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  • @dazz_lin
    @dazz_lin  5 місяців тому +188

    Hi, it's Dazz!
    I appreciate all the support from the comments and outside of UA-cam. It means a lot to me that people are sympathetic/empathetic towards any victim of SA, no matter the medium it is performed in and from who.
    *I would like to make it clear that this animatic was focusing on my trauma and the effects of online child exploitation.* I never was a victim of physical sexual abuse. That doesn't mean my trauma means less than those who were. I believe there can be different levels of severity of all kinds of SA, but all are still valid and everyone deserves a support system. For those who either share or experienced a different form of sexual abuse, I may or may not feel the way you do because we maybe different, but know that you are valid for how you feel because it is your trauma. No one has the right to say otherwise, and whoever does needs to be educated.
    *Online sexual abuse is a thing?!* Unfortunately, yes. The moment the internet was publicized, it has become a breeding ground for child predators. There are different ways a child can be abused online, such as being persuaded or even forced to do erotic roleplays, share explicit photos of themselves to the predator, becoming desensitized to sexual content at a young age, and more. Speaking from my experience from preteen to teen, I wanted to be treated like I was an adult because I didn't want to be seen as a child even though I was one. I was also naive girl who had unlimited Internet access and was often socially isolated, making me perfect prey for a predator to exploit.
    This is my tale to tell, but remember that this is not the one and only way one person can be SA'd. SA can happen to and from anyone, as well as happen anywhere... Even on the Web, the Internet has white vans too.

    • @The_Rat_Qu3n3
      @The_Rat_Qu3n3 4 місяці тому +3

      Idk if these two experiences count but I got s/a'd on roblox twice, and I wasn't even in a roleplay with the abuser, I was just existing. This isn't meant to invalidate your experience, I just wanted to share this because I don't know how my parents would react if I told them about it and I don't wanna tell them

    • @keishahagins9382
      @keishahagins9382 3 місяці тому

      Did you report it?

    • @dazz_lin
      @dazz_lin  3 місяці тому +1

      @@keishahagins9382 No. All of this was done when I was 12-15 years old. I was scared into not even saying anything by all of my abusers... Well except for one.
      One has been reported by police but the cops have done nothing with him. Online CSA victims are often ignored when they make reports, unfortunately.

    • @Jinx.The.Artist
      @Jinx.The.Artist 3 місяці тому

      @@dazz_lin wait thats sexual abuse if it's online? I thought it was just gro0ming, coming from someone who had similar happen. Also I'm so so sorry you had to go through that, just know ur worth it and ppl love you ❤️

    • @dazz_lin
      @dazz_lin  3 місяці тому

      @@Jinx.The.Artist Yep! Grooming can happen either online or in person. It is a tactic used by predators to coerce their victims.
      Online (child) sex abuse is dangerously common and majority of predators don't get charged.

  • @ToxicRain-mf4ht
    @ToxicRain-mf4ht 8 місяців тому +228

    I’ve dealt with things both online and in real life I always thought was okay even if I was being taken advantage of by adults as a young person. You won’t feel better right away or at all, but you will find ways to cope with the thoughts and feelings and feel a bit happier

  • @aniyahwilliams786
    @aniyahwilliams786 8 місяців тому +95

    I really hope you are ok :-( *gives hugs*

  • @LionDaisyDraws
    @LionDaisyDraws 8 місяців тому +68

    i am not good at comfort, but i'm seriously worried, i'm so sorry to hear that, no one is deserved to be treated like that, especially a good person like you, we may not know well each other, i know that, but i hope we be good soon as possible!
    don't let people control you, try your best to not fall into any abuse/something that makes you uncomfortable, that will ruin your future.
    Xoxo, me.

    • @konpeitojellie
      @konpeitojellie 5 місяців тому +3

      this stuff doesn’t deserve to happen to anyone, good person or not

  • @Kaxee
    @Kaxee 5 місяців тому +19

    As a victim of sexual assault online, and having some problems with past relationships in person as a person insisting me on doing stuff i didnt want it makes feel a relief that people value online SA, i hope you are doing well nowadays, as much people invalidate online SA it can still leave scars like any other type of SA, your animation is splendid hope youre doing well

    • @Jinx.The.Artist
      @Jinx.The.Artist 3 місяці тому

      Wait that's online SA? I thought I was weird and gross for doing that- I didn't know it counted as sa. I was forced---

  • @neuroticallynecrotic
    @neuroticallynecrotic 2 місяці тому +11

    Hey. I know its extremely unlikely you'll see this, but I want to thank you for making this. This was a very big wake-up call to me. I was 13 when I was "persuaded" into sending someone online, who was very dear to me, nsfw images and videos of myself. I thought my trauma was invalid or that I was faking it, because it all happened online, but this has made me think otherwise. Thank you, for making me feel better about myself and the situations I've been through.

    • @dazz_lin
      @dazz_lin  2 місяці тому +3

      Oh no... :( I am so sorry you're also a victim of online grooming. I'm glad this shortly framed animation spoke to you!
      You are completely valid as a victim of online CSA. Grooming is basically online CSA and more than thousands or even millions of children fall victim to a predator or predators. I am so dearly sorry you were one of those many unlucky children, and I hope your recovery is going well. :( Dealing with stuff like this isn't at all easy

  • @Saturnzy
    @Saturnzy 3 місяці тому +18

    Seriously grooming is becoming more normal, it SHOULDN'T be like that. Childrens need to be safe when they are online. It's horrible that there are amount of predators trying to get a victim. I don't get S/A online or irl but i know persons who got (both ways) and is disgusting.

  • @fifiLOLZ_23
    @fifiLOLZ_23 15 годин тому

    I’m sorry you’re going through this. Even though I’ve never really experienced SA before except kind of online, I have dealt with other kinds of abuse, irresistible urges to slit, breakups, and neglect. So I probably don’t know how you feel but I hope you heal and I hope you get away from whoever’s abusing you. I try to help people whenever I can but I’ve never really practiced comforting someone who’s going through SA, so I know this isn’t much. You don’t deserve this and your art style is beautiful.

  • @jasmine3945
    @jasmine3945 7 місяців тому +16

    I’m so sorry that happened to you no one should have to go through that I hope you're doing okay now

  • @lucky__here
    @lucky__here 2 місяці тому +7

    i was 10-11 the first time, 12 the second time :( it’s heartbreaking honestly, i hope you’re okay

    • @Mimo_corn
      @Mimo_corn Місяць тому

      I don't know wat Ur talking about 😅 anyways I'm 11 so I'm scared😅😅

  • @danieldhiya
    @danieldhiya 4 місяці тому +2

    i hope you are doing alright now, putting your situations and emotions as an animation is amazing. im proud of you for finally letting it out once in your life time, just so you know it wasnt your fault and it will never be.

  • @OVERWRITEXX
    @OVERWRITEXX 5 місяців тому +14

    ive never gone through what you have nor am i the best at comfort, but i do hope you are doing alright currently and hope it stays that way for long

  • @p1nkpastries
    @p1nkpastries 3 місяці тому +2

    I'm not the best at comforting. But your art is absolutely gorgeous, and the animation is beautifully done. I hope you're doing okay now, and I'm so sorry about everything's that has happened, I did read your pinned comment.
    Things like that are hard to get over, and it's okay to still feel scared. We are all here for you. ❤🧡💛💚💙💜💗

    • @dazz_lin
      @dazz_lin  3 місяці тому +2

      @@p1nkpastries THANK YOU also I adore your pfp ❤️ Castlevania Vlad Dracula Tepes my beloved
      But I appreciate your support... Thank you so much ❤️

    • @p1nkpastries
      @p1nkpastries 3 місяці тому

      @@dazz_lin OMG TY I LOVE CASTLEVANIA WITH ALL MY HEART
      And yw! I hate seeing people upset and I don't want them feeling left behind or anything 🌸

  • @jenijenefer5410
    @jenijenefer5410 3 місяці тому +1

    This sent video shivers down my spine of how good is it, and im really sorry about that, i hope you are doing good.

  • @LevinaTealHamato
    @LevinaTealHamato 4 місяці тому +1

    I was the nightwing named fearless, honestly this was a amazing experience to meet TWO of my fav wof creators! also, have a blessed day Cascade!!! God truly blessed you with this achievement! (Rat was so chill! also, my fav!)

  • @darkkwaknight
    @darkkwaknight 3 місяці тому +1

    I'm really sorry that happened to you no one deserves that hope you are doing well and are safe

  • @Kaekmonster
    @Kaekmonster 4 місяці тому +4

    I'm 13, I was groomed as a 4th grader. That shit affected me.

  • @FluffedUpPaper
    @FluffedUpPaper 3 місяці тому +1

    Oh, wow, I'm sorry. That must've been hard for you huh? I send my deepest condolences stranger, 🤍🤎

  • @elise.ch4nn
    @elise.ch4nn 2 місяці тому +2

    I’m so so sorry:(( you don’t deserve that you actually deserve much much better

  • @CorvineCadaver
    @CorvineCadaver 3 місяці тому +2

    I know this feeling all too well.
    The worst part is that I was groomed online as a way to cope from my real life sa :(

    • @dazz_lin
      @dazz_lin  3 місяці тому +1

      @@CorvineCadaver I'm so sorry to hear that :[

  • @gooberyaurr
    @gooberyaurr 2 місяці тому +2

    hello! i know i am just a stranger but i just want to say i really love your art style, and i am so sorry for your experience, as a victim of a similar experience :>

    • @dazz_lin
      @dazz_lin  2 місяці тому

      @@gooberyaurr Thank you!! ❤️ I'm sorry you had to go through something related :((

  • @livi-l3y
    @livi-l3y 4 місяці тому +2

    the worst part is i was hurting and healing and i just wanted to connect with someone but my mom blamed it all on me. she still brings it up.

  • @RedMentosTheClown
    @RedMentosTheClown 4 місяці тому +2

    Hope you’re ok! Something like that happened to me online to, I was 11 and I chatted with them till I was 13 (now) we aren’t friends anymore he was very toxic and a bad person

  • @Jinx.The.Artist
    @Jinx.The.Artist 3 місяці тому +1

    As a victim of grooming and exploitation, it sucks.
    (And recently found out, SA)
    It makes me and OTHERS have a mindset where we feel like all were worth our bodies.
    and im too scared to tell people about it because i feel like they'll think im disgusting. It happened when i was 10 and eleven, and once when i was 7 (which wasnt online) when i was 10-11 they would threaten yo hurt or kill their self or leave me so i felt pressured to it, when i was secen it was my step brother, he told me to take pictures of..down there and show him. I didnt understand until i was older. Im 12 now, i still get urges but ive been somewhat able to fight thrm off, but i always feel the need to wear revealing stuff and show off my body. Im sorry you've also had to go thru that❤ i hope u feel better soon, ull get thru it!!

  • @FLVSHBNG
    @FLVSHBNG Місяць тому

    i'm sadly a victim of both of these, i hate it so much, i'm still a victim of online grooming but this isnt about me, we'll save that story for later.
    there's a different story for all of us :( but i hope you can finally feel okay and not have to deal with these things anymore, my heart goes out to you 😞🩵

  • @nocturnalnxrika
    @nocturnalnxrika 3 місяці тому +1

    It's ok! *gives virtual hugs*

  • @M4vico
    @M4vico 7 місяців тому +8

    Im so sorry ;(

  • @undercover_microwave
    @undercover_microwave Місяць тому

    i don't get why people compare trauma. it's all bad, it doesn't matter what's "worse". everyone experiences and processes and copes with things differently. i hate seeing people telling others they aren't valid because "others have it worse so it doesn't matter".
    as a victim of both online and in-person SA, i know what it's like. i'm glad you're doing better and i hope things stay that way :]

  • @m.ag.r8826
    @m.ag.r8826 5 місяців тому +10

    DOES SA ONLINE EXIST!? I didn't know, and I hope you can feel better :(

    • @Sparkleworldoffical
      @Sparkleworldoffical 5 місяців тому +2

      It does. Trust me. I’m a victim

    • @m.ag.r8826
      @m.ag.r8826 5 місяців тому +1

      @@Sparkleworldoffical I hope you can be able to get better and get out of this :(

    • @dazz_lin
      @dazz_lin  5 місяців тому +2

      Online child grooming and exploitation is a form of sexual abuse! 👍

  • @Cat_Bff123
    @Cat_Bff123 15 днів тому

    I was 7 when it first happened and 8 the second time, but I am so sorry that that happened to u. It should never happen to anyone

  • @YXR1_1OLFG
    @YXR1_1OLFG Місяць тому

    I was 4 when I started to get SA but it was not a stranger it was sadly my step dad. And he even tried to act like the perfect step dad pretending to be kind and not have sexual intension when my mom is around. I'm now 13 and I finally spoke to my mom about it. And everything I amazing without the fear of getting used anymore

  • @The_Rat_Qu3n3
    @The_Rat_Qu3n3 4 місяці тому +2

    I hope you're ok

  • @skibiditolietwarrior
    @skibiditolietwarrior 2 місяці тому +1

    how do ppl think it’s ok to like minors.. like generally they all know it’s wrong but still do it?

  • @blanktheanimatorlol5364
    @blanktheanimatorlol5364 4 місяці тому +1

    I just wanted to say I may not know what it's like to have this happen to you but in here to support you so just to let you know your nit alone and I hope your doing great and your gunna have a great day

  • @d4isyy_lowzz
    @d4isyy_lowzz 7 місяців тому +7

    are you ok..? *little head pat*

  • @layleechols3199
    @layleechols3199 3 місяці тому +1

    I feel you. I was eight when I was groomed

  • @kinda.awesomeXD
    @kinda.awesomeXD Місяць тому

    mine only lasted 2 dayz but i'm still ashamed, i still feel like that guy tried to groom me?? idrk (he tried to tell me to check my nono part after he asked 'is it bubblegum pink' even tho he knew i was a minor), i'm glad i cut off contact, i'm not glad abt the fact that i became friends with him in the 1st place
    honestly, grooming can do a lot and it's horrible,,,and it's getting nornalized, children gotta be safe online yk?? grooming can make them traumatized, ashamed of theirselves or if the predator does a lot and even never gets caught,,make the victim become like them

  • @DrksideofdMoon
    @DrksideofdMoon 3 місяці тому +4

    Idk....ive been sexualized in childrens games such as in robloxs game just because of what I wear, some people mostly males call me hot, sexy, but it's weird I only likes being called things that are not sexualized in the game
    Roblox has changed ever since 2023......
    People have been online dating, cussing, being rude, flirting, back shotting, putting Innopropriate emojis
    But now......roblox has turned to a childrens game to a place where everyone thinks they can do whatever they want...

  • @SUKIASATINK
    @SUKIASATINK 2 місяці тому +1

    oh no. please I give hug you?

  • @Mimixxx_666
    @Mimixxx_666 2 місяці тому +1

    I remember when i was groomed too when I was 12. Its horrible.

  • @Autotune_Fox-c3z
    @Autotune_Fox-c3z Місяць тому

    I have been SA'd both online and in person. It was for the money, and i was only 6 when it started. Btw im 16 now, and im in the care of someone who actually takes care of me and loves me. ❤️
    Also, just to say this, if you need help, please speak up! I waited way too long to escape the horrific life i was living. I dont want any other other child or adult to go through what i had to endure. I LOVE YOU, YOU ARE LOVEDDDDD!!!

  • @PooperDooper-ez9vu
    @PooperDooper-ez9vu Місяць тому

    I was in first or second grade when it started. It didn't "end" until right before I turned 13. 6 years I was sexually assaulted by who I thought was my friend but I couldn't do anything about it or get the abuser in trouble because they were autistic and even though I reported them and told them to stop over 5 times, they got no punishment. I recently started telling people what happened to me but there are still some of my friends that continue to be friends with her. I have flashbacks from it. I had one today in orchestra and had to go to the counselor and get picked up early. Not to mention telling my orchestra and the counselor and multiple other people that wouldn't stop bugging me why I was sad and explaining everything she did to me. After the assault paused (I'll have to see her again in school next year) i sh'd and had to start therapy and developed c-ptsd. She also sh'd for some reason and went to therapy for the same thing. But why? You assaulted me? I'm sorry that unlike some people I told people what you did to me and you went and told everyone lies to try and justify yourself? And then she gets no punishment but no one cares because she changed schools which was her "punishment" (she only has to go to the new school for a year and no one made her, her mom had her go to the other school.) And so I made a tiktok at some point about what happened to me(no names included) and for some reason she was stalking my socials and saw the video and her mom contacted my mother and the father of my friend who commented on the video. Not only did I have to delete my account, but I got in trouble. Did she get in trouble for the sexual abuse she it me through for 6 years? No. Did I get in trouble for sharing my experience with no names included at all? If course. Because it's okay to sexually adult people of you're autistic, right? God I hate everything I just wish I was dead already.

    • @dazz_lin
      @dazz_lin  Місяць тому

      @@PooperDooper-ez9vu Oh geez :(((
      I'm so sorry that you went through this several times and nobody was there on your side during and after the fact. That's incredibly disheartening considering that you were an active victim and not being heard. Not to mention, the person who assaulted you was excused for their heinous actions by a lot of people. You deserve a lot better and you deserve to be listened to. No victim should have to go through this, better yet, anyone shouldn't.
      I hope you're doing better and that you're recovering! That's a lot to handle for one person, especially for a kid. You deserve people who are there for you, willing to call-out and/or drop whoever is hurting you, and willing to listen to your experience. I'm glad you are comfortable enough to share your experience. You have every right to exercise that freedom.
      Thank you for living this far. I encourage you to grow stronger. 💓

  • @ItsDøll-87
    @ItsDøll-87 4 місяці тому +1

    I hope you’re healing now:(

  • @w31rd064
    @w31rd064 7 місяців тому +3

    I am so sorry this happened to you, I hope you know that people are here for you and care about what you have to say.
    I hope this doesn't come off as me being a narcissist, but I have something to ask to whoever is reading this.
    I'm sorry if this is inappropriate to ask but I'm currently writing a story about someone who has had this happen to them. The scenes and the way they went were hard for me to write, not because of the wording but because of the emotions. I've never had to go through SA, but just writing the scenes made me cry (luckily, she kills the perv in the end). I am trying my very best to ensure that I accurately depict this and not make anything up/spread any misinformation. It's so hard to imagine this, so I guess that will be the hardest part of writing this story. Not to be a crazy person but I was wondering if you guys could vent in the comments? I'm genuinely interested in what you have to say, and I'll be sure to express my grief for what happened to you. I'm so sorry if this is crazy, I just want to know how a person who has gone through that feels after the fact and how you felt during it. If you have known someone who has gone through that, maybe a friend or family member, I would highly appreciate if you could tell me how they acted and what they said or did. Thank you so much for reading this probably offensive comment, I just want to make the story as realistic as possible and avoid making important things up.

    • @dazz_lin
      @dazz_lin  7 місяців тому +3

      I unfortunately cannot share the depths of physical SA as that wasn't something I've experienced. However, I have experienced online child sexual solicitation, which does fall under general child sexual exploitation. I have been exploited by several predators and am permanently scarred by all of them.
      I'm willing to talk about it on Discord.

    • @w31rd064
      @w31rd064 7 місяців тому +1

      @@dazz_lin Okay, thank you for replying to my comment, I'm sorry for what happened and hopefully we can talk about this more on discord or something. Thank you.

    • @dazz_lin
      @dazz_lin  7 місяців тому

      @@w31rd064 Ofc! Here's my @
      dazzlinn

    • @w31rd064
      @w31rd064 7 місяців тому

      @@dazz_lin Thank you! Next time I'm on discord I'll reach out to you.

    • @UmbrellaMonk
      @UmbrellaMonk 5 місяців тому +1

      My story happened when i was 6-7, I often would visit my aunt's house and would be babysat there aswell, one of my cousins (I cant say for personal reasons) brought me to his room and showed me games, while we were playing them he wanted to do something with me. He'd give me his phone/tablet and let me play on it while he groomed me. I was oblivious to the fact that this was bad and let it go on. He decided once that to play minecraft I'd have to french kiss him. (Im cringing so hard at this point omg) Recently my cousin (Who i also cannot say) from the other side of the family told me and we bonded over the trauma. Even more recently she told one of her friends who told her parents and told her mom and dad. She never said i also had this but now I feel better knowing that even if i wasnt in the story i can still watch the dissapointment (He is 18/19 now) Hope this helps!

  • @Lilmamas567
    @Lilmamas567 2 місяці тому +1

    sadly i was 9-10 when it began, i shouldnt have been let on discord, but i said i was safe but fuck it.

    • @Lilmamas567
      @Lilmamas567 2 місяці тому

      (pls dont report it to anyone, me and a group of friends handled it perfectley,)

  • @Gooberthetroober
    @Gooberthetroober 4 місяці тому +2

    I was 7-10 everytime never older then 10

  • @Cris_Midnight
    @Cris_Midnight Місяць тому

    I was first SA-ed at 10 and almost raped at 17 and I was fighting back and losing my 5 year old brother barged in my room, making the guy lose interest

  • @Xelp_01
    @Xelp_01 3 місяці тому

    Why is UA-cam algorithm always recommending sa vent? Is UA-cam try to tell me something?

  • @KarhilAngela
    @KarhilAngela 5 місяців тому +2

    Hey your not alone,other people suffer from that to, including me it like happened when I was 5? Or 6 I forgot cause I was really young

  • @Therian_dragon-m9d
    @Therian_dragon-m9d Місяць тому

    Sending lots of love over to you. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @BerryEclipse
    @BerryEclipse 19 днів тому

    Same here I literally was 12 an dealt with a predator/ got groomed but "he" literally is a toxic Version an "he" literally made me feel trapped an I wouldn't escape but luckily my older brother stop/grounding me from his Xbox an I'm free from that monster

  • @zetsaryuw
    @zetsaryuw 2 місяці тому

    My friend was only 5...

  • @z0mb11_p4wzzx.x
    @z0mb11_p4wzzx.x 3 місяці тому

    i was only 9 🙁

  • @Cr3Ek_l0v3R
    @Cr3Ek_l0v3R 7 місяців тому +5

    2 of my friends swir soee saying weir jit tome ad humpibmt roblox avatar wasnt bad, and ead perfectly fine. If that's the case, then that means those times they got sexually harassed on a roblox gacha game was completely fine.

  • @zariah-izzz-ME
    @zariah-izzz-ME 4 місяці тому +1

    I got harassed at 7🤩

  • @Project-Observe
    @Project-Observe 5 місяців тому +1

    Age 6.

    • @elise.ch4nn
      @elise.ch4nn 2 місяці тому

      @BrowhosDaniI don’t really thing it was comparing, they just said the age it happened to them.. which no 6 year old should go through

  • @Bugthekiller
    @Bugthekiller 7 місяців тому +1

    Megusta tu estilo may li ru pony xd

    • @M4vico
      @M4vico 7 місяців тому +1

      si sabes de lo que trata el video no?

    • @Bugthekiller
      @Bugthekiller 7 місяців тому +1

      ​@@M4vicosi