How are you doing, really?

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  • @Thorayaa
    @Thorayaa  5 років тому +8782

    How are you all doing, really?

  • @jwwtc5144
    @jwwtc5144 5 років тому +19824

    It's crazy how people talk about their sadness with a smile.

    • @ana-in1ws
      @ana-in1ws 5 років тому +2045

      Because the smile keeps you from crying

    • @entertainmentprime101
      @entertainmentprime101 5 років тому +202

      @@ana-in1ws exactly

    • @marliesvdlangemheen
      @marliesvdlangemheen 5 років тому +617

      It's a way of not having to feel the depth of your pain. We learn this through situations in which we are hurt and lost our trust. It also ain't usual to talk about your true feelings, people sometimes don't know how to even do this, laughing then makes us feel more comfortable.

    • @entertainmentprime101
      @entertainmentprime101 5 років тому +38

      @@marliesvdlangemheen exactly it is for comfort

    • @calicochronicler6922
      @calicochronicler6922 5 років тому +27

      Bc they're on camera

  • @orfeassiozos1575
    @orfeassiozos1575 5 років тому +13610

    The dude who said
    "It's kinda hard to choose which "you" you want to pursue" 😭

    • @Reakted
      @Reakted 5 років тому +45

      Orfeas Siozos Mr. Nobody whatch that movie

    • @rashadmuhammad1991
      @rashadmuhammad1991 5 років тому +44

      Me in a nut shell 😶😔

    • @anamariapintilie6432
      @anamariapintilie6432 5 років тому +175

      My soul felt that

    • @scatters
      @scatters 5 років тому +36

      i felt that

    • @lavans06
      @lavans06 5 років тому +60

      Was at a cross roads - choosing between Science me, Computer me, Business me...laid off in science, recently graduated from Computers lol ... I hope this me is good enough for the cosmos

  • @noahboygl5
    @noahboygl5 5 років тому +4996

    They’re smiling because they didn’t want to cry.

    • @dogwalk3
      @dogwalk3 5 років тому +46

      Its Noah_04 "if you're not laughing, you're crying," is something i've found myself telling myself & others more & more often these days.

    • @sleverlight
      @sleverlight 5 років тому +44

      For me I smile becasuse I don't want people to feel sad

    • @mypandawilleatyou38
      @mypandawilleatyou38 5 років тому +10

      A smile isn’t always a mask

    • @LarrySernas
      @LarrySernas 5 років тому +1

      shiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiittt

    • @sleverlight
      @sleverlight 5 років тому +4

      @@mypandawilleatyou38 true if you're with the people you love

  • @ThomasMom
    @ThomasMom 4 роки тому +1509

    ''I like being alive but I am confused.'' -me everyday for the last 31 years

    • @st.michaelthearchangel7774
      @st.michaelthearchangel7774 4 роки тому +9

      Sorry to hear that!
      Some words of encouragement, I hope: Jesus is the Way, the Truth, and the Life. He is objective truth, and once we have Him and learn about His church, life begins to make so much sense. :)

    • @bioskopandchampagne
      @bioskopandchampagne 4 роки тому +2

      same...

    • @snarkasticsquid2435
      @snarkasticsquid2435 3 роки тому +2

      Edit: last 58 years

    • @snarkasticsquid2435
      @snarkasticsquid2435 3 роки тому +6

      @@st.michaelthearchangel7774 OMIFUCKINGJESUSHCHRIST I am SO fucking sick of these religious Jesus is the way comments. Jesus is a figment of someone’s imagination. Get that through your head & stop offering it up as the save all for everything. It’s a load of bullshit.

    • @bru2298
      @bru2298 3 роки тому +2

      @@snarkasticsquid2435 They just said their beliefs chill tfo.

  • @isaacholmes1530
    @isaacholmes1530 4 роки тому +5956

    I would tell a stranger how I am doing much more willingly than I would tell my family or my therapist

    • @NicKy-eh8uv
      @NicKy-eh8uv 4 роки тому +50

      So how are you doing?

    • @GuilhermeSilva-qg1jr
      @GuilhermeSilva-qg1jr 4 роки тому +220

      Wow I feel the same....idk why but its so hard for me to open up to people that are close to me....I feel vulnerable and kinda bad too....but at the same time....I feel lonely for never sharing what is really going on

    • @alicemornie2303
      @alicemornie2303 4 роки тому +22

      @@GuilhermeSilva-qg1jr How are you doing, really?

    • @gremlin_child043
      @gremlin_child043 4 роки тому +7

      Sameeeee

    • @kinewish4017
      @kinewish4017 4 роки тому +12

      Why would you tell a stranger more willingly than your therapist? The question is not meant judgemental, I really want to understand better.

  • @nehamehra30
    @nehamehra30 5 років тому +5540

    The most simple question with the most difficult answer

    • @tawneeens436
      @tawneeens436 5 років тому +3

      N M haha right?

    • @marinaemi9029
      @marinaemi9029 5 років тому +56

      True. It requires lots of self-knowledge. Which is hard, especially when you’re not used to spending time with yourself and really taking care of yourself.

    • @Emma-dl2ei
      @Emma-dl2ei 5 років тому +6

      It’s like asking what’s your favorite [ ]

    • @eliasbhatti6340
      @eliasbhatti6340 5 років тому +1

      N M for real tho

    • @ashh0496
      @ashh0496 5 років тому +10

      Actually quite a complicated question, but we throw it around all the time like it's not. How am I doing?! When one feels and experiences so many different things at once it's hard to even answer that honestly for myself at any given moment.

  • @ajaxkun
    @ajaxkun 5 років тому +13582

    If someone ask me this, I would probably cry.

    • @AnimationBoss1
      @AnimationBoss1 5 років тому +57

      AJAX because tottenham?

    • @ajaxkun
      @ajaxkun 5 років тому +20

      @@AnimationBoss1 ahahahaha would be funny if it were the case 😂😂😂😂

    • @s.m6336
      @s.m6336 5 років тому +37

      just smile and the sadness is gonna fade away and do what u love

    • @youssebulle9012
      @youssebulle9012 5 років тому +28

      I love u

    • @AA-bk1jr
      @AA-bk1jr 5 років тому +26

      Same. My life sucks now

  • @addysonmcintosh5074
    @addysonmcintosh5074 4 роки тому +1370

    A lot of times its easier to talk to a stranger.......

    • @lalalalacanthearyou
      @lalalalacanthearyou 4 роки тому +27

      Very true, I can't share my mental illness problems with my family but sometimes UA-cam comments and people on UA-cam give me hope to keep living and not take my own life.

    • @fabridee
      @fabridee 4 роки тому +5

      yes you are so right

    • @st.michaelthearchangel7774
      @st.michaelthearchangel7774 4 роки тому +5

      Yeah. From my experience it’s because we probably won’t ever see the person again, so just unloading our heart to them with that in mind can be easier. It’s not like we will go home and see them again, and are around them every day, so momentarily telling them things doesn’t feel as much of a threat.
      Something like that.

    • @kencramer2232
      @kencramer2232 4 роки тому +6

      I know for a fact it’s easier to talk to a stranger. providing they’re normal I’d suggest they’d be more objective about my story because they don’t know me & therefore more considerate than judgemental family

    • @0rchid71
      @0rchid71 3 роки тому +1

      i would tell ppl i’m close to about my anxiety, and how i just feel stressed all the time but i’m afraid they’d be mad i didn’t tell them before, and that’d just make me feel even more stressed. i know it probably wouldn’t happen but i can’t convince myself otherwise when i try to talk to ppl irl abt it

  • @leidenswerkzeug
    @leidenswerkzeug 5 років тому +4219

    Isnt it crazy that 90% of the people are not doing fine?!

    • @prismathefur7736
      @prismathefur7736 5 років тому +112

      Not really most ppl struggle threw life such as myself and a lot of ppl try to hide there struggles and seem fine

    • @OuroborosInstitute
      @OuroborosInstitute 5 років тому +64

      That’s why I love her content so much, I’m trying to make similar, but i feel the more we talk about stuff like this and normalize it, the happier of a world we will live in!

    • @saradeen3984
      @saradeen3984 5 років тому

      @@prismathefur7736 don't worry is life everything will end and get solved just take it easy.

    • @QueenCVlogs-ch6bj
      @QueenCVlogs-ch6bj 5 років тому +9

      It's actually not, tbh it's sad

    • @OuroborosInstitute
      @OuroborosInstitute 5 років тому +16

      Queen C. Vlogs but that’s exactly why we need more of this content, because the more it gets talked about the more we can heal as a society!

  • @gloriasainhas7739
    @gloriasainhas7739 4 роки тому +3376

    "I just want to go home, lay down on the floor and scream"
    That actually sounds good

    • @Filthy.Rat.bonezz
      @Filthy.Rat.bonezz 4 роки тому +28

      I’ve done that sometimes it works sometimes I still feel like shit

    • @gloriasainhas7739
      @gloriasainhas7739 4 роки тому +13

      I hope that in the days that doesn't work you can find a way to feel better ✨

    • @alextarot
      @alextarot 4 роки тому +8

      All my neighbours know I did it numerous times.

    • @gloriasainhas7739
      @gloriasainhas7739 4 роки тому +3

      @@alextarot does it work?

    • @alextarot
      @alextarot 4 роки тому +3

      @@gloriasainhas7739 no it doesn't.

  • @Mimi-vg7cy
    @Mimi-vg7cy 5 років тому +3352

    You can see this sadness and pain in some faces :\

    • @tsetsenbatbadamdorj3537
      @tsetsenbatbadamdorj3537 5 років тому +36

      it's unfortunate that most people don't see it until it's brought to their attention.

    • @siriolsen7805
      @siriolsen7805 5 років тому +2

      If you are struggling with mental health please look into Any Cutlers work, and start by reading the success stories and then the article by Rebecca Rust Lee on the Weston Price website. This underlying issue is much more common than what you would think.

    • @yarnoboskkkk
      @yarnoboskkkk 5 років тому

      True, that really hurts

    • @cyndih8680
      @cyndih8680 4 роки тому

      Mini mimi kindred vibes

  • @salmawaleed3390
    @salmawaleed3390 4 роки тому +1011

    “ i told my dad how i was feeling and then he just said let’s go for a walk and then we just talked about it” this is so heartwarming, being a supportive parent it really costs nothing.

    • @forpurposes3168
      @forpurposes3168 3 роки тому +2

      @Caitilin Reitmeyer I wish I grow up with my parents either. They have their own family now... And they're happy...

    • @arlaxazure486
      @arlaxazure486 3 роки тому +4

      So... I understand where you're going with this point. But, like... Being supportive costs nothing. Being a *parent* is like one of the most expensive endeavors you can ever go through.

    • @daniellamcgee4251
      @daniellamcgee4251 3 роки тому

      @Caitilin Reitmeyer There are plenty of people who are happy to give support to others. Few people get the support they want and need from their parents. It only takes one supportive person who makes a difference. But throughout life you can find many along the way. Some are temporary, and some are for a lifetime. Reach out with openess and honesty to people with similar experiences to you. Particularly those who are further along a path you want to go on. It might not be obvious to others that you need or want support. What kinds of support would you like to have? It useful to know what you are looking for. You wrote this comment, and I responded, and I am just one! 💜

    • @daniellamcgee4251
      @daniellamcgee4251 3 роки тому

      @Caitilin Reitmeyer Yes! :) 💜

    • @shilparamanaryan3652
      @shilparamanaryan3652 3 роки тому +2

      You're really lucky, really.. Many of us , me don't have that.. They just don't believe us ..

  • @getsetdraw4445
    @getsetdraw4445 5 років тому +2719

    There was a particular comment "if i die who is going to look after my birds" I think that is a beautiful way to think. There is never an inadequate reason to be alive.

    • @kerplunk2100
      @kerplunk2100 5 років тому +56

      I'm only living because my dog would miss me

    • @rainbowmoonstone7349
      @rainbowmoonstone7349 5 років тому +29

      Same, I would change my mind about not living because I don't trust my family to take care of my fish.

    • @spacecat4364
      @spacecat4364 5 років тому +11

      😂 my reason to live is because my brother has horrible depression and is bipolar so I feel like that would be selfish of me to just make him worse 😂 that and my mom would probably be really sad

    • @mmysam420
      @mmysam420 5 років тому +6

      Suha Nasir I love you for saying this we need more people like you.

    • @rainbowmoonstone7349
      @rainbowmoonstone7349 5 років тому +5

      @@mmysam420 Thanks, my mom always just wants to put him (my fish) in a small bowl as decoration but I saved him from being a table centerpiece at a baby shower in the first place

  • @itsabla
    @itsabla 5 років тому +1676

    "whos gonna take care of my birds and draw my drawings.. I have to do that"

    • @ProMrLecoq01
      @ProMrLecoq01 5 років тому +60

      I felt so proud of her for saying all that and I hope she’s doing so much better these days!

    • @jessica16Lpurple
      @jessica16Lpurple 5 років тому +31

      I absolutely loved her answer!!! And I loved that she had enough courage to reach out to her dad and be like you know what I’m not okay and the words and effort he poured into her by taking her on a walk mattered to her and stuck with her and to me that says volumes about how we need to speak up when we’re not okay and also stop whatever we are doing and pour into someone when they’re hurting. We have become so isolated it is causing a major decline in our mental health.

    • @tomcline5631
      @tomcline5631 4 роки тому +1

      I really got that answer!! It ain't much but nobody else can do it!!!!! I loved hearing about her father helping out!!!!

  • @rosssandeman6883
    @rosssandeman6883 5 років тому +2339

    "I'm really happy, cus I met someone who feels like home." Damn

    • @mothomotswana7776
      @mothomotswana7776 4 роки тому +43

      Ross Sandeman I wish to say that someday.. I have lost all hope and trust in people. I feel soo numb but i miss that feeling of fully trusting someone and making them a part of my life.. 😭

    • @virginianpeddler8911
      @virginianpeddler8911 4 роки тому +7

      I’ve had I think two people like that, but because I move so much and family issues on both sides, we just got out of touch. It’s the best feeling in the world.

    • @dwilson6125
      @dwilson6125 4 роки тому

      How bout it ..

    • @ComradeDt
      @ComradeDt 4 роки тому +1

      Ross Sandeman same

    • @yellowkaze
      @yellowkaze 4 роки тому +2

      So envious

  • @user-vv4ni3me5u
    @user-vv4ni3me5u 3 роки тому +663

    "I met somebody, who makes me feel like home" I hope some day i'll able to experience that feeling

  • @kamarassakka9922
    @kamarassakka9922 5 років тому +2585

    Lesson from this, get a reason to live, even if it's your birds

    • @jstDiki7
      @jstDiki7 5 років тому +19

      I've got many reasons..."I speak for the trees"

    • @azeylacalaty3182
      @azeylacalaty3182 5 років тому +18

      Okay, from this day on I will live for the chocolate bar across my room. What if I end up eating it, though?

    • @MedievalWaffle365
      @MedievalWaffle365 5 років тому +12

      @@azeylacalaty3182 If you eat it, theres gonna have to be someone there to buy another one 👌

    • @azeylacalaty3182
      @azeylacalaty3182 5 років тому +4

      @@MedievalWaffle365 Haha, that's actually smart but what if there's no one to buy you one?

    • @honeyspice4014
      @honeyspice4014 5 років тому +1

      kamara ssakka mine is my dog

  • @lightsoff9008
    @lightsoff9008 5 років тому +3450

    I need this. I’m tiered of answering “good” when someone asks how am I.

    • @crusaderofthelowlands3750
      @crusaderofthelowlands3750 5 років тому +46

      It's just small talk. They don't really care, so please don't start telling them your life story.

    • @davidparkinson6372
      @davidparkinson6372 5 років тому +5

      They don't ask how I am nobody does

    • @hobiisajellyfishcuzhegotno2783
      @hobiisajellyfishcuzhegotno2783 5 років тому +8

      @@crusaderofthelowlands3750 fuck off

    • @crusaderofthelowlands3750
      @crusaderofthelowlands3750 5 років тому +23

      @skye You're missing the point.
      Your close friends or family members will NEVER ask how you're doing unless they haven't seen you for a long time or when they themselves are noticing something is off.
      Strangers and acquaintances ask this question out of politeness every time they see you.

    • @crusaderofthelowlands3750
      @crusaderofthelowlands3750 5 років тому +9

      @@hobiisajellyfishcuzhegotno2783 It's the truth, so go cry me a river.

  • @johanmaisonneuve9936
    @johanmaisonneuve9936 5 років тому +1473

    I wanna help the first girl so bad...

    • @siriolsen7805
      @siriolsen7805 5 років тому +12

      If you are struggling with mental health please look into Any Cutlers work, and start by reading the success stories and then the article by Rebecca Rust Lee on the Weston Price website. This underlying issue is much more common than what you would think.

    • @ronanroowyz2790
      @ronanroowyz2790 5 років тому +13

      I wanna help her too.

    • @lastchance1101
      @lastchance1101 5 років тому +4

      siri olseon thank you

    • @emilywells7415
      @emilywells7415 5 років тому +3

      I couldn't tell if she had depression?

    • @catalinacarvajal5614
      @catalinacarvajal5614 5 років тому +1

      so heartbreaking

  • @itskore158
    @itskore158 4 роки тому +478

    If people asked teenagers this question more often and listened to them instead of scolding them, teenage suicide rates would fall so much.

  • @esmeeheiliegers4404
    @esmeeheiliegers4404 5 років тому +1702

    “Everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about. Be kind, always.”

    • @nnatowers7574
      @nnatowers7574 5 років тому +18

      Noora

    • @bugeye8749
      @bugeye8749 5 років тому +3

      Welcome to Life. I don’t have to be kind nor do I expect others to be. That’s not the real fkng world

    • @BJALGH
      @BJALGH 5 років тому +1

      True

    • @emmagold8849
      @emmagold8849 5 років тому +6

      Skam ❤️

    • @DavidMunoz-pb9iu
      @DavidMunoz-pb9iu 5 років тому +12

      Bug Eye nor do you have to completely neglect the idea. A little positive thinking is mutual both to the person thinking and to the person it is about

  • @kamigon2865
    @kamigon2865 5 років тому +2579

    Honestly "I'm fine" is the most common lie ever. How often have I asked my friends knowing there's more beneath the surface, only to be told that they're fine. Sometimes I wish I could heal people's deep wounds.

    • @bhaktichaudhary1797
      @bhaktichaudhary1797 5 років тому +32

      Kamigon That is very beautiful that you wish you could help people heal. I am sure your friends are very blessed to have you.

    • @Benzyl_Penoxide
      @Benzyl_Penoxide 5 років тому +15

      As an Aquarius I say that “I’m fine” a lot because of how emotionally reserved I am

    • @korina482
      @korina482 5 років тому +10

      Kamigon, you're a wonderful creature. People around you are the luckiest. Lotsa love💖

    • @sefan1317
      @sefan1317 5 років тому +21

      I feel this so much. I only want to help people but everybody is fake with their emotions because people always try to break them down.

    • @wiwi183
      @wiwi183 5 років тому

      Tumblr 101

  • @emilykinney8125
    @emilykinney8125 5 років тому +4873

    "I met someone who feels like home."
    "what does home feel like?"
    "safe"
    i had chills. everything i've ever dreamed of feeling. so happy for her.

    • @saradeen3984
      @saradeen3984 5 років тому +10

      Beautiful💯

    • @ivoryandgold88
      @ivoryandgold88 5 років тому +52

      She's right, it took me finding the right person to realize home is not a place, it has a heartbeat.

    • @Dankman9
      @Dankman9 5 років тому +26

      I met someone and it felt like that, we were together for 3 and half years and then she cheated on me and tossed me away like trash, I haven't even seen her since I found out she cheated. It's been months and I still cry every day.

    • @maiiouma
      @maiiouma 5 років тому +7

      My favorite answer. It brought tears to my eyes..

    • @marie8191
      @marie8191 5 років тому +2

      @@ivoryandgold88 I just literally quoted you! That is soooo true. You just made my day!

  • @anmoltewari2007
    @anmoltewari2007 3 роки тому +365

    That little kid waking up feeling nice and good. Hit differently man.

    • @adamantium4797
      @adamantium4797 3 роки тому +4

      Yea...

    • @rosek7114
      @rosek7114 2 роки тому +3

      This is what struck me too. That childlike innocence and carelessness. It's sad how much we lose of that with time.

    • @laine033
      @laine033 Рік тому +1

      All I want is to wake up feeling nice I miss the feeling of being a kid

  • @BlvkColossus
    @BlvkColossus 4 роки тому +4241

    Can you do another “How are you doing, really?” Again? That should be a weekly or monthly video. People really need to be asked that more often

  • @rosaliebarvik1960
    @rosaliebarvik1960 5 років тому +2637

    "We saw some baby ducks that are now grown, ya know like they're getting on with life so I guess I should be able to get on.''
    Bless his heart😭

    • @simplechicful
      @simplechicful 5 років тому +56

      Rosalie Barvik That part made me cry. No matter the complexities of life we all draw back to the simple things and that's beautiful

    • @jmacsss
      @jmacsss 5 років тому +10

      I'm glad I wasn't the only one that was taken back by what he said. I couldn't figure out why but I teared up.

    • @confidence9516
      @confidence9516 5 років тому +4

      @@jmacsss you're never the only one

    • @brebytheway
      @brebytheway 5 років тому +3

      that was such a perfect moment

    • @alexandraibrahim9338
      @alexandraibrahim9338 5 років тому +7

      I love what he said, it should be a quote or something. He's so smart

  • @roxannestine4619
    @roxannestine4619 5 років тому +2833

    3:12 i loved the childs answer.a childs innocence is such a beautiful thing. He woke up feeling nice. So precious

    • @evicaf4e
      @evicaf4e 5 років тому +60

      Right? I love that and then you grow up and the society show real face or you see it different and the child innocense is taken from us. But we have to stay positive and keep/hold on to inner child.

    • @KrissyMeow
      @KrissyMeow 5 років тому +29

      It's crazy thinking and remembering a time when I just woke up without a care or worry in the world.
      Makes me super appreciate having a pretty good and normal childhood.

    • @Egguwugy
      @Egguwugy 5 років тому +4

      It’s good to see kids that are just...kids.
      And I have to agree, so pure. ♥️

    • @ellieboon7708
      @ellieboon7708 5 років тому +3

      I know right..It made me smile to see a kid happy tbh ...so real and pure I loved it..

    • @LeopardGoddess
      @LeopardGoddess 5 років тому +1

      Wish i was still a kid

  • @bellahadidnt.
    @bellahadidnt. 4 роки тому +235

    "a lot of days i just wanna go home, lay on the floor and scream :)"
    *i feel you.*

  • @noprogress5268
    @noprogress5268 5 років тому +703

    When that girl said, "if I die who's gonna take care of my birds?" I lost it.

  • @dzim8822
    @dzim8822 5 років тому +1926

    It's interesting how the kid in this video talks about how he feels on that day and time; shows how children live more in the moment.

    • @KayKayBayForever
      @KayKayBayForever 5 років тому +26

      Yo Lo Yes! Good point. Didn’t even realize that till I read your comment.

    • @teodoralovin5797
      @teodoralovin5797 5 років тому +18

      I wish I could not have to worry about the next five years too :(

    • @raydaveed
      @raydaveed 5 років тому +14

      Yeah but they are kids, no jobs, no things to take care of or worry about. So...

    • @tahera1320
      @tahera1320 5 років тому

      @@raydaveed it depends what age group you consider kids.

    • @raydaveed
      @raydaveed 5 років тому +1

      @@tahera1320 Below 14 yo for me they are kids. After that teenagers etc...

  • @lemonlime8363
    @lemonlime8363 5 років тому +850

    It’s amazing how so many of these people all say “I’m good” until they’re really asked how they’re doing.
    *We’re all struggling.*

    • @AyubuKK
      @AyubuKK 5 років тому

      Oh Hi ikr

    • @yourgirlsarah1868
      @yourgirlsarah1868 5 років тому +1

      Oh Hi true and it’s honestly sad

    • @sven1780
      @sven1780 5 років тому

      That’s so true, we are all struggling.

    • @DVZM.
      @DVZM. 5 років тому +1

      Not everyone is struggling.

    • @yourgirlsarah1868
      @yourgirlsarah1868 5 років тому

      DVSM yes , everyone is struggling , you would be lying is you say not so.

  • @whoanacreatesnails
    @whoanacreatesnails 4 роки тому +606

    If it wasn’t for Thoraya filming people extremely up close like that, we wouldn’t know how beautiful humanity really is. ❤️

  • @cl4za
    @cl4za 5 років тому +1511

    “I met somebody that feels like home”
    I feel that. I know that feeling.

    • @Mzmissy215
      @Mzmissy215 5 років тому +10

      Same, sucks when things don't work out w that person, like u feel lost again

    • @bugeye8749
      @bugeye8749 5 років тому +4

      Never lasts lol. Pathetic how desperate weak humans are 🤮

    • @MidnightSonnet
      @MidnightSonnet 5 років тому +6

      @@bugeye8749 I'm sorry you've been hurt so badly

    • @maneskinnnnn7190
      @maneskinnnnn7190 5 років тому +8

      @@MidnightSonnet never place your happiness in someone elses hands..because if you are happy only because of someone else that is not real happiness, and when they leave they will take your happiness with them.

    • @soIveii
      @soIveii 5 років тому +2

      I hope i'm gonna know that feeling too, one day

  • @enzometo15
    @enzometo15 5 років тому +2834

    Older people:
    The new generation has it so easy!!
    This generation:
    Depressed,socially anxious,anorexic,anxious in general,empty,numb,fake smiles,etc.
    Edit:
    How the flippin' waffles did I get so many likes for something unoriginal?!?!?!
    (My way of saying thanks!)
    Edit 2:
    Okay,now I'm starting to think UA-cam is drunk.

    • @nasaspacerock3398
      @nasaspacerock3398 5 років тому +73

      In all honesty, I haven't met many older people who say that. People from both generations have their own issues that they're dealing with.

    • @enzometo15
      @enzometo15 5 років тому +4

      @@nasaspacerock3398 I agree but I posted it cuz I'm unoriginal.

    • @nasaspacerock3398
      @nasaspacerock3398 5 років тому +19

      @@enzometo15 points for honesty lmao

    • @enzometo15
      @enzometo15 5 років тому +2

      @@nasaspacerock3398 Thanks!lulz.

    • @shadowpuppet222
      @shadowpuppet222 5 років тому +27

      “it’s those damn pesky iphones isn’t it” debra for the love of fuck my phone is the only source of happiness for me

  • @sophiabee8089
    @sophiabee8089 5 років тому +1739

    "I'm kinda feeling numb.. like I'm not getting better or getting worse"
    dang I feel that 😔❤

    • @prismathefur7736
      @prismathefur7736 5 років тому +9

      Want to talk about it? :)

    • @JustJ-Me
      @JustJ-Me 5 років тому +11

      That's where I've been for a while and like the girl said, it's not a good feeling at all.

    • @Dankman9
      @Dankman9 5 років тому +8

      Ya it's weird, I've been in extreme emotional pain and distress for months and I feel like I'm becoming numb, although I still cry everyday. It seems like improvement in some ways but it sure doesn't feel like it feels better.

    • @mifp2498
      @mifp2498 5 років тому

      Dankman9 why have u been in emotional Laib

    • @Dankman9
      @Dankman9 5 років тому +3

      @@mifp2498 Long story short, my (ex)GF was cheating on me. Once I found out she just tossed me away like trash and never came home. Been struggling hard, I thought we were gonna spend our lives together, I had boughten her ring and everything. :(

  • @khoado123
    @khoado123 4 роки тому +688

    if someone smiles while talking about their stress, depression and sadness, watch out for them. Not when they look sad while talking about it.

    • @Maatbeuker
      @Maatbeuker 4 роки тому +2

      Yeah

    • @voxidity4679
      @voxidity4679 4 роки тому +23

      underrated comment

    • @TataMataAkrobata
      @TataMataAkrobata 4 роки тому +28

      Watch out for them in what sense? Watch out for them as in be aware that they may be in a terrible place emotionally/mentally or as in watch out they don't smack.you with a hammer when you turn around?

    • @Maatbeuker
      @Maatbeuker 4 роки тому +8

      @@TataMataAkrobata Most people won't smack you

    • @voxidity4679
      @voxidity4679 4 роки тому +57

      @@TataMataAkrobata watch out for them as, they are probably in a terrible place emotionally/mentally. Speaking from experience!

  • @sophievega4637
    @sophievega4637 5 років тому +1045

    the guy talking about baby ducks is so pure. also, that happy kid saying they woke up feeling good is amazing to hear.

    • @ComedyGlor
      @ComedyGlor Рік тому +1

      i really felt what he was saying. It's overwhelming tryna pick which "me" to be

  • @salmahabassi4727
    @salmahabassi4727 5 років тому +232

    "i just wanna go home, lay on my floor and scream. that is how i'm doing" that hit me so hard..

    • @DS-uo1zy
      @DS-uo1zy 5 років тому +8

      I don't wanna scream though. Im not angry at anything just tired and empty inside

    • @entertainmentprime101
      @entertainmentprime101 5 років тому +3

      Thats soo me

  • @notbothered2104
    @notbothered2104 5 років тому +1442

    WoW mental health needs to be taken so much more serious. Its a real big issue these days😢

    • @artofmghow6419
      @artofmghow6419 5 років тому +7

      Very good comment.

    • @OuroborosInstitute
      @OuroborosInstitute 5 років тому +20

      Not Bothered it’s been such a big issue forever, but I’m sooooo glad that creators like her are bringing to the forefront, it really makes me so happy. When we can bring it to light and talk about it, healing can begin. ☺️

    • @summerdawn6777
      @summerdawn6777 5 років тому +2

      It's not a mental issue. It's lack of Light in the world

    • @lojfiojo4725
      @lojfiojo4725 5 років тому +4

      Ouroboros Institute i don’t think it’s ALWAYS been such a big issue , I think since Today we’re alreay so technologically advanced and we’re so DISCONNECTED from nature we lose a sense of purpose AND this leads to confusion and depression. Its a common problem nowadays especially in first world countries.

    • @joycenesselhauf1220
      @joycenesselhauf1220 5 років тому +1

      Not Bothered If people would get outside of their own little neurotic bubble and off of effn Snapchat and Facebook and Twitter and stop subjecting themselves to criticism and hatred, many would be a lot happier. Everyone is into instant gratification and everything is supposed to come to you without working for it. Blows my mind.

  • @leoniebucher9158
    @leoniebucher9158 4 роки тому +169

    "I like to be alive" that made me tear up cause I want to really feel that again

    • @maellecrp
      @maellecrp 3 роки тому +3

      yes

    • @rebeccajodhiwilliams182
      @rebeccajodhiwilliams182 2 роки тому

      I feel yoy

    • @j.lsaket140
      @j.lsaket140 2 роки тому +2

      you will feel it someday. Just live your real life.

    • @winterblake3321
      @winterblake3321 Рік тому +3

      I dont know if you'll read this, but please keep going. I was in that situation too, not so long ago. i almost had no hope, but i just.. kept going. i dont know why but i did. its all about the small little changes. try to make yourself feel better each day, dont rush it and dont take overwhelming big steps. maybe try to take a shower again, a short walk outside. if thats too much for first, its okay. then try opening the curtains just a bit more. try brushing your teeth. but just keep going. because i promise you i promise you, there is light in the end of the tunnel.

  • @slaaaph
    @slaaaph 5 років тому +2478

    6:33 "I like being alive but I'm confused"
    Oh girl, this one hit me HARD. Great video, as always.

  • @blackiana
    @blackiana 5 років тому +1566

    Video hasn’t even started, but just reading the title made me cry

  • @JPJP-js1lg
    @JPJP-js1lg 4 роки тому +785

    I miss that feeling of just being a kid 3:11

    • @forgetit8852
      @forgetit8852 4 роки тому +29

      We all have to return to this state of being a children for whom a good thing was just waking up after a good sleep

    • @NipapornP
      @NipapornP 4 роки тому +7

      @@forgetit8852 *a child
      Honestly, I always wake up after a good sleep. Otherwise I would be dead or in coma.

    • @zooo7581
      @zooo7581 4 роки тому +2

      Sad...but true😐

    • @RmX.
      @RmX. 4 роки тому +4

      an innocent and carefree life

    • @knotsocialmusic
      @knotsocialmusic 3 роки тому +1

      @@NipapornP A kid*

  • @rltonin
    @rltonin 5 років тому +938

    "I'm scared that I have to work from 9 am to 5 pm for the rest of my life and not do anything I want... I want to figure out how to set myself long term to be happy" Damn... This is tough and might be (probably), the main root cause of depression nowadays.

    • @hibye-by3yb
      @hibye-by3yb 4 роки тому +30

      this hits super hard for me, because seeing my parents and people these days it just seems like at my age (early 20s) noone really knows where they're going or what they should do to be happy. I'm graduating in a couple weeks and i'm terrified thinking about where to go and what to do.

    • @350zay2
      @350zay2 4 роки тому +11

      @@hibye-by3yb it's okay not to know where you are going because it takes work experience and a time to self reflect to discover who you are. Be humble, talk to different people, get out of your comfort zone and when you are stressed out take a moment to find peace.

    • @hibye-by3yb
      @hibye-by3yb 4 роки тому +6

      @@350zay2 that's very reassuring, my classmates from highschool all seem stuck. We're all not able to move on except for the few who have their life together which makes us super anxious. Guess we all need to take a step back and go at our own pace because this is our first life. Thanks older person, I was in a mood rn, but you made it better

    • @erikandersson1972
      @erikandersson1972 4 роки тому +7

      I had these feeling when in university and in my early career. I think something that people could benefit from realizing is that working 9 to 5 isn't going to stop you from living a purposeful life. For me it's almost the opposite. Having a stable work situation enabled me to do MUCH more with the time outside of my "9 to 5".

    • @jahmathes221
      @jahmathes221 4 роки тому +2

      I work 8pm to 11am on a baitfish boat pulling nets lol dont be too sad

  • @monkeyangelow2816
    @monkeyangelow2816 5 років тому +355

    «We saw some baby ducks that grew all up and if they’re gettin on with life I guess I should to»

  • @slu66y
    @slu66y 5 років тому +647

    hello to the people reading this, i really hope you are doing great, you deserve it.

    • @lolasart3408
      @lolasart3408 5 років тому +4

      Thanks, you too

    • @kw6724
      @kw6724 5 років тому +3

      Thank you so much...I hope you’re doing amazing and continue to grow & live out your dreams! You, too, deserves it ❤️

    • @LifeatFreyas
      @LifeatFreyas 5 років тому +3

      Thank you 💜 you too

    • @harley4841
      @harley4841 5 років тому +3

      Thank you, same for you girl! ❤️❤️

    • @bi-lociraptor6044
      @bi-lociraptor6044 5 років тому +2

      Thank you, I needed this. I hope you are doing great too, you deserve it as well!

  • @Lilacleaf49065
    @Lilacleaf49065 4 роки тому +88

    Reason for us to be more tolerant of other people: underneath the clothes and styles we portray we are all sad, scared, worried.

  • @mimiraiinboow
    @mimiraiinboow 5 років тому +1870

    if i was asked that question in person, i would probably bawl my eyes out...

  • @hirth5246
    @hirth5246 5 років тому +1264

    Am I the only one who has mastered a fake smile but when I get 'home' it goes away? 🙃

    • @cherrylane6751
      @cherrylane6751 4 роки тому +2

      Yep that's me. Xx

    • @casparbosch5615
      @casparbosch5615 4 роки тому +12

      I just put it on when I get "home"

    • @tsharlye2924
      @tsharlye2924 4 роки тому +7

      Same here... doing it every single day, stay strog tho' everything passes

    • @sarahismail6850
      @sarahismail6850 4 роки тому +2

      You're not alone.

    • @Michael65429
      @Michael65429 4 роки тому +8

      I know what you mean. My life feels like the line in that old song, "The tears of a clown when there's no one around". I put on a happy face to show the world but I'm dieing inside and don't want to show the pain.

  • @WildMonkey023596
    @WildMonkey023596 5 років тому +1102

    i wouldve bursted into tears the second i was asked this question, oh my

  • @Sarah-fv3kb
    @Sarah-fv3kb 4 роки тому +182

    “The world just feels so big right now... There’s so many ‘me’s that could be spread out at this point... and it’s kind of hard to choose which one i want to pursue.” YES, what a good articulation of how I feel so often, especially as I’m going into my last year of highschool...

    • @sean-mo9gf
      @sean-mo9gf 3 роки тому +2

      Yeah me too I really need to decide where I wanna go and what I wanna do

  • @luvrscooby
    @luvrscooby 5 років тому +1724

    *me:* watching memes and laughing
    *youtube:* i'm gonna have to stop you right there

  • @marren573
    @marren573 5 років тому +935

    "Good"
    "I am having a nice day and I woke up feeling nice."
    "Good."
    The way this precious child said those words.
    Awww, I wish I could shield her from every thing terrible the world has to offer until she is a mentally and emotional stable adult.

    • @ahmedbenhariz8694
      @ahmedbenhariz8694 5 років тому +12

      How the fuck dare you assume that child's gender you racist facist sexist bigot.

    • @rwinkler4321
      @rwinkler4321 5 років тому +29

      Well I guess you can't be an emotionally stable adult without being exposed to the world though right? :)

    • @biexyz3928
      @biexyz3928 5 років тому +18

      Ahmed Benhariz calm down, it's not a big deal

    • @siriolsen7805
      @siriolsen7805 5 років тому +2

      If you are struggling with mental health please look into Any Cutlers work, and start by reading the success stories and then the article by Rebecca Rust Lee on the Weston Price website. This underlying issue is much more common than what you would think.

    • @ezrawolicki6526
      @ezrawolicki6526 5 років тому +27

      Pretty sure it was a boy...

  • @xOnlymeMonax
    @xOnlymeMonax 5 років тому +428

    „There are so many alternative me‘s that could spread out from this point“ dude that hit me🤯

  • @mbPhase23
    @mbPhase23 3 роки тому +35

    To admit pain. To admit you re feeling weak, lost or lonely is to admit you're human. We're not alone.

  • @helena8534
    @helena8534 5 років тому +893

    Great for people’s mental health. You’re making a better world.

  • @hannahstark506
    @hannahstark506 5 років тому +476

    With work and school stress I just wanna go home and lay on the floor and scream that is so relatable.

  • @cassidyrae585
    @cassidyrae585 5 років тому +629

    The "how are you doing, really?" should be a series - I can't get enough of hearing what everybody has to say to this question.

    • @artofmghow6419
      @artofmghow6419 5 років тому +2

      I agree, Cassidy. This makes me feel more welcome in the human world.

    • @albertofiorentini6594
      @albertofiorentini6594 5 років тому

      Same

    • @EridanP
      @EridanP 5 років тому

      There's a podcast with guests basically based on this question.

    • @albertofiorentini6594
      @albertofiorentini6594 5 років тому +1

      @@EridanP drop the name sis

    • @EridanP
      @EridanP 5 років тому +2

      @@albertofiorentini6594 It's called Terrible Thanks For Asking (ttfa) There's even an episode called "How are you?"

  • @broken_orbit7535
    @broken_orbit7535 4 роки тому +164

    "how are you doing, really?"
    completely horrible.. I feel so numb, empty, heartbroken and all the worst things you could possibly think of. But I'll just say I'm fine...as always :)

    • @sadherring
      @sadherring 4 роки тому +12

      Better days will come. Keep pushing forward even if it seems impossible. It'll be worth it.

    • @jenocidejoy9988
      @jenocidejoy9988 4 роки тому +5

      *internet hug*
      Don't worry :)
      Everyone's struggling right now, I'm struggling, but we'll get through it :)
      I hope you will get better soon

    • @KushQueen9
      @KushQueen9 4 роки тому +4

      Feelings come and go and those feelings you describe will pass. I remind myself of this truth when I don't feel too good. Sending you love and light. ❤️

    • @broken_orbit7535
      @broken_orbit7535 4 роки тому +4

      thanks guys💗

    • @prasiddhibadkelwar6286
      @prasiddhibadkelwar6286 4 роки тому +2

      @@broken_orbit7535 have faith
      We all are connected in either way dear
      You are loved
      You are beautiful
      You are complete

  • @nottodaytay5858
    @nottodaytay5858 5 років тому +485

    This was very eye-opening at how much everyone else is suffering too cuz sometimes it feels like you’re alone.

    • @richardlau2447
      @richardlau2447 Місяць тому

      I don’t know. There’s some people with great healthy attitudes and executing their found purpose in life and are happy. That is not me.

  • @YOLOpeace97
    @YOLOpeace97 5 років тому +736

    This video made me feel okay about not being okay sometimes.

    • @OuroborosInstitute
      @OuroborosInstitute 5 років тому +3

      EastAfro it’s always okay to not feel okay, you just gotta feel it to heal it :)

    • @YOLOpeace97
      @YOLOpeace97 5 років тому +1

      Ouroboros Institute 10/10 response lol thankyou for that

    • @OuroborosInstitute
      @OuroborosInstitute 5 років тому +1

      @@YOLOpeace97 Of course! anytime, I love talking about this stuff with everyone.

    • @FaithandNova
      @FaithandNova 5 років тому +1

      @@OuroborosInstitute me too ❤️❤️

    • @barisu1838
      @barisu1838 5 років тому +1

      Yes

  • @SooBeautyFull
    @SooBeautyFull 5 років тому +1324

    if you ever interview me for this you better NOT zoom in on my face lol

    • @vanessam7159
      @vanessam7159 5 років тому +15

      Lol, same! It’s much too zoomed in

    • @Dani-tq5qf
      @Dani-tq5qf 5 років тому +12

      Or just dont appear in the vid at all lol

    • @matt_spencer_photos4102
      @matt_spencer_photos4102 5 років тому +103

      Zooming in on the face like that cuts out everything and let's you focus on the people talking and the raw emotion in their facial expressions.

    • @whatevercomewithit
      @whatevercomewithit 5 років тому

      lmaoooo

  • @unnathipai4590
    @unnathipai4590 3 роки тому +21

    the fact that all these people are strangers proves that you should always be kind for you never know what the other person is going through

  • @Sophia-qx4sc
    @Sophia-qx4sc 4 роки тому +1568

    Everyone: talking about their problems
    This guy 10:21: doing a reflection about what he ate for lunch

    • @clarenceclarence9529
      @clarenceclarence9529 4 роки тому +5

      He’s like a lower pitched Griffin McElroy

    • @jengum2803
      @jengum2803 4 роки тому +32

      iTs dInNeR TiMe

    • @tabea9691
      @tabea9691 4 роки тому +32

      Such a mood

    • @IwasBlueb4
      @IwasBlueb4 4 роки тому +24

      Hes not reflecting on what he ate, but rather sharing something that bothers him....It obviously concerns him....He may well have an stomach ulcer, or Esophogitis ...which would cause him digestive problems and also give him a gnawing sensation , in his stomach, as the acids build up ....When he eats , it will usually calm the pain and gnawing in his stomach.....but a few hours later, he will get indigestion .....So, poor guy.... He needs to take an alcaline remedy and Magnesium ...

    • @cassimauro1991
      @cassimauro1991 4 роки тому +11

      He may be in a dissociative state, or someone who has Alexithymia. He looked like he was really trying to describe emotions... but came up with the description of hunger. That's not really an answer to "how are you doing?" It is hard for some people to answer this question truthfully in general also.

  • @oliviaclement4577
    @oliviaclement4577 5 років тому +593

    You should do a video called “answer the question you want me to ask”

  • @levihan334
    @levihan334 5 років тому +342

    Thinking about anyone asking me “how are you doing, REALLY?” actually made me low key cry

  • @jenicenewberry6789
    @jenicenewberry6789 4 роки тому +223

    11:57 weird how she's the only one who asked the question back

    • @unknownhuman9766
      @unknownhuman9766 4 роки тому +13

      True. Nice observation. People need to be more kind

    • @ChewFingers
      @ChewFingers 4 роки тому +37

      You don't know that, though. It could be the only one that she kept in the video.

    • @yes7855
      @yes7855 4 роки тому +25

      well, it's an interview, it makes sense that people wouldn't think they're supposed to ask

    • @kristinabliss
      @kristinabliss 3 роки тому +13

      It was part of her difficulty answering.

  • @hyrunnisa997
    @hyrunnisa997 4 роки тому +734

    The girl who's parents asked "where are you going to go?". I'm so sorry for her. Having your parents kick you out is a rude awakening.

    • @waystonatural3214
      @waystonatural3214 4 роки тому +27

      That made me really sad

    • @honeybee9618
      @honeybee9618 4 роки тому +31

      Exactly! I just thought like how could they do this? What ever happened between families they should be there for one and other.. My relationship with my family is awful cuz they're so fuckin bad but.. They will never let me out and throw me on streets!, like mom once said that she hate me and dont want me in her house but she didnt do it for real..

    • @gamingxsmoking3007
      @gamingxsmoking3007 4 роки тому +6

      I feel like it’s just part of life if parents didn’t force us to move out we will never do it, you know? But I get you guys it’s tuff

    • @lindamp85
      @lindamp85 4 роки тому +6

      I think now, prices to rent or buy are to high... she has two jobs. Two! And they pay her so shitty. She don't know how she will live without help. On the other hand... she might make enough, she just don't want to give up the comforts in life she will not be able to afford without mom and dads support.... so tough one to jugde, so I will just give her the benefit of the doubt and say that I feel her frustration and growing up is fucking hard, even in our 20's we don't always know how to be an adult..

    • @JuullRhapsodos
      @JuullRhapsodos 4 роки тому +3

      @@lindamp85 so true, I'm 27 now and still don't feel like a proper adult bc I'm still struggling with shit from when I was young and it's been holding me back. But I'll get there at my own pace just like everyone else :)

  • @heartmindandsoul_6995
    @heartmindandsoul_6995 5 років тому +1104

    10:21 This Man is so funny. How he talked about that his stomach doesn’t agree with what he was eating but starting to be hungry again and that feels weird. 😂😂

    • @musicmuse3401
      @musicmuse3401 5 років тому +21

      Looking forward to sleeping, too! Yaasss😊😊❤

    • @siriolsen7805
      @siriolsen7805 5 років тому +2

      If you are struggling with mental health please look into Any Cutlers work, and start by reading the success stories and then the article by Rebecca Rust Lee on the Weston Price website. This underlying issue is much more common than what you would think.

    • @Victoria-gv3qh
      @Victoria-gv3qh 5 років тому +8

      Actually I feel his pain because you can have chronic illnesses and not be diagnosed yet, so he might not know yet that he has a health issue - I know exactly what he's talking about and digestion problems and pains are so awful which isn't really that funny. Just saying

    • @jackimoon8284
      @jackimoon8284 5 років тому +2

      I think he’s lactose intolerant and he doesn’t know it yet

    • @maddied1889
      @maddied1889 5 років тому +2

      Heartmindandsoul_ FR I WAS DYINGGG

  • @MultimediaStudent89
    @MultimediaStudent89 4 роки тому +757

    If someone was to ask me this question genuinely I’d burst into tears, life is so painful right now...

  • @famousmcfly80
    @famousmcfly80 3 роки тому +12

    “Sometimes you gotta give yourself credit for the things you have accomplished”. This is so spot on. She’s wise. We should all take that seriously. We can often focus on what we don’t have or what we haven’t accomplished, when we should take time to appreciate what we have and what we’ve already accomplished.

  • @sandrahttps
    @sandrahttps 5 років тому +709

    9:57 "I feel like a million dollars today"
    Loved that

    • @artofmghow6419
      @artofmghow6419 5 років тому +17

      Me too. I was able to believe him. He sounded honestly and humbly satisfied in the moment.

    • @MildlyRabid
      @MildlyRabid 5 років тому +5

      His face looked so pained tho, and he was shaking his head!

    • @artofmghow6419
      @artofmghow6419 5 років тому +12

      @@MildlyRabid Yes, you are right. But IMO, it looked like, he has a strong, deep burden, and in the midst of it, and because of it, he is humble and respects the small victories and feelings of joy.

    • @TheMajorZak
      @TheMajorZak 5 років тому +1

      I read this comment the same moment he said it

  • @angelinneamara7556
    @angelinneamara7556 5 років тому +148

    i'd definitely cry if i met a stranger and they asked me this out of the blue

  • @JSDFreak
    @JSDFreak 5 років тому +74

    we are so used to "fake" how we actually feel, that it's sad to see how long ppl need to think about how they're ACTUALLY doing.

  • @coolname447
    @coolname447 4 роки тому +33

    I swear I'd cry if I was asked this. Not the usual "how r doing?" Where I don't really get to be honest because I wouldn't want to waste anyone's time.
    These videos inspire me and help me become a much better and kinder person. Thank you

  • @emilybeagle55
    @emilybeagle55 5 років тому +432

    Definitely relate to the girl who's scared she'll work a 9-5 forever.. I feel like that's the reality for me and for a lot of people but I wish I could find something I'm passionate about and make it a career. Makes me sad

    • @Trinnajk
      @Trinnajk 5 років тому +1

      Emily Holloway dreams are meant to come true💖

    • @spyYoOnJIiN
      @spyYoOnJIiN 5 років тому

      what does working 9-5 forever means?

    • @moirad6632
      @moirad6632 5 років тому +18

      spy YoOnJI iN 한국 having a boring office job and working it your whole life, never really experiencing what life has

    • @spyYoOnJIiN
      @spyYoOnJIiN 5 років тому +1

      perosn dhdjd aah that sucks

    • @wojciechstefaniak3541
      @wojciechstefaniak3541 5 років тому +3

      I left it all behind and am in explore mode. Best decision of my life. No regrets.

  • @kamillap3405
    @kamillap3405 5 років тому +227

    It's a bit sad to hear that some people are only doing fine because they've found someone, but they wouldn't be happy if they were single.

    • @isabelleolsson3493
      @isabelleolsson3493 5 років тому +7

      Kamilla Paronai i was thinking the same thing, like peoples happiness depends on other people

    • @FaithandNova
      @FaithandNova 5 років тому +9

      And when the person disappoints them the depression kicks right back in. We have to be happy within ourselves with or without someone

    • @Sterilite101
      @Sterilite101 5 років тому +5

      We were born to have maternal needs. Its natural to want someone.

    • @422JE
      @422JE 5 років тому +4

      It really just depends on why they say they’re happy. If it’s insecurity driving them to be with someone, fine. But it’s natural for people to want relationships, we’re not meant to be alone, whether that be friends, family or significant others. And giving yourself over so someone else, caring about them, giving to them, living unselfishly for more than just yourself really does create happiness. So it’s not sad at all

    • @kamillap3405
      @kamillap3405 5 років тому +1

      @@422JE You are right! But at the same time, I really think that we are responsible for our own happiness. Finding someone who you like/love shouldn't be the main reason of feeling good in your life/in your skin. If their happiness is because of that person, they identify happiness with him/her. So if they left, they would be unhappy again.

  • @marypaulinejance2235
    @marypaulinejance2235 5 років тому +1398

    Always be kind to people you meet because you never know what they are going through. Love your work, Thoraya!

    • @ES11777
      @ES11777 5 років тому +8

      So true ❤

    • @kw6724
      @kw6724 5 років тому +4

      That’s a rule I live by ❤️

    • @boohni8492
      @boohni8492 5 років тому +2

      Mary Pauline Jance This is one of the most important character building lessons.. to any future parents please teach your children this at a young age

    • @siriolsen7805
      @siriolsen7805 5 років тому +1

      If you are struggling with mental health please look into Any Cutlers work, and start by reading the success stories and then the article by Rebecca Rust Lee on the Weston Price website. This underlying issue is much more common than what you would think.

    • @Nixie_536
      @Nixie_536 5 років тому

      💜

  • @gwenkebach
    @gwenkebach 3 роки тому +40

    I understand how the young lady who feels numb perfectly. Not getting worse, but not getting better either. These videos are the first things I watch in the mornings and they do positively affect how the rest of my day goes. It's better to cry happy tears that painful tears. Love you all. Be kind. ❤🥰

    • @soniashahi6506
      @soniashahi6506 3 роки тому

      yeah ,me too
      it's a real awaking not from dream, but from life

  • @Djuztin
    @Djuztin 5 років тому +766

    2:22 is it just me, or does he look like that one really cool friend who's nice to everyone and hates no one?

    • @siriolsen7805
      @siriolsen7805 5 років тому

      If you are struggling with mental health please look into Any Cutlers work, and start by reading the success stories and then the article by Rebecca Rust Lee on the Weston Price website. This underlying issue is much more common than what you would think.

    • @hipsterpotato2706
      @hipsterpotato2706 5 років тому +22

      @@siriolsen7805 . . .

    • @sarahitogawa
      @sarahitogawa 5 років тому +4

      yeah he really does

    • @ihjtmq
      @ihjtmq 5 років тому +2

      He really does

    • @ConradOPrice
      @ConradOPrice 5 років тому +16

      Reminds me more of the kind of guy who has a crush on his best friend. She keeps complaining about all the guys in her life and when he finally tries to make a move on her she rejects him, the friendship breaks down and she goes complaining to their other friends about how he hit on her while she was vulnerable.

  • @dontmindme.imjustafraidofe9327
    @dontmindme.imjustafraidofe9327 4 роки тому +988

    Just in case no one’s ever said this to you before, I love you. I care. I value and appreciate you. And I’m really glad you’re here.

    • @mrs.kimbutwhichone898
      @mrs.kimbutwhichone898 4 роки тому +19

      Thank you... I love and care about you too❤

    • @mikepitts8470
      @mikepitts8470 4 роки тому +10

      I love you for expressing that positive & wonderful thought! May God bless you with all the marvelous things he has in store for you!

    • @venus5697
      @venus5697 4 роки тому +2

      🦋💞

    • @britanykunzler6547
      @britanykunzler6547 4 роки тому +6

      Thank you! I love you, and Jesus loves you more than anything!

    • @ellesterling2422
      @ellesterling2422 4 роки тому +2

      Ok but your username is my life

  • @natally7011
    @natally7011 5 років тому +661

    the girl who said
    “you know what...I’m really insecure”
    MEE TOO

    • @joannalee8525
      @joannalee8525 5 років тому +6

      Giiirl, you got this!

    • @natally7011
      @natally7011 5 років тому +2

      Joana Black aw thank you😭

    • @artofmghow6419
      @artofmghow6419 5 років тому +2

      Both of you, the one in the video and you,@@natally7011, were brave for admitting. I am not sure if I am insecure. Frightened from time to time.

    • @amilya179
      @amilya179 5 років тому +2

      Me tooo im so insecure

    • @jmacsss
      @jmacsss 5 років тому +2

      I loved her honest quick response.

  • @Miasmal_Flux
    @Miasmal_Flux 4 роки тому +35

    "I'm lonley but I have really great friends"

  • @krissarobert7816
    @krissarobert7816 5 років тому +252

    I cried watching this because throughout the video I realized.. nobody ever asks me how I feel, not even myself. If I answer how I feel genuinely, I'm not doing okay. I love your work, it really opens my eyes. Thank you.

    • @noddy4899
      @noddy4899 5 років тому +3

      ķ ř î ş ş å R, how are you? 😊

    • @lou-xr5rz
      @lou-xr5rz 5 років тому +2

      @@noddy4899 ali… you're a good person :) +ķ ř î ş ş å R i know how u feel… sometimes i feel like no one really gives a damn whether i'm ok or not, and yea, i wish someone could just… genuinely care, u know?? you ((both)) deserve someone who cares and you deserve happiness. i hope both of u guys find something that makes u happy. i'm rooting for u

    • @Ekairah
      @Ekairah 5 років тому

      @@noddy4899 almost burst into tears reading your comment T-T

    • @the_bearded_maximus4601
      @the_bearded_maximus4601 5 років тому

      Hey ķ ř î ş ş å R, are you doing ok?

    • @Spring_Water_
      @Spring_Water_ 5 років тому

      Your comment made me cry. How are you today?

  • @jstergaming8411
    @jstergaming8411 5 років тому +1785

    I know 99% of people won’t see this...
    But to the 1% have an amazing day! 👍

  • @JesseeDoesEverything
    @JesseeDoesEverything 4 роки тому +349

    "It's hard to choose the you that you want to pursue." Wow I felt that

    • @YoLyrick
      @YoLyrick 3 роки тому +2

      Existential crisis moment especially asking this after 30.

    • @mothbythesea
      @mothbythesea 3 роки тому

      This was pure wisdom

  • @peightonrunkel7406
    @peightonrunkel7406 4 роки тому +48

    Honestly, I'm depressed and stressed and scared. I'm afraid of being alone and I'm fighting my own battles. Physically life is great but I don't give myself enough credit, I over think everything, stress things I shouldn't and I try to make everyone BUT myself happy. I'm insecure about my body and face and its just hard...I'm trying though...

    • @miguelroberts-vallejo7819
      @miguelroberts-vallejo7819 7 місяців тому

      just keep trucking along, life is hard and we all face struggles. but you will overcome any obstacle as long as you push on. You got this, me and 40 others can relate since we liked your comment. your voice is heard! much love and hope the best for you. we are all in this together!

  • @SimplyEyeCatching
    @SimplyEyeCatching 5 років тому +148

    "I think I'm doing better than I thought".The potential power of self-reflection. I love it.

  • @dannyjuarez1969
    @dannyjuarez1969 5 років тому +109

    "I'm mostly confused about the world I live in, they think that I'm lonely well I probably am"-Kid Cudi

  • @mariadowling5607
    @mariadowling5607 5 років тому +195

    That man talking about the pain of his lunch but how he’s really looking forward to his dinner and then can’t wait to go to sleep
    ....
    THAT
    IS
    ME

  • @anushkasingh1712
    @anushkasingh1712 4 роки тому +53

    3:40 I wish she never loses her 'home'😊

  • @user-vh8yf8qf1g
    @user-vh8yf8qf1g 5 років тому +384

    im really not doing fine. my parents are not doing good, they hate each other, and i always cry myself to sleep every night. i hope everyone is doing alright.

    • @emilpipik9252
      @emilpipik9252 5 років тому +18

      I hope you do better and I hope you know that it sucks but it's not your fault, you will live your life and you will be loved in your future. There's always somebody who cares and there's always someone to talk to, lots of chatboards and stuff online. Your tears are valid and even though they hurt you will get through this🖤🖤🖤

    • @user-vh8yf8qf1g
      @user-vh8yf8qf1g 5 років тому +1

      Èmil Pipik thank you :(

    • @-t9214
      @-t9214 5 років тому +3

      I hope things will get better for you ❤️

    • @user-vh8yf8qf1g
      @user-vh8yf8qf1g 5 років тому

      - tanos thank you so much 😭❤️

    • @gabrielakrista9096
      @gabrielakrista9096 5 років тому

      I hope things will get better for you and youll be happy one day and everything will be good, you deserve it ❤️

  • @christellaurent2025
    @christellaurent2025 5 років тому +269

    that line about the baby ducks growing is so wholesome
    my smol heart

    • @mariaglover4202
      @mariaglover4202 5 років тому +1

      Lolo I knowww😍😍❤😢 he's so precious!

  • @danaalmalik2871
    @danaalmalik2871 5 років тому +75

    2:32 ''when it's not slowing you down but its so hard to move'' for some reason that hit me hard

  • @jxx9x
    @jxx9x 3 роки тому +18

    i’m surprised a lot of people actually shared how they’re really doing

  • @emilyolson5181
    @emilyolson5181 5 років тому +494

    No matter the question, these videos make me cry every. single. time. Love the authenticity.

    • @OuroborosInstitute
      @OuroborosInstitute 5 років тому +2

      Emily Olson she really had a gift, i’m trying to do this on my own now, and it’s hard! But it’s also so fulfilling, she’s such an inspiration for me.

    • @OuroborosInstitute
      @OuroborosInstitute 5 років тому

      Has’

    • @brainfood4you
      @brainfood4you 5 років тому

      Emily Olson me too

  • @jordanruggles2005
    @jordanruggles2005 5 років тому +110

    The guy with vitiligo (I'm assuming) is so breathtakingly beautiful I'm in shock. Something about him is just so captivating

  • @andreasanchezledesma3805
    @andreasanchezledesma3805 5 років тому +92

    This totally confirms the fact that we hide everything that we go through on a daily basis like, no one cares what we are feeling , we just say “good” until they ask specifically, which is really sad

    • @marcusrosales3344
      @marcusrosales3344 4 роки тому +3

      I'm pretty sure the point of this channel is to rehumanize other humans, and this is possible because people care.
      Read the comments and see how many people were moved by strangers; people in your life will care too. Even if they aren't your friend I bet.
      We just forget other people are people in this day and age.

    • @Mio_Rin
      @Mio_Rin 4 роки тому +2

      We just say "Good..." because we don't want to bother anyone with our crap, knowing that they have their own crap to deal with...
      Misery loves company and I'd rather not give her the satisfaction of ruining more than one person's day.

  • @Borntobewild-cw7dd
    @Borntobewild-cw7dd 4 роки тому +29

    It‘s really sad to see that there is literally no one who can say 'I‘m happy‘ with everything that is going on. Everyone is suffering, in any kind of way. That is really sad to know. You go out there and you know that like everyone is suffering somehow. We should care about ourselves more.