Being Bisexual
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- Опубліковано 29 чер 2024
- Making this video was very fun and very cathartic to make tbh. I appreciate all your guys' support. Thanks for watching and happy Pride month (there is an hour left of it as I type rn lmaoo)
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➜Background Tracks:
Chris Haugen - Sunshine Samba
E's Jammy Jams - Nighttime Stroll
➜Outro Song: Ryan McCaffrey - Last to Know
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Editing - Davinci Resolve 18.6
Audio Recording - Audacity
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#pride #bi #queer #uni - Фільми й анімація
Thanks for being there my friend. As a younger gay man in the 70's I was HORRIBLY misinformed about bisexuality. That was a time when bisexuals were horribly lambasted from both sides. Gays would say, "Oh he is just lying to himself. He's actually gay and he just needs to accept it and move on!". (God, so embarrassing now!) With time, more exposure and societal change we are finally beginning to get the fluidity of human sexuality. For many years now I have had a friend (single when I met him) who has been a fun sexual partner from time to time as well as just a damn good friend. He is married now in Florida to a wonderful woman who is also bisexual. They have 3 great kids and she knows about our friendship. I live in Missouri so actually getting together is no longer possible but we still tend to flirt a lot on line and by phone. The nice thing is, I finally COMPLETELY get it and it seems so completely normal. Keep up the educating people!
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LOL ... yea, we get your lunatic ramblings ... see a doctor soon and find out what is below your waist ....
@@ville__ bend over touch your toes and il show you where the monster goes
@@ville__ Bend over, touch your toes and ill show you where the monster goes
Bisexual here too so rare to see others bisexual men here on youtube🎉
I came out in 1972, when you could be put in a mental institution, just for saying that you’re gay. I’ve been through so much,so that people could love whoever they wanted. I am one of many who stepped out. I met the man of my dreams and lived a wonderful life with him until, I lost him to a heart attack. I had 18 years of magic. I’m happy to see you to be who you are, to the world, and not end up in jail.
Thank you sm for sharing, and I'm sorry that you had to go through so much back them, I can't even imagine. I'm hoping that you find someone magical again🙏🙏
Disgusting.
Spider-Man is so canonically bisexual. The chaotic energy SAYS. IT. ALL.
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I came out as a gay man at 18 in 1982. May your journey be easier than mine was.
you are so funny and your editing style only adds to that. keep it up!
Love it. I'm happy to see more guys repping the bi community. Subscribed.
1:43 I love this sweater!! You give off such golden retriever, Nick Nelson energy and I love it!! He’s bi too! I got this randomly in my recommendations and I’m so glad I did! This video was so lovely and informative :) keep up the great work! Never stop feeling PRIDE!
Omg that's so nice! Being called Nick Nelson is an honor when irl my anxious ass is a Charlie, but thank you lol🙏
What a terrific trip of self-discovery, Riley, and by sharing your journey you're helping others to be more introspective, and maybe also find new parts of themselves that are lying dormant, waiting to be unearthed....like diamonds. Please keep talking to us, and leave the script up a little longer for us slow readers. Warm HUGS (John, Toronto)
Riley, the nice thing about being bi is if you call a girl to see if she wants to hook up and she says that she's busy and can't, you can ask if her brother is doing anything. haha
Ive known I was bi (mostly attracted to men) since I was around 7 or so. Back then, I had no idea what these feelings were though since I grew up in a small christian household.
I didnt find out what gay/lesbian was until I was 9 or 10. I was at the lunch table and one of my friends mentioned "gay" one of the other kids didnt know, so she explained it to us.
Glad you're so confident about coming out though. Im 27 and still dont have the courage to come out to most of my friends.
Rambling is much appreciated. You’re awesome 👏🏽
This is amazing! You talk so in depth about gay stereotypes and queer exposure and as a gay teen in a small town myself I’m so glad you brought that up. No one way to be queer!!
Thank you! I'm really glad u connected, it was always an experience I never felt like I was hearing enough about
Oh boy, you are NOT kidding about that denial business. I was deep in the closet, when I came out. I was just sitting there, telling myself, "I'm attracted to women but men too. I'm Bisexual. And I always have been." And the cognitive dissonance I experienced was just wild! The logic was there. And all the social BS I'd heard and piled on myself for DECADES, just shifted. And I was able to just walk out from under it. I was literally amazed.
Right?!?! The recovery process and learning to understand and accept myself after all those years is still taking time, but it's been really nice to get over it the past few years. I'm really glad u could connect to the video🙏🙏🙏🙏
@rileyhere228 I really did. Thanx for sharing.
@@rileyhere228If you are truly into women, you are a fool for being out about it. You will learn the hard way with women dumping you or not even giving you the time of day. Good luck with that. Fool.
Honest with yourself and love yourself for who you are no matter what. Do what is best for you. Take care and thanks for posting this to help others who are coming out. ❤
Spiderman poster creeping behind the bi flag ...the symbolism 😂
Haha didn't even think of that
Let’s get you a care package: Clear Phone Case, Denim Jacket, Lemon Bars, and Colourful Shirts.
It’s always nice to meet Queer Compatriots on the Internet 🌈
Whenever someone says "you don't act gay" what they really mean is you aren't feminine which is irrelevant because being masculine or feminine has nothing to do with sexuality some people are very basic it's ok 😅
Lol I know, I think it's funny to joke about. I'd love to live in a world where masculine and feminine traits are completely separate from someone's orientation or gender
I came out as non-binary in 2021. I remember there was one non-binary kid in my school, and I remember people thinking they were weird, and even adults in my life asking me to find out what bathroom they used (???) I'm glad that I can be out and I feel comfortable in my identity, but I was definitely not in a supportive environment growing up lol. Im glad you feel comfortable to talk about this :)
You're absolutely right that sexual confusion goes beyond orientation and into the finer details of the experience.
I'm gay and I've had my awakening at 12 (watching Power Rangers, of all things), and it took me a good five years to really digest that information. I was worried about whether or not I fit into the stereotype, or if I even should, or how I would go about finding other guys that were also into guys and how that dynamic would even work.
The weirdest part was that a moment of clarity came to me from a dream I randomly had, where I caught two very masculine-looking guys really going at it with each other in my house. I asked what they were doing and they told me they were just having fun with each other. That answer made me understand that a lot of the gay experience was just being into guys, while everything else was just up to personal taste and that I didn't need to fit what people understood to be a gay man at the time.
After all that, I came out at 17 and have met queer guys of all sorts since then
I hope when you wake up in the morning and look in the mirror, you see a reflection of an angel. Such a wonderful person you are. Never give up. Yes, I am old enough to be your dad, and I was where you were many years ago. You are awesome.
First time seeing your content. Very good. I'm subscribing so that I can find out more about your upcoming book and to hear what you have to say.
Thank you!!🙏 I'll def be talking about my book more once I make more progress
I'm bi and I knew it at 11 when I had a boyfriend and a girlfriend in different towns. I didn't know what unfaithfulness was. But at that time I had never heard the word or term bi if it existed back then. Sometime ago I began with a new female doctor and as soon as she heard my sexual orientation was bi she wanted to do an AIDS test. Well I did and of course it came back negative. One of the things about bi men is that straight women think you're promiscuous and second you gotta have AIDS. So watchout for that pal if dating a straight woman.
Proud of you riley💚
Thanks Chloe 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Riley, Welcome to the bi team, sir! Hope you meet like-minded people and allies along the way. I'm also very proud of you as well.
10:48 If you want inspiration, there’s One Topic, Courtney-Jai, Jammidodger (Jamie) and Shaaba.
And notdefining
@@matthewchlebda3181 Yes, of course! Silly of me to forget that
thats literally a lesbian who pressures and manipulates other vulnerable lesbians into getting surgeries to pretend theyre really straight men trapped in a lesbian body lol JammieDodger is evil.
Well done baby bi ❤❤ middle aged female bisexual here, came out in the 90's as bi, then was pressured by the queer community to 'pick a side' so after a while trying g to be straight, I came out again as lesbian, even though it never really fit. I was told that, as I am now married to a woman, I'm a lesbian by default, and saying I'm bisexual is a mute point. It frustrates the heck outta me!. The last couple of prides I ha r been openly repping the bi flag, and have come into my bi identity more, but it's taken a long time. Go at your own pace.
I've only been subscribed for a few weeks now, but as another queer person I'm super glad you made this :))) its always great to hear about people's different experiences even within the community and I definitely agree, we need more bi men representation! I feel like bisexual people are always represented through women even though obviously anyone can be bi and I think queerness in general should be more normalised amongst cis men. But great video :)
Thank you so much!! I totally agree about more male representation, and I'm glad you could connect to the video 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Stop calling people cis it's highly annoying
@@pragmaticcat7619 You're highly annoying bam roasted
No such thing as queer in cis men.
There was a time when , if a person came out as bisexual people would say he or she is just sitting on the fence, they are unsure of which way to fall.
Honestly, great to see people like you online showing they're proud to be who they are. As a bi trans guy myself I would be lost if people didn't share their stories online, ofc I understand it's tough but you just gotta keep going 💜
9:14 Good luck with the novel!
This gave me "I'm the only gay in the village" vibes. LOL
Poor old Daffyd Thomas...
Another Bacardi and coke please Myfanwy
3:00 Oh she’s fierce! She was in ‘How To Build A Better Boy’ and btw fun fact, it had Noah Centineo in it.
(BasicGorl has a great edit on it)
i love ur editing sm😭
Thank you!! I take wayyy too long to do it sometimes so I'm glad it's appreciated 😭
Congratulations on coming out (at least publicly)!! 🙌
Thank you!!
Proud of you Bro. Just always be you. Love ya man
Thank you man🙏🙏
5:02 I was comp-het for a year (still haunted by it) and my goodness the casual queerphobia in the 2010s NEEDS TO BE STUDIED
This king is Bi. My respect 💪❤️
Wow, really well done video and you are so well spoken! I subscribed. Btw, nice sweater too.
This video was so well worded and thought out I loved it sm!
Thank you sm!!
I accept myself as bi, and I take this to the grave. Female partners must NEVER know.
Welcome to club 83. You should get bismuth jewelry or a picture of the periodic symbol of bismuth. You are not bi if you don't.🎉
OH WOW! that is interesting. I have some connections so i knew this already
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I want you bench boy
Congratulations! Jump in, the water's fine! Glad to have you in the fam! 🩷💜💙
i just came across your channel and love it! immediately subscribed
This was amazing and captivating my guy! Keep up the good work💯
Thanks for posting your life’s journey up to now. I’m a way older gay man. Came out at 22 yrs old. I don’t have many bisexual friends so it’s refreshing to listen to your thoughts and feelings on what you have experienced so far after coming out as bi.
I don’t often discover very many videos like yours online. Keep posting your thoughts and experiences as you figure more of life out.
You’re very well spoken and easy to understand.
Happy Pride! 🏳️🌈
Thank you sm! I haven't met any older queer people in my real life, so I'm glad that my video connected with you. Happy pride to u as well🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts, Riley! I am in one of the oldest and racial-ethnically mixed in 532 years of American history family lines, also decidedly resolved in the concept of being reincarnated. So then, I've referred (before libraries were regulated for their cultural or metaphysical content on human sexuality,) to literature. Thus, responding when challenged with questions by reading texts of wise teachers of Hindu literature, and speaking both English, Norsk, Spanish and French, my answer to teenaged buddies in the 1970s was a medically very conservative, ethically very morally cautious kind of bisexuality. But then, there was the Kinsey Report, and "The Naked Ape" and other popular texts that also published openly many questions to consider. My allergies react faster than normal and this made me by nature more careful than most male peers about physical intimacy that might include sperm contact, and almost never did most other males actually believe my aversion was molecular biology but thought it was a mental thing usually called a "clean thing" with me. But then, I did not get any STDs and by 1980, it was significant how my precautions had protected me from the sudden issue hitting the progressive community as AIDS. Because all along constantly Gays told me to grow up and stop being in "denial" quoting Freud from his 1910 book, and the Straights would quote their Bibles written by their Lord in plain English. So eventually I wrote (Dreams of Allon, 1987) my own science fiction novel series, and developed what I branded as "The Allon Consciousness Hypothesis" asking "What if a people advance in space exploration adapting to travel taking thousands of years, and living that long they have many emotional relationships, many loves and mutual understandings eventually just learning to accept in a more broad general way, how humanity emotionally has the feelings and spiritual exploration that it has? What would that "sexuality" eventually become?" So that became a mode in my science fiction series. The Allon who live tens of thousands of years probably would be classified as mildly bisexual in their way of thinking." It has never been a populist brand of science fiction, and it is only mildly liked among critics in the "GLBTQ+" community who write reviews, and never have the "Straights" cut me any slack at all in my business, career or life. But my graduate thesis was based on the biology of behavior, and my method was the use of Large Learning Model computer analytics and AI study in Information Theory, where I have now a few new technology patents. I hope anyone publishing their essay to include being bisexual will practice very safe behaviors in expressing that lifestyle, as conception of children must not include risk of birth with AIDS. But other than that, the main fact is to this day sociologically, there is no truce between the sides in the sexuality civil war politically, and being bisexual means you have no idea if someone else is an ally or not. If it was actually psychology as an issue, then there would not be 80 percent more bisexuals in Europe than are in the USA. It is a political thing here, but it does not seem to get better any time soon. So be careful and take care with a strong resolve to nurture yourself, being exactly who you are. We're a little like the Johnny Cash song on the 1950s radio I heard as a kid. He sang, "You gotta walk that lonesome valley. You gotta walk it by yourself. Ain't nobody else gonna walk it for you. You gotta walk it for yourself..."
You captured the essence of being bi in my experience so well! Are we the same person? Lmao love you man, you made me feel very validated. I wish I had bi guy friends in real life too.
I know I already made a comment on this video like an hour ago, but I just wanted to come back and say I watched some of your older content and it was awesome!! I’m really proud of you for being so open and transparent with your thoughts :) it takes a lot of effort and courage to let the internet know your inner thoughts and I’m just so happy that you were willing to share them! You’re honestly someone I could see regularly tuning into so I subscribed!! Do you have a typical upload schedule, or just when it hits you to film and upload? If it takes you a while, no worries! Great and aesthetic content takes its time! 😊
Thanks!! I don't really have a schedule, as making videos alongside and job and soon uni on top of everything is tough, but hopefully I can get at least a video a month out at this point
Great video! I'm also bi and have identified as bi for 17 years (I'm in my late 20s)! I'm also panromantic (This means having romantic/emotional attractions to people regardless of gender. I love the cross-orientation model. I still feel like I have preferences in genders, which is why I am still bisexual. I care more about the person/personality than gender. Honestly, I'm looking for anyone nice, kind, spiritual, and a good heart, good looks may be a plus but it's not a deal breaker, keeping options open, and I love the open-endedness bi and pan people have) and a demiboy (between male and non-binary, I use he/him and they/them pronouns). As a bi guy, it makes me happy to see more open and proud bi/pan (and those with other bi+ identities such as omni and polysexuals, I see you) men out there, we exist!!
Enjoy life as a bi guy, while it may be difficult, there's a lot of parts that are damn awesome! Standing in solidarity with a bi bro!! Virtual hi-5 for your bravery coming out online, proud of you cuz!
Thank u!!! Bi men and nonbinaries online need to RISE UP💪💪💪💪
Definitely gay here! Yes to Tom Holland. 🔥🔥 He’s been my crush since Spider-Man Homecoming.
RAAAAHHHH #1 RILEY FAN RAAAAAAAHHH🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸
You're a very brave person many others would be inspired by you even I do and I am gay.
Thanks for the heart and likes 👍. #LGBT #prideforever
Congratulations to you! You are awesome, funny, smart, great personality, and of course handsome. So glad you are at least part gay (lol) welcome to the community!! Glad to have found your channel asa new subscriber. These days, while lots of gays are flamboyant which is great, I know more straight guys that act gay than gays that act gay. There’s no mold just be yourself
Omg thank you🤭🤭🤭 and very true, trying to work on escaping any molds I've been put into🫡
@@rileyhere228 I’m sure it can’t be easy coming from a small city or living in a small city but it’s awesome to see how far you’ve come recently. You seem too special to fit someone’s mold and deserve better.
Idk if you’ve mentioned it in your previous videos, but please tell me you’ve seen or read ‘Heartstopper’.
I've never read it, but I def watched the show. I really enjoyed it, even if it's for an audience a bit younger
@@rileyhere228 The show is fun!
You do you!! you're great!
Thank you!!🙏🙏🙏
Idk if I’m bi or straight. like I can’t decide on either one.
Yeah totally get it, I'm still struggle with what label I am exactly sometimes
Totally fine if you don't know, take as much time as you need for self discovery!
It is a fascinating fact that Riley is even a unisex name. Male people, female people and intersex people can be named Riley. This also applies to the names Sydney, Taylor, Casey, Hazel, Robin, Devin, Hunter, Skipper, Sasha, Arya, Mika, Luca, Cameron Marian and Huschke. In the computer game The Last of us 1.5 also called The Last of us Left Behind there is an Afro American girl with the name Riley appearing. This character Riley enters into a love relationship with the main character Ellie in this game. It is adorable indeed. And it is a wonderful game.
I love The Last of Us! And my parents actually named me Riley because the doctors weren't sure what sex I was when I was going to be born... maybe that explains a lot lol
@@rileyhere228 You said that the doctors were not sure what sex you were when you were going to be born. Now I have a very important question to you. And hopefully I am allowed to ask this question. Are you intersexual? I ask this because it is interesting. Only one of five thousand children is intersexual. And these children have to be protected from interphobia. All intersexual children have a right to be intersexual and must keep intersexual. Genital operations at intersexual children must be forbidden. If these genital operations are really allowed then we have an interphobic society. And genital operations hurt intersexual children deep in their souls for a complete lifetime. And genital operations at intersexual children are mutilations. Therefore genital operations should never be allowed but definitely prohibited. Intersexual children are created exactly the way god and the nature want them to be. Intersexual children must keep exactly the way they are. I say all this because Germany was interphobic a few years ago. But now this kind of interphobia is shoven out of Germany. If you are intersexual please tell me! Because I really am interested. Hopefully I am really allowed to ask that question. I myself am an intensive fighter for the rights of intersexual and homosexual people. I also visit Christopher street days very often and I am talking to many politicians with the purpose to improve the life situation of homosexual and intersexual people. I am a true emancipatorical activist. I myself do also belong to a special minority but it is no minority of sexual category but instead of neurophysiological and mental category. I have Aspergers syndrom. This is a special kind of autism. And I am proud to have it. Autism is something you are born with, exactly as the homosexual orientation or the intersexual biological sex. I am really happy about the fact that we are a society of diversity. And exactly this society of diversity must be maintained.
One Puff from a cigarette can make you gay! - Christian Moms
As somebody who's gay and also a counselor I think it's an ideal career choice. However I don't know where you are on your educational Journey but if you haven't started graduate school yet might I recommend getting a masters in social work instead of counseling. You learn the same skill set but you have much greater opportunities for jobs I have a bachelor's degree in Child and Adolescent development and I have a masters in clinical mental health counseling I don't regret my educational choices but if I had to do it over again I would have gotten a bachelor's and Masters in social work instead. Number one you'll get out of school faster because if you have a bachelor's in social work you have what's called Advanced standing in the Masters program meaning that you will be that much further ahead when you start graduate school that you actually get to skip the first two semesters I think because you already have acquired that knowledge through your bachelor program just my unsolicited piece of advice. You're adorable by the way
Thank u! I've definitely looked into Social Work before, but I decided more on Psychology bcus of how much I enjoy the science aspect of it. I'm sure it's more practical for going into counselling, but I'm already a year into psych so I'm just going to stick with it for the time being. Cool hearing a comment from a gay counsellor tho!!!
@@rileyhere228 that is a valid point. You don't get as much of the science in social work. Psychological science is fascinating. In fact that's how I fell into Child and Adolescent development because at the time I fell into a job at a community center working with middle schoolers so I wanted to learn more about the science of how kids develop I had no idea what I was going to do with a degree at the time but learning developmental science in neuroscience what kind of Awesome.
@@rileyhere228 Psychological science is fascinating. You have a valid point. That's how I sort of fell into Child and Adolescent development as a major. At the time, I was an adult leader in a youth group and I worked at a community center with teenagers. I had no idea what I wanted to do in the field but I particularly enjoyed the developmental psychology and Neuroscience courses. From my understanding, Social Work gives you a little more practical application but doesn't go into the science as much so I completely get where you're coming from.
Small Alberta towns do have gay people... and bisexuals too. Yay Alberta!
Excellent video Riley and subbed, Jack from The Netherlands 💯🤟
(0:05 Can't help it but wow 😘)
Just be you who cares what anyone thinks of you.Alway's be yourself never change.God Bless you always 🙏.Take Care Best Paul from Chicago.
Hum,, i seen a study where bi sexual’s men once they tell women that their bi sexual women tent to not want intimacy with them because they believe they’ve been with men and they would have all kinds of STDs if not including aids so most bisexual men find out that they’re dating force or either or they have to pick men or women I’m talking to a man right now, who has a fiancéand wants me to cheat with him and keep it secret. I’d like to say this is the only time it’s come up, but it seems to be coming up a lot more and gay men are now becoming dirty little secrets more often than not.
I don’t know where I am right now to be honest. I thought I was trans all my life and I came out as gay at 11 then as trans at 13 and I just don’t what to do, like…. And it’s so crazy when it comes to going out with my friends and it’s restrictive for me 😢😂
If you’re reading this, I hope you have an amazing day and amazing life. God bless you Jesus loves you and I hope one day you have a peaceful life! I don’t know who’s reading this, but you’re Beautiful! :D❤❤
What a surprise...
Aren't the "percentages" always adjustable? Much like the beads of an abacus, no?
Maybe with the right mindset they are...
I actually thought I was fully gay until I realized that I also liked women when I was about 15ish. My first was a gal.... had to know for sure and yep, was not repulsed. So, I decided that since I also liked women that I would keep the liking guys part a little secret. Then, I met this cowboy type guy when I was in my early 20s. Not normally my type but he had a major thing for me and that was HOT to me so I played straight around everyone else rode around with him in his big ole truck, went back to his place eventually and... yep liked that too.
Then there was the military... I just kinda went back and forth. Played officially straight but that wasn't fooling many people and I didn't really care; it was more so that other guys wouldn't get paranoid and think I was going to out them... also, I had girlfriends so nobody could really be suspected for hanging out with me too much, ya know.
So then I met a guy I couldn't really walk away from and thats that. Three years now. So idk if that makes me gay or still bi but he the only one now.
Thank you for your video.
It’s the FRIST time seen any of your videos…¿?
-Anyway I think of sexuality like a personal taste,
of ice cream…
-sometimes all you want is chocolate!! but then you get to try strawberry!!
Both are great!!
And maybe even vanilla it’s good at times..
As a society, we have to pick what we want to be so we are recognized in the world so everyone is comfortable. Ultimately, we need to be what we want to be for ourselves whatever that is
so in conclusion enjoy all the flavors don’t limit your self 🍨🍦🍧🍡
your great!
Thank u! You too!
You have great hair.
62-year-old poly pan enby here. Welcome to freedom!
i like cheese
do you like cheese
... and has great taste in clothing... nice tshirt in the first part of the vid 😉
i support you
A very cute boi
You need to watch the owl house
Already have💅💅
Aawwww I am happy keep being yourself fact’s ❤👌👍🙌👏 sorry misspelled
Hugs ^_^ nice shirt. the levis jeans are nice cause your butt looks real good in them :D
Hey I’m also bi
So you can date both me and my twin sister.
What a Shock😅
i love your vedio it was great
You can thank GLAAD for the repetitive caricature(s) in movies and tv for the longest time, they're rumored to have a representative in every writers' room, and dictate to the writers how lgbt people can and cannot be portrayed on screen. I grew up mostly in the '90s, and in a small town as well, and we had it even worse. Jack McFarland single-handedly scared me back into the closet for several more years. Took the longest for me to realize it's ok to be me.
Yeah. It's really unfortunate how limited, even to this day, queer representation in media is. Fortunately, with newer shows I've found myself connecting with better written queer characters, but those can still be few and far between. I've also noticed how much of TV and media sells the idea that the solution to accepting yourself as queer is getting into a queer relationship... and in my experience that is not a good solution at ALL
Your age?
I think he’s a minor not sure tho
Hello👋 I just subscribed to your channel today, I also just gave you a like now.👍👌
Welcome to the lgbtq community❤🏳️🌈. I'm subscribing ❤.
Thank you!!
You are so cute :)
A cute boi
When I was a kid in the 80s/teenager in the 90s, people still thought being bisexual was imaginary. We've come a long way in that respect. As a middle-aged bisexual man myself, all I can say is that you should live as you please and make yourself happy. You're very fortunate to be able to do things at a "normal" age. I'm on the young side of Gen X, so I have personal memories of some of the horror of the height of the AIDS crisis, even though I was a kid. Yes, we're still going through some tough things now and we have to keep fighting. Never forget that you're living in an age in which you can do anything and have the person you love most in all the world, or more if you're polyamorous, with you for life if you choose. People like us my age and older never thought we'd live long enough to see a day when marriage equality would happen. AIDS took so many of my generation and I'm so glad yours won't have to go through that. Live and be happy and try to send a little good energy and appreciation for those who came before but couldn't make it. You seem like a nice young man, so I have a feeling you'll make quite an effort in life and do all of us older men proud.
Thank you so much. I'm very grateful to live in this time too, and I can't even imagine how tough it must've been back then. I'm gonna keep working and hoping that things get better for queer people of any age🙏
@@rileyhere228 I don't know if you are a movie person, but if you'd like to see a realistic, though dramatic fiction, snapshot of back then, try to find "Longtime Companion" and, with a bit of humor, "Love! Valour! Compassion!". Some of us think these 2 movies should be required viewing for all LGBTQ+ people, especially gay and bisexual men. If you can find them and you enjoy them, I can suggest more if you want.
Thank you for this video! I’m gay but I feel there’s a lot of people who are bisexual.
Yeah, and we're never telling you or anyone else.
Ur cute
Metoo
This made me understand my feeling more and why I am gay.. thank you
Your Bisexual....I'm Sam. Labelling is SOOO last Decade. So are Pronouns. Good for you, but SOOOO NOT BOTHERED👍
I Am Bisexual when I was young I was scared to come out now I am happy to be the person I truly am 💜💗💙🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
Boyfriend material ❤😊 hugs from Brazil
Aw thanks🤭
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Hey! Congrats! I'm Bi too!
Damn! I HATE it that I'm not as young as you are anymore!! :D Seriously, you go guy! Be who you are!
I personally think you do come across more gay than straight in the way you talk, mannerisms and stuff so hope you find that a compliment. I'm sure when you're around hyper masculine straight men it can become ever more pronounced..I know I'm generalising and it's not always the case and gay men can sometimes appear straight and vice versa, but I find overall most of the time if someone seems a gay they usually are and if a man seems straight he more often than not is. Bisexual men can be more tricky, but even that has become a bit more easier to spot as more have come out and you start recognising some characteristics that a lot of them share. I think some basic personality and gender traits sometimes give it away, especially in expressiveness. I'd say you are on the more feminine side of bisexual leaning more gay.
I'd like to add that a lot of people who say they are straight aren't pretending. I think that's you projecting a bit your own confusion and bisexuality. I've learnt a bit from watching other bisexual people channels talking about their sexuality that bisexuality can be very confusing at times and not always so cut and dry as to say I'm attracted to both women and men at all times equally. There's straight people who know they are straight and only attracted to the opposite sex, as there is gay people who know they're gay and only attracted to the same sex. I can assure you of this because I'm monosexual(straight) and have never been confused about my sexuality or had any romantic or sexual attraction or desire for the same sex. Sometimes I wish I did because I get on far better with my own sex lol. I have a pretty strong identity and sense of self in general and I know who I am and what I like on at least a basic level, which I'm grateful for as I know a lot of people can struggle in these areas.