I cleared CDS 8 times and AFCAT 7 times and failed all 15 interviews. But, these failures led me to know my actual strength,my strong and weak areas. I accepted them and moving forward for my ultimate goal. Because stopping and feeling depressed is not an option.
Depression and fear of failure are very prevalent these times. Suffering with financial pressure when job security of your family is in danger bcz of pandemic and when you are just a graduate, age 24, unemployed, frequent insults, peer pressure, relatives taunts etc but can't compromise with your future by doing some part-time, in short, losing long term goal for short term needs and continuing with your struggle. If you are struggling with such a situation and still going on with aim of exam like UPSC, Hats off to your perseverance. And best of luck, you'll surely get success.
Please talk people who are close to you and otherwise if u can't share the your things take a spiritual path like OM SHANTI, SADHGURU and So on Stay blessed 🙏😇 May all your sadness turns into happiness 🙏🙌💯
When you are an above average student throughout your life but fail twice in UPSC prelims, it’s takes a whole lot toll on your mental health. I was shocked at my first failure but somehow understood what went wrong. The second failure however shattered me, it took me a lot of time to overcome that feeling. Obviously quitting was never an option and I am super proud of myself for that. I somehow accepted the failure and went straight into preparing for my next attempt. THIRD TIME’S THE CHARM ( manifesting it) 🤞✨
@@princy1070 I'm sure you must have learnt your lessons...and your failures are things of past now....you got 4 months 4 days still left for prelims... Just give your best..
I am working as a security guard job, my age is 25 , i belongs to humble background, lot of responsbililty on me because of my poor family.. Last time i had attempted upsc exam but unfortunately I was failed.. Now I am trying for next attempt.. I am taking only one time meal because I want to save my money for my family & for younger sister clothes & book for her further studies... Day shift I am doing job, night shift I am studying... Hope... Bhagwaan ek baar ham gareebo ko bhi acchi subah suraj ki kiran dikhayega... 🙏🏼🙏🏼😊
Woww. Good luck brother. Such a strong soul u are ...and really inspiring. I was having anxiety relating upsc but u made me feel lighten and motivated ❤❤
I somehow ignored this video yesterday because I thought that it will take some time n I was busy doing stuffs... but today morning was a bang on... feeling emotionally sick... shouting... complaining... crying... highly demotivated and full of negative thoughts... failing to manage the stress and countless unidentified emotions... Sir thank you for helping me to calm down!🙏 Your videos are always rational and applicable🙌
Thank you bade bhaiya♥️♥️ Recently I got to learn about this concept of *stoicism* and I'm glad ki aap hum sabko bohot apna maan k motivate karte rehte hain♥️♥️ Yes...we all have pain and suffering in our lives but that's exactly the moment when we show our character. *Zindagi gumm ka sagar bhi hai...hass ke uss paar jaana padega* As Mahi bhai(MSD) always say... As long as we are honest to ourselves... nothing matters..
"The reason for an ongoing existence of hopes infused with pure intent and powered by consistency would not cease til the goal is reched" Thanks for motivating us our lighthouse 💫🙏 even an elder brother can't do that... Have a great day my Lord🙏🙇🙌
Thanks uhh so much sir... You're my motivation and inspiration sir.. I learn many things from uu sir because where i lives there is not a good education facility..
Sir you words are just like a therapy for a few minutes ago I was feeling very down and moreover I was very doubtful about my preparation coz I'm doing my graduation from du sol. and due to that reason I was feeling that I will lack in something but after listening you I realized that all you need is to believe in yourself and focus upon the process not on the results ......thank you so much ,we are lucky to have a mentor like you sir ❣
Thank you so much sir.. Your way of explaining things and tackle situation and also learning techniques make you different from other officers.. Huge respect.. Thanks for guiding us like a big brother in this journey.. 🙏
Thank you Sir for the message/lesson. Coming from someone who is on the other side now instills belief in our self. Thanks for opening up about your ownself and sharing your experiences which helps us to not feel dejected and lost!! Kudos to your work for the student community 👍
Thank you so much Sir.... sometimes thinking about the fear of failure, thinking about the people around, moments come like when I feel low and lonely.... sometimes I also feel like there are many who want me to fail and these moments just make me feel more bad... but your words today has surely shown a right path to travel on.... thank you so much Sir 🙂
Sir i failed in my 10th exam then my parents didn't let me study more. Bcoz in my family girls hv not allowed to study more. After fighting with my parents I did 10th with nios then 12th in nios and graduation with noncollege For UPSC only. I hv sateled my oun business and I m preparing for upsc. But in reality I hv no family support. And no guidance. Thanks you for your videos. Bcoz of ur videos I m studing from home. Thanks sir.
This lesson was really useful. Since I m preparing for upsc, every now & then when I sit with myself in a break time or whenever I feel I m not doing things the way they should be , I feel shattered & devastated . But then next moment I startup again. I m kinda thankful to you sir for making me understood the very fact - you are not unique in this aspect of mental doubts & second to fight asap without loosing a ray of hope. Alongside, I have 2 very important queries- I really want to speak like the way you do with clarity of thought (- thats why we people get hooked to what you are saying) & secondly everyday I learn something mind-blowing and I feel the urge of sharing with someone but I don't have any. What to do ?🤦
Thankyou so much sir...I request you to please make video for strategy and sources for other subjects, as soon as possible according to your time convenience.
Thankyou sir for this session, You really give a boost to the mindset by such realistic videos of yours. Please make a video on C.A and how to approach it. Newspaper and editorials are becoming nightmare. There are so many sources explaining the paper and editorials nowadays it gets very confusing. 🙏🏻❤️
Same with me failed pre once and i m all shattered ! Now all my friends are placed and I feel like a complete failure the grief and uncertainty is getting a hold of me fr sure still i got 4 months to redeem my self lets see how it goes
If you fail never give up beacuse mean first attempting learning -end is not the end if fact end means effort never dies.... Love you sir ❤❤ general theme of this session
Thnx sir, I fill someone present with us like brother more than IAS officer. And pls make lectures for time management- MCQ solving for prelims if possible sir . Thanks alot.💐
it is more better when you express your thoughts in bilingual because Hindi aspirants also attract towards u ... I hope you definitely consider my request...thanks sr
Sir, please tell me if NCERTs, current affairs and government reports are sufficient for economy? Is it necessary to supplement with books like nitin singhania?🙏🙏
Nothing is more important than being alive. Remind yourself every morning that you are breathing and if you are breathing then you should utilise your every breath count. Achieving something in life in terms of IAS , IPS , Engineering is only possible if you are alive. Boredom is just a frame of mind which can even stimulate your hormones to quickly turn it around to your wish but the boredoms energy should be guided in such a direction which could lead you to your goal. Let's say you are feeling bored , try to do something which you don't like at all , it ll channelise your energy to do something which you like or the thing which is important (studying) to you. Hope this could be helpful. Jai Hind!!
Sir please make a comprehensive video for college students I am in NIT allahabad and schedule is too hectic 9-6 pm classes. + assignment+quizzes I am not able to find time for upsc prep. Please🙏
How to handle Fear of failure Failure is quite natural accept it embrace it Learn from your mistakes Try learn fail getup learn tryagain buy this time don't repeat ur previous mistakes Believe in yourself Getup gear up Perseverance, patience and perspiration Deal with your boredom Do ur best Don't procrastinate Ever tried ever failed don't worry try again fail again fail better the world is yours 👍 My best wishes to all Thank you soo much 😊
Sir ek detailed video banai decoding of upsc syllabus mains ek ek topic ka I know sir video bara ho jaiga but bahut se students ko aur humko bhi help milega Kuch video hai aapki ispe but detailed ek ek topic ka nhi hai So Sir make a video of detailed decoding of upsc mains syllabus
sir booklist and how to read them wali classes finish??ham sab wait kar rhe the us class ka bcz usse ek dam clarity aajati h bad me is matter me to we can avoid you tube
I cleared CDS 8 times and AFCAT 7 times and failed all 15 interviews. But, these failures led me to know my actual strength,my strong and weak areas. I accepted them and moving forward for my ultimate goal. Because stopping and feeling depressed is not an option.
Bhaisaab kaha se laate hh itna motivation ...by the way thanku so much bade bhai itna motivate karne k liye
Hats off to you!
Gajab
What are you doing for living
@@riddhip7344 hey mahagyani kripa kar k mujhe v bataiye ki mai upsc ke liye kaha se padhna suru karu...ho sake to mera margdarshan kare...
Depression and fear of failure are very prevalent these times. Suffering with financial pressure when job security of your family is in danger bcz of pandemic and when you are just a graduate, age 24, unemployed, frequent insults, peer pressure, relatives taunts etc but can't compromise with your future by doing some part-time, in short, losing long term goal for short term needs and continuing with your struggle. If you are struggling with such a situation and still going on with aim of exam like UPSC, Hats off to your perseverance. And best of luck, you'll surely get success.
Battling depression but still going on.Striving and slogging everyday.The day I give up on hope is the day I cease to be . Cheers.
God bless you brother ☮️
❤️
Please talk people who are close to you and otherwise if u can't share the your things take a spiritual path like OM SHANTI, SADHGURU and So on
Stay blessed 🙏😇
May all your sadness turns into happiness 🙏🙌💯
@@RKrobin11 please make sure that take care of yourself
Share to your closed ones otherwise join spiritual path 👍
Stay blessed 🙏😇
Same bro ...😭😭😭
When you are an above average student throughout your life but fail twice in UPSC prelims, it’s takes a whole lot toll on your mental health. I was shocked at my first failure but somehow understood what went wrong. The second failure however shattered me, it took me a lot of time to overcome that feeling. Obviously quitting was never an option and I am super proud of myself for that. I somehow accepted the failure and went straight into preparing for my next attempt. THIRD TIME’S THE CHARM ( manifesting it) 🤞✨
All the best dear 💕
The good ones got god on their side mate.... nothing to fear.
All the best...♥️
I m dealing with same problem.
@@princy1070 I'm sure you must have learnt your lessons...and your failures are things of past now....you got 4 months 4 days still left for prelims...
Just give your best..
Good luck dear!
Everything will be fine .
I am working as a security guard job, my age is 25 , i belongs to humble background, lot of responsbililty on me because of my poor family.. Last time i had attempted upsc exam but unfortunately I was failed.. Now I am trying for next attempt.. I am taking only one time meal because I want to save my money for my family & for younger sister clothes & book for her further studies... Day shift I am doing job, night shift I am studying... Hope... Bhagwaan ek baar ham gareebo ko bhi acchi subah suraj ki kiran dikhayega... 🙏🏼🙏🏼😊
More powers to you man!
You are gonna succed in your life...
Hats off to you!
You're inspiring!! I wish you success and happiness !! Keep striving! You're gonna get there!!
Woww. Good luck brother. Such a strong soul u are ...and really inspiring. I was having anxiety relating upsc but u made me feel lighten and motivated ❤❤
Lessons
*Failure is reality*
*Study from your failure (past)*
These 2 realisations make you better 😊
1) get up
2) Believe in yourself
Thank you Sir for today's motivation.. love from Kolkata ❤️❤️
I somehow ignored this video yesterday because I thought that it will take some time n I was busy doing stuffs... but today morning was a bang on... feeling emotionally sick... shouting... complaining... crying... highly demotivated and full of negative thoughts... failing to manage the stress and countless unidentified emotions... Sir thank you for helping me to calm down!🙏
Your videos are always rational and applicable🙌
Thank you bade bhaiya♥️♥️
Recently I got to learn about this concept of *stoicism* and I'm glad ki aap hum sabko bohot apna maan k motivate karte rehte hain♥️♥️
Yes...we all have pain and suffering in our lives but that's exactly the moment when we show our character.
*Zindagi gumm ka sagar bhi hai...hass ke uss paar jaana padega*
As Mahi bhai(MSD) always say...
As long as we are honest to ourselves... nothing matters..
Sir namaste
You are the best motivator of my life.
I've been following you since starting.
Thanks sir
"The reason for an ongoing existence of hopes infused with pure intent and powered by consistency would not cease til the goal is reched" Thanks for motivating us our lighthouse 💫🙏 even an elder brother can't do that...
Have a great day my Lord🙏🙇🙌
Thanks uhh so much sir...
You're my motivation and inspiration sir..
I learn many things from uu sir because where i lives there is not a good education facility..
Need this to hear today from anybody else ❤️🙏🙏
Thank you sir
Sir you words are just like a therapy for a few minutes ago I was feeling very down and moreover I was very doubtful about my preparation coz I'm doing my graduation from du sol. and due to that reason I was feeling that I will lack in something but after listening you I realized that all you need is to believe in yourself and focus upon the process not on the results ......thank you so much ,we are lucky to have a mentor like you sir ❣
c.e.c.e=consistent efforts to correct errors...follow this mantra without any excuse...
Dont procrastinate and dont look at social media... Superb sir.. 👌👌👌
Tysm officer for ur moral support during our journey. Really ur words inspire me in getting back to the reality of Karma. 🙏🎓❤️✌️
Thank u sir ....at this point of time, I am feeling low , regarding my preparation.....bt your video gave me a reason to study again....
Thank you so much sir.. Your way of explaining things and tackle situation and also learning techniques make you different from other officers.. Huge respect.. Thanks for guiding us like a big brother in this journey.. 🙏
Thank you sir for giving us direction towards success...❤️
Sir u are really very realistic person, you are really .....No word 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Ur every video is fruitful....
Bhaiya, thanks a ton for the effort you are putting for us 🥺❤
Thank you Sir for the message/lesson. Coming from someone who is on the other side now instills belief in our self. Thanks for opening up about your ownself and sharing your experiences which helps us to not feel dejected and lost!! Kudos to your work for the student community 👍
Much needed one right now sir… Thanks much Sir🌻
We are not afraid of any failure Sir, because u r with us 😍😍
Thank u very much sir for motivating us 🙏
Jai Hind 🇮🇳
sir please continue answer writing videos .these are more helping
Huge respect..... Thankyouuu sir for guiding us
Thanku sir for your guidance from all of us. ❤
Thank you so much Sir.... sometimes thinking about the fear of failure, thinking about the people around, moments come like when I feel low and lonely.... sometimes I also feel like there are many who want me to fail and these moments just make me feel more bad... but your words today has surely shown a right path to travel on.... thank you so much Sir 🙂
Sir you are blessing to humanity.
Thank you so much sir 🥺 maybe this was I needed to hear now.🙂
Ur videos r so motivating and inspiring really helping aspirants sir 👏🏻👏🏻🙏
Thank you so much sir ! Your words helped me a lot.
Love u sir for refueling us .....and making us motivated and this inturn helps us in completing our target done on daily basis....... 🙏
always feel positive listning you sir ❤
Thank you so much ❤️❤️😊
Whenever I feel down your video motivates me like magic ,gives me hope again
Thank you Sir
Thank you so much sir, for your support and motivation ...
Really thanks sir for such a beautiful advice. You are really a true source of inspiration.
Much needed advice …thanks a lot sir ❤️
Sir i failed in my 10th exam then my parents didn't let me study more.
Bcoz in my family girls hv not allowed to study more. After fighting with my parents I did 10th with nios then 12th in nios and graduation with noncollege For UPSC only. I hv sateled my oun business and I m preparing for upsc. But in reality I hv no family support. And no guidance. Thanks you for your videos. Bcoz of ur videos I m studing from home. Thanks sir.
This lesson was really useful. Since I m preparing for upsc, every now & then when I sit with myself in a break time or whenever I feel I m not doing things the way they should be , I feel shattered & devastated . But then next moment I startup again. I m kinda thankful to you sir for making me understood the very fact - you are not unique in this aspect of mental doubts & second to fight asap without loosing a ray of hope. Alongside, I have 2 very important queries- I really want to speak like the way you do with clarity of thought (- thats why we people get hooked to what you are saying) & secondly everyday I learn something mind-blowing and I feel the urge of sharing with someone but I don't have any. What to do ?🤦
Thankyou sir for this great information it really going to good for anyone
Thank you so much sir for your guidance.....it's really means a lot.
sir u rocks really ❤️❤️ stay blessed
Sir I met you in my dream...
Thank you sir, no word for this lesson
Yahi toh chahiye tha..thank you sir ji.
Thank you. Sir . Keep motivating us.
sir please make video for approaching geography🙏
you are a enlightening light for me, who always help me to get out of darkness of self doubt..... Thank you sir 🤗😍🙏👏
Thank you for motivating sir ❤️🙏🏻
Sir you truly are an inspiration for me .
Thankyou sir for your inspirational words.
U r my inspiration anna...thank u so much for ur valuable advice...
Tq so much sir very valuable message tq sir
Thank you very much sir.. Apki ye baat hamesa yaad rahegi.
Thank you for your support sir . Your videos gives some motivation sir
Thankyou so much sir...I request you to please make video for strategy and sources for other subjects, as soon as possible according to your time convenience.
Your words are source of inspiration sir.
This vedio gave me more energetic and really inspired me and just loved it😘....thank you sir .
Thank you soo much sir ❤ u are my inspiration, thanks for your guidance
Thankyou sir for this session, You really give a boost to the mindset by such realistic videos of yours. Please make a video on C.A and how to approach it. Newspaper and editorials are becoming nightmare. There are so many sources explaining the paper and editorials nowadays it gets very confusing. 🙏🏻❤️
Sir your my favorite one....... Thank you for your motivation 🥲
Blessed are the parents who have a son like you. 🙏🏻🕉️🕉️🕉️ God Bless 🕉️
Thankyou sir for the message
You constant support for us ❤️
Sir please make a session on Ancient history
It would be highly helpful for us
Sir please guide us for geography also
Your previous subject strategy videos are quite helpful to me
Thank you Sir got some clarity. 😊
Thnku fr this motivation sir❤❤huge respect to u sir
This made my day!!
Sr rly u r god gift 4 ussssss🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🌼
Thank you Sir❤
Thank you so much sir ...it helps a lot
Hello sir,
I hope your health is doing well?
I request you to kindly make a 4 month prelims strategy video..Please?!
Same with me failed pre once and i m all shattered ! Now all my friends are placed and I feel like a complete failure the grief and uncertainty is getting a hold of me fr sure still i got 4 months to redeem my self lets see how it goes
If you fail never give up beacuse mean first attempting learning -end is not the end if fact end means effort never dies.... Love you sir ❤❤ general theme of this session
Believe on ur self and be consistant is the key for this lock..
I still feel the fear how I gave the exam after my father died. Thanks atleast I'm not alone.
Thankyou thankyou 🙏🏻💐🥳🥳💐🥳🥳💐💐🎊🎊
Thnx sir, I fill someone present with us like brother more than IAS officer.
And pls make lectures for time management-
MCQ solving for prelims if possible sir . Thanks alot.💐
Right video right time
Thank you sir 🙏🏻☺️
Nice explanation sir tq for your motivated to me
Sir , thanks for sharing .....
Sir ... Sources and strategy how to study Geography ...Par video banaiye na sir
it is more better when you express your thoughts in bilingual because Hindi aspirants also attract towards u ... I hope you definitely consider my request...thanks sr
Sir, please tell me if NCERTs, current affairs and government reports are sufficient for economy? Is it necessary to supplement with books like nitin singhania?🙏🙏
Sir plz make vedio on geography and ancient history 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Nothing is more important than being alive. Remind yourself every morning that you are breathing and if you are breathing then you should utilise your every breath count. Achieving something in life in terms of IAS , IPS , Engineering is only possible if you are alive. Boredom is just a frame of mind which can even stimulate your hormones to quickly turn it around to your wish but the boredoms energy should be guided in such a direction which could lead you to your goal. Let's say you are feeling bored , try to do something which you don't like at all , it ll channelise your energy to do something which you like or the thing which is important (studying) to you. Hope this could be helpful.
Jai Hind!!
Life is a experiment of trial & error. Keep the logs and troubleshoot whenever needed.
Sir please make a comprehensive video for college students I am in NIT allahabad and schedule is too hectic 9-6 pm classes. + assignment+quizzes I am not able to find time for upsc prep. Please🙏
Sir I am wating for vedio on geography and ancient history.
So I can start my preparation
Thankyou sir
How to handle Fear of failure
Failure is quite natural accept it embrace it
Learn from your mistakes
Try learn fail getup learn tryagain buy this time don't repeat ur previous mistakes
Believe in yourself
Getup gear up
Perseverance, patience and perspiration
Deal with your boredom
Do ur best
Don't procrastinate
Ever tried ever failed don't worry try again fail again fail better the world is yours 👍
My best wishes to all
Thank you soo much 😊
Sir ek detailed video banai decoding of upsc syllabus mains ek ek topic ka
I know sir video bara ho jaiga but bahut se students ko aur humko bhi help milega
Kuch video hai aapki ispe but detailed ek ek topic ka nhi hai
So Sir make a video of detailed decoding of upsc mains syllabus
sir booklist and how to read them wali classes finish??ham sab wait kar rhe the us class ka bcz usse ek dam clarity aajati h bad me is matter me to we can avoid you tube
Awakening 🔥
Thanks sir ❤️❤️❤️
Sir please take a session on Public Administration (optional ) subjet . how can i prepare effectively and also suggest some sources.