How To Help Clients Take Responsibility
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- Опубліковано 16 лип 2024
- In therapy we have to be on our client's side. But what do we do when working with them is actually working against their best interests? What do we do when our clients will not take their share of responsibility for their situation?
One of the consequences of blaming others for everything is that it removes your client’s sense of control. In this video I'll share some tips on how we can help our clients blame others less and see their own part in situations more
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What happened to me isn't my fault, but it is my responsibility. Formulating it that way feels noble.
a culture of blame is a culture of dependency.... eye opener
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Thank you Mark. You are like a kind wise father most of us didn’t have. Thank you for your work
Thank you so much for making this video. I'm a deep hearted person, and Ive always been there for others. These past 3 year's have seriously become a shock to me. Seeing people I've always been there for poorly put in an effort to help, and others like family become so drained I'm a burden. There's no easy solution, but this seriously helps me see where my power lies, and it's not my responsibility to be there for people who deflect blame rather than help put out the fire. I'm giving them too much power allowing them to step in that role apathetically. 🤔💡🔮
Very interesting and so well explained how you introduced the concepts and shifted the mindset without direct confrontation of it.
Thank you for what is a very relevant topic, not only with clients but within my family. Watching relationships atrophy due to blame, unforgiveness and the unwillingness to reflect on how our behavioral patterns may have contributed to current circumstances is quite painful. This video was insightful. Many thanks.
WOW. I just stumbled into your material this morning and ALREADY having breakthroughs with myself (and others) that I’ve been struggling with for YEARS. 😱🤩
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I've have been on your UA-cam channel all day! You are a wealth of information and wisdom... Thank you for sharing this with the rest of us ♥ priceless!!
Mind suitably expanded. This guy is great 👍
Very informative. Lots of great ideas to put into practise. Love the change analogy👏🏻
I love your videos. I am currently an Intern and I am glad I can learn from seasoned Therapists.
If there is a police force to actually enforce the blame then it might do well to blame - and for some types of blame there is indeed an actual police force. For other things, like parental neglect ('they meant well' is not exactly a falsifiable statement), there isn't any force that will deal with it. But just shrugging about it doesn't help those who went through it.
Best lesson of my life I’ve ever heard! Feeling so blessed, inspired and grateful Mark! Many thanks 🙏🌺
Very valuable insight. Thank you so much.
Brilliant! thank you Mark.
What if you can't remember very much at all but when triggered become afraid,sad and dissociate?
thank you , great insight.
Thank you Mark for this video. This is very helpful.
This is really helpful and practical. Thanks for your advice, it is inspiring and easy to apply.
Thanks a lot for those very useful videos!
That was Great ! Thank you very much Sir for all of your work .
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7:23 we depend on those we blame
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"Nowadays the term abuse might be stretched beyond recognition..." I guess so.
Internalizing negative experience. What is that?
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Something bad happens to you and you create it as part of yourself.
@@tannerhagen774 Thank you for this succinct explanation
Difficult to hear......i am the kind that has rolled with waves trashed and sometimes abandoned..........in paradises. My father’s cruelty and immense need of attention was my nemesis. Still is. I di blame him.
As a real Trauma
and abuse sufferer , this painful to watch