Kevin Love is so courageous for speaking about his experiences. He’s helping a lot of people by being vulnerable. I hope he gets better, and he should know he’s already a hero for many.
You’re so right, it does take a lot of strength to be able to speak about your insecurities and dark times. He’s a role model for people and showing that you can overcome your issues.
I've been dealing with what he's talking about for some time. What he said about it being "exhausting" to just exist resonated with me more than anything anyone has said but I understand the anxiety and OCD that's concomitant with it is the reason why it feels like that.
@@mysticmac5555 try talking to someone (parents,friends,girlfriend) It’s not a cure but it does help to talk way to many of us men suffer in silence stay strong 💪
@@giantsfan1259 thanks brother, I do talk to a couple of ppl close to me and it does help but ultimately it comes down to the day to day battle with it. God bless!
@@Daniel-xu1xcBrother, by you analogy, Jesus Christ came also after Moses(peace be upon them) by about 500 years(more or less), so we have to be Jews and neglect the new testament? But Muslims believe in Noah, David, Soliman, Jesus Christ, Moses, Mohamed and all great prophets sent from God to all humans to guide them to Islam, "Islam means the submission and surrender to the One Great Creator"
That is a good argument, but the difference is Jesus was prophesied numerous times throughout the entire old testament and fulfilled prophecy instead of changing it Here's Isaiah 53 Who has believed our message? And to whom has the arm of the LORD been revealed? He grew up before Him like a tender shoot, and like a root out of dry ground. He had no stately form or majesty to attract us, no beauty that we should desire Him. He was despised and rejected by men, a man of sorrows, acquainted with grief. Like one from whom men hide their faces, He was despised, and we esteemed Him not. Surely He took on our infirmities and carried our sorrows; yet we considered Him stricken by God, struck down and afflicted. But He was pierced for our transgressions, He was crushed for our iniquities; the punishment that brought us peace was upon Him, and by His stripes we are healed. We all like sheep have gone astray, each one has turned to his own way; and the LORD has laid upon Him the iniquity of us all. He was oppressed and afflicted, yet He did not open His mouth. He was led like a lamb to the slaughter, and as a sheep before her shearers is silent, so He did not open His mouth. By oppression and judgment He was taken away, and who can recount His descendants? For He was cut off from the land of the living; He was stricken for the transgression of My people
When Kevin said "Sometimes I feel like a fraud because I didn't achieved enough" I felt that really hard, sometimes I don't believe in my self and my capabilities like other people do, and that makes me feel so useless, big ups for Kevin for opening up about this difficult time in his life, we all can learn from him.
There needs to be a Mental Health Awareness month in the NBA and all other sports. People see it as weakness and that’s gotta change, can’t keep ignoring this problem.
looks fame and money never brought happiness in the first place, its society that makes us think that but when we look at it logically, if im unhappy, will looking good fix that? no, will money fix that? maybe temporarily but in the long term no, will fame fix that? definitely no. Only love can do something but it can also destroy you
Kevin Love will go down as one of the most impactful basketball players in history. When he lays his head down on his pillow, I hope he feels proud of the conversation he started...
Everyone thinks being an in shape multimillionaire will bring happiness but the fact of the matter is that life is far more complicated than physically tangible gifts and anybody is susceptible to being a victim of severe depression and suicidal urges. Its an easy escape to ponder, but it's just such a terrible way to treat yourself. So many people out there need to be reminded that they are loved
@@whitneywilliams317 I am at my 40s. I cant say as kid i was depressed but more like sensitive... I figured out i am have special or fast perception of reality then others. When i cant change anything i go introvert whit existential and emotional problems. From 30 know i am all right i am not sick it is only mental status, i try to be happy being sarcastic or shooting baskets.
Kevin is doing so much in the field of Mental Health, Nothing but respect for him. It’s been an honour to be his fan. Thank you so much for this interview Graham, sending you all the positive vibes from India.
I hope all sport leagues decide to do a mental health awareness month so it can stop being such a taboo topic. It’ll give others confidence to reach out for help
Depression and social anxiety is a huge issue for so many of us. He’s resonating 100% with me with this interview. We all need to be strong and talk about this with our friends and family, even if they might not understand completely.
i am currently going through this rn i know there isnt any 100% cure for this but i will keep pushing thank you kevin for being brave enought to speak on it
i got goosebumps because it seemed he was talking about me :( it doesn't even feel good that someone else is experiencing similar stuff you go through. it is just sad. I want to give him a hug.
im going through a tough time too bro but we gotta keep our heads up for those important in our life im at the point where I’m living for them not myselg
To share to the world that he struggles with depression and anxiety knowing very well that there would be a ton of ignorant people who would ridicule him with things like "you have money how can you be depressed" is so brave. Him sharing gives others inspiration to share as well. He's helping so many people simply by sharing his battles. Anxiety and Depression do not care about wealth or social class, they can affect anyone and everyone. To anyone who struggles with mental health issues.. you are not alone. And you are DEEPLY cared for. Fight on kings and queens, fight on. ❤️
Everyone has to carry their package no matter what the life circumstances are. I'm utterly impressed that he has to deal with things like suicide and talk about it openly. 8 years ago a buddy from school which was super like popular and likeable told me in a random moment that he struggled with depression and suicide thoughts in the past and I couldn't wrap my head around the fact that a guy like this with an obvious good life had feelings like this. It later prevented me from taking my own life several times as I know that I'm not the first person that has to deal with this and that most of your external life circumstances aren't that important. I got my shit together, left addiction behind, still recovering but just one person opening to me saved my life. I hope this video saves a lot of peoples. It's always darkest before the dawn
as someone who’s attempted suicide and can have big social anxiety this gave me an understanding that not just regular people are effected depression, but even my idols. Thank you Kevin for giving me comfort it’s okay to have depression, and to open up to talk about it
I agree I’ve got my first job 6 months ago wasn’t aware of my social anxiety until around December last year I just thought it’s not normal to fear being in a social situation and to fear people and being around people it’s literally gotten to a point where I go to work for the money I force myself and it’s just hard man the way Kevin says he didn’t want to go out is how I feel about going out in general or to work I just don’t want to go to work so I’ve had to seek the help lately because this is somethings that’s ruining my life but I’m hoping I can get the help to overcome social anxiety not fully but to a point where I’m fine also I’m glad to see Kevin is speaking out and being open
While it sucks balls that he was/is going through this inspirational AF to hear such a high-level athlete really open up about their struggle. It shows that ANYONE can suffer with depression. This is a brave soul and makes me want to open more with the people that I love and love me. Mad respect. You got my love Love!
So much respect, Kevin. Thank you for talking about this. So many of us consider suicide at some point in our lives, dealing and moving forward from that is something that needs to become far more discussed and normalised. Every public figure that opens up in this way helps all of us to be less ashamed of this very real part of a lot of human lives.
Kevin, I used to live there. I was morbidly suicidal. I never ever imagined that I would still be alive today. I dealt with suicidal thoughts for over 35 years. It's been 15 years since I over came depression and you can too. Fifteen years Kevin with no bouts of depression or serious suicidal thoughts. I wish I knew you personally but you will be in my prayers brother.
@@JDHmac1195 this will sound crazy but when God was pulling depression away from me, I held onto it like Linus to his blanket. Depression was like a companion to me for so long a place to hide. I would be lying to you if I said I did it alone. I did find the courage to let it go but I needed God to intervene because I surely would be dead now. I also went to the hospital and stayed a few weeks.
I lost a lover to suicide and he said the same things. You feel like you're drowning and can't get a breath to relax or enjoy. He took his life while I was a way for a few days on a business trip. It took me years to accept what happened. It's torture for those left behind thinking they could have intervened. Hindsight is 20/20. Now I know at least what to look for but I'm no expert. Just still missing him 12 years later.
I needed to see this. I have been depressed recently. This covid has affected mine and many other people's mental health. I was already dealing with anxiety and a small form of depression. I just need to take it day by day. I must get rid of bad habits like watching xxx on the internet. Must keep fighting. Mad props for Kevin Love speaking his truth. He is saving lives.
Please do. Find out things that trigger you & try to avoid those. Be active. Get enough sleep. Talk to someone. Depression can be crippling. Please be safe 🙏🏼
I really enjoy Graham's approach to questioning. He knows how to apply just the right amount of pressure on the questions. Its not surface level but at the same time the interviewee doesn't shut down.
Hey Kevin! Stay healthy ma man, you brought to much joy to this world, you're my son's favorite basketball player. He was a real shy boy because he's really tall for his age but because basketball and you he overcame it, he tries to emulate you in the court all the time. He's now 12 years old and plays varsity basketball. You're still his favorite player man regardless of what happens. Thumbs up, so Kevin can see this.
Many years ago I have met depression and the worse part was not feeling happy anymore and thinking about bad things that could happen t me. Also, crying for no reason every night was the most painful feeling I have ever faced. I have started seeing some doctors and one of them has advised me to leave my apartment and to go back and live with my mom. This advice helped me a lot as I was sharing my thoughts and feelings with her every day and this made my mental health within one year to improve aloooot. After 2 years I went back to thank my doctors and he advised me to spend most of my time with beloved ones even if you are the busiest human being alive. Please if your facing mental health issues seek help immediately.
I’m in a psychiatric ward now with extreme depression and insomnia, I woke at 2.30 last night and couldn’t get back to sleep. Not sleeping properly for 8 weeks now. Been in hospital now for 4 days, hope I can recover. I feel like a terrible person. The days seem endless too. I’m in here because I didn’t feel safe at home, I am in here voluntarily
Notice how little eye contact Kevin makes while talking. He’s fighting through the “shame” of discussing it because he knows it has the potential to help someone. Kudos to the man.
It really helps when people like Kevin Love speak out. Especially being so honest about planning it. I’ve searched the same things on google. I would do it so casually like on the train to work in the morning. I watch these type of videos when I’m struggling. Thank you Kevin an best of luck to you an to any other people facing the same thing. Life it beautiful an worth living. Stay strong
All love to Kevin. What a wonderful role model he is. It would be nice to see more people with influence who struggle with mental health issues speak on it. It helps the countless people that are struggling in the shadows. Trying to hide it isn’t good and that’s why we have such an incredibly high suicide rate in America. It’s people like Kevin who can really contribute to a change in awareness and culture surrounding mental health struggles. Takes a real one to admit this to the world. Respect ✊🏻
It's kind of crazy that you get to see the physical relief that gradually happens after kevin speaks his mind and tells his story. Like he starts the interview kind of bent over and looking down and by the end he's making eye contact and smiling.
I went through some same stuff. After some years and therapy, i got along well better. Love and hugs to all of you, especially people with depression 💝. Stay as strong as you can, there might be always a hand to reach out - even in darkness ❤️
Graham, good job on this. Probing and respectful. Mr. Love...I'm one of those people watching this. And it's been an increasingly darkening 3 years. Thank you for speaking out about your own experience.
Been there...its hell. ..but your stronger when you come back....it takes every bit of strength...and if your sick it can take longer...GOD BLESS ALL WHO HAVE BEEN THROUGH THIS AND ARE STILL FIGHTING .....SOFT HUGS AND HAPPY THOUGHT FOR CHRISTMAS❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
This guy is one of my favourite players in the NBA! I love how he is so open about mental health issues, and I also love his off-court lifestyle! Kevin Love is a class-act!
Playing for the Cavs does that to a man. For real - good for Kevin for coming out about this. Extremely brave to do so as a public figure and athlete. It's hard for a lot of people to admit this to their family and friends, let alone the entire world. Hopefully Kevin is a catalyst for more open dialogue about depression and suicide in the sports world.
Thank you, Kevin, for sharing your vulnerability and for letting Athletes now that mental health matters! Hope you achieve all your goals, that you keep strong and maybe, that you can believe in a higher purpose making the world talk about this. Much love! Also a word for Graham on the way you have conducted the interview - a lot of sensitivity to the subject, without leaving the themes untouched but speaking of them in a very human way. Thank you, guys!
@@chaitanyasharma3420 No disrespect to Wolves fans bc I can't imagine it's an easy team to support but hasn't it kind of always been pretty grim? Even during the Garnett era, I don't remember many if any years they looked like contending.
@@Paperbagman555 We had the 2003 season with Garnett, Cassell, and Sprewell and that was it. Going all the way to the Western Conference Finals and that's remained our peak and honestly will remain our peak...
@@grifidj1063 That's right, I forgot about that season and the famous Cassell celebration lol. Sorry tho, been nearly two decades of disappointment. You have no faith in KAT or the future tho?
Thank u Kev. I feel the same way, getting basketball taken away from me started my suicidal thoughts 7 years ago and it still lingers even when things r doing great. U a real one brother💯 thank u
I really believe something traumatic happened in his childhood I really do probably something he’ll never tell us , But I hope Kevin gets the help he needs ❤️❤️❤️
Thankyou Kevin the stigma of depression and suicide is breathtaking friends family shun you isolation and a dark place is your only friend when your basketball job was taken it made it worse when I left my job for all the wrong reasons it put me with no reason to live my job was my life and too arrogant to know it
I’m there... can’t get out of bed.. haven’t cleaned in idk how long.. the thought of getting evicted and having no money is ridiculous... (my dad committed suicide) and he had a lot more to lose than me.. I can see why he did it now... he had so much to lose and I have nothing.. my family would probably have a sigh of relief when they hear I’m dead rather than hear I’m homeless and deal with the shame
That’s not true, it’s the depression it’s getting in your head and making you underestimate yourself and belittle your self esteem. Good things don’t come easy, so don’t give up, things WILL get better
Agree, although the reason they didn't get rid of him in 2018 when they were blowing it up after LeBron leaving is because he wanted to stay, so maybe he still wants to play in Cleveland
@@sethnewlin510 cause they were trying to compete for a playoff spot in 2019, which people forget. But, after going 0-5 they just blew it up. Stoped playing smith, shipped off korver, hill, hood, and fired Lue. And then love was stuck there. Even predictions going into that season was like I think bleacher report had them at 31-51. And management though they could compete for playoffs. There was not a blow it up mentally at first that's why loved stayed plus money.
Jesus Christ wow. Depression sucks but he has a purpose. I'm a just a dude surviving in comparison. Never would think someone like him would consider suicide.
I'm half surprised and half not suprised. Mental health is a very personal thing and can affect anyone in a myriad of different ways. Different points in life, perspectives, chemical imbalances, etc. So many different things. Me, personally, it's been a mental thing more than any chemical imbalance.
I’ve been suicidal. However my parents are old & id hate to devastate them. Plus I had a coworker killed himself. His memory only lasted a week. General consensus was mostly anger because he cowardly left 3 pre teen daughters to their mother that has poor health
Applaud Kevin Love for talking openly about this. People should realize that for an active basketball player like him, sharing this can actually cost a lot of money.
Think about it. Kevin is a Apex human in every way. Yet he still feels depressed and considers suicide. We have an economic system that creates this illness. Yet collectively we seem to be sliding back on progress. It’s so sad to see so many of us struggle with all the new technology and opportunities, there is something that we need all need to work on and that is mental well being. Calm, peaceful and positive is how I like to focus my mind.
I'm so happy for you. Being suicidal is not a requirement for depression. Whatever you are going through, I believe that if you hang in there, then you will be better for it. Your pain is very real. A person who is hurting any more than you does not invalidate your pain. Much love.
Thank you, Kevin. You are a very strong person. I am thankful that you are in our culture. I think you are necessary for the next generation. You will break so many curses that the next generation will never have to go through. ♥️
People like this using their platform to speak on some of the most important matters of this generation means more then putting a basketball through a hoop. Props to Love, following in the same footsteps as Metta World Peace. ♥️💯.
I know kevin love himself would never read this but if he did I would say "thank you so much Kevin for helping us normal people feel connected. Thank you for making me feel OK with being depressed. Thank you for helping me feel less like an isolated piece of shit and more like someone who is struggling with something that many other people struggle with. Thank you Kevin for being so brave"
Kevin Love is so courageous for speaking about his experiences. He’s helping a lot of people by being vulnerable. I hope he gets better, and he should know he’s already a hero for many.
You’re so right, it does take a lot of strength to be able to speak about your insecurities and dark times. He’s a role model for people and showing that you can overcome your issues.
But "vulnerable" and sensitive are two different terms ...
As long as it leads you to Christ, otherwise it’s worthless
right imagine make 40-60k a year and a guy maing 3x your money is sad
“Nothing haunts us more than the things we don’t say” k love is real for that
True that but we still aren’t gonna say them...
I've been dealing with what he's talking about for some time. What he said about it being "exhausting" to just exist resonated with me more than anything anyone has said but I understand the anxiety and OCD that's concomitant with it is the reason why it feels like that.
@@mysticmac5555 try talking to someone (parents,friends,girlfriend) It’s not a cure but it does help to talk way to many of us men suffer in silence stay strong 💪
@@giantsfan1259 thanks brother, I do talk to a couple of ppl close to me and it does help but ultimately it comes down to the day to day battle with it. God bless!
Money doesn't buy happiness. Mental health is so real.
The mental health is only in islam
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@@modytoto811 Islam came 600 years after Christ died for your sins.
@@koreypaul6698 stfu
@@Daniel-xu1xcBrother, by you analogy, Jesus Christ came also after Moses(peace be upon them) by about 500 years(more or less), so we have to be Jews and neglect the new testament?
But Muslims believe in Noah, David, Soliman, Jesus Christ, Moses, Mohamed and all great prophets sent from God to all humans to guide them to Islam, "Islam means the submission and surrender to the One Great Creator"
That is a good argument, but the difference is Jesus was prophesied numerous times throughout the entire old testament and fulfilled prophecy instead of changing it
Here's Isaiah 53
Who has believed our message?
And to whom has the arm of the LORD been revealed?
He grew up before Him like a tender shoot,
and like a root out of dry ground.
He had no stately form or majesty to attract us,
no beauty that we should desire Him.
He was despised and rejected by men,
a man of sorrows, acquainted with grief.
Like one from whom men hide their faces,
He was despised, and we esteemed Him not.
Surely He took on our infirmities
and carried our sorrows;
yet we considered Him stricken by God,
struck down and afflicted.
But He was pierced for our transgressions,
He was crushed for our iniquities;
the punishment that brought us peace was upon Him,
and by His stripes we are healed.
We all like sheep have gone astray,
each one has turned to his own way;
and the LORD has laid upon Him
the iniquity of us all.
He was oppressed and afflicted,
yet He did not open His mouth.
He was led like a lamb to the slaughter,
and as a sheep before her shearers is silent,
so He did not open His mouth.
By oppression and judgment He was taken away,
and who can recount His descendants?
For He was cut off from the land of the living;
He was stricken for the transgression of My people
When Kevin said "Sometimes I feel like a fraud because I didn't achieved enough" I felt that really hard, sometimes I don't believe in my self and my capabilities like other people do, and that makes me feel so useless, big ups for Kevin for opening up about this difficult time in his life, we all can learn from him.
This is the worst feeling in life especially when you know you have the potential for greatness, just not the drive.
Absolutely...
Well said Daniel.
It’s a somber reminder for me that a guy who seemingly has it all; looks, fame, money, love; still has pain.
There needs to be a Mental Health Awareness month in the NBA and all other sports. People see it as weakness and that’s gotta change, can’t keep ignoring this problem.
Luke agreed it’s definitely something we as men, not just in the nba, should be openly discussing
so true
looks fame and money never brought happiness in the first place, its society that makes us think that but when we look at it logically, if im unhappy, will looking good fix that? no, will money fix that? maybe temporarily but in the long term no, will fame fix that? definitely no.
Only love can do something but it can also destroy you
@@Tojohiruma so true
and i’m afraid it will destroy me
Kevin Love will go down as one of the most impactful basketball players in history. When he lays his head down on his pillow, I hope he feels proud of the conversation he started...
Everyone thinks being an in shape multimillionaire will bring happiness but the fact of the matter is that life is far more complicated than physically tangible gifts and anybody is susceptible to being a victim of severe depression and suicidal urges. Its an easy escape to ponder, but it's just such a terrible way to treat yourself. So many people out there need to be reminded that they are loved
No he won’t. He didn’t do shit for basketball that already has been done. No need to sugarcoat shit. He was good, but is ass lately.
Depression doesn't discriminate. It's one of our time's worst illnesses.
Yep, it knows no race, gender or social class. The more open we are in having discussions, the more awareness we have.
I've dealt with depression for 21 years and I'm 33.
@@whitneywilliams317 I am at my 40s. I cant say as kid i was depressed but more like sensitive... I figured out i am have special or fast perception of reality then others. When i cant change anything i go introvert whit existential and emotional problems. From 30 know i am all right i am not sick it is only mental status, i try to be happy being sarcastic or shooting baskets.
It’s the cancer of the soul
Kevin is doing so much in the field of Mental Health, Nothing but respect for him. It’s been an honour to be his fan. Thank you so much for this interview Graham, sending you all the positive vibes from India.
I hope all sport leagues decide to do a mental health awareness month so it can stop being such a taboo topic. It’ll give others confidence to reach out for help
Absolutely Luke, Apologies for late reply as I didn’t see it. Just came to know today. I hope you’re doing well. #mentalhealthmatters
I have no respect for the people who dislike this video. This shit is horribly scary to think about. This stuff is real.
Graham is on another level of interviewing
He really is !!!
@Richard Davis we all do
Wow, he really is.
Totally agree, I've not met a depression sufferer who hasn't had the thought cross their mind. Great interview
Depression and social anxiety is a huge issue for so many of us. He’s resonating 100% with me with this interview. We all need to be strong and talk about this with our friends and family, even if they might not understand completely.
i am currently going through this rn i know there isnt any 100% cure for this but i will keep pushing thank you kevin for being brave enought to speak on it
i got goosebumps because it seemed he was talking about me :( it doesn't even feel good that someone else is experiencing similar stuff you go through. it is just sad. I want to give him a hug.
Sending a virtual hug for you!
@@psychominded3243
im going through a tough time too bro but we gotta keep our heads up for those important in our life im at the point where I’m living for them not myselg
To share to the world that he struggles with depression and anxiety knowing very well that there would be a ton of ignorant people who would ridicule him with things like "you have money how can you be depressed" is so brave. Him sharing gives others inspiration to share as well. He's helping so many people simply by sharing his battles. Anxiety and Depression do not care about wealth or social class, they can affect anyone and everyone.
To anyone who struggles with mental health issues.. you are not alone. And you are DEEPLY cared for. Fight on kings and queens, fight on. ❤️
Abu Dhakal Thank you for your message
Everyone has to carry their package no matter what the life circumstances are. I'm utterly impressed that he has to deal with things like suicide and talk about it openly. 8 years ago a buddy from school which was super like popular and likeable told me in a random moment that he struggled with depression and suicide thoughts in the past and I couldn't wrap my head around the fact that a guy like this with an obvious good life had feelings like this. It later prevented me from taking my own life several times as I know that I'm not the first person that has to deal with this and that most of your external life circumstances aren't that important. I got my shit together, left addiction behind, still recovering but just one person opening to me saved my life. I hope this video saves a lot of peoples. It's always darkest before the dawn
as someone who’s attempted suicide and can have big social anxiety this gave me an understanding that not just regular people are effected depression, but even my idols. Thank you Kevin for giving me comfort it’s okay to have depression, and to open up to talk about it
I agree I’ve got my first job 6 months ago wasn’t aware of my social anxiety until around December last year I just thought it’s not normal to fear being in a social situation and to fear people and being around people it’s literally gotten to a point where I go to work for the money I force myself and it’s just hard man the way Kevin says he didn’t want to go out is how I feel about going out in general or to work I just don’t want to go to work so I’ve had to seek the help lately because this is somethings that’s ruining my life but I’m hoping I can get the help to overcome social anxiety not fully but to a point where I’m fine also I’m glad to see Kevin is speaking out and being open
While it sucks balls that he was/is going through this inspirational AF to hear such a high-level athlete really open up about their struggle. It shows that ANYONE can suffer with depression. This is a brave soul and makes me want to open more with the people that I love and love me. Mad respect. You got my love Love!
So much respect, Kevin. Thank you for talking about this. So many of us consider suicide at some point in our lives, dealing and moving forward from that is something that needs to become far more discussed and normalised. Every public figure that opens up in this way helps all of us to be less ashamed of this very real part of a lot of human lives.
Kevin, I used to live there. I was morbidly suicidal. I never ever imagined that I would still be alive today. I dealt with suicidal thoughts for over 35 years. It's been 15 years since I over came depression and you can too. Fifteen years Kevin with no bouts of depression or serious suicidal thoughts. I wish I knew you personally but you will be in my prayers brother.
How did you achieve that?
@@JDHmac1195 this will sound crazy but when God was pulling depression away from me, I held onto it like Linus to his blanket. Depression was like a companion to me for so long a place to hide. I would be lying to you if I said I did it alone. I did find the courage to let it go but I needed God to intervene because I surely would be dead now. I also went to the hospital and stayed a few weeks.
@@sadiqqdaoud4210 Amen, stat blessed ❤️
I lost a lover to suicide and he said the same things. You feel like you're drowning and can't get a breath to relax or enjoy. He took his life while I was a way for a few days on a business trip. It took me years to accept what happened.
It's torture for those left behind thinking they could have intervened. Hindsight is 20/20.
Now I know at least what to look for but I'm no expert. Just still missing him 12 years later.
lohphat Sorry for your loss. You have been a great friend to him ❤️. I can just tell
I'm very sorry
No one cares
@@eaten3405 stfu
@@eaten3405 dont be so insensitive and ignorant
I needed to see this. I have been depressed recently. This covid has affected mine and many other people's mental health. I was already dealing with anxiety and a small form of depression. I just need to take it day by day. I must get rid of bad habits like watching xxx on the internet. Must keep fighting. Mad props for Kevin Love speaking his truth. He is saving lives.
Please do. Find out things that trigger you & try to avoid those. Be active. Get enough sleep. Talk to someone. Depression can be crippling. Please be safe 🙏🏼
Watch Jesse Lee Peterson he cured my depression.
@@andreashields6983 Thank You for your concern. I appreciate it.
@@michaelgordonsaxophone who?
Hope you’re doing better ! I prayed for you
I needed to see this. Everyone out there struggling you’re not alone; we got this ✊🏽
Pray for me please brother ✊🏾❤️
🙏🏾🙏🏾
Hope he stays on the right path. Stay strong!
I really enjoy Graham's approach to questioning. He knows how to apply just the right amount of pressure on the questions. Its not surface level but at the same time the interviewee doesn't shut down.
Yeah, I like how he gets deep, but remains respectfully by not pushing too far.
Hey Kevin! Stay healthy ma man, you brought to much joy to this world, you're my son's favorite basketball player.
He was a real shy boy because he's really tall for his age but because basketball and you he overcame it, he tries to emulate you in the court all the time. He's now 12 years old and plays varsity basketball. You're still his favorite player man regardless of what happens. Thumbs up, so Kevin can see this.
This is Love’s biggest achievement with talking about mental health and helping so many people . That’s his championship ring . Thank you Kevin Love
Many years ago I have met depression and the worse part was not feeling happy anymore and thinking about bad things that could happen t me. Also, crying for no reason every night was the most painful feeling I have ever faced.
I have started seeing some doctors and one of them has advised me to leave my apartment and to go back and live with my mom. This advice helped me a lot as I was sharing my thoughts and feelings with her every day and this made my mental health within one year to improve aloooot. After 2 years I went back to thank my doctors and he advised me to spend most of my time with beloved ones even if you are the busiest human being alive.
Please if your facing mental health issues seek help immediately.
It's great you had family to fall back on! Great to hear you are in a better place too. Really happy for you.
Wow. Mad respect for his honesty. Ty Kevin.
I worked out today for the first time in a couple of months, I think I’m getting out of it
Love Kevin for opening up like this. I don't know about y'all but this for me is straight up courageous, with context in mind.
Depression is exhausting.
Kevin talking about this has been the most impactful for me, not just because it's him, but because of how genuinely he talks about it.
I’m in a psychiatric ward now with extreme depression and insomnia, I woke at 2.30 last night and couldn’t get back to sleep. Not sleeping properly for 8 weeks now. Been in hospital now for 4 days, hope I can recover. I feel like a terrible person. The days seem endless too. I’m in here because I didn’t feel safe at home, I am in here voluntarily
Graham, we all appreciate your interview style. Keep it up!
Yah! Ello
There are a lot of people who is going through the same pain we are there for eachother ❤️
Thank you for sharing It with us ❤️
Notice how little eye contact Kevin makes while talking.
He’s fighting through the “shame” of discussing it because he knows it has the potential to help someone. Kudos to the man.
I dont think he looks like hes ashamed to be honest. He looks like he's reminiscing.
Huge props for him coming out and speaking on this.
It really helps when people like Kevin Love speak out. Especially being so honest about planning it. I’ve searched the same things on google. I would do it so casually like on the train to work in the morning. I watch these type of videos when I’m struggling. Thank you Kevin an best of luck to you an to any other people facing the same thing. Life it beautiful an worth living. Stay strong
All love to Kevin. What a wonderful role model he is. It would be nice to see more people with influence who struggle with mental health issues speak on it. It helps the countless people that are struggling in the shadows. Trying to hide it isn’t good and that’s why we have such an incredibly high suicide rate in America. It’s people like Kevin who can really contribute to a change in awareness and culture surrounding mental health struggles. Takes a real one to admit this to the world. Respect ✊🏻
This video is so relatable
Kevin Love fr deserves more respect
It's kind of crazy that you get to see the physical relief that gradually happens after kevin speaks his mind and tells his story. Like he starts the interview kind of bent over and looking down and by the end he's making eye contact and smiling.
The first thing to do when you are suffering from suicidal thoughts is to check if there is any unaddressed grief in your family lineage.
I went through some same stuff. After some years and therapy, i got along well better. Love and hugs to all of you, especially people with depression 💝. Stay as strong as you can, there might be always a hand to reach out - even in darkness ❤️
Graham, good job on this. Probing and respectful. Mr. Love...I'm one of those people watching this. And it's been an increasingly darkening 3 years. Thank you for speaking out about your own experience.
Been there...its hell. ..but your stronger when you come back....it takes every bit of strength...and if your sick it can take longer...GOD BLESS ALL WHO HAVE BEEN THROUGH THIS AND ARE STILL FIGHTING .....SOFT HUGS AND HAPPY THOUGHT FOR CHRISTMAS❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
This guy is one of my favourite players in the NBA! I love how he is so open about mental health issues, and I also love his off-court lifestyle! Kevin Love is a class-act!
Playing for the Cavs does that to a man.
For real - good for Kevin for coming out about this. Extremely brave to do so as a public figure and athlete. It's hard for a lot of people to admit this to their family and friends, let alone the entire world. Hopefully Kevin is a catalyst for more open dialogue about depression and suicide in the sports world.
You will help a lot of people by sharing your story
Thank you, Kevin, for sharing your vulnerability and for letting Athletes now that mental health matters! Hope you achieve all your goals, that you keep strong and maybe, that you can believe in a higher purpose making the world talk about this. Much love! Also a word for Graham on the way you have conducted the interview - a lot of sensitivity to the subject, without leaving the themes untouched but speaking of them in a very human way. Thank you, guys!
Graham is the best in the business hands down, I always take something away from every interview.
Whats sad is society doesnt care about depressed men
Is it from toxic masculinity?
I'm a huge basketball fan and to hear this from one of the greats show how he is getting through it helps out a lot
I really appreciate Kevin speaking out on this.
"Nothing haunts us more than the things we don't say"
I've been on this slippery slope for awhile...The mind is so powerful but always seems to focus on the negative!!
This dude did so much for the Wolves and we didn’t do anything for him. Was so happy when he finally got a ring.
Wolves has become a dark team for players
@@chaitanyasharma3420 No disrespect to Wolves fans bc I can't imagine it's an easy team to support but hasn't it kind of always been pretty grim? Even during the Garnett era, I don't remember many if any years they looked like contending.
Yet thatwasn't enough
@@Paperbagman555 We had the 2003 season with Garnett, Cassell, and Sprewell and that was it. Going all the way to the Western Conference Finals and that's remained our peak and honestly will remain our peak...
@@grifidj1063 That's right, I forgot about that season and the famous Cassell celebration lol. Sorry tho, been nearly two decades of disappointment. You have no faith in KAT or the future tho?
Thank u Kev. I feel the same way, getting basketball taken away from me started my suicidal thoughts 7 years ago and it still lingers even when things r doing great. U a real one brother💯 thank u
Thanks for speaking about this Kevin 🤍
I really believe something traumatic happened in his childhood I really do probably something he’ll never tell us , But I hope Kevin gets the help he needs ❤️❤️❤️
Probably
Thankyou Kevin the stigma of depression and suicide is breathtaking friends family shun you isolation and a dark place is your only friend when your basketball job was taken it made it worse when I left my job for all the wrong reasons it put me with no reason to live my job was my life and too arrogant to know it
I’m there... can’t get out of bed.. haven’t cleaned in idk how long.. the thought of getting evicted and having no money is ridiculous... (my dad committed suicide) and he had a lot more to lose than me.. I can see why he did it now... he had so much to lose and I have nothing.. my family would probably have a sigh of relief when they hear I’m dead rather than hear I’m homeless and deal with the shame
🙏🏾
That’s not true, it’s the depression it’s getting in your head and making you underestimate yourself and belittle your self esteem. Good things don’t come easy, so don’t give up, things WILL get better
Hope he get's traded to a contended, seems like a great guy
Agree, although the reason they didn't get rid of him in 2018 when they were blowing it up after LeBron leaving is because he wanted to stay, so maybe he still wants to play in Cleveland
@@sethnewlin510 I don't think he wants to play there anymore they just can't move him.
@@sethnewlin510 cause they were trying to compete for a playoff spot in 2019, which people forget. But, after going 0-5 they just blew it up. Stoped playing smith, shipped off korver, hill, hood, and fired Lue. And then love was stuck there. Even predictions going into that season was like I think bleacher report had them at 31-51. And management though they could compete for playoffs. There was not a blow it up mentally at first that's why loved stayed plus money.
Why doesn’t this have a million views?
I understand this. The quarantine is making it so much worse
Jesus Christ wow. Depression sucks but he has a purpose. I'm a just a dude surviving in comparison. Never would think someone like him would consider suicide.
Depression is real. I'm praying for Kevin Love.
Love you Kevin... You are not alone. Just reach out and lots of prayers love. Be strong and have faith. God be with you...🙏💗💗💗
This deserves millions of views! Tf
such a brave dude...everyone should watch this.....!!!!
Hmmm
We love you Kevin......
Guy said it won't solve itself by reaching more heights in career and to be honest this is something very very hard to take
I'm half surprised and half not suprised. Mental health is a very personal thing and can affect anyone in a myriad of different ways. Different points in life, perspectives, chemical imbalances, etc. So many different things. Me, personally, it's been a mental thing more than any chemical imbalance.
Me too.
Thank you K Love
Thank you Kevin.
I’ve been suicidal. However my parents are old & id hate to devastate them. Plus I had a coworker killed himself. His memory only lasted a week. General consensus was mostly anger because he cowardly left 3 pre teen daughters to their mother that has poor health
Applaud Kevin Love for talking openly about this. People should realize that for an active basketball player like him, sharing this can actually cost a lot of money.
@@maggielakin7071 He already talked about it years ago
@@maggielakin7071 Depression?
K Love is real. I feel your pain brother. Onward and upward.❤️
“Nothing haunts us like the things we don’t say.”
Think about it. Kevin is a Apex human in every way. Yet he still feels depressed and considers suicide.
We have an economic system that creates this illness. Yet collectively we seem to be sliding back on progress. It’s so sad to see so many of us struggle with all the new technology and opportunities, there is something that we need all need to work on and that is mental well being. Calm, peaceful and positive is how I like to focus my mind.
Thankfully after all my days being depressed, suicide has never been something I seriously considered
I'm so happy for you. Being suicidal is not a requirement for depression. Whatever you are going through, I believe that if you hang in there, then you will be better for it. Your pain is very real. A person who is hurting any more than you does not invalidate your pain. Much love.
1 of the best interviewers out there .... watched this dude when he had like only 10k subs.... I knew this guy would h big
Respect to K Love. I find him very inspiring
Wow this is way too relatable
Is it
Thank you, Kevin. You are a very strong person. I am thankful that you are in our culture. I think you are necessary for the next generation. You will break so many curses that the next generation will never have to go through. ♥️
That's so brave of him! Amazing guy! These things are bigger than sports!
I’m so happy he opened up makes it that much easier
We Love you so much K.Love trust me I’ve been there too more than a few times you will get through this my brother 🙏🏾
He’s so talented, handsome and intelligent
People like this using their platform to speak on some of the most important matters of this generation means more then putting a basketball through a hoop. Props to Love, following in the same footsteps as Metta World Peace. ♥️💯.
hang in their kevin im praying for you
Getting taken out of the starting lineup for a 36 year old Richard Jefferson has to be rough
I’m feeling it right now
I know kevin love himself would never read this but if he did I would say "thank you so much Kevin for helping us normal people feel connected. Thank you for making me feel OK with being depressed. Thank you for helping me feel less like an isolated piece of shit and more like someone who is struggling with something that many other people struggle with. Thank you Kevin for being so brave"
Graham lookin more buff, less poindexter these days
These had nothing to do with him.
@@pendingkj6782 I'm trying my best but am unable to understand your response
money doesnt equal happiness.
If you are going through depression and having difficulty coping I would recommend a book called The Desire of Ages. It will change your life ❤️.