Jillz is so on point. "When he isn't excited for you, he's against you". My ex was insecure of my achievements and ruined each of my happy moment. I later found out that he had a narcissistic personality.
My ex was the same way- if he couldn't find a way to take credit himself, he'd try to tear me down. He would even intercept compliments I'd get like someone would tell me my outfit was cute he'd say "yeah we try to keep her looking cute..." or someone would compliment my shoes he'd say "what about mine". It is bizarre to even look back at it now... smh
@@DandLucy I'm so sorry for what you went through. But I'm happy that he's your EX. 🥳 We believe in good men now. We attract masculine, secure, loving men now. Amen.
@@mgtv5482 yes, and I read somewhere that "he doesn't hate you, he hates that he isn't you, and wants to destroy you". May God protect us from all evil. Amen.
"Even if he is perfect, when he is not interested in you, he is not perfect for you" The Part of me that easily falls in 'love' needed to hear this. Thank you!:)
Honestly, both partners should think their spouse is the prize! Simone is so talented, obviously sweet, supportive and beautiful. So pathetic that he's acting like he lowered himself to be with her and to broadcast that sentiment so publicly. He's definitely jealous of all her accolades.
I think it's good for both partners to know they are valuable. But a GROWN ADULT MAN calling himself a "prize" is very questionable. It seems feminine, almost like a man calling himself a "princess." 😂 Women need to stay away from men with this mentality because they usually think they are doing you a favor by being with you, and they treat you poorly. They are the types to do the bare minimum. Just my opinion.
@@marlena. That's toxic as well. The conversation should be "we're lucky to have found each other." Walking around with an "I'm the shit. I deigned to be with you. Be grateful" is an ugly attitude from anyone. Anyone stressing that they are only with you because you ran after them is not a good sign.
“Women shouldn’t allow themselves to be totally enamored with a man unless you know he is interested in you first”. THIS is Gold and women should really pass this wisdom to all young girls and women in their lives. This will make your love life easier and definitely keep you on your feminine energy.
I needed to hear this so badly, perfect timing. Can 100% confirm that if a guy doesn't see you as a gem from the start, he won't magically start seeing you that way later in your relationship. Thanks Jillz 💖🙏
Women CONSTANTLY are calling themselves the prize, even women who haven't achieved or accomplished much in their lives. The backlash that he got just goes to show how egotistical and selfish too many women are. The fact that yall thinks it's ok for you to see yourself as the prize but men cannot see themselves as the prize is proof of your ego and hypocrisy.
“They argue over who is the better athlete”. What a joke. She is literally the most decorated gymnast of all time. He’s just another football player. There’s no contest. And yeah, I learned this lesson from my last relationship. Next time I’m gonna go for someone who is way more into me than I am into them. It’s better that way.
@@badwolf3618 It’s not some form of injustice, that’s actually how men and women dynamically work sexually -women being/feeling desired, men being/feeling proud of what they hunted. To want to be desired is a feminine trait, masculine men don’t desire being chased and pandered over their love language is more geared to being respected, having submissive partner, etc.
Is Simone forgetting that THE Zac Efron flew all the way to Brazil to see her at the 2016 Olympics just because he was in awe of her??? He didn't go to the hsm reunion but he went to Brazil for her!! They didn't date (that we know of) but how could she settle for this 2nd string benchwarmer loser that makes her drive 40 minutes after an experience like that???
This guy is giving wounded masculine energy. It may be a front for the cameras, but that almost makes it even worse. Minimizing her for clout, even if it’s in a joking manner is just yucky. Everything you said is 100%
So you recommend that he lies and pretends he pursued HER and lie that he KNEW ALL ABOUT her? Why? Why can't women understand that most men really do NOT watch women's sports. Most women don't even watch women's sports.
@@EriPagesI think it’s fine if he genuinely didn’t know who she was. No one is saying he should lie but come on.. they are married and the way he’s framing the story sounds negative. Even if he didn’t know who she was he doesn’t have to go out of his way to emphasize “I had never even heard of her, I saw her Instagram page and saw she had a lot of followers so she must be good but *shrugs shoulders*” come on. They’re married. Speak about her in a more positive light. Talk about how you learned who she was and she’s the most amazing in her sport, she’s accomplished, she’s a great woman. Don’t go in a public setting and say “I’m the prize, she chased me” if you truly loved and valued her you’d find a better way to frame it. It’s all about perspective
To this day.. I still could not tell you who this man is. This is “Simone’s husband” to me. So that’s why most of just find it quite ridiculous of him to say “I didn’t know who she was”. If that’s true fine, but it seems very fishy.
@@Sainte-adresse your last comment just shows your own pro-women bias instead of looking at the story neutrally like I looked at his story neutrally By default, that man like 99% of men and even 98% of WOMEN do NOT watch women's sports. If we flipped the genders and she said everything he said and he submissively supported the story the way she submissively supported the story, you and 99% of women who have a pro-women bias would be saying "YOU GO GIRL" That is the truth of this matter. Be neutral. Stop this pro-women bias.
@@EriPages “pro woman bias” ? Supporting your life partner is a two way street. Simone talks positively in public about her husband, her husband should do the same thing. Simple as that. You’re speaking on potential scenarios that do not exist saying “if we flipped genders” meanwhile we’re talking about real life where he is on camera saying these words, where everyone, male and female have heard of Simone, where plenty of people regardless of whether you watch female sports, have indeed watched the Olympics and don’t just suddenly turn it off when a women’s sport come on the TV. Women’s sports may not be popular but are we really gonna debate about an Olympian? Regardless of if we know the sport or not we hear about the athletes competing in the Olympics on behalf of our country don’t we? We most definitely hear about the winners of the Olympics. They get plenty sponsorships, commercials and interviews amongst other things when they are at the top of their game and top of their sport. The entire purpose of this video is to highlight that regardless of where each person is in their respective fields, they should cheer for one another and support each other. Exhibit A in the video Taylor Swift & Travis Kelce. Both successful however, Taylor is a Global star Travis is not, he does not take any opportunity to put her down or make himself look better and neither does she. They equally support each other. It’s just that simple. Talk positively about your life partner
I’m in a high quality 8 year relationship and number one thing you need in a relationship is respect. He’s not respectful, but she is. How do you think they could go past this?
@@juleslund1515 I can’t because I’d never allow myself to be with a man who’s disrecpetful in a conversation and definitely not in a relationship or a marriage. I’m just sad for Simone, as she seems like a high value woman who knows her worth..hence asked Jillz her opinion on how they could resolve this as they are married..
@@NK-wb1dl It can't be resolved. I have no doubt that he is with her for all the wrong reason. As he said, the first thing he noticed about her was her followers, if she didn't have that many he probably wouldn't have given her the time of day. She's young and a million times more successful than him, she can do much better than that man.
"You are not a participation prize" 🤣I died! Definitely dated guys that were "too good" for me and I never thought (or made to feel like) I wasnt the prize. Men know, even before you do, wether you will add value to their life or not. If they are insecure they will always make sure to put you down so you dont realize your worth and leave them. I loved this breakdown. Thank you for your take on this topic.
Some guys do anything to earn your love. They promise to always prioritize you, take good care of you, make surprises for you, and marry you, but when they earn your love, they take you for granted and start treating you like everyone else. They become lazy and careless and barely text you first. Ive known a guy who was so lovely, but when he faced some hard circumstances in his life, he became someone else. Someone I didn't know before. He became a lazy, careless, blameful, irresponsible, and mean person.
It's only natural for the "excitement" to taper off once you've been with the same person after a while. You can't expect the other person to act the same way they did in the beginning like calling or texting you first or often. It's not realistic. We get older and mature too. We're no longer hormonally raging nor love struck teens. Life happens and we experience sickness, death of loved ones, loss of job, financial issues, job issues, kids, mental issues, etc. You said yourself he fell on hard times, but you want him to be happy, text you first, prioritize you, surprise you, care for you and be the same guy he was in the beginning. Of course he changed. I would too if I was going through a rough time. I actually have in the past become lazy, careless, mad, stressed, unhappy and less attentive to my loved ones when I've gone through bad times. If my husband or boyfriend is whining about not getting attention and surprises saying he misses who I was in the beginning while I battle hard times I'd get in a worse mood. I'd rethink my relationship with him and wonder why his first thought "me me me" while I'm going through bad times.
Key word you said was “Promise” there is a difference between a word and an ACTION. Also, this is why you give NOTHING to a man BEFORE it’s time. You wouldn’t have that disappointment if you sat and WATCHED his actions during the courting phase. You can always spot a coward with the little actions or inactions they do…. It doesn’t take long to weed them out.
What a story! But Ms Biles’ behaviour was so bad from the start. From what I read not only did she message him first, drove to him, but she is also the one who pushed for them to get married when he was not so keen…Not wonder he sees himself as the prize! I also read this lady suffered a lot in her life which could explain her insecurities… Now her story proves once again that high achieving women shouldn’t forget to act like women, not like men in their relationships. I finally think her story is very useful for other ladies in case they are tempted to behave in the same way.
Screw you and your gender norms. Men deserve to be pursued too. It shouldn't always be the man pursuing and initiating. Women just can't handle rejection and wanna see themselves as inherently valuable whereas men have to prove their value.
This man is the lost brother of Meghan Markle (aka “The Meg”), saying that she “didn't know” who Princes Harry of the UK was, ...😑 🙄😒 Yeah SURE, 👍🏻. The thing is that, for instance: I am not a 10, maybe an 8 (and I am not workinghard to be a 10, I couldn'tcare less), ...but I think that I am a 20 💅🏻...AND my husband thinks that I am a 100 😉 and also he loves me for all the things I am and all the things I will never be. That is the way it should be. Also, of course, he is a 100 for me too.
I absolutely love hearing from Jillz outside of our regularly scheduled programming! So happy to hear your opinion on this interesting topic. Please chime in on anything else that catches your eye or ear, Girlfriend. We are here for it!
The fact that nobody even knows his name and calls him “Mr Simone Biles” and he has the audacity to think he is THE PRIZE 😂😂😂😂 Narcissistic men are unbelievable.
"Even if he is perfect, when he is not interested in you, he is not perfect for you" The Part of me that easily falls in 'love' needed to hear this. Thank you!:)
This is so sad to see that he’s so insecure that he has a need to even think let alone say those things about his WIFE. You are 100% right, we the women need to look more for acta non verba in all of our relationships!!
I would argue that I was the one who pursued my ex, we moved really fast and I moved in with him within 3 months. He once told me “I don’t know how I landed you but I’ll take it.” And that he’s got the “dream house, dream job, and dream girl”. So he thought he didn’t need to put work into keeping me and it felt like I put so much effort that wasn’t reciprocated.
A narcissistic man will rarely see beyond themselves as the prize , maybe initially they will make you think you are the prize because of the benefits they get from being with you but in their heart they are primary and you are secondary and regardless of it’s on national tv or behind close doors they will treat you as such ! It’s so important to work on your self esteem so you spot these things early on especially if your family never ingrained this in your consciousness. She has olympic medals and she still chase this man down…and took up for him when her fans were giving her the game. This is a self esteem issue .
I am careful about throwing around the word narcissist- I like to save that for the kind of pure evil that it is. For me, this guy is just the garden variety insecure man child who does not know how to step to a woman of her calibre. And in Simone, what I see is another uber strong talented woman, for whom there are fewer worthy men and so she has to adjust and pivot and try to figure out how to not make a man uncomfortable with her. I feel a collective sense of exhaustion that men who might be worthy could be too intimidated to approach her, and only the truly unworthy men have the huberis and guts and gall to speak about this amazing woman this way. This guy needs to find some humility and recognize the queen he married, and then start PUBLICLY putting Simone on the pedestal she deserves.
Not only a video on sunday, but also today. What a treat 🎉😂! In my opinion respect should go both ways in a marriage. Btw Jillz; my husband and I also met in high school and got together and are married now. ( we are now 31 ) so I can relate when you talk about your relationship. ❤ Lots of love
I'm so curious about their relationship dynamics. I wonder why she is drawn to this person (her own insecurities), its so obvious he is narcissistic, jealous, insecure and probably with her for her fame. He clearly does not highly value her. Thats so sad.
Hi Jillz! Would love to know your thoughts on when a guy does make you feel cherished but you don’t really have strong feelings towards him? Should you still give him a chance and let those feelings develop with time? New to healthy relationships so not sure how that’s supposed to go yet 😂 love the channel!!
I think this is obvious insecurity but they are both young. My hubby and I have been married almost 28 years. We were very young when we got married and we both had our insecurities. I can’t imagine having our marriage in the spotlight when we were both so young and still had so much to learn. I think it’s not fair to judge him harshly. I do see what people are saying but give him some grace. Maybe this was just the pressures a young insecure lad feels around other men. If he truly loves her he’ll learn from this. They both will. Love you channel Jillz!
There's no need to give him grace. His actions made it clear how he feels about her and why he married her... She deserves better. His behavior is far from the behavior of a loving husband, we need to stop finding excuses for mediocre men.
@@sundaylibre I agree. Seeing a lot of women give this guy a chance is heartbreaking. If we turn the tables and have her talk bad against him, for sure these women will be the first one to condemn her.
I needed this so much. Trank you thank you thank you! I've been struggling with a painful breakup, and you said exactly the right things my heart needed to hear in order to finally move on. I hope I can make it this year.
Yes Simone is beautiful. He's handsome. I think he has let others make him think he's the prize over her. These individuals are shallow and don't really think they have anything going on for themselves.
I'm starting to think she might be intimidated by a man on her level. I think she enjoyed winning him. It was a thrill. You can't help anyone like that.
Unfortunately, this is what happens when you have a rough upbringing and all your achievements begin with having to audition for the opportunity. She doesn't know any other way yet, and I sympathize with that.. just hope she comes to understand this sooner rather than later, when the pain of realization will be significantly less.
Jillz, watching this video I just realised that you reached 300.000 followers!!! Congratulations!! 🥳✨💞 Thank you for your amazing content! I really love your videos and binge watch them while being on the stairmaster at the gym 😅 they keep me going for a loooong time! Thank you!!
I totally agree with your assessment. He reminds me of my narcissistic ex who was always tearing me down to feel superior. His insecurity and inferiority complex is obvious.
Great video! Could you please talk a bit more about the girl "initiating" the relationship and the difference between that and pursuing later on? You say that initiating is ok, but I don´t see clarity, as I am quite stuck and hesitant right now (I feel I am now always waiting for him to act first, or otherwise it will not work out, but I don´t know if I am being "extreme"; I think I act like this because I realised that in all my past relationships (which never turned out well), I was the one initiating (or actively "making possible" the first encounter, starting a conversation, etc.). I would really, really appreciate it! Thank you and love from the UK ❤
You should make a video of the clown boxer who announced the birth of his child AND that he was divorcing his wife in the same post. Total garbage foolery.
That interview is so cringe and painful to watch. Poor Simone I can’t imagine how hard it would be to not internalize those messages and how embarrassing it would be to watch the public laugh at your man and how wrong he is.
All I need to say is we all call him “Simone Biles husband” I literally don’t even know his name, and I’m assuming many other people don’t. Recently I heard someone say something with a similar energy. They said with 100% seriousness “Taylor swifts new boyfriend put her back on the map” my single phrase retort to that was “what’s Taylor swifts new boyfriends name?” They didn’t have the answer. Both partners should care and cherish each other. I think that love in of itself is to hearts becoming one anatomically speaking, if you take two human hearts, and put them together in a certain way, they form what we would think of in the heart shape ❤ but if one heart is bigger then the other it will throw off the symmetry. Which is to say if one person cares WAY MORE it can throw off the relationship.
Jilz thank you so much ❤ I needed to hear this!!! Speaking of competition… could you do a vid on the feeling of competition for boys in a friendship… 🫠not a fun place to be
I think everyone should think their partner is the prize, regardless of gender. If you don't admire your partner and you think you are better than them that is not love or healthy
I’m in a long-term relationship (6 years) that started out in the positive way Jillz is promoting, but has deteriorated significantly in the last few years. This is my first loooong relationship, and I don’t know whether to tap out or keep trying to get things back to the way they were. Do you ever stop being a “prize” to your partner, but then regain that standing? Any thoughts from anyone are welcome.
Relationships tend to work best when the girl chases the guy a bit more bc girls get bored when the guy hands her everything too easily. The guy can see himself as the prize and still cherish the girl if he's really into her. There can be nuance there. Some guys can be macho and egotistical with their power tho so pick wisely. Psych hacks channel explored this recently as well. Ideally both should see each other as a prize, generally speaking. High value guys are also more rare, plus men don't care as much about women`s accomplishments they focus more on looks and youth/fertility. That may explain their dynamic to some degree. I also think Owens was just playing it up for the podcast bc he knows Simone is the bigger star, so he wanted to look cool in front of the boys. I think it was on the cheekier side but you can argue it was done out of insecurity too. Rational male is a good channel to watch. Alexander Grace also has good info.
It's sad that these are the golden rules, but yeah. Sometimes you like a man so much you just want to do whatever it takes to seal the deal. He shows a little interest so you want to show him, "here I am! all yours!"
Ok I'm not even from the US and I'm not even into artistic gymnastics (I'm a rythmic gymnastics kind of gal 💙) but I've known who Simone Biles is for years. As to her husband...he's been yapping about their relationship almost non-stop for the last few months, but it seems I still haven't been able to grasp his name or what he does for a living. He's some kind of sportsman I reckon, but there's dozens out there. Claiming he's the prize in their marriage sounds like a bit of a stretch indeed
I so very much agree with this, the woman should ALWAYS be the prize. I was just recently in an on-and-off situationship with a guy, and at first, it did really seem like, yes I was the gem in his eyes. But later he started to talk about how he was so fit and strong and always went to the gym and whenever I would talk about my much bigger achievements or opportunities he would dismiss it, saying "Yeah, because you're smart" and leave it at that. I was on Facetime with him once, and I really wanted to show him what I was playing. He couldn't give two flying craps and was just playing Fortnite. Learn from Simone and me men who don't see you as the gem aren't worth it ever.
I saw an interview of him once. It took me 2 minutes to understand that he's trying to humble Simone Biles, and I'm pretty certain that he uses her to gain more fame (he doesn't love her a bit, it's obvious). He's gonna cheat on her.
Oh man, how embarrassing for Simone. I’d be mortified. 💯💯💯 on the insecure man front and on the idea that it only matters what he sees, not what she “is” to other people.
If you think Simone biles doesn't think she's all that you are hilarious. Sports are 80% mental . Her mental is amazing perfect incredible. She knows she too good for him. Thats why it doesn't bother her bc we know the truth boo. Plus itsother cultural things hidden in this "she lived in the suburbs" black people have put such a status on living in the hood. He's trying to find any reason he's better than her. If he knew that he wouldn't have to say it. He's probably gets a lot of slack from JEALOUS ppl. & he doesn't realize they are just jealous. (excuse grammatical errors my phone is broken)
i never talked to any man that i was close to first :o i really cant imagine that women are doing that (nothing against SB) but... i just couldnt. 🥴 Luckily the first men i ever dated went above and beyond to just see me smile
Jillz is so on point. "When he isn't excited for you, he's against you".
My ex was insecure of my achievements and ruined each of my happy moment. I later found out that he had a narcissistic personality.
My ex was the same way- if he couldn't find a way to take credit himself, he'd try to tear me down. He would even intercept compliments I'd get like someone would tell me my outfit was cute he'd say "yeah we try to keep her looking cute..." or someone would compliment my shoes he'd say "what about mine". It is bizarre to even look back at it now... smh
That is frightening because someone who is not genuinely happy for your accomplishments may well be jealous. Jealousy is V dangerous.
@@DandLucy I'm so sorry for what you went through. But I'm happy that he's your EX. 🥳
We believe in good men now. We attract masculine, secure, loving men now. Amen.
@@mgtv5482 yes, and I read somewhere that "he doesn't hate you, he hates that he isn't you, and wants to destroy you". May God protect us from all evil. Amen.
@@soulandhuman thank you! I'm glad you're free as well! 💞
"Even if he is perfect, when he is not interested in you, he is not perfect for you"
The Part of me that easily falls in 'love' needed to hear this.
Thank you!:)
That stems from issues with our parents who didn't make us feel loved in childhood so we misinterpret feelings.
Honestly, both partners should think their spouse is the prize! Simone is so talented, obviously sweet, supportive and beautiful. So pathetic that he's acting like he lowered himself to be with her and to broadcast that sentiment so publicly. He's definitely jealous of all her accolades.
I think it's good for both partners to know they are valuable. But a GROWN ADULT MAN calling himself a "prize" is very questionable. It seems feminine, almost like a man calling himself a "princess." 😂 Women need to stay away from men with this mentality because they usually think they are doing you a favor by being with you, and they treat you poorly. They are the types to do the bare minimum. Just my opinion.
@@K_M.G That’s what I thought! I’ve never seen a grown man do this!
@NK-wb1dl Yet, I see women say things like this all the time. We are all in a way a prize and have something of value to give in a relationship.
I disagree. The man should view the woman as the prize and the woman should know she is the prize.
@@marlena. That's toxic as well. The conversation should be "we're lucky to have found each other." Walking around with an "I'm the shit. I deigned to be with you. Be grateful" is an ugly attitude from anyone. Anyone stressing that they are only with you because you ran after them is not a good sign.
“Women shouldn’t allow themselves to be totally enamored with a man unless you know he is interested in you first”. THIS is Gold and women should really pass this wisdom to all young girls and women in their lives. This will make your love life easier and definitely keep you on your feminine energy.
I needed to hear this so badly, perfect timing. Can 100% confirm that if a guy doesn't see you as a gem from the start, he won't magically start seeing you that way later in your relationship. Thanks Jillz 💖🙏
Women CONSTANTLY are calling themselves the prize, even women who haven't achieved or accomplished much in their lives.
The backlash that he got just goes to show how egotistical and selfish too many women are. The fact that yall thinks it's ok for you to see yourself as the prize but men cannot see themselves as the prize is proof of your ego and hypocrisy.
“They argue over who is the better athlete”. What a joke. She is literally the most decorated gymnast of all time. He’s just another football player. There’s no contest.
And yeah, I learned this lesson from my last relationship. Next time I’m gonna go for someone who is way more into me than I am into them. It’s better that way.
Ok well then you're a selfish person if you think you deserve to be given more love than the amount of love you show in return.
@@badwolf3618very selfish
@@badwolf3618 It’s not some form of injustice, that’s actually how men and women dynamically work sexually -women being/feeling desired, men being/feeling proud of what they hunted. To want to be desired is a feminine trait, masculine men don’t desire being chased and pandered over their love language is more geared to being respected, having submissive partner, etc.
@@melinatedthinka8210 What are you talking about? Men want to be desired
Is Simone forgetting that THE Zac Efron flew all the way to Brazil to see her at the 2016 Olympics just because he was in awe of her??? He didn't go to the hsm reunion but he went to Brazil for her!! They didn't date (that we know of) but how could she settle for this 2nd string benchwarmer loser that makes her drive 40 minutes after an experience like that???
This guy is giving wounded masculine energy. It may be a front for the cameras, but that almost makes it even worse. Minimizing her for clout, even if it’s in a joking manner is just yucky. Everything you said is 100%
So you recommend that he lies and pretends he pursued HER and lie that he KNEW ALL ABOUT her? Why? Why can't women understand that most men really do NOT watch women's sports. Most women don't even watch women's sports.
@@EriPagesI think it’s fine if he genuinely didn’t know who she was. No one is saying he should lie but come on.. they are married and the way he’s framing the story sounds negative.
Even if he didn’t know who she was he doesn’t have to go out of his way to emphasize “I had never even heard of her, I saw her Instagram page and saw she had a lot of followers so she must be good but *shrugs shoulders*”
come on. They’re married. Speak about her in a more positive light. Talk about how you learned who she was and she’s the most amazing in her sport, she’s accomplished, she’s a great woman. Don’t go in a public setting and say “I’m the prize, she chased me” if you truly loved and valued her you’d find a better way to frame it. It’s all about perspective
To this day.. I still could not tell you who this man is. This is “Simone’s husband” to me. So that’s why most of just find it quite ridiculous of him to say “I didn’t know who she was”. If that’s true fine, but it seems very fishy.
@@Sainte-adresse your last comment just shows your own pro-women bias instead of looking at the story neutrally like I looked at his story neutrally
By default, that man like 99% of men and even 98% of WOMEN do NOT watch women's sports.
If we flipped the genders and she said everything he said and he submissively supported the story the way she submissively supported the story, you and 99% of women who have a pro-women bias would be saying "YOU GO GIRL"
That is the truth of this matter.
Be neutral. Stop this pro-women bias.
@@EriPages “pro woman bias” ? Supporting your life partner is a two way street. Simone talks positively in public about her husband, her husband should do the same thing. Simple as that. You’re speaking on potential scenarios that do not exist saying “if we flipped genders” meanwhile we’re talking about real life where he is on camera saying these words, where everyone, male and female have heard of Simone, where plenty of people regardless of whether you watch female sports, have indeed watched the Olympics and don’t just suddenly turn it off when a women’s sport come on the TV.
Women’s sports may not be popular but are we really gonna debate about an Olympian? Regardless of if we know the sport or not we hear about the athletes competing in the Olympics on behalf of our country don’t we? We most definitely hear about the winners of the Olympics. They get plenty sponsorships, commercials and interviews amongst other things when they are at the top of their game and top of their sport.
The entire purpose of this video is to highlight that regardless of where each person is in their respective fields, they should cheer for one another and support each other. Exhibit A in the video Taylor Swift & Travis Kelce. Both successful however, Taylor is a Global star Travis is not, he does not take any opportunity to put her down or make himself look better and neither does she. They equally support each other. It’s just that simple. Talk positively about your life partner
I’m in a high quality 8 year relationship and number one thing you need in a relationship is respect. He’s not respectful, but she is. How do you think they could go past this?
why don't you tell us
@@juleslund1515 I can’t because I’d never allow myself to be with a man who’s disrecpetful in a conversation and definitely not in a relationship or a marriage.
I’m just sad for Simone, as she seems like a high value woman who knows her worth..hence asked Jillz her opinion on how they could resolve this as they are married..
Divorce?
@@NK-wb1dl It can't be resolved. I have no doubt that he is with her for all the wrong reason. As he said, the first thing he noticed about her was her followers, if she didn't have that many he probably wouldn't have given her the time of day. She's young and a million times more successful than him, she can do much better than that man.
"You are not a participation prize" 🤣I died! Definitely dated guys that were "too good" for me and I never thought (or made to feel like) I wasnt the prize. Men know, even before you do, wether you will add value to their life or not. If they are insecure they will always make sure to put you down so you dont realize your worth and leave them. I loved this breakdown. Thank you for your take on this topic.
Some guys do anything to earn your love. They promise to always prioritize you, take good care of you, make surprises for you, and marry you, but when they earn your love, they take you for granted and start treating you like everyone else. They become lazy and careless and barely text you first. Ive known a guy who was so lovely, but when he faced some hard circumstances in his life, he became someone else. Someone I didn't know before. He became a lazy, careless, blameful, irresponsible, and mean person.
It's only natural for the "excitement" to taper off once you've been with the same person after a while. You can't expect the other person to act the same way they did in the beginning like calling or texting you first or often.
It's not realistic.
We get older and mature too. We're no longer hormonally raging nor love struck teens. Life happens and we experience sickness, death of loved ones, loss of job, financial issues, job issues, kids, mental issues, etc.
You said yourself he fell on hard times, but you want him to be happy, text you first, prioritize you, surprise you, care for you and be the same guy he was in the beginning.
Of course he changed. I would too if I was going through a rough time. I actually have in the past become lazy, careless, mad, stressed, unhappy and less attentive to my loved ones when I've gone through bad times.
If my husband or boyfriend is whining about not getting attention and surprises saying he misses who I was in the beginning while I battle hard times I'd get in a worse mood. I'd rethink my relationship with him and wonder why his first thought "me me me" while I'm going through bad times.
Key word you said was “Promise” there is a difference between a word and an ACTION. Also, this is why you give NOTHING to a man BEFORE it’s time. You wouldn’t have that disappointment if you sat and WATCHED his actions during the courting phase. You can always spot a coward with the little actions or inactions they do…. It doesn’t take long to weed them out.
@@alexialira3839dawg you real as hell for this
What a story! But Ms Biles’ behaviour was so bad from the start. From what I read not only did she message him first, drove to him, but she is also the one who pushed for them to get married when he was not so keen…Not wonder he sees himself as the prize!
I also read this lady suffered a lot in her life which could explain her insecurities…
Now her story proves once again that high achieving women shouldn’t forget to act like women, not like men in their relationships.
I finally think her story is very useful for other ladies in case they are tempted to behave in the same way.
Screw you and your gender norms. Men deserve to be pursued too. It shouldn't always be the man pursuing and initiating. Women just can't handle rejection and wanna see themselves as inherently valuable whereas men have to prove their value.
This woman deserves much more views than this. Jillz is literally changing my life ❤❤❤
So basically she was in her masculine energy and he was in his feminine energy and that dynamic continues. 😢
“If he’s not excited for you, he’s not the one.” 👏🏻❤
This man is the lost brother of Meghan Markle (aka “The Meg”), saying that she “didn't know” who Princes Harry of the UK was, ...😑 🙄😒 Yeah SURE, 👍🏻. The thing is that, for instance: I am not a 10, maybe an 8 (and I am not workinghard to be a 10, I couldn'tcare less), ...but I think that I am a 20 💅🏻...AND my husband thinks that I am a 100 😉 and also he loves me for all the things I am and all the things I will never be. That is the way it should be. Also, of course, he is a 100 for me too.
I absolutely love hearing from Jillz outside of our regularly scheduled programming! So happy to hear your opinion on this interesting topic. Please chime in on anything else that catches your eye or ear, Girlfriend. We are here for it!
He sounds immature!! I don’t know how his wife put up with all that arrogance!
The fact that nobody even knows his name and calls him “Mr Simone Biles” and he has the audacity to think he is THE PRIZE 😂😂😂😂 Narcissistic men are unbelievable.
"Even if he is perfect, when he is not interested in you, he is not perfect for you"
The Part of me that easily falls in 'love' needed to hear this.
Thank you!:)
Girl how is your camera so crisp and how’s the quality so good
Haha fancy camera and lighting 🥰
This is so sad to see that he’s so insecure that he has a need to even think let alone say those things about his WIFE. You are 100% right, we the women need to look more for acta non verba in all of our relationships!!
Women do this ALL the time. It's even done by wives in TV shows. Why are you so hurt by this one guy? Why are you so fragile by this ONE guy?
I would argue that I was the one who pursued my ex, we moved really fast and I moved in with him within 3 months. He once told me “I don’t know how I landed you but I’ll take it.” And that he’s got the “dream house, dream job, and dream girl”. So he thought he didn’t need to put work into keeping me and it felt like I put so much effort that wasn’t reciprocated.
Great video! It makes me wonder if he's willing to talk about her like that in public, how does he speak to her in private?
If feel sorry for Simon !
She deserves SO MUCH BETTER THAN THIS DUDE.
WAKE UP MY DEAR❤
THAT'S A RED FLAG 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
A narcissistic man will rarely see beyond themselves as the prize , maybe initially they will make you think you are the prize because of the benefits they get from being with you but in their heart they are primary and you are secondary and regardless of it’s on national tv or behind close doors they will treat you as such ! It’s so important to work on your self esteem so you spot these things early on especially if your family never ingrained this in your consciousness. She has olympic medals and she still chase this man down…and took up for him when her fans were giving her the game. This is a self esteem issue .
I am careful about throwing around the word narcissist- I like to save that for the kind of pure evil that it is. For me, this guy is just the garden variety insecure man child who does not know how to step to a woman of her calibre. And in Simone, what I see is another uber strong talented woman, for whom there are fewer worthy men and so she has to adjust and pivot and try to figure out how to not make a man uncomfortable with her. I feel a collective sense of exhaustion that men who might be worthy could be too intimidated to approach her, and only the truly unworthy men have the huberis and guts and gall to speak about this amazing woman this way. This guy needs to find some humility and recognize the queen he married, and then start PUBLICLY putting Simone on the pedestal she deserves.
Women are the ones constantly calling themselves the prize, so it's women who are the narcissists.
Every female needs to hear this!! 🤍🫶🤍thank you for sharing.
Not only a video on sunday, but also today. What a treat 🎉😂! In my opinion respect should go both ways in a marriage. Btw Jillz; my husband and I also met in high school and got together and are married now. ( we are now 31 ) so I can relate when you talk about your relationship. ❤ Lots of love
Totally! Aww omg love that we are following the same path! Haha 💕
I'm so curious about their relationship dynamics. I wonder why she is drawn to this person (her own insecurities), its so obvious he is narcissistic, jealous, insecure and probably with her for her fame. He clearly does not highly value her. Thats so sad.
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I love you for making a video about this 💕
I wish someone would send her this video 😭 she’s in for it!!
He can tell the same exact story with love and respect. Honestly, i found him so embarrassing. She needs to leave him.
I love how no one remembers his name 😂
He shows narcissistic traits 😑
They are married? Wow
Hi Jillz! Would love to know your thoughts on when a guy does make you feel cherished but you don’t really have strong feelings towards him? Should you still give him a chance and let those feelings develop with time? New to healthy relationships so not sure how that’s supposed to go yet 😂 love the channel!!
If it were me, I would give it a few dates to see if those feelings grow 💕
I’m speechless 😶 wow. Why Simone Why?!
I think this is obvious insecurity but they are both young. My hubby and I have been married almost 28 years. We were very young when we got married and we both had our insecurities. I can’t imagine having our marriage in the spotlight when we were both so young and still had so much to learn. I think it’s not fair to judge him harshly. I do see what people are saying but give him some grace. Maybe this was just the pressures a young insecure lad feels around other men. If he truly loves her he’ll learn from this. They both will. Love you channel Jillz!
I totally agree. Sometimes people make a big “oopsie” haha and it’s not a good representation of the whole relationship
There's no need to give him grace. His actions made it clear how he feels about her and why he married her... She deserves better. His behavior is far from the behavior of a loving husband, we need to stop finding excuses for mediocre men.
@@sundaylibre I respectfully disagree.
@@sundaylibre I agree. Seeing a lot of women give this guy a chance is heartbreaking. If we turn the tables and have her talk bad against him, for sure these women will be the first one to condemn her.
@@sundaylibreBlk Women just want everybody to h8 this Blk Man 😂😂😂
I needed this so much. Trank you thank you thank you! I've been struggling with a painful breakup, and you said exactly the right things my heart needed to hear in order to finally move on. I hope I can make it this year.
Yes Simone is beautiful. He's handsome. I think he has let others make him think he's the prize over her. These individuals are shallow and don't really think they have anything going on for themselves.
You kinda look like Maria Sharapova.
Poor Simone 😞
What breaks my heart is that Simone does not seem to understand that dynamic!
I'm starting to think she might be intimidated by a man on her level. I think she enjoyed winning him. It was a thrill. You can't help anyone like that.
@@narlywaves2371she’s very looks focused but no one wants to admit that. She wanted a pretty boy by all means
Unfortunately, this is what happens when you have a rough upbringing and all your achievements begin with having to audition for the opportunity. She doesn't know any other way yet, and I sympathize with that.. just hope she comes to understand this sooner rather than later, when the pain of realization will be significantly less.
Jillz, watching this video I just realised that you reached 300.000 followers!!! Congratulations!! 🥳✨💞
Thank you for your amazing content! I really love your videos and binge watch them while being on the stairmaster at the gym 😅 they keep me going for a loooong time! Thank you!!
Thank you so much!!!!! And haha I love that!! Happy to support you 😅❤️
Great video, thanks for sharing your wisdom 🌸
Such an awesome video. It was so insightful. Loved it ☺️
Thanks for the video Jills❤ love youuu💕
I totally agree with your assessment. He reminds me of my narcissistic ex who was always tearing me down to feel superior. His insecurity and inferiority complex is obvious.
Love this style of video!!! Happy Sunday
Great video! Could you please talk a bit more about the girl "initiating" the relationship and the difference between that and pursuing later on? You say that initiating is ok, but I don´t see clarity, as I am quite stuck and hesitant right now (I feel I am now always waiting for him to act first, or otherwise it will not work out, but I don´t know if I am being "extreme"; I think I act like this because I realised that in all my past relationships (which never turned out well), I was the one initiating (or actively "making possible" the first encounter, starting a conversation, etc.). I would really, really appreciate it! Thank you and love from the UK ❤
Can u make a video on how to always vibrate on high energy level
Btw ur last video is helping me a lot
You should make a video of the clown boxer who announced the birth of his child AND that he was divorcing his wife in the same post. Total garbage foolery.
This isn’t feeling like it’s going to end well. I can hear the red flags in his voice.
That interview is so cringe and painful to watch. Poor Simone I can’t imagine how hard it would be to not internalize those messages and how embarrassing it would be to watch the public laugh at your man and how wrong he is.
It's also another reason why it's better to marry men more successful than women. Both sides are happy.
They’re both insecure which is why they manifested each other.
HAHA still after all the publicity i cant remember his name unbelievable
If I could wish for a bigger sister, it would be you 🥺
❤️❤️❤️
All I need to say is we all call him “Simone Biles husband” I literally don’t even know his name, and I’m assuming many other people don’t.
Recently I heard someone say something with a similar energy. They said with 100% seriousness “Taylor swifts new boyfriend put her back on the map” my single phrase retort to that was “what’s Taylor swifts new boyfriends name?” They didn’t have the answer.
Both partners should care and cherish each other. I think that love in of itself is to hearts becoming one anatomically speaking, if you take two human hearts, and put them together in a certain way, they form what we would think of in the heart shape ❤ but if one heart is bigger then the other it will throw off the symmetry. Which is to say if one person cares WAY MORE it can throw off the relationship.
Such an important video 👏👏and love the interviewer’s face and expression 😀
Jilz thank you so much ❤ I needed to hear this!!! Speaking of competition… could you do a vid on the feeling of competition for boys in a friendship… 🫠not a fun place to be
You have some excellent talking points ❤
I think the ideal would be that both partners should love each other at the same level + see the other partner als a "prize". :)
Text my bf in the middle of watching this “do you see me as a prize” his response “ yes the jackpot” 🥹🥰 Love this take on the topic.
Green flag! 💚
You're so beautiful!!!!! xoxoox level10!!!!!
I don’t think he knows the meaning of the words he used honestly I let few men watch they can even believe it.
Someone's been watching manifestelle
This is gold🙏🏻🤍
Such good advice
That’s awful. A husband should never!
I think everyone should think their partner is the prize, regardless of gender. If you don't admire your partner and you think you are better than them that is not love or healthy
Tales from the Unchosen, Unwanted, Picked over, Ran Through, and Discarded Feminists of America 🤣😂
Poor woman
I agree with you 100% Jillz. It’s the theory of the “out of my league” girl and he feels emasculated by her instead of respecting and lifting her up.
LOVE THIS VIDEO! So much wisdom, thanks, Jillz ❤
I’m in a long-term relationship (6 years) that started out in the positive way Jillz is promoting, but has deteriorated significantly in the last few years. This is my first loooong relationship, and I don’t know whether to tap out or keep trying to get things back to the way they were. Do you ever stop being a “prize” to your partner, but then regain that standing? Any thoughts from anyone are welcome.
Relationships tend to work best when the girl chases the guy a bit more bc girls get bored when the guy hands her everything too easily. The guy can see himself as the prize and still cherish the girl if he's really into her. There can be nuance there. Some guys can be macho and egotistical with their power tho so pick wisely. Psych hacks channel explored this recently as well. Ideally both should see each other as a prize, generally speaking.
High value guys are also more rare, plus men don't care as much about women`s accomplishments they focus more on looks and youth/fertility. That may explain their dynamic to some degree. I also think Owens was just playing it up for the podcast bc he knows Simone is the bigger star, so he wanted to look cool in front of the boys. I think it was on the cheekier side but you can argue it was done out of insecurity too. Rational male is a good channel to watch. Alexander Grace also has good info.
Why on earth THE best athlete on the planet put up with a fool like that? I'll never understand why women that.
Very clever video.
Y'all need to let this go, these people were joking 😂😂😂 Y'all are showing your fragile femininity 😂😂😂
It's sad that these are the golden rules, but yeah. Sometimes you like a man so much you just want to do whatever it takes to seal the deal. He shows a little interest so you want to show him, "here I am! all yours!"
She's Barbie, he's just Ken.
Ok I'm not even from the US and I'm not even into artistic gymnastics (I'm a rythmic gymnastics kind of gal 💙) but I've known who Simone Biles is for years. As to her husband...he's been yapping about their relationship almost non-stop for the last few months, but it seems I still haven't been able to grasp his name or what he does for a living. He's some kind of sportsman I reckon, but there's dozens out there. Claiming he's the prize in their marriage sounds like a bit of a stretch indeed
I so very much agree with this, the woman should ALWAYS be the prize. I was just recently in an on-and-off situationship with a guy, and at first, it did really seem like, yes I was the gem in his eyes. But later he started to talk about how he was so fit and strong and always went to the gym and whenever I would talk about my much bigger achievements or opportunities he would dismiss it, saying "Yeah, because you're smart" and leave it at that. I was on Facetime with him once, and I really wanted to show him what I was playing. He couldn't give two flying craps and was just playing Fortnite. Learn from Simone and me men who don't see you as the gem aren't worth it ever.
For a talentless peasant like me, both of them are the prizes 😂
He gives Meghan Markle vibes.
I saw an interview of him once. It took me 2 minutes to understand that he's trying to humble Simone Biles, and I'm pretty certain that he uses her to gain more fame (he doesn't love her a bit, it's obvious). He's gonna cheat on her.
I kept looking at my phone to like this video and saw i already done it. So many excellent points! First video i have watched and I’m a new subbie ✌🏾🤍
Absolutely loved this video! Thank you very much! Can you do videos on how to navigate, communicate and first date via dating apps?
Oh man, how embarrassing for Simone. I’d be mortified. 💯💯💯 on the insecure man front and on the idea that it only matters what he sees, not what she “is” to other people.
If you think Simone biles doesn't think she's all that you are hilarious. Sports are 80% mental . Her mental is amazing perfect incredible. She knows she too good for him. Thats why it doesn't bother her bc we know the truth boo. Plus itsother cultural things hidden in this "she lived in the suburbs" black people have put such a status on living in the hood. He's trying to find any reason he's better than her. If he knew that he wouldn't have to say it. He's probably gets a lot of slack from JEALOUS ppl. & he doesn't realize they are just jealous. (excuse grammatical errors my phone is broken)
your videos are sooo interesting. Will you ever make one about getting over someone who you know is not good for you ?
i never talked to any man that i was close to first :o i really cant imagine that women are doing that (nothing against SB) but... i just couldnt. 🥴
Luckily the first men i ever dated went above and beyond to just see me smile
Would love to see more of your commentary on viral clips!! Enjoyed this.
This was such a good and healthy and loving review of that incident ❤ and on point reflections for all women to take heed of
"You are not a participation trophy." 🎤mic drop 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 Great video, Jillz. ❤
Well done Jillz how you approached this topic with intelligence and a lot of grace. Simone could watch your video and feel cherished ❤
Yeah men know. im just waiting to see if she gon provide for him and him chilling
He’ll be the Mr. Simone Biles forever if he keeps acting like this!
How about on dating apps? Should women not message first?