What's the loneliest you've ever felt?
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Worst feeling : being in a group of friends, but you’re not really IN that group of friends
not all like me in that group and i know they’re stuck w/ me
This hit different
yea, i just moved to a new school and i made friends but i’m not really part of the group. it hurts.
@@starlydw I feel your pain. it feels so uncomfortable and awkward and depressing
@@seulxejn same 😶
You could also do "what do you need to hear from another person right now?"
i love u . thats what i needa hear🧚
Omg....yes!
Everything is going to be fine-that’s what I need to hear rn 🙁
Yessssss! This would be a really good one!
@@scarlethmejia4615 honey, I promise you, everything will be fine. Whatever is going on will get better and you will be okay.
Am I the only one who feel lonely even though i have a complete family, friends, you know? Unreal but true
It happens.. i feel the same
That was totally me before I reached out to my now bestie- I had admired her courage and participation in class, and it turns out she thought the same about me. Just remember that you're not alone in your suffering, and I'm sending virtual hugs your way!
Same🙃
I feel the same everyday
NO YOUR NOT, THERE IS A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN FEELING LONELY AND BEING ALONE. BEING ALONE IS FINE, BUT SOMETIMES WE CAN FEEL THE LONLIEST IN A ROOM FULL OF PEOPLE.
I felt the most lonely when I realized at the hospital that after I tried to kill myself, I was unconscious for 12 hours and I woke up and call 911 myself.
I am so proud of you💗 You made it through an extremely rough patch and you’re here today. It’s definitely not easy but you’re doing well, the fact that you’re here today shows how strong you are even if u dont feel like it. You’ll be in a better place thriving one day just trust the journey.
Thank you, that’s really sweet of you ❤️
@@RitualCat you’re most welcome
That is heartbreaking. I am happy that you are still here. It shows unbelievable strength that you called the hospital yourself. I hope you are doing well
Heyy im beyond gladd to know your still alive and kicking. Lovelots from Philippines❣ oh and keep kicking and punching through lifeee
OMG you have no idea how powerful this video is.... There's not an english word to describe how good this channel is... Why can't she win an OSCAR for spreading healing in a pain ravaged world? She deserves it tbh...
The loneliest I've ever felt was when I was in varsity. After high school, I thought it'd be really easy to make friends but it was very hard. Everybody had their own group of friends and I just found it hard to fit in. My varsity experience was horrible just because of that. Now I'm a graduate living at home and still friendless 😔.
Hi. Where do you live?
Imagine a world where everyone had someone as genuine as Thoraya in their life.What a happy world that would be!
Hosakta hai hi nahi hi can we
Whoever reading this, I really hope in god’s name that the pain you felt today will be your strength for tomorrow. You dont need anyone to complete you because you are already complete. Yes you are maybe beaten up and lonely for now but God wont let you there for long. In every pain, there’s a hope. The fact that your fighting makes you stronger than you think you are. Keep fighting the start is always the hardest. 💕😊
Quit bringing God into everything Religion cost causes most of the pain in this world
@@lisabass7584 I hope you healed from everything that hurt you 😊
@@lisabass7584 The part that you don't understand is that God (Jesus)... is the ANSWER to our loneliness, our depression, our pain, our guilt, our self hatred, our bitterness, our anger, our anxieties. I'm sure you won't agree because you haven't experienced it but TRUST me. God FREED me from all of it and I have a peace/love/joy that surpasses ALL understanding. I pray you will one day experience it as well.
I'm really glad you've added the join button and you plan to travel the world. Your videos are so very beautiful and they constantly make me feel less alone and I think they really bring people together in their experiences. Thank you so much Thoraya for all you create xxx
Thank you so much for your kind words!! I was really hesitant to add the join button... your comment definitely makes me feel better about my decision. ❤️
@@Thorayaa When (not IF! ) you go travel the world, make sure your backpack is stocked with all these beautiful questions you ask. Having the same questions answered in different places throughout your journey may yield some very interesting insights! Not to mention you could make city-/state-/country-/culture-specific videos with the same format, just different people, stories, ways of life.
Who knows, perhaps even let people push a button to pick a random question the universe wants them to answer.
I always cry watching these videos. They just hit so deeply that I can’t help but start bawling like a babt
Being lonely s a state of mind!
Actually, feeling or being lonely is a longing & disconnect with one’s self! Blessings
The loneliest I’ve ever been was the time I weaned myself off of antidepressants, adderall, and benzos. It took me a year to fully withdrawal. I felt horrible and no one wanted to be around me. Now I’m better though :)
Well done! That must’ve been hard... Here’s to a happy future for you!😊
*I've felt alone for ten years now since I lost my mom she was the only one that understood me and not having her is difficult to live every day It's not easy to breath without her😢💔☁️†*
I hope you are doing ok now! You are loved :)
@@yanii27 Thank you I try every day 😔
@@esmeraldasanchez163 you are loved 💕
Sorry to hear that. I doesn’t get any easier does it? My mum’s been gone 13 years on the 24th November and there’s never a day goes by where I don’t miss the phone calls and chats we used to have. Guess I’m really lucky that I have so many great memories to look back on. I hope you do too so you can get comfort from those good times and get stronger. I’m sure your Mum would want you to be happy. X
@@Ali-fq3nz It's a little late but I'm so sorry for your loss God has beatiful angels up in heaven ☁️† I know that they are beside us every day 🙏🏼
6:21
I am 37 years old and still to this day I harbor a lot of guilt, regret, and sadness that I had made fun of a girl in middle school. I was bullied throughout childhood/teens and I did the exact same to someone else 😔. Because it made colleagues laugh and I had attention. 💔. I pray that this girl is okay now. I hope so much that she is okay mentally, emotionally. It is very hard to locate her since she has a common name.. but before it's too late, I hope to find and see her again in this life. And issue her the biggest apology and beg for her forgiveness. If you are in middle school/high school reading this, please please PLEASE try to refrain from being mean. You may regret it later in life and haunt you. I am hoping she had strong support from home.. I am truly truly sorry for what I did as a 13, 14 year old.
I want to thank the last women for the advice, I really needed to hear that.
I think every time when I was in a group of people and everyone just ignored me and didn't pay attention to anything I said. I felt so lonely and embarrassed. I think it affected me in a way, I am not comfortable talking to groups of people and overall my confidence isn't very high. I also feel lonely, when I see happy couples around me, and there is me 21 years without any relationship. I just hope there is something nice in the future waiting for me.
This video was so comforting and made me subscribe after binging some of your others. I hate knowing that so many people feel that deep sense of despair, but it is so comforting to see how common it is. The comment section is such a great reminder we're not alone in feeling lonely, everyone is describing feelings that sometimes feel like you're the only one burdened to carry. What you do is so inspirational, thank you so much.
When I moved to vienna. I knew no-one. I tried finding people but they had no interests in additional friends. After all the mobbing during school and working on good grades, I was mobbed at work too. It had no sense. The suffering had no sense. My best days were behind me. 9 months of no-one, being ignored, I remembered that the world became darker and gray. I can`t remember that there were even colors or something. It was so cold. It was summer and I weren`t able to recognise the warmth of the sun. I felt like falling apart, fragmented, dead. I don`t want to go back to that place, to that darkness. I`m still full of fear of loneliness even that I found people. I found friends and I`m so thankfull for them.
Uuuhhh!!!! Again the same answer like another question of yours.... I've been lonely almost all my life.. So can't choose the worst moment out of that. It just turned out so bad that now that I really have good people around me who understands me I can't really trust them. I'm in constant fear of losing them. That's why I force myself to think that they're temporary.
Loneliest I felt was starting my new college online last year, and this summer. all my classes were digital and I knew no one at the school. It was crushing having those days where you know no one cares or is even aware of how lonely you feel. Or that you even exist. It physically hurt to just be in my own company at one point. Also didn't help that I cut ties with my ex in a pretty bad way at the time too. I met a girl online over that year and started dating soon after. It was long distance and she was super toxic but I still (stupidly) thought it was better than nothing. Got cheated on and dumped over the phone on the day I was gonna fly over and see her. It was really hard goin through that breakup completely alone with no one to even talk with about it, and when I did talk about it I was met with either cold indifference from my family, or a "don't bring that personal shit to work" by my boss at the time. I had to sort out all my feelings and emotions by myself over that summer. It was horrible but I did learn to try and start liking myself and be my own best friend.
I'm doin much better now and have been workin on myself but just thought I'd share. Please be there for yourself. You're the only one who knows you as well as you do.
Though question, but very relevant. More people should be asking such challenging questions amounts friends and communities. Great work Thoraya.
The loneliest i've felt was after a bad breakup where she cheated with my best friend at the time, our friend group was pretty small and tight-knit and when i took them out of my life the rest of the friend group kinda shuffled away with them. No one really took any kind of initiative to speak to me after that and no one holds a conversation with me anymore when i start one or asks if i want to do something like play a game, walk around town, or just hang out in general. This overwhelming sense of solidarity after having a big part of your life being upturned takes a toll.
That one night when being by myself was too overwhelming for me to stay inside for, and then realizing there is not one person I can turn to at the moment even though I have friends all across the globe.
Is it weird that I feel lonely every single day just because I don’t have any sisters just brothers? 💔🥺
when all my friends were telling me they loved me but i still didn’t believe them and pushed them away because i thought i had nothing to bring to the table
The loneliest I've ever felt was being at home in my teen years. My Dad worked all day and my Mom was always in bed upstairs in her room. She stopped working when I turned 13 due to back pain. When I'd come home from school the house always felt empty and I had to go upstairs if I wanted to even see my Mom so I would try to make the effort to say hi and tell her how my day went and she would say "I don't care, go away."
I felt so alone and not wanted being at home that I would try to avoid going home for everyday as long as I could. I would stay at a different friends house for the night and I turned to drinking and smoking to mask the pain. Years later I found out my Mom suffers from depression. It would have made a huge difference if I would have known then.
First day at college, very far away from my family, I didn't know anyone in the city.. It was really lonely
My wife locked me into a trap for 4 years. She used the house,the cars,the kids,the cell phone down to my personal belongings to keep me stuck in her bi polar domestic abusive world. Had the chance in our last encounter to have her arrested. I turned the officer down. She then took all my things,and placed a false restraining order on me. I havnt seen my 2 and 3 year old boy and girl in a month. Surviving by good patient and giving friends but I miss my kids. I am not a cryer and it is getting me there daily now. They are probably asking where is daddy ?. I want to see daddy and she is probably telling them things like I hate them and they wont see me again. 😔
😞 I hope you get better. Don’t lose hope
I felt the loneliest when I was outside with friends and suddently they all left cuz they were going to a party or they planned to spend time with their girl/boyfriends. I remember that I was having problems at home, I just wanted to talk to someone. And in my head I couldnt hold the suffering and I wanted to commit suicide, jumpimg from a bridge. I remember that I texted my friends in a whatsapp group that I need to talk to someone but they all declined me.
Somehow I stopped myself from going to that bridge and go back to my grandparents that were worried about me not coming home soon.
Yeah so this is also my secret.
When I was depressed during 2021, crying in my room in the dark and wondering why I had to keep on living. Thankfully I am not like that anymore. It's funny how much I avoid remembering those times, as if my brain intentionally shut it away to protect me.
I am happy right now, and that's all that matters.
2:24... "uh huh"... so matter of fact like you deserved it. Keep going, you deserve more
How kids can tell!!!
I loved this little boy!
I have suffered from depression for 5 years. In those 5 years, it was always just me. Just me feeling like sh*t, just me picking myself back up. It hurt so much and it still does every time I think about it. I've always been jealous of people who are close to their parents, have caring siblings and friends, and just people who understands them and is there for them. It really changed me as a person. I was a bright, cheerful, loud kid and after such a long time, I feel like I'm finally able to let go. I feel so much more free, so much better these past couple of months. It definitely still feels lonely, but I'll eventually make a new friend :)
The loneliness I've ever felt is
Pretty much every night when I'm just by my thoughts crying my heart out
The loneliest that I have ever felt was since I was in middle school. I am a introvert, and I am not good at talking to people, I am also very awkward at talking to people. I always kept to myself, 99% of the time, and I felt like I was the only one in the universe, even around a whole group of people. I could be around 1,000 people, and I felt completely alone.
I really liked this girl when I was in school, and a teenage boy that I went to school with got her number for me, when she found out that it was for me, she quickly got her number back from me, and walked away. I felt ugly, and like there was something wrong with me.
I just wanted to share my story.
The loneliest I’ve ever felt was when I was surrounded by my friends and everyone had a close connection with one another except me. I’ve always been pretty lonely ever since I was a kid. Even when I wanted friends no one ever wanted me really so I had to learn at a very young age that I’m going to always be by myself and still to this day I am.
I feel the exact same way. xx
The loneliest I ever felt was the end of 2020 & the beginning of 2021 so now. I’m going through a divorce with my husband we are living overseas & living like roommates. The virus & paperwork is making it hard to move. We have lived like roommates since we decided to split in September.. the day before our 5 year wedding anniversary. I only have 1 good/close friend here & my family is all back in the states. One night I was feeling super lonely & like I was dying.. my husband was out drunk with friends not even a month after splitting. I called him & told him I was feeling lonely & a bit suicidal tbh.. like where you feel like you want to die but you wouldn’t actually do it. He told me he would come home soon.. 1 hour later he still was out drunk with his friends. Didn’t come home till 2 hours later.. when he came home he didn’t even check on me. I realized how selfish he was & how he had his own issues to deal with.. Sucks losing the person you thought would be there with you till death. But I realize my self worth now & will meet my true love one day. I told my family I felt alone & they were there for me. My dad called me every day while I’m still here overseas waiting to move. Just hold on.. you won’t always feel lonely.. there are good days & bad.
i only discovered your videos today. I had a huge argument with my parents today. it's so bad that I know it will be a long time before I see them again and until we forgive each other. I don't know if anyone else knows the feeling when you feel so much that the system just shuts down and all that remains is emptiness and loneliness. so when did i feel lonely? today .
thanks for your videos.
Loneliest is right now am jobless and my bf dumped me and I stay with my family and deep down I know they don't like me being there but I try not to think about it. Am pretty much a loner
I considered ending my life multiple times , it's just a matter of time before I snap. To anyone reading please pray for me
I wish I could give them a hug and say everything is going to ok
loneliest I've ever felt was probably around middle school I had friends I had so many people to talk to but they never understood they would say I was being over dramatic and they didn't care and even my own parents said that I just wanted attention
nobody deserves to feel this way :(((
I've been depressed for 5 years and now I just feel like my life is already done for. I can feel physical pain now. It hurts. I feel like it's just deja vu of the same depressing life. I hate life, I hate my life. I have nobody to talk to and if I ever did my mind races so fast I can't even express myself. I'm already balding, my dad's reaching his end, my dog also. My parents are divorced, I don't keep contact with my family. I put on that I'm happy but every time someone even asks me if I'm okay I just to cry. I don't care about myself anymore. I feel like nothing's real and all I hear about is negativity and hope bad the world is. I don't feel attractive to anyone, I have no confidence.. I've always been single. I couldn't even tell you the last time I even had a woman's touch. I have so much shit going through my head at once I can't take it. I don't believe in god and sometimes I feel like this is my punishment for doing so. I'm just lost and even when I try to tell someone they just tell me "you're too young to be depressed. You don't know what depression is." That hurts. Maybe I am too young but people never look at it differently. I've felt this way since I was 16, going on 24. Never celebrated my birthdays. Never celebrated anything.
After my sibling emigrated overseas and after our Dad passed away suddenly... That was when I really felt lonely and lost... And still I'm feeling lost and detatched from everything I lost and loved....
That girl at 2:48 wasnt lonely by choice .. she was just making up that she was happy. She never once made eye contact with Thoraya . That tells me she was hiding her deep emotions about how "lonely" actually makes her feel .
Isn't it crazy how these are all random people? It goes to show how much baggage everyone walks around with and nobody knows. Always be kind. You never know what someone's holding in their heart.
sonder- The realization that each passerby has a life as vivid and complex as your own
♥️✨😞🥺
Yup...
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I knoww! This is why we shouldn't judge people for how they are or seemed to be, it could be because of what they're going through!
Every person has their own story. Be kind. Always.
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True ❤️
That is exactly what I tell myself every morning..
4:21
Grandpa: “I don’t remember the loneliest I’ve ever felt”
GrandSon: “You can just say it”.
Grandpa: “Getting divorced.
Grandson: “Yes!”
Grandpa:“That’s the loneliest I’ve ever felt.”
Grandpa: “That’s is true.”
Kids pay attentions, they observe us. He knew how his Grandpa felt all these years. That’s so pure.
Yes, so amazing. That kid KNEW. You could hear it in his responses to the questions themselves.
Kids are smart. Sometimes adults forget that children understand more than we think
Idk, I thought it was a bit sad too that he knew so much. That kid was really young. Breaks my heart for them both.
The sweet grandson struck me as an old soul who was there specifically to connect with this man.
@@eileenhawaii6381 it might be true ❤
Next maybe you should do “who impacted your life the most”
Or, “why’d I unprivate my videos”
Agreed.
Good && Bad tho...👍👎
YESSSS
or what impacted it the most
Yesss
When i realise i am no one's priority i am just one of their options
That's deep. It can be both a blessing and a curse. The biggest thing i think, is you should talk it out with them. I know this is a difficult thing to ask ( could hardly do it) but communication helps a lot. Even if it is scary. And maybe, you are someone's priority and you just dont know it. Maybe it's in a distant way. If it turns out that no one makes you their priority, you just havent found the right people. They're out there, somewhere, in some way shape or form. It took me 3 years to discover this person and it was in someone I didnt even consider it could be. THere is light at the end of the tunnel, I promise. You just have to keep chasing after it.
also have a nice day :)
Stay strong!
Damn
WOW this is absolutely my life..
like you’re never choice 1
The scene with the grandson knowing exactly when the loneliest time of his grandpa was, and being able to name it specifically shows me how much they already understand even if we might think otherwise
That part. Their bond is beautiful
@Barbara Van der Westhuizen
I promise If I ever have children and grandchildren
I´ll give them all care and love as they deserve to
Oh yes, i was really surprised too
Right? Fascinating.
That’s cute
I felt the girl who talked about not being able to connect with people on a deeper more personal level. I feel like I've lived my entire life like that, and it just feels so fucking lonely. My heart goes out to that girl, that deeper type of connection is something I yearn for. It sucks when you feel like you never have a shoulder to cry on, someone to turn to, or someone to share small moments with.
Hi Grim. I feel you. I'm the same. It does feel incredibly lonely. Then there are the 'I wish...'
Relateee
@@roxana4218 My heart goes out to you, and I hope you find a cure for the loneliness and lack of connection one day. It's a rough place to be and I believe everyone deserves that deeper connection in life.
@@Gloroxsocks It's a mood foreal lol. Much love to you, hope you find it one day.
I honestly feel the same. To have so many people you talk to but have no one that you can connect on a deeper level... its so fucking lonely. and a lot of it I think is that im also afraid to lean on someone sometimes to have that deeper connection but over use it so much that i end up loosing them... I dont know
The grandkid was so honest in the back, lowkey wonder if you could interview children to ask about what their hopes are. The childlike wonder is what I miss...
I hope this goes through...would be very refreshing and probably emotional too
i would love to watch that
@soap duckling sure! Every idea comes from somewhere
Yesss! Great suggestion.
As adults we tend to overlook how much children notice, see and absorb.
I love how bold and honest children are and this is a great idea.
“When I see people connecting on a deep level”.... same friend, same. *HUG*
Same ❤️
same
Same here, the fact that there’s nobody I can talk to when I’m feeling sad or something hurts
Same
Same
The girl who’s ex killed himself after they broke up, I feel so bad for her. I hope she doesn’t carry guilt.
I like being alone but I don't like feeling lonely.
Same here.
Same
You are lucky dear
Sameeeee
Same
"You can say it"
"Getting divorced."
"YES."
Like that dude too)
There's something amazing about that little dude, he's brilliant
Yes yes yes!!! I love the honesty in children! (Most of the time lol)
Yeah, that kid was SO cool. And most likely hit the nail on the head too! That grandfather looked about my age and I have no kids.......... and the realization that life has officially passed me by, kinda stings a bit. :-(
In the Boomer years divorce was just no big deal, even passe'. It was the worst, most destructive, shameful thing I've ever done. Divorce is like a Category 4 tornado, wreaking a wide, even unknown path of destruction across persons' lives, and the world.
Not me, laying in bed at midnight and crying because I can feel every one of these people.
u okay? how are u doing now
SAME I'm hugging my seal aswell 😭😭
Relatable
Same 1.43 AM
@@teres1263 1:39 AM.. 😞
"I used to think the worst thing in life was to end up all alone. It’s not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people that make you feel all alone." - R. Williams
True
omg...so true!
Damn.
So very true
True
The little boy helping his
Grandad lol.
Grandad: uh...
Grandkid: tell her how lonely you were when you got divorced!! Yeah!!!
How wonderful grandpa has such a great relationship with his grandson.
I bet he was that kid he told all his business to because he couldn’t talk. Now look at him telling all his business lol
it breaks my heart that there are so many lonely people in the world. 7 billion lonely souls just looking for a connection.
Hi can we share whatsapp number for chat wit
Liv, do you smoke marijuana? Do you know something about marijuana? I have schizophrenia and I would like to smoke marijuana. What to do?
And wonder why is so hard to connect when so many people want to connect? Idk I mostly find people that feel like me ok internet but not so much in real life. Maybe people in real life don’t express their need for connection enough?
@@veterpierinna I think you're right. I rarely talk about my need for connection in person. It's like we're all scared of other people thinking we're lonely
Nobody asked me but the loneliest I've ever felt is when my best friend and ex boyfriend left me when I went into psychiatric hospital because I had a mental breakdown. The pain was real. I adopted a puppy after the incident wich is one of my best desicions.PS:this is my dog in the profile picture.
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Give him a treat for me, hope you're doing well
Hope you are doing good
Your dog is so cute. Can you hug him for me? 😊 (seriously 😅) And you are so strong, dont be sad or feel lonely. İf they left you while you were having bad times, this is their fault. You are so strong and pls stay like that ❣️ I love you 💙
@@Aaleynaa34 Thank you ❤️
this might sound selfish but I feel the most lonely when I’m surrounded by people, but they’re not who I want to be surrounded by, does that make sense? Sometimes I just crave the presence of a certain someone but I don’t have them around or with me.
I get that. I’d love to have a close group of friends but I don’t, and makes me so sad to see people talking and chatting and getting along when I’m just sat there just hoping to be included in the conversation
Yeah because you don’t connect with the people you are surrounded. Makes total sense. I feel good with people that I connect with. But when I’m surrounded by other people i prefer to be alone and feel alone with them.
I can relate, it's rlly sucks.
Yeah, that's me.
I moved from Brazil to the US when I was in middle school and left all my friends behind. I also disconnected a little bit with my mom, who moved with me, for some reason. So I lived with my mom and my stepfather and saw people at school, but they weren't who I wanted to be with. I wanted to be with my friends and with the rest of my family in Brazil. That was the most lonely I have ever felt.
The loneliest feeling is being with a group of friends and being ignored
That’s Being around not real friends
that's hurt!!
Same here,
I felt this so hard
I feel that. And applaude me for leaving them. ✌️
That man's grandson was the best accountability coach I have ever seen. He makes you own your stuff and doesn't let you delude yourself. He was awesome and absolutely adorable. Well done young man!
A bright spark
Loved him ^^ he must be so fun talking to😂
There's 7 billion of us and then we still have lonely people.
Almost 8 billion now
single since 3 years
@@giulietta-1555 lonely isn't only about dating. it's about when you feel like you got no one to talk to, no friends, no family, no one who understand you. etc
Unrelated but hey you're Namibian
@@laviniashiponeni1 I'm from Uganda.
"I'm pretty much lonely everyday... like there's people but I just can't connect to them..."
CONNECT WITH YOURSELF FIRST AND KNOW WHO YOU ARE
Just learn to love yourself. Have a relationship with yourself and i know it will help a lot since it helped me. Loving yourself and being there for yourself will never make you lonely. Tell yourself all the great things you would wish someone to tell you. It might look odd for the first time but just do that .And lastly, try to connect with friends and family am sure they would help a lot. It's just a phase it will pass you will never be lonely and you are never alone. Thank you.
Hi can we share whatsapp number for
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Felt🥺
I felt that
When I was sexually assaulted and beaten up by a stranger who broke into my parents home. Loneliest feeling ever knowing no one you knew understood.
I’m so sorry 💚 I hope you’ve healed sending you love
I'm so sorry you went through this
I'm sorry you had to go through this. I have no words except to say I'm sending you all my love and support so stay strong 💕💖💝🌹🌺💚💞❤
Am really sorry u had to go thru that..u are very strong and plz stay strong things will get better
@@imaway00 wtf is wrong with you? Were u there? How do u know? 🤨🤨
The loneliest moment I've ever felt when I really wanted someone to hold me when I was struggling with myself but no one was there. It's a feeling like you have been hiding in a dark corner and nobody even notices that you aren't there with them anymore. Now, when people try to come to reach out to me, I push them away because now I can't even believe that I deserve that kind of affection and attention.
I'm so sorry you feel this way...
You see, this video itself has so many random people with broken stories. And u have one too. Don't abandon affection and love. Give yourself a chance. Don't be so hard on yourself. Broken crayons still color. God loves you❤️
I can relate i guesss...but i hope i didn't make anyone feel that wayy....im really scared of making someone feel that wayyy
Have you ever lied?
Stolen?
Used God's name as a curse? (ex. 'Oh my G-d')
Dishonored your mother or father?
If you answered yes to any of the above, you have broken God's moral law, and are not right with God. When you die, you will be found guilty before God and sent to hell- a place of eternal torment, weeping and gnashing of teeth.
(By the way-every single human who has walked this earth but one (Jesus, the God-Man) has broken this moral code, and is guilty of sin!)
But! There's good news!
In God's infinite mercy, he sent his one and only son, Jesus Christ to die on the cross for our sins. Jesus died the death we deserved, and took the wrath of God on our behalf. This is a free gift for all those who repent (which means to turn away from wrong-doing) and confess Jesus as Lord, and have faith in him that he died on the cross for our sins, was risen after three days and sits at the right hand of God, the Father right now.
We are all guilty before God but Jesus paid our fine- let's turn towards Him, glorify Him, and rejoice in what He did for us on the cross!
John 14:6
"Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, and the truth, and the life; no one comes to the Father but through Me.'"
Jesus Christ is who he says he is.
He came to the earth, fully God, fully man. Jesus died on the cross bearing our sins, and faced the wrath of God for us as substitution that whosoever repents of their sin with a sincere heart, and has faith in Jesus Christ shall be saved. He was buried then resurrected after three days and awaits with the Father in heaven until the day of judgement and wrath.
Jesus did this because, according to Romans 3:23, "For we have all sinned and fall short of the glory of God."
Only Jesus lived a sinless life, a sinless life that we could never live. He is the only one who could die a substitutionary death for a sinner. So Jesus went to the cross to pay the debt we owe to God for our sin. Those covered by His sacrifice will inherit the kingdom of God and be reconciled to God.
Again, the way you do this, is you repent of your sin and have faith in Jesus. What does this mean? It means you take a good, hard look at your life. If you are honest, you will be grieved by your wrongdoing, and your sinful ways. Repent. To repent means to turn away from your wrongdoing. A sinner must acknowledge the hopelessness of his or her guilt before God in order for forgiveness to take place, and the sinner must understand that the "wages of sin is death" (Romans 6:23).
Then, as Romans 10:9 says, "If you declare with your mouth, 'Jesus is Lord,' and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead,
you will be saved."
You will be born again in Christ and will have eternal life as well as a good and true Shepherd watching over you with love. This is a gift freely given to all those who would repent and believe in Jesus. Not based off of works but by faith and faith alone.
If you don't repent of your sinful ways, and don't believe that Jesus Christ is Lord, you will face the eternal wrath of God in hell.
Please I beg you, I urge you- call upon Jesus today and put your faith in Him. Know Him, and have a relationship with the most Loving and true and good and holy, holy, holy Savior- Lord Jesus Christ.
Same
It’s crazy how many people are hurting nowadays. 🥺 If you’re reading this ... it’ll get better. You’ll be happy again. ❤️
This is so nice to read. I am feeling lonely almost every day because my boyfriend is mentally abusing me, he never hit me but he swears every time that he will do it. I just don't know how to accept that the person he is now is never going to be the man I fell in love it. It destroys me, I just want to know what being happy feels like. I want for everyone to be happy, and to be aware how valuable they are. I don't know anyone here but I am sending love ❤
I am so sorry you're going through this right now.
May I ask why you are still with him?
You too🙏🏾
thanks for your message, I really needed that. wish you the best!
@@Idomanaio I really don't know, I lost myself to the point where I started believing that he is right when he says that I don't deserve better or that I can't find better. I know that I can but I am just so tired of trying to be brave enough to walk away because I always fail he always makes me feel sorry for him in stead of being sorry for myself. I grew up thinking that l'll fall in love with someone and be happy and that if I do good it will also be returned but no. Life isn't like that. You won't get always what you deserve. And you won't find someone easily who would be ready to live his life till the end with you. So here I am praying that one day I'll love myself and that I'll be smilling with someone who truly loves me. Everything I wish for myself I wish for all of you beautiful souls ❣
The loneliest i ever felt was now. I have no friends
Same girl
this is a bit late but I want to be your friend!!!
Hey are you okay? I can be your friend
I feel this way x
Me too. And when i say no friends i mean it. I only talk to my parents and text one of my old friends which happens rarely
It’s hard when you feel alone while being in a whole bunch of people. You have conversations, but they are blank and hollow...you act as though you have the best companions ever, but you never find the connection you seek. Your words go unheard, sometimes insulted...you approach people unaware of their inner constitution but ultimately never find what you seek, inspite of maybe the seemingly strong connection you thought you were forming.
It feels as though you’re...you’re just not good enough...you’re a failure...feel like you don’t deserve the world, or it’s love. Eyes cloud with warm tears, but you just smile and get through it. And, when you look around, there’s no one you can talk about it to. It hurts.
Edit: Listen y’all, I am not editing to thank for those likes. I am thanking you for sharing your own little bits under this comment. Believe me, it did make me feel I amn’t gonna fight alone. We are together in this. Sometimes you relate with strangers more that you’d ever do with friends. And, from the bottom of my heart, I am sending all my love to each of you. We deserve to live and be ourselves, don’t we? We too have stories that need to be heard, don’t we? Let’s just live...
YOU ARE GOOD ENOUGH AND YOU DESERVE EVERYTHING
Just learn to love yourself. Have a relationship with yourself and i know it will help a lot since it helped me. Loving yourself and being there for yourself will never make you lonely. Tell yourself all the great things you would wish someone to tell you. It might look odd for the first time but just do that .And lastly, try to connect with friends and family am sure they would help a lot. It's just a phase it will pass you will never be lonely and you are never alone. Thank you.
"Eyes cloud with warm tears, but you just smile" "when you look around, there's no one you can talk about it to"
I Fucking felt that🙃
Almost cried, sounds to much like my family!😢
@@lyrica1149 Thanks for those kind words. But I really do feel I am disappointing and betraying and letting down everyone, including myself. Take care🤍
@Sofi_Playz Take care, mate🤍
😂 aww the little boy with his grand dad: "you can just say it..."😂
That is the BEST advice on how we should communicate more...coming from a child!
Adults make speaking their truth so over complicated. Just say it😄 (even if it is only to yourself, admitting the truth to yourself is the first step)
Yea, but if you have no words for your feelings? All I can do sometimes is smiling or crying or things like that...
@@SeelenTaucher true, but maybe start journaling until you can gain the words to say it out loud to people? Paper doesn't judge...unlike people🤷♂️
I sometimes get the free newspapers or magazines at my local train station and just cut out any words that relate to whatever am feeling or thinking at the time.
Or find an activity that helps you get your feelings out, e.g i started a blog www.justpauseonline.com
@@juliem1674 woahh very good advice 😳
Julie Macharia. Yeah, I was going to mention that young boy but you beat me to it !
What an intelligent young lad.
Exactly!
im 22 and never been in a relationship, been with anyone at all in any way (romantically, sexually), etc. I'm living in a house where no one talks at all. my friends in my town have left me. i feel broken, alien. this is the loneliest I've ever felt in my entire life. i think I'm going to die alone. thank you for this video. it gave me some hope.
edit: these comments give me so much hope. thank you
of course not darling, reach out to the people you'd like to meet, it's all gonna be well I know what it is but keep loving yourself and showing to the world and you'll eventually meet awesome people that cheer you up and make you wanna leave :-* love on you
If you need a friend, i m here
If you like need someone to cheer you up i have a idea for you😊dogs yeah buy a dog or a pet that you like yeah💕
I'm 21 and I've never been in a relationship as well so ur not alone it really affects my mental health when I see people in Social Media my age getting married, engaged or smthn
You kinda described my life.. And I'm 22 too
“No matter who you try to explain something to, that nobody will understand what you’re saying”
felt that.
Because of the mask?
me too tbh
That one kid saying 'You can just say it' about the divorce is so pure... He knows what was going on and don't want his dad to lie just bc he is so young... my heart melted and ached at the same time
Happened to me. And the family acted like we didnt know what was going on. Lol stupid adults.
Its his grandad. Very compationate kid.
I think I'm at my loneliness right now, I don't have someone to just laugh with right now
I am with you dear
;_; Do you have any pets or maybe you go out into city and tell somebody and ask if they wanna spent good time with you. I spend lots of time with "strangers." Strangers are friends you do not know already. :-)
do you have any hobbies?
How are you feeling now? I hope you feel better, I wish I could help you
@@reijanecosta4551 I think I've been feeling better since I commented, I think quarintine is making lots of people feel alone so there's not much people can do :(
Modern Loneliness by Lauv: we’re never alone but always depressed.
Seems to sum up a lot of loneliness we feel.
I fu**ing love that song.
@@mulaudzikhuliso4128 Same! His music is so good.
never lonely but alone?
me - socially anxious INTJ *tsk*
Such a beautiful somg
Worst feeling: Sitting alone in your flat knowing that you have no-one.
I hope you find someone...
Well, look there is someone just like u miles away
Have you ever lied?
Stolen?
Used God's name as a curse? (ex. 'Oh my G-d')
Dishonored your mother or father?
If you answered yes to any of the above, you have broken God's moral law, and are not right with God. When you die, you will be found guilty before God and sent to hell- a place of eternal torment, weeping and gnashing of teeth.
(By the way-every single human who has walked this earth but one (Jesus, the God-Man) has broken this moral code, and is guilty of sin!)
But! There's good news!
In God's infinite mercy, he sent his one and only son, Jesus Christ to die on the cross for our sins. Jesus died the death we deserved, and took the wrath of God on our behalf. This is a free gift for all those who repent (which means to turn away from wrong-doing) and confess Jesus as Lord, and have faith in him that he died on the cross for our sins, was risen after three days and sits at the right hand of God, the Father right now.
We are all guilty before God but Jesus paid our fine- let's turn towards Him, glorify Him, and rejoice in what He did for us on the cross!
John 14:6
"Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, and the truth, and the life; no one comes to the Father but through Me.'"
Jesus Christ is who he says he is.
He came to the earth, fully God, fully man. Jesus died on the cross bearing our sins, and faced the wrath of God for us as substitution that whosoever repents of their sin with a sincere heart, and has faith in Jesus Christ shall be saved. He was buried then resurrected after three days and awaits with the Father in heaven until the day of judgement and wrath.
Jesus did this because, according to Romans 3:23, "For we have all sinned and fall short of the glory of God."
Only Jesus lived a sinless life, a sinless life that we could never live. He is the only one who could die a substitutionary death for a sinner. So Jesus went to the cross to pay the debt we owe to God for our sin. Those covered by His sacrifice will inherit the kingdom of God and be reconciled to God.
Again, the way you do this, is you repent of your sin and have faith in Jesus. What does this mean? It means you take a good, hard look at your life. If you are honest, you will be grieved by your wrongdoing, and your sinful ways. Repent. To repent means to turn away from your wrongdoing. A sinner must acknowledge the hopelessness of his or her guilt before God in order for forgiveness to take place, and the sinner must understand that the "wages of sin is death" (Romans 6:23).
Then, as Romans 10:9 says, "If you declare with your mouth, 'Jesus is Lord,' and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead,
you will be saved."
You will be born again in Christ and will have eternal life as well as a good and true Shepherd watching over you with love. This is a gift freely given to all those who would repent and believe in Jesus. Not based off of works but by faith and faith alone.
If you don't repent of your sinful ways, and don't believe that Jesus Christ is Lord, you will face the eternal wrath of God in hell.
Please I beg you, I urge you- call upon Jesus today and put your faith in Him. Know Him, and have a relationship with the most Loving and true and good and holy, holy, holy Savior- Lord Jesus Christ.
Stay strong
You DO have someone..
): I wanna be friends with all of these people.
I want to be friends with you.
I wanna be friends with you
But only online :D
Me too.
To the first girl, who says she feels lonely when no one understands her that deeply, I understand you. To love someone and not have them there, like you said, is very lonely. I know how you feel
@@jayms06 me too, bro
@@jayms06 aww I’m sorry *hug* what happened?
@@jayms06 I bet you she does care. If you were close before, then some part of her still cares. Maybe she’s going through a lot right now, and doesn’t know how to talk about it. Over the years, I’ve had friends come and go. When someone was a very good friend, and I got back into contact with them, years after we drifted apart, our friendship lives again. I don’t know what happened with your friend, but I bet you will hear from her one day
@@jayms06 💜 you matter
@@jayms06 it really sucks though, and I’m sorry you’re going through that. I’m sorry you’re lonely. It isn’t right that she’s ignoring you
I remember in year 4 or 5 I lost all my friends and on this one day I was sitting on the play ground watching the other people, and I was crying, my teacher came up to me and asked if I was okay. I asked to call my mum and she said okay I called my mum and she said "what's wrong now?" And I told her that I was sad and I didn't really have any friends, she just said "stop being a baby and get back to doing ur school work" and it hurt alot because my mum was the person I would go to when I was sad or if I needed someone. 4 years later, i still remember it and I've never asked my mum to comfort me or anything if I was sad. 😪
I'm so sorry this happened to you. It's so sad that your mum couldn't show any empathy in that situation. I feel you and I wish you lots of people in your life who actually listen and connect to you.
aw the mama talking about her depression during her pregnancy broke my heart. Sweet angel, I hope she is doing ok
Battling cancer as a teenager. Not being able to talk to the your friend and family about how you feel because they’re so sad, they didn’t understand .. I felt so lonely for 7 yrs bottling my feelings😣🙏🏽😭 my scars are a constant reminder
You are an inspiration to all of us... if one person who stands by and with us through everything is us... God bless you!
I understand what you mean. Im battling cancer right now and it feels like youre an another world. And when you come back to your life you realise youre still lonely because your loved ones continued their lives without you.
I am so sorry that you felt this way for such a long time. My sincere wish is that you are able to forgive people and that God gives you the strength to heal those scars and continue enjoying your life.
God bless you!!
Can u get your instagram !!Your a fighter
The night I left my ex-husband for abusing me after 14 years of marriage. I was lying in bed in a woman's shelter and I was so alone but I was free!
You seem to be very happy now and that gives me peace. I hope you'll always continue to be strong, you went through a lot ❤️
I can definitely relate. I left after 10 years, and I remember crying myself to sleep for so many nights in the shelter.
🧡
So glad you saw ur worth. You are strong and beautiful. See life now in a different light
@Lizzy Grant I am good
This year after my break up, I’ve been feeling really lonely and spend a lot weeks by myself. I live in a different state from my family so I always feel bad about expressing my sadness to them. I feel like a burden so I tried talking with my roommates (who were friends before we moved in), and I shared how numb i felt, sadness, and about a friend who got in a car accident. After I stopped talking, It was dead silent for a long time. Then they just moved on from the conversation like I never said a word. That was extremely isolating and the moment I realized they weren’t my friends anymore.
Nowadays every single friend like this.
Felt like this a few days ago.. it hurts...like oxygen stopped passing through my heart.
Im sorry for this 😞
"Loneliness is the absence of the other. Aloneness is the presence of oneself." -Osho The Discipline of Transcendence
Preach 🙏🏽💯
True
the girl whose ex-boyfriend committed suicide, my heart really goes out to her. the fact that not one single friend put their pride aside to be there for her seems painful. I can't imagine. that's a lot of loss for one person to handle.
My thoughts exactly.
This video made me feel less lonely.. I recently found out i was pregnant.. and had to sadly get a abortion due to a situation I was in. I got treated like crap the times i was pregnant, Id hear my parents and my sister talking behind my back as if i wasn't there. (its always been like that) I had nobody to really talk to after I had the abortion. Nobody really cared how I felt. I cried my self to sleep till this day. After I lost my child, I felt like I lost myself in the process. When I sit in my room and talk to god, I feel like he is the only one who could understand me, or listen to me. So everyday I feel lonely.
Im so sorry you had to go through that. As another believer I pray that God instills you with his love, compassion, and mercy. May you feel his presence when you feel like no one else wants to be around you. May he provide you with the people that you deserve and that also love and understand you. You are a daughter of a king and he will not abandon or forsake you💛.
Big Hug to u KiKi....ure strong Woman
@@Dellyystyled96 Thankyou so much, needed that!
@@evtaoktaviani2513 Hugs to you too. Thankyou.
Out of everyone’s stories I’m hearing and reading about, yours made me cry. God is truly the only one I can talk to and he will understand. I’m sorry for loss of your baby and the loss of yourself. I hope everyday you feel better and that you find that one person who can listen rather that be a coworker or a friend.
I feel lonely when I remember that everyone say to me that " you understand me " and like " I can be myself around you " because I don't have that person I'm just that person to everyone :(
Let's be friends ☺️? I'm understanding and willing to be your friend
Damn that so relatable and deep
I've never related to anyone more :)
oh god this is me fr
I feel the same, let’s be friends. Do you want to?
That little boy telling that man he can say it... Broke my heart
As someone who does feel like people don't understand my feelings
The fact that the kid understood the grandfathers feelings just warmed my heart so much. The grandfather know that he is surrounded by people that understand and love him and it's beautiful
Loneliness is like depression. Its scary when youre sitting there by yourself....thinking to yourself....i lead myself to craziness. Anyone else relate ?
i think i have both 😁 how are you today ??
@@Techie1224 mmmm honestly dunno how to answer that question. Thanks for asking tho. How are you ??
@@lovergirl1669
neutral not bad nor good 😊 thanks for the answering
@@Techie1224 nws. U from usa ?
@@lovergirl1669
no, middle east :D
I have felt lonely my whole life, and still do. Even with so many people around me. Even with people that say they “care “ about me. Actions speak louder than words.
I feel that, I'm sorry
@@sandrakagwiria2231 I literally feel like giving up at any second.
@@Prankles369 yet you're still here.
We're both in the same boat. Remember that when things get tough it's almost never for no reason. A lot of times you need to get over obstacles in order to reach something bigger and no fulfilling. You can be near the peak of the mountain and not even know it.
@@Prankles369 and just to be clear, I may say it mostly out of blind faith, but I don't believe in a defeatist mentality. Hold on to what keeps you going. You can't have good things in life if you don't live in the first place, and even if it does seem meaningless (which it might be) it just means you live in a sandbox game. Create your own meaning. Do what makes you truly happy because life is too short to have regrets.
“Actions speak louder than words “❤️❤️
Its funny how were all surrounded with people but we still feel lonely. Youre just there, alone and not connecting to anyone
Especially when all of your friends have that connection except you
Agree
But this shows us even in loneliness we e are connected.
Me, I feel lonely every single day
Yep me too
You're never alone your beautiful
@@keiron.4612 aww..thank you for that😊
@@izzylay1132 im wid ya- 😊 we'll be fine
@@aasthamishra7778 you're welcome and I know it feels to be lonely I was adopted so I've been lonely many nights but I have a lovely family now🙂
ah...well. I finally opened up to my family and admitted that I have depression. They said I was lying, I’m too young for it. They all disagreed and called me dramatic. That’s when I knew that I had no one by my side. I was lonely and I think I still am.
i am here by your side any help could i provide ??
same.. oh and i m romanian too lol
@@biancaionescu2934 romanian too omgg
Dude I get that. And I'm also romanian lol, but literally there's psychological research that says kids can have symptoms of depression from the age of 5 (I think even younger) so like, that ignorance though. But I feel you because I went through a part of my life where I was really fucking down and I think I was depressed, but my parents took it really lightly and didn't really help me out throughout it
Don't feel lonely, there is at least 2 people here waiting for you to reply, hopefully you will..
Can we just appreciate the kiddo for recognizing someone else’s feelings. The kid almost said it for him!! Kids are SO important!!!! 💜
Can you ask “what’s the thing you think about the most everyday?” Or something along those lines.
That's a good idea! I'd love to see a video like that too.
Great idea! Would love to watch that
I agree 👍😊 I would like to see this❤️
i would love to see that
This was beautiful. I'm sure many of us feel a bit lonely during the pandemic, even we are constantly surrounded by family indoors.. no room to breathe.
“Loneliness...loving somebody and not having them there.” it hit me so hard
Me too , I miss my father.