Starting Over At 33 - Moving to the Middle of the Scottish Countryside

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  • Опубліковано 13 вер 2024
  • Join me, Jude, a queer man in my mid thirties, as I attempt to fall in love with life again, after starting over in the middle of the Scottish countryside.
    FIND ME:
    @rewildingjude on instagram
    MY STORY:
    I've been stuck in rut for the past couple of years - both my parents passed away at the end of 2022 and since then I've been navigating grief, burnout and just being scared to make a change. I decided that 2024 was going to be the year I set my life on fire, because life is too short to spend all of it wondering just what the point is. So I quit my job, sold my house in the suburbs and bought a 150yr old cottage in the middle of the Scottish countryside. Follow along as I attempt to renovate this little stone house, build a backyard homestead and hopefully fall in love with life, all over again.
    Spoiler alert - I have absolutely no idea what I'm doing, so almost anything could happen.

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  • @sallyidso182
    @sallyidso182 20 днів тому +246

    Jude I’m an old woman and I live on a rural small acreage with my husband. This morning I said to myself I can’t imagine not being here, I’m so grateful beautiful nature anda peaceful environment. Heal your soul. Walk barefoot. Be yourself

    • @rewildingjude
      @rewildingjude  20 днів тому +17

      Thank you so much! That’s such good advice!

    • @thehighlandlife2023
      @thehighlandlife2023 19 днів тому +4

      Aw love this! Its me and my husband and kids but we love this. Outside in nature is our thing, exploring the great outdoors and nature x

    • @jennifercameron3574
      @jennifercameron3574 17 днів тому +9

      Best of luck Jude. I can’t wait to see how you get on.

    • @nancyraymond3381
      @nancyraymond3381 17 днів тому +11

      Jude and Sally, hello, I'm 68 born and raised in California lived in a house that was left to me by my parents, it was fully paid for. I spent my entire saving remodeling the house to be as I wanted it to be and loved it so much. Then the pandemic hit, I was laid off after 10 years at a job I loved and about 6 weeks later called back to work, doing a job I hated. So, I decided to sell my beloved house and move to where my only grandchildren are. Huge mistake that I won't go into, but honestly, I long for the life you and your reader Sally have! simple, quiet, just a lovely life to be who you are. I am excited to see you grow and make a beautiful life. On to your next video. With warmest regards to you and Sally.

    • @timmonini13
      @timmonini13 17 днів тому +4

      Keep doing what you are doing and you will be happy!
      It is very good that you record your trip because in a year you will see how much you have learned and how far you have come.
      All the best and... we are watching you 😊

  • @stitchingbythesea1965
    @stitchingbythesea1965 20 днів тому +153

    I’m 59 and have stage 4 cancer. I’m coming along for the ride and I’m really excited for you. 😊

    • @thehighlandlife2023
      @thehighlandlife2023 19 днів тому +8

      sending love 🙏

    • @w.dossett3332
      @w.dossett3332 17 днів тому +18

      Stitching by the sea. Dont be defined by that number, keep living. I wish you good days ahead and send you love. From a stranger

    • @susanyates4233
      @susanyates4233 17 днів тому +10

      Bless you. I have survived cancer (I hope) and I hope that you do tooxx.

    • @mindmatters2922
      @mindmatters2922 16 днів тому

      joe dispensza is amazing, look him up❤

    • @trickybiz2430
      @trickybiz2430 14 днів тому +2

      I’m excited to see what happens ..😊

  • @raecheladams8333
    @raecheladams8333 18 днів тому +70

    Jude, I think you can safely say ... we are all here with you for this new, and exciting journey .❤

    • @rewildingjude
      @rewildingjude  18 днів тому +8

      Thank you!! I’m so excited - and pleased that people are interested in following along!

    • @jillkay9430
      @jillkay9430 10 днів тому +1

      @@raecheladams8333 Yes!!! 👍🏼

  • @lynallen693
    @lynallen693 19 днів тому +57

    I never get tired of hearing cows, sheep, foxes, owls and garden birds.

    • @thehighlandlife2023
      @thehighlandlife2023 19 днів тому +2

      Same! We get herds of deer here regularly which we love!

    • @TamarLitvot
      @TamarLitvot 12 днів тому

      mourning doves are lovely also.

  • @nellie7158
    @nellie7158 13 днів тому +46

    The UA-cam algorithm popped you up and I’m so glad it did , what a wonderful happy, smiley, positive person you are😊 listening to you is like chatting with a friend .I’m so excited to follow your journey 🙌

  • @Wise_Heart
    @Wise_Heart 12 днів тому +28

    Jude, my spouse and I moved from the city to a rural acreage at the age of 31. We knew a whole bunch of nothing. Now, 34 years later, we have kept everything alive (including ourselves) and created a space that has become a sanctuary for us. You will find your way, even though there are days where you aren’t sure. Just keep going. Whatever it is, going through it gets you to the other side. My 89 yr old mom has always said, “this too shall pass.” I used to hate that phrase, but have found it to be pretty true to life. Looks like you already have a good size community here to support you. ❤

    • @stitchingbythesea1965
      @stitchingbythesea1965 10 днів тому +1

      @@Wise_Heart my 88 year old mum says that to me too and it’s true!

  • @SimpleScottishLiving
    @SimpleScottishLiving 12 днів тому +24

    We had a similar realization this past year and ended up leaving everything behind in California and moving to Scotland. Life is so much better, and we’ve also started to fall in love with life all over again. So glad you made this positive change ❤️

    • @rewildingjude
      @rewildingjude  12 днів тому +5

      Oh wow! That’s a huge move! (And a big difference in weather!) Scotland is incredible isn’t it?!

  • @sosewnknits
    @sosewnknits 20 днів тому +42

    You and I are the same age Jude, and I couldn’t imagine having to go through losing both parents at this age. I think it’s easy to say that we are all so proud of you and especially the fact that you knew something had to change and taking that step. So excited to see what you end up doing with your new cottage!

    • @rewildingjude
      @rewildingjude  20 днів тому +4

      Ahh thank you so much, that’s so lovely of you! 💗

  • @craigo2142
    @craigo2142 13 днів тому +27

    Thank you for saying, "when you wonder if you even want to be here, it's time for a change". Hit me like a stone in the face. Projects - youtube will become your best bud. Anxious to follow you.

  • @sjorchatodman34
    @sjorchatodman34 20 днів тому +45

    I did that! Except with 4 kids in tow, desperate to get away from an abusive marriage and all the negative entourage that came with that. I had no idea about rural Australian living, it's the same as city living, but quieter, right? Yeah, nah. My dad had not long passed away from cancer, he was my 'hey dad, the tap is leaking' guy, he could fix and build anything, and he was no longer earthside. It was hard, real hard having to fix a broken down house like yours without the skills, but they came, me & the kids learnt. Best & most empowering time of my life in the end. Learned a lot of life lessons, such as making sure that the car is in top shape, nothing like being faced with a 38km walk after the car broke down with a 5 yr old, carrying groceries. Luckily after 1 hour of walking, a local finally drove by and gave us a lift, lol. I subscribed to your Stranded Dyeworks podcast, glad to know what your doing with your life and looking forward to this one

    • @thehighlandlife2023
      @thehighlandlife2023 19 днів тому +2

      I often find the hardships bring out my strength of character and turn out to be the most humbling and powerful moments of my life. I also have four kids but live in rural Scottish Highland's! xx

  • @ChristinaWallAKnittersLife
    @ChristinaWallAKnittersLife 16 днів тому +20

    Oh I’m so glad you came up on my UA-cam feed. Thank you for taking us on your journey! Wishing you all the best!

  • @chicagoemt8769
    @chicagoemt8769 13 днів тому +18

    I’m from the US and recently visited Scotland and it was the most wonderful place I have ever been. From the gracious locals to the scenery, I was blown away. While I live in the countryside here, I still envy and equally love that you made this move!

  • @Ceylon.55
    @Ceylon.55 20 днів тому +35

    Wishing you all the luck in the world Jude. I too lost my parents and husband in an 18 month period up to October 2022. I was watching your story and my heart goes out to you. I live in rural Norfolk and am learning slowly how to build a new life. All my best wishes and love to you and take care xxx

    • @rewildingjude
      @rewildingjude  20 днів тому +5

      Oh wow, I cannot imagine how hard that must’ve been - sending all the love to you!

  • @lindachapman9679
    @lindachapman9679 20 днів тому +26

    You need to have a little camping stove for when the electricity goes off so at least you can have a hot drink but be aware that they have to be used in a well ventilated area. The setting is absolutely beautiful. Definitely get a dog they are such good company. I hope you’ll be very happy in your new home and look forward to seeing your progress

    • @rewildingjude
      @rewildingjude  20 днів тому +8

      Yes!! The stove top is currently propane fuelled - but if I replace it with an electric cooker and oven, I’ll definitely get an emergency camping stove!
      A dog is very high on my priority list! I’ve got a trip planned in a few weeks for a friends wedding, but after that, it’s Dog o’clock for sure!!

    • @poppy6488
      @poppy6488 14 днів тому +4

      Here in rural Ireland I have a gas hob and electric oven. Brilliant when the winter storms comes and the power is off for days. Just came across your site and am immediately drawn to your adventure. Looking forward to getting to know you!🎉

  • @lesliedeardorff8586
    @lesliedeardorff8586 20 днів тому +57

    So thrilled to see you again Jude and your smiling face. Thanks for letting us come on the next step of your journey. I, along with many, have missed you

    • @rewildingjude
      @rewildingjude  20 днів тому +1

      Ahh thank you so much!! It’s great to be back!

    • @twonightingalesknit
      @twonightingalesknit 20 днів тому +1

      I'm so happy to see you back, Jude, and I can't wait to see you fall in love with life again. Many congratulations on your new home. It looks so beautiful. 🍾🐄🐂❤

    • @tootsieb11
      @tootsieb11 14 днів тому +1

      Are there previous vlogs?

  • @fridaylake3259
    @fridaylake3259 13 днів тому +9

    I wish I'd discovered your channel a year from now so I could binge watch all the episodes of what will surely be an incredible and fulfilling adventure. You are a breath of fresh air who clearly resonates with many, many viewers. You literally generate positive , hopeful energy. I'm so pleased that you are willing and brave enough to share your journey with us - very well done you. I'm sure that everyone here feels the same, right behind you and supporting your new life regardless of having never even met you. Thank you Jude.

    • @rewildingjude
      @rewildingjude  13 днів тому +3

      I kind of wish I could skip to a year from now to be honest, so I know what you mean! 😂 I’m aiming to try and get a video up every week - which should help me make actual progress!
      Ahh thank you so much - that’s so kind of you!!

    • @fridaylake3259
      @fridaylake3259 13 днів тому +2

      @@rewildingjude I get it. I also spent the last year in post-death admin for my father. And a few years prior for my mother. I REALLY understand exactly what you're saying on ALL points. To be honest, you have already achieved total success. You have summoned up the courage to look inside yourself and to make a daring change - that is the true success of life; courage. So excited for you, truly.

  • @suzannegagne8692
    @suzannegagne8692 13 днів тому +24

    Jude call an electrician! The rest you can do yourself. Don’t think of death, LIVE!

    • @elizabethheatley22
      @elizabethheatley22 5 днів тому

      I second this Jude!!! I first saw your 3rd episode cottage tour, and a lot of those “updates” look dodgy, and if they do, you can probably rightly assume the electrics are dodgy too. Be safe. You don’t want your dreams going up in smoke - literally!

  • @nathaliebourre3578
    @nathaliebourre3578 20 днів тому +26

    Oh my goodness me, Jude! I am SO glad that you have picked up the camera again! Only a couple of days ago, I was thinking about you and I told myself “I’m sure he has found his cottage in the middle of nowhere now…” This place seems to have great bones and if you can sit outside with a twinkle in your eyes and let your legendary giggle fill it after the first day there, then it says it all! We’ll be there for all the projects, dreams and tribulations! Good on you!

    • @rewildingjude
      @rewildingjude  20 днів тому +2

      Ahh thank you so much!! It’s so good to be back!

  • @fionasimagination
    @fionasimagination 13 днів тому +11

    Looking forward to watching you fall in love with life again!❤ I am turning 30 in 2 months I am alone with my mother without friends or family. My mum is dying of Altsheimers and I am severely disabled and chronically ill which has made me mostly bedbound since I turned 17. I haven't been able to leave my tiny flat since then except for long periods in hospital for surgery. So I feel with you. I have to take care of all of my mother's paperwork now too and try to work out the muddle and debts she has accumulated while hiding that she wasn't capable of dealing with anything like paying bills for the past years. I hope I'll be able to live a bit through your videos and share your adventures in the countryside. You are now living my dream. I hope it makes you very happy❤

  • @teresasleeper2458
    @teresasleeper2458 20 днів тому +18

    You look sooooo happy! ❤ I’m just a simple gramma here in the states that happened across your post! You exude joy and I am very, very happy for you!!!! Your bright future that is waiting for you!!❤

  • @kristendroke5413
    @kristendroke5413 20 днів тому +23

    So good to see you Jude!!
    Trick for sleeping on an air mattress: put blanket(s) under the mattress and another on top of the mattress, then a sheet /whatever bedding you are using on top of that.

    • @deba3514
      @deba3514 20 днів тому +1

      slept on air mattress through winter this year card board under and a flannel sheet sleeping bag and helped a bit but so glad when bed arrived 3 mths later

    • @teresab126
      @teresab126 19 днів тому

      Get a heated mattress pad! All the difference in the world! Unless you don’t have electricity! 😮

    • @janelithgow7727
      @janelithgow7727 18 днів тому

      I wish I'd known that when i moved - i felt I was clinging to a slippery waffle

    • @kim-fv8np
      @kim-fv8np 16 днів тому

      Make that a wool blanket, always, between you and mattress

    • @claireskinner9077
      @claireskinner9077 14 днів тому

      I came to say something similar - layers under and over the air mattress will help you stay much warmer!

  • @colourfulmind4664
    @colourfulmind4664 12 днів тому +6

    Your video popped up out of nowhere on my feed, but I am glad it did! I could listen to you talk all day long since your video has been so captivating. I was sad to see the video was already over haha. Anyways, you seem so authentic and kind-hearted, I really enjoyed listening to you and can’t wait to see how that plan of yours will turn out. Wishing you all the best x

  • @melaniejonker963
    @melaniejonker963 20 днів тому +10

    Jude, I did something similar to you when I was 62 although not on such a large scale. Sold my townhouse in a busy suburban area near Brisbane, Australia and bought a small house on 1,500m2 with two huge storage sheds in Central North Tasmania in Australia. Left my Mum who's nearly 97 now and my son behind. It was a weather change for me. I've had to learn about tank water, climbing a ladder to clean the sieves on top of the tank, back to mowing the grass, growing fruit and veges, making relishes and jams, bottling tomatoes plus the rest of it. I've found my tribe of crafty retired women who spin, knit and sew as I do. I visit Brisbane every year during their winter. It's not where I thought I'd be. I'm now 66 and still living the dream in Paradise. I have water views too where the Tamar River meets Bass Strait. I'm so looking forward to following your adventures. Stay safe and strong 😊

    • @rewildingjude
      @rewildingjude  20 днів тому +2

      That sounds absolutely incredible!!! Good on you!!

  • @charlottehippen7677
    @charlottehippen7677 14 годин тому

    Miss your knitting and yarn videos but so glad to see you are making videos again. Can't wait to see where your new journey leads you. Thanks for letting us be a part of it!!

  • @papercraneyarns
    @papercraneyarns 20 днів тому +14

    Your candor is so valuable. I appreciate you talking about life and your station and motivation in such a realistic and open way. I have been around as one of your silent supporters for many years, and you deserve this. Have so much fun and make something awesome.

    • @rewildingjude
      @rewildingjude  20 днів тому +2

      Ahh thank you so much - that’s such a lovely thing to hear! 💗

  • @saudilass
    @saudilass 16 днів тому +9

    Oh my goodness you poor love, that's a big loss. I'm Scottish and I live in Scotland again, let it soothe your soul. Get out as much as you can and look closely at what nature has to give you. Much live and light.

    • @TamarLitvot
      @TamarLitvot 12 днів тому

      I'm American. We visited your country about 8 years ago and just loved it. At our age we won't be moving (and we want to stay close to our grown children here in the U.S.), but given our fear of the U.S. ending up like Hungary, we've talked about how Scotland is a place we'd like to live.

  • @AnjiDuff
    @AnjiDuff 13 днів тому +6

    Literally living my dream life hon. Im actually from Aberdeenshire and know how lucky you are to have found that little piece of heaven. Glad you are doing good things with it hon. Remember Winter starts in September so get stocked up and insulated. Double curtains for the windows and doors. Draft excluding saves lives lol! Get your oil tank serviced and filled before you do anything. Then get your stove and chimney done. Essentials!

    • @KwertyKeys
      @KwertyKeys 12 днів тому +2

      Agreed! Scottish countryside winters are HARSH! Get prepared and sorted asap 🎉 🌨️

  • @marshawoods2634
    @marshawoods2634 20 днів тому +15

    Hey Jude! Thanks for inviting us along. Great to see you again. xxx

    • @rewildingjude
      @rewildingjude  20 днів тому

      Thank you!! And thank you for coming along on the journey with me!

  • @rachelthomas6482
    @rachelthomas6482 20 днів тому +14

    I'm honestly so happy to see you back on UA-cam ❤Can't wait to follow along on your new adventures

  • @helloimfreddie1754
    @helloimfreddie1754 20 днів тому +17

    So happy to see you again Jude as was wondering how life was treating you as yours was my favourite craft video and loved your mum and you together. Please keep, us with you as you progress and I sincerely wish you all the happiness that you so deserve.

  • @cmglen
    @cmglen Місяць тому +9

    Jude, this is fantastic. Beautiful videography, and I really respect the vulnerability you are willing to share. This is not an easy life you've chosen. It's a lot of work but so worthwhile. I know this journey will help fill your cup again.

  • @karensimpson6080
    @karensimpson6080 5 годин тому

    Your adventurous spirit and appreciation of life is so warming to me, I look forward to watching your you tube content.

  • @SaraPalmer983
    @SaraPalmer983 5 днів тому +3

    You are a beautiful soul, mum and dad would be super proud of you. Have to say I’m envious of your new beginning, location and isolation. Enjoy your new chapter, thanks for taking us on it 🥰

  • @janeconnors1807
    @janeconnors1807 15 днів тому +7

    So sad to hear of your double loss. We moved to a rural spot 30 years ago from London and haven't regretted it for a day. We saw an old wreck of a barn and bought it as a completed building from the builder so we saw it every day from when the sheep moved out until the day we moved in. The countryside noises, sights and peace soothe the soul and I've found having my garden and growing my own fruit and veg very therapeutic. Good luck with your life and new project. Do get the electrics looked at. Winter will be here before you know it and you don't want to freeze 😮. I'll be watching your progress and wishing you well 😊

  • @loobielou6965
    @loobielou6965 20 днів тому +4

    I'm totally biased, but I'm so glad you're staying in the most beautiful country in the world. Happy new home, Jude. I can't wait to see what you do with your new place. 💙🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

    • @rewildingjude
      @rewildingjude  19 днів тому

      Thank you!! Scotland is incredible, I love it here!!

  • @Nat-ip6hm
    @Nat-ip6hm 20 днів тому +4

    Good on you, Jude. All that luscious green space can only be a good thing! Rooting for you from the suburbs of Melbourne, Aus. 😊

  • @KatherineMcG
    @KatherineMcG 21 день тому +6

    I'm a loooong time subscriber-rarely comment. I feel so happy for you and also soooo jealous LOL. Your new home looks amazing!

  • @chickiemagoo9995
    @chickiemagoo9995 20 днів тому +4

    Oh Jude! I'm so happy you have finally found a place to really call home. All the things you were hemmed in with in your previous house that you wanted to expand on and delve into and couldn't, you now have that opportunity laid out before you! Your new property from what I've seen in this video looks idyllic... yes, lots of work to make it truly yours, but how satisfying that will be.... nth degree satisfying. That little greenhouse is a bonus, gorgeous big yard that your new doggie pal will love, I'm a little jelly (but too old to do anything like this now haha), so I shall happily live vicariously through your new adventures and look forward to each and every video and watch you grow into your new life 🥰

    • @rewildingjude
      @rewildingjude  19 днів тому +1

      Thank you so much!! I’m so excited about it - I keep wandering round the garden making plans! Haha.

  • @gillianjohnson4230
    @gillianjohnson4230 20 днів тому +8

    What a stunning location. Give yourself time to settle in and be kind to yourself. You learned a lot from your previous property probably more than you think and those skills will stand you in good stead now. It's going to be daunting but you always said your dream was the rural life and now you can make it a reality one step at a time. You've done the hardest bit and that shows strength. And get that dog!! ❤

  • @marylambert3368
    @marylambert3368 День тому

    Jude, your making good decisions- giving yourself a real life. Keep loving yourself - your cottage is beautiful 🙏💚🌿🌿

  • @karachickering6769
    @karachickering6769 20 днів тому +11

    Jude, as a long-time subscriber, my heart is full, seeing you push forward and reaching for the stars.

    • @rewildingjude
      @rewildingjude  20 днів тому

      Thank you so much Kara! (And thank you for all of your support over the years!)

  • @lorainef6266
    @lorainef6266 20 днів тому +9

    Jude...the list of adjectives I have for your incredible person are too many to list. Right from the beginning of your podcast journey I have followed this amazing person who has taught me so much, who has inspired me and shown me how to be a wonderful human being. This is coming from someone who has had 63 years of life and now practises daily gratitude no matter the circumstance. Beyond grateful for you sharing your life with us. So happy, and perhaps a little envious, of your next adventure where you continue to live an amazing life. Continue to stay true to yourself.

    • @rewildingjude
      @rewildingjude  20 днів тому +1

      You are so kind! Thank you 💗💗

  • @RhondaLorch
    @RhondaLorch 20 днів тому +7

    Go Jude! Peace be with you dear soul. I’m along vicariously for the adventure!🇨🇦💕

  • @nokesbob2256
    @nokesbob2256 20 днів тому +3

    It is so beautiful! You chose beauty. I can't wait to go along with you on your journey to make this place a home. It sounds like the first thing to do is get an electrician out there to rewire what ever is wrong. No messing around with electricity! A dog and cat for love and company. Can't wait!

  • @heathertucker7056
    @heathertucker7056 20 днів тому +4

    That is a fabulous property Jude! You will make it spectacular! The very best of luck in all your future endeavors! You deserve it x

    • @rewildingjude
      @rewildingjude  20 днів тому +1

      Thank you so much! I’m very excited to get started!

  • @karindaugaard5580
    @karindaugaard5580 18 днів тому +3

    So lovely to see you again, Jude ❣️ I've been thinking about you frequently. I really look forward to following you again!
    Lots of love from an old woman (77) in Denmark.

  • @anciify
    @anciify 20 днів тому +6

    So exciting! Rooting for you from all of my heart

  • @patquinn2188
    @patquinn2188 14 днів тому +4

    So sorry to hear how sad your recent life has been. I hope you`ll let us be your family now. Wishing you the very best that the future can bring.
    .

  • @khewitt2873
    @khewitt2873 20 днів тому +4

    So very happy to hear you are doing well & starting a new chapter. It'll get better. Enjoy the journey!

  • @janeshipley6993
    @janeshipley6993 20 днів тому +5

    jude! you’re back, and i’m so happy to see you again. your place is absolutely beautiful. soak it all in and live your sweet life. you’ve got some more learning to do - about living in the country, about fixing up your new home - but you’ve done it before and you’ve done it well. i’m so excited for you…and for me, because i get to watch jude again!🏡☀️

  • @kristinm3729
    @kristinm3729 20 днів тому +4

    What a fantastic space!! You are so handy that I'm looking forward to see how you turn this beautiful farmhouse into something even more beautiful. You are living my rural dream.

    • @rewildingjude
      @rewildingjude  20 днів тому

      Ahh thank you!! It’s been a dream of mine for a while and I’m excited to get started!

  • @joanneyoung5410
    @joanneyoung5410 20 днів тому +5

    Jude you have been through so much. My parents died twelve weeks apart and it took a few years to surface and start functioning again there were two of us navigating all the paperwork and legal requirements which took ages . My recovery included a house move ( albeit a new build) and getting a cat. I wish you all the best and hope you can take time to enjoy the journey and all the achievements along the way

    • @rewildingjude
      @rewildingjude  20 днів тому

      Ohh I’m sorry - that’s so hard! Death admin feels like it’s neverending! Very good idea on getting a cat - I’m planning on getting a dog, a cat and some chickens eventually!

  • @isarose3136
    @isarose3136 20 днів тому +5

    OH MY GAWD JUDE that is GORGEOUS!! That VIEW is INSANE!! I think you're going to need a riding lawn mower or some sheep!
    Quick hack, if you can find a camping store (or the dreaded Amazon) you can get a "shower bag" and lay it out in the sun, so you'll have hot water (on sunny days) at the end of the day. Also boiling a pot on the stove and then cutting it with cool water usually nets enough for a bath....I too absolutely hate air mattresses for always being cold. I hope that dog is right around the corner!
    I am SOOO jealous of your view!!!

    • @thehighlandlife2023
      @thehighlandlife2023 19 днів тому

      The trouble ios finding a sunny day here in Scotland sometimes 🤣

  • @meganobrien9520
    @meganobrien9520 20 днів тому +6

    I’m new here and SO GLAD the algorithm knew I needed this ❤ I can’t wait to cheer you on for this ride!

  • @frogqueen33
    @frogqueen33 20 днів тому +3

    I haven't been knitting in awhile and haven't even looked at YT or IG. I opened IG today and yours was the 1st post. I cannot fathom losing both of your wonderful parents. XOXOX
    I can't wait to see the new wonderful life you build.

  • @Amanda-xl9xy
    @Amanda-xl9xy 21 день тому +6

    Heart achingly beautiful, the potential is limitless and I am so very excited for you! Looking forward to you sharing your story!

  • @margaretclark3785
    @margaretclark3785 20 днів тому +4

    Wishing you lots of luck and happiness in your new home. It looks beautiful where you have moved to. And you are still smiling despite the problems you have had after moving in. Definitely get a dog, he/she will be the best friend you ever have. 😊

  • @Knusheidvanhetleven
    @Knusheidvanhetleven День тому

    This video popped up on my FYP and as a Dutch woman in the north of the Netherlands this made me so happy. Your first night made me giggle but I am so excited about your journey. Wishing you all the best ❤

  • @patkohler7848
    @patkohler7848 20 днів тому +3

    It is wonderful to see you again and I send best wishes for an amazing journey-you got this❤️

  • @user-py4ff2zw2v
    @user-py4ff2zw2v 14 днів тому +2

    This is what life is about! Moving to a new beautiful place is liberating!

  • @naidamelendez1388
    @naidamelendez1388 20 днів тому +4

    Jude, I wish you happiness, health & love. I know you will succeed with your plans & I’ll be cheering you along the way.

  • @karyncook4291
    @karyncook4291 20 днів тому +3

    Jude, it’s so great to see you again on UA-cam! Your house & yard look lovely, but I can’t believe that people could sell a house where the electricity is so questionable. I hope that you’re able to get things repaired quickly without costing a small fortune. I’m looking forward to hearing about your adventures. Welcome back!

  • @knittinitoldschool9777
    @knittinitoldschool9777 20 днів тому +4

    Im so excited for you! Thank you for bringing us along on your new adventure/journey. what a beautiful life you are building!

    • @rewildingjude
      @rewildingjude  20 днів тому

      Thank you!! I’m so excited about it!

  • @laurenbrender3671
    @laurenbrender3671 17 днів тому +2

    Im glad to see you back Jude! I do keep thinking of you and hoping that you're doing well. Glad to see you finally found what you were looking for

  • @heidiclarke2333
    @heidiclarke2333 20 днів тому +3

    What an exciting new chapter. As others have said a layer between the floor and air bed is the way to go , a layer of silver insulation works really well.

    • @rewildingjude
      @rewildingjude  20 днів тому

      Oh that’s a good idea!! Thank you! Luckily I’m back in my actual bed now - as my new bedroom is not the cosiest (yet!)

  • @ruthstamper2915
    @ruthstamper2915 20 днів тому +3

    So pleased to see you back again Jude. Your new place, the setting and garden look brilliant. Hoping this will be your happy place for many years.Thank you for sharing with us x

    • @rewildingjude
      @rewildingjude  20 днів тому

      Thank you!! I definitely don’t want to move again any time soon - it’s so stressful!! Haha

  • @priscillamcgarry5200
    @priscillamcgarry5200 20 днів тому +3

    So very happy to see you again and so excited to be with u on this next adventure. Your cottage is adorable. What fun you’re going to have. We’re with you all the way❤️🇺🇸

  • @susanmarie3723
    @susanmarie3723 20 днів тому +4

    Yeah! Jude you can do this and I am so glad you are taking us along on your next adventure.😊

  • @Melmaz32
    @Melmaz32 20 днів тому +3

    So glad to see/hear from you. Your new home is perfect! A beautiful setting! Wishing you all the best!

  • @krismongerson1317
    @krismongerson1317 20 днів тому +3

    Sooo excited to see you this morning!!! (From California). Your cottage and property are beautiful! Looking forward to following along.

    • @rewildingjude
      @rewildingjude  20 днів тому

      Ahh thank you!!! I’m very excited to be back!

  • @knitrinka9493
    @knitrinka9493 20 днів тому +4

    Ridiculous in the MOST wonderful way, Jude!!!! It is so good to see your face!

  • @ashleigh_whatever
    @ashleigh_whatever 13 днів тому +2

    I am living my dream life through you. I am looking forward to coming on this adventure with you! Sending love and positive vibe from Australia xx

  • @knittingindenivonne
    @knittingindenivonne 20 днів тому +3

    Wow Jude you did it! It brought tears in my eyes, lovely to see you again, and i love your cottage! It is already beautiful, i love to see lots more of your adventures ❤ greetings Ivonne from Holland 😘🧶☕️

  • @Rebecca-ck7eg
    @Rebecca-ck7eg 12 днів тому +1

    Hey Jude, I’m about to start a (admittedly much smaller) rural Reno project to remind myself life can be good! So excited to join you on this journey❤

  • @Carolann810
    @Carolann810 21 день тому +6

    You’ve moved to the Scottish version of where I live in Georgia, USA with a horse, donkey and chickens from the neighbor running loose. It’s a challenge & I’m not doing the hard work. Love your videos, keep us updated

    • @rewildingjude
      @rewildingjude  20 днів тому

      Ahh that sounds amazing!! It’s going to be a lot of work but I’m excited about it!

  • @lisapearson2666
    @lisapearson2666 18 днів тому +2

    Well I'm glad you stayed around and made this change for the better. It looks like its gonna be an incredible life up there and i'm so glad you're gonna share this journey with us.

  • @susanbrine6663
    @susanbrine6663 20 днів тому +3

    Wonderful to see you again, can’t wait for the next adventure

    • @rewildingjude
      @rewildingjude  20 днів тому

      Thank you for coming along for the ride!!

  • @Susan98072
    @Susan98072 20 днів тому +2

    I am so happy to see you again!

  • @ildonoa3928
    @ildonoa3928 20 днів тому +6

    Well done Jude! That property is gorgeous! I don't know what your internet situation is, but I know I would be heavily reliant on UA-cam how-to videos. We recently replaced the bottom panel on our oven, and we have also changed the transmission on our washer, changed out the heating element on the dryer, fixed shower faucets and lamps. Just to name a few projects and we owe it all to UA-cam University. I would definitely Google the UV water filter issue - anything with an alarm gets dealt with first. Good Luck! You can do it!

    • @rewildingjude
      @rewildingjude  20 днів тому +2

      UA-cam university is amazing!! Luckily the internet here is great (someone with very deep pockets paid for there to be fibre optic cables run out to his house a few miles away, so the infrastructure was here for everyone else) - after some consulting with the water system company, I’ve got a new alarm panel to replace the faulty one - that’s a job for tomorrow 🙈🤞

    • @ildonoa3928
      @ildonoa3928 20 днів тому

      @@rewildingjude Fun times - also, yay for neighbors with deep pockets!

  • @_negentropy_
    @_negentropy_ 5 днів тому +2

    If you’re still cold at night, here’s a Canadian winter camping trick: wear a touque (wool hat? Beanie? Bobble hat?) to bed to help keep you warm and put a blanket (wool or fleece) between your bottom fitted sheet and your blow up mattress. The sheet keeps the blanket from moving around in the night. Good luck Jude!

  • @christianavance9124
    @christianavance9124 21 день тому +9

    1st off I got so excited to see this, I even felt a mom moment creep in. 2nd put a large terry towel between the air mattress and your blankets and it will help you get and stay warm. I buy bath blankets and use them instead of regular blankets when I get a bone chill. So happy to hear your wonderful voice again. Can't wait to see where this adventure takes you.🫂

    • @rewildingjude
      @rewildingjude  20 днів тому +1

      Thank you!!! 💗💗 that’s a great tip on the air mattress, thank you! Luckily I’m back in my actual bed - as my new bedroom is not very cosy (yet!!)

  • @xusblasco5563
    @xusblasco5563 20 днів тому +2

    Hoooray! You’re back and apparently in good heallth and with the old sense of humour of always Congrats on your courage to start all over again. A big Hug and see you soon ❤

  • @moirahanlon4290
    @moirahanlon4290 20 днів тому +4

    So happy to see you back! Can’t wait to see your new adventures! ❤

    • @rewildingjude
      @rewildingjude  20 днів тому

      Thank you!! I’m so excited to be back!

  • @KimSJoy
    @KimSJoy 13 днів тому +2

    Jude you are a breath of fresh air in this crazy world. Your honesty and new outlook on life moving to the country are amazing. Can't wait to see what all you do and accomplish. I am here in North Carolina cheering you on!

  • @rowens.yarnings
    @rowens.yarnings 20 днів тому +3

    I'm so excited for you and so happy to see your videos on my feed again

  • @beckywhitt7356
    @beckywhitt7356 20 днів тому +2

    It sounds so wonderful. Enjoy it. You might not tire of the cows mooing. Please keep posting

    • @rewildingjude
      @rewildingjude  20 днів тому

      Thank you Becky!! I’m so excited to be back!

  • @debradantonio2974
    @debradantonio2974 20 днів тому +3

    So excited for you Jude!
    Life will be amazing again...great new beginning.

  • @juliephillips7374
    @juliephillips7374 5 днів тому

    I absolutely love your house, the beautiful sage green windows and all of the stunning land and views from your house 😍🌿🍁🌱🐝 Living the dream. I can't wait to see your journey.

  • @joywilson6067
    @joywilson6067 20 днів тому +3

    Your new home looks fabulous. Good luck with your diy adventures. I look forward to following along. Congratulations 🎉

  • @scoopup2349
    @scoopup2349 3 дні тому

    I'm so sorry for the loss of both of your parents. What a lovely wholesome videos you make. Thank you x

  • @clairenason4869
    @clairenason4869 20 днів тому +4

    So happy to see you. Hearing cows in the forums better than hearing traffic. Sounds peaceful to me.

  • @susanwood1445
    @susanwood1445 20 днів тому +2

    So happy to see you again. Your smiling face cheered me up

  • @Patriciaby
    @Patriciaby 20 днів тому +3

    So good to see your face and hear your voice, I've missedd you! Good luck with the immediate fixes and the longer DIY projects.

    • @rewildingjude
      @rewildingjude  20 днів тому

      Thank you so much!! I’m so excited to be back!

  • @julieedwards6937
    @julieedwards6937 20 днів тому +2

    I was only thinking about you recently and here you are! It’s great to see you Jude 😃

  • @pegpage8618
    @pegpage8618 20 днів тому +3

    I’m so happy to see you back again, Jude. Good luck on your new adventure. I have a feeling you have a lot of mum’s following you and wishing you the best.

    • @rewildingjude
      @rewildingjude  20 днів тому

      Ahh thank you!! The mum vibes are always appreciated!!

  • @govidgordana2293
    @govidgordana2293 20 днів тому +2

    So great to see you back, looking forward to your new adventure 🤗💕

  • @jowormald2971
    @jowormald2971 20 днів тому +3

    So happy to see you smiling again

  • @stinkzillaz
    @stinkzillaz 20 днів тому +2

    Jude you’re back!!!! ❤ I’m coming along for the ride! Yay!

  • @littlebitnj78
    @littlebitnj78 20 днів тому +3

    Omg! I was just thinking to myself the other day, I wonder how Jude is doing because your videos have been a part of my “preparing for fall coziness” for so many years and here you are! Congrats on your move! Enjoy the beautiful and wild adventure 😊

    • @rewildingjude
      @rewildingjude  20 днів тому

      Ahh thank you!! I’m glad to be back!!

  • @CelticPurl
    @CelticPurl 20 днів тому +2

    Oh, the joy of homeownership! You’ll sort it all out and look back on these days and laugh, such a fun adventure! All the best 💙

    • @rewildingjude
      @rewildingjude  20 днів тому +1

      Oh definitely!! When all the lights went out I just wanted to cry! Haha. But it’s amazing what a good nights sleep can fix.