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@@nathilism i’ve seen that happen like once on twitter and the person had plenty of replies saying the opposite w more likes than the tweet. idk what kind of communities you’re around that says those things regularly. i’m a transman and every trans person ik believes that genital preferences aren’t transphobic lol.
How to be super bisexual: 1. Have two partners at all times 2. Cuff jeans all the way up to hips 3. Forget fingerguns. Greet people with real guns 4. Septum piercing
Ow. The first tiktok was headache inducing. I’m glad you’ve covered this, Sam. I’m five minutes in and I’m so glad I didn’t deep-dive when I heard people discussing this...
Yeah, it's bad. I was looking at the comments on Twitter. It's fine to have a preference, but the whole point of this sexuality is to mock the community.
@@RedPlaystationController the only thing lame here was yall making a WHOOOOLE sexuality and even making the flag colors the ph/grindr color 💀💀💀💀💀 you guys are so beyond sad and embarrasing oh my god
Also mention the fact that nor/Mal was made as a way for gay men to tell other gay men they have a piss kink, its funny watching them try to defend themselves while you congratulate them on being so honest about their kink
@@Dicezai Omg, that is amazing. I would love to be the fly in the room when these "supers" are falling over themselves trying to explain how they are TOTALLY NOT GAY, haha. 😂
my dude who included nonbinary in the list of sexualities reminds me of when I had to come out at school at 16 because I started dating a girl and a classmate stopped me and said "so you're bisexual but, like, what's your gender" which put me in the position in teaching them about how gender and sexuality don't correlate instead of them having to do the work of googling it
@@lacatolica1080 that’s correct, my friends and family are all very supportive of me, but just because i am not oppressed doesn’t mean I can’t ignore the people who are bullied, beaten up, and abused who are in the same community as me. I’m a white cis lesbian, and I have a lot of privilege, I’ve never had to fight for my rights, but lesbians before me have. And I’m proud they did, because now I can live my life without having to fight, but these straight people have never had to fight, and that’s why I’m offended, because they’re making a mockery of the lesbians before me
Ikr the most privileged ppl want to be oppressed. If you want to be oppressed then you have enough privilege to say that so I suggest they check their privilege
I asked my brother if he would date a trans woman, he said he doesn't see himself having a relationship with a trans person (especially since he's never met a trans person other than me) , but if he genuinley formed an emotional bond with a trans woman he wouldnt mind,, i think this is a perfect example of someone who has a preference, but isnt toxic about it and respects the community. in my opinion it isnt wrong to have a preference, but dont make it your job to let everyone know how much you reject the thought of dating trans people. its just being transphobic and calling yourself lgbtq+ is just- not ok.
I guess this would be kind of me I don't date yet because I don't feel mentally ready to date but if I find that a trans person is the right partner for me I wouldn't mind and even if I did not want to date a trans person I still respect them for being their gender and their gender is valid.
you should be allowed to say you don't want to date trans people under any circumstance why is it any different than saying you wouldn't date a person of the same sex as you? why are you people so desperate to get special treatment and absolute authority over everyone else?
I don’t think they understand what “preference” means either. To have a “preference” is to say that you prefer one thing over the other, but WON’T blatantly turn the other thing down just because it exists.
exactly! they just call it a preference to make it seem less transphobic when it’s straight up not a preference. and how could you even have a preference for cis people? like there isn’t really a difference in dating a trans person then a cis person
@@the_devil4676 calling it a preference is not correct i agree. when you prefer chocolate over vanilla it doesnt mean you dont eat vanilla ever. but i dated one trans person and cis people. it's different and personally not my cup of tea. what do you call it then?
That’s not true at all. Preference defines as: a greater liking for one alternative over another or others. A greater liking could mean you like one thing over the other thing, but you don’t like the other thing at all. If you don’t like it at all, you WOULD turn it down. Of course this changes, but in the context you used it, you’re wrong.
@@dr00g35 dating a trans person isn’t different then dating a cis person. there literally isn’t. you had different experiences in dating because those two people are different human beings it didn’t have to do with their chromosomes. dating a trans person is just like dating any other fucking person.
Straw Man and yet this but unironically. Super Ace is very much real, and for good reason. In spite of being defined as non-sexual, the LARPists have convinced themselves that there is such thing as 'non-sexual kinks', as to excuse forcing sex anyway.
I feel like this has similar vibes to "Platinum gay" and "Gold star lesbians." Like people are trying to act superior or like more "pure." "Superbi" doesn't even make sense to me. If they continue to talk about how sexuality is only about being attracted to a biological sex, bisexual people like both sexes according to them. So a bi person should have no problem being with a trans person who could be either sex, right? "Superbi" is very blatantly transphobic. "Yes I like both sexes but a person being trans is the reason I won't date them."
I understand people have preferences, even bi people do, it's not b/w like the definition, but be respectful how you convey it dammit. This is transphobic. Being proud and literally identifying as someone that wouldn't date a trans person is transphobic.
@Elijah Clayton you’re right about that, but why are y’all trying to make a “sexuality” out of a preference?🤨 like- can y’all not just be straight with a preference of cis people and stop mocking the lgbtq+ community while you’re at it?
@Elijah Clayton we’re not calling people transphobic because they won’t date trans people. we’re calling them transphobic because of the REASON why they won’t date trans people
@Elijah Clayton you 100% have the right to prefer a specific genitalia and or want biological kids and that being your reason to prefer cis people but the people saying that trans women and men aren’t real women and men and that’s why they won’t date trans people IS transphobic
As a fellow transgender male, I don’t care if people don’t want to date me because of who I am, their loss not mine, I just want them to respect me and not call me a fake man because I was born in the wrong body, you don’t have to want to date me, just respect.
@BENKYism Saying you respect them then not respecting their gender identity is a contradiction, He is a man and dysphoria is just a part of being trans we are able to overcome it with support.
Personally, I’m trans too and if someone found out I’m trans and wouldn’t want to date me, I don’t care. If its truly just transphobia, I wouldn’t want to date them either
@@jessethomas9676 Super Stupids are not valid. You are straight, get over it. You aren't special, no one is special. You aren't pressed even though it seems like some sort of fetish for you to feel like that.
To me, for It to be a 'real sexuality' it needs to be backed up by medical research (like gays, bis and pans.) And not just a 'super' version of an already existing sexuality. Sexuality is different for anyone, and the 'labels' like gay, bis and pans are more of an umbrella, call yourself whatever you are comfortable calling yourself, just please dont call yourselves a 'super' version of a sexuality or gender. love yourselves, don't hate others♡♡♡
@@JerseyHilarity No, no it's absolutely not. See, gay, bi, lesbians, and basically all members of the LGBTQ+ have existed forever, they just couldn't show it or else they'd be killed. Now superstriaght is literally just something some guy made up. See the difference now?
When you tell them "I'm not heterophobic, but I wouldn't want to associate with you and want you hanging around my kids. Don't worry I have straight friends, I can't be heterophobic." Or any other version of that sentence and they say "Ahhh grrrr when why can you say that?? If we say that we will be called homophobic grrrrrr!!!!!" Like? You have been doing this to us for millennia, but when we use the same sentence they use against us they cry BYE I HATE THEM
exactly when ppl say I hate men/straight ppl/white ppl it's the generational trauma and oppression we're coping with. if ppl understood that they wouldn't get offended
I identify as bi for now, still trying to figure stuff out but I feel like this is the right label, I like all types of people. Women, men, NB people... I don't care if they're trans or cis or what have you. To me, if I find you hot and you have a decent personality, it doesn't really matter what gender you are, with one exception: "I refuse to date those weird homophobic/transphobic IDIOTS who try and justify their opinions by saying that it's their sexuality. You can like whoever you like and dislike whoever you like, but don't be a dick about it. P.S sorry for the rant and I'm amazed that you are still reading.
I am also trying to figure out my sexuality. I think I maybe aromantic hetero or bisexual though to be honest it's difficult for me to tell what attraction feels like
@@roserose109 They *aren't* like other straights, they're pretty blatantly transphobic, and the subreddit and movement on twitter shows that it's surprisingly not a joke movement. It's not a meme, and that's why a shit ton of people are upset
Yeah, its like, they don't need to worry because I don't think any trans people wanted to date them in the first place. They probably want a boyfriend, not a son
I’m not trans, however, I have a feeling that people aren’t calling you transphobic because you aren’t attracted to trans people but rather because you’re saying that trans women and men aren’t “real” women and men, y’know, just a thought
You would be right. Most of us don’t really care if someone would rather not date a trans person, that’s not transphobic, it only becomes transphobic when they take it this far and say things like “they’re not real men/women”, as you mentioned. There are a lot of ways to respectfully say that you don’t want to date trans people like, “Oh, sorry, I’m not really into that.”
7:00 as a bisexual, I find it extremely ironic that he put bisexuals in this text, WE ARE ATTRACTED TO BOTH GENDERS, WE DONT GIVE 2 FLYING FUCKS ABOUT WHATS DOWN THERE
"Only date women with xx " " produce a baby" Intersex people exist. My partner is intersex, missing an X chromosome. So she doesn't have xx & here's the kicker. She can't produce a baby because of it. So does that mean she's not a women?? 😂 Like God, I swear. Some people really need to go back to school. Like I'm trans guy, and even if I wasn't trans. I have 10+ chronic illnesses that cause me to be unable to produce a child anyways, because if I even attempted it would kill me or the child or both. There are several reasons to why someone who identifies as a wen wouldn't be able to produce a baby.
I am so exhausted hearing people cite definitions, and not understand definitions. Like, they are equating transphobia with their high school discovery of the word arachnophobia. The definition is literally "an extreme OR irrational, fear OR aversion, to a particular thing." Irrational fears can be as minute as biases, and "aversion" includes disgust or avoidance of. Like... why are these people always so proudly stupid?
@LoveYourWhiteness #blessed It doesn't really address the problem. It does feel better though... and i am truly exhausted. So you're probably right. I just wish getting people to think critically and better avoid future implicit bigotry, didn't have to be so damn hard.
@LoveYourWhiteness #blessed No matter how edgy or funny you think you are, you're still exuding major stupidity. Not only have you made it painfully obvious how little understanding you have on these topics, you also think it's genuinely funny to show off this ignorance. Based on the literal definition of what a sexuality is, "super straight" is not and will never be a sexuality. Sexuality is not a "social construct" because it's one of the most basic naturally occurring things. Sexuality has always and will always exist. There has always been life forms attracted to the opposite, same, or multiple genders or simply not attracted at all. "Super straight" is a preference that y'all claim to be a sexuality as a way to simply mock LGBTQ+ people. It's not cute, nor is it funny. It's downright disrespectful.
@LoveYourWhiteness #blessed oh... I should have read your name before thinking you were reasonable. Look princess, I'm going through a pretty rough depression episode right now, give me a few days, and I'll be up for playing your silly game.
Alright guys Im gonna say it. Preference != Sexuality. You like men? That's a sexuality. You prefer people with small feet? That's gross, and also just a preference.
If I’m bisexual and I have a preference for men it doesn’t mean I’m in a subcategory of bisexual and a completely different sexuality. Straight men are trying so hard to be oppressed like just say you’re straight with a preference for women born female.
@Skylar Landucci “super-straights” are claiming it’s just about preference and that no-one should offended but at the same time would be offended if someone’s preferences didn’t include them. Its almost like hearing people give unwanted comments about how they would never date someone like you is hurtful. U can have preferences but not everyone needs to hear them :)
what the fuck are you on about? women are the people who get pregnant and men are the people who get women pregnant. not that difficult to understand...
@@rattlingduck8454 not every woman can get pregnant so basing a woman’s worth off of her having a kid reduces them to being a baby maker. Not that difficult to understand
@@HSdirectioner5 the women that can't get pregnant have diseases that are unnatural. Bottom line is that they are supposed to be able to give birth. Also, It dosen't 'reduce' them to anything. Its just pointing out a fact.
sexuality: i only like women, i’m a lesbian preference: i think women with short hair are more attractive but i’d let a long haired woman take me on a date anytime (still a lesbian) edit: this blew up thanks, be gay fellas edit2: btw this isn’t necessarily my own sexuality/preferences (even tho it is), it’s an example of the difference between both bc people keep confusing them
The way I try to explain it to people is: If you don't want to date them, and they just happen to be trans, then that's fine. But if you don't want to date them *because* they're trans, then you're transphobic.
@@brianapereira2694 yeah, like if you're attracted to a woman and then discover that she's trans, bruh are you just stop being attracted to her? I mean, there is the genitalia preference but I never saw a trans person saying that not wanting to have sex with someone that has a penis is transphobic, and the super transphobes also didn't mention it so...
So because I don't want to date a man who thinks they are a women, makes me transphobic? If thats the case, I am the most trans"phobic" person out there.
"I didn't like all the hate and bullying." Welcome to being a part of the LGBT+ community! You all wanted to be here so bad, so now you have to deal with the negative part of it too :)
Its bait to show the hypocrisy of becoming the bully when you are hating on people for who they are attracted to. Just in this Vid, Sam was the very embodiment of a school bully towards this kid for his sexual preference. And yes yes, we all know its a joke. But you fell for it.
I’m gay but I wouldn’t date a trans women ONLY because I have severe trauma and male sex characteristics cause me to panic, I’ve met some wonderful trans women who I wish I could have been romantically involved with cause they were so kind and amazing, however when it comes down to it anything my brain associates with ‘male’ will cause a panic attack and that’s not good for either of us. Also on a less serious note some of these guys have totally hooked up with a trans women and didn’t even realise she was trans😂 I love when the sad men who can’t get laid make it even harder for themselves to get laid 😂
Why is it so hard to understand that “phobia” doesn’t even mean fear? It means aversion, which includes an irrational dislike of something, which includes bigotry.
You can have a preference, but just because someone is trans doesn’t make them any less of the gender they identify as. So instead of saying you like girls, just say you like vagina and then maybe people will realize your preference. My preference is Penis so that is male but if a Non Binary or GenderQueer or whatever person has a penis I’m not gonna say “ew no your trans”. So you can have a preference but just don’t date someone because of the fact that they are trans. Btw I’m only on 2:06 but that TikTok was pissing me off.
@@lobbyskids2 why would we be angry? we’ve literally existed for millions of years and you just made this up like a week ago... idk what to tell you lol you’re literally doing our job for us by telling the world you’re ignorant and want to be oppressed so bad bc you can’t stand not being the centre of the universe for 1 second
As a trans person I find nothing wrong with having a genital preference, its your personal boundaries ofc. But when you say Trans women aren't women and Trans men aren't men, so you dont want to date them/us, thats transphobia.
They could easily say that, but they can't even hide their transphobia. You'd think that these 21st century kids would be better at lying given that they have such a talent for it, but the transphobes just can't seem to manage.
Ok, but what is the difference? Like I'm legit just asking. What's the difference between me saying "I only want to date women born with a vagina" and saying "real women"? When people say that...they are defining "real" as born with their preferred genitals. So if you say a genital preference is ok...what exactly do you mean?
@@CLsmoove_1000 because saying "real women" implies that trans women aren't real women, which isn't true. If you genuinely just have a genital preference, then that's okay.
i’m 14 years old, transgender boy. I’ve been jumped by kids older than me when I was only 11 years old, I always feel dramatic but it’s genuinely traumatized me to the point I refused to go to school or outside for nearly two years after. The bullying was extreme consisting of fighting, slurs, being deadnamed/misgendered by groups of kids AND ADULTS at once and even being followed home where kids threw things at my door. it hurts knowing that the people leading the protect trans kids movement are still kids themselves forced to grow up too fast. (14-20 years old)
“No fat chicks” says the overweight dude. Edit: Guys I was just reacting to the video itself where the guy said “no fat chicks”. I know that women and other genders could say that to men too, but my comment was specifically talking about that guy. You don’t have to make gender a competition. And btw there’s a difference between preference and discrimination. The guy said “fat chicks”, which is not a very nice thing to say. He could’ve kept his preference to himself, without having to be offensive.
As a based white cis straight guy I say we are proud of what we are and we won't let the opresive LGBTV terrorist organization police our bodies. Super straight forever glory to Rhodesia
People should just make it a rule of thought to not date people with unhealthy habits. Edit: There's a bunch of people here who think that when I say "unhealthy habits" I mean only fat people. Guess what, you can be unhealthy and skinny too! But if you immediately associate bad habits with obesity, you might suffer a severe case of fatphobia
@TAIDE Being obese isn't the only indicator of bad habits. Smoking and drinking too much are still bad habits, but their relation to body mass varies from person to person. There's a lot of people out there who still make it into the healthy spectrum, but most of these "body positivity" advocates straight up refuse to exercise
No, it's more like "hey, I'm a lesbian, I prefer women who have a vagina... I'm a super lesbian, I just don't believe "women" with penises are real women."
@@chuggon7595 women can have penises. you can prefer women with vaginas and not be transphobic but if you go around saying women with penises aren't real women then you're transphobic and i don't like you :)
I’ve met a ton of trans people who don’t date cis people at all ngl. I get it, chasers are a huge issue and there’s a lot of things your partner just wouldn’t understand
I remember one dude at school making the joke that his pronouns were see/saw so I started referring to see and saw. He got mega pissed and my response was "but you said those were your pronouns-?" he replied with "it waS JusT a JoKe." like okay Brandon if it was a joke I would have laughed
@Zer0_0 everyone's uses pronouns and it won't hurt you to use them , that's the real snowflake energy , when other people's gender or preferred pronouns affect you for some reason.
People who use the joke “pronouns: nor/mal” are the type to get pissy when we start referring to them as such. Like sorry? I thought you said those were your pronouns stupid.
i love it when people say they "don't use pronouns" and then get mad when you just say their name over and over again. it's just so hilarious to watch karma bite them in the ass
Honestly, men who would date trans women are more straight than these manlets anyways because that shows that there's one less thing to stop them from dating any given woman.
@@pvt0elquelolea303 Except they are the exact opposite. The super strait joke started as a result of society pressuring people into relationships with people they have not interest in dating. Fighting to keep the right of consent and the ability to say no consequence free. The other are people wanting to break consent laws.
@@OMGUKILLKENNY2no?.. MAP has nothing to do with relationships to begin with it's all about making non-acting Minor Attracted People less oppressed if they were to act on their feelings they wouldn't be a MAP, they'd be a convicted pedophile hope that clears things up
There should be. Modern society is made possible due to white European culture, the Renaissance, and the Enlightenment. In fact you should be thanking whites everyday
Not only is it not a preference, it's not a choice. They make out that preference means their sexuality. I'm pansexual, I'm into men women, and everything in between. But my preference is women. But im still pansexual
@@kimberleymonroe8625 This right here. But they can choose to be jerks or not, and by making a big, stinkin' deal out of being "super straight" and saying they'd never date NB/trans/xenogender people, they're just choosing to be jerks. No one wants to be with them anyway.
Nobody is forcing anyone to date a transgenders but making a whole label to basically say that someone isn’t male or female is honestly disgusting. Pls ignore my grammar.
There are people who literally say "you're transphobic if you don't want to date trans people". That's trying to force people to date transgender people right there. That's like saying a gay man is a misogynist because he doesn't want to date women, which is just as ridiculous and disgusting. And you're right, non-binary is a whole label that says someone isn't male or female, which is a straight up lie. You're either male or female and you can't choose your gender. Gender and sexuality are not a choice.
@@addienoelle3329 I think it is one of those cases where you do not really know what it's like unless you are that person. People who were non-binary had felt like something was off for years and years leading to health issues. What solved it? Starting to live life somewhere in between these 2 genders. Although I do agree with you that saying that one is transphobic because they wouldn't date a trans person simply isn't accurate, I feel what makes it transphobic is their reasoning. People may have a genitalia preference, or perhaps they want children. That is not transphobic. Implying at the same time that trans people aren't their gender: now, THAT is transphobic. I may not know what it is like to be trans, but I've heard of enough stories of people describing the feeling of being trapped in the wrong body and being ostracized by society. Having rights taken away just because of how a human being feels. Gender dysphoria can be deadly, and what fuels it? Answer: people not accepting the trans person for who they truly are. Hope that this explained why I feel that we should take care of the people struggling with their identity. And what better way than simply accepting them for who they say they are, because they know more about themselves than we know about them :)
They’re the worst really, I called out a dude yesterday for being SS and I literally got a death threat, and people were reporting my account and calling me a Nazi. Really open minded people Edit: thank you all for this support, and you people are also valid and deserve to be safe
Defo fucked up, tbh I saw some people pointing out their use of SS (which also could refer to the nazi "SS") so they could also be using it as a dogwhistle :/ (idk for sure but that's the point of a good dogwhistle isn't it)
Not being attracted to transgender people: Not inherently transphobic. 🤷♀️ Saying transgender women are “not real women”: Um, yeah, that’s transphobic.
Yeah, that's the core of the issue really. "Super Straight" isn't transphobic by definition, and people who say it is are wrong. It's the justification for WHY they're not interested in trans women that's transphobic. I think if most of these people said "cis women" there wouldn't be much of a video, because it's a lot harder to debate who is and isn't a cis woman. But I mean they're literally calling them Trans women, so they accept they're at least PARTIALLY women. There's a difference between "trans women aren't real women" and "trans women aren't really biological women"
@@williamrutherford553 Why would I even need to justify my sexuality? Many just don't find trans ppl attractive. I think trans women are unattractive. WHY this is the case is none if your business and it's certainly NOT transphobia.
@@knight_lautrec_of_carim again, not dating trans people isnt the issue. its saying you wouldnt sate trans people becase you dont see them as what they identify as that is
@@Nyabot-mh2zi why? how they identify and what they are isn't the same. They can try to identify as a biological female but they are not. And I only date biological females thus I am not dating transwomen because they are nor biological females. none of that has anything to do with any kind of phobia.
Im pretty sure they call it ""hate"" because it nullifies ALL threir arguments, thus making them look wrong. (BTW, most of the, most would want to be a victim so they dont have to do anything. In all reality they should just "look into the mirror and not the window.)
@@Asparas wow ur so smart it's not like words change meaning over time or anything also, does that mean infertile women or women who have had a hysterectomy aren't women to you too?
@LK. Pawz so just because they were born female means they should remain female? Are you advocating for some kind of privilege over others for having hit some kind of genetic lottery over others who didn’t?
wow, you're stupidity actually went full circle and you still didn't see it. that's the fucking point. its not a choice, its not a preference. I as a straight man, personally, am hardwired to only like biological women. hell, brunettes don't even do anything for me, but you want to force rape culture on people and think a dick would do something for me? its not different to a lesbian not wanting to fuck a man, are they heterophobes now? I wouldn't say I'm super straight and first thought I was stupid, but after seeing how much it upsets people they don't get to force rape culture on to me and the fact those same people want to call you transphobe for only liking women, I'm always going to say I'm super straight now.
@@aryedits3326 wdym? Being lesbian doesn't mean "mainly attracted to women" it means being FULLY attracted to women, there's no man. I don't "prefer" dating women. I only date women. Because that's the whole point of being lesbian
@@sunshine-df3tc Well I mean like if you only date women meaning you'd definitely prefer a woman over a man, since you are only attracted to women not men.
sam just making little jokes about transphobes and making transphobes look like jokes and such speaks so much, and he doesn’t realize how much he’s doing, and what an advocate for the lgbtq+ community he’s being
alright yall i have a preference i only like blondes so i’m making a new sexuality called blondesexual. only people who are BORN blonde not fake blondes who use bleach and dyes. i don’t hate brunettes i just don’t think they’re real blondes so don’t call me brunettephobic. it’s a movement ✊
Exactly and that is how many of the LGBTQ sexualities that super straight parallels are. I'm glad you see the point. For example this is from the University of Massachusetts on their list of valid sexualities and what is taught in gender studies classes. *Sapiosexual people* Individuals who are attracted to people based on intelligence, rather than gender identity or biological sex. *Skoliosexual people* Individuals who are sexually attracted to people with non-binary gender identities. So tell me if those are valid sexualities why are people that are only attracted to the opposite gender not the opposite gender identity not valid?
@Imperion I think the og commentor meant as “any action” in a generalisation form to their ehem adult fun life... basically the only place they feel satisfaction in their sex) life. That’s what I interpreted tho so eh
@@deltalithium3940 Are you implying that that are preferences or do you just want to know what these terms mean? Edit: Just gonna explain what I know for everyone who wants to know: Ally is a cishet person who supports people who are LGBTQ+, Allo stands for Allosexual/Alloromantic, basically the opposite of Asexual/Aromantic (So when you DO feel sexual/romantic attraction of any kind). And demigender (either girl or boy) is when you partially feel like a girl/boy, but not enoough to actually be that gender (for example like 20% girl, but 80% not girl [this 80% are a bit like absence of gender, not just another gender]). I'm not 100% sure with demigender, but the other ones are definitely what I wrote
@@deltalithium3940 Demiboy is someone who identifies as partially male, it falls under the non-binary umbrella. They usually use he/they pronouns. A demigirl is the same but with female, and they usually use she/they pronouns. Someone correct me if I’m wrong, as I don’t identify as either of those genders, and this is based on my independent research.
@@attaatta5176 actually I am been told about Demi sexual which is that you have to have romantic feelings if you ever want to have like sexual feelings like you’re in capable of having them sexually if you don’t have them already romantically
Them: “I’m not transphobic” Also them: “I only like real (cis) women” suggesting they only this cis women are real women and trans women aren’t real women
Although most say that and that’s poor phrasing I would more say it like “I’d rather not date someone with the knowledge that at one point they had body parts that I’m not physically attracted to.” Guys wanna date a girl that’s had girl parts. Some guys don’t mind I really don’t see why this has become a big deal 😂
@@caluminnes579 having a preference is fine. invalidating trans women is not. creating a sexuality to mock a community that gets killed for existing is not fine. do you see this issue?
"You're a real woman? Produce me a baby then." Me, a cis woman that has PCOS and also just doesn't want to have babies naturally: No. I don't think I will.
im fully okay with people not wanting to date me because im trans but when it gets to the point of making fun of the comunity being unsafe is purly transphobic i have been atacked for being trans. luckily when i first heard this was happening in my area i started taking boxing and self defence classes and rocked the shit out of a transphobe but it isnt like that for everyone and the school i went to (just finished a few weeks ago) was very very transphobic to the point i had to act completly cis and not do anything to transition until i left school..it sickening
The only thing that makes me hesitate about dating a trans person is that I might accidentally treat their genitals in a way that makes them uncomfortable because I'd be doing things in the way I'm used to. I feel like my own self-consciousness might make them more self-conscious. But if a relationship is good and healthy, then you can get through that with good communication. I was raped at 14 (not the same, I know) and I know how it feels to a certain degree to have to basically hold your breath while explaining to a partner what you're okay with and not okay with. A good partner will listen and not put pressure on you, and you can move at a compatible/comfortable pace
@@Augustowind809 sadly superBi is a thing. Which is one of the more transphobic of all the super movements because they can't hide behind the dog whistles
Here’s the thing. Not liking trans people isn’t a sexuality. It’s a preference, because for it to be a sexuality there needs to be a new gender they’re attracted to. Trans is not a gender ok it’s own.
Bruh and they are saying “I’m coming out guys” like it’s nothing, I am cis-het but from what I’ve heard coming out is really hard. Especially when your parents and/or friends are not very accepting.
when i was living with my grandma and i came out to her as trans she slapped me across my face, its a very vivid memory and i cant even visualize things, quite traumatizing
@dab or die trying oh my gosh that’s horrible, I also live in Utah, but luckily all of my Mormon friends are supportive of the LGBTQ+ community and I always ask people before I become their best friend.
@dab or die trying oh goodness I can’t even talk to my parents about my feelings or anything personal, but my sister is actually apart of the community and she has a lot of the same feelings as I do, unfortunately my parents are trump supporters, or at least my dad but idk about my mom, one of my friends is also a trump supporter but she says she supports BLM and the LGBTQ+ community too which doesn’t make much sense lol
@@Lux-ow5vf And no one said you had to reply lmao. Go with your crowd. You dont have to date anyone or be offensive about it. Y'all be the real snowflakes.
@@user-dj6ld8xp5w No one is saying you have to date them or have to have sex with them. It's not about your preference, but the context in which you talk about that preference. If someone never dates a white man, that's ok. But if they say the reason is because "They are gross, pasty, and not real men." Then that would be a different story. Same thing with trans people. If you don't date a trans person, THAT IS OK. BUT, it becomes an issue when you say things like "Oh they aren't real men/women" and such. Also if it's a genital preference, that raises the question. Would you be ok with a trans man/women who got bottom surgery? (Btw, this is not directed only at you, but also the other people in this thread)
Me when my mom asks what my sexuality is despite knowing I’m a raging lesbian:
i love your profile lol
love you kurtissssss
Same
ALSO HI FELLOW CITIZEN OF KURTISTOWN
No way it's Kurtissssss!
heyy kurtissssss
“You can’t coerce anyone into sex because it’s borderline rapey-”
YEAH NO SHIT
They’re acting like they just figured that out😭
@Keris bro love ur profile pic
“borderline” NO IT IS
Blair White said the exact same thing.
@@nathilism i’ve seen that happen like once on twitter and the person had plenty of replies saying the opposite w more likes than the tweet. idk what kind of communities you’re around that says those things regularly. i’m a transman and every trans person ik believes that genital preferences aren’t transphobic lol.
One time a ‘super straight’ seriously asked me “are you a closeted straight?”
the reddit is even worse
Same, I debated a super straight guy and they told me "LGBT oppress straight people all the time"
If the super straights are this insecure in their ‘straightness’ then they’re prob the closeted ones
closeted straight??????? what???????????
@@starliee frrrr
How to be super bisexual:
1. Have two partners at all times
2. Cuff jeans all the way up to hips
3. Forget fingerguns. Greet people with real guns
4. Septum piercing
YES HAHA
Don't forget sitting in chairs awkwardly
@@LetsLeaveSomeCoffeeRings Is not being able to sit properly a common bisexual stereotype? I'm asking because I don't know how to sit in chairs
@@creeperhunterD More so a joke than an actual stereotype but yes, bisexuals can't sit in chairs correctly
ILLBE YOUR GUN SUPPLIER!!!!
Ow. The first tiktok was headache inducing.
I’m glad you’ve covered this, Sam. I’m five minutes in and I’m so glad I didn’t deep-dive when I heard people discussing this...
Oof
I searched up super straight on tiktok and my god, it was literally so embarrassing. The comments sections too scare me
Yeah fuck the superstraights. Makes me wanna nosedive off a cliff lmao.
Yeah, it's bad. I was looking at the comments on Twitter. It's fine to have a preference, but the whole point of this sexuality is to mock the community.
I love your videos.
"I don't think it's transphobic if you don't wanna date me; I just think it's your loss"
This man is honestly an inspiration
@Haven Monahan an inspiration to be a narcissist, duh
I think the reason people made up this gender is because it’s very common to be called transphobic if u say that u don’t want to date a trans person
@Toon Tales I think it's not the right comment to reply to?
@@KohakuNoBaka what do you mean
@@toontales2479 exactly
THE FACT THAT THE COLORS ARE THE GRINDR COLORS-
It’s grindr and ph colors 😭😭 seems a little gay if you ask me
Watching the likes going up 😋
that’s a little sus
BITCH YOU TOOK THE WORDS RIGHT OUT OF MY MOUTH
We should all spam them saying that it looks like grindr
The way the super straight flag is the grindr colours is honestly the funniest thing ever
Found the addict.
Pornhub. :)
we need to come together as “super pansexual” and confuse the hell outta everyone
Super trans? Where you can date superstraights aswell
LMAOOOO ima use this on my trans boyfriend
@@UmongusSussehFrusseh STOOPPP- 😭 Super aro/ace 😭😭😭😭 adding the prefix legit makes me lose brain cells
As an ace person, I am coming out of the closet as super asexual
As a Trans Ace person I'm coming out as Super Trans and Super Ace 🥰🤣
all those "super straights" people are really thinking that trans women or any women for that matter would want to date them
I see Amity in ur pfp
IKR
amity in your icon
Lol that was lame, cope harder.
@@RedPlaystationController the only thing lame here was yall making a WHOOOOLE sexuality and even making the flag colors the ph/grindr color 💀💀💀💀💀 you guys are so beyond sad and embarrasing oh my god
The best thing to do with people who use the nor/mal joke is genuinely using those neopronouns on mal 😇🤩.
Also mention the fact that nor/Mal was made as a way for gay men to tell other gay men they have a piss kink, its funny watching them try to defend themselves while you congratulate them on being so honest about their kink
@@Dicezai lmao I love this
@@Dicezai Omg, that is amazing. I would love to be the fly in the room when these "supers" are falling over themselves trying to explain how they are TOTALLY NOT GAY, haha. 😂
Someone said they use ping/pong as their pronouns and people in the comments actually called them that 💀
I jokingly asked my friends to call me by nor/Mal pronouns and now nor is one of my pronouns
my dude who included nonbinary in the list of sexualities reminds me of when I had to come out at school at 16 because I started dating a girl and a classmate stopped me and said "so you're bisexual but, like, what's your gender" which put me in the position in teaching them about how gender and sexuality don't correlate instead of them having to do the work of googling it
Same thing but with a boy lol
gender and sexuality does correlate when it comes to being gay or lesbian though. you can’t be male and lesbian, or female and gay
@@Ava-nf2qq I think the person who created the first comic is non binary, and non binary people can identify as gay or lesbian
no, raging bisexual.
also, what does a reindeer say before he tells a joke? this ones going to sleigh you
ha nice joke
@@SupraMan38 i’ve been recognized by the king himself 😌
ss: “i don’t wanna date a trans woman, that’s a man”
but would you date a trans man
ss: “no that’s gay”
@LoveYourWhiteness #blessed sp would they date a transman????
@LoveYourWhiteness #blessed Well I’m confused as to why they won’t date trans woman-
@LoveYourWhiteness #blessed Trans women are women. I’m not sure why a STRAIGHT man wouldn’t date a women.
@@shalmali-379 There's nothing wrong with trans men.
@LoveYourWhiteness #blessed by their own logic trans men are women because they were born biologically female
This is just- no. They say “oh stop acting like a victim” then they go out and mock us and pretend they’re oppressed
You're not oppressed either, Jenna
@@lacatolica1080 that’s correct, my friends and family are all very supportive of me, but just because i am not oppressed doesn’t mean I can’t ignore the people who are bullied, beaten up, and abused who are in the same community as me. I’m a white cis lesbian, and I have a lot of privilege, I’ve never had to fight for my rights, but lesbians before me have. And I’m proud they did, because now I can live my life without having to fight, but these straight people have never had to fight, and that’s why I’m offended, because they’re making a mockery of the lesbians before me
@@lacatolica1080 What do you know about them? You've never met them before. They could be beat up for being themselves you know that, right? 😚
Ikr the most privileged ppl want to be oppressed. If you want to be oppressed then you have enough privilege to say that so I suggest they check their privilege
CRY LMAO
I asked my brother if he would date a trans woman, he said he doesn't see himself having a relationship with a trans person (especially since he's never met a trans person other than me) , but if he genuinley formed an emotional bond with a trans woman he wouldnt mind,, i think this is a perfect example of someone who has a preference, but isnt toxic about it and respects the community. in my opinion it isnt wrong to have a preference, but dont make it your job to let everyone know how much you reject the thought of dating trans people. its just being transphobic and calling yourself lgbtq+ is just- not ok.
THIS 100 ^^^^
thats kinda guilt tripping
I guess this would be kind of me I don't date yet because I don't feel mentally ready to date but if I find that a trans person is the right partner for me I wouldn't mind and even if I did not want to date a trans person I still respect them for being their gender and their gender is valid.
He said that because you're trans and doesn't want to deal with a freak out
you should be allowed to say you don't want to date trans people under any circumstance
why is it any different than saying you wouldn't date a person of the same sex as you?
why are you people so desperate to get special treatment and absolute authority over everyone else?
I don’t think they understand what “preference” means either. To have a “preference” is to say that you prefer one thing over the other, but WON’T blatantly turn the other thing down just because it exists.
exactly! they just call it a preference to make it seem less transphobic when it’s straight up not a preference.
and how could you even have a preference for cis people? like there isn’t really a difference in dating a trans person then a cis person
@@the_devil4676 calling it a preference is not correct i agree. when you prefer chocolate over vanilla it doesnt mean you dont eat vanilla ever. but i dated one trans person and cis people. it's different and personally not my cup of tea. what do you call it then?
Fr that word is so abused.
That’s not true at all.
Preference defines as: a greater liking for one alternative over another or others.
A greater liking could mean you like one thing over the other thing, but you don’t like the other thing at all. If you don’t like it at all, you WOULD turn it down. Of course this changes, but in the context you used it, you’re wrong.
@@dr00g35 dating a trans person isn’t different then dating a cis person. there literally isn’t. you had different experiences in dating because those two people are different human beings it didn’t have to do with their chromosomes.
dating a trans person is just like dating any other fucking person.
"please don't go around calling yourself super-bisexual. you will get bullied."
i died right there lol
I'm super bisexual, I'm only into respectful/non phobic people. "It's not a preference, It's my sexuality"
@@demonfromunderyourbed4580 oh shit, how dare you!
"Super straight"
Sounds like a low budget superhero
Super gay (in this universe where it’s a lowbudget show rather than transphobic weirdos) is the villain and the fan-favorite
Lmao
Super zero baby...
or super villan
:/ shut it
Guess it is the time for us Super Asexual now.
We date no one but the infinity void.
Straw Man and yet this but unironically. Super Ace is very much real, and for good reason. In spite of being defined as non-sexual, the LARPists have convinced themselves that there is such thing as 'non-sexual kinks', as to excuse forcing sex anyway.
😂
@@wilderbeast9368non sexual kinks would literally just be TALKING
what are these dogs on
I feel like this has similar vibes to "Platinum gay" and "Gold star lesbians." Like people are trying to act superior or like more "pure." "Superbi" doesn't even make sense to me. If they continue to talk about how sexuality is only about being attracted to a biological sex, bisexual people like both sexes according to them. So a bi person should have no problem being with a trans person who could be either sex, right? "Superbi" is very blatantly transphobic. "Yes I like both sexes but a person being trans is the reason I won't date them."
spittin straight facts
correction: GAY facts 😌💅🏽✨
To be fair I did date a superbi once. Joke's on that guy though since it turns out I'm trans lol
@@grilledcheese5000 I still can't comprehend why a bi person would exclude trans people when genitals wouldn't even matter
I understand people have preferences, even bi people do, it's not b/w like the definition, but be respectful how you convey it dammit. This is transphobic. Being proud and literally identifying as someone that wouldn't date a trans person is transphobic.
Okay so they're straight with a preference... They're still straight.
yes but what does straight mean?
@@Joneroftheyear I was under the impression sex/gender are different
@@cantu7614 they are
@@cantu7614 Sex is what you identify as. Gender is what you were born as. I might have that backwards but thats the difference
@@Nightcanter yeah that's backwards lol
Why do some people think that making a “new” sexuality will justify whatever they are doing.
For real. It's really pathetic.
MAPs and Super Straights are both appropriating the LGBT rights movement.
@Elijah Clayton you’re right about that, but why are y’all trying to make a “sexuality” out of a preference?🤨 like- can y’all not just be straight with a preference of cis people and stop mocking the lgbtq+ community while you’re at it?
@Elijah Clayton we’re not calling people transphobic because they won’t date trans people. we’re calling them transphobic because of the REASON why they won’t date trans people
@Elijah Clayton you 100% have the right to prefer a specific genitalia and or want biological kids and that being your reason to prefer cis people but the people saying that trans women and men aren’t real women and men and that’s why they won’t date trans people IS transphobic
As a fellow transgender male, I don’t care if people don’t want to date me because of who I am, their loss not mine, I just want them to respect me and not call me a fake man because I was born in the wrong body, you don’t have to want to date me, just respect.
I respect you but you're a woman. You were born in the right body. It's better to love yourself than feel like your body is a prison.
@@BENKYism "i respect you" *proceed to invalid his feelings and act like an asshole*
@@BENKYismhe is not a women he is a Man now he saying u respect them but still. misgender him if he told u he is a man now
@BENKYism Saying you respect them then not respecting their gender identity is a contradiction,
He is a man and dysphoria is just a part of being trans we are able to overcome it with support.
This
Personally, I’m trans too and if someone found out I’m trans and wouldn’t want to date me, I don’t care. If its truly just transphobia, I wouldn’t want to date them either
Exactly.
We don’t hate you, just won’t date you
Trans people are valid
Superstraight people are valid.
The only good thing about Super Stupids is that you know who to avoid. I'm not trans but I'm not going to be pleasant to those Super Stupids.
@@jessethomas9676 Super Stupids are not valid. You are straight, get over it. You aren't special, no one is special. You aren't pressed even though it seems like some sort of fetish for you to feel like that.
@@shortangel333 fuck off superphobe
@@jessethomas9676 please tell me you’re joking Y’all wanna be oppressed so bad but can’t take the hate and death threats fuck on idiot
"I made a new sexuality" Buddy, this ain't 'Build a bear', you can't just make a new sexuality out of nowhere-
I mean we can pull genders out of thin air and new sexualities are coming up every day so yeah you really can
Lol that's exactly what the LGBT community has done
To me, for It to be a 'real sexuality' it needs to be backed up by medical research (like gays, bis and pans.) And not just a 'super' version of an already existing sexuality. Sexuality is different for anyone, and the 'labels' like gay, bis and pans are more of an umbrella, call yourself whatever you are comfortable calling yourself, just please dont call yourselves a 'super' version of a sexuality or gender. love yourselves, don't hate others♡♡♡
@@JerseyHilarity No, no it's absolutely not. See, gay, bi, lesbians, and basically all members of the LGBTQ+ have existed forever, they just couldn't show it or else they'd be killed. Now superstriaght is literally just something some guy made up. See the difference now?
@@livvie7758 super straights, super gays, super lesbians, and super bis only will only date cissssssss-gendered men and women.
See the difference? 😊
When you tell them "I'm not heterophobic, but I wouldn't want to associate with you and want you hanging around my kids. Don't worry I have straight friends, I can't be heterophobic." Or any other version of that sentence and they say "Ahhh grrrr when why can you say that?? If we say that we will be called homophobic grrrrrr!!!!!" Like? You have been doing this to us for millennia, but when we use the same sentence they use against us they cry BYE I HATE THEM
That is actually a relevant excuse now lmao
they dont even have to fear for their lives smh
exactly when ppl say I hate men/straight ppl/white ppl it's the generational trauma and oppression we're coping with. if ppl understood that they wouldn't get offended
I identify as bi for now, still trying to figure stuff out but I feel like this is the right label, I like all types of people. Women, men, NB people... I don't care if they're trans or cis or what have you. To me, if I find you hot and you have a decent personality, it doesn't really matter what gender you are, with one exception: "I refuse to date those weird homophobic/transphobic IDIOTS who try and justify their opinions by saying that it's their sexuality. You can like whoever you like and dislike whoever you like, but don't be a dick about it.
P.S sorry for the rant and I'm amazed that you are still reading.
Me too
Maybe pan?
I am also trying to figure out my sexuality. I think I maybe aromantic hetero or bisexual though to be honest it's difficult for me to tell what attraction feels like
*all* types of people?..
phew, thought for a second you'd judge me simply because i'm racist
@@fortnitesexman no, I still hate racists and would rather have a week of explosive diarrhea than go on a date with one :)
Their bio: only attracted to women
Me, woman who likes women: does that mean I too am super straight??
im afraid to say but you are, truly a tragedy
without a comma that sounds so bad and rude oh my god
With their logic it means you're malephobic since you like women
@@ayanna8312 Wait if im pansexual then
@@user-wz7cx7pq5t good question
No you Super-Gay
“I’m not like other straights......”
Trans women: *I'm reeeealllyy not like other straights*
@@RainyRunningRiver what... this makes not sense.
"I'm not like other straights, I'm transphobic"
@@roserose109 They *aren't* like other straights, they're pretty blatantly transphobic, and the subreddit and movement on twitter shows that it's surprisingly not a joke movement.
It's not a meme, and that's why a shit ton of people are upset
@@roserose109 “I’m not like other straights,I’m disrespectful to trans”
They should stop saying they wont date trans people and start asking themselves if trans people like them
Lmao yes the egocentricism of transphobes is immeasurable
LMAOOOO
Yes 👍 also i love the pfp
Nice Sakura pfp :)
Yeah, its like, they don't need to worry because I don't think any trans people wanted to date them in the first place. They probably want a boyfriend, not a son
I’m not trans, however, I have a feeling that people aren’t calling you transphobic because you aren’t attracted to trans people but rather because you’re saying that trans women and men aren’t “real” women and men, y’know, just a thought
You would be right. Most of us don’t really care if someone would rather not date a trans person, that’s not transphobic, it only becomes transphobic when they take it this far and say things like “they’re not real men/women”, as you mentioned. There are a lot of ways to respectfully say that you don’t want to date trans people like, “Oh, sorry, I’m not really into that.”
@@WhyIsTheClosetDoorOpening yeah, I really don’t understand why it’s so hard for some people to just be polite
7:00 as a bisexual, I find it extremely ironic that he put bisexuals in this text, WE ARE ATTRACTED TO BOTH GENDERS, WE DONT GIVE 2 FLYING FUCKS ABOUT WHATS DOWN THERE
omnisexuals and pansexuals: 👁️👄👁️
Frrr we're all lonely and want someone to love us
this
@@azpizzazz3442 Those are about as real as superstraight
Exactly
"that's almost 600 people"
the video: * has almost 600 dislikes *
coincidence? i think not!
I am just wondering, where "coincidence? I think not" meme came from?
@@youallneedjesus7430 the 1st incredibles movie
@@TDemonspawn thanks.
I think you should look at the like-dislike ratio again...
@@cawmusic got bigger because Tik Tokers did what tik tokers do and “called Sam out”
As a straight man I'm now a superstr8 phobe.
We Stan you
Superhetrophobe has a nice ring to it
We stan a man who has common sense ! 👏 we need more man likes you
I stan 😍
Let's raise a toast to this guy
"Only date women with xx " " produce a baby"
Intersex people exist. My partner is intersex, missing an X chromosome. So she doesn't have xx & here's the kicker. She can't produce a baby because of it. So does that mean she's not a women?? 😂
Like God, I swear. Some people really need to go back to school. Like I'm trans guy, and even if I wasn't trans. I have 10+ chronic illnesses that cause me to be unable to produce a child anyways, because if I even attempted it would kill me or the child or both. There are several reasons to why someone who identifies as a wen wouldn't be able to produce a baby.
im actually super trans. my gender is so transed it transes everyone else's genders
Oh damn :0
W-what's happening to my gender?!
It’s true. I read this comment and now I’m trans ✨
yooooo you transed my gender!!!!!!!!!
woah bro my trans turned trans
their flag is literally just two colors next to each other and that’s it lmao. most original flag *ever.*
PH colors....
or grindr colours
It was made by Nazis
Yup, superrrrrr original
This is like the second or third attempt at a straight related flag that I can think of and yet all of them look so terribly designed 😂😂
I am so exhausted hearing people cite definitions, and not understand definitions. Like, they are equating transphobia with their high school discovery of the word arachnophobia. The definition is literally "an extreme OR irrational, fear OR aversion, to a particular thing." Irrational fears can be as minute as biases, and "aversion" includes disgust or avoidance of. Like... why are these people always so proudly stupid?
@LoveYourWhiteness #blessed
It doesn't really address the problem. It does feel better though... and i am truly exhausted. So you're probably right. I just wish getting people to think critically and better avoid future implicit bigotry, didn't have to be so damn hard.
@LoveYourWhiteness #blessed "superphobic" isn't a thing because a preference can not be a sexuality. "Super straight" is invalid.
@LoveYourWhiteness #blessed No matter how edgy or funny you think you are, you're still exuding major stupidity. Not only have you made it painfully obvious how little understanding you have on these topics, you also think it's genuinely funny to show off this ignorance. Based on the literal definition of what a sexuality is, "super straight" is not and will never be a sexuality. Sexuality is not a "social construct" because it's one of the most basic naturally occurring things. Sexuality has always and will always exist. There has always been life forms attracted to the opposite, same, or multiple genders or simply not attracted at all. "Super straight" is a preference that y'all claim to be a sexuality as a way to simply mock LGBTQ+ people. It's not cute, nor is it funny. It's downright disrespectful.
@LoveYourWhiteness #blessed oh... I should have read your name before thinking you were reasonable. Look princess, I'm going through a pretty rough depression episode right now, give me a few days, and I'll be up for playing your silly game.
@LoveYourWhiteness #blessed Honestly fuck off. I hope the hate in your heart consumes you in the worst way possible.
Alright guys Im gonna say it.
Preference != Sexuality.
You like men? That's a sexuality.
You prefer people with small feet? That's gross, and also just a preference.
Is that a coding reference?!
Super-straights will scream “it’s a preference” but would be upset if a girl said “I only date tall guys”
nah nah, they'll scream "It's a sexuality"
If I’m bisexual and I have a preference for men it doesn’t mean I’m in a subcategory of bisexual and a completely different sexuality. Straight men are trying so hard to be oppressed like just say you’re straight with a preference for women born female.
they be like "its not our fault" and then finish with "you are a bitch anyway, and fat too" men and their egos, nasty
@Skylar Landucci hey notice the word you used there... preference.. it’s interesting
@Skylar Landucci “super-straights” are claiming it’s just about preference and that no-one should offended but at the same time would be offended if someone’s preferences didn’t include them. Its almost like hearing people give unwanted comments about how they would never date someone like you is hurtful. U can have preferences but not everyone needs to hear them :)
"Produce a baby then." Ah yes, the ol' reduce women to baby makers argument. Did not realize this was the 1920's.
Man I didn’t know I time travelled 😔
Oh wow we went back a century! Wonder what it's like
what the fuck are you on about? women are the people who get pregnant and men are the people who get women pregnant. not that difficult to understand...
@@rattlingduck8454 not every woman can get pregnant so basing a woman’s worth off of her having a kid reduces them to being a baby maker. Not that difficult to understand
@@HSdirectioner5 the women that can't get pregnant have diseases that are unnatural. Bottom line is that they are supposed to be able to give birth. Also, It dosen't 'reduce' them to anything. Its just pointing out a fact.
sexuality: i only like women, i’m a lesbian
preference: i think women with short hair are more attractive but i’d let a long haired woman take me on a date anytime (still a lesbian)
edit: this blew up thanks, be gay fellas
edit2: btw this isn’t necessarily my own sexuality/preferences (even tho it is), it’s an example of the difference between both bc people keep confusing them
The way I try to explain it to people is:
If you don't want to date them, and they just happen to be trans, then that's fine. But if you don't want to date them *because* they're trans, then you're transphobic.
Exactly! I'm lesbian and prefer people with curly hair, but I'd totally date a girl with straight hair as well!
@@brianapereira2694 ABSOLUTELY. I’m tired of people like my parents being like “YOURE FORCING ME TO HAVE SEX WITH A PENIS”. Like NO STFU...!!!!
@@brianapereira2694 yeah, like if you're attracted to a woman and then discover that she's trans, bruh are you just stop being attracted to her? I mean, there is the genitalia preference but I never saw a trans person saying that not wanting to have sex with someone that has a penis is transphobic, and the super transphobes also didn't mention it so...
So because I don't want to date a man who thinks they are a women, makes me transphobic? If thats the case, I am the most trans"phobic" person out there.
I love how he says with a straight face "Please don't go around calling yourself super-bisexual, you will get bullied"
"I didn't like all the hate and bullying." Welcome to being a part of the LGBT+ community! You all wanted to be here so bad, so now you have to deal with the negative part of it too :)
They're really out here like "we want the aesthetic of oppression but ewww y'all can keep the whole being harassed and receiving death threats part"
@@grilledcheese5000 “the aesthetic” 😭 I caaaaan’t 💀💀💀
I like boys, I'm good not being harrassed lol. Some people being trying it tho.
Please no, they arent apart of the LGBTQ community lawd no
Its bait to show the hypocrisy of becoming the bully when you are hating on people for who they are attracted to.
Just in this Vid, Sam was the very embodiment of a school bully towards this kid for his sexual preference.
And yes yes, we all know its a joke. But you fell for it.
The “bOyZ🥵🥶😰” are back at it again trying to be included 🙄
LMAO 😂💀
*sHut uP snOwfLakE*
Theyre just built different🥵🥵🥶🥶💯💯
Fr
@semi ikr????
I’m super pansexual. I like anyone I’m attracted to a super amount.
mood
@@chromo_games2641 you're super?
@@chromo_games2641 just say your straight,my god
@@chromo_games2641 I hate you
sameeee
It's horrible how they're trying to justify spreading hate by mocking the trans community
Their flag look's like the grinder and p*rnhub colour
The AUDACITY
@@Ty_the_true0000 it is
@@yawwnn no it's orange and black
@@yawwnn are you fucking colour blind
I’m gay but I wouldn’t date a trans women ONLY because I have severe trauma and male sex characteristics cause me to panic, I’ve met some wonderful trans women who I wish I could have been romantically involved with cause they were so kind and amazing, however when it comes down to it anything my brain associates with ‘male’ will cause a panic attack and that’s not good for either of us. Also on a less serious note some of these guys have totally hooked up with a trans women and didn’t even realise she was trans😂 I love when the sad men who can’t get laid make it even harder for themselves to get laid 😂
I hope youre doin ok dude!!
Would you date a trans woman with a vagina though?
I hope you can recover from your trauma!
you're valid!!!
that's totally valid!!
The funniest part is that sexuality isn’t preference. They’re doing the equivalent of making a “sexuality” for being attracted only to blondes lmao
You're right, which is why we aren't sexually attracted to them. smh
Yes this is the best explanation I’ve seen
Exactly this needs to be a top comment
perfect comment
Wait, what do blondes have to to with anything?
Why is it so hard to understand that “phobia” doesn’t even mean fear? It means aversion, which includes an irrational dislike of something, which includes bigotry.
You can have a preference, but just because someone is trans doesn’t make them any less of the gender they identify as. So instead of saying you like girls, just say you like vagina and then maybe people will realize your preference. My preference is Penis so that is male but if a Non Binary or GenderQueer or whatever person has a penis I’m not gonna say “ew no your trans”. So you can have a preference but just don’t date someone because of the fact that they are trans. Btw I’m only on 2:06 but that TikTok was pissing me off.
Im so glad you said this. This is perfect.
@@lobbyskids2 okay john
@@lobbyskids2 Science disagrees with you, just so you know
@@lobbyskids2 obvious troll with generic name says what?
@@lobbyskids2 why would we be angry? we’ve literally existed for millions of years and you just made this up like a week ago... idk what to tell you lol you’re literally doing our job for us by telling the world you’re ignorant and want to be oppressed so bad bc you can’t stand not being the centre of the universe for 1 second
Super straight literally sounds like what a closeted person would say when theyre being questioned
LMAO FR
As a trans person I find nothing wrong with having a genital preference, its your personal boundaries ofc. But when you say Trans women aren't women and Trans men aren't men, so you dont want to date them/us, thats transphobia.
PRECISELY
They could easily say that, but they can't even hide their transphobia. You'd think that these 21st century kids would be better at lying given that they have such a talent for it, but the transphobes just can't seem to manage.
THEY'RE NOT. Sex is unchangeable
Ok, but what is the difference? Like I'm legit just asking. What's the difference between me saying "I only want to date women born with a vagina" and saying "real women"? When people say that...they are defining "real" as born with their preferred genitals. So if you say a genital preference is ok...what exactly do you mean?
@@CLsmoove_1000 because saying "real women" implies that trans women aren't real women, which isn't true. If you genuinely just have a genital preference, then that's okay.
i’m 14 years old, transgender boy. I’ve been jumped by kids older than me when I was only 11 years old, I always feel dramatic but it’s genuinely traumatized me to the point I refused to go to school or outside for nearly two years after. The bullying was extreme consisting of fighting, slurs, being deadnamed/misgendered by groups of kids AND ADULTS at once and even being followed home where kids threw things at my door. it hurts knowing that the people leading the protect trans kids movement are still kids themselves forced to grow up too fast. (14-20 years old)
“No fat chicks” says the overweight dude.
Edit: Guys I was just reacting to the video itself where the guy said “no fat chicks”. I know that women and other genders could say that to men too, but my comment was specifically talking about that guy. You don’t have to make gender a competition. And btw there’s a difference between preference and discrimination. The guy said “fat chicks”, which is not a very nice thing to say. He could’ve kept his preference to himself, without having to be offensive.
Most women say that too
@@Drewdwn2 never heart a girl or woman say that. especially not a plus sized woman.
Heard*
@@goo6763 yeah have you seen the show “The talk”
Or this ua-cam.com/video/ph9OjYR1usQ/v-deo.html&feature=share
Now guys, this is what I call a breeding kink
SUUDHDIEBDUSNVSJEBDJDHD NOOOOOOOO 😭
OH NO. OH MY FUCKING GOD. LMFAO
I.
The truth has been spoken. 😂
dfoaefibsecnsoeh pls-
I'm not superphobic, I just don't want them doing that in front of me. I just don't support that lifestyle.
PFFT
Yeah, I just don’t want my children seeing that, it might confuse them. Keep it behind closed doors please.
XD Trollface meme on!
You were only born because of straight people 'doing that' LOL
@@MrBen51309 and a gay person helped write the constitution, sit down bitch.
As a white cis straight guy I apologize for these straights
As a based white cis straight guy I say we are proud of what we are and we won't let the opresive LGBTV terrorist organization police our bodies.
Super straight forever glory to Rhodesia
@@mjsock284im in ur walls
The fact he has a sticker that says “No Fat Chicks” as if he isn’t overweight...
People should just make it a rule of thought to not date people with unhealthy habits.
Edit: There's a bunch of people here who think that when I say "unhealthy habits" I mean only fat people. Guess what, you can be unhealthy and skinny too! But if you immediately associate bad habits with obesity, you might suffer a severe case of fatphobia
@@arcturus4762 i have a lot of unhealthy habits
But I'm kinda skinny
I mean me and my boyfriend did break up a couple days ago....
lol they be like "no fat chicks" but like "thick" girls
@@myani1028 Ouch. Hope you’re doing okay.
@TAIDE Being obese isn't the only indicator of bad habits. Smoking and drinking too much are still bad habits, but their relation to body mass varies from person to person. There's a lot of people out there who still make it into the healthy spectrum, but most of these "body positivity" advocates straight up refuse to exercise
this is like “hey im a lesbian but my preference is tall girls.. im super lesbian; i just dont think short girls are truly women.”
#superlesbian #shortwomenarentwomen #whataretheythen #whoknows
No, it's more like "hey, I'm a lesbian, I prefer women who have a vagina... I'm a super lesbian, I just don't believe "women" with penises are real women."
@@chuggon7595 women can have penises. you can prefer women with vaginas and not be transphobic but if you go around saying women with penises aren't real women then you're transphobic and i don't like you :)
Sounds just as ridiculous
No. This is like people trying to explain a joke. In fact, that's exactly what it is.
I identify as super pansexual, I only date people who aren’t crap and have open minds (unlike these people).
That's a good one lmao
Im also a super pancake
Same WOSBJSJSJSS
That's just pan but with extra steps
Lmao but same xd
Omg same :0
What if someone created "super trans" and just says that they don't date cis people..
lmaoo gna call myself super trans now
"Meta straight?"
I’ve met a ton of trans people who don’t date cis people at all ngl. I get it, chasers are a huge issue and there’s a lot of things your partner just wouldn’t understand
the most annoying part is that they mistake sexuality and preference and build their whole argument on that
Shut up I dont want to Fuck a trans its my choice
@@irumizoldik4197 bro??? Nobody??? Cares???
@@danniel2226 nope they insult us cause we dont want to Fuck trans women
@@danniel2226 nope they insult us cause we dont want to Fuck trans women
@@irumizoldik4197 no... we don’t.
I remember one dude at school making the joke that his pronouns were see/saw so I started referring to see and saw. He got mega pissed and my response was "but you said those were your pronouns-?" he replied with "it waS JusT a JoKe." like okay Brandon if it was a joke I would have laughed
ok funny band bts kid
@Zer0_0 wait until I tell you about where words came from
@Zer0_0 alright mate you calling them snowflake but your the one crying about it innit brotha.
Hahaha istg if someone ever says something like that about their pronouns this is exactly what I’ll do ahahah
@Zer0_0 everyone's uses pronouns and it won't hurt you to use them , that's the real snowflake energy , when other people's gender or preferred pronouns affect you for some reason.
People who use the joke “pronouns: nor/mal” are the type to get pissy when we start referring to them as such. Like sorry? I thought you said those were your pronouns stupid.
This is my fave thing to do when people do that stupid shit. Like I'm sorry Mike but I respect all pronouns.
Thanks for the ideas 😩✋🏻
nor said those were nors pronouns. but then mal is mad when i prefer to nor as such. mal is so irrational 😔
i love it when people say they "don't use pronouns" and then get mad when you just say their name over and over again. it's just so hilarious to watch karma bite them in the ass
Or like if you misgender them they get all like "I'm a boy not a girl 😡😡" ... Like, y'all see how that's frustrating now?
12:03 is so funny bc I actually looked at the screen and whispered "I would be gayer"
this being on tiktok is bad because it’s teaching little kids on tiktok transphobia
Fr, its disappointing
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:((
:(((
:((((
i hate how people actually go by "super straight" and aren't kidding
@@Timdeuces please tell me your joking I-
@@Timdeuces ksnslshsksbs
@@Timdeucesoh ur mocking them aren't u?thx God😹😹
Honestly, men who would date trans women are more straight than these manlets anyways because that shows that there's one less thing to stop them from dating any given woman.
Bro you're just straight and trans women dont wanna date you anyways 😏 (I RESPONDED TO THE WRONG PERSON SORRY JAHSHS)
people who identify as “super straight” aren’t oppressed but if we all work together they can be
Lmao 😆
I second this
Lol
the new gay agenda
YES
This movement sounds like the "MAP" movement💀💀💀💀💀💀
Coping much LARPist?
@@wilderbeast9368 what?
@@pvt0elquelolea303 Except they are the exact opposite. The super strait joke started as a result of society pressuring people into relationships with people they have not interest in dating. Fighting to keep the right of consent and the ability to say no consequence free. The other are people wanting to break consent laws.
@@OMGUKILLKENNY2no?..
MAP has nothing to do with relationships to begin with
it's all about making non-acting Minor Attracted People less oppressed
if they were to act on their feelings they wouldn't be a MAP, they'd be a convicted pedophile
hope that clears things up
It’s like white people saying, “Why isn’t there a White History Month?”
Me having to read the phrase “superphobic” with my own two eyes
They sadly do...google it
I know, as an oppressed super straight male, white history month should replace black history month. Can i get an amen?
@@mikailsola8336 is this sarcasm?
There should be. Modern society is made possible due to white European culture, the Renaissance, and the Enlightenment. In fact you should be thanking whites everyday
do they not know being gay,bi,lesbian etc isn’t a preference.........
Not only is it not a preference, it's not a choice.
They make out that preference means their sexuality. I'm pansexual, I'm into men women, and everything in between. But my preference is women. But im still pansexual
Please report and dislike the definition on urban dictionary
@@lill.2795 for what? I will dislike anything that is hurtful to ppl*
@@thegayonelolbye1599 the super straight definition
@@kimberleymonroe8625 This right here.
But they can choose to be jerks or not, and by making a big, stinkin' deal out of being "super straight" and saying they'd never date NB/trans/xenogender people, they're just choosing to be jerks. No one wants to be with them anyway.
Nobody is forcing anyone to date a transgenders but making a whole label to basically say that someone isn’t male or female is honestly disgusting. Pls ignore my grammar.
There are people who literally say "you're transphobic if you don't want to date trans people". That's trying to force people to date transgender people right there. That's like saying a gay man is a misogynist because he doesn't want to date women, which is just as ridiculous and disgusting. And you're right, non-binary is a whole label that says someone isn't male or female, which is a straight up lie. You're either male or female and you can't choose your gender. Gender and sexuality are not a choice.
@@addienoelle3329 I didn’t say they had to date trans people I’m saying making the labor is extremely unnecessary.
Lable*
@@addienoelle3329 you're right, they're not a choice :) which is exactly the point
@@addienoelle3329 I think it is one of those cases where you do not really know what it's like unless you are that person. People who were non-binary had felt like something was off for years and years leading to health issues. What solved it? Starting to live life somewhere in between these 2 genders. Although I do agree with you that saying that one is transphobic because they wouldn't date a trans person simply isn't accurate, I feel what makes it transphobic is their reasoning. People may have a genitalia preference, or perhaps they want children. That is not transphobic. Implying at the same time that trans people aren't their gender: now, THAT is transphobic. I may not know what it is like to be trans, but I've heard of enough stories of people describing the feeling of being trapped in the wrong body and being ostracized by society. Having rights taken away just because of how a human being feels. Gender dysphoria can be deadly, and what fuels it? Answer: people not accepting the trans person for who they truly are.
Hope that this explained why I feel that we should take care of the people struggling with their identity. And what better way than simply accepting them for who they say they are, because they know more about themselves than we know about them :)
Ain't no fucking way they used my birth month as their 'super straight' celebration month 💀💀
They’re the worst really, I called out a dude yesterday for being SS and I literally got a death threat, and people were reporting my account and calling me a Nazi. Really open minded people
Edit: thank you all for this support, and you people are also valid and deserve to be safe
Thats awful. Sorry you went thru that :(
They what? I am so sorry that happened to you.
oh my god, that’s awful and i’m sorry you went through that :(( you’re valid and amazing
As they should
Defo fucked up, tbh I saw some people pointing out their use of SS (which also could refer to the nazi "SS") so they could also be using it as a dogwhistle :/
(idk for sure but that's the point of a good dogwhistle isn't it)
Isn’t saying your “super straight” saying that you’re attracted to ALL women because super means , extra
That’s what I was thinking the whole time!!!
Super straights: WOMEN IS WOMEN
Also super straights when seeing a trans women: no not like that!!!111!!! 😡😡😡😡
@@moonrya exactly
Yeah being attracted to all women
Trans arent women though
@@Tsunamiieh trans women are women
i’m attracted to everyone except super straights, it’s just a preference
Ok
It's just a preference don't force me to date super straight person I'm not attracted to them
Ok
@@zaynmalik529 ok no ones forcing you
@@chickencrisps8576 keep this energy for trans people
If someone unironically came out as superstraight to me, I'd just keep responding in fart noises.
Not being attracted to transgender people: Not inherently transphobic. 🤷♀️
Saying transgender women are “not real women”: Um, yeah, that’s transphobic.
Yeah, that's the core of the issue really. "Super Straight" isn't transphobic by definition, and people who say it is are wrong. It's the justification for WHY they're not interested in trans women that's transphobic. I think if most of these people said "cis women" there wouldn't be much of a video, because it's a lot harder to debate who is and isn't a cis woman. But I mean they're literally calling them Trans women, so they accept they're at least PARTIALLY women. There's a difference between "trans women aren't real women" and "trans women aren't really biological women"
@@williamrutherford553 Why would I even need to justify my sexuality? Many just don't find trans ppl attractive. I think trans women are unattractive. WHY this is the case is none if your business and it's certainly NOT transphobia.
sorry, you dont get to distort the definition of women lol, real women are only those whose "sex" is female
@@knight_lautrec_of_carim again, not dating trans people isnt the issue. its saying you wouldnt sate trans people becase you dont see them as what they identify as that is
@@Nyabot-mh2zi why? how they identify and what they are isn't the same. They can try to identify as a biological female but they are not. And I only date biological females thus I am not dating transwomen because they are nor biological females.
none of that has anything to do with any kind of phobia.
I'm so tired of people referring to valid criticism as "hate"
Exactly,it's even more unfortunate to see that most of the people saying that are adults..
Im pretty sure they call it ""hate"" because it nullifies ALL threir arguments, thus making them look wrong. (BTW, most of the, most would want to be a victim so they dont have to do anything. In all reality they should just "look into the mirror and not the window.)
"But we're still real women"
"Not to me"
My guy that is the definition of transphobia
no its not lmao
He really contradicted himself.
@@Asparas wow ur so smart
it's not like words change meaning over time or anything
also, does that mean infertile women or women who have had a hysterectomy aren't women to you too?
@@sanctionedangel
They were still born female.. 😅
@LK. Pawz so just because they were born female means they should remain female? Are you advocating for some kind of privilege over others for having hit some kind of genetic lottery over others who didn’t?
Superphobic sounds more like a phobia of superheroes or supervillains 😂
They do realize being part of the LGBTQ+ is not a preference right? Sexual attraction is not a preference, it just shows they want a struggle
I mean my "preference" is women.
Up untill like three months ago saying "sexual preferences" was just a polite way to say your sexuality.
Wait so if you're lesbian and attracted to mainly women how is it not considered preferred to only date women???
wow, you're stupidity actually went full circle and you still didn't see it.
that's the fucking point. its not a choice, its not a preference.
I as a straight man, personally, am hardwired to only like biological women.
hell, brunettes don't even do anything for me, but you want to force rape culture on people and think a dick would do something for me?
its not different to a lesbian not wanting to fuck a man, are they heterophobes now?
I wouldn't say I'm super straight and first thought I was stupid, but after seeing how much it upsets people they don't get to force rape culture on to me and the fact those same people want to call you transphobe for only liking women, I'm always going to say I'm super straight now.
@@aryedits3326 wdym? Being lesbian doesn't mean "mainly attracted to women" it means being FULLY attracted to women, there's no man. I don't "prefer" dating women. I only date women. Because that's the whole point of being lesbian
@@sunshine-df3tc Well I mean like if you only date women meaning you'd definitely prefer a woman over a man, since you are only attracted to women not men.
when you talk about all the horrible shit people do to trans people, i just want to give you a hug :(
sam just making little jokes about transphobes and making transphobes look like jokes and such speaks so much, and he doesn’t realize how much he’s doing, and what an advocate for the lgbtq+ community he’s being
@LoveYourWhiteness #blessed yes I’m superphobic the fuck you want me to do
alright yall i have a preference i only like blondes so i’m making a new sexuality called blondesexual. only people who are BORN blonde not fake blondes who use bleach and dyes. i don’t hate brunettes i just don’t think they’re real blondes so don’t call me brunettephobic. it’s a movement ✊
Tbh this is a perfect way to describe what the “super straights” argument was 😩
Exactly and that is how many of the LGBTQ sexualities that super straight parallels are. I'm glad you see the point.
For example this is from the University of Massachusetts on their list of valid sexualities and what is taught in gender studies classes.
*Sapiosexual people* Individuals who are attracted to people based on intelligence, rather than gender identity or biological sex.
*Skoliosexual people* Individuals who are sexually attracted to people with non-binary gender identities.
So tell me if those are valid sexualities why are people that are only attracted to the opposite gender not the opposite gender identity not valid?
Blondesexual already exists.
Soy Hominem - "[x]phob[x]." Silence, pathetic time-waste.
Their logo looks like the PH colours because that’s the only place they’ll ever get any action 🤷♀️
HAHA
THIS IS AMAZING
@Imperion it makes complete sense
Unless u genuinely dont understand then I am glad to explain
@Imperion I think the og commentor meant as “any action” in a generalisation form to their ehem adult fun life... basically the only place they feel satisfaction in their sex) life. That’s what I interpreted tho so eh
@Imperion it does because the only action they get is their right hand
Let me make this clear.... SEXUALITYS ARENT PREFERENCESSSS
@@deltalithium3940 Are you implying that that are preferences or do you just want to know what these terms mean?
Edit: Just gonna explain what I know for everyone who wants to know: Ally is a cishet person who supports people who are LGBTQ+, Allo stands for Allosexual/Alloromantic, basically the opposite of Asexual/Aromantic (So when you DO feel sexual/romantic attraction of any kind). And demigender (either girl or boy) is when you partially feel like a girl/boy, but not enoough to actually be that gender (for example like 20% girl, but 80% not girl [this 80% are a bit like absence of gender, not just another gender]). I'm not 100% sure with demigender, but the other ones are definitely what I wrote
@@deltalithium3940 ive herd of them but I dont know what they mean
@@deltalithium3940 Demiboy is someone who identifies as partially male, it falls under the non-binary umbrella. They usually use he/they pronouns. A demigirl is the same but with female, and they usually use she/they pronouns. Someone correct me if I’m wrong, as I don’t identify as either of those genders, and this is based on my independent research.
i mean to be a super straight person i feel thats more of a preference
@@attaatta5176 actually I am been told about Demi sexual which is that you have to have romantic feelings if you ever want to have like sexual feelings like you’re in capable of having them sexually if you don’t have them already romantically
Super straight sounds like a terrible superhero
super TRANS
@@SupraMan38
you have that title, that is amazing-
@@SupraMan38 Is it a bird?
Is it a plane?
No...
It’s SUPER TRANS!
I would see that movie
@@SupraMan38 THE super trans
SUPER STRAIGHT SEPTEMBER?! Why are they bringing my birthday month into this??????
Suicide prevention and awareness September? Nope we got
SS September ☺️🔫
Them: “I’m not transphobic”
Also them: “I only like real (cis) women” suggesting they only this cis women are real women and trans women aren’t real women
Although most say that and that’s poor phrasing I would more say it like “I’d rather not date someone with the knowledge that at one point they had body parts that I’m not physically attracted to.” Guys wanna date a girl that’s had girl parts. Some guys don’t mind I really don’t see why this has become a big deal 😂
@@caluminnes579 having a preference is fine. invalidating trans women is not. creating a sexuality to mock a community that gets killed for existing is not fine. do you see this issue?
Transwomen literally are men
@@leemarshall348 no ♥️
@Skylar Landucci exactly
"My chosen sexuality" i think I just lost braincells
if you even happen to have some lol
@@jovanlisac Bro you can't choose your sexuality
@@jovanlisac rethink what you said
@@ramei123 There is the concept of political lesbianism. Which I'd argue is very much chosen.
@@ramei123
Of course you can’t choose your sexuality... that’s the entire point of SuperStraight.😉
You can’t choose to be attracted to transwomen.
"You're a real woman? Produce me a baby then."
Me, a cis woman that has PCOS and also just doesn't want to have babies naturally: No. I don't think I will.
there are transwoman who agree with super straight. they said they know we're different and it's not transphobic to not wanna date em.
@@ladyarya2943 'omg some some self hating blair white type trans girl agreed with me so my point is super valid uwu' shut the fuck up, dumbass.
@Joot Joestar actually no. all differences between men and women are caused by different hormonal developement.
@@ladyarya2943 Why would ANYONE agree with this super straight nonsense?
@Joot Joestar "Before we date, I need several X rays of your pelvis to make sure it's the right shape."
im fully okay with people not wanting to date me because im trans but when it gets to the point of making fun of the comunity being unsafe is purly transphobic i have been atacked for being trans. luckily when i first heard this was happening in my area i started taking boxing and self defence classes and rocked the shit out of a transphobe but it isnt like that for everyone and the school i went to (just finished a few weeks ago) was very very transphobic to the point i had to act completly cis and not do anything to transition until i left school..it sickening
The only thing that makes me hesitate about dating a trans person is that I might accidentally treat their genitals in a way that makes them uncomfortable because I'd be doing things in the way I'm used to. I feel like my own self-consciousness might make them more self-conscious. But if a relationship is good and healthy, then you can get through that with good communication. I was raped at 14 (not the same, I know) and I know how it feels to a certain degree to have to basically hold your breath while explaining to a partner what you're okay with and not okay with. A good partner will listen and not put pressure on you, and you can move at a compatible/comfortable pace
you seem like a great person, and i'm sorry to hear about your trauma. i hope you recover and i hope you have a happy future :)
They’re all really forgetting that gay, lesbian, bi, pan, etc. can be transphobic... it doesn’t matter your sexuality.
Yeah, but none of those sexualities are built on transphobia. Those are also actual sexualities, not preferences
@@supershepherd I know that. I’m trans and pan, I’m just stating the fact that everyone can be transphobic, not just straight people.
As a bi/queer person, transphobic bisexuals make absolutely no sense to me lol
@@Augustowind809 I’m trans and pan, but believe me I’ve seen transphobic bi people, it makes no sense to me either
@@Augustowind809 sadly superBi is a thing. Which is one of the more transphobic of all the super movements because they can't hide behind the dog whistles
Me an Irish person who is from Kilkenny seeing the “super straight” flag being County Kilkenny’s flag: don’t ruin my flag for me please.
oh god 🤦♀️
Oh dear
Tell them its racist to use the flag😅🤷♂️
IRISH GANG RISE UP
I'm cork, who's Kerry?
Here’s the thing. Not liking trans people isn’t a sexuality. It’s a preference, because for it to be a sexuality there needs to be a new gender they’re attracted to. Trans is not a gender ok it’s own.
Factually incorrect; rejecting and/or opposing LARP Culture is absolutely a sexuality.
@@lara-ch5qc Factually incorrect; rejecting and/or opposing LARP Culture is absolutely a sexuality.
@@lara-ch5qc That is how I feel when fact-deniers never learn to die.
Bruh and they are saying “I’m coming out guys” like it’s nothing, I am cis-het but from what I’ve heard coming out is really hard. Especially when your parents and/or friends are not very accepting.
yeah I had a panic attack when I came out to my mom, and I'm waiting until I'm an adult to come out the rest of my family in case I get kicked out
They think being called transphobic is equivalent to being discriminated against, kicked out, or hate-crimed.
when i was living with my grandma and i came out to her as trans she slapped me across my face, its a very vivid memory and i cant even visualize things, quite traumatizing
@dab or die trying oh my gosh that’s horrible, I also live in Utah, but luckily all of my Mormon friends are supportive of the LGBTQ+ community and I always ask people before I become their best friend.
@dab or die trying oh goodness I can’t even talk to my parents about my feelings or anything personal, but my sister is actually apart of the community and she has a lot of the same feelings as I do, unfortunately my parents are trump supporters, or at least my dad but idk about my mom, one of my friends is also a trump supporter but she says she supports BLM and the LGBTQ+ community too which doesn’t make much sense lol
it’s funny because as a cis woman, this is the last kind of person i’d want to be in a relationship with, much less being around😑
No one said you had to date them or be attracted to them.
Thats the point.
Respect peoples boundaries.
See how easy it is. You don't have to be attracted to them and they don't have to be attracted to biological men.
@@Lux-ow5vf And no one said you had to reply lmao. Go with your crowd. You dont have to date anyone or be offensive about it. Y'all be the real snowflakes.
@@user-dj6ld8xp5w No one is saying you have to date them or have to have sex with them. It's not about your preference, but the context in which you talk about that preference. If someone never dates a white man, that's ok. But if they say the reason is because "They are gross, pasty, and not real men." Then that would be a different story.
Same thing with trans people. If you don't date a trans person, THAT IS OK. BUT, it becomes an issue when you say things like "Oh they aren't real men/women" and such.
Also if it's a genital preference, that raises the question. Would you be ok with a trans man/women who got bottom surgery?
(Btw, this is not directed only at you, but also the other people in this thread)
@@user-dj6ld8xp5w oh god youre a dum dum