Changing Your Husband | Holly Furtick

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  • Опубліковано 29 гру 2022
  • We all have things we wish our husbands would change. But oftentimes we take our complaints to the wrong person.
    This is a clip from my marriage study, "Becoming Mrs. Betterhalf." This study is available now for you to do with your small group! Just head to hollyfurtick.com/studies for details.
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  • @amyfretz3387
    @amyfretz3387 Рік тому +30

    My situation is not going to determine my mood. This message is good and I have a lot to work on. My heart wants to be reconciled with my husband of 20 years. Please pray my husband’s heart would change from seeing me as all bad to someone who is worth trying again with. I did all of these things, fluctuating moods, negative, even somewhat of a nag,etc.. living separately from him and my teens I’m a changed woman. I know how to surrender to Christ. He doesn’t want to do marriage counseling. Please pray I would keep changing and God would soften his heart to seeing value in me and our marriage. His heart needs softened too. We need a God sized miracle for both our teen son and my husband to want me and our marriage. I’m trusting God for the miracle of restoration.

    • @katiejane6761
      @katiejane6761 Рік тому +4

      Praying for you and your family. 🥰

    • @olivialuehrs678
      @olivialuehrs678 Рік тому +4

      Amy, God hears you and your heart's prayer request. I will pray restoration alongside you! Your husband is blessed to have an honest, humble, willing-to-work-things-out wife like you! Your teen son is also blessed. May God bless YOU and your family, abundantly 🙏✝️♥️

    • @jessicawhitehead1261
      @jessicawhitehead1261 Рік тому

      Praying for you sister 🙏

    • @ginadelgado8670
      @ginadelgado8670 9 місяців тому

      I am right there with you. Praying for their hearts to soften and see how God has worked in you.

    • @pilarcastaneda1442
      @pilarcastaneda1442 9 місяців тому

      God will restore your Marriage.
      Trust and wait on God even in the hard times.

  • @OnlyJesusStudio
    @OnlyJesusStudio Рік тому +12

    Such a good teaching! "You can nag God." Even though I'm single, this is very helpful for when I'll meet my future godly husband 😊.

    • @zyonpaul626
      @zyonpaul626 4 місяці тому

      Hello Holly,I'm just seeing this today it's March of 20- 24 but it's right on time for me.. I do agree with another comment to please do more of these videos.i want to be positive and helpful to my husband with my words .as well as to others ,God bless you and pastor Steven and family.

  • @amandamarr460
    @amandamarr460 Рік тому +3

    Amen. Amen. Amen. My husband needs BIG changes. I've got him going to church and now I can leave him with God and get my hand out of it. Thank you Holly!!

  • @shawnamarez-spann1880
    @shawnamarez-spann1880 Рік тому +32

    Please do more videos like this! I so needed this more than ever right now. Thank you for sharing.

  • @sheelalokesh6979
    @sheelalokesh6979 Рік тому +3

    Blame is like a comforting blanket.

  • @bostonirishbear1346
    @bostonirishbear1346 8 місяців тому +3

    My husband has been out of the house for 2 months because he relapsed I have been praying to God every day all day he wakes up and gets help and comes home. He sees me as the enemy and it really hurt by things I’ve said in the past I’m reeling for the loss of my family. I am so depressed and constantly reaching out to him and am bombarding him with messages I am so scared to lose him forever. I want to save my marriage. I want to save my husband.

  • @charmainchavez9553
    @charmainchavez9553 Рік тому +6

    Wow, I may not be married am a widow however I will take this with me to my next when God gives me that opportunity. This is a very valuable teaching. Thank you and God bless you 🙏

  • @lindsayann290
    @lindsayann290 Місяць тому

    God has spoken through you to me today. I needed to hear this. I nag daily. I need to give my husband over to God. Thank you. ❤️🙏

  • @alfadivaperu4054
    @alfadivaperu4054 Рік тому

    Wow did I needed to hear all of this marriage. Thank you God, and thank you Holly for bringing this message to my ears.

  • @cindyleebruce7366
    @cindyleebruce7366 Рік тому +1

    Good Morning Pst Holly 😊 priveledged and grateful to call Elevation home. Pst Sreven & you are just so real. I am so pleased that God lead me to partner with two of the most amazing Christians who teach through the most relevant ways from a place of humility. May God richly bless you both 🙏🏻

  • @pattituron8510
    @pattituron8510 Рік тому +11

    Holly, I just love you and Pastor Steven (and your beautiful family, including the dog that Pastor Steven didn't want) Lol! My husband and I are blown away when we hear both of you give your messages from the Lord. You don't know it but God has been working through your ministry as we have been facing the most difficult season of our life for the past 3 years. We pray for you and your precious family and Elevation Church. Thank you, Holly ~ very good topic on our attitude and how God can make all the difference. I can't tell you how many times God has told me I need to change my attitude and let Him help me to turn it around. It really is a choice we make each day (and sometimes many times a day) My bestie has gone through so many struggles and I mean really hard things but she always has an attitude that chooses joy in Christ. Thank you for being relatable. That is one of the things that I love about you and Pastor Steven ~ you let us know that you struggle like everyone else and you point us to the one who can help us.

    • @nnekolo6183
      @nnekolo6183 Рік тому +1

      They are always very relatable; Pastor Steven Furtick and Pastor Holly Furtick ❤️. I thank God for their lives and ministry. I pray that God will continue to keep them, prosper them, grow them and change for the best, and for them to make heaven in Jesus Name, Amen 💖🔥

    • @Cburmood
      @Cburmood Рік тому

      😊😊

    • @Cburmood
      @Cburmood Рік тому

      😊😊

    • @amyskelton4302
      @amyskelton4302 Рік тому

      SOOOO TRUE!!!

  • @wyn-l6669
    @wyn-l6669 Рік тому

    Holly, I desperately needed to hear this message. Thank you so much for sharing. May God continue to bless you and your family and ministry.

  • @casadecalderon6065
    @casadecalderon6065 Рік тому

    This is so good! I listened with my husband and I have been becoming a nag and this teaching has helped me. Thank you! I am so glad Elevation is my church home all the way in New Mexico

  • @debbymaldonado3341
    @debbymaldonado3341 Рік тому +2

    Thank you for this message. I have been married for 41 years and I really needed to hear this.

  • @ashlycollier3860
    @ashlycollier3860 Рік тому

    Needed this SO MUCH! Thank you Pastor Holly!!! You are helping me so much in these studies

  • @marthabejarano8437
    @marthabejarano8437 Рік тому +1

    Good morning Happy New Year!!
    Thank you for doing this study!!! Loved how transparent you are. Thank you for helping us ladies to see our husbands in a more positive and understanding ways! ❤

  • @r_kithan1714
    @r_kithan1714 Рік тому +1

    Thank you Holly..this message was what I needed the most at this moment..

  • @alaynemullins1129
    @alaynemullins1129 Рік тому

    You and your husband are amazing and have helped me so much. I am so thankful for you both.

  • @wendymills4756
    @wendymills4756 Рік тому

    I need to start over!! Didn’t know about this but I will be joining and doing my homework because I need some positivity these days!❤🙏🏻

  • @jessicamelgar6359
    @jessicamelgar6359 9 місяців тому +1

    I just found this video and it was such a blessing. Thank you Pastor Holly❤

  • @randybarker8968
    @randybarker8968 10 місяців тому

    This is an absolute GOOD teaching ... thankyou.....

  • @lindasalernitano4654
    @lindasalernitano4654 Рік тому +1

    Excellent topic! So thankful for you Holly.

  • @shleeahuff3945
    @shleeahuff3945 Рік тому

    Great teachings for myself and future husband 😊. Thanks Holly!

  • @Silver-cl2bd
    @Silver-cl2bd Рік тому

    One of the greatest attributes of good pastoring is the ability to be transparent. You create a place of vulnerability and it allows us to be open as well! The ground is soft and God is able to work. This teaching hit home especially because I have been seriously seeking God about my marriage and my family. God heard, and He led me straight to this upload at just the right time. I needed this! I've been married for 18 yrs now. I have two teen boys and a young daughter. 💗

  • @rebeccamorin7137
    @rebeccamorin7137 8 місяців тому

    Thank you Holly, this was very insightful. Some of it I already knew but didn’t apply it. But now I’m ready and excited to put it into action.

  • @InGodITrust3
    @InGodITrust3 Рік тому +2

    Love your videos! You are a Godsend!! ✝️ Exactly what I needed to hear! CONFIRMATION!!

  • @justjessica7744
    @justjessica7744 9 місяців тому

    This is incredible. Thank you for this.

  • @triciaselio6278
    @triciaselio6278 Рік тому

    From Auckland New Zealand .. Thank you Lord … I’m all in ✝️🙏🥰

  • @elizabethquiles1085
    @elizabethquiles1085 9 місяців тому

    I needed this !!

  • @oluwakemiadesanya1935
    @oluwakemiadesanya1935 Рік тому +2

    Thank you for this session! Happy new year in advance!

  • @cathyschneider6640
    @cathyschneider6640 10 місяців тому

    I’m still all in this is my first time and I have enjoyed this study with you so much. Thank you.

  • @lorrettasimpson349
    @lorrettasimpson349 Рік тому

    This is so good! Thank you Holly.

  • @Stephanie_Louise
    @Stephanie_Louise 9 місяців тому

    Wonderful! Exactly what I needed to hear from a Godly woman who has the kind of marriage I’d like to cultivate. Thank you for your ministry! ❤❤❤

  • @Tanitalks
    @Tanitalks 9 місяців тому

    This was so good Holly. I had to come back to it today to get myself back on track ❤

  • @nancy50567
    @nancy50567 10 місяців тому +1

    I feel like my father, My Lord and Savior speaks to me through you and your husband every day that I listen every minute every hour keep doing what you’re doing you’re amazing!

  • @cherylbracey420
    @cherylbracey420 Місяць тому

    Im so Thankful to God for pastors holly and steven furtick...AMEN

  • @eliskupale7268
    @eliskupale7268 9 місяців тому

    That was worthwhile. Thanks Holly.

  • @lorihall3411
    @lorihall3411 9 місяців тому

    I loved this so much! Thank you Holly! I’m doing this at home BUT ALSO I feel like I nag my middle school students at times(especially a certain challenging period!)!! This bracelet challenge could be done in the workplace as well! Thank you again!

  • @wendyst.julien1219
    @wendyst.julien1219 10 місяців тому

    Thank you Pastor Holly, you have saved me a marriage counseling session ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @venetraroberson2539
    @venetraroberson2539 Рік тому +2

    Avoid negative less despair Praise God

  • @eniolaadeeko9727
    @eniolaadeeko9727 Рік тому

    Thank you, Pastor Holly!

  • @Nakiyo11
    @Nakiyo11 Рік тому

    I really love and needed this. Going to find me a bracelet now

  • @mariafernandavila
    @mariafernandavila 9 місяців тому

    You are an awesome incredible loving teacher ❣️ Thank you ‼️

  • @marydailey312
    @marydailey312 Рік тому

    Thank you, Pastor Holly I really appreciate you sharing these awesome videos with us. Pastor Steven and you are such a beautiful example of teamwork, love, and dedication.l love watching how it takes root in your children and the community! God Bless you ❤🙏🌍☮

  • @shermmickaadepoju2899
    @shermmickaadepoju2899 Рік тому

    So good so glad I found this I made all these mistakes but now I’ve learned something!

  • @bingc7145
    @bingc7145 Рік тому

    Wow this message really hit me. Like God speaking through you exactly about my current thoughts and situation. Came on UA-cam to listen to a song and this was the first thing that came up before I searched. Too funny. Thank you Holly, love you! ❤️❤️🙌🙏

  • @KathyJones-cs5ie
    @KathyJones-cs5ie Рік тому

    This was fantastic teaching.

  • @priscillabutler2254
    @priscillabutler2254 Рік тому

    I really appreciate hearing this info about men/husband. Thank you

  • @Mandachu85
    @Mandachu85 10 місяців тому

    Thank you so much Holly for this Message

  • @selenamae
    @selenamae Рік тому

    Amen!! Only midway through but this is so helpful & comforting. Thanks Holly🤍

  • @jacquelinecurry4912
    @jacquelinecurry4912 10 місяців тому

    Yes- amen! My attitude takes everyone down

  • @victoriaplummer7618
    @victoriaplummer7618 10 місяців тому

    So good Holly!!!! 🔥

  • @breekalonda2957
    @breekalonda2957 Рік тому

    I’m with you Holly! I live this

  • @perezevelyn3385
    @perezevelyn3385 8 місяців тому

    I needed this so much thank lord God bless you and family Paster Holly 🙏❤️

  • @PearceTiffany
    @PearceTiffany Рік тому

    I absolutely love this!!! Amen

  • @HotterChocoLate
    @HotterChocoLate Рік тому

    I needed this Holly

  • @munchkinelf
    @munchkinelf Рік тому +1

    Great Word Holly 💝

  • @diamondleshay2053
    @diamondleshay2053 Рік тому

    I’m still all in! 🙏🏽

  • @christinestone7732
    @christinestone7732 9 місяців тому

    Amen. Im right with you. God revealed to me that I needed to change my attitude my husband is an incredible man so I had to work on myself God has been working on me. ❤️🙏

  • @nomatmsaqalungu442
    @nomatmsaqalungu442 8 місяців тому

    Thank you Pastor Holly

  • @Babymommalove
    @Babymommalove 9 місяців тому

    I truly needed to hear this wish I would have heard this 9 months ago! I'm truly changing me 110%%! I mean that! I LOVE YOU HOLLY I SUBSCRIBED TO YOU! CANT WAIT TILL YOUR NEXT LIVE ! CAN YOU HAVE STEVEN DO ONE ABOUT husband's? Just curious. ❤❤❤ I love yall! God bless yall
    They say you can make something changed by doing it 21 days in a row ... today I start my change for me and my family!! Yesss no more negativity! I wish I would have started following God closer sooner! Better later than never and I'm so thankful that at 30 he can have me changing in ways I never thought I could or needed too and NOW I KNOW what I need to do. ❤❤ I'm so greatful!

  • @essie_ug
    @essie_ug 10 місяців тому

    Am loving this

  • @madelinerichardson7480
    @madelinerichardson7480 Рік тому

    Thank you for Sharing with a caring heart.

  • @marthabejarano8437
    @marthabejarano8437 9 місяців тому

    Great advice

  • @priscillabutler2254
    @priscillabutler2254 Рік тому

    I’m here with you!

  • @BoxerDog4life
    @BoxerDog4life Рік тому

    Goodmorning! Love y’all 🖤

  • @lovemxoxo8435
    @lovemxoxo8435 Рік тому

    Thank you Holly, love you. Pastor Steven is a wonder person, and yes!, who cares about all the negative things posted. You are very beautiful. Wow! this is a powerful topic, I appreciate you sharing this. God is great. Much love❤

  • @thobydee4892
    @thobydee4892 Рік тому

    Yoooooo Holly didn't come to play... Thank you Holly super helpful God bless

  • @djwalker8017
    @djwalker8017 Рік тому +1

    I’m still all in 🧡

  • @yvonnemitchell5547
    @yvonnemitchell5547 10 місяців тому +1

    I'm a single mom No man No husband I raised my Son with no Husband 🎉 The Lord was his dad. I get You Totally Here 😊

  • @shermmickaadepoju2899
    @shermmickaadepoju2899 Рік тому

    I’m still all in!

  • @mamadukeshetriedit.
    @mamadukeshetriedit. 3 місяці тому

    Holly, thank you. I'm sending God more of my thoughts. I have put a wall up, and I need to level it

  • @ItzYoFavGurl
    @ItzYoFavGurl Рік тому +2

    I'm the first, Love this beautiful church ⛪️ 😍

  • @hopeinphilly7076
    @hopeinphilly7076 Рік тому

    AMEN, I am totally here

  • @roxannebrown9448
    @roxannebrown9448 Рік тому

    Soooo with you girl!

  • @Stephanie_Louise
    @Stephanie_Louise 9 місяців тому

    Challenge accepted- lots of love from California Thank you again❤

  • @randybarker8968
    @randybarker8968 10 місяців тому

    PREACH ,.... THANKYOU, !!!

  • @allisonb.8492
    @allisonb.8492 Рік тому

    Love listenting to you Holly!! and LOL to wrinkles! I AM RIGHT THERE W YA!

  • @crystalrodriguez3122
    @crystalrodriguez3122 Рік тому +1

    Is there a video on changing your husband? I would love to get your hubby's take from the other vantage point. You are marvelous! I loved this.

  • @teresabranton8903
    @teresabranton8903 Рік тому

    Gm.
    This is very good teaching, thank you .

    • @melaniemartin730
      @melaniemartin730 Рік тому

      Indeed!🧖🏻‍♀️🧖🏻‍♀️🧖🏻‍♀️

  • @zyonpaul626
    @zyonpaul626 4 місяці тому

    Hi holly this is angie cann i just commented and released im on my son in lows acount 😂❤ so i thought i needed to explain.god bless you

  • @shermmickaadepoju2899
    @shermmickaadepoju2899 Рік тому

    Amen I’m with you!

  • @wombakazembe6610
    @wombakazembe6610 Рік тому

    Am with you on this one

  • @charmainchavez5179
    @charmainchavez5179 10 місяців тому

    thank you so much Holly I am not married yet nor have a boyfriend at the moment. However I have and was a terrible nag. I love this and am looking forward to having a forever husband soon and this was great to hear and learn from. I look forward to the next session. God Bless you 🙏

  • @eventideservices2411
    @eventideservices2411 6 місяців тому

    Oh I’m still with you❤

  • @gabrielaarroyo481
    @gabrielaarroyo481 Рік тому

    Im with you sister !

  • @Nakiyo11
    @Nakiyo11 Рік тому +1

    This fed my soul and I'm not even married

  • @lafeymwale1788
    @lafeymwale1788 Рік тому

    Amen. This is so true

  • @moonpie333
    @moonpie333 Рік тому

    I'm with you !!

  • @angelareyes5070
    @angelareyes5070 10 місяців тому

    Amen 🙏🏼 I’m with you!

  • @RiahRino
    @RiahRino Рік тому

    Love you Pastor Holly

  • @user-xf1fz6bt8j
    @user-xf1fz6bt8j 10 місяців тому

    Amen, Amen Pastor Holly🙏

  • @trisheastman3898
    @trisheastman3898 Рік тому

    Amen, I’m with you

  • @nicolekeefer
    @nicolekeefer Рік тому

    I’m still all in 💜

  • @kristywickenhauser7743
    @kristywickenhauser7743 Рік тому

    I am still all in.

  • @Mochafondue
    @Mochafondue 9 місяців тому

    I’m with you ❤

  • @SofiaMatheuz
    @SofiaMatheuz Рік тому

    This is wisdom from God

  • @aletbetter5520
    @aletbetter5520 11 місяців тому

    Amen I'm here

  • @maryalicegarza4949
    @maryalicegarza4949 Рік тому

    Don't mold yourself to situations in life. Easier said than done believe !! I'm living proof.

  • @mamadukeshetriedit.
    @mamadukeshetriedit. 3 місяці тому

    I'm all in