Adam Thinks He's a Vampire and Scares Date Off | First Dates New Zealand

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  • London born property manager Adam describes himself as a man of the moon. Spending his time avoiding sunlight and expanding his mind, Adam hopes to find a similarly nocturnal woman to live out his nights with. Life long singleton Liz, has always been attracted to intelligence and hopes that her date this evening will have a knack for conversation. Adam is equipped for romance this evening, with his black turtle neck and his pineapple juice, but Liz is a little put off that he doesn't drink.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 173

  • @lifeiswonderful2023
    @lifeiswonderful2023 Рік тому +72

    If you don't want a second date then you should be the first to say so. Don't let the other person say they would like to see you again before you say you don't.

    • @kenith287
      @kenith287 Рік тому +2

      Maybe she was hoping he felt the same way and said no on a 2nd date!? Maybe? Idk.... when she heard he said yes , her heart sank....but i do know what you mean

    • @MrJeeves007
      @MrJeeves007 9 місяців тому +1

      If a guy did this to a girl, it would be fround on more.

  • @etrebelle9812
    @etrebelle9812 8 місяців тому +26

    " I'm so healthy! " dude would do anything to avoid a run

    • @powerup9035
      @powerup9035 5 місяців тому

      Ikr, it’s always the chubby people that are obsessed with putting healthy stuff in their mouth

  • @genebigs1749
    @genebigs1749 Рік тому +95

    My favorite part was when she said she hated turtlenecks on the first date.

  • @TMPreRaff
    @TMPreRaff Рік тому +46

    He seems to be confident... maybe a bit too confident. And he's convinced that he's 'young-looking'. Another one that should date himself. His date was lovely.

  • @Sunbeam645
    @Sunbeam645 Рік тому +150

    OK, I admit it, I'm old fashioned; but when Adam didn't stand up, when his date arrived to meet him at the bar, I was done.

    • @genebigs1749
      @genebigs1749 Рік тому +13

      Wow! You took the words right out of my mouth!

    • @cartoonking1063
      @cartoonking1063 Рік тому +10

      Yeah, very odd

    • @leigh7507
      @leigh7507 Рік тому +2

      I think thats an old fashioned manner - I was never taught to do that and asked to do it growing up. I actually think I do it though as i tend give people a hug but I didnt think it was essential

    • @genebigs1749
      @genebigs1749 Рік тому +16

      @@leigh7507 It's very simple and gracious. When a lady comes to meet you, you stand. I think it's common courtesy, not old fashioned. I'm American, so maybe it's cultural, I don't know.

    • @leigh7507
      @leigh7507 Рік тому

      it could be cultural and it could be generational. In the UK, teens and people in their 20s also dont shake hands much any more compared to previous generation@@genebigs1749

  • @cameronpurves961
    @cameronpurves961 Рік тому +95

    he was pretty full on for a first date. Felt like he was just giving her a bunch of requirements and didn't even learn anything about her

  • @OriginalBigThing
    @OriginalBigThing Рік тому +39

    This date was so stressful…
    I needed another drink!

  • @RapidBlindfolds
    @RapidBlindfolds Рік тому +27

    Seems like the kind of guy who would unironically call himself a sapiosexual

  • @pepper1188
    @pepper1188 Рік тому +32

    He would do well to drop the word "I" from chatter. Ask questions.

  • @michelleroselilley4637
    @michelleroselilley4637 Рік тому +11

    He care's about health but it out of shape... hmm.

  • @darryljones8369
    @darryljones8369 Рік тому +33

    Pity she barely got a word in about herself. She seems like a good date

    • @mvnorsel6354
      @mvnorsel6354 8 місяців тому +1

      Let the lady do most of the talking that way you make less mistakes😅.

  • @kjprice1443
    @kjprice1443 Рік тому +39

    He's definitely an unusual guy, and she's quite sweet and shy. Amazing that he wanted to split the bill, and then seemed surprised when she wasn't interested in seeing him again!

    • @celticbro1
      @celticbro1 Рік тому +6

      I still don't understand why women think a guy should pay for a meal. We're in 2023 and I thought women wanted to be treated equally.

    • @wrestlingterrier8366
      @wrestlingterrier8366 Рік тому

      Well Said !!!!@@celticbro1

    • @ENFPerspectives
      @ENFPerspectives Рік тому +11

      @@celticbro1 most men insist when they really like a woman.

    • @aisling_2139
      @aisling_2139 Рік тому +4

      ​@@celticbro1 yes absolutely women should offer to split the bill however men don't understand that it's just incredibly attractive to alot of women when men take care of the bill. It's just a caring gesture and means alot!

    • @keletsom8000
      @keletsom8000 Рік тому +10

      ​@@celticbro1 men often contradict themselves, you want a feminine, sweet woman and you want to be the "alpha" but refuse to take charge .
      And let's be honest if you REALLY like someone you would not mind paying the bill, it's sort of a turn off and comes off like the guy doesn't really like you if he doesn't find you worthy of him paying for the meal

  • @craigreeves5465
    @craigreeves5465 Рік тому +17

    Yeah you don't usually want to spend the entire date talking about yourself. The dig on him about his turtleneck was rude on her part, though.

  • @linthoi6456
    @linthoi6456 Рік тому +24

    He’s to be the diva in a relationship !! 😂😂

  • @sengasenga6856
    @sengasenga6856 Рік тому +27

    He looks like He drank too much fruit

  • @Dumpsterfireninja
    @Dumpsterfireninja Рік тому +31

    This NZ version isn't as cringe as the Canadian one but it keeps getting closer

    • @darryljones8369
      @darryljones8369 Рік тому +1

      Great comment looool

    • @Skeezer66
      @Skeezer66 Рік тому +2

      It's neck and neck, hahaha!

    • @Prafik614
      @Prafik614 Рік тому +1

      I’ve only warched UK version, which is quite nice, most of the time you see that the production has done their homework and people really are looking for a relationship. Today for the first time I’ve watched USA, NZ and Canadian versions and I don’t get the same vibe. Nice people are matched with weirdos and people are rude with no manners. I wonder is that the kind of entertainment people like more around there?

    • @Skeezer66
      @Skeezer66 Рік тому

      @@Prafik614 The US version never took off here. I'd say the UK version is the most watched, most liked.

  • @junelee5975
    @junelee5975 Рік тому +38

    this NZ first dates seem so contrived - mermaid, vampire, bird lady, cat lady what else

    • @supremennn3829
      @supremennn3829 Рік тому +6

      I didn't know my country was really this weird or is it just "First Dates" trying to make us look bad....

    • @gillowens24
      @gillowens24 Рік тому +1

      Dog lady to

    • @leigh7507
      @leigh7507 Рік тому +3

      it wouldnt be as fun if everyone loved each other straight away

    • @Skeezer66
      @Skeezer66 Рік тому

      @@leigh7507 When has that happened on this show? LOL!!

    • @leigh7507
      @leigh7507 Рік тому

      @@Skeezer66 the original show in the UK had a few love at first sight type dates

  • @MichelleSullivan
    @MichelleSullivan Рік тому +7

    Wow. Ok.
    He may not be for everyone, but he wasn't rude to her. She, on the other hand...
    Offended by a turtleneck.

  • @AKiki-ct1ro
    @AKiki-ct1ro Рік тому +6

    The only time my boyfriend wears a turtle neck is when I manage to sneakily punish him and give him a hicky, which is approx once a year. He looks highly suspicious when he goes to work.

  • @haplo_
    @haplo_ Рік тому +35

    He should marry himself. I hear that's a thing now.

  • @slevinlindsay3624
    @slevinlindsay3624 Рік тому +7

    Getting some sun is healthy for you.

  • @supremennn3829
    @supremennn3829 Рік тому +7

    Who puts these dates together lmao they know it'll create good entertainment but not nice for the 2 involved. Always complete opposites

  • @jennifergirling6850
    @jennifergirling6850 Рік тому +11

    He's a night owl not an early bird.

  • @robertgelblum5154
    @robertgelblum5154 Рік тому +23

    I found the guy rather weird, verging on bizarre. I suppose he's very intellectual and introspective, but he has some strange ideas on eg hating the sun, loving the moon, being a kind of vampire etc! He needs a woman who's equally quirky and "different" - and I'm sure there's someone out there for him. I liked the woman, thought she was pleasant, nice looking. But of course she is much more normal and conventional than the guy. It was obvious to me that she was going to reject him. (I wonder if some matchmaker really thought these two might be compatible, or were they paired together simply to make for interesting reality tv?)

    • @sigma8995
      @sigma8995 Рік тому +3

      He's an INTP, such personality are difficult to understand. They need another NT at the very least. She's a mismatch for him.

  • @goldenpalm3967
    @goldenpalm3967 8 місяців тому +2

    He has to go and make a smoothie and get older with some vegetables.... goodbye!!

  • @dtbristol
    @dtbristol Рік тому +13

    Twenty seven and never had a boyfriend? Nobody is good enough, so this quirky guy doesn't have a chance. Turtle necks are offensive!

  • @oanamunteanu4744
    @oanamunteanu4744 Рік тому +9

    Clowns must show up soon 😂🤭☺️

    • @sandrudaniel19
      @sandrudaniel19 Рік тому

      Si guru 😊
      Vreun sef de secta 😂

    • @pleun315
      @pleun315 Рік тому

      Clowns (narcs) wear a mask.....you never know the real person......

  • @bendybody
    @bendybody Рік тому +16

    she's really nice and patient

    • @sigma8995
      @sigma8995 Рік тому +8

      She is nasty with that jab about his turtle neck. There are red flags about her.

  • @cassandrabuitron427
    @cassandrabuitron427 Рік тому +9

    She seems very kind and interesting.

    • @vintagesupermarkets5210
      @vintagesupermarkets5210 Рік тому +1

      Yeah it would be nice if she were invited back for a second date. Beyond not liking fruit and being an introvert, we hardly got to know anything about her. She’s cute.

  • @tivvy9708
    @tivvy9708 2 місяці тому +2

    I think Adam needs to take a drink.

  • @bari2883
    @bari2883 Рік тому +3

    Her seeing an old school friend. Better the devil you know, hey Liz?

  • @WilldoAldone
    @WilldoAldone Рік тому +4

    She favors Sandra Bullock imo

  • @MrUnboxerVideos
    @MrUnboxerVideos 8 місяців тому +1

    Very David Brent 😅

  • @Dumpsterfireninja
    @Dumpsterfireninja Рік тому +11

    He creeps me out even through the screen. I would have not stayed for the dinner portion

    • @pleun315
      @pleun315 Рік тому +3

      She deserves a good dude ! Not this wanna be John Travolta

  • @eijonasson
    @eijonasson 8 місяців тому +1

    Some people take every opportunity to be offended.
    Worked at a PHD in being offended.

  • @suewilson3553
    @suewilson3553 6 місяців тому

    The maitre d guy looks like an FBI agent!! 🥰😘🥰

  • @Skeezer66
    @Skeezer66 Рік тому +2

    It's exhausting how First Dates NZ too rarely matches people who Match!! If they did, both people would come off better, instead of people picking sides over who did what wrong. (In this case, he did, lol!!)

  • @frankmat
    @frankmat Рік тому +3

    She is gorgeous

  • @DJAndrewMoore
    @DJAndrewMoore 7 днів тому

    Why would she slag off his turtle neck? and why would she make him answer first when she had already made up her mind!

  • @MamawithAtude-ib4em
    @MamawithAtude-ib4em 11 місяців тому +2

    Alot of dates on this show are pretty "put off" when the other says they don't drink. But she wasn't going to date him ever again for a number of reasons!!

  • @fatcatontario
    @fatcatontario Рік тому +6

    I am surprised at how nice the comments are towards this lady. She was absolutely tactless and cruel. There is no reason to put anyone down. Maybe she felt intimidated by his intellect and had to lift her ego up by bashing him...terrible date.

    • @fatcatontario
      @fatcatontario Рік тому

      @@itsbrown_ well, you have your opinion and I have mine. Poking fun at someone in a non-constructive and mean way is cruel in my book.

    • @vintagesupermarkets5210
      @vintagesupermarkets5210 Рік тому +3

      I agree that the turtleneck comment was rude. While the guy was “unique” (I wonder if he’s on the spectrum?), it’s not like he showed up in a stained t-shirt.

    • @fatcatontario
      @fatcatontario Рік тому +3

      @@vintagesupermarkets5210 agreed and it was meant to put him down and feel uncomfortable... I wonder how she would have reacted if he started making comments like these about her appearance.

    • @colaboytje
      @colaboytje 11 місяців тому

      Well, if he only talked about himself and doesn't show interest in his date, that is also very rude.
      He was also bragging about his health and how young he looks (he doesn't look healthy in terms of weight and condition). Maybe that triggered her to ask how much time he spent on making himself look good for his date.

    • @fatcatontario
      @fatcatontario 11 місяців тому +1

      @@colaboytje I personally don't think stooping to someone's level is the way to approach this. If this is the case, she has a very immature communication style.

  • @pamelakersten1032
    @pamelakersten1032 4 місяці тому

    Hes a lunaphile alright. Well played to her on the turtleneck comment. 😂

  • @pleun315
    @pleun315 Рік тому +17

    Its all about me myself and i..... not interested in his date at all. She is cute and deserves a cool dude ❤😃😋😋

  • @hekkeh5427
    @hekkeh5427 Рік тому +1

    like what? this guy 😂

  • @karenstieglitz3443
    @karenstieglitz3443 Рік тому +3

    I think turtlenecks are hot. And even if I didn't, I wouldn't be so hurtful as to criticize a date's choice in clothing. Once he's your boyfriend, maybe ;) . But in the dating phase? On a first date?! So insensitive.

  • @ENFPerspectives
    @ENFPerspectives Рік тому +1

    2:20 me too / type 5
    9:15 He just liked her looks.

  • @lisapounder1950
    @lisapounder1950 Рік тому +5

    He talks to much about himself,and she should be careful what she wishes for

  • @JamesCraigWhoop
    @JamesCraigWhoop Рік тому +3

    I think she needed more of the Ian Malcolm type

  • @TomNook.
    @TomNook. Рік тому +6

    I love his swagger

    • @msmee0079
      @msmee0079 7 місяців тому

      You must nit have high expectations 😂

  • @craiglewis4357
    @craiglewis4357 Рік тому +3

    Two different books on different pages.😞😞😞😞😞

  • @TurquoiseTerrorizer
    @TurquoiseTerrorizer 7 місяців тому

    Getting serious Darius Danesh from Pop Idol vibes with this fella

  • @lizgirlliz
    @lizgirlliz Рік тому +9

    He's annoying and doesn't look healthy. I felt so gross for the lady.

  • @caioronnau5226
    @caioronnau5226 11 місяців тому +1

    cruel of her, if you know you don't want to go on another date, just say it first instead of making the other person look like a chump. That being sad this guy is mega cringe

  • @chimakalu41
    @chimakalu41 Рік тому +1

    7:46:Okay this one is not a match even though they got what each other wanted. He was trying to make it work but she wasn't

  • @sahra8935
    @sahra8935 5 місяців тому

    The last lady with the turtleneck guy. I am her she is me.

  • @sigma8995
    @sigma8995 Рік тому +19

    I’m pretty sure he’s an INTP. It’s incredibly difficult for guys like him to find a romantic partner. He needs another NT.
    As for the girl, there are red flags.
    Being, 27 and never had a bf, considering herself too independent, and the end says she’s seeing “old high school” friend? Red flags.
    And the way she stabs at his turtle neck is just nasty.

    • @supremennn3829
      @supremennn3829 Рік тому +7

      Love seeing your comments 🤣

    • @avo6198
      @avo6198 Рік тому +3

      Bro be spitting non pc facts all day 😂

    • @junelee5975
      @junelee5975 Рік тому +2

      stop assuming.

    • @sigma8995
      @sigma8995 Рік тому +5

      @@junelee5975 Learn to contribute in a meaningful conversation.

    • @MrJeeves007
      @MrJeeves007 9 місяців тому +3

      What personality would you say she was? She states she's introverted, an investigator, likes people who can talk about weird things, and she's never had a boyfriend. She doesn't demo high levels of EQ with the turtle neck comment, letting the world know "she's seeeing an old school friend" when she's never had a bf before.
      I would say she's not a million miles away from a INT..just a female version. Unfortunately they clashed as neither of them displayed amazing people/conversation/emotional skills.

  • @carolmurphy7572
    @carolmurphy7572 Рік тому +4

    Painfully awkward, start to finish! Cringe!😖

  • @kylewilliams5761
    @kylewilliams5761 Рік тому +1

    That's some Swagger.!!!

  • @sanaaakhtar
    @sanaaakhtar 6 місяців тому

    50/50 on the first date bill?!

  • @reneshay889
    @reneshay889 Рік тому +1

    No need for the woman to make some of the comments she did.

  • @masimmomasimmo
    @masimmomasimmo 7 місяців тому +1

    She’s drinking to compensate

  • @NewYorkerPEACE
    @NewYorkerPEACE Рік тому +6

    there's someone for adam but she'll have to be as nerdy and particular.

  • @cathybelk-cb3ei
    @cathybelk-cb3ei 11 місяців тому +1

    Some of the have such high expectations and thier not anything to write home about
    Loosen up a bit and fly a bit yourself before you get a pilots license
    They have admitted their dating calendar is 0. Yes the number 0 !! The vampire is way out there. He thinks he s arrived
    And she will definitely put him in his place 💥🔥⚡💥🔥⚡💥🔥⚡💥🔥⚡💥🔥⚡

  • @psychonaut2173
    @psychonaut2173 11 місяців тому

    NGL the turtleneck what was up with that?, bro she had like 3 glasses of wine cuz dude was being so weird

  • @NoFreeHand
    @NoFreeHand 11 місяців тому +1

    Mr Bean 2.0

  • @cathybelk-cb3ei
    @cathybelk-cb3ei 11 місяців тому

    Liz s greeter 💥🔥⚡

  • @zedka5462
    @zedka5462 7 місяців тому

    il est vraiment stressant

  • @kateanderson8551
    @kateanderson8551 8 місяців тому

    Why are all of the nz ones so so weird??

  • @liznicolas272
    @liznicolas272 Рік тому +1

    6:55 pretty sure he needs to remain single..

  • @deso224
    @deso224 3 місяці тому

    As a man I said:He should be alone with attitude like this

  • @gillowens24
    @gillowens24 Рік тому +2

    Who does not like fruit on a date

    • @cityhawk
      @cityhawk Рік тому

      I'm not high on it, but it isn't a dealbreaker.

  • @ZMl1lMZ
    @ZMl1lMZ Місяць тому

    That little girl is valid and not worth a dinner.

  • @lydiatressler2248
    @lydiatressler2248 6 місяців тому

    You been watching too many movies dude

  • @Kellz82-p7p
    @Kellz82-p7p 5 місяців тому

    My goodness he is painful

  • @darlenewinch6006
    @darlenewinch6006 5 місяців тому

    He was quirky and interesting. She was a bit judgemental and a bore.

  • @MrJeeves007
    @MrJeeves007 9 місяців тому

    "What offends you? Wearing turtle necks on a first date!". He then takes it off for the final interview.
    "I'm Type 5, the investigator, I really like guys who can talk about weird stuff" But only up to a point it seems.

  • @damo2157
    @damo2157 11 місяців тому

    Poor fella needs to chill out

  • @ubs16
    @ubs16 8 місяців тому +2

    What a tool. He sure loves the sound of his own voice

  • @NSWSES1990
    @NSWSES1990 11 місяців тому

    I thought she was nice and cute.

  • @MrAgmoore
    @MrAgmoore 2 дні тому

    she has vampire teeth

  • @shainadahya1175
    @shainadahya1175 5 місяців тому

    can you go on first dates but not be on TV

  • @HannahWade199
    @HannahWade199 10 місяців тому

    lmao

  • @John_in_Oakland
    @John_in_Oakland Рік тому

    Too bad....I think they would be a great fit but they're both too shy.

  • @frankgrimes2679
    @frankgrimes2679 8 місяців тому

    Where do they find these losers?

  • @MamawithAtude-ib4em
    @MamawithAtude-ib4em Рік тому

    Why, men, are you continuing to wear turtlenecks?

  • @Robin-op8op
    @Robin-op8op 4 місяці тому

    This guy is super creepy 😮

  • @LilKay9
    @LilKay9 3 місяці тому

    This guy is a meme

  • @awestruck9075
    @awestruck9075 Рік тому

    Definitely not a vampire, but something sucked

  • @user-nu2vg5lw3o
    @user-nu2vg5lw3o 7 місяців тому

    I'd rather watch paint dry

  • @HS-hi6wc
    @HS-hi6wc Рік тому

    Is this guy desi?

  • @calvinyuen01
    @calvinyuen01 Рік тому

    It’s as bad as the Ireland one! 🙄🙄🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @vintagesupermarkets5210
      @vintagesupermarkets5210 Рік тому +1

      The Irish version is wayyyyy better. There have been some really good connections and lovely people on the Irish show.

  • @avo6198
    @avo6198 Рік тому

    This girl is not cerebral like him

  • @colaboytje
    @colaboytje 11 місяців тому

    She was so lovely.
    He seems so egocentric. Dunning Kruger effect?

  • @davidbridgman9884
    @davidbridgman9884 10 місяців тому

    Weird dude