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  • Опубліковано 15 вер 2024

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  • @jaimefok
    @jaimefok  15 днів тому +8

    let me know what videos you’d like to see from me ❤

    • @RoshiniPrabakaran
      @RoshiniPrabakaran 15 днів тому +5

      would love to see a ‘reading fall books for a week’ or something. Maybe like try like halloween ish books since it’s the start of the spooky season. 🫶🏽🫶🏽

    • @jaimefok
      @jaimefok  15 днів тому +1

      @@RoshiniPrabakaran oh love this!

    • @rue353
      @rue353 15 днів тому +4

      ooo i have a few ideas
      - reading books outside of your comfort zone for a week
      - revisiting books youve previously dnfed
      - reading subscribers fav books
      sorry if uve already done these!💓🥰✨

    • @jaimefok
      @jaimefok  14 днів тому +1

      @@rue353 love all these ideas!

    • @shoham3016
      @shoham3016 14 днів тому

      I would love to see a video essay about books, it doesn't have to be controversial or something, but I just like video essays.

  • @lindsayjohnson5672
    @lindsayjohnson5672 15 днів тому +28

    Thank you for being so honest and vulnerable. I think we can all relate to your feelings and it's so brave of you to be so open

    • @jaimefok
      @jaimefok  15 днів тому +3

      @@lindsayjohnson5672 I’ve gotten so many messages from people who have gone through (or are currently going through) a similar situation. I’m so glad we have this community to help each other feel less alone in times like this! ❤️

  • @prillouch233
    @prillouch233 14 днів тому +11

    Another great vlog! I have a random idea for a future video: why not try to make meals inspired by some of your favorite books!
    At my book club, we olan on trying to make one meeting with reasing a book that has been adapted as a movie, and then meet to watch the movie all together and discuss both the book and the movie, so that could also be something that you could do 😊

    • @jaimefok
      @jaimefok  14 днів тому

      I’ve had this idea on my list for awhile! Maybe it’s time to finally do it hehe

  • @xxflipchick22xx
    @xxflipchick22xx 14 днів тому +6

    Video ideas:
    - series you’ve completed, series you’re in the middle of, series you’re really excited to start
    - favorite romances
    - favorite standalone books

  • @Lillyjoy
    @Lillyjoy 14 днів тому +8

    Maybe you could do a vlog going to the library and picking out a book there to read! I get most of my books from the library and they actually get a lot of new release books 😊

    • @jaimefok
      @jaimefok  14 днів тому +3

      Oh that sounds cozy!

  • @SparkPup
    @SparkPup 14 днів тому +4

    I started watching you when you did fitness content. I watch your book content too but I’d love to see a few fitness videos in the mix

    • @jaimefok
      @jaimefok  14 днів тому

      @@SparkPup I honestly don’t think I’m going to go back to fitness content at this point- but I’m glad you’re also liking the book videos!

  • @chocolateoreo6489
    @chocolateoreo6489 14 днів тому +6

    Aw I’m sending you love and hugs for finding a new job and adjusting to a new life form❤

    • @jaimefok
      @jaimefok  14 днів тому +2

      Thank you!❤️

  • @dudie5403
    @dudie5403 14 днів тому +4

    Ohhh Howl's Moving Castle! One of my favorite Ghibli movies next to Kiki's Delivery Service.🥰

    • @jaimefok
      @jaimefok  14 днів тому

      Love both of those!!

  • @juilie3287
    @juilie3287 13 днів тому +2

    I am so proud of you Jaime!! The way you are handling the situation is so commendable. You are my inspiration ❤

    • @jaimefok
      @jaimefok  13 днів тому +1

      Thank you ❤️❤️

  • @noonewarefe
    @noonewarefe 13 днів тому +1

    omg 7:02 "soft Turkish bagel" we call it "AÇMA" and it was my fav bakery things in my childhood

    • @jaimefok
      @jaimefok  13 днів тому +1

      @@noonewarefe omg they are delicious, I need more ❤️❤️

  • @laurenleighross
    @laurenleighross 8 днів тому

    I’m actually so jealous you felt cold 😂 being in third trimester during CA’s hottest month of the year is melting my brain 🫠

    • @jaimefok
      @jaimefok  8 днів тому

      Right after this, it got hot again 😂

  • @themoodyreaderpodcast
    @themoodyreaderpodcast 15 днів тому +3

    Oh my gosh I felt you on the: everyone around me is vibing and happy and I am so not🥲

    • @jaimefok
      @jaimefok  15 днів тому +1

      I’m so glad what I said made some sort of sense 😂 hopefully next time I’ll be in the right mood!

  • @paytonouber6448
    @paytonouber6448 12 днів тому +1

    Love the weekly vlogs
    Also I am going to try that pasta salad recipe. Looks refreshing and delicious!

    • @jaimefok
      @jaimefok  12 днів тому

      I need it in my life again!

  • @salmasami4119
    @salmasami4119 13 днів тому +1

    Your vlogs are awesome ❤ I love your vibe ❤
    I would love to watch a video about your hair care.
    Wishing you luck on your job interviews 🙏

    • @jaimefok
      @jaimefok  13 днів тому

      @@salmasami4119 thank you!! Oh what a compliment hehe, my hair care routine is pretty simple right now but will show in a future vlog!

  • @silvercookies
    @silvercookies 2 дні тому

    I am enjoying the weekly vlogs, keep them coming as long as you want!

    • @jaimefok
      @jaimefok  2 дні тому

      YAY glad you’re enjoying them ❤️

  • @rue353
    @rue353 15 днів тому +2

    sorry for all the comments im commenting as i watch hshsh, but i wanted to say that feeling of ‘everyone around me is happier than i feel currently’ is something i relate to so idk if it helps to know that youre not alone in that feeling ❤️ things will get better. wishing you sm luck with your job search

    • @jaimefok
      @jaimefok  14 днів тому +2

      Never apologize for too many comments, I love it! 🫶🏻 thank you so much love

  • @alisats5693
    @alisats5693 13 днів тому

    Wow, you look and sound so chill before your interviews, i think i would be just simmering away with anxiety😅 Wishing you best of luck in your job hunt!

    • @jaimefok
      @jaimefok  13 днів тому

      @@alisats5693 thank you! haha I find the best method is just to stay calm😂

  • @Soaring_Seajay
    @Soaring_Seajay 14 днів тому +2

    I just love your vlogs. That is all ❤😊 Good luck in your job search! Maybe you could provide some tips on getting interviews? I’m still employed but looking for another job and I keep getting rejected. Not even getting interviews 😂

    • @jaimefok
      @jaimefok  14 днів тому +2

      Thank you thank you!
      Honestly…. Apply to 100s of jobs 😂

  • @JessKaplan
    @JessKaplan 15 днів тому +4

    Hope you are hanging in there girl! Excited to hear the updates! 💕

    • @JessKaplan
      @JessKaplan 15 днів тому

      I think it’s called a DJ set. 😁

    • @JessKaplan
      @JessKaplan 15 днів тому

      Aww Jaime 💕 You’re allowed to feel your feelings. Def don’t stuff it down, even if that means crying in public at a concert.

    • @jaimefok
      @jaimefok  15 днів тому +1

      OH YES A DJ SET LOL TY ❤️

  • @witandlearning
    @witandlearning 13 днів тому +1

    Good luck on your interviews!! 🥰 I’ll watch any book content you make haha but maybe a blind date with a book type video where huffy wraps some TBR books for you to choose? Might be fun!

    • @jaimefok
      @jaimefok  13 днів тому

      This would actually be SO FUN

  • @meloveschocolate
    @meloveschocolate 8 днів тому +1

    I'll have to try your pasta salad recipe, it looks really good!!

    • @jaimefok
      @jaimefok  8 днів тому

      @@meloveschocolate I need more!

  • @PlaceForFaith
    @PlaceForFaith 14 днів тому +3

    I definitely think going full time on UA-cam could be an option in the future. I believe other UA-camrs who made the switch have at least 100k subscribers before going full time. If you do want to go full time, it would be good to brainstorm a list of video topics that interest you and can broaden your reach. Doing more vlog style videos and maybe workout vids like you used to would be cool. Maybe even some full cooking videos/local food reviews.

    • @jaimefok
      @jaimefok  14 днів тому +2

      It’s definitely an option for the future possibly!

  • @CelineFerocious
    @CelineFerocious 12 днів тому

    Summer is great but I am stoked for fall and winter 😊😊

  • @bubbleclayshop8780
    @bubbleclayshop8780 23 години тому

    I love these videos, Jamie! Good luck with the job searching.

    • @jaimefok
      @jaimefok  23 години тому +1

      @@bubbleclayshop8780 thank you! ❤️

  • @ValentinaBuzzoni89
    @ValentinaBuzzoni89 12 днів тому

    Wishing you the best. Everything will be ok, you're brilliant, talented and smart

    • @jaimefok
      @jaimefok  12 днів тому

      Thank you so much!

  • @MeJustMe24
    @MeJustMe24 14 днів тому

    Every time I get a notification for your video, I feel excited and can’t wait to find time in my schedule to watch it. Your videos bring me so much comfort 🫶
    Howl’s Moving Castle is one of my favorite cozy watches❤️

    • @jaimefok
      @jaimefok  14 днів тому +1

      Omg this makes me so happy ❤️

  • @RoshiniPrabakaran
    @RoshiniPrabakaran 15 днів тому +1

    Loving waking up to your videos Jaime!

  • @WriterlyReads
    @WriterlyReads 14 днів тому

    You are so amazing right now! Life can be a pain but you are so gracious! Take it easy, babe you deserve it! ❤ happy reading ☺️

    • @jaimefok
      @jaimefok  14 днів тому

      Thank you so much! ❤️

  • @paulagabay9915
    @paulagabay9915 14 днів тому

    I can relate Jamie to others being happy. Please keep doing the weekly vlogs. I think a long interview is a good sign. I hope you can incorporate fitness into your weekly vlogs as a compromise since you dont want to do strictly fitness. Good luck.

    • @jaimefok
      @jaimefok  14 днів тому +1

      @@paulagabay9915 thank you!

  • @rebeccawickham7317
    @rebeccawickham7317 14 днів тому +1

    Haha I would not call that bundled up that's my summer outfit most days 😅

    • @jaimefok
      @jaimefok  14 днів тому +1

      REALLY LOL DO YOU NOT GET HOT

  • @lydialin119
    @lydialin119 13 днів тому

    Would be happy to see you do a 24hour challenge with your current tbr ❤

    • @jaimefok
      @jaimefok  13 днів тому

      @@lydialin119 OUUUU 👀

  • @hollyahd
    @hollyahd 14 днів тому

    I'm in the same job search boat. Sending love!! ❤
    ALSO. I am a fall girly and I love the summer less and less the older I get. To be fair, I'm in Atlanta, and our summers are just SO hot and humid. 😅

    • @jaimefok
      @jaimefok  14 днів тому

      Omg good luck!! ❤️❤️ fingers crossed for you.
      LOL ya the humidity is no joke

  • @priyankavlogs1505
    @priyankavlogs1505 13 днів тому

    Talking about interviews I’m having one in the next one hour and what a coincidence I found you 😅
    Going through the same phase I wish us all the best for the next awesome job coming up !

    • @jaimefok
      @jaimefok  13 днів тому

      @@priyankavlogs1505 Omg!!! Best of luck ❤️❤️

  • @lilasiansquat4526
    @lilasiansquat4526 13 днів тому

    As someone in the early-mid 20s, I feel the fomo. I am currently in the process of preparing to go get my phd and I’ve always thought about saving money since the entry level jobs for my field don’t pay much. But I’ve always seen people around me my age travel to different countries or cities and they look like they are having the time of their lives. Looking at my checking account and where I’m at in life, I wonder how do these people do it: go out and party, buy new clothes, get coffee daily, go on trips, while paying for rent and cost of living etc. while I’m here, living with my parents (nothing wrong with that) and trying to figure out how to save money, invest, pay off my future student loans, and have a bit of spare change to go out to eat every once in a while. Sometimes I feel trapped in the city I was born and raised in, other days I feel like I don’t ever need to travel. I wonder if I didn’t do life right, or if I picked the wrong career path (so jealous of people in tech rn) The oscillation can be exhausting. I wonder when I can start enjoying life like everyone else around me.

    • @jaimefok
      @jaimefok  12 днів тому +1

      100% relate to this! I think we always have to remember that we’re mostly just getting surface level snapshots of other people’s lives. I know a lot of people who seemingly live amazingly luxurious lives with a lot of traveling etc, but are at the same time living paycheck to paycheck. It’s can just be a difference in values as well!

  • @rue353
    @rue353 15 днів тому +1

    your videos are so comforting to me❤

    • @jaimefok
      @jaimefok  15 днів тому +1

      ilyyyyy ❤

    • @rue353
      @rue353 15 днів тому

      @@jaimefokilyyy❤❤

  • @AmbercollegeA
    @AmbercollegeA 14 днів тому +1

    Wishing you luck on your job hunt.

    • @jaimefok
      @jaimefok  14 днів тому +1

      @@AmbercollegeA thank you!

  • @Lillyjoy
    @Lillyjoy 14 днів тому

    I’m planning to read Belladonna soon and I also love the way that one looks without the dust jacket! Also love seeing you have the og throne of glass books like me 😊

    • @jaimefok
      @jaimefok  14 днів тому +1

      YAS love the OG covers!

  • @SarahSchneider2
    @SarahSchneider2 14 днів тому

    Glad you are getting some interviews. Both my current position and the job before that I had applied about a month before I got the actual call for the interview so these things do take time.

    • @jaimefok
      @jaimefok  14 днів тому

      Totally! Always have to remember these things don’t happen immediately ❤️

  • @JasmineScott-b6q
    @JasmineScott-b6q 14 днів тому

    Ahhhh I love the belladonna trilogy so much! And the different additions are so stunning (I may have multiple copies of all of them...😅)💜

    • @jaimefok
      @jaimefok  14 днів тому +1

      Omg love that for you😂

  • @aer1ekah
    @aer1ekah 15 днів тому +1

    Would you consider doing a video showing different ways to get books that are discounted or free for a limited time maybe?
    You mentioned the “stuff your kindle” before which I’ve never heard of?
    And maybe websites like Bookbub, etc?
    Book club discount sites?
    Are there any other ways to get discounts? Love your channel ❤. Wishing you luck with your job transition ❤.

    • @jaimefok
      @jaimefok  15 днів тому +1

      Yeah this is a good idea!

  • @magdalena4153
    @magdalena4153 14 днів тому +1

    I'm waiting for the continuation... 😸

  • @irene8553
    @irene8553 14 днів тому +1

    It would be great to see how you edit your videos!😊

    • @jaimefok
      @jaimefok  14 днів тому +1

      Oh interesting idea!

  • @mayumijulia
    @mayumijulia 12 днів тому

    Hi! I used to watch your videos during the pandemic because I loved your reviews on youtube home workouts! A few weeks ago I saw one of your reading vlogs and realized you changed the themes of your channel! I'm enjoying your vlogs a lot, but did you made a video about stop talking about working out that I can check out? I'm just curious since I wasn't watching you regulary in the past months! :)

    • @jaimefok
      @jaimefok  12 днів тому

      Hi hi! Glad you’re loving the vlogs and switch in direction ❤️ I did talk about it in a couple of weekly vlogs but now I can’t remember which specific video haha oops!

  • @Everyhandleiwanthasbeentaken
    @Everyhandleiwanthasbeentaken 14 днів тому

    Great video, been watching you for a while, thanks for being so honest.
    Regarding interview length - I can say as a hiring manager the length just depends on the interviewer. Personally I like short (20-30 mins then over to them for questions) whilst other interviewers like to talk lol. I know if I want to hire within the first few mins and feel like I have to add on another 20 at least to drag it out 😂. So don’t read anything into length. I also tell ppl at the end of my interviews that mine tend to be short :) I guess some companies have set questions also so that has to be factored in.
    Good luck! You’ve got this

    • @jaimefok
      @jaimefok  14 днів тому

      @@Everyhandleiwanthasbeentaken thank you! Haha yeah I had to do some hiring a few years ago and remember knowing within the first few minutes if I liked a candidate for the position or not.

  • @JayGTheAwkwardBookworm
    @JayGTheAwkwardBookworm 15 днів тому

    I’m on Queen of Shadows for the Throne of Glass Series, but I’m loving it!

  • @stuartgriffin1001
    @stuartgriffin1001 14 днів тому

    Good that you went to the concert despite the music not being to your taste.
    As far as video ideas, I would like to see a video of you with one or more book reading friends of yours who would be interested in doing a video with you. Most booktubers do their videos solo. I guess that makes sense as reading is a solo activity. I like to see two or more people bouncing ideas of one another

    • @jaimefok
      @jaimefok  14 днів тому +1

      A video with book friends would be amazing!

  • @fatimaezzahranesba4933
    @fatimaezzahranesba4933 15 днів тому +1

    I love your videos 😊... I hope you hear good news soon

  • @suhasinimadhuryachennubhot9342
    @suhasinimadhuryachennubhot9342 12 днів тому

    will you be doing any fitness challenge? miss your workout vlogs!

  • @namoreads
    @namoreads 14 днів тому

    I would like to know your rec when we encounter the reading slump.

    • @jaimefok
      @jaimefok  14 днів тому +1

      @@namoreads ohhhh I’ll add this to my list of video ideas!

  • @Clarabelle-mf6vv
    @Clarabelle-mf6vv 14 днів тому +1

    I would love to know more about your job search. What sources are you using to search (e.g., LinkedIn, etc). Also, are you looking for remote jobs, hybrid, in person? Just curious because I’m considering switching jobs but don’t know where to begin because I’ve been at my current job for about 15 years and it’s in the public sector (government). I’m a little nervous at the thought of going back into the private sector but feel like I need to move on.

    • @jaimefok
      @jaimefok  14 днів тому +3

      Mainly LinkedIn! A bit of indeed but I find the search and filters are better on LinkedIn. I’m primarily applying for remote jobs, with a few remote. I love WFH so much and am WAY more productive at home!

  • @AntheaReads
    @AntheaReads 15 днів тому +1

    Im curious - as you currently dont have a corporate job, have you thought about doing youtube as your actual job? Or do you see it as more as a hobby than a career ? Love your vids!

    • @jaimefok
      @jaimefok  15 днів тому +4

      It’s not really financially feasible for me to just do UA-cam right now! I’ve definitely thought about it ☺️

    • @AntheaReads
      @AntheaReads 14 днів тому +1

      @@jaimefok oh I see, thank you for responding ! X

  • @iLLegaLL02
    @iLLegaLL02 14 днів тому

    girl, they were definitely on drugs at the "concert"; ain't nobody THAT happy with life lol

    • @jaimefok
      @jaimefok  14 днів тому +1

      @@iLLegaLL02 lol honestly it wasn’t a very druggy vibe 😂 they just were all really excited to see this DJ LOL

  • @jenmessier2195
    @jenmessier2195 13 днів тому

    I hope you're entitled to EI... you should be...

    • @jaimefok
      @jaimefok  12 днів тому

      I am! One of the only good things about this situation haha - but because of UA-cam, I don’t get much

  • @dalestanley9177
    @dalestanley9177 13 днів тому

    Everyone was happy at the techno event probably because they were high on something 💀

    • @jaimefok
      @jaimefok  13 днів тому +2

      Not necessarily, a lot of people go to these events for the music.