How I overcame alcoholism | Claudia Christian | TEDxLondonBusinessSchool

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  • Опубліковано 14 тра 2024
  • A hugely successful actress who saw her personal life and career tested by addiction, Claudia shares her journey of overcoming alcoholism and offers fresh perspectives on alcohol use disorder treatments.
    Claudia Christian landed her first TV series at 18 on NBC’s nighttime drama Berringers and her first studio feature at 20 in New Line Cinema’s cult hit “The Hidden.” Over 50 films, hundreds of TV shows and 5 music albums later, Claudia has worked with George Clooney, Kirk Douglas, Faye Dunaway, Nicolas Cage and countless other luminaries.
    This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx

КОМЕНТАРІ • 12 тис.

  • @colbycovington6073
    @colbycovington6073 4 роки тому +3568

    I’m 90 days clean I am never going back please pray for me and other people struggling with this disease

    • @koichinishi9075
      @koichinishi9075 4 роки тому +31

      One day at a time!!! It works when you work it!!!!!?

    • @mikeforcerer8537
      @mikeforcerer8537 4 роки тому +16

      @DelusionRU Hail Satan, I'm 3 years sober i didn't need jeebus. lol

    • @_SPOOK_13
      @_SPOOK_13 4 роки тому +13

      @@mikeforcerer8537 Same here brother, i went from drinking spirits to heavy beer, after months i dropped to mid strength and then to light. At this point i was sick of my life, sick of drinking and had been for years, honestly i should have stopped years before this point because I'm quite sure that vomiting blood isn't normal, i think i stopped for 1 or 2 weeks and got right into it. My last weekend drinking was enjoyable, i had it planned, just chillout and watch youtube vids, relax at home, i bought 2 cartons of light beer and 2 hits of acid, great weekend and that was it.
      I felt great for the first month, that's when i started getting cluster headaches, they were nearly daily and very hard to deal with while driving a forklift, they faded away after 5 or 6 months. I think shortly after that i bought Anton LaVey book, Hail Satan Brother!! You've done well.

    • @ulthelth2899
      @ulthelth2899 4 роки тому +18

      "As a person THINKS in their heart so are they." Proverbs 23:7
      How you think and view yourself not as an alcoholic but a new creation in Christ is the key. Alcohol and other drug addictions have a mental relationship and spiritual relationship addiction. You need to be a new person and according to the Apostle Paul in 2 Corinthians 5 : 17 " Therefore if anyone is in Christ [that is, grafted in, joined to Him by faith in Him as Savior], he is a new creature [reborn from above and renewed by the Holy Spirit]; the old things [the previous moral and spiritual condition] have passed away. Behold, new things have come [because spiritual awakening brings a new life]. 18 But all these things are from God, "
      You need a brand new spiritual self and get rid of the old dead replacing it with God's eternal life of God. It's as easy as a simple prayer to accept Jesus and ask Him to come into you making you brand new spiritually and receive His eternal all encompassing sacrifice for the eternal forgiveness of any sin.

    • @blsbeserker8634
      @blsbeserker8634 4 роки тому +29

      Prayers...I'm over 2 years sober from alcohol. It gets easier as you go.

  • @BA-de4pn
    @BA-de4pn 3 роки тому +3605

    Addiction is giving up everything for one thing. Recovery is giving up one thing for everything.

    • @Ranch.no.sweetpotatoesbitch
      @Ranch.no.sweetpotatoesbitch 3 роки тому +55

      I love this.

    • @jamedlock83
      @jamedlock83 3 роки тому +37

      can't tell you how many times I have pawned my stuff just to get beer. . . I pawned my vehicle for beer, and lost my vehicle. . I never lost my electronics though. I want to quit, but I just don't know how. . . . . Living alone sucks, with no friends. . . .

    • @PjPjPaul
      @PjPjPaul 3 роки тому +11

      I needed this

    • @cvmitchell9368
      @cvmitchell9368 3 роки тому +6

      Thank you.

    • @52brittster
      @52brittster 3 роки тому +16

      I needed to read this comment

  • @BrownGeorge-pw2xo
    @BrownGeorge-pw2xo 21 день тому +83

    Alcohol and cigarettes addiction actually destroyed my life. I could remember several years ago after divorce with my wife which brought me into my disastrous journey on Alcohol and cigarettes. I suffered severe depression and mental disorder. Got diagnosed with cptsd. Not until a friend recommended me to psilocybin mushrooms treatment. Psilocybin treatment saved my life honestly. 8 years totally clean. Much respect to mother nature the great magic shrooms.

    • @NicoleCtirad
      @NicoleCtirad 21 день тому +1

      Congrats on your recovery. Most persons never realizes psilocybin can be used as a miracle medication to save lives. Years back i wrote an entire essay about psychedelics. they saved you from death bud, lets be honest here.

    • @Bastianbishops
      @Bastianbishops 21 день тому

      Can you help me with the reliable source 🙏. I'm 56 and have suffered for years with addiction, anxiety and severe ptsd, I got my panic attacks under control myself years ago and they have come back with a vengeance, I'm constantly trying to take full breaths but can't get the full satisfying breath out, it's absolutely crippling me, i live in Netherland. I don't know much about these mushrooms. Really need a reliable source!! Can't wait to get them

    • @DonnHowes
      @DonnHowes 21 день тому +3

      Hey! Yes Dr.benfungi

    • @SusanaGomez-mp8sk
      @SusanaGomez-mp8sk 21 день тому

      100% agree I used to have Psychosis and paranoid thoughts like "people thinking about me talking about me etc. Very odd behavior after getting off Adderall from 7-16. Antidepressants at 18-29. 31 now. I took way to much, but took about 20g of Gold caps (Psilocybin containing mushroom) I analyzed my entire life. The emotions that came out helped me understand behavior etc more. Wont ever need to do it again because I'm happy and contempt forever, but I wish more people did this to alter their perception of reality. Would help with healing much trauma

    • @AnnaRoth-pb8xv
      @AnnaRoth-pb8xv 21 день тому

      How do I reach out to him? Is he on insta

  • @kayceeken5550
    @kayceeken5550 9 місяців тому +293

    Psilocybin saved my life. I was addicted to alcohol for 15 years and after Psilocybin treatment I will be 3 years clean in September. I have zero cravings. This is something that truly needs to be more broadly used in addiction treatment.

    • @KingBright-dc3dl
      @KingBright-dc3dl 9 місяців тому +4

      A lot of people have testified about this and I really want to give it a shot. I put so much on my plate and it definitely affects my stress and anxiety levels

    • @BekiLouis
      @BekiLouis 9 місяців тому +2

      The Trips I've been having have really helped me a lot,I finally feel in control of my emotions and my future and things that used to be mundane to me now seem incredible and full of nuance on top of that I'm way less driven by my ego and I have alot more empathy as well

    • @KingBright-dc3dl
      @KingBright-dc3dl 9 місяців тому +1

      Does mush_pharm ships?

    • @luther350
      @luther350 9 місяців тому

      Shrooms was the best trip I had. It was an amazing experience.

    • @luther350
      @luther350 9 місяців тому

      Tripping is not really bad but find a good mycologist Who will teach you the right things you need to know

  • @yvonnehernandez2111
    @yvonnehernandez2111 3 роки тому +3611

    I’m less then 24 hours sober & I am an alcoholic. I’ve been on a binge for about three months & I am so tired.. please keep me in your prayers 🙏

    • @beschi101
      @beschi101 3 роки тому +47

      Yvonne, how are you now?

    • @terra7145
      @terra7145 3 роки тому +60

      I have been on a binge for 5 years. First 30 days last month but I'm on another month binge since then, I NEED to keep trying :(

    • @yvonnehernandez2111
      @yvonnehernandez2111 3 роки тому +171

      Thank you guys! I’m 7 days sober today & I’m doing okay. I’ve been taking Naltrexone since day two because I realized I wasn’t going to be able to get through this without medical treatment. I’ve also been journaling & reading AA literature along with scripture to keep a positive mindset throughout my day. I know now this time around that I wasn’t going to make it without meds, so I’m on the right path. Thank you all for your concern!

    • @yvonnehernandez2111
      @yvonnehernandez2111 3 роки тому +16

      @ Terra You’re in my prayers 🙏

    • @sanramona1615
      @sanramona1615 3 роки тому +15

      I say a prayer

  • @KanwarAnand
    @KanwarAnand 4 роки тому +3050

    I'm 37 days sober.
    Goal is 365 days.
    Who thinks I'll do it?

    • @VAMR-vc7xg
      @VAMR-vc7xg 4 роки тому +20

      Yeah, you can do it.

    • @neerajmoudgil7692
      @neerajmoudgil7692 4 роки тому +14

      U will definitely

    • @darby_hudson
      @darby_hudson 4 роки тому +29

      only you know

    • @susan1098
      @susan1098 4 роки тому +9

      I think you can certainly do it😊Keep us posted. We are here to support you. You can do it 😊

    • @kitmcv
      @kitmcv 4 роки тому +1

      I do mate.

  • @EdgarSanchez-nu3kh
    @EdgarSanchez-nu3kh Рік тому +141

    6 days clean …. Pray for me please .. Doing this for my marriage and my family ! I am 28 years old and I’m really struggling ! We got this !! Saddest thing ever

    • @Michael-tr7uq
      @Michael-tr7uq Рік тому

      If willpower alone doesn't work for you, this method can. Do not ignore this science. Free support for The Sinclair Method is all over social media and podcasts today.

    • @EdgarSanchez-nu3kh
      @EdgarSanchez-nu3kh Рік тому +6

      @@Michael-tr7uq stilll staying sober ! Thank you

    • @Michael-tr7uq
      @Michael-tr7uq Рік тому +2

      @@EdgarSanchez-nu3kh Great, being alcohol-free is the best !

    • @claradontcara
      @claradontcara Рік тому +3

      I hope you're still doing ok. Even if you aren't doing great, don't give up. You are YOUNG and have so many reasons to win this fight!

    • @lindahoffman2692
      @lindahoffman2692 11 місяців тому +2

      Edgar, I hope with all my heart that you are still winning your Battle! People don’t realize that often it’s necessary to give up far more than the alcohol - you may have to give up certain friends, activities, places even Family who are impediments to your Recovery! Not easy but SO worth it to keep what matters to you and to build your new life upon that success. You’re in my prayers 🙏💞

  • @southernaranch4882
    @southernaranch4882 2 місяці тому +11

    38 years 9 months
    Clean and sober.
    The 12 steps of AA helped to clear away the wreckage. Taught me HOW to pray and be of Service to others. In the process of all of this .... God .... the best thing that could ever have happened.
    Thank you Lord for your patience and mercy.

  • @peacefull6096
    @peacefull6096 3 роки тому +3424

    Almost all mistakes I ever made in my life were under the influence of alcohol.

    • @elizabethvandyke1733
      @elizabethvandyke1733 3 роки тому +66

      Every single one

    • @R0FLC4T5
      @R0FLC4T5 3 роки тому +119

      3 relationships. Each one worthy of a lifetime...gone.

    • @thomaspartington8526
      @thomaspartington8526 3 роки тому +49

      Same here mate all of my mistakes were through alcohol man.

    • @marianapopescu753
      @marianapopescu753 3 роки тому +57

      Me too.. And l am so ashamed 😔

    • @bethangee1348
      @bethangee1348 3 роки тому +118

      "something bad doesn't happen everytime I drink but everytime something bad happens it's cause I've been drinking"

  • @garisonboy
    @garisonboy 4 роки тому +2221

    Who else is coming off an embarrassing drunken alcoholic binge while watching this

    • @umno925
      @umno925 4 роки тому +33

      Day one. Should have taken half the pill because nausea, but on a Saturday, which would have been a full day binge, I basically cut consumption of vodka in half. Go to a doctor cry your eyes out and ask about netroxane. They already knew about it and got cheap rx the next day. 38 yr heavy daily drunker

    • @daniluchison
      @daniluchison 4 роки тому +7

      Just start taking the pill.

    • @audreylee2675
      @audreylee2675 4 роки тому +28

      I was trying to talk myself out of picking up beer on the drive home

    • @stevendiaz7633
      @stevendiaz7633 4 роки тому +9

      Not me, I am writing a paper about Quitting. But I understand coming here after binge drinking

    • @shaggystair9549
      @shaggystair9549 4 роки тому +23

      Audrey Lee take a pill... go buy your cold beer! Bet you don’t make it to 3... that is why Naltrexone is so awesome! You drink to undue the drinking... makes AA nuts! Because life is about having an internal argument for the rest of your life every time you pass a liquor store.
      I can’t live like that. I’m too weak.

  • @deereed1627
    @deereed1627 6 місяців тому +370

    For anybody who is going through alcoholism. Try to stop as soon as you can. I stopped mine immediately I did shrooms, my life changed.

    • @shokotatsuno-p5497
      @shokotatsuno-p5497 6 місяців тому

      Taking shrooms was 100% one of the most important experiences in my life. Everything has changed since my trip - I perceive - things differently.

    • @chaemchoiaromdee2229
      @chaemchoiaromdee2229 6 місяців тому

      After my trip on shrooms I felt so safe and supported. It was amazing

    • @nicolereed578
      @nicolereed578 6 місяців тому

      But make no mistake: Psilocybin has a number of potential medical benefits.

    • @dorathyfoster1459
      @dorathyfoster1459 6 місяців тому +1

      We're do you source from?

    • @dorathyfoster1459
      @dorathyfoster1459 6 місяців тому

      please how do I reach him ?

  • @strumminfuel4625
    @strumminfuel4625 Рік тому +364

    Get your head straight if you plan on quitting. Mental illness and addiction go hand in hand. I started seeing a psychiatrist and my cravings are easier to recognize and control. 7 years sober, I nearly fell off in the last few weeks. Talking to someone helped big time. Stay strong, it gets better.

    • @datMNboi
      @datMNboi Рік тому +8

      Stay strong. Proud of you.

    • @65vwbug87
      @65vwbug87 Рік тому +5

      what did the psych say to help you? and good job by the way.

    • @strumminfuel4625
      @strumminfuel4625 Рік тому +14

      @@65vwbug87 When I quit drinking I didn't go to rehab so I never learned what my triggers were, I found out that I drank to numb my anxiety, which was caused by not resolving other personal issues that are now resolved. I would recommend AA or rehab. Only 5 percent of people that try to quit succed. I'm not stronger than anyone, I had a great supportive family ❤️. I don't judge anyone, it's hard.

    • @65vwbug87
      @65vwbug87 Рік тому +1

      @@strumminfuel4625 right on ! Just was wondering what they talked about. I wish your future continues to grow in health and clarity on your journey.

    • @nickisnyder3450
      @nickisnyder3450 Рік тому +8

      Naltrexone helps too.

  • @Tresor2919
    @Tresor2919 5 років тому +3403

    I'm done with drinking guys I've lost so many years with my family please pray for me

    • @christopherclamour
      @christopherclamour 5 років тому +131

      Tresor Kalombo I’ve been working hard on sobriety the past year and a half. It’s actually so difficult sometimes and yes I have had some binges in that time but I tell you what, the best feeling in the world is waking up in the morning and knowing you didn’t drink the day before.

    • @MyDigitaLifes
      @MyDigitaLifes 5 років тому +65

      You are courageous by admitting it. I've lost almost anything 17 years ago. I'm sober since 2001 and you can be sober too. Try AA (Alcoholic Anonymous) it help a lot.

    • @wakeoftheflood2
      @wakeoftheflood2 5 років тому +30

      I havent had a drink since 2008. It isnt easy at the outset, but I send you the good news that it does get easier, over time. Be well. Never too late.

    • @wakeoftheflood2
      @wakeoftheflood2 5 років тому +33

      One more thing Ill say...I still feel like an outsider when in social situations everyone else is drinking, or drunk, & Im not. I dont think that will ever go away, but it also gets easier. Or Ive just gotten used to it. Dont let that influence you negatively, stay with it, because its not worth throwing away your hard work just to be like everyone else.

    • @gloriamaryhaywood2217
      @gloriamaryhaywood2217 5 років тому +12

      @@christopherclamour Yes!....that certainly is the best feeling in the world! Although it's been years and years since my crazed drinking days, I can absolutely still relate to what you're saying!!😉

  • @manueldelush9716
    @manueldelush9716 2 роки тому +1090

    Today is going to be my first day of sobriety in almost 10 years. Alchohol has gone from being something fun to something that has taken away so much for me. Today is the day. Wish me luck

    • @uwsgrrl2308
      @uwsgrrl2308 2 роки тому +20

      Don't ever give up! Good luck!

    • @johnphillips9921
      @johnphillips9921 2 роки тому +11

      I'm on your side, Manny! John.

    • @manueldelush9716
      @manueldelush9716 2 роки тому +34

      @@johnphillips9921 I made it 16 days before falling off. Its been a tough month but I'm starting 2022 off fresh and sober. Need to keep on going

    • @johnphillips9921
      @johnphillips9921 2 роки тому +23

      @@manueldelush9716 Hi, Manny ! First thing: Don't beat yourself up. Falling happens to ALL of us who fight this demon. Whatever stage you are in, keep calm & carry on. Hang with truly sober people. Their presence will bolster your confidence. They stayed sober & so can you. Always remember, you are NOT alone! your friend, John.

    • @manueldelush9716
      @manueldelush9716 2 роки тому +7

      @@johnphillips9921 thank you man, that really means alot. I have a great family around me so im luckier than most. It's being honest with myself I think is my biggest problem. Again thank you John
      Happy new year
      Danny

  • @rololoy2
    @rololoy2 Рік тому +28

    I decided to become sober after years of alcohol abuse when one day I woke up at noon , with a terrible hangover and suddenly realized that I was 36 years old and I haven’t accomplished anything good in my life. It was a wake up call for me so I needed to change.

  • @km3710
    @km3710 11 місяців тому +119

    This is the most eloquent and well delivered Ted Talk I have ever seen. I have watched it at least six times today and counting, because it affected me so profoundly. When she said, "Please reach out and help others, be kind, share this message with others," I busted. I have struggled with AUD since I was 18 and have always passed out. I am now 38. I'm on the verge of being written up for my attendance at work, losing my apartment, and losing my job. I'm behind on bills. I have cried and cried and cried all day. Thank God I found rehab and my insurance will cover all but $650 of it. I have tried everything. And I am currently drinking as I write this. I think I've relapsed about 16 times and counting now. I don't know if rehab will work, but at this point I'm desperate. Desperate for answers, desperate for help, desperate for hope. Alcoholism runs on both sides of my family. I have never been able to control it. And I am at the end of my rope. It's either I get help, or I die. I wish more people understood the ins and outs of ANY addiction, and all that it entails. It is the most destructive, hellish problem I have ever had to deal with. I feel so alone and this woman has given me hope.

    • @km3710
      @km3710 11 місяців тому +13

      On my second day of the Sinclair method and I’ve gone from 6 drinks a night to a maximum of 4. And then I’m just not interested anymore like she says in the video. Even that 4th drink I was nursing for a good hour plus. I feel like I have hope again. I will never give up.

    • @zanedietlin7645
      @zanedietlin7645 11 місяців тому +8

      You’re not alone. I’m with you. You can crush it, and so can I. There’s a lot of life to live. Fight the good fight ❤

    • @abhinavsabharwal2324
      @abhinavsabharwal2324 10 місяців тому +3

      Please attend meetings please

    • @carlyeckert4670
      @carlyeckert4670 10 місяців тому +3

      You can do this! I have faith in you. I will keep you in my prayers. 🙏 ❤

    • @marliprice1983
      @marliprice1983 9 місяців тому +3

      One day at a time ❤

  • @ryandearmun
    @ryandearmun 7 років тому +2613

    Alcohol gave me the wings to fly, and then took away the sky

    • @dinodude1100
      @dinodude1100 7 років тому +146

      that is sadly beautiful

    • @victoriabellanova2280
      @victoriabellanova2280 7 років тому +38

      I agree. I need to quit too!!

    • @fnulnu6507
      @fnulnu6507 7 років тому +29

      "I need to" is not the same as I am. You can do it. Good luck.

    • @irock5624
      @irock5624 7 років тому +8

      fnu lnu thank you for that, seriously!!

    • @victoriabellanova2280
      @victoriabellanova2280 7 років тому +4

      Hello Najib, I couldn't find this on line.

  • @reddiver7293
    @reddiver7293 3 роки тому +1773

    She's right about the decade thing. I wanted to stop drinking. I tried and continually relapsed. It was hard and it was depressing. But somewhere after that ten years, I did stop drinking. And in six days, it will be 23 years without alcohol. And life got BETTER.

    • @reddiver7293
      @reddiver7293 2 роки тому +9

      @SkimShark Mic
      Almost 2 months!
      Excellent!
      We all have our own routes to becoming sober.
      Lots of fellow brothers (I go mostly to stag meetings) and sisters in recovery. Lots of literature, lots of stories.
      Bottom line is not drinking alcohol.
      Please be aware of the Pink Cloud Syndrome as you deal with the issues that every Today brings.
      SkimSharkMic, proud of you!

    • @shellycaldeira
      @shellycaldeira 2 роки тому +4

      Stats so awesome. You are part of a very RARE statistic! But I and sure you know that just by looking around.

    • @shellycaldeira
      @shellycaldeira 2 роки тому +3

      @SkimShark Mic if something changes, good to have some naltrexone around. Out of the 23 percent it’s doesn’t work for 10 percent is because of compliance. Which I totally do not get. How hard is it to keep a pill with you at all times? Honestly, I don’t understand that at ALL. I feel sad for the other 10 percent or so. Something about their receptors working differently or something. Good for you for not giving up and finding something that works for you. 👍😄

    • @shellycaldeira
      @shellycaldeira 2 роки тому +11

      @SkimShark Mic oh I also wanted to mention that I am 57 and had that same “after I made the decision” it was easy. Life got way better (everytime) until I slipped… it went exactly as she describes except slower for me. It would take me about a year or more to get back to drinking as often and as much as when I hit my personal bottom. I was sober once for 5 & 1/2 years in my 30s. 3 years in my 40s and a couple of years in my 50’s. OVER IT. I got the Nal and OH MY GOD… it’s a SOLID game changer for me.

    • @reddiver7293
      @reddiver7293 2 роки тому +8

      @@shellycaldeira For me, I would see my drinking like a movie. The beginning part was great, felt wonderful for about 45 minutes to an hour. The rest of the movie was all about everything I did not like about drinking. And I did not feel good at all. Fast forwarding that movie in my head really helped me resist any cravings I had.

  • @NativeGnosis
    @NativeGnosis 4 місяці тому +22

    This video changed my life. Thanks to this video, I started taking Naltrexone and within a few weeks all cravings for alcohol subsided, and within months I stopped even thinking about alcohol. I'm so grateful for this video and for the work Claudia did to spread this information. Naltrexone gave me back my life.

    • @alisongraham3475
      @alisongraham3475 4 місяці тому

      Where did you get the Naltrexone from please?

    • @NativeGnosis
      @NativeGnosis 4 місяці тому +1

      @@alisongraham3475
      I got my first month's prescription from urgent care, then went to my GP for my refill. This enabled me to get the first bottle quickly while I waited for an appointment with the doctor.

    • @Michael-tr7uq
      @Michael-tr7uq 4 місяці тому

      ​@@NativeGnosis, thanks for sharing

    • @pamw3163
      @pamw3163 4 місяці тому +2

      They should make it over the counter

  • @carolinafrancisco7662
    @carolinafrancisco7662 8 місяців тому +159

    I got f**cked up with alcohol for over 8 years. Also suffered severe depression. Not until my mom recommended me to psilocybin mushrooms treatment. I will be 2 years clean after trying out a psilocybin treatment. Never thought I would be saying this about mushrooms. Saved my life honestly from addiction and depression.

    • @brendanfisher9686
      @brendanfisher9686 8 місяців тому +1

      After doing some research, i've been looking to try shrooms for Anxiety. Just very difficult to get a reliable source here in Sweden. Really need!

    • @acostasantiago3340
      @acostasantiago3340 8 місяців тому

      Yes! Very sure of raymycolx

    • @michealdavid7066
      @michealdavid7066 8 місяців тому +5

      I trust Dr. Raymycolx. Microdosing has been my personal savior. A small amount works wonders-just a cap or two keeps me balanced all day. It's like clearing the mind and refreshing the soul, though it's tough to explain, much like describing colors to someone blind from birth

    • @mariaclara4480
      @mariaclara4480 8 місяців тому +1

      @@alexanderkelly4562 Yes he's dr.raymycolx .Lsd and psilocybin are amazing teachers along its dmt mah dudes have safe trips all. Shrooms are blessings from nature

    • @gefferystones2814
      @gefferystones2814 8 місяців тому +4

      I was addicted to meth, opium, and alcohol. Also, I had bad depression. I took shrooms at a party, and afterward, my depression and addiction felt better, even though I didn't realize it then. Psychedelic experiences can help some people for a while, even if the effects don't last forever

  • @leahevehumphries
    @leahevehumphries 3 роки тому +1344

    50 days sober today!! So proud of myself, I never thought I'd be able to do it! I've had some strong cravings this past week but managed to overcome them ☺️✨
    Edit: it is the 26th of November 2022 and I never thought I’d get here again. I am once again 50 days sober!! 😁🥰
    Edit: as of the 15th of January I am 100 DAYS SOBER! Wow that has gone fast, I am so proud of myself! 🥰

    • @Lisa-ov8wx
      @Lisa-ov8wx 3 роки тому +5

      Hi Leah hope your still doing well can you point me in the right direction please

    • @leahevehumphries
      @leahevehumphries 3 роки тому +21

      @@Lisa-ov8wx :( i am sorry to share this but i am not sober anymore. To be honest it has got worse and now i don't feel right when i don't drink. I really hope I can kick this habit. Life has its ups and downs and I trust myself to get through this and back to the other side. I wish you all the best. We've got this.

    • @leahevehumphries
      @leahevehumphries 3 роки тому +9

      @@Lisa-ov8wx thank you so much for commenting by the way. I needed this reminder that I need to get back on track.

    • @marianapopescu753
      @marianapopescu753 3 роки тому +6

      Be strong and keep moving forward. You can do it💪🤗

    • @leahevehumphries
      @leahevehumphries 3 роки тому +34

      @@marianapopescu753 thank you, 11 days sober now - had my best sober moment ever last week when I saw my friends and ended up at a house party with them and didn't drink anything, even when one of them gave me a bottle of beer and another one offered me cider! (they didn't know I've been having issues, I didn't tell them yet). I am so proud of myself for that. 😍

  • @ouremberstillburninginside858
    @ouremberstillburninginside858 3 роки тому +834

    turns out by the comments nobody is here by accident, everyone was looking for this

    • @fadiyassine6257
      @fadiyassine6257 3 роки тому +11

      4 days now. I don’t even know how I found this video.

    • @silkegehtyoutubegarnichtsa892
      @silkegehtyoutubegarnichtsa892 3 роки тому +3

      Let's say, you either have drunken alcoholic beverages at some time in your life, or you are an abstainer forever! Seems that's the reason! I'm not making light of it though, but if there's one thing I have, it's anti-triggers, odd.

    • @mirandadouglas2119
      @mirandadouglas2119 3 роки тому +2

      Me..lol

    • @mohittiwari28
      @mohittiwari28 3 роки тому +12

      True, for its day 1.
      Just pray for me.

    • @NatiLite
      @NatiLite 3 роки тому +6

      This comment gave me chills

  • @foreverfawn9774
    @foreverfawn9774 3 місяці тому +16

    12 days sober and very grateful I went to get help. I’m only 22 and my blood pressure was at stroke level

    • @coltonjones2253
      @coltonjones2253 Місяць тому

      Stay strong , I had 6 months and went on a month long bender this past month . Feel so disappointed in myself but. I’m going back to treatment tomorrow to give it another shot! I hope you can get a handle on your monster my friend ! Especially being so young . I’m 28 .. it gets harder even from being 22 ..

    • @Mark-px8jt
      @Mark-px8jt Місяць тому

      well done!

  • @Emrico35
    @Emrico35 Рік тому +166

    Hardest part to quit alcohol is social interactions.

    • @hdog24
      @hdog24 Рік тому +15

      this right here. social anxiety is so crippling and alcohol just makes it so much easier

    • @465marko
      @465marko Рік тому +14

      For sure. When you realise that was a huge part of why you started drinking in the first place and why it "clicked" so well with you. It's brutal to have to learn at an older age how to interact with people without it.

    • @markyruss
      @markyruss Рік тому +2

      On the first night or two, then you end up at home drinking away out it

    • @susanfisher3655
      @susanfisher3655 Рік тому

      True that!

    • @mudpuddles
      @mudpuddles Рік тому +2

      Ive realized its better to be alone than to emotionally harm people with drunken words.

  • @ellenreed6299
    @ellenreed6299 4 роки тому +1218

    Been sober in AA 27+ years. Never have regretted it. Best decision I’ve ever made. Don’t miss feeling sick, guilty or embarrassed. It’s possible. Don’t give up. One Day at a Time.

    • @SiriusMogul
      @SiriusMogul 3 роки тому +12

      Wow that gives me hope.

    • @stevecooper7038
      @stevecooper7038 3 роки тому +30

      AA is complete nonsense. It does nothing to address the medical cause of AUD

    • @ellenreed6299
      @ellenreed6299 3 роки тому +86

      Nikola Tesla you are correct that AA does not offer medical advice, however millions of recovering people have their lives back due to complete abstinence thru A.A. the proof is in the pudding my dear.

    • @murrumbidgeekid
      @murrumbidgeekid 3 роки тому +6

      @@ellenreed6299 not only speaking from beyond the grave (thanks for your inverntions Mr Tesla) but I wonder if he has shares in this treatment style? No one is saying the system outlined doesn't work.. It obviuosly worked for the presenter. AA is another option.

    • @seriousstrawberry3064
      @seriousstrawberry3064 3 роки тому +1

      @@stevecooper7038 that is why one must see a psychiatrist

  • @FishGuts92
    @FishGuts92 5 років тому +1260

    To all those inflicted with alcohol addiction: I am sorry for all those who judge you and I am sorry for the hardships you face to get clean.
    Much love and good luck xo

    • @Marshallmallowlol
      @Marshallmallowlol 5 років тому +19

      FishGuts92 thank you, this means a lot

    • @elliselite9828
      @elliselite9828 5 років тому +15

      Thank you love!

    • @nicholas70paul
      @nicholas70paul 5 років тому +6

      Nice :)

    • @aaronluevano8236
      @aaronluevano8236 5 років тому +9

      Thank u so much for these words. God bless u.

    • @healthfreak18
      @healthfreak18 5 років тому +23

      It's rare to hear things like this and what this woman is talking about. Usually people just kick you while you're down and think you're no good if you have an addiction, even after you get sober.

  • @jortiz0911ify
    @jortiz0911ify Рік тому +35

    Im on my journey of sobriety . . . It’s only been 3 days and I’m praying to god for help to overcome this disease . . . I thought I had it under control but through my blindness it controlled me. I don’t have much money to do all the fancy stuff . . . But I’m not gonna give up I know god has more for me in my life. Keep me in your prayers. . . Thanx to all

    • @timburdsey
      @timburdsey Рік тому +4

      You’ve got this, my friend. I believe in you and I know you can do it. Sending love from London.

    • @jortiz0911ify
      @jortiz0911ify Рік тому +1

      @@timburdsey thank you my friend . . . God bless you

    • @liammorley6727
      @liammorley6727 Рік тому +2

      @@jortiz0911ify I hope you're doing well Jesus. You've got this brother, let me know how it's going

    • @GeoffreyGuenther
      @GeoffreyGuenther Рік тому

      I'll ask the people at my church tomorrow to pray for you. [DONE!]
      I can tell you with certainty that it IS a condition, not a moral failing.
      Your brain is fine, but it was adapted for 30,000 BC, before wine and beer were invented. Don't drink alcohol.

    • @dermothenley2663
      @dermothenley2663 Рік тому

      Take it day by day!

  • @pisceandreams5893
    @pisceandreams5893 Рік тому +102

    I'm 37....I have been drinking since before I was even 18.
    Both parents alcoholics.
    I can only tell people that I drink to feel normal for a few hours a day.....and then it repeats day after day.
    I do function pretty regularly......I can talk anyone into believing the reasons I drink by pointing out how ridiculous this world can be on a daily basis.
    I desperately want to stop because it's not fair to the love of my life,, even though she doesn't know that it isn't fair.
    I will drink alone and not bother anyone,, unless they get in my way of me cracking beers at 8 at night until 6 or 7 or 8 in the morning.
    I can absolutely out drink anyone who tries at this game with me,, I do it to show them that this isn't a game at all when the opportunity presents itself.
    Wether I'm drunk or sober nobody can tell......But this eats me alive more than it does anyone else.
    I am confessing all this for anyone who may understand.
    I have actually found Jesus, I now know why we absolutely need him,, because even my love for God still takes a backseat to my addiction.
    I am drinking now even though I wake up every day and swear to myself I WILL NOT DRINK TONIGHT.....It's actually pathetic!!
    Like I said,, I drink to feel normal in this crazy world but that shouldn't be the case...... people like you and me have this ritualistic behavior......I have researched for so many years everything about this and I have found that many people with OCD use alcohol to shut their brains off.
    Also people who have closed head injuries suffer from severe depression and anxiety like myself,, amd i also have more than 1 closed head injury.
    I am confessing these details so anyone who reads this and understands the struggle knows they are definitely not alone.....and I need you to know that our families need us and the world needs us and that is why we are Spiritually attacked so heavily!
    I LOVE YOU

    • @Meemeeseecoo
      @Meemeeseecoo Рік тому +7

      Same here, also 37. Finally got tired of drinking, gonna see a Psych on Wednesday, hopefully get help and figure this out. The drinking to feel normal part really hits home. Good luck, ur not alone.

    • @petemalelis3037
      @petemalelis3037 Рік тому +9

      39 same story as above but 6 years sober. Jesus is key.

    • @quanburris6162
      @quanburris6162 Рік тому +9

      Same here. 35 years old. Tired

    • @markdelaney7326
      @markdelaney7326 Рік тому +3

      Thanks for sharing your story! There is hope.

    • @taz19741974
      @taz19741974 Рік тому

      take NAC 600MG TREATS brain poisoning from the alcohol and treats ocd.

  • @uwsgrrl2308
    @uwsgrrl2308 2 роки тому +667

    I am celebrating 33 Yrs clean & sober on January 5, 2022. It was the hardest thing I've ever done & it's the best thing I've ever done. I thank AA & my AA buddies for my sobriety.

    • @JustBrian1111
      @JustBrian1111 2 роки тому +13

      You also gotta thank yourself. With help, yes. But you did it and keep doing it.

    • @uwsgrrl2308
      @uwsgrrl2308 2 роки тому +5

      @@JustBrian1111 thank you

    • @angelagrabill3366
      @angelagrabill3366 2 роки тому +28

      Thank you for your comment. I owe my life to AA and AA family too.

    • @TheMarrella
      @TheMarrella Рік тому +13

      I see no comments thanking drugs for their sobriety,,,me too with AA have been sober 7 and a half years

    • @stevecooper6515
      @stevecooper6515 Рік тому +4

      You clearly don't understand the cause of Alcohol Use Disorder.

  • @kc476
    @kc476 2 роки тому +824

    I broke down into sobbing tears when she talked about how they think we need more punishment and to hit "rock bottom" to quit. It's so true, it makes you feel worse when you were already suffering.
    My heart breaks for every human being who has had to endure a soul-crippling addiction of any kind, that it even exists.
    Sending my love and prayers to everyone here. 💙🙏

    • @MARSBELLA1
      @MARSBELLA1 2 роки тому +18

      me too - its awful and so cruel. Only we lose faith in EVERYTHING but only the most compassionate stay with us. AA doesnt work for us all and its so annoying they have to come onto a TEDTALK about another method and still go on about it. I drink because I am crippling shy. Thus I cant stand up at meetings and talk about my feelings. I KNOW that AA wont work for me but TSM WILL. We should all have the right to this medication. We can only hope - I pray for all addicts all the time. So few understand it X you are not alone

    • @manthakalyan6343
      @manthakalyan6343 Рік тому +8

      I am going through the same

    • @frostie212
      @frostie212 Рік тому +4

      Thank u kc

    • @nolavegadaboss
      @nolavegadaboss Рік тому +2

      🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @tiaduck9161
      @tiaduck9161 Рік тому +2

      me too! i even made a short about it because it reminds me of my mother!!!

  • @Prince-of-Whales666
    @Prince-of-Whales666 5 місяців тому +14

    I followed her advice and it changed my life. Incredible. I feel so happy now.

  • @jordanaycox1984
    @jordanaycox1984 3 місяці тому +12

    This TedTalk saved my life. Successful treatment using the Sinclair method after a year of Naltrexone combined with normal drinking and positive reinforcement on sober days without Naltrexone. 4 1/2 years completely sober and without the help of the Sinclair Method's effect of causing an indifference to alcohol, I wouldn't be here today. Looking back it's hard to imagine that was even my life. Thank you for releasing me from my prison.

  • @moneymikegotuvideos312
    @moneymikegotuvideos312 4 роки тому +626

    I'm at 3 and half weeks no alcohol. Amen thankyou Jesus

    • @lostboi3974
      @lostboi3974 4 роки тому +14

      I'm at 3 and a half years. If you stay the course, your life will be unrecognizable to what it is now. And I mean that in a good way.

    • @moneymikegotuvideos312
      @moneymikegotuvideos312 4 роки тому +6

      @@lostboi3974 thanks much love

    • @carnagedogg4294
      @carnagedogg4294 4 роки тому +4

      @@lostboi3974 TRUE,my psychologist saw me 3 weeks without a drink and still commented how i looked better when i saw him next time ,about 10 weeks with good food and exercise and you are at a good point

    • @lostboi3974
      @lostboi3974 4 роки тому +1

      @@carnagedogg4294 💪😎👍

    • @jarno_r
      @jarno_r 4 роки тому +3

      It better be 4 and a half now boy

  • @jlabeautyxo4188
    @jlabeautyxo4188 4 роки тому +209

    I’m 46 months sober , ODAAT congratulations 🎊

    • @simoneg4397
      @simoneg4397 4 роки тому +1

      Jennifer Leigh Arthur CONGRATS!!!!

    • @konstanting3400
      @konstanting3400 3 роки тому +1

      You're star! Congratulations! ❤️

    • @duncescotus2342
      @duncescotus2342 3 роки тому

      Quit the counting. Get saved. Jesus loves you. He created you Jennifer. Have you ever created anything? Yeah. I know you know.

    • @duncescotus2342
      @duncescotus2342 3 роки тому

      Prayers for Jennifer Leigh. God's love conquers all.

  • @DarlingtonFrancis
    @DarlingtonFrancis 2 місяці тому +18

    I started doing drugs since my teenage. Got addicted to fentanyl for over 6 years. Fentanyl addiction actually destroyed my life. I suffered severe depression and mental disorder. Not until my mom recommended me to psilocybin mushrooms treatment. Psilocybin treatment saved my life honestly. 2 years totally clean. Never thought I would be saying this about mushrooms.

    • @SandraJulia-lw3kd
      @SandraJulia-lw3kd 2 місяці тому +1

      Congrats on your recovery. Most persons never realizes psilocybin can be used as a miracle medication to save lives. Years back i wrote an entire essay about psychedelics. they saved you from death bud, lets be honest here.

    • @mattjeffery09
      @mattjeffery09 2 місяці тому +1

      Can you help me with the reliable source 🙏. I'm 56 and have suffered for years with addiction, anxiety and severe ptsd, I got my panic attacks under control myself years ago and they have come back with a vengeance, I'm constantly trying to take full breaths but can't get the full satisfying breath out, it's absolutely crippling me, i live in Australia. I don't know much about these mushrooms. Really need a reliable source!! Can't wait to get them.

    • @SharonFalcon-fj7nb
      @SharonFalcon-fj7nb 2 місяці тому

      YES very sure of Dr.medshrooms. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.

    • @nicholda436
      @nicholda436 2 місяці тому

      Ive done shrooms last month in my house. It taught me how severely traumatized I was from alcohol. I healed from many mental traumas from my past and was able to forgive, let go. Shrooms to me is a remedy not a vice. I even felt more refreshed the morning after. So no hangovers. No depression mood for days. No anxiety.I now have a more calm mind

    • @FredaMartins
      @FredaMartins 2 місяці тому

      How do I reach out to him? Is he on Instagram

  • @Conrad6900
    @Conrad6900 Рік тому +133

    I choose to become sober full time, what made me choose to make a turn around was the fact that it was affecting my life around me & especially my grandmother, she told me “turn things around or throw your life away to that stuff”, so I chose to take it to heart & stop drinking altogether in order to better myself & I’m a recovering alcoholic, I’m proud to say that “alcohol will never touch my lips ever again, I’m pro life for myself & for the better of better opportunities for myself”!
    First official commitment date: 12/01/2022 ❤🙏🏻💪🏻

    • @jamestaylor9537
      @jamestaylor9537 Рік тому +18

      I’m starting today 12/2/22, I’ve had enough of this. No one understands except the good people here. I pray for all of you and I love all of you.

    • @jerrylumpy5141
      @jerrylumpy5141 Рік тому +6

      Yeahhh,🎉🔥🤩. Happy for you.

    • @jerrylumpy5141
      @jerrylumpy5141 Рік тому +14

      @@jamestaylor9537 you can do it. I stop for years and then start. Spent more time not drinking then drinking. But, drinking makes me so unhappy. Bad decisions and with binge drinking. Tomorrow is 6 months sober. Feel great.

    • @shadowfox_117
      @shadowfox_117 Рік тому +5

      Good Job C A, never look back.

    • @shadowfox_117
      @shadowfox_117 Рік тому +6

      @@jamestaylor9537 you can do it, at least you did the most important thing acknowledging and now taking action...you can do it, my friend!

  • @jerry123456789101112
    @jerry123456789101112 4 роки тому +700

    I hear ya. 13 month coma. Liver psoriasis. Learned how to walk again. Learned how to say my own name. 6..... 6 years out of work. 9 years sober. You can do it.

    • @danieltaylor1784
      @danieltaylor1784 4 роки тому +18

      Well done brother

    • @ambermalone4543
      @ambermalone4543 4 роки тому +13

      Wow I'm working on three years. After 45 years of hard drinking my last time I went out it was only for five days, but almost lost my life! My hands and arms don't work. My mouth dot-dot-dot. Don't form words very well. I can't even write my name. And I Stumble and fall all the time. I thank God for a AA in sobriety

    • @mnewt712
      @mnewt712 4 роки тому +3

      jerry123456789101112
      Awesome! 😁🙌🏽

    • @millsykooksy4863
      @millsykooksy4863 4 роки тому

      Damn!

    • @blairedawn8307
      @blairedawn8307 4 роки тому +1

      OMG

  • @robertwiegman1
    @robertwiegman1 4 роки тому +481

    I'm an alcoholic too and I've been sober now for 7 years :)

  • @clingyants
    @clingyants 5 місяців тому +9

    I did the Sinclair method. It is a miracle for me. First 3 weeks my alcohol consumption was reduced by 70% with more and more craving free days without alcohol. Thank you Claudia for stepping up.

    • @user-iv9xm3vd8p
      @user-iv9xm3vd8p 5 місяців тому

      How are you doing? I am exactly 3 months on TSM and drinking daily but always in compliance with naltrexone. I had my first sober day today without cravings today. I will only drink if I take the medication first. I want extinction.

    • @clingyants
      @clingyants 4 місяці тому +1

      @@user-iv9xm3vd8p
      Hey there! After a month, feeling good! I usually have 4-5 days without wanting a drink, and then there's one day when I get cravings with less drinking than before. Also I can stop the drinking when I still have alcohol when it's a must. I've also noticed while resisted an urge, that the cravings only last about 1 hour instead of the 5-6 hours like it used to be. Progress! 🌟 Don't give up! Keep going! Our body must be different, you must have drank way more than me, I assume thats why it takes more time for you for the progress.

    • @Michael-tr7uq
      @Michael-tr7uq 4 місяці тому

      Awesome !!

    • @NativeGnosis
      @NativeGnosis 4 місяці тому

      @@user-iv9xm3vd8p Extinction will come! Keep up with your compliance. Compliance is key.

  • @jacovandenheever6306
    @jacovandenheever6306 Рік тому +7

    I had my first drink when I was 14 years old. My father was an alcoholic. 34 years later and I'm still drinking, I can't stop. I thought that I was always in control, but now at age 54, I see how it ruined my life. I can't stop. I pray everyday to Jesus to help me.

  • @annamorrison3480
    @annamorrison3480 3 роки тому +547

    I am starting today, Hoping to never ever ever drink again. Struggling. Fingers crossed for me please!

    • @MRHBUCK
      @MRHBUCK 3 роки тому +12

      Be strong Anna! This is my first day sober after relapsing and it feels horrible. Just know that you’re not alone on this journey ❤️

    • @seemad4126
      @seemad4126 3 роки тому +3

      Same here.

    • @annamorrison3480
      @annamorrison3480 3 роки тому +30

      Starting day number 3! Embarrassed myself yesterday at checkout when I asked the cashier to actually put those three bottles of wine away (she already scanned them) as I changed my mind. The little victories!

    • @torycolvin9500
      @torycolvin9500 3 роки тому +8

      @@annamorrison3480 That's a huge victory - I'm starting Day 4. Good for you -- don't be embarrassed - be incredibly proud of yourself for that. You can do it.

    • @codyleonard6948
      @codyleonard6948 3 роки тому +6

      Read "control alcohol the easy way" by Allan Carr. The guy is genius

  • @aaronguerrero985
    @aaronguerrero985 4 роки тому +136

    My sobriety date is Jan 28, 2018. Since then, I've been promoted at work, I've had raises, I got engaged, I got married, I got out of debt, bought a house, made amends to my loved ones, regained everyone's respect, and have become dependable again. Among many MANY other things. I live a disciplined life that I love. I'm not bored either, I LOVE MY LIFE. The blessings are endless. I'd be naive if I said that alcohol and drugs were not the problem. My journey was painful and difficult but believe me when I say that if I can do it, anyone can. Try it. Your life will change, for the better too.

    • @themindhelp9584
      @themindhelp9584 3 роки тому +4

      Keep going!!! I am so happy to read your beautiful story!

    • @duncescotus2342
      @duncescotus2342 3 роки тому +3

      It's called the grace of God, man. And the prayers of your mom. Jesus, bro. Did you think it was you?

    • @doraho669
      @doraho669 2 роки тому +2

      Woow needed to see this

    • @whatwillbem6825
      @whatwillbem6825 2 роки тому +1

      Then …there is hope for my 38 year old son…😔

    • @michellebrassart1324
      @michellebrassart1324 2 роки тому +1

      Thank you for sharing! It gives me so much hope!

  • @jacobdaniel8239
    @jacobdaniel8239 Рік тому +10

    I struggle facing the fact that I don't want sobriety bad enough. That's the hardest part for me. Accepting that I want alcohol more than sobriety.

  • @angelinehernandez4838
    @angelinehernandez4838 5 років тому +172

    I have ruined my relationships with people because of alcohol. Thank you for this.

    • @ThePlutonicWay
      @ThePlutonicWay 4 роки тому +1

      I hear you 🙏

    • @ruhiab6390
      @ruhiab6390 4 роки тому +9

      I have done so too.I hate myself more each day for it.The guilt and shame is too much.I have today decided to quit Alcohol.I am tired of not having control over my words and actions hence hurting people that I love and care about.I'll take it one day at a time
      So help me God.

    • @skii7602
      @skii7602 4 роки тому +1

      @@ruhiab6390 same here. Good luck!!

    • @duncescotus2342
      @duncescotus2342 3 роки тому +1

      Jesus forgives you completely and holds nothing but open arms to you. Come to him as a child. Hope will not disappoint.

    • @xxyes8879
      @xxyes8879 2 роки тому

      @@duncescotus2342 Can JC also prescribe nalmefene? If not, his 'forgiveness' is no good to me.

  • @Llight-qg9tc
    @Llight-qg9tc 4 роки тому +48

    I'm 48hours sober. Stay strong (any one else who struggles) God be with you.

  • @n00dles78
    @n00dles78 11 місяців тому +6

    I came across this video 7 months ago after hitting rock bottom. I got naltrexone shortly after. It has changed my life. Thank you, I really mean it.

    • @Michael-tr7uq
      @Michael-tr7uq 11 місяців тому +1

      Congrats for finding TSM, understanding how it could help you and then getting the job done.

  • @rickmelideo720
    @rickmelideo720 Рік тому +21

    After 5 rehabs and countless detox's, I lost everything. Family, friends, my marriage and still fighting to get sober. I have a doctors appointment tomorrow and will ask him about this treatment. Im at the point, I will try anything.

    • @lisabucco7607
      @lisabucco7607 Рік тому +1

      Vivitrol please ask saved my life

    • @Michael-tr7uq
      @Michael-tr7uq Рік тому +2

      Naltrexone in pill form is most effective if you learn and commit to the method for 4-12 months. The Sinclair Method is all over social media. Do not let your family doctor talk you out of this method. They have very little training in addiction, especially TSM.

    • @markwilletts1252
      @markwilletts1252 Рік тому

      Jesus Christ it’s so simple work a program of AA, it’s gonna be hard but it’s a very simple program.

    • @fonzarellyplay370
      @fonzarellyplay370 Рік тому

      I had no idea you can use suboxine for drinking

    • @Michael-tr7uq
      @Michael-tr7uq Рік тому +2

      @@fonzarellyplay370 , Naltrexone

  • @titanimagalasi5139
    @titanimagalasi5139 Рік тому +228

    When she said she drank because she was physically addicted to alcohol and not cause of trauma or a bad life.. it's like she explained my life..

    • @Michael-tr7uq
      @Michael-tr7uq Рік тому +10

      I do hope you look into this method. It is groundbreaking in my opinion. TSM documentary 'One Little Pill'
      see the right margin in r/Alcoholism_Medication for more TSM resources
      The book by Dr. Roy Eskapa on The Sinclair Method explains this science and is important reading for everyone.

    • @susanfisher3655
      @susanfisher3655 Рік тому +9

      She owned her AUD. Anyone that wants to blame it on something WILL find anything. Until you own it, sobriety will be difficult.

    • @Meat_Waygu
      @Meat_Waygu Рік тому +8

      I know I really related to that. so many programs and help for people who have addiction because of past trauma or bad living. Nobody ever believes me when I tell them I'm addicted to alcohol because I enjoy the feeling it gives me not because I have had a bad life. I'd always tell people I drink because I'm happy and I like to and that was the honest truth, even though it doesn't change the fact that I have a problem with alcohol.

    • @stevegilmore3399
      @stevegilmore3399 Рік тому +3

      @@Meat_Waygu same here man, so hard to quit

    • @Charan-fs6vh
      @Charan-fs6vh 9 місяців тому

      9,m😅😮

  • @peaceannie
    @peaceannie 5 років тому +603

    I can't drink cause the next day I feel depressed. Not worth it.

    • @lnpiparo
      @lnpiparo 5 років тому +77

      That's exactly how I felt not to mention crushing anxiety accompanied by guilt. I was so worried about what I said the night before and if anyone could tell that I acted tipsy.

    • @natw5040
      @natw5040 4 роки тому +28

      i feel so anxious the next day

    • @cynthiamarston2208
      @cynthiamarston2208 4 роки тому +5

      Exactly plus the depressing yucky day lasts like forever and getting anything done just doesn’t happen. No wonder I ended up drinking again to escape all that and daily for years! Looking back I don’t know how I did that. Sometimes I think of the waste of my life and feel bad but it...darn bad!

    • @yaomang08
      @yaomang08 4 роки тому +14

      Same here I felt worried for no reason the next day along with guilt and depression

    • @alexallen6286
      @alexallen6286 4 роки тому +49

      As an alcoholic, I kind of see drinking as borrowing happiness from tomorrow. Sad part is you can never get out of debt.

  • @Notimp0rtant523
    @Notimp0rtant523 Рік тому +43

    Props to this woman. So often we believe highly successful people can’t have problems, or that they aren’t also grasping in desperation like those with fewer resources at their disposal. Drugs are one of nature’s true equalizers. It cares not who you are or where you come from. I’m with you, sister. Right here with you.

  • @annaburtenheim5310
    @annaburtenheim5310 4 роки тому +317

    11months in 5 days. no drugs, no rehab, no friends, no AA. its been 6 years of alcohoism. and i had my first birthday without alcohol since i was 16. im now a 23 year old sober person.

  • @richardgadberry8398
    @richardgadberry8398 3 роки тому +204

    Last drop I had was back in '94. 26 years sober.

    • @thomaspartington8526
      @thomaspartington8526 3 роки тому +1

      Wow man what an achievement . Well done 👍

    • @richardgadberry8398
      @richardgadberry8398 3 роки тому

      @@thomaspartington8526 Thanks.

    • @thehomeboidrew8570
      @thehomeboidrew8570 3 роки тому +1

      @@richardgadberry8398 I was born in 94 so that’s just insane to picture someone being sober that long lol Happy for you though!

    • @rudyferrell
      @rudyferrell 3 роки тому

      How did you do it?

    • @yome6132
      @yome6132 3 роки тому

      You are a strong man

  • @thefool2007
    @thefool2007 7 місяців тому +5

    Claudia gave an incredible Ted talk! Wow. She really shared her experiences and how she overcame AUD eloquently.

  • @udonnomi6958
    @udonnomi6958 2 роки тому +546

    I drank daily from age 20 to age 34. Tried to quit several times during those years and once was able to stay sober for 6 months. During those six months, there were intense cravings and a strong desire to drink at nearly all times. One drink ruined that sober period and plunged me back into my habit again. Alcohol absolutely ran my life, every last little thing revolved around my habit.
    To this day I do not know how I stopped drinking. I had resigned myself to my alcoholism and given up on any attempts to quit. One night I was fairly drunk and went to take another sip of whiskey, it tasted bad to me and I poured it out. Haven't had a drink since. It's been 1.5 years and I've had no cravings or desire to drink what so ever.

    • @princillerwilliams9996
      @princillerwilliams9996 2 роки тому +12

      I am fed and needs to stop this drinking for good

    • @IamMusicSauce
      @IamMusicSauce 2 роки тому +4

      I am so so grateful for these moments

    • @sylviacarlson3561
      @sylviacarlson3561 2 роки тому +9

      Udon Nomi - Congratulations Darling! You Did IT!!!!

    • @Fearlessfighter0
      @Fearlessfighter0 2 роки тому +6

      did u get any crazy side effects from not drinking?

    • @truejoyvette
      @truejoyvette 2 роки тому +1

      So happy to hear this! I am Believing this for my brother & loved ones. ♡ 🙏

  • @Chico11661
    @Chico11661 4 роки тому +374

    This vídeo literally saved my life. Never gonna be able to thank enough for this.

    • @musingsfromthewoodlands
      @musingsfromthewoodlands 4 роки тому +26

      It was your own Response to the info, that saved your life. You give the credit away from yourself, own the credit. You are a powerful being of light, and your own guidance brought you to this point. Eternal blessings

    • @musingsfromthewoodlands
      @musingsfromthewoodlands 4 роки тому +5

      @Falafelpump rosh you done the work friend as did I, even tho I used the same phrase :Miraculous. WE ARE DIVINE 🌱🔥👣

    • @keithnorris8982
      @keithnorris8982 4 роки тому +7

      It's truly such an amazing and simple solution to such a complicated problem.

    • @jorgeluisarmndo
      @jorgeluisarmndo 4 роки тому +5

      @@musingsfromthewoodlandsNot too clear to me; is she still drinking and taking Naltrexone or TSM?

    • @jorgeluisarmndo
      @jorgeluisarmndo 4 роки тому +3

      @@musingsfromthewoodlands Not too clear to me; is she still drinking and taking Naltrexone or TSM?

  • @user-zq7lu7jd1d
    @user-zq7lu7jd1d 3 місяці тому +3

    I'm bawling. My psych teacher had us watch this. As a 25 year old who started heavily drinking at an early age this really slapped me in the face but gave me hope. I'm 7 months sober now and I reeeeaaaaally resonate with the part where she was talking about being sober for 6 months and thinking "hey I think I can have one drink, I'll be able to control myself" Then spiraled. I keep having this same thought thinking I'd be able to come back with control. but I know that what happened to her is exactly what would happen to me. I just don't care about my li it at all when drinking. Surround yourself with people who care about you and listen to yourself, sober. It can save you from so much life changing damage.

    • @Michael-tr7uq
      @Michael-tr7uq 3 місяці тому

      Free info and free support for The Sinclair Method is all over social media today. I highly recommend the book by Roy Eskapa.

  • @josephbrassington9315
    @josephbrassington9315 Рік тому +9

    Great to hear your story - I'm currently battling alcoholism myself and one day I hope to be in your position; better, sober and free from "the curse" of it

    • @Michael-tr7uq
      @Michael-tr7uq Рік тому +1

      There is no real curse, you just have to understand how the brain learns and unlearns via a crazy reward system. Read the book she read, by Dr. Roy Eskapa. Fascinating.

  • @pablpfanque
    @pablpfanque 6 років тому +1071

    Alcohol. Worst drug ever.

    • @herculewayne106
      @herculewayne106 6 років тому +41

      It's a freakin' hideous drug.

    • @kerryarmstrong2876
      @kerryarmstrong2876 6 років тому +16

      Xanax is probably worse

    • @bitmx
      @bitmx 5 років тому

      No.

    • @peteryyz43
      @peteryyz43 5 років тому +2

      @Espada: "tobaco"..What's that?: Is it more addictive than Tobacco?

    • @brianoneill2776
      @brianoneill2776 5 років тому +3

      @@TheAnswersAreWithin alcohol is s depressant..it depresses the central nervous system

  • @Sunnydayz2046
    @Sunnydayz2046 4 роки тому +276

    After years of alcoholism I tried naltrexone and I am 1 year sober and am still going strong..it’s taken away all my cravings and I have absolutely no desire to consume alcohol...thank you for this video it really did save my life x

    • @cdunne208
      @cdunne208 4 роки тому +2

      Seems expensive. Does insurance cover it?

    • @chrissysmith1198
      @chrissysmith1198 3 роки тому +7

      I just picked up my subscription, binge drinker for 15 years here, I have hope 🙏🏻

    • @chrissysmith1198
      @chrissysmith1198 3 роки тому +11

      Chris Dunne how expensive is your alcohol and everything else it costs you like missed work ?

    • @ralphealking4071
      @ralphealking4071 3 роки тому +2

      Where can I find naltrexone

    • @charlenethompson6406
      @charlenethompson6406 3 роки тому +7

      What about the mental and spiritual aspects of your recovery? Can you get that from that pill 😂

  • @marjoryyilmaz5910
    @marjoryyilmaz5910 7 місяців тому +4

    Now I can finally understand what my brother is going through. Thank You so much for enlightening me. I will be more patient and compassionate going forward...

  • @tracy262
    @tracy262 9 місяців тому +7

    Thanks to AA and having a wonderful sponsor and meetings I don’t have to take a pill to stay sober. I have 26 years and am living my best life! AA works if we work it!❤

    • @Adrian-yi8fl
      @Adrian-yi8fl 7 місяців тому

      With the Sinclair method you don't take the pill if you don't drink. And you don't have to go to meetings everyday and whine about alcohol.

  • @rubyandkenny
    @rubyandkenny 3 роки тому +111

    I was an alcoholic for twenty years of my life, it took a severe overdose where I almost died for the penny to drop for me, I said to myself I am not doing this anymore to myself and I am proudly five years sober, I did it all on my own, with willpower and the love of God xxx

    • @duncescotus2342
      @duncescotus2342 3 роки тому +5

      Proudly sober. Willpower. God. One of these three things deserves praise. What is the penny drop? You are lovely and unique. God is with you/

    • @anti-ethniccleansing465
      @anti-ethniccleansing465 2 роки тому +2

      @@duncescotus2342
      You know you can look up the expression on the internet? Lol.

    • @gypsyfiresign1064
      @gypsyfiresign1064 2 роки тому +4

      Willpower is so 7nderrated. Our minds literally manifest our reality. That and surrendering your will to our Lord Jesus Christ can work miracles. I'm hoping these two powerhouses work for me

    • @sylviacarlson3561
      @sylviacarlson3561 2 роки тому

      Sinead Brophy - That is Wonderful! How are you today love?

    • @Mark-pp7jy
      @Mark-pp7jy 2 роки тому +2

      @@gypsyfiresign1064 For the chronic alcoholic, "willpower" is an illusion. All the willpower in the world, won't change my genetic composition. I have a physical allergy to alcohol, and intellectual prowess will never cure me.

  • @bradleylatham8184
    @bradleylatham8184 3 роки тому +260

    I have literally lost everything and was recently diagnosed with multiple skin cancers. Alcohol Use Disorder is a progressive killer. For everyone who has this monster on their back, lets pray together.

    • @duncescotus2342
      @duncescotus2342 3 роки тому +12

      Skin cancer is being healed by the power of Jesus Christ. Nice guy. He really is.

    • @reddiver7293
      @reddiver7293 2 роки тому +5

      Bradley, I have had many skin cancers. Any non-melanoma can be treated quite well and a full recovery is possible. And today can be one day you don't drink. Get to a meeting, brother. You can do this!

    • @bradleylatham8184
      @bradleylatham8184 2 роки тому +5

      @@reddiver7293 Thanks for your vote of confidence.

    • @bradleylatham8184
      @bradleylatham8184 2 роки тому +1

      @Branislav Malikovic YUP, because the sickness industry is in full swing.

    • @sylviacarlson3561
      @sylviacarlson3561 2 роки тому +2

      Bradley, how are you love? Please let me know. I care!

  • @fuzzlewit9
    @fuzzlewit9 9 місяців тому +7

    Very brave of her to be so open, and very well said. Kudos to her.

  • @stopandsmelltheroses104
    @stopandsmelltheroses104 9 місяців тому +6

    Checking back in, im now 8 and a half years sober 🎉 Claudia i watch your talk a few times each year as reminder of the journey ive embarked on. ❤

    • @TheLemmer02
      @TheLemmer02 8 місяців тому +1

      Did you take naltrexone?

    • @Adrian-yi8fl
      @Adrian-yi8fl 7 місяців тому +1

      ​​@@TheLemmer02I'm not sure if the original poster took Naltrexone but the Sinclair method is more than just taking Naltrexone. On the Sinclair method you would only take Naltrexone if you are going to drink and then take it one hour before your first drink. If you're at a point where you're going to have an alcohol-free day than you would not take Naltrexone at all that day.
      I'm doing that and already cut my alcohol down by 40%

  • @ladylibra3404
    @ladylibra3404 5 років тому +494

    I had been battling alcoholism since my early 20s and I never wanted to take Naltrexone cause I thought I could do it myself ha! When I got to the VA hospital I was offered it again I took it and have been sober 8 years and counting 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @hownottobeanasshole5675
      @hownottobeanasshole5675 5 років тому +2

      Congrats!

    • @ryanburr5948
      @ryanburr5948 5 років тому +5

      Got some input on monthly/yearly cost of Naltrexone, Lady Libra? I'm living in China as an English teacher. Wanting to take action.

    • @ladylibra3404
      @ladylibra3404 5 років тому +1

      Ryan Burr when I looked up the price it said about $50 for 30 days but I don't know what that dosage is I started at I think 50mg or 75mg the first year and weened off the second year be blessed 💫💫💫

    • @ryanburr5948
      @ryanburr5948 5 років тому +3

      @@ladylibra3404 cool. advice for a Website for purchase? Again, I'm living in China for now

    • @michaelheery7427
      @michaelheery7427 5 років тому

      @@ryanburr5948 how you now?

  • @scarlettvschultz
    @scarlettvschultz 6 місяців тому +6

    Thanks to this Claudia Christian talk I took the plunge and decided to get help and hopefully take naltrexone and today is the day of that journey. Thank you Ted talks and Claudia ✨

  • @Foryou2you
    @Foryou2you 7 місяців тому +6

    I was so moved by her story. Definitely one of the best Tedtalk I've viewed. Well said!

  • @clammymccockleshell6075
    @clammymccockleshell6075 4 роки тому +73

    To everyone who has commented on this video, I am rooting for you. I am sorry you struggle. I have faith in you and your strength. Good luck

    • @duncescotus2342
      @duncescotus2342 3 роки тому

      Bad place to put your faith. Try the savior. But you have a soft heart. And that will never fail. So I commend you and say that God hears you for sure. Try not to take this the wrong way. I hope you understand. In other words, the strength comes from God through Jesus.

  • @daveclarke60
    @daveclarke60 5 років тому +186

    I got sober with AA ...28 years sober just for today...I hope everybody gets well soon

    • @BigWill2k
      @BigWill2k 4 роки тому +5

      and no radical drugs needed

    • @shirleyandfrankfrye9696
      @shirleyandfrankfrye9696 4 роки тому +3

      Well done Theresa. I am coming up for 32 yrs sober. AA helped me remain sober, up until today

    • @karacolclough3106
      @karacolclough3106 4 роки тому +2

      My mum, sober for 37 years, what a gift to grow up with a sober parent in AA

    • @natbarron
      @natbarron 4 роки тому +8

      I’m 3 days sober - wish me luck

    • @emresaka4934
      @emresaka4934 4 роки тому

      @@natbarron how is going dude?

  • @WhyWouldYou821
    @WhyWouldYou821 Рік тому +4

    My psychiatrist mentioned this method to me just last week and then I found this TED talk! I'm pumped

  • @jeffkamen703
    @jeffkamen703 Місяць тому +2

    I saw this video soon after it was posted, a couple thousand views. I have never had more than one drink since I first saw it. Now, I haven't had a drink in years! My goal is not abstinence, but I am never interested in drinking. Maybe one day... Thanks Claudia for spreading the word about TSM

  • @ryanmcneila1957
    @ryanmcneila1957 4 роки тому +131

    34 days clean. Brother overdosed and passed away 37 days ago. Good luck to us all.

    • @nektariosvasilopoulos3841
      @nektariosvasilopoulos3841 3 роки тому +6

      Sorry for your loss. Good luck.

    • @TheBubblybobby
      @TheBubblybobby 3 роки тому +5

      Yep my brother passed away at 39 from an alcoholic seizure and i took more seizures then him AA and good help saved my life 14 years sober ! And i feel like i'm on holidays with the things i went through on the friggin stuff ! :)

    • @tobyf4910
      @tobyf4910 3 роки тому +4

      Ryan Mcneila: You gotta be willing to stop... It's not booze you gotta stop, it's the constant little voice in your head saying ''Just one more'' It's ALL psychological!!

    • @jessidipz1718
      @jessidipz1718 3 роки тому +4

      Stay strong 😇

    • @antoinettenovella1630
      @antoinettenovella1630 3 роки тому +2

      Sorry to hear that Ryan. May he rest in peace. May you keep your's

  • @yahyaelalami5876
    @yahyaelalami5876 4 роки тому +241

    Im 3 days off. ❤ I hope i can do it for eternal life

  • @MrAjpalkow
    @MrAjpalkow 19 днів тому +1

    That was an absolutely outstanding speech. I only wish that I had seen it much sooner. I lost my mother four years ago due to alcoholism.
    If I ever encounter anyone who has fallen into the miserable abyss of alcoholism I will most definitely recommend that they try
    “The Sinclair Method” of treatment. Thanks so much for posting this. 🙏🏽

  • @xsdom
    @xsdom Рік тому +14

    14 years sober over here. Thanks to AA. 12 step recovery is without a doubt the best signed program for alcoholics to recover.

  • @josephpasquarella878
    @josephpasquarella878 4 роки тому +216

    Keys to quitting: find a more constructive hobby to fill the void, and do not take your friends and family seriously when they say “it’s ok to have just a couple”. Know that deep down almost everyone wishes they can quit like you did, and that you are doing something special and honorable by staying sober!

    • @ProactiveResilience
      @ProactiveResilience 3 роки тому +1

      Thank you. (:

    • @tensegritywill
      @tensegritywill 3 роки тому +6

      Very well said. AA tells you to drop the ego but I believe a little healthy pride can keep you going.

    • @bencarter3166
      @bencarter3166 3 роки тому +4

      I can put it down for weeks at a time. But once I take that first pop the party is on. Best path to success is abstinence. Don't bargain with the booze as you'll lose every time.

    • @shanthilal6360
      @shanthilal6360 3 роки тому +1

      Please try alcoholic anonymous meeting, really it works... Iam sober for 4 years

    • @Mark-pp7jy
      @Mark-pp7jy 2 роки тому +1

      Recovering from a fatal condition requires more than a hobby. It's called living to good purpose on a daily basis!

  • @morganmiklus1288
    @morganmiklus1288 3 роки тому +356

    Randomly came upon this Tedx. I have been on Naltrexone for 7 months now after departing from treatment and my life and drinking habits have ultimately changed, so drastically that it's like a rebirth. Loved this video.

    • @Michael-tr7uq
      @Michael-tr7uq 3 роки тому +7

      Congrats Morgan !

    • @roseannamazzei7849
      @roseannamazzei7849 3 роки тому +12

      I just started them Monday. Good luck to you...

    • @ritabrito5040
      @ritabrito5040 2 роки тому +4

      Any side effects? I take anxiety medication, and wonder if I can take it.

    • @Michael-tr7uq
      @Michael-tr7uq 2 роки тому +5

      @@ritabrito5040 , most people have no side effects. TSMers recommend starting with 25mg for a few weeks with food and water, before going to 50mg.

    • @ritabrito5040
      @ritabrito5040 2 роки тому +1

      @@Michael-tr7uq but I take anxiety medication. Don't know if they are compatible.

  • @freddiegeyser6534
    @freddiegeyser6534 Рік тому +3

    After many "types of treatments " only to relapse again and again I can now with confidence state that , as with Claudia Christian, I joined a programme called SAHARA which also involves Naltrexone treatment by a doctor to detox and help to see the monster for what it is and then followed up with weekly counselling sessions. All at no cost !!!
    I've been sober for 120 days and still going strong, thanks to this treatment programme

  • @devendrakaranjit8151
    @devendrakaranjit8151 Рік тому +2

    The fact you are telling after 11:30 brought tears in my eyes. Thank you so much Ma'm for this wonderful talk program. ....From Nepal

  • @swst
    @swst 4 роки тому +142

    I went to AA in 97 & thanks to the people there, my sponsor, family, friends & “The Man Upstairs” I haven’t had a drink since.

    • @jimogrady1131
      @jimogrady1131 4 роки тому +3

      dave moore Those AA people are so Friendly & helpful. I had the worst time drinking 10 years & never built up a Tolerance 4-5 sips I was Buzzed. I think it had to do with me being only 5'6" Tall

    • @stevecooper7038
      @stevecooper7038 3 роки тому +1

      @@jimogrady1131 AA is bollocks & does nothing to address the medical cause of AUD

    • @52andattitude48
      @52andattitude48 3 роки тому +1

      Nikola Tesla Why thank you for your unsolicited input Mr. Tesla

    • @murrumbidgeekid
      @murrumbidgeekid 3 роки тому +3

      1986 and counting.. :)

    • @revoksfn7354
      @revoksfn7354 3 роки тому

      There's no man upstairs there's a man right there

  • @LaurieSomma
    @LaurieSomma 2 роки тому +158

    So powerful. I am 24 years sober from drugs and 4 years sober from alcohol. I almost let 2021 get the best of my sobriety but I DIDN'T!! Being sober is the best gift I have ever given myself.

    • @Michael-tr7uq
      @Michael-tr7uq 2 роки тому +2

      Bravo!

    • @chrissparks3254
      @chrissparks3254 Рік тому

      Yes! Wel said. Sobriety is definitely an amazing gift. 4-2-17

    • @davisholman8149
      @davisholman8149 Рік тому +1

      👏🏼 So admirable!

    • @LaurieSomma
      @LaurieSomma Рік тому

      @@davisholman8149 Thank you so much!

    • @wineasy9002
      @wineasy9002 Рік тому

      Congratulations Laurie. Hope you doing well in your life. 🙌

  • @ctxctxctxctxctx
    @ctxctxctxctxctx Рік тому +14

    Thank you for sharing a great story. I am also suffering from alcohol addiction and actually thought alcohol addiction was something that I could easily recover from. This was especially because all I had to do was just stop drinking. I then stoped drinking for about a couple years but I re-started drinking as I though I recovered from addiction and could control the volume of alcohol. Although I was okay for a couple of times, one day I wasn't able to control that and kept drinking. This experience makes me think that I have to admit that I am addicted to alcohol and need appropriate treatment. I will try my best to recover from this situation.

    • @Michael-tr7uq
      @Michael-tr7uq Рік тому +4

      Watch the documentary on The Sinclair Method and if you really want to start this process read the book she mentions. It is absolutely amazing.

  • @D64nz
    @D64nz 6 місяців тому +4

    It works.
    Or it did for me at least. I made two changes to my life, and haven't had a single incident since. I use naltrexone when I drink and I switched to low alcohol (2.5%) beer. I went from the guy that always took a bottle to bed with me becase I couldn't miss out on one last drink for the night, to the guy that now loses interests halfway through a bottle, and has found ways to put the cap back on so it's not wasted, so I don't have to feel bad for tipping it out. more importnatly, I went from the angry drunk guy who yelled at my wife, to the usual kind and friendly guy I am any time I'm not wasted. Better yet, other than taking the pill, and omg the hoops you have to jump through to get them here in NZ is insane, it was effortless. It was a natural progression.
    A huge thankyou to Claudia, and the work she does. I can't even imagine how my life would have gone without this.

  • @hangsambo12
    @hangsambo12 7 років тому +308

    I have gone cold turkey and am 4 months sober today. I was a daily vodka drinker for ten years.

    • @hangsambo12
      @hangsambo12 7 років тому

      +Drumguy What are u on about?

    • @hangsambo12
      @hangsambo12 7 років тому

      ***** Oh, OK. That's nice. Thanks for the support.

    • @hangsambo12
      @hangsambo12 7 років тому +9

      ***** Why are you such an expert here? I've been to two rehabs, lost my job for drinking in work and been hospitalised numerous times. You don't like to see someone doing well? I'm still young.

    • @hangsambo12
      @hangsambo12 7 років тому +4

      Oh, I see, you're a more qualified alcoholic? Your a hateful person and I think it is you who is the dry drunk.

    • @hangsambo12
      @hangsambo12 7 років тому +4

      You goaded me into saying what has happened tho me by saying 'you don't need support'. I had to defend myself to a snob like yourself.As for bragging, I believe I mentioned a job and entering hospital. You however, have to one up or rather, million dollar that up, with your night club and three homes. As for stepwork, here's the age old AA fundamentalist, throwing rhetoric and bias at someone who believes they can achieve sobriety a different way. AA is not for everyone.You're bitter, still and a dry drunk, who can't empathise with someone trying to achieve the same goal, but by different means. Crawl back under your narrow minded rock and leave the people who want to actually do good alone.

  • @piscessun3087
    @piscessun3087 4 роки тому +128

    August 21,2020... Will be 7 years sober.
    LOVE A.A.❤️

    • @markg.4246
      @markg.4246 4 роки тому +2

      Good for you Paula! Yesterday, 5/8/20 was my 26 year anniversary. With my home group via Zoom. Sobriety and being a part of the fellowship has been the greatest adventure of my life! My mantra today is, “Live in the problem, or live in the solution”. It’s really as simple as that! I wish you all the best!

    • @oscarwilliamson1264
      @oscarwilliamson1264 3 роки тому

      Paula Trexler ,you are so beautiful ❤️ ❤️❤️ and I will be happy to know you

    • @mickduke5812
      @mickduke5812 3 роки тому

      Bill and Bobs legacy has saved millions of alcoholics-Well done-keep on keeping on!!!

    • @franco7928
      @franco7928 3 роки тому +1

      Gemini did my first meeting on Friday, loved it and doing a different one this evening. 3 days now, and I'm not drinking today.

    • @piscessun3087
      @piscessun3087 3 роки тому

      @@franco7928 I was fortunate that the mental obsession and physical craving was lifted quickly... And once that is done... There is no reason to ever pick up.
      I found playing the tape forward very helpful on what always happened when I did pick up.
      Believe it or not I rarely think of drinking and it doesn't bother me if other people drink around me, I just know that I can't
      Same with cigarettes, I quit smoking after 19 years in June of '99... And I'm so grateful I don't smoke anymore as that too once the mental obsession and physical craving is lifted why smoke?
      3 days is huge especially if you drank everyday, which I did for years... Congratulations and keep going to meetings, speaker meetings were my favorite when I first went in the rooms.
      🥰👍... Easy does it!

  • @sonny9054
    @sonny9054 3 місяці тому +2

    Saw this vid three years ago. Helped me greatly back then. But stress from work hit me big time and I can sincerely say that I ran away from this vid. I finally said quits to my job albeit it in six months advance, and that brought me back the strength to face this vid again and am glad for it. I’ve slowly started moving forward by seeing doctors, taking tests and meds, and readying myself for rehab. I’ve earned enough to retire, but still need to endure another five months at work. I am glad to be living in Japan, where I have no needs to worry for my medical bill, but will need the courage to march on for another few months.

  • @rakeshsalve1849
    @rakeshsalve1849 Рік тому +6

    Hey Claudia...Your speech was not only informative but also deeply moving. The way you presented the gravity of the issue and the impact that alcohol addiction can have on individuals, families, and society was eye-opening. I appreciate the personal stories and statistics you shared to illustrate the point.
    Moreover, your explanation of TSM and its potential benefits in treating alcohol addiction was both enlightening and hopeful. Your speech provided a comprehensive understanding of TSM and how it can help people overcome their addiction.
    Most importantly, your speech ended with a powerful call to action that motivated me and others in the audience to take action and make a positive change in our lives or the lives of those around us.
    Once again, thank you for sharing your knowledge, experience, and passion with us.

    • @Michael-tr7uq
      @Michael-tr7uq Рік тому

      The Sinclair Method is discussed and supported on most social media platforms and podcasts today, thanks to her.

  • @laceyj311
    @laceyj311 5 років тому +257

    AA saved my life. I tried absolutly everything to stop and nothing worked. It took me a few tries because I wasn't willing enough. I use to couldnt go a day without drinking. My sobriety date is 11/15/16

    • @herculewayne106
      @herculewayne106 5 років тому +16

      AA works great for some people, Lacey. I'm grateful that it worked well for you. The mistake is in thinking that if it works well for one, it will work for everyone.

    • @merijn1902
      @merijn1902 5 років тому +3

      Still sober?

    • @cathykidd6688
      @cathykidd6688 5 років тому +3

      Glad it worked for you - but AA only has 5 - 8 % success rate.

    • @MrAxegrinder
      @MrAxegrinder 5 років тому +4

      Cathy Kidd unfortunately you can’t measure the success rate of AA because not everyone that gets sober in AA will stay in AA. There’s no way of knowing.

    • @Grimenoughtomaketherobotcry
      @Grimenoughtomaketherobotcry 4 роки тому +13

      There's no way of knowing if AA "works" because AA does not keep statistics, but also, as it is a spiritual programme, asking if it "works" is like asking if Catholicism or Judaism or Taoism "works". It works for those who desire to stay sober so much that they are willing to surrender their need to drink/use to their higher power on a daily basis, find a sponsor to work the steps with, and go to meetings regularly. And if that sounds like too much work for some people, then I guess AA won't "work" for them.

  • @charlesmiller9589
    @charlesmiller9589 4 роки тому +80

    My Brother died from it, he was relatively young, I stopped last year it’s been tough but in October I’ll have a year Clean & Sober....12 steps and Praying 🙏 helps...

    • @athar0966
      @athar0966 4 роки тому

      Really sad to hear , praying for you 🙏🙏

  • @user-vy4uy2tn2o
    @user-vy4uy2tn2o 10 місяців тому +6

    Thank you so much Claudia Christian. I watched this video again and again because your story and my story were so simular. I have been sober for a little over a year. I just met with my doctor today and he was surprised by all my number's. I got beyond lucky, I'm perfectly heathy not even diabeties, I beat that as well thanks to you,even lost 60 pounds. WOW you made a life changing difference in my life,you gave me strength with sharing your story. As we say in Hawai'i Mahalo (Thank you) :)

    • @Michael-tr7uq
      @Michael-tr7uq 10 місяців тому +1

      Thank you for sharing, and congrats on using TSM successfully.

  • @pichiloungeohyeah
    @pichiloungeohyeah Рік тому +1

    amazing talk. Was a fight of Mrs. Christian for 1 decade and she won it. The one who want to succed, those it. Congrats Mrs Christian, Godbless you and keep having victory.

  • @Playlist25951
    @Playlist25951 2 роки тому +80

    I’m 10 years sober due to naltrexone. I had to do the research myself. It wasn’t offered to me by 20+ doctors. I had to ask for it which is sad IMO. I’m still frustrated by that. I destroyed half of my life due to addiction to pills and alcohol and I just needed one pill a day to cure it. I now own two houses and a small business. I’m still fixing mistakes from my past. Including family relationships.

    • @ballsey4521
      @ballsey4521 Рік тому +1

      Wonderful👏👏👏

    • @alexprior-byrne4597
      @alexprior-byrne4597 Рік тому +1

      well done lad x

    • @peenweinerstien3977
      @peenweinerstien3977 Рік тому +1

      That is fantastic!!

    • @buffster948
      @buffster948 Рік тому +3

      I'm really pleased for you, Ronnie, although I know it must still be pretty frustrating to have to keep making up for lost time and fixing the damage your addiction did...but, you are fixing it! You're free from the prison you made (and hopefully any trauma that may have led you there in the first place). I don't know you, so it feels weird to say I feel proud of you, but, I really do. Well done and thank you for being an example to others.

    • @mrsbelcher
      @mrsbelcher Рік тому +2

      So you took one pill each day and your brain stopped asking for getting high? The lockdowns threw me in a very unpleasant drug addiction (Alcohol is the worst part of it) and since two years I'm failing to STAY sober. Managed to stay dry for a few weeks or a month from time to time, but I always relapsed due to cravings. I hate it so much.

  • @jjwashburn60
    @jjwashburn60 4 роки тому +65

    Drinking alcohol repetitively is like living life with the emergency brake stuck on , in the steering wheel all the way to the left, So you keep going in circles

  • @teetrav
    @teetrav Рік тому +6

    Alcoholism is deadly I watched it destroy my family on every single level.

  • @kerenrodriguez2831
    @kerenrodriguez2831 Рік тому +6

    I am beyond proud of everyone who has recovered and struggle to keep sobriety because it’s not easy and I couldn’t imagine how it feels but I am so so proud of all of you. Where can I find these pills ?

  • @jacksputrid
    @jacksputrid 3 роки тому +71

    “That’s just a billboard” every drinker here felt that.

  • @live42Day
    @live42Day 2 роки тому +22

    I just got 4 months sober. My whole life has improved in every way imaginable

  • @gergelyjuhasz8654
    @gergelyjuhasz8654 Рік тому +3

    This speech saved my life.

  • @nosiphomhlongo3529
    @nosiphomhlongo3529 Рік тому

    I send love to everyone struggling. I keep you all in prayer and I know we will win! Love & Light. Xx