Latisha Asks Marsau to Watch the Kids | Love and Marriage: Huntsville | Oprah Winfrey Network
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- Latisha makes plans to attend a networking event with Melody and needs Marsau to take care of the kids while she is gone. When Marsau realizes that he is going to be alone with the kids, he isn't too thrilled. For more on #LoveandMarriageHuntsville, visit WatchOWN.tv/Huntsville
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Latisha Asks Marsau to Watch the Kids | Love and Marriage: Huntsville | Oprah Winfrey Network
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Girl u is a single mother in a marriage
Girl u ain’t neva lied😂😂😂
💯💯💯
@@jennifernettles3240 Right girl, he very jealous over her. He must not doing something right. Why the lady can work her career jobs. All he want her 2 do is house work. This not back in 20's, you can tell the women's have the powerful💪💪💪🔥🔥
India Young for sure
This is my Aunt she's been in this mess since 1990.
So he cant watch his kids??? He’s ridiculous!!
@Misslattie's locs And Vlogs: He's not claiming HER children as his. This is dangerous ladies. You don't trust innocent children in the hands of your enemy. This dude is against her on so many levels. This is a hostile roommate situation.
@@estellabutler5424 Exactly...he seems hostile as hell towards the children and I know they can sense it daily. He should've stayed single if he didn't want kids!!!
The fact he didn’t know his son had a peanut allergy!!! He could of killed the boy if he was younger and didn’t know he couldn’t have it.
@@mikeparker7562 I agree he should've stayed single but it's beneficial for him to be married to a chick like her. She should've have married this guy and there were signs about his self centered attitude when she met him.
Misslattie’s locs And Life how can a father watch kids it’s his responsibility to spend quality time with them and look after them
I don't understand how a dad "babysits" his own children. Never understood that. He's spoiled.
It’s common in the black community it will throw me off to when they would say that. 😂 I agree wit u
Tisha’s so nice to *ask* him to watch his children. 🙄 I would’ve been on the way out the door like, “Be back in a bit, keep the kids alive. Smooches!” 🙋🏾♀️
Exactly 😂
Exactly
Right! Tag your it bye love you 😘
😀😀😀😀😉😉😀😉
Lol
Her marriage is like serving a prison sentence...let us pray for her!
Without the possibility of parole
She all for it, so let her be on lock down
It has to be depressing to be treated like that. She is not his equal, he treats her like she is beneath him. He said we are not trying to be a power couple... Wow!
Yes because he doing too much
@@pooh4025 but she is a Powerful woman...
Why did he marry a woman with power...but doesn't want her to be powerful?
Tisha needs to look back on this clip and realize just how much Mel had her back and best interest in mind. This is evidence of a true friend. Wanting you to live your best life while obtaining your dream.
This was THEE comment I was looking for on this day 6/26/22👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 ... Hell! All of them need to look at this video and see that MEL @melodyholt was the only one that seemed to be looking out for Tisha's @latishascott best interest; NOT ruin her marriage🎯🎯
I came to the comments to write exactly these words, then I saw that you already put them so well together.
She always paint Mel so bad, Tisha needs to reflect on this for real.
It's plot put by Carlos relax
This Dude is something else! Those are his kids too.
jdelgardo2 does he know that😂😂😂
You heard what he said. I'm not defending this joke of a man. He said HER kids and meant it. You can't make a man treat your kids like they're his kids, which is why you need to know who you let on your atmosphere and around your children. This dude won't pay attention when he's watching them and they could get hurt because he clearly don't care. The children hear his snide remarks about how he feel about them. He slowly mentally beating those children self esteem down to the ground.
He's a trip😕
He is selfish and a poor excuse for a husband. His behavior is so unloving, self-centered and demeaning. He doesnt value what is important to her, nor does he care. He is emotionally & psychologically abusive. 😕
Preach! That is so true!
Very much so
OMG, THIS GUY IS UGHHHH😲
I'm in shock how she's made this normal. He's controlling. And she's starting to rebel now. This will test their marriage. She set it up so melody would be there and he couldn't force her in front of other ppl to stay home.
yeah she needs to wake up with thus ish
“ My off day doesn’t all of a sudden become you’re play day” he says to the person who has the kids alone for 90% of the time.
"She has 3 kids, and I just happen to be their daddy"
KILLS ME!
He is a real POS😡😡😡😡
Marsau is not her man; he is her Manager!!
I see what you did there.... lol
The managers that every talks crap about at work lol
I'm not asking you to watch YOUR kids........
Right! Smh
Period
That part. Talking about some my day off is not your playground. Neither is mine fool those kids have half your DNA I've been with them 5 days in a row your turn. Gtfo and go play golf tomorow le take them with you.
The fact that he thinks it's cute to demean his wifes potential to be a great mother and entrepreneur is a slap in the face..."We're not a power couple". You're not equally yoked either!
Ngozi Nwaka..... i feel him on not wanting to be a power couple because not everyone wants that and he said he laid out what marriage looks like to him BEFORE they got married and she's now bored with what she agreed to...for that, he has the right to have an issue with cuz as little as those kids are, they have a long way to go. i dont agree with all of his views but i didn't sign up for it so she has to lay in the bed made
@@diamondsandlipgloss Power couple- a couple consisting of two people who are each influential or successful in their own right.
Maybe my definition isn't the same
If that's not what he signed up for he shouldn't be married.
I don't think she is bored I think she wants to be more like the other women more productive than just motherhood. Am sure she had dreams goals and aspirations before marriage he shouldn't stand in her way of accomplishing those things.
@@diamondsandlipgloss I doubt he ever told her he expected her to work non-stop without breaks - that's like slavery - who in their right mind would sign up for it? He also has no regard for her mental health - everyone needs breaks. His thinking is entirely backward - if he wants that kinda life, he needs to go back to the 1940s. Even my grandfather's generation understood that there would be times when they'd have to watch the kids while their wife was out.
The man is UNREASONABLE, end of story.
@@lavienestpasunlongfleuvetr2559 if you watched the previous episodes, you would hear her say that if she knew she may not have married him. People get it straight. She's nice and intelligent and like most women can do whatever she puts her mind to!!
They are laughing but his mindset is repulsive. He probably is cheating too. Smh.
I felt that
Exactly
Did u see how he bit his bottom lip when he opened the door for Mrs Holt. The way he looked at her. I don't like anything about him. I don't know how she deals.
Natasha T. Marsau did say that a man should never admit cheating (in reference to Martell).
@@tametra_lasha BAM!!! He definitely said that. I was married for 12 years and my ex-husband NEVER admit it, but the phone calls and the pictures left on my windshield spoke for themselves.
The three kids and I happen to be their daddy comment is so hurtful to hear. wtf
yrah that was disgusting
Did that man just say she has three kids and I just happen to be their daddy?? To her girl friend?? Wow I am speechless and have no idea what she sees in him. He treats her terribly And he has her believing that she needs him
Highly disrespectful.
He's too cocky!!! Needs to be humbled real quick!!!
‘I am rescuing her from the last century’.
Damn, as a man I actually said "wow" out loud when he said "She has three kids and I just happen to be their dad". Bro...
I actually feel sorry for her. That’s the man she picked to be her husband. It probably wasn’t a fully informed decision. She might have thought it was cute in the beginning of the relationship because he presented as a “manly man,” working and providing financial stability so that she could stay home. Little did she know that the opportunity afforded her was not an opportunity but a life sentence. Just sad.
I bet that's exactly what happened!
HEY IT worked for them ,, until the cameras showed up .....$$$$ ........nothing like being financially secure not living check to check, worrying about how u gonna feed the kid or where u gonna get the money to pay the light bill or water bill
Souf Dallas ppl like you truly confuse me. Is money all you think it takes to sustain a family? Lack of sufficient monetary funds isn’t good for anybody. But neither is a lack of *emotional* funds. From BOTH parents.
EXACTLY, he made her feel like he was her SAVIOR instead of her husband. She thought she had it made in the shade being able to be a stay at home wife and mother because like he said she was from "across the tracks". Well little did she know what she really signed up for, like where was he while making their children? She a SINGLE MARRIED MOM.
Marsau is controlling and he seem abusive
Shanice Horton thought I was the only one who got that vibe from him
You can tell by his face too. He makes me uneasy
Being controlling and tearing down someone is abusive.Its very hard to leave when you love them. But she has to set some boundaries with him that he needs to respect period! She is grown and her mind can change with not filling fulfilled with just being at home with the kids! He is tripping !!! #counselingcouch +God+emotionalboundaries+respect+agapelove=healthymarriages 🙏💑👪💍
Shanice Horton...i agree on controlling...until i know more, imma disagree on the abuse...but my eye is on him.
You see how those hawk eyebrows of his squeeze together like they wanted to reach across the room to slap Latisha. Yep he is abusive.
"She has three kids and I just so happen to be their dad". Wow...very telling.
Marsau needs to know being a provider doesnt make him a good dad or a husband. Its almost like his wife is the housekeeper and mother. Hopefully her kids dont marry a man like her husband
@createdwitlove: HER daughter will most likely end up marrying the same type of dude because that's what her mother taught her by staying with a man who could care less.
As long as she stays with him, they most definitely will.... SMDH
She has 3 kids and I just so happen to be their dad? Girl, you put up with THAT????? You deserve so much more....😢😢
Those are his kids too but he wants to play golf on his day off instead of giving his wife a break.
He's a JOKE
Sandra Jackson He’s not just playing golf, trust!
@@privatelifejust_4me I agree.
why should he give a break? what nonsense he should step up and be a father just like she is being a mother
His behavior is disturbing!!! I'm sorry but it seems as if some women will take anything to live a certain type of lifestyle!!!
Marsau, just wants his wife to just stay at home with kids
so in other words she has to watch the children all the time she never has sometimes to her self how selfish I couldn't be married to him for anything in the world 🌎
whatevashewants 😂 ... Basically! She’s throwing off his schedule with the other girlfriends.
My husband was displaying these types of behavior in our marriage at one point and it was getting very tired draining and just plain controlling I got so mad one day and refuse to do anything until he sat down and listen to me and we end up having a very lengthy conversation after that he understood all my concerns and complaints and started to c me as an help mate and not a maid I love him and was happy that he changed 12 years later we r doing great thank God.
well thats just GREAT that yall talked the issue out
Did he say SHE had 3 kids and he just happened to be there dad???? Wow.
The nerve of this man
This dude gets on my nerves!
Not your nerves???
Narccisst. PERIOD....Ughhhh!...
Emotionally Draining...Grow Up Marsupial👀
Nicole Notice 🤣
I cackled lmao 😂
He’s not a narc but he definitely has control issues.
Melody said ... “You think so ?” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
She has 3 kids and I just happen to be their daddy??!!! This has to be scripted. 🙄😳🤔
Of course it is
Carlos, you wrong for this. You know damn well this shxt ain't real! #scriptedcomedyreality
I still can't believe he has the nerve to say that... Never know someone could be a deadbeat dad who lives in the house with their children. He is the absolute worst example of a man n their relationship is 💯 in his favor.. She's to be blame as well bcuz she allows him to behave like that
Nah Bruh.....thats his truth and that's sad!!! That decent woman has to put up with a manipulative charade of biblical gender roles!!!
That part got me.
It's bad enough that he speaks to & treats his wife like trash, but then he feels comfortable enough to rubbish his wife to another woman. Phew, let me breathe .....
“She has three kids and I just happen to be their dad.” If I see that as his kid I would be so resentful towards my dad
His mother in law can get him ALL THE WAY TOGETHER!! LOVE HER
This is what Tisha wants to forget. Mel was uplifting and supportive meanwhile Tisha’s was mocking her marriage.
One day while he's at work, she is going to pack up the house and kids.
Man.. if I could just walk away.. I need to so mad!😔😔😔😔😔
This footage is all a judge needs to see to grant her full custody and hell be paying child support out the ying yang with his goofy self
@@jasminevaliente96 Alimony included.
@@jasminevaliente96 think about this for a moment....can you imagine what a living hell he would put her through? She's probably financially stable to say "I'm good Judge...just grant me full custody, no visitation rights...ty. When someone like that you have to go all the way by dotting your "i's" and crossing your "t's"....I'm talking full throttle. If she left him he would breakdown.
She needs too
This is why I am not married because if a man treated me like that I would be in jail
Amen! Do what makes you feel good and don't settle for less. Too many black women settling bc they want to keep a man around. I got high blood pressure from just watching this fool. Couldn't been me as I have no patience!
Thissss I refuse to be a single Mom in a marriage. I'm fine with no ring I'll have peace with my son.
@@krystingrant6292 💯
And if mines treated me like this I would be right along with you😐.
nah its other reasons why, maybe your SELFISH....it worked for their relationship, he the BREADWINNER, they live in that house because of him...lights are on because of him...she take care of the household and nurtures the kids.....dont sign up for it if you not down with it..she signed up for it, she enjoyed not having to work and be told what to do and when to do it ....we all make choices in life. how the hell you gon physically hurt a man cuz u signed up for somethin and now that the cameras around u want different ...jus plain crazy silliness
He dont want to be bothered with his own kids...this is so crazy...why he even have a wife & kids!
He's upset about her saying what is non-negotiable, yet he's telling her what she's going to do and what she's not going to do, and not negotiating. The way he looks at and talks to her, I'm glad the cameras are there. No telling what kind of choke hold he'd have her in otherwise.
Did he just say she has 3 kids and he just happen to be the father smh
Ms Independent My jaw dropped. I would never let him crawl on top of me after I saw him say that on the show.
He is a controlling as hell this will not get better
Ummm sir they are your kids too.
@goldenj1981: Um, no they're not his children. Not defending this guy, just speaking logic. Getting married don't make your husband an automatic father to YOUR children. That's why it's important to date and make sure he accept, love, will provide for and protect YOUR children like they're HIS before you get married.
@@estellabutler5424, are you saying, she came into the marriage with 3 children? If this is correct, I didn't know this. But, what you are saying is exactly correct.
Rescuing her from the last century lol.
That's one of Melody's best lines
🤣 I died
Did this man really say I have to step in and be a whole mom? No dude, you got to step in and be a whole dad. And did he really say that she has kids and I just happen to be their dad? I'm done.
So he can’t spend 2 hours with the kids? WTH?? .... we in 2019 brother 😂🤣... you would be talking all afternoon while I’m walking out the door ... bye babe 🤣
This is why you put some space between the first and second child.... you have to see what type of father he is.
I just found new appreciation for my husband i will never complain abt him playing video games on his day off ever gain!
A whole mom?? No, Marsau, STEP UP and be a WHOLE DAD!
I’m glad I wasn’t the only one that watched that video and was disgusted!
Rule number 1 of being a mother is taking time for self. Take care of self. She hasn’t forsaken anything!
Not every one that is married provides a balance for children. For her to tell him he has to watch his own children is ridiculous.
I wish I was married to a man like Marsau he would NOT put me in a box! I can't believe Latisha acts like it's fine he treats her that way! I love how MeL just laughed at him!!
In the words of Aretha "ain't no way", It just ain't no way baby!
Frfr.... AIN'T NO WAY
Well damn she is a single parent with a boyfriend bc he not helping with nothing
She is so pretty. I wish I would’ve found a man to take care of me and the children and I got to stay at home. But he is going too far. He doesn’t even know anything about his own children. I would not have it if I was her.
kat64470 d
yes you would ....you'd fall in line...just like he cant come home and say, "hey babe i need the mortgage money or the lightbill" these are necessities in life...jus saying, everyone has their role in this relationship they are in, he plays his role ..breadwinner, earner
I love melody holt
How can you show your kids love if you don’t spend ANY time with then... but then again if your Marsau paying the mortgage is suffice. That’s why he doesnt even know what they eat or are allergic to. Just pitiful
OMG..she doesn't want to be a trophy wife. Isn't that a good thing? She is super patient. Hope it works out.
Marsau irritates me. I would NEVER allow a man to prevent me from living my fullest life. She should have NEVER started this foolishness. You have to train husbands and let them know what you will or will not deal with.
She needs to leave him he wants a nanny and maid not a wife and partner
Omg! I’m just seeing this today and I just started watching this show. Lord I feel so bad for Tisha. Two years later and to be honest nothing looks to have changed with him. Girl run!! U should be over it by now. Your a single woman in a marriage
Marsau is controlling, he got to go. A 12 year notice???? I hope Latisha stand her grounds with him and follow her career dreams.
I so hope he is acting for TV
EXACTLY! I believe he is
Word on the Huntsville streets is this accurate. All the story lines 🙈🙉🙊
Yes, he's acting and Carlos thank we the viewers crazy as hell if he think we go believe this.
His wife was on sister circle and she confirmed this is how she and he think
Sadly he's not and there's so many men like this lol
This clip needs to be archived - this clip crazy!!
Wow. My heart goes out to her. 💝
His children will see this one day and hopefully stay the hell away from him and keep their children away from him too.
He just rubs everything in my body the wrong way . This entire scene was cringy & i wouldve been divorced the next day lmao
Yoooo he used to talk crazy to her lmfaooo 🤣🤣🤣
Tisha getting everything she wants 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Did he really just say no she has three kids and I just happen🤨 to be there father. LIKE WHAT!!! OMG 😳
"She has 3 kids and I just happen to be their daddy" ...he is trash
??? He don’t wanna watch his own kids ?? You can’t babysitting your own kids it’s called raising them 😩😩
sooo when tisha made that comment that mel uses ppl...ummm she needs to go an rewatch this episode cuz sweetie she gave u the BLUEPRINT. and that is the reason why ur at and doing what ur doing now tisha. mel got ur behind out the house.
This is why you never covet people's relationships just because it looks like they have it together. No relationship is #goals. You never know what they have behind the scenes. A successful marriage is more than having money.
He doesn't want to take care of his own kids .WOW!
Its pretty messed up that he wouldn't want to spend some time with his children. They're all of a significant age. They can all walk and use the bathroom by themselves. I'm sure they all have their own rooms and can keep themselves occupied. Why is he tripping?
I don't think peacocks fly. They are beautiful to look at though.
Sophia Henry That’s exactly how he wants her to be. 😂😒
@@scilines yes. Stay in your place and be beautiful
They do fly. I live in Florida and see them flying alot. They don't fly very high up though.
@Sophia--I think that was a play on words; fly like a peacock Agree with Hartamtay they do not fly high more of a glide (if any). I think hubby mentioned the bird that he wanted to (smile). I think her hubby is a good guy, but she should consider hiring some help to watch the kids. It seems as though he definitely has a strong mindset of a traditional role for husband and wife.
He looked so defeated at that door looking out.He's cheating&she's in denial.
This man said my wife has 3 kids and I just happen to be their dad 🤣🤣
Babe please. He’s been acting like this before they got married. There’s no reason why she’s acting Soooo shocked
Is he for real about his own children? Oh my goodness, I can’t with him, he is too much. She has three kids and I just have to be their daddy - WOW 😮
It's so weird seeing a man who wants absolutely nothing to do with his own kids. This man is strange and I just don't understand why they had kids, he obviously doesn't want to be a father, he had kids for that legacy BS to pass on a name and to say he produced. What a toxic person and his kids will have no respect for him when they get older and they will retaliate in the worst way and want nothing to do with anything about his business that he is killing himself to build. He thinks he's doing something honorable but he has no idea about the matters of the heart! I'm glad he got a vasectomy because he should have never been a father to anyone. Money is not the only aspect of providing, he is emotionally bankrupt.
He looked at his wife like "dang she does look good , that's what you're wearing ?"
So she can't go out for one day and leave the kids with THEIR Dad!???? Wth!???
I don't feel for her. She knew he was like this before they were married.
She said she didnt at their dinner, said she might not have married him had she known. He didnt turn like this until she got pregnant.
They seem to worry about the Holt’s but they’re relationship is not all that. I love the Holt’s. I don’t like that he cheated but I believe they will make it.
L Galloway I don’t know about the Holts but this marriage sucks.
Chant Bagby I agree that this marriage sucks. I think she’s going to get fed up with his controlling ways
And even if they dont make it Mel smart she stay networking to secure her own bag! Thats what this girl need to do instead of calling mel bougie ask for advice because he seems like the type if they divorced he would fight or want to dictate how much she deserves for the kids she better wake up
I feel the other couples are jealous of the Holts..
BUGGING, absolutely unacceptable! You’re begging YOUR HUSBAND to watch his OWN children, that’s nuts!! And did he just say he just happens to be their father omgg 🤦🏽♀️
Wow! I would be so offended if my father said “I just happen to be your daddy”
So he can’t watch his own kids ? 😞 if this is marriage, Lord i think i wanna stay single 😂.
How do y'all marry men like this? Like this is crazy, I would of def left him. And she just laughing like it's funny 🤦🏽♀️
“She has three kids and I just happen to be their dad.” Wtf
It's sad to watch a grown married women beg her husband and father of three kids to watch them
THIS IS WHY WE NEED THE FULL EPISODE OWN!!!! WE WANT THE TEA!!!!
This is 100% for entertainment value. At the cost of both degrading themselves and making each other look and sound foolish grow up for your children's sake no amount of money is worth this trash talking.
He's not acting.. that's how he feel.. two yrs later and it done got worst!
She really saved her out the house 😂😂😂😩😩😩
Tisha is not allowed to leave the house because. That cuts into his mistress time
Hello Ladies,
We've all seen that type of boyish ways before. He's showing all the signs of low self-esteem, lacking self confidence, insecure, afraid of her success, she's a woman...meaning she needs to know her place in this marriage.
For him to talk like a fool to his wife is disturbing. Be careful of these so call men....eventually when they don't get their way they act out. Whether it's cheating, spousal abuse; physically or mentally. It just seems like to me that he's got some other mess going on with him...ijs. Normally when your doing too much, it will definitely show good or bad.
Of course, your going to have your ups and downs in your marriage, no marriage is perfect. Being jealous of your spouse becoming successful and building in the marriage is awful.
Your safe single ladies for now...that's just one less mess of a boy out here on the streets for you to worry about.
Wow my wife has all the freedom in the world. this guy got his wife living in a dictatorship kind of lifestyle wow.... I wonder if he was taking notes from r Kelly’s book (lol)
Their marriage is a joke. He IS ALSO THE HELP. When the mom needs space, she needs to know he is supposed there for HIS kids.
R.kelly dont got nun to do with this
Mevin Hart read my comment very slowly
This man said, “she has three kids I just happen to be their daddy” 🥴🥴🥴
Random: The my little pony @ 0:14 on the nightstand magically disappears @ 0:29