Opening up about MENTAL HEALTH IN THE PHILIPPINES *raw*

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  • Опубліковано 27 вер 2024
  • It’s time to open up about MENTAL HEALTH in the Philippines. Things haven’t been easy for me from the beginning - and whilst we have totally fallen in love with being here in this wonderful country, there’s always self doubt, anxiety, imposter syndrome and sometimes bouts of depression. So life isn’t always easy. I just want to disclose that this video is not for you to feel sorry for me or my situation, or to pity me in any way - I’ve been battling with mental health for a long time now and it sometimes gets the better of me. The road to recovery is long but I know I’ll get there one day ❤️‍🩹
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 488

  • @AlvinAlmuete
    @AlvinAlmuete Рік тому +30

    In everything, there is yin and yang. Positive and as well as negative. Good weather and bad weather. Embrace the flaw and live each day one moment at a time.
    Let us learn from Ms. Universe Catriona Gray's winning answer "I work a lot in the slums of Tondo, Manila and the life there is poor and it's very sad. And I have always taught myself to look for the beauty in it; to look in the beauty in the faces of the children and to be grateful. And I will bring this aspect as a Miss Universe, to see situations with a silver lining."

  • @danguiam9000
    @danguiam9000 Рік тому +90

    You're not alone. Everyone has the same mental issues you go through once in a while. The best antidote is to take one day at a time. Forget about tomorrow, it may never come, and don't worry about yesterday, it's forever gone. Live and enjoy life one day at a time.

    • @wistlfamilyadventures
      @wistlfamilyadventures  Рік тому +23

      Thank you so much - I definitely have been reading and taking in each day in order to fully recover from each episode. It takes time unfortunately but I’m determined to keep trying ❤️❤️staying grounded and taking that advice is so important so thank you for that!

    • @simone222
      @simone222 Рік тому +5

      Well-stated, dan.

    • @anniepengosro8951
      @anniepengosro8951 Рік тому +5

      You did great!
      Having quality time with your family and beautiful kids outside
      Is a great way of coping.
      God Bless you Wistl family.

    • @rjgonzalez9220
      @rjgonzalez9220 Рік тому +9

      He's right. The past is history while tomorrow is a mystery, value your life to the fullest today, a gift. That is why it is called the present.

    • @MrEmpireBuilder0000
      @MrEmpireBuilder0000 Рік тому +1

      This is what I do whenever I feel blue.

  • @rmd743
    @rmd743 Рік тому +6

    Just three things I can recommend. 1. Just recognize problems, challenges and issues are normal. It's just how you handle and respond to it. Respond positively and you will learn from them.
    2. Have a "ME" Time each - both of you. Whatever you want to do and wherever you want to go once a month. The goal is to relax, recharge and re-empowered yourself so you make the right decisions emotionally and mentally. Add some meditation and prayers.
    3. Appreciate every single thing around your family and the places you've been and will be. Repeat the process with the mentality of " I SHOULD BE STRONGER THAN MY EXCUSES". And when you're exhausted, look at your kids- they're the reason why you guys are doing your goals and dream. God bless🙏 A proud pinoy watching you guys from San Francisco CA 🇺🇲. 🫶🇵🇭

  • @Bernabutters
    @Bernabutters Рік тому +14

    I don't really comment on videos very often, but I commented on one of your previous videos. I'm moving to the Philippines with my family next year, and I have found so much inspiration and hope by watching your videos. I relate to you so much. I have 2 little girls under 10, I love to knit, I'm passionate about plants and gardening, and I love anime (especially Ghibli!)...but at the same time I deal with mental health issues and depression. I don't know you or your family personally, but after watching your videos I feel like I already know you and like you're a friend.
    I appreciate your honesty and vulnerability. It's real and raw. I have a lot of anxiety regarding my upcoming move, but knowing that there is at least one other person in the world who knows how I feel makes me feel less alone. Thank you ❤️

  • @cdl6953
    @cdl6953 Рік тому +3

    Some of us here may be suffering too and not in a great mental state. You being honest about it and watching your vlogs regularly help us get away from ‘ourselves’ or ‘life’ - live vicariously through your lives as vloggers that is why we follow so many of you and just allow ourselves the entertainment and support your journey. For sure it is hard work to film and edit content and be creative about what to film not to mention expensive as you have to fund this yourselves. I hope it doesn’t come out harsh when people in the comment section start telling you guys where to go and this and that that you might feel being bossed around. Please do not worry about that. People are just excited for you to see and experience good things and a good life in the Philippines. Your channel is growing and by now you have a fan base who will always wait and watch for the next video. No pressure though! Allow yourselves the time to rest too as not everything has to be shared and you have your private lives too. Believe me when I say, we care about you and your family. Thank you for what you share with us. We appreciate you. Do take care of yourself and give yourself what you need and don’t let your health - physical or mental suffer. But us women, bec our hormones fluctuate, we experience ups and downs. If it helps, perhaps do some research on regulating hormones and I know Kev will support you with this. There is so much material now for us women to read/listen from doctors discussing about health esp perimenopause and menopause but you are too young for that. Just know we are here for you. 🙏🏻

  • @dinnosaur
    @dinnosaur Рік тому +1

    Don't be afraid to reach out and seek help if you need it. There are capable people here who help others dealing with mental health problems.
    UA-cam content creation can be a source of stress and pressure. Try not to put much in your analytics at the moment and let the channel grow organically. It will get there. Taking a break is always a good thing. I wish you well and continue to be your true self. Nothing more authentic than being yourself which includes the not so good stuff. We are all human. Flawed and imperfect.

  • @theodorelambert341
    @theodorelambert341 Рік тому +3

    20K subscribers soon that is wow. Keep going Becca, just look at your kids how adorable they are, spending quality with them is the best ever gift you can give to your family. Just enjoy the moment not everyday is the same keep moving, just enjoy the moment with your kids and family this is your source of inspiration and strength.

  • @mariapug
    @mariapug Рік тому +6

    I don’t suffer from depression, but my daughter does. I might not fully understand it but I know how devastating it can be. I watch your videos Rebecca because I you are an authentic and genuinely good person. You are blessed with a supportive husband and wonderful kids. That makes your like FULL. God bless.❤

  • @ricaherrera3856
    @ricaherrera3856 Рік тому +52

    Stay strong rebecca... just ignore all the comments stay positive all the time. we love your family road to 20k and soon to 100k

  • @anythinggoose8336
    @anythinggoose8336 Рік тому +10

    You don't need to please anybody. Just be yourself and you will be happy. Sometimes we think too much that makes our life complicated. I know from my experience, it is hard to live in other country. Embrace things, people the way it is. That is the key to happiness. The more we hate things, the more negativity we attract. Love and watching you in Japan.

    • @wistlfamilyadventures
      @wistlfamilyadventures  Рік тому +3

      Oh my god yes I’m a massive overthinker it’s not great to be like that at all I realise ❤️

  • @cynthiaraymundo6983
    @cynthiaraymundo6983 Рік тому +1

    We all have those days…we just cope differently, you are not alone. Sending hugs from the 🇺🇸.

  • @phoebelouise8640
    @phoebelouise8640 Рік тому +5

    Hello Wistl family, I am a silent follower of yours. Do know I see your genuine good heart. Talking out your not-so happy moments helps. Let me say, you as parents have shown so much strength and courage. So hang in there, it will all come together for you and your family. I wish you all the happiness and success with your channel. This episode prompted me to subscribe. Take it easy now and keep smiling. You guys are inspiring.

  • @GT-gh9qw
    @GT-gh9qw Рік тому +2

    It’s okay to be vulnerable, you are not alone. Everyone has bad days at times. Keep vlogging I enjoy your vlogs .

  • @gentlemanAndrew1971
    @gentlemanAndrew1971 Рік тому +56

    Most vlogers feel it. What they did was be open and talk to pinoys. Talk to filipinos. I think it helps. More power my friends

    • @wistlfamilyadventures
      @wistlfamilyadventures  Рік тому +8

      We have friends - Filipino and non 😊 it goes deeper than that but yes friends help ❤️

    • @bigradwolf5001
      @bigradwolf5001 Рік тому +4

      @@wistlfamilyadventures My guess is it is more about where things are going and how sometimes things not going as expected or planned. Westerners like yourselves have a higher standard which can make it hard and challenging sometimes. I think it is more just about being new to the area and still naviagating and learning the intricacies. Maybe take comfort in that each situtation is unique and all will have their own battles and challenges presented to them that they either hopefully hurdle OR adapt and settle into in time. Hey, as long as the air is free, there are always opportunities to smile and be happy.

  • @arvinargoncillo2697
    @arvinargoncillo2697 Рік тому +4

    Hello wistl family! Everything will be okay, i know its hard, its really hard! Just take it easy, take each day at a time, enjoy every moment and leave all the worries and negativities behind
    You are a strong resilient family, what you feel is valid. There is no perfect country and so we are, but we can always have a perfect time with our family and with HIM, have strong faith always.
    More power Wistl family, close to 20k subscriber!! Pushh!!

  • @retromooncollective
    @retromooncollective Рік тому +2

    I have been a silent subscriber and I have been watching your videos for a while now. I can see your sincerity in what you do and how great your outlook in life. I understand you, I wish you all the best and may you and your family take care always! Got your back. ♡

  • @angjenvicarv2421
    @angjenvicarv2421 Рік тому +3

    Hope you will continue to be strong even if it’s very challenging… your subscribers will be supporting you… be strong 🙏🏻🙂🙏🏻🙂

  • @rubyhocson5071
    @rubyhocson5071 Рік тому +1

    It's okay to not be okay. After all, we're only human. I believe we have to go through these things in life in order to value what will come next. Stay strong and remember, you are not alone. Hoping to meet you and your lovely family in your future travels.

  • @JimDelfin-n6c
    @JimDelfin-n6c Рік тому +3

    I am here to support your channel. You will have a great future in this country. Stay strong and keep safe.

  • @kimsadaya3452
    @kimsadaya3452 Рік тому +8

    I am one of those Filipino who always support with your videos.
    I always watch videos.
    Be strong and continue to create videos until you will be able to achieve more subscribers.
    Be always positive and neglect all negative around you.
    Cheers!

  • @adelaidagotiu7728
    @adelaidagotiu7728 Рік тому +1

    You're not alone.
    Failure or discontentment is part of life, and so is the success. Keep moving forward Becky, you're in the right track.

  • @sacmarcela1973
    @sacmarcela1973 Рік тому +2

    As everyone says you are not alone Rebbecca in your struggles just bear in mind that there are people out there that suffers more and we should be grateful that despite we face some challenges in our everyday lives we make it a positive outlook it teach us to be strong and more wiser you inspired us pinoys just like we do to you. Be blessed 😊❤

  • @groundedrealitytv
    @groundedrealitytv Рік тому +13

    Just remember that vulnerability is not a weakness but a strength. It takes great courage to open yourself up to others, especially when it involves your personal life. Despite the challenges and difficulties, you continue to persevere and show up every day. That, in itself, is an inspiration. As you navigate through life, always remember that you have the power to choose your path. Regardless of the obstacles that come your way, you have the strength to overcome them. Count your blessings and focus on the positive. By doing so, you'll find that you can impact others positively, and that's a beautiful thing. Keep shining your light, and never forget that you are a blessing to those around you.

  • @fun-stop23rd6
    @fun-stop23rd6 Рік тому +2

    *It's okay not to be okay. If you feel the need to cry, cry.there's always a rainbow after the rain.* 🌈

  • @bryanvaldez03
    @bryanvaldez03 Рік тому +3

    It's okay not to be okay at times Ms. Rebecca, that's quite normal especially if you've got some mental health issues recently. But yes, the good thing is aside from your family, your city surroundings can somewhat boost your mood and will divert your attention to happy things instead. Some vloggers also goes through on that phase, so don't worry, you'll overcome it too. Be cheerful always, and looking forward to your next adventures soon!

  • @Neneclairemixvlogs
    @Neneclairemixvlogs Рік тому +3

    As a filipino.we support your family.dont overthink everything just be your yourself and enjoy everymoments and accept the cultures.engage with locals

  • @alderpotz
    @alderpotz Рік тому

    I love how honest your channel is. Life is chaotic, it's hard to relate if everything is perfect all the time. It's nice to see you express your emotion, sometimes as a Filipino it can be toxic to keep up with the positive attitude our culture has so pushing it down will explode bigger later on. You're doing a great job not only being a full-time mom and doing all those this behind the scenes every video ❤ sending love to you and your family

  • @Dina-fm8zz
    @Dina-fm8zz Рік тому +5

    You’re one brave lady Rebecca; you have done so well keeping things together considering you brought yourselves into a country where the culture is so different from what you know. Take care and best wishes to you all.❤

  • @DennisD619
    @DennisD619 Рік тому +1

    Talking about it and mindful about your situation is in away therapeutic. You kids are such a gift. Inhale and find your center perhaps in the province. Watching from California.

  • @kaChurva82
    @kaChurva82 Рік тому +1

    To be honest i feel that way too.because i am far from my family sometimes i felt im alone but instead of thinking what's going on what will happen for tomorrow i went to the church every sunday and i pray to god for guidance and soon ill comming home to philippines..and everything will be ok just be strong ❤❤❤

  • @alliebatiao4446
    @alliebatiao4446 Рік тому +2

    ❤ you are a beautiful family, your videos i watched are real and honest talk. I like how Harry explain and express how he feels. I think all people have their own ups and downs. I am sure the sun will rise the next morning even though the clouds may try to hide it - our hopes should be as sure as the rising of the sun no matter how we feel. Stay strong - but I may not need to say that for you look strong enough in all your videos. Thanks for the tips on how to unwind when feel down.

    • @wistlfamilyadventures
      @wistlfamilyadventures  Рік тому

      Thank you that’s a beautiful way to think about life and how we shouldn’t worry 😊❤️

  • @theodorelambert341
    @theodorelambert341 Рік тому +2

    Congratulation for having 20k Subscribers, let's go 50k.Keep it up Becca and Kevin
    , Keep going guys it's really great to see you guys spending quality time with kids

  • @danes0818
    @danes0818 Рік тому +2

    i understand where you're coming from...
    very true...
    we just go to God, trust God to keep us and bless us in what we do

  • @destinationpinas1686
    @destinationpinas1686 Рік тому +1

    I'm not going to pretend that I have a good and effective advise for you, but there two things I can definitely say, first is I wish you well and be able to tackle whatever is in front of you that needs tackling, goes for each and everyone of you in the family. Secondly I really enjoy your vlogs, they make me feel good, they kinda fix some of the things that are ailing me :).
    I hope you keep posting, the daily stuff, not necessarily road trips and island hoping and stuff, tho they 'll be great too. (Ok so that's 3 things, maybe four but who's counting eh 😁)

  • @imeldaarroyo-cheeseman9969
    @imeldaarroyo-cheeseman9969 Рік тому +1

    Hi Becca, you're not alone in your journey and I applaud you for opening up about mental issues.
    You are surrounded by the most resilient people in the world, my fellow Filipinos and just be yourselves. Your family are loved by all of us who are watching your vlog. Keep it up and never give up. 👍 🥰❤️

  • @GT-Oldschool
    @GT-Oldschool Рік тому

    You can literally be the most talented and most creative person on the planet and still not everybody's gonna like your work.
    You can be the most perfect human being on the planet and not everyones gonna like you.
    Point is, not everyone needs to like you or everything you do. What's important is you lived your life the best you can and gave it a go. Some people live their whole lives without actually living, and here you are doing what you love with the ones you love. I say you did pretty damn well, considering that most people spend their wholes lives tryin to even just get close to what you have - a loving family.

  • @marichutesado180
    @marichutesado180 Рік тому +1

    Having a family with beautiful kids is a great motivation and inspiration to live a wonderful life, it doesn't matter whether or not we have much money as long as we'll be able to tide the daily needs for the family, in time good fortune comes without realizing it.

  • @KiaNgan-ni9ud
    @KiaNgan-ni9ud Рік тому +1

    I get where you're coming from. But the only thing you can do is take 1 step at a time. Embrace the bad mood once in awhile but keep it up. You guys have a positive point of view. Praying for you and your family. ❤️

  • @gregalcantara3084
    @gregalcantara3084 Рік тому +2

    Greg Alcantara, I'm your subscriber, Things like these happen to everyone, It happens to me too, sometimes. don't worry about it you'l recover. I'l pray for you , and your family, God Bless.

  • @mrussel2392
    @mrussel2392 Рік тому +1

    Samee. Keep thinking about my life and future. Sending you hugs

  • @ronniegarcia3885
    @ronniegarcia3885 Рік тому +2

    I am glad you guys are doing okay. God bless!

  • @jayneh2006
    @jayneh2006 Рік тому +1

    You was just honest to your feelings. All humans feel same way, youre not alone Mam! We are lots wearing on your shoes. Youre not alone!!!! Even here in America, oh girl, lots! Lots of people can relate to you and am one of them.

  • @amaliahightower
    @amaliahightower Рік тому +3

    Rebecca you have 3 beautiful children and a supportive and loving hubby. Even though Kevin said the event is not his scene, he’s there for you and the kids. Find some time for yourself and do a 15 min. meditation or maybe longer. Most of us go through this depression and mental health. It’s ok we’re human and nothing is perfect in life. Life is short and precious. We gotta live it to the fullest. Take care 🙏

    • @wistlfamilyadventures
      @wistlfamilyadventures  Рік тому +2

      Thank you so much Amalia! Yes I’m very lucky, but depression is more about the self and wants to destroy everything all around - it’s a struggle to break free, but I do try! Meditation is something I definitely want to consider ❤️

  • @theteamquinn
    @theteamquinn Рік тому +1

    It must be difficult to go through funks like that, let alone articulate it and share with us. Glad to hear you have a wonderful support system. We are also here for you! Feel better soon.

  • @luzmalamion6428
    @luzmalamion6428 Рік тому +2

    I always watch your Vlogs. Enjoy your adventure here in the Phil... We all have our down moments but cheer up! You're not alone. Think positive.

  • @everydaylivingcommunity
    @everydaylivingcommunity Рік тому +4

    impostor syndrome - the most difficult enemy that we have is within us. I like watching Amy Young Coaching and Lavendaire too. It's better to stay true to ourselves than having double life. There are more content creators who are showing off but it's not their real life. It's best to put content that are valuable to you regardless of what people think. Like Amy Young said, know your whys.. why are you doing it? 😉 Hugs to you.. I will message you about the fashion brand that I want to launch and hope you and Kev will be the first one to wear it.

    • @wistlfamilyadventures
      @wistlfamilyadventures  Рік тому

      Yeh it’s so so hard! I completely agree living a double life must be exhausting, I am trying so so hard to constantly look away and stick to my own lane but I’m far from perfect! That sounds awesome I’m excited to see it 😃

    • @everydaylivingcommunity
      @everydaylivingcommunity Рік тому

      @@wistlfamilyadventures anxiety is real. It starts from small things to being afraid of not knowing what is out there and escalates to fear. Living in Makati inspires creativity and elevate senses. I hope you find healing there.

  • @remycastroverde3846
    @remycastroverde3846 Рік тому +2

    Praying for ur fast recovery..I think you are doing great,,you have a beautiful and wonderful family take good care of yourself for them...God bless you and ur family

  • @RIP_aerolionplane69
    @RIP_aerolionplane69 Рік тому +1

    That’s one of the reasons….Why we watch you and your videos…you are real po….love all of your videos from kuwait

  • @Overlord_Z
    @Overlord_Z Рік тому +6

    Stay strong rebecca... As for me to cope up with depression . I go to the mall sit and watch people smiling and kids happy in Philippines be showered with their positivity.

    • @wistlfamilyadventures
      @wistlfamilyadventures  Рік тому +2

      It’s a great way to get out of it theres always something going on in the Philippines 😊

  • @tinamarple2511
    @tinamarple2511 Рік тому

    BE STRONG REBECA EVERYTHING WILL BE OKAY.

  • @arleeborj3867
    @arleeborj3867 Рік тому +4

    Road to 20k subscribers guys, it is more fun here in the Philippines, take care always, stay positive and dont be sad. ❤️❤️

  • @IshoLampaYTC
    @IshoLampaYTC Рік тому +1

    You're about to reach 20K Subscribers 👏🎉🎈🥳

  • @omj2605
    @omj2605 Рік тому +1

    Thanks for sharing your emotions. We can't choose our situations but we can choose how to deal with it-hope that makes sense. Lol. Rest assured we all have struggles especially in this busy, stressful life in the city. If I had enough savings I'd be somewhere else in my country. God bless and keep up the good vlog. 🙏

  • @bevrogers1412
    @bevrogers1412 Рік тому

    One day at a time or in some cases, 1 hour at a time... you will be alright, there are many of us going through the same situation. Yes, go outside and let the sunshine and fresh air help your state of mind AND you don't have to spend money.

  • @rafaelreyes5250
    @rafaelreyes5250 Рік тому

    All of us feel that way, but holding what you were wanna be is a must. Just go ahead and continue what you are doing. We supported you.

  • @laney90
    @laney90 Рік тому +16

    Hang in there Rebecca, you are loved. It must have been hard dealing with those dark emotions. Take a break, listen to music, spend some time in nature, go back to your art. That will help.

    • @wistlfamilyadventures
      @wistlfamilyadventures  Рік тому +1

      Yeh it’s definitely hard because I bring down everything for everyone when this happens - but I am working hard to get out of it

  • @udirtypuppy5174
    @udirtypuppy5174 Рік тому +10

    after decades of trying to find my sense of place in PI i understand your struggles. My best advice is to leave the big cities and relocate to a much simpler life in a smaller city. Possibly then you truly will appreciate the financial and spiritual freedom that is waiting for your family. Please take this to heart and consider a lifestyle change that the majority of Filipino and foreigners have found away from the life pollution that many have failed to understand that is available here.

    • @wistlfamilyadventures
      @wistlfamilyadventures  Рік тому +1

      Yeh I totally agree if we are still here by the end of the year it will be a decision we will be looking at for sure 😊

  • @MrEmpireBuilder0000
    @MrEmpireBuilder0000 Рік тому

    No worries.
    Yes, you are not alone. I have it too.
    As you said. luckily, there's a lot of things to get me out of my dark mood when I am in the Philippines. If I was in Texas, I'd be moody for days on end.
    I guess it is the proximity of people and things to do as you said?
    Or maybe it's just me getting older and knowing how to deal with it early as I feel it coming on.
    Whatever helps you, I am glad it is available to you now.
    Cheers!

  • @idahlo5961
    @idahlo5961 Рік тому +1

    Congrats for the 20K subscribers.

  • @lermadonnachie735
    @lermadonnachie735 Рік тому

    It's alright. We do feel the same we are down sometimes. It's nice for you to talk. Make yourself busy. Go out for a walk with your beautiful family. There's 10 shopping malls in Makati. Go window shopping and eat. Please stay strong. Take care 🙏

  • @danes0818
    @danes0818 Рік тому +2

    I'm sure the kids were thrilled to see the superheroes :)

  • @claireannabellana433
    @claireannabellana433 Рік тому +1

    I think it helps to do meditation exercises and reading motivational books...or indulging in meaningful activities like volunteering in an orphanage, it will help change your perspective about life. All the best.

  • @Queenuniverse721
    @Queenuniverse721 Рік тому

    The best way to help you be happy forget that you are anxiety makes your day busy at your work because once you give attention they just come and disturb us must have to fight with it im dealing with same situation but I don’t give time to think that I have them I never even think they are exist must be strong look positive every day and be grateful always ❤❤❤

  • @louiswynntorres
    @louiswynntorres Рік тому +9

    Its not easy really 😊 but you will get through it have faith with yourself. My prayers goes with your family 🙏🙏🙏

  • @mariobrosxsuper
    @mariobrosxsuper Рік тому +1

    It's Ok 👌 not to be Ok👌...and with the help with our friends and families we get by🙏...Smile though ur Heart is aching😁...U have a beautiful family and friends and that's what matters and there's somethings that money can't buy...Hold on never give up since Great things comes from people who wait @ the right time @ the right place🏆...Thankfull and Greatfull each day and we'll make it happen 🙏👍

  • @PapaRich101
    @PapaRich101 Рік тому +5

    Hi Rebecca and Wistl family...salamat po for opening with such a delicate topic regarding mental health or state of well being...since we embrace your family as one of our own, were all in this together..this shows that we all have the same sentiments...remember to always enjoy every moment and even though it takes slow to have this channel grow, it' ll grow stronger and sooner than you know it were 1million strong families...laban lang!

  • @emelitalegara
    @emelitalegara Рік тому

    You make me cry rebecca dont be sad think positive we love you

  • @squarerootofron1985
    @squarerootofron1985 Рік тому

    Dont overthink, JUST DO IT. will support you

  • @jessiesantiago7994
    @jessiesantiago7994 Рік тому +1

    Everyone has good and bad days. I think talking to other content creators who are based there in the Philippines may help. The Kito Family and Juicy Vlog from U.K. Talking about mental health is necessary and therapeutic in a lot of cases. Kumander Daot from UK and the Armstrong Family had dealt with this same mental health issue. Coming out and talking about it I believed helped.

  • @trishiaist
    @trishiaist Рік тому +1

    try to go to some church here in the Philippines sometimes our depression is out of nowhere. like we woke up so lonely and saf that u cannit imagine. Maybe the things that we miss is our relatiinshio with our creator. peace it happen to me and i know God is the only one can heal me

  • @crisnarfaicnarf1914
    @crisnarfaicnarf1914 Рік тому +1

    It's ok not to be ok. Keep moving forward never mind dogs barking along the way. . 👍 🇵🇭

  • @marysuzettecatipon6147
    @marysuzettecatipon6147 Рік тому +1

    Stay positive my friend. And pray always. God bless you and your family. Take negativity as a challenge to grow more with your craft.♥️🙏

  • @Arokero5697
    @Arokero5697 Рік тому

    Every battles,struggles,problems starts in the mind before it will manifest in your external life,be a commander and not a soldier of your mind,if you win the battle in your mind,the result will be successful in your external life,it depends in your success in your internal life,fight inside your mind....

  • @gregoriocorpuz8001
    @gregoriocorpuz8001 Рік тому +1

    Cheer up my friend Rebecca 😊❤😊. Don't feel sad and down, always be positive in life.This is my first time to comment on your channel,my I suggest to gain more subscriber's,if you are a sport lover try to watch PBA games because Filipino are basketball fanatics especially games from Ginebra team, there's alot of diehard Ginebra fans here in the Philippines, this will boast your utubechannel
    . Also, make business card to distribute to Filipino you meet.Filipinos are very supportive and loving.Just continue filming beautiful videos/vlog.Be safe and take care.God bless you always.

  • @kaChurva82
    @kaChurva82 Рік тому

    I loved your being realistic and i loved to watched your vlogg and content.your not alone god is always there for us when we feel lonely

  • @MsVroege
    @MsVroege Рік тому +3

    Everything will be alright Rebecca just keep your hopes up and don't let the negative thoughs swallowed you and at the end of sacrifices there will be a great rewards. Wish you a great day every day and I pray that the mighty Saint Michael the arch angel will guide you and your family also the whole people in the Philippines and touch everyone's heart to have a lightened and away from hard struggle in life.🙏🙏🙏💖💖🌼🌼🌼

  • @kuyaht6951
    @kuyaht6951 Рік тому

    Stay strong Rebecca! hugs....

  • @herchickenlegs4
    @herchickenlegs4 Рік тому

    I agree bloggers will get unpleasant comments sometimes. Just block them and good you have taken them out. We are here for you you are not on your own. You are absolute amazing woman I wish I could do what you do I don't even have guts to speak Infront of the camera so well done to you Rebecca 💕💕💕

    • @wistlfamilyadventures
      @wistlfamilyadventures  Рік тому

      Haha it’s not always easy, we don’t script either so when the cameras on I just gotta know what to say 😅

  • @vhicb7998
    @vhicb7998 Рік тому

    If you feel down, pray to God and He Will listen ❤ you got a beautiful family esp the kids, which I don’t have❤

  • @wavemaker2077
    @wavemaker2077 Рік тому

    Worrying leads to depression. The best thing to do is to not worry at all. Believe that everything happens for a reason. If your plan didn't push through, it means that you are not meant to experience that plan yet. Move on and stop worrying about it.

  • @BCC2490
    @BCC2490 Рік тому

    HI im not a regular viewer but im a subscriber. I know you can beat that problem of yours. Many people will support you. And i can see you are a strong mama! from now on i will always watch your vlogs. And btw im one of the first subscriber when the time you are planning to go in the PH.

  • @imeedeguzman19
    @imeedeguzman19 Рік тому +1

    It's okay not to be okay sometimes, This too will pass.Enjoy every moment. Hugs for you Rebecca.God bless you and your family always.🙏♥️

    • @wistlfamilyadventures
      @wistlfamilyadventures  Рік тому

      Thank you Imee!! It’s lovely to hear from you again that always cheers me up 😊❤️

    • @imeedeguzman19
      @imeedeguzman19 Рік тому

      ​@@wistlfamilyadventures ♥️🥰

  • @nondompom
    @nondompom Рік тому

    When you discuss sensitive issues such as mental awareness, it's going to resonate with a section of UA-cam viewers. Most probably want to concentrate on the upside of living. They need an escape as well. Unfortunately, that's going to impact your channel. The pressure to find content is tough. It's far easier for a young couple who can up and go elsewhere as they don't have as many day to day decisions that don't involve a young family.

    • @wistlfamilyadventures
      @wistlfamilyadventures  Рік тому +1

      Yeh I understand your point, most of the time we aim to keep it positive, but some videos need to be made - we don’t want to glamorise this lifestyle when sometimes it isn’t 😊

  • @cynthiabianzon5408
    @cynthiabianzon5408 Рік тому +1

    If sadness lingers too long and you can no longer cope, it is wise to see a doctor to prescribe the right medicine and balance the chemical found inside the brain. Because we can also get sick emotionally and mentally besides physical sickness. It could be that the thyroid glands secrete hormones, too much or too little...Man is physically complex, made of tissues and enzymes and the like. It is good God gave us doctors as gifts to help ease life's discomforts.

  • @junsoriano9229
    @junsoriano9229 Рік тому

    There is no perfect in this world😃just do what everything you want..stay safe and God blessed💚

  • @filpontex3478
    @filpontex3478 Рік тому +1

    Always think positive and ignore the negative. Hindi ka ka nag iisa dhil madaming nagmamahal sa inyo na mga Pilipino. GOD bless you all always.

  • @cherrycruz5530
    @cherrycruz5530 Рік тому

    Be strong.. take a brake... at least once a week... no need to hurry about what your content or to do with your vlogg.. the important thing is you enjoy ur lyf with the fam... with or w/o video/vlogg.. being happy it also means being healthy in mind and soul.. PEACE.. GOD BLESS YOU AND FAM..

  • @datugintuong464
    @datugintuong464 Рік тому

    Normal in complex societies. Living peacefully in serene atmosphere of your home may help you tolerate inner disturbances.be thankful to God.it will heal you.

  • @stinkfist462
    @stinkfist462 Рік тому

    New subscriber here. What i observe about vlogging, it really takes time. But eventually you'll get there. But mostly you can vlog anything what you are doing. Filipinos loves to watch dramas, comedy series anything to keep them busy for a meantime. Just enjoy your stay.

  • @manniejavilla466
    @manniejavilla466 Рік тому

    haters and negative comments are all part of being a vlogger,just dont take them seriously those deffressing comment......always think of your children when ever that kind of situation overcome you....keep vlogging and god bless

    • @wistlfamilyadventures
      @wistlfamilyadventures  Рік тому

      Of course and as I said I don’t read them anyway kev takes that on board for me ❤️

  • @junemarbuclolgulitiw1855
    @junemarbuclolgulitiw1855 Рік тому

    Hi..Wistl Family.we love you guys,but we tell you this,just face trials, problems,or the weaknesses to be strong and hope,never give up..God is never give you a test in life if you did not to be solve,many sulotions if you want..GOD LOVE'S YOU..ignore the negatives comments in this life isnot perfect..many pilipinos love's you..stay strong..we very Happy so much to watching all your vlogs everyday..we are here to support you..💪💪💪✌️✌️✌️👍👍👍❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🇨🇿🇨🇿🇨🇿..

  • @cynthiamaegonzales7002
    @cynthiamaegonzales7002 Рік тому +4

    Please remember you're now in the Philippines, We Filipinos are fun loving hospitable people, make more Filipino friends, open your line and have live chat with your subscribers, forget the negativity in life, and you will be glad that little by little that your depression. anxiety, boredomness etc. etc. will vanish, till your full recovery.enjoy life to the fullest, please always remember, " it's more fun in the Philippines!!! GOD Bless you & to your family as well.

  • @teresadatig3139
    @teresadatig3139 Рік тому +3

    No matter what always positive vibes the negatives are spicy our life their always way God give us 🙏🙌♥

    • @wistlfamilyadventures
      @wistlfamilyadventures  Рік тому +1

      I love that analogy - negatives are a little bit of spice 😅❤️ thank you 🙏

  • @nanbolz2238
    @nanbolz2238 Рік тому

    You will get there. Dont worry. We have seen others start very slow too, but their persistence eventually paid off. Look at Hungry Syrian or Juicy Vlog. Dont worry. Just be persistent. One of these days, one of your videos will go viral and your channel will skyrocket. Btw, be proactive in telling people what your YT channel is. Get some cards made and give them away to your contacts.

  • @h.kath6152
    @h.kath6152 Рік тому

    Take it easy. Its a step by step process and we will be here for you guys. That happens to me too so you are not alone. Always look at the positive side and don't dwell in negative side. This keeps my happy side'

  • @koodee9429
    @koodee9429 Рік тому

    19.9k very close to 20k subs! congratulations! :-)

  • @AndrewDFK
    @AndrewDFK Рік тому

    Sending positive vibes. I really hope you find your way and get through this. 🙏

    • @wistlfamilyadventures
      @wistlfamilyadventures  Рік тому +1

      Yeh it’s nothing to do with being here - it’s just stuff I’ve suffered with for quite a while now ☺️

    • @AndrewDFK
      @AndrewDFK Рік тому

      @@wistlfamilyadventures Im rooting for you!!!

  • @larkmontecarlo606
    @larkmontecarlo606 Рік тому +6

    Hi there Rebecca , i always follow your vlog but i don't usually talk here. but i want you to know that u have a wonderful family and you are an inspiration. just hang on there and keep doing what you love and we are just here to support you. and I'll pray for you. .Love .. Carlo❤❤❤

  • @nolanberador9664
    @nolanberador9664 Рік тому +2

    Hi rebecca. In your down moments, i encourage you to listen christian songs which help and lift your spirit up

  • @thaddeusramos3543
    @thaddeusramos3543 Рік тому +3

    To be honest with you, WE , Filipinos, face difficulties in life and this applies around the globe. But what keeps us going is our FAITH IN JESUS CHRIST! We face calamities like earthquakes in 2013 and destroyed homes in Leyte and Samar but we survived and seek our guidance with our LORD Jesus Christ! That is the big difference! As the saying goes: "No Jesus , No Peace. Know Jesus , Know Peace!" And I am not lecturing you about religion either. It is just the fact we have in the Philippines!!! God bless You!

    • @wistlfamilyadventures
      @wistlfamilyadventures  Рік тому +1

      Thank you 😊

    • @thaddeusramos3543
      @thaddeusramos3543 Рік тому +1

      @@wistlfamilyadventures You are welcome! Go in PEACE with the LOVE of Jesus Christ!

    • @thaddeusramos3543
      @thaddeusramos3543 Рік тому

      @@wistlfamilyadventures You are welcome! Remember this: You will go to several trials in life here on Earth. My advise: Never turn your faith away from Jesus Christ. He , himself , suffered while He was on earth and nailed to the cross in front of HIS Mother. His own Mother suffered as well watching Her own son NAILED to the cross but LOVE prevailed. If you want to know MORE about Jesus Mother Modern apparitions , look up in UA-cam: Our Lady of Zeitun , Egypt. Thousands of Muslims and Christians SAW Jesus Mother appearance from 1969 until 1971. She performed miracles by healing people with POLIO and CRIPLED as well. As in the movie, GLADIATOR with Russel Crowe, one of his lines he stated:" Whatever We Do Here in Life Echoes In Eternity! "