Perfectionism procrastination. This is all so common with people taking that leap. They are shackles by the fear of judgement, either by themselves or others. This often stops them from starting or progressing. Just be true to yourself and start taking action
Don't be afraid to show your true self. Stop worrying about those comments, know your worth and your value. Be motivated and help those haters of yours to be better and help them express their true self.
"There are two types of people who will tell you that you cannot make a difference in this world: those who are afraid to try and those who are afraid you will succeed." -- Ray Goforth
I am scared of being judged, being seen as someone I am not, described with adjectives I don’t identify with. But getting over these things, this fear, I believe is an internal one where I may never be rid of the feeling of fear, but just have to learn to be okay with that.
This is why I started watching and listening to these kinds of videos because I realized the people around me don't bring positivity and encouragement.. and decided people like Gary is my kind of people.
I love to make videos but I was deathly afraid to vlog in public, which is ironic because I am a really social and outgoing person but that fear of judgement from others completely took over. One day I took my camera out to a city fair with LOTS of people and I realized two things; 80% of the people didn't even care or notice, 10% that did notice kinda just laughed which helped me feel more relaxed and able to shrug it off more and the other 10% that were super judgy pants, we both will forgot that brief exchanged moment 5 mins later. Second thing I realized, I was petrified with fear and letting in all these false illusions in my head but once I took that leap, I realized how ridiculous I was being for thinking that way! A lot of people respect that bravery to be that vulnerable in public. I hope this helps someone who is shy to make content in public! I encourage you to take that leap and you'll quickly notice that its not as bad as your mind illustrates it to be.
WOW! This is so me right now, I'm starting a health & fitness UA-cam channel and would LOVE to film what I do at the gym but I just can't bring myself to do it yet because of the fear of judgment, I did record a video for my IG story but not in the way I wanted. I need to take the leap and just DO it!! Thank you for writing this
Although I do have a problem with being myself around strangers, and fearing the judgement of them, that is not the worst part for me. Even with the closest of friends and family, I fear that I will be judged for being myself although they are perfectly accepting of a lot of things. I have the struggle of showing myself to people in the way I want to, but there is no reason for me hiding everything.
I'm from Malaysia and I'm fed up of my family expectation that I need to follow their opinion not mine...I love to have college education and to have a degree but the problem is my parents does not allow me to work outside from my hometown they want to stay with them & to be pampered. Im nearly 30 now & regret that i didnt take action when i was younger (6 years ago) , I dont want to be regret when I get older. My parents always want me to please people especially family members. I want to have fliexible life not a control life.
Dear bro,Islam gives you the right to follow your own career and choose your marriage partner No one....not even your parents can force you to do something else
Just take action Emulate what works Don’t be afraid of making mistakes and failure - that is how you learn Be resourceful You can make excuses or you can do whatever it takes Believe in yourself You can do it 😃😎
No amount of books will give you the "secret" that you need to be successful and happy. Like Gary says all the time, execute on your truths and don't trust anyone's opinion except your own (unless it's well-thoughout).
Actually everyone can write if they are willing to practice and get better at it. And don't get thrown down by if someone else don't like what they have been writing
Perfectionism procrastination. This is all so common with people taking that leap. They are shackles by the fear of judgement, either by themselves or others. This often stops them from starting or progressing. Just be true to yourself and start taking action
The fear of judgement haunted me for so long... I'm BREAKING those shackles TODAY
Don't be afraid to show your true self. Stop worrying about those comments, know your worth and your value. Be motivated and help those haters of yours to be better and help them express their true self.
"There are two types of people who will tell you that you cannot make a difference in this world: those who are afraid to try and those who are afraid you will succeed."
-- Ray Goforth
"but it starts with being self-aware, and having self-esteem." I felt that so hard.
I am scared of being judged, being seen as someone I am not, described with adjectives I don’t identify with. But getting over these things, this fear, I believe is an internal one where I may never be rid of the feeling of fear, but just have to learn to be okay with that.
"Show your journey," And I'm going to do just that. Awesome video.
This is why I started watching and listening to these kinds of videos because I realized the people around me don't bring positivity and encouragement.. and decided people like Gary is my kind of people.
I love to make videos but I was deathly afraid to vlog in public, which is ironic because I am a really social and outgoing person but that fear of judgement from others completely took over. One day I took my camera out to a city fair with LOTS of people and I realized two things; 80% of the people didn't even care or notice, 10% that did notice kinda just laughed which helped me feel more relaxed and able to shrug it off more and the other 10% that were super judgy pants, we both will forgot that brief exchanged moment 5 mins later. Second thing I realized, I was petrified with fear and letting in all these false illusions in my head but once I took that leap, I realized how ridiculous I was being for thinking that way! A lot of people respect that bravery to be that vulnerable in public.
I hope this helps someone who is shy to make content in public! I encourage you to take that leap and you'll quickly notice that its not as bad as your mind illustrates it to be.
WOW! This is so me right now, I'm starting a health & fitness UA-cam channel and would LOVE to film what I do at the gym but I just can't bring myself to do it yet because of the fear of judgment, I did record a video for my IG story but not in the way I wanted. I need to take the leap and just DO it!! Thank you for writing this
Your words are a help to me thank you man!!!!
Although I do have a problem with being myself around strangers, and fearing the judgement of them, that is not the worst part for me. Even with the closest of friends and family, I fear that I will be judged for being myself although they are perfectly accepting of a lot of things. I have the struggle of showing myself to people in the way I want to, but there is no reason for me hiding everything.
I'm from Malaysia and I'm fed up of my family expectation that I need to follow their opinion not mine...I love to have college education and to have a degree but the problem is my parents does not allow me to work outside from my hometown they want to stay with them & to be pampered. Im nearly 30 now & regret that i didnt take action when i was younger (6 years ago) , I dont want to be regret when I get older. My parents always want me to please people especially family members. I want to have fliexible life not a control life.
Dear bro,Islam gives you the right to follow your own career and choose your marriage partner
No one....not even your parents can force you to do something else
Just take action
Emulate what works
Don’t be afraid of making mistakes and failure - that is how you learn
Be resourceful
You can make excuses or you can do whatever it takes
Believe in yourself
You can do it 😃😎
Focus on your inner values not on other people opinions.
The same shit again. Love it, Gary!❤️
I miss these keynote talks, Gary's rollout & deep dives are always on-point
Empowering reminders of becoming self aware and building self esteem.
Knowing thyself and learning by doing is the way, thanks GV.
That's true I can relate to it, Judgement freeze me from taking action
This is why we love you Gary V
Tbh...As an aspiring influencer it's like he's reading my heart and mind sometimes. #stayblissfulmyfriends
How to further enhance your self awareness and self esteem ? Any books or videos recommended ? Thanks
No amount of books will give you the "secret" that you need to be successful and happy. Like Gary says all the time, execute on your truths and don't trust anyone's opinion except your own (unless it's well-thoughout).
Try Mooji, sense of I am
Let us have our daily bread ...
Daily Marathon Energy! Thank you Gary!
I am grateful that I always listen to myself and 9 out of 10 times I always follow through with my instincts.
The best way of supporting your parents is to be Happy 😎
Absolutely wow .. to what you just said about not being a good writer and yet …. You have published books … thanks for sharing that.😎😎.
LISTEN TO GARY!!!! Don't Give Up 😎❤️
You’re the best dude
0:30 what won’t work
I thought this was gonna be a new birdbox movie.
Actually everyone can write if they are willing to practice and get better at it. And don't get thrown down by if someone else don't like what they have been writing
life is a journey. Document it.
Love it 💖
Thanks gary that was useful
This vd changed my perspective
Thanks team garyvee
Gary I gotta stop listening to you. Each time I do, I produce more fruit. Its that time again. Thank you.
Just Amazing
Yoooo drock! 💪🏻
Wow!! Thanks
It's not the anonymous, it's the family members and close friends
What if you are missing teeth?
@S Sagittarius yea, I've been thinking about a Podcast for a couple months now. I think that's what I'll have to do. Thanks for the feedback
who the fuck put that thumbs down? who did it?
a jogdijam változatlan :))))))))
Not true! Fake it until you make it! You’ll eventually become the expert you BS’ed you were.
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I wrote this song, entitled 'Think I'll be Me': ua-cam.com/video/2kmPHHCeERQ/v-deo.html Enjoy