Stop having sex with them until you know what they are about because a down low man tries to get a lot of women to think that he is straight and he just didn't want them
When I was with my child's dad, I had my suspicion that he was on the DL because his energy changed when he talked to his male friends. His eyes were glowing, and he was overly excited. He would also go on trips with them and buy them gifts. He spent more time with them than with me.
Ladies,💡 Before you kiss or have a sexual encounter with a Man get him tested. Make sure you and your Man get random STD and STI screenings together. ~ Be smart, Have Standards and Boundaries 🙏🌟✨💖
Looking back on the men I kissed, it is a miracle that I did not contract anything. It has been easy to think that only std's can be contracted through intercourse. Now, it is scary to the point where I don't want to kiss anyone. The way men are today make it hard to trust them because you never know where they have had their mouths or tongues; no thank you!!
You're absolutely 💯% right. No doubts about that, however us women have a hard enough task just getting a man to take us women out on a date, or for an inexpensive lunch/ dinner meal so I can't hardly see them providing any real results of any STD tests or HIV Aids test results. They'll get very very rude and then bounce, that's how that will all end up. Which in our case will be great ‼‼‼
There is 2 types of dl men: feminine men (bottoms) and masculine (top). The masculine dl men are hard to spot but a sure sign: in the beginning of the relationship, my closeted ex mentioned to me he liked gay / lgbt clubs and gays loved flirting with him. Just out of nowhere. Also told about his childhood abuse (a family friend). Oftentimes, they were abused as kids. Ladies, listen carefully what man says in your first dates, he is telling you all of the red flags you need to know!
@@carolynshank8961 no I'm out of this h.ll since December 2022. Confronted him many times, he still denies to this day and want to come back flipping back shame and our failed relationship. We coparent. I tried to wake him up by explaining him he used me like a beard, me and his ex. He absolutely 💯 doesn't care. He and all of his closeted boys living the down low lifestyle. Now that I now, I can spot all of his boys and I was/ am furious against these bottoms because they willingly mess with women's lives. It's so infuriating and literally don't stay around these monsters. Just have to make sure my kid is secure because I can't let him alone with his father and his boys.
All these new names they got for DL men is a crap of shit if u r a man n engage wt a another man Thur sex r u gay I call a ball a ball n a strike a strike 😮
I literally moved to a new state. Only person I know here is my friend who is engaged to a man who’s always at the gym with his friend. She said she’s going to see if her fiancé would hook us up because we’re both single. That man got so upset with her and told her he isn’t no match maker. I wanted to tell her girl that’s his man. I didn’t it’s not my business, she’ll find out.
@gonegirl9114 you are soooo right😂 My DL friend is always at the gym... Me and my son went to the gym. My son went into the locker room for the first time and came out asking me if all kinds of male locker room activity was normal. SMH too much going on in the male locker room...😮
Yep - my ex loved the gym and there he had all his buddies but never once brought home a male friend - 22 yrs marriage and never brought home a male friend 🤷♀️. I think it was so I wouldn’t figure it out - he hid it very well…
The majority of men that are on the down low are good looking men. Start focusing on average dudes. Average men are not focused on their looks. Average man don’t focus on facial hair. Average men don’t focus on clothing.
I disagree….while vanity is eye opening there are TONS who have average to below average looks, height and weight that still doing the bending 🎯 you’d be surprised
Did you ever notice when dating a guy on the DL that maybe things in your own life start not going well for you like maybe you start having problems on your job or just bad luck starts happening to you because you’re hanging out with them but you don’t even realize
Like negative energy, or dark spirits ?? If that's what you mean it's possible because dishonest people are negative and that could bring a dark cloud over you life
It's because they are part taking in wicked things which makes demons attached to them, then the same demons bother the ppl they are intimate with or closest too
Watch out for your SONS "uncles" and "bros" and big kid friends" who dont have peer connection or future forward career and lifestyle alignment "grooming" these young boys by "just kicking it"🤔😩😮💨
You are so right. They stalk your young sons. They will throw a false flag out there to make you think something that is not true. To find out my baby daddy was gay 2 years after a divorce was mind blowing. How could I miss it?
Wow, I can relate. They hide all of that and let us feel guilty for the marriage falling apart. I don't know if you went through that, but I did. Crazy!
My intuition was on point however , I overlooked the signs of my narcissist ex. I was wife #4. He would blush when his male friends would call. He’s the only child in his late sixty and hate his mother. Always belittling gay men. He would say “ girrrlllll “ all the time.
My fiancee is down low. He is in his early 80's very narcissistic, got prostate issues, twice divorced. Said he really didn't want to be married to them. He acts like a jealous female. He has been meeting up with a group of men every month for decades. He travels far to meet up with these dudes. Most have health issues now so he dont go as much as before. Thank God for discernment and your channel. This was confirmation. This type of sex is an addiction for alot of men. Pray Saints.🙏🏽
I was married to a man who I suspected was dl when I came home and his "friend.". I could this energy in the room. It seemed like their conversation changed and a tension was in the room. He would never admit it, but I still believe he had 2 sides. I also remember him speaking of being assaulted by an older male.
Appreciate your content - these are issues that need to be openly discussed, especially among older (I'm 59) because when I was younger, homosexuality, DL, etc. was still considered taboo. Now, sexual deviance in all of its various disguises is commonplace. I'm sure that this is nothing new - but this phenomenon just emphasizes the importance of taking the time to get to know whom you are getting involved with.
16 minute mark I never heard of another man (homeboy) pulling that, taking you on a tour of the house and leaving you in a room. that's pretty catty. thank you for teaching us.
I know a married man that came out after being on the DL for 17 years and has teenage boy.. I’ve worked with men that were married and then left their wives.. they seem to want out of their marriage around the age of 40
I dated a guy over 10 years ago and the signs were there, he was living with a bisexual male friend who gave off jealous vibes, they even went to gay clubs together, he told me he knew he was straight because he once tried something sexual on a male friend once and he didn't like it. Oh yeah when we broke up he called me all these degrading names and even stalked me, I always got the feeling he hated women and had no respect for them. I'm sure that dude was a DL narc
It's happening to much. I wouldn't date now it's to dangerous. And then they turn out to be a nassicist as well it's bad enough they're gay but a narcissist also. It would be nice to have a companion but I'm not desperate.
Older women, mostly widows are flattered when a younger man gives them attention and want to date them...their very naive esp. those who have not been expose to the games men play...they get hurt and sometimes end up lose alot of money before they catch on to it ain't just sex he wants.....and he dl...
Thank you Miss Faye You confirmed what I saw in many men I grew up with. I couldn't understand why they were not fond of me, but I realized they are on the down low and they knew I wasn't on the DL.
Hm. Extreme times - vigilance required. Self preservation necessity priority. Deceptive times indeed. Indicator one - the rise of covert animosity against women.
Back in 2016 When I first found out about Diddy, I started following him on social media. I thought he was the Bee's Knees. I didn't know that there was talk of Diddy and Will Smith being bisexual together. And now to see You Tube videos of Will Smith canoodling with Prince Hamdan of Dubai and Tyrese Gibson all laughing and having a good time makes me wonder.
Miss Faye, when we can laugh, instead of crying or not being bothered by these dysfunctional ☠👹🤡🎭🐍 people, we're healed & SURVIVORS of the toxicity! ESCAPED & LEARNED TO LOVE, PROTECT OURSELVES FOR THOSE WHO CHERISH OUR HEART & FEELINGS❣🦋🕊🦅😇🙌🙏⛑ FREEDOM!
Miss Faye, did we have dealings with the same man !?😂😂😂 Yes he hated the sight and thought of homosexuals, 🤔. I was very naive about DL men , Misogynism and Narcissism. Thanks Miss Faye's World for educating women ❤
When a DL man is highly critizing an openly Gay gentlemen, is he secretly making mental notes of where he was? Where he works so he can find him later? Or maybe the "hate" comes from wishing they had the courage to own it?. I have so many questions, did he other woman ever find out? His friends new Wife?
The Holy Spirit show me,act like they hate gays,it’s just to throw you off,narcissist will do anything they are big enough to do,keep your eyes open,no shame in there games,the devil has them.💔
I was suspicious about this guy after i met his "best friend" who was acting hella jealous. Serious side eye. Never touched dude and he keeps asking why im not attracted to him.
Movie called love an deceit she caught him act on job ladies becarul who you let in your circle most married men are on down low don't get it twisted looks will fool you
We are a few a man that is around a Man too much at awkward times at that that's a sign is for real. Play attention when you're out with your man where does his eyes follow you can't help with your eyes attracted to so pay attention to what he's looking at when you're out try to observe just randomly. If the same dude come up on that phone a lot for sure.
Who you chose to lay with is your business as long as it is not affecting my life, and it is not being pushed on me and children, people are going to do what they want anyway so hating them is not going to do anything.
College! No no miss Faye…. It starts as early as high school I suspect after my last ex talked to me about the “cookie game”. I had no idea what in the lowest of hells that even was.. and I wish I hadn’t. That’s how I knew he was DL.
Yes maam🥴 Post high school and the #metoo generation brought forth the boys who were "getting bullied" but in actuality sexually abused and written off as "being boys"😃
I knew back in the day some men would watch the soap operas when they worked the grave yard shift they wasn't gay that i knew of . Now adays you just can't tell. That's how i feel.
@henriettawyatt2713 you can tell if a man is closet gay because he will have a man for a friend and he will be Homophobic and that is the number one sing that he is closet gay or Bisexual like everyone I found out about so far everyone that is Homophobic are down low men and I don't care what Color they are all of them
I really don’t see what the benefit is in trying to find a man with all the things a woman needs to worry about. It’s just way easier to be single. ATP, the smallest thing will make me run smh
The aunts be knowing.. the narc I dated hated his mother but was very close to his aunt by marriage. She would always drop hints and jewels about him and how he do. I had a feeling he was curious about men because he had a male best friend that he was always on the phone with, would give him money, and let him take advantage of him all the time. I thought their friendship was very strange and questioned it all the time. Of course that made me look like the jealous GF, but that wasn’t the case. I wanted to know what I was getting into.. He was also addicted to porn and stayed in those sex toy shops. I cringe at the thought that I was ever with this creature, knowing everything I was told and saw with my own eyes. OH, and yes, he was always outwardly irritable when a gay man was in proximity to us.. not to mention, he’s an over the road truck driver and is out there in that strange world… I wish we could expose these creatures on these platforms so everyone can be forewarned… be careful ladies 🙏🏾
The shops you mentioned AND truck drivers are notorious for 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈 men to hook up-- the shops have rooms and the truck drivers in bathrooms, on the road or other hook up spots
They LOVE to frequent "adult bookstores", "gym", "YMCA" (it's more than a song), boys trips out of town, Bangkok & Thailand (full of "lady boys"), gay clubs, etc. Girlfriends & wives have NO clue what is really going on with their man. They will always use a woman as a "beard" (cover) to keep any suspicion down among family, friends, and co-workers. I just read a story last night about a WM married man with 3 kids, who used to frequent gay bars in his area, bring them back to his farm in Indiana, and "murt" them after s3x while the wife & kids were away at her parents house. The little boy found a human skull in the yard, told his mom, she called the police. They found over 10,000 human remains of men who were missing since 1993. "TRUST NOBODY" (Tupac Shakur)
OMG. My ex went out of his way to get a two-bedroom apt for him and his best friend instead of just a one bedroom apt for himself. I thought he was just big-hearted but nope! DL. He told me this story when we first met because his friend REFUSED to live with him in the apt.
@@jessicaberry87oh my, I heard this same story from the man I am dating. He also said when him and his best friend live together that they wrestle every morning. Men wake up rock hard, so why would he wrestle another in the morning?! They salty talk every day, gossip and his friend was mad I was there the other night. He kicked my shoes to the side because I refuse to go upstairs so they can be alone. I’m leaving this guy. I believe I have seen enough.
@@adelinethomas8625 GET OUT!!! And leave quietly. No confrontation, no scene.. just disappear and never go over there again. They can have eachother 🧔🧔♂️
Hey Ms Faye how are you doing I am well watching replay love your channel and spirit great advice wisdom ladies listen to this wise lady loving single we love you thanks for sharing blessings ❤️
Men are smarter now they know not to come off homophobic and say that’s there life … but THEY ARE ! They wanna hear your opinion I’m a christian so I don’t hate gay ppl just the sin… but anyway yeahhh ur spot on lol
I think the thing is a lot of reality shows like Housewives and/or Love & Hip/Hop allow women to gossip amongst each other. So it is strange for a man to watch the show alone.
I was married to man on DL and found out after 22 yrs marriage. My ex was also homophobic or pretended to be. He was also narcissistic - thank God I awakened and started a spiritual journey that caused me to make many changes - I’m so much happier - (he is white.) they call us wives “his beard “. I said no too…through the married years I kept dismissing the thought “maybe he is gay”. I wish I listened to that thought, but it’s ok. Things happen at the time it has to happen. My kids were adults and out of the house and I’m grateful for that. I’m also Empath ❤.
I'm about to get married Friday but I'm here watching these videos It's this one particular friend that he seems like he in love with.I have seen him eyeball gay men at drive thru places,seen a gay man text his phone and say are you going to send me a friend request but he didn't respond. I looked up the number it was an openly gay man.Time past we ended up at the same store this man worked at.I acted like I didn't know or see anything.They locked eyes and was doing the most trying to be seen by him..I don't really want to marry him because we already done had cheating problems with women.I think he gay.
If they are that way inclined you will most likely see the jealousy comin from the hatred their man friends have for you they act like u said a jealous female cuz basically they are bro mances yeah right 😂😂😂😂
That happened to me. My ex had a male friend and his male friend used to try to make fun of me. Then, towards the end of my relationship with my now ex, another man kept phoning my then boyfriend. My then boyfriend would leave my home quickly and go to see this person. He said that the new male friend had accommodation and that he was moving in. My ex wouldn't take me to where he had moved into, which was not his usual behaviour. Soon after, i ended the relationship for good and i had tests at a clinic. Thank goodness i am still clean! I found out that he was bi sexual. That was just over 7 years ago and my life has been so much better since. He always sponged off me and wasn't a provider. Lacked the masculine instincts. After i split from my ex i found out that he had been cheating on me with this man, that he allegedly took lodgings with. It really screwed my head up for a while. I felt that it was a strange kind of betrayl, being cheated on for another man and not a woman. I am so much happier now! I am more on my guard. I am celebate and striving to work hard on my spiritual journey!
Its time for the discussion to be about downlow women and when the man finds out some women think that the man should be ok with it because its 2 women right?, its supposed to be seductive right?, well wrong.. this too is a sin just the same..no one's talking about that
I have been wondering for avery long time as to what keeping a "Debonair" Magazine hidden from all "eyes👀👀👀" actually mean... Would you please shed some light on this.. Ms Faye.. Am eternally grateful to you for all rhat you do for us Thanku so much❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉
Are you saying DL down low is ...being gay? First time i hear this term... I felt some strong energy from other guys it almost took over my whole mind... Sceared me abit..and im a "straight dude"...hehehe secrets always comes out somehow 😎🥇💜💜💜💜
But men dont have problems with it, besides the topic is about men hating women. The DL men love their bros and somehow they hate women, I dont know why. And they even marry women!! Straight women wont want to deal with that mess. The video is for women who must be aware of these people and spot them easily so we can not get involved with them
Ladies, we must learn how to take our time getting to know people too many strange people out there.
You are so right! Strange!!!
Some of these heifers are on the DL too!
Stop having sex with them until you know what they are about because a down low man tries to get a lot of women to think that he is straight and he just didn't want them
They have us thinking it’s a woman and it’s their homeboy. We finally caught on
GOOD POINT! 👍
Never thought about it like that. 🤔
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When I was with my child's dad, I had my suspicion that he was on the DL because his energy changed when he talked to his male friends. His eyes were glowing, and he was overly excited. He would also go on trips with them and buy them gifts. He spent more time with them than with me.
@Lala89856 that's a sure sign 😢
Hours on the phone to men??
Same similar situation with me...Trying to make me look stupid when he around this 1 particular m
@sinceresong9907 Yes. He was constantly calling and texting his buddies, planning outings and videogames sessions with them.
I dated a guy who was exactly like what you described. Big ew.
If he super angry , never know how to get over they angry, he act like he hates women he is dl
Facts
100 % true.
Amen!!! That was my ex. He has a foul temper. I'm sure he is sleeping with his male boss, who is gay.
Ladies,💡 Before you kiss or have a sexual encounter with a Man get him tested. Make sure you and your Man get random STD and STI screenings together. ~ Be smart, Have Standards and Boundaries 🙏🌟✨💖
Well said.I totally agree 💯
Looking back on the men I kissed, it is a miracle that I did not contract anything. It has been easy to think that only std's can be contracted through intercourse. Now, it is scary to the point where I don't want to kiss anyone. The way men are today make it hard to trust them because you never know where they have had their mouths or tongues; no thank you!!
😊😅www we
If the Man has too many red flags 🚩: Release him, Send him on his way and Learn the Good in Goodbye 🙏💞
You're absolutely 💯% right. No doubts about that, however us women have a hard enough task just getting a man to take us women out on a date, or for an inexpensive lunch/ dinner meal so I can't hardly see them providing any real results of any STD tests or HIV Aids test results. They'll get very very rude and then bounce, that's how that will all end up. Which in our case will be great ‼‼‼
There is 2 types of dl men: feminine men (bottoms) and masculine (top).
The masculine dl men are hard to spot but a sure sign: in the beginning of the relationship, my closeted ex mentioned to me he liked gay / lgbt clubs and gays loved flirting with him. Just out of nowhere. Also told about his childhood abuse (a family friend). Oftentimes, they were abused as kids.
Ladies, listen carefully what man says in your first dates, he is telling you all of the red flags you need to know!
Did you look at opl podcast on UA-cam Where a man cheated on his wife with other men and he has been doing it for 25 years
@@carolynshank8961 no I'm out of this h.ll since December 2022. Confronted him many times, he still denies to this day and want to come back flipping back shame and our failed relationship.
We coparent.
I tried to wake him up by explaining him he used me like a beard, me and his ex.
He absolutely 💯 doesn't care. He and all of his closeted boys living the down low lifestyle.
Now that I now, I can spot all of his boys and I was/ am furious against these bottoms because they willingly mess with women's lives. It's so infuriating and literally don't stay around these monsters.
Just have to make sure my kid is secure because I can't let him alone with his father and his boys.
All these new names they got for DL men is a crap of shit if u r a man n engage wt a another man Thur sex r u gay I call a ball a ball n a strike a strike 😮
Where can i find it @@carolynshank8961
I know many masculine tops
I had a dream about my ex that he was with a man and I told him about the dream he got very upset and found out years later that he was on the DL
That was God showing you the truth with your ex saying a word.
@@Ventingthetruth777 yes
You need to make people more aware of DL men because it’s getting worse and worse!!
It's really bad!! I asked my DL friend how many men are DL these days, he said probably 80%😮
@@peaceriver1793Who’s probably speaking for one race is no way is 80% of the man in the world.
Sounds like to me if you are a certain age and you don't want a man you are better off in this life and times we are living in.❤
Not even just women of a certain age. This goes for all women. In 2024, we're all better off if we don't want a man.
My ex husband is gay but he refuses to admit it. And because he won't admit it he ruins every woman's life he enters.
How do you know?!
They are also at the gym. Careful about to much time in the gym with male buddies.
I literally moved to a new state. Only person I know here is my friend who is engaged to a man who’s always at the gym with his friend. She said she’s going to see if her fiancé would hook us up because we’re both single. That man got so upset with her and told her he isn’t no match maker. I wanted to tell her girl that’s his man. I didn’t it’s not my business, she’ll find out.
@gonegirl9114 you are soooo right😂 My DL friend is always at the gym... Me and my son went to the gym. My son went into the locker room for the first time and came out asking me if all kinds of male locker room activity was normal. SMH too much going on in the male locker room...😮
They usually lurk around the sauna checking out other men's packages.
Yep - my ex loved the gym and there he had all his buddies but never once brought home a male friend - 22 yrs marriage and never brought home a male friend 🤷♀️. I think it was so I wouldn’t figure it out - he hid it very well…
@@peaceriver1793what kind of activities?🥴
The majority of men that are on the down low are good looking men. Start focusing on average dudes. Average men are not focused on their looks. Average man don’t focus on facial hair. Average men don’t focus on clothing.
Yeap
I disagree….while vanity is eye opening there are TONS who have average to below average looks, height and weight that still doing the bending 🎯 you’d be surprised
Not true
Facts stay in the mirror. You are absolutely correct 👍🏾
So a woman can't look average. But a man can?... His "energy" is supposed to be enough? Ugh! 😂😂
Definitely Trust your Instincts 💯😉
So crazy. This is 2024. These men should just be with each other.
Some women will date a man because of common interests. Then find out y’all have TOO MANY common interests 😂
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😂😂😂🤦🏾♀️
Did you ever notice when dating a guy on the DL that maybe things in your own life start not going well for you like maybe you start having problems on your job or just bad luck starts happening to you because you’re hanging out with them but you don’t even realize
No.
That makes zero sense
Like negative energy, or dark spirits ??
If that's what you mean it's possible because dishonest people are negative and that could bring a dark cloud over you life
It's because they are part taking in wicked things which makes demons attached to them, then the same demons bother the ppl they are intimate with or closest too
I did notice the entire time I was dating mine I had this really bad feeling. The entire time it’s a gut level feeling
Watch out for your SONS "uncles" and "bros" and big kid friends" who dont have peer connection or future forward career and lifestyle alignment "grooming" these young boys by "just kicking it"🤔😩😮💨
🚨 I appreciate Ms. Faye once again speaking on this violent, deceptive, life threatening topic against women of down low men‼️
You are so right. They stalk your young sons.
They will throw a false flag out there to make you think something that is not true.
To find out my baby daddy was gay 2 years after a divorce was mind blowing. How could I miss it?
Wow, I can relate. They hide all of that and let us feel guilty for the marriage falling apart. I don't know if you went through that, but I did. Crazy!
Most times when these guys come out as gay after years of being with a woman it's after they had a lot of practicing on the downlow.
My intuition was on point however , I overlooked the signs of my narcissist ex. I was wife #4. He would blush when his male friends would call. He’s the only child in his late sixty and hate his mother. Always belittling gay men. He would say “ girrrlllll “ all the time.
My fiancee is down low. He is in his early 80's very narcissistic, got prostate issues, twice divorced. Said he really didn't want to be married to them. He acts like a jealous female. He has been meeting up with a group of men every month for decades. He travels far to meet up with these dudes. Most have health issues now so he dont go as much as before. Thank God for discernment and your channel. This was confirmation. This type of sex is an addiction for alot of men. Pray Saints.🙏🏽
I was married to a man who I suspected was dl when I came home and his "friend.". I could this energy in the room. It seemed like their conversation changed and a tension was in the room. He would never admit it, but I still believe he had 2 sides. I also remember him speaking of being assaulted by an older male.
Barbara Mason had a song out back in the day "Another Man is Beating My Tme".
Appreciate your content - these are issues that need to be openly discussed, especially among older (I'm 59) because when I was younger, homosexuality, DL, etc. was still considered taboo. Now, sexual deviance in all of its various disguises is commonplace. I'm sure that this is nothing new - but this phenomenon just emphasizes the importance of taking the time to get to know whom you are getting involved with.
Whoever hacked my phone better be watching this!
Right!!! Lol 😆
Yeah, he was a BALL player, alright! 😂
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Balls in his mouth
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That usually means he used his equipment very well, or he uses his equipment with a lot of people.
😂😂😂
Deception at its highest level these days..the heart is deceitful above all things and desperately wicked..who can know it.. Jeremiah 17:9
16 minute mark I never heard of another man (homeboy) pulling that, taking you on a tour of the house and leaving you in a room. that's pretty catty. thank you for teaching us.
I know a married man that came out after being on the DL for 17 years and has teenage boy.. I’ve worked with men that were married and then left their wives.. they seem to want out of their marriage around the age of 40
I dated a guy over 10 years ago and the signs were there, he was living with a bisexual male friend who gave off jealous vibes, they even went to gay clubs together, he told me he knew he was straight because he once tried something sexual on a male friend once and he didn't like it. Oh yeah when we broke up he called me all these degrading names and even stalked me, I always got the feeling he hated women and had no respect for them. I'm sure that dude was a DL narc
Accept responsibility for your own actions. You somehow failed to satisfy your man, driving him to other men.
@@goombah226he was already into men so yeah I probably didn't satisfy him 😂
@@goombah226 its never them , they always blame the man when this right here is facts
@@goombah226Nah he was just a weak man like you. Stop blaming her.
@@goombah226 Lol. A straight guy will never be driven into the arms of another MAN. A woman, maybe.
It's happening to much. I wouldn't date now it's to dangerous. And then they turn out to be a nassicist as well it's bad enough they're gay but a narcissist also. It would be nice to have a companion but I'm not desperate.
A lot of DL men are not Gay. Gay men are only attracted to men. Most DL men are bisexual
my sentiments exactly!!
Older women, mostly widows are flattered when a younger man gives them attention and want to date them...their very naive esp. those who have not been expose to the games men play...they get hurt and sometimes end up lose alot of money before they catch on to it ain't just sex he wants.....and he dl...
So true! Women have to be careful at all ages. They are demons.
they have lower self esteem and most of the time desperate . They are easy targets for us
Christ!!! Ur so on point. The younger men who marry older women are mostly DL. I'm even suspicious of my husband.
Thank you Miss Faye You confirmed what I saw in many men I grew up with. I couldn't understand why they were not fond of me, but I realized they are on the down low and they knew I wasn't on the DL.
Hm. Extreme times - vigilance required. Self preservation necessity priority. Deceptive times indeed. Indicator one - the rise of covert animosity against women.
Back in 2016 When I first found out about Diddy, I started following him on social media. I thought he was the Bee's Knees. I didn't know that there was talk of Diddy and Will Smith being bisexual together. And now to see You Tube videos of Will Smith canoodling with Prince Hamdan of Dubai and Tyrese Gibson all laughing and having a good time makes me wonder.
Miss Faye, when we can laugh, instead of crying or not being bothered by these dysfunctional ☠👹🤡🎭🐍 people, we're healed & SURVIVORS of the toxicity! ESCAPED & LEARNED TO LOVE, PROTECT OURSELVES FOR THOSE WHO CHERISH OUR HEART & FEELINGS❣🦋🕊🦅😇🙌🙏⛑ FREEDOM!
As excepted and almost mainstream as it has become, I WOULD BE LIVID if someone didn't get real and own it
Miss Faye, did we have dealings with the same man !?😂😂😂 Yes he hated the sight and thought of homosexuals, 🤔. I was very naive about DL men , Misogynism and Narcissism. Thanks Miss Faye's World for educating women ❤
So true
When a DL man is highly critizing an openly Gay gentlemen, is he secretly making mental notes of where he was? Where he works so he can find him later? Or maybe the "hate" comes from wishing they had the courage to own it?. I have so many questions, did he other woman ever find out? His friends new Wife?
I feel like they are jealous because open gay men have the courage to come out.
When he likes to be around men all the freaking time 😮
They like to be around a lot of men and a lot men numbers in his phone 📱 and he has this one best friend who he stays in contact with on the dl.
Yup
It takes a long time to get over someone even for a man
The Holy Spirit show me,act like they hate gays,it’s just to throw you off,narcissist will do anything they are big enough to do,keep your eyes open,no shame in there games,the devil has them.💔
I was suspicious about this guy after i met his "best friend" who was acting hella jealous. Serious side eye. Never touched dude and he keeps asking why im not attracted to him.
Wow, scary world. Very informative Miss Faye. Thank you so much.
Thanks Ms Faye for your Time & Wisdom. Looks are deceiving😮😮 Omg
Fraternities help them get high paying jobs in the future from what I’ve heard about the Greek life.
Unbelievable 🤦🏽♀️
Blessings to you Miss Faye for looking out for all of us!!! We love you ❤💕🌺🌻❤️
Movie called love an deceit she caught him act on job ladies becarul who you let in your circle most married men are on down low don't get it twisted looks will fool you
Where to watch this ?
We are a few a man that is around a Man too much at awkward times at that that's a sign is for real. Play attention when you're out with your man where does his eyes follow you can't help with your eyes attracted to so pay attention to what he's looking at when you're out try to observe just randomly. If the same dude come up on that phone a lot for sure.
Who you chose to lay with is your business as long as it is not affecting my life, and it is not being pushed on me and children, people are going to do what they want anyway so hating them is not going to do anything.
A Man living a double life is their choice.They don't have the right to deceive people.Everything done in the dark comes to the light.
Oh and I feel like he hated women! It was like he had a revenge for women! And don’t be smart and confident, Troy really despised you then!
Bingo🎯
Yup
I think my brother is DL. He criticized that "community" as well.
how so?
Why is your brother lying to family about being gay ?
Grand Rising Queen ❤❤❤❤peace and blessings, Namaste 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
College! No no miss Faye…. It starts as early as high school I suspect after my last ex talked to me about the “cookie game”. I had no idea what in the lowest of hells that even was.. and I wish I hadn’t. That’s how I knew he was DL.
What is the cookie game?
Yes maam🥴
Post high school and the #metoo generation brought forth the boys who were "getting bullied" but in actuality sexually abused and written off as "being boys"😃
@@lenebrantley221 it's a game where a group of men stand around a cookie touching themselves 🍆💦 and the last man to finish has to eat the cookie 😢
What’s the cookie game!?
Some Lil boys have tendency as they progress through public schools also.
I knew back in the day some men would watch the soap operas when they worked the grave yard shift they wasn't gay that i knew of . Now adays you just can't tell. That's how i feel.
@henriettawyatt2713 you can tell if a man is closet gay because he will have a man for a friend and he will be Homophobic and that is the number one sing that he is closet gay or Bisexual like everyone I found out about so far everyone that is Homophobic are down low men and I don't care what Color they are all of them
I really don’t see what the benefit is in trying to find a man with all the things a woman needs to worry about. It’s just way easier to be single. ATP, the smallest thing will make me run smh
Wow I just said this to one of my friends
A friend told me about how some men in groups do and l said you got to be kidding. I'm was wrong.💯
The aunts be knowing.. the narc I dated hated his mother but was very close to his aunt by marriage. She would always drop hints and jewels about him and how he do. I had a feeling he was curious about men because he had a male best friend that he was always on the phone with, would give him money, and let him take advantage of him all the time. I thought their friendship was very strange and questioned it all the time. Of course that made me look like the jealous GF, but that wasn’t the case. I wanted to know what I was getting into.. He was also addicted to porn and stayed in those sex toy shops. I cringe at the thought that I was ever with this creature, knowing everything I was told and saw with my own eyes. OH, and yes, he was always outwardly irritable when a gay man was in proximity to us.. not to mention, he’s an over the road truck driver and is out there in that strange world… I wish we could expose these creatures on these platforms so everyone can be forewarned… be careful ladies 🙏🏾
The shops you mentioned AND truck drivers are notorious for 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈 men to hook up-- the shops have rooms and the truck drivers in bathrooms, on the road or other hook up spots
They LOVE to frequent "adult bookstores", "gym", "YMCA" (it's more than a song), boys trips out of town, Bangkok & Thailand (full of "lady boys"), gay clubs, etc. Girlfriends & wives have NO clue what is really going on with their man. They will always use a woman as a "beard" (cover) to keep any suspicion down among family, friends, and co-workers.
I just read a story last night about a WM married man with 3 kids, who used to frequent gay bars in his area, bring them back to his farm in Indiana, and "murt" them after s3x while the wife & kids were away at her parents house. The little boy found a human skull in the yard, told his mom, she called the police. They found over 10,000 human remains of men who were missing since 1993. "TRUST NOBODY" (Tupac Shakur)
OMG. My ex went out of his way to get a two-bedroom apt for him and his best friend instead of just a one bedroom apt for himself. I thought he was just big-hearted but nope! DL. He told me this story when we first met because his friend REFUSED to live with him in the apt.
@@jessicaberry87oh my, I heard this same story from the man I am dating. He also said when him and his best friend live together that they wrestle every morning. Men wake up rock hard, so why would he wrestle another in the morning?! They salty talk every day, gossip and his friend was mad I was there the other night. He kicked my shoes to the side because I refuse to go upstairs so they can be alone. I’m leaving this guy. I believe I have seen enough.
@@adelinethomas8625 GET OUT!!! And leave quietly. No confrontation, no scene.. just disappear and never go over there again. They can have eachother
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Right they need wife or girlfriend to covert the other side of his nasty disgusting behaviors
She was trying to tell you in a polite way😮
Like love and hip-hop because those types of shows are really geared towards women watching them so if a guy gets into it, it kind of like gossip
Thank you for your affirmation daily!!!
Very good video. Take heed ladies. Great video Ms. Faye.
While my son was in high school there was a sex.Ed class and he came home laughing because 30% of the girls came out as gay.
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Thank you for covering this subject and speaking so plainly.
Do DL men have "porn addiction"?.. MsFaye.. Keep enlightening us.. Your jst awesome👍👏😊❤.. Thank you❤🌹🙏 for mentoring us❤
YES they do
YESSS
Zesty Kirk Franklin is a prime example.
@@giggles1219😂
Thanku y'all for confirmingthis.. Sending❤❤❤❤❤ n good vibes... Peace and light
Very good knowlage,on the earth girls feel safe after looking your vidio
Ms. Faye, you are so spot on! Your experience is soooo exactly similar to what I KNOW NOW!!!❤❤❤😮😢
Hey Ms Faye how are you doing I am well watching replay love your channel and spirit great advice wisdom ladies listen to this wise lady loving single we love you thanks for sharing blessings ❤️
Good Morning Blessings.
Happy Wednesday.
She right - DL men do run through women and date white women - and look at Love and ship Hop type shows she’s right 💯 I know for a fact
If someone hurt you and lie get over it and live your life cause you will never know
She's so pretty and l love this podcast 😊
Men are smarter now they know not to come off homophobic and say that’s there life … but THEY ARE ! They wanna hear your opinion I’m a christian so I don’t hate gay ppl just the sin… but anyway yeahhh ur spot on lol
The auntie knew.
Thank you!!💕
Miss faye needs to talk about on and off relationships a how its the worst
Make straight being great again. Society
I love you Ms. Faye and thank you!
GOD Didn't make Adam & Steve, but Adam & EVE!
Actually, the first woman's name was Chuah and not Eve for evil.
There’s nothing wrong with being gay but just be honest with yourself and don’t involve women or create children with them.
I think the thing is a lot of reality shows like Housewives and/or Love & Hip/Hop allow women to gossip amongst each other. So it is strange for a man to watch the show alone.
I dated a guy that would watch the Bachelor 😂
I was married to man on DL and found out after 22 yrs marriage. My ex was also homophobic or pretended to be. He was also narcissistic - thank God I awakened and started a spiritual journey that caused me to make many changes - I’m so much happier - (he is white.) they call us wives “his beard “. I said no too…through the married years I kept dismissing the thought “maybe he is gay”. I wish I listened to that thought, but it’s ok. Things happen at the time it has to happen. My kids were adults and out of the house and I’m grateful for that. I’m also Empath ❤.
I'm about to get married Friday but I'm here watching these videos It's this one particular friend that he seems like he in love with.I have seen him eyeball gay men at drive thru places,seen a gay man text his phone and say are you going to send me a friend request but he didn't respond. I looked up the number it was an openly gay man.Time past we ended up at the same store this man worked at.I acted like I didn't know or see anything.They locked eyes and was doing the most trying to be seen by him..I don't really want to marry him because we already done had cheating problems with women.I think he gay.
If they are that way inclined you will most likely see the jealousy comin from the hatred their man friends have for you they act like u said a jealous female cuz basically they are bro mances yeah right 😂😂😂😂
That happened to me. My ex had a male friend and his male friend used to try to make fun of me. Then, towards the end of my relationship with my now ex, another man kept phoning my then boyfriend. My then boyfriend would leave my home quickly and go to see this person. He said that the new male friend had accommodation and that he was moving in. My ex wouldn't take me to where he had moved into, which was not his usual behaviour. Soon after, i ended the relationship for good and i had tests at a clinic. Thank goodness i am still clean! I found out that he was bi sexual. That was just over 7 years ago and my life has been so much better since. He always sponged off me and wasn't a provider. Lacked the masculine instincts. After i split from my ex i found out that he had been cheating on me with this man, that he allegedly took lodgings with. It really screwed my head up for a while. I felt that it was a strange kind of betrayl, being cheated on for another man and not a woman. I am so much happier now! I am more on my guard. I am celebate and striving to work hard on my spiritual journey!
At the end of this I learned alot thank you
I KNEW THIS MAN WAS ON THE DL
Mommy love happy to know u and real talk u reAl woman.♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️ U been through a lot but we learn lesson god power is great.♥️♥️♥️
The ad before you, was all lies, thank you 🙏🏿 for your information ❤
Thanks for the Wisdom Beautiful Queen Miss Faye...👑🥰❤️
I've got a question Ms.FAYE...you mentioned MASONS....what do you know about EASTERN STARS?I'VE been curious about them for years....
They all dl
Thanks!
Very good information for girl who goes to choose the husband😊
Its time for the discussion to be about downlow women and when the man finds out some women think that the man should be ok with it because its 2 women right?, its supposed to be seductive right?, well wrong.. this too is a sin just the same..no one's talking about that
Good afternoon Ms Faye
Hey Ms Faye great vid..I learned a lot.. thank you❤
I have been wondering for avery long time as to what keeping a "Debonair" Magazine hidden from all "eyes👀👀👀" actually mean... Would you please shed some light on this.. Ms Faye.. Am eternally grateful to you for all rhat you do for us Thanku so much❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉
Are you saying DL down low is ...being gay?
First time i hear this term...
I felt some strong energy from other guys it almost took over my whole mind...
Sceared me abit..and im a "straight dude"...hehehe secrets always comes out somehow
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Unfortunately I believe my boyfriend is one of them but I don't know what to do.See I love him very much.
Dump Him u could get an STD.
She describes the last 2 guys I dated. Ugh 😮
I'm glad that you are free from these 2 lasts guys. You're way too beautiful to be with someone like that!
You have to watch the spirit around you
THEY'RE ARE WOMEN ON THE DOWN LOW TOO 🤗🤗🤗🤗
It's better then dl men they spread hiv
But men dont have problems with it, besides the topic is about men hating women. The DL men love their bros and somehow they hate women, I dont know why. And they even marry women!! Straight women wont want to deal with that mess. The video is for women who must be aware of these people and spot them easily so we can not get involved with them