last." Just be clear that you are not the fallback girl.

  • @tawandajackson5655
    @tawandajackson5655 3 місяці тому

    I love this so many topics needing to be discussed ❤️

  • @EmpressGlennis
    @EmpressGlennis 3 місяці тому +1

    Great show.Wish you guys did a mic check before you started .Audio was very low.

  • @Spenceyawnti
    @Spenceyawnti 3 місяці тому +4

    I am 46 and Single ❤

  • @3peasinapodity
    @3peasinapodity 2 місяці тому

    That young lady should be taught about how the adversary tries to distract and destroy, when you're working on something. Every time!

  • @joanrajaballey8852
    @joanrajaballey8852 2 місяці тому

    I am 56 yr young 😊
    Loving life ❤
    Living life ❤
    Traveling the world ❤
    Enjoying a great career ❤
    Awaiting my Boaz!
    Xoxoxo
    🎉😊
    J

  • @Freedom2Travelwell
    @Freedom2Travelwell 3 місяці тому +1

    This was helpful

  • @lynRen0
    @lynRen0 3 місяці тому +6

    All these yes women are killing me... The reason why Cindy Trimm thinks shes always right is because every single person cow tows to her... this is awful

    • @Priscillathenurse
      @Priscillathenurse 18 днів тому

      Dr Trimm is THE TRUTH talk the talk and walking the walk‼️