Same the one's I really like do that to me 😞 but the one's that I just see as a friend/ no potential in dating hits me up which I don't mind but I want someone that can be something with. Idk maybe it's just me maybe I'm not date able
Just got ghosted for the first time and that shit hurt. Deleted me off of everything, just after we had a really good conversation and hanging out and such. It just really hurts and I don’t understand and I just wish I knew why
I’ve been through this a bunch of times and each time it makes me look in the mirror and feel like their is something wrong with me . Even makes me question my existence smh
If they don't respond to you within 24 hours, they're playing games. Best to just drop them. Even the richest people in the world can send a text back.
I was just ghosted by a guy I've been talking to for about two months. Honestly the biggest waste of time. I feel bad only because in my mind he probably thought “She’s not worth it.”
It’s so god damn annoying and unnecessary. Men don’t ghost, little boys do. If you can’t communicate then you aren’t ready to be in a relationship anyway.
We texted & dated for a month and a half. He sent pics of his kids & spoke of them!! & he shared his goals, too. We were Intimate a couple times & then he asked me to sleep over and even made me breakfast. I thought awesome next step…what?! I got ghosted 👻 I was super confused, embarrassed and so sad. Thankfully I did go to work & talked to my best co-worker and she explained this to me. It still doesn’t make sense. Why not say..I’m not interested or I only want a FWB? Why string me along? Probably good it didn’t last long & this happened. I feel better now & thank you for your video. It was informative, honest & sweet💛 Love to all the ladies this has happened to, stay strong & keep your faith and your head held up high!
it just shows their emotional immaturity. I used to wonder why he did it, I blamed myself so much. at the end of the day, I know I deserved better, I was naïve to think he was the one, because someone meant to be in your life will show you that, they'll be consistent, they'll make that extra effort and they'll respect you. moving on is the only was forward. cry, distract yourself, laugh..just do what you have to in order to move on. you will move on and realise one day that although time was wasted, it was a lesson and can hopefully be more cautious in the future. love is dangerous and to be vulnerable is the scariest thing a person can do, they call it 'falling' in love for a reason, you just fall and hope the other person will catch you. but don't let him doing this be the reason you never trust again. stay hopeful, love will find you when you least expect it, I promise.
Aw I took a couple of years off from dating because I kept getting ghosted and was finally approached by someone I liked. We met in person and he actually put in work trying to pursue me. We went on a date that I thought went really well. We talked for hours, then after the date his texts started becoming inconsistent and short. I kinda had a feeling what was coming next. He ended up ghosting me a couple of weeks later….and he still watches my stories too, like he’s saving me for later or something 😅 I tried to avoid it by making sure he was the one chasing me, not the other way around. There’s really no cheat code to this. A ghost is gonna ghost. I don’t give up on dating buuut…..it’s exhausting. It’s like there’s no way around being ghosted, especially nowadays. People are scared of confrontation and being honest now more than ever. After those 2 years off from dating, I thought I knew how to dodge it but it still happened. I just wish these men would leave me alone bc it’s always the ones who approach me first who do this.
Wowwww!! I’m really sorry that happened to you. Ya, it’s better staying single I’ve learned. Unfortunately I think it’s my fate cause I can’t handle heartache like that.
Its a sign of immaturity, I did it once and after a year or so I realized how childish and cruel that was, and I still feel remorse. Kinda got karma though because I just got ghosted by a girl I really loved, And it doesnt make me mad that she lost feelings its just a deep disappointment because I see myself in her actions. Wasted 4 months getting close, than as soon as she meets new people I get thrown away. But its the best thing to happen to me as I've been able to use the pain to fuel self improvement. Best way to make them regretful and feel pain, Is to move on, Improve everything about yourself, and prosper without them. Trust me they will feel tiny, And just over all like a piece of shit if they arent a psychopath. I know I do even after over 2 years.
Omg right! You’re so right! I got ghosted for the first time in 2021 from a ex who I lost my virginity too which was yearssss ago. He kept pursuing me for like 9-10 years but deep down my spirit just didn’t take to him. Well, I gave in which was a huge mistake. He ended up ghosting me. I called him out on his bs bcause he would still view my snaps, but he then ended up deleting me. A YEAR later to the exact date He added me to face book. I seen a message from him saying “Hey I need to talk to you“ I just removed the request & ignored the message so I got some satisfaction seeing him come back knowing he could NEVER talk to me ever again.... Fast forward to this year. I went celibate for nearly two years. Met a dude we hit it off petty well. Went on a few dates. We were texting everyday for about 6 weeks. Ended up breaking my celibacy to him and he ghosted me! He went on vacation and while he was down there he was messaging me then outta no where no response. Been like 2 weeks. I totally agree when you say it tends to happen with the ones who approach you first . I wasn’t pursuing or chasing these dudes. I’m kinda hurt but I know I will move on ❤
It's easier said than done,until the moment it happens to you.some days are better and others are worse.my ex, ghosted me 2 months ago and I'm still dealing with emotions they come and go.i try so hard to let go it's just resurfaces when I least expect it.im feeling so lonely right but it will get better with time I know.
Well. If you've been ghosted it really doesn't matter how you react or respond. Because you've been ghosted and he won't hear or see it. You could respond by doing jumping jacks and back flips or you could cry your eyes out and he will never know.
I think one of the biggest reasons why people ghost other people is because we live in an instant gratification world now with all the social media and all the attention if somebody whether they be man or female does not get the attention they think they deserve they go somewhere else
I think utter silence is the best reaction to ghosting. Because ghosters eventually come back. THEN you can reply with “I’m busy right now I’ll get back to you when I have the time” ... then never have the time lol Dont get mad, get even.
The guy that ghosted me still watches my Instagram stories. In return I have been watching his... should I stop watching his stories? I don’t want to give him satisfaction that I still care.
I am literally crying while watching this. You are just like an understanding bff. I feel much after listening to you. (Glad that I haven't done anything to cross your suggestions.)
Hayyyst got ghosted and it sucks, it makes you think twice about yourself, Have I done something wrong? Is my texting bad? Do I look bad etc. No one deserves to feel like this especially for no reason at all😢
i got ghosted and i dont understand why. I've decided to leave them alone and its been extremely hard for me. watching this video really made me feel better. your voice is so calming and you seem like such a kind person, thank you for this video. this has really helped me to start moving on.
Hey ty for the video... Out of my own frustrating anger I looked up this topic bc damn, it's so unnecessary to ghost. Man up ? U cant face what u got involved with? Ur tips are good and I liked how you took it seriously and made it chill too. But tbh with myself, the anger is the worst.. feels self-justified like... Nah, they deserve to get hurt back 🙄 hate it
I'm currently being ghosted and it's honestly taking a lot for me not to snap because I don't have the closure. The funny thing is that I recognized the red flags very early on and even blocked this person twice in the beginning stages. Like a dumba** I accepted this person back into my life thinking that maybe I was being too hard and now im paying the price for it. I fell for this person but looking back I'm not sure if it was the person that I wanted more or if it was just the idea of being with someone right now. It hurts like hell but I know that l'll look back soon laugh and ask myself what in the hell was I thinking. Update: I got closure and now I'm moving on
my tolerance for that kind of behaviour has become so low that I just walk away... if its someone i care about i will try to see whats going on, but if theyre still weird, its bye bye...
i think it's better to let them go think about it, if you like and genuinely care about somebody you wouldn't do that, so if they ghosted you is because they don't care... so what's the point to keep trying and force something? it's not worth it
It’s funny how getting ghosted can either be terrible or great. Rough obviously when you really do like the other person, but great when you know it’s not a relationship you want to pursue and aren’t great or feel bad with letting someone else down.
I was getting along with my crush until somebody came who is jealous of me and they told him lies about me. I hate that he ghosted me for no reason but what goes around comes around.
I wast ghosted a month ago and I still feel terribly awful, I look for videos that make me feel some comfort, I’m struggling with depression, I was very polite with her I really don’t know what happened 😔
I was ghosted 3 months ago by a friend that I confessed my feelings for. I recently saw her at an sporting event that we were both working. She walked up to me, hugged me, asked me how I'd been and all I said was "fine". She then walked past me 3 times that evening and put her head down each time as she past by. I didn't say a word to her but I wish I would have spoken to her. I don't think I'll ever hear from her again and that makes me sad.
Sooo the guy I was talking to went on a trip and ghosted me for a week. A WEEK. I understand wanting to enjoy a trip. But he never communicated that. It just rubbed me the wrong way. Then he came back acting like I was just gonna be available whenever he wanted me to be. I cut it off because if they can’t COMMUNICATE which is the BARE MINIMUM then why am I gonna waste my time & energy? Like you said I don’t need that type of inconsistency! 👏🏻👏🏻
yes so i thought i was ghosted. not answering my texts or anything . but i dont see them posting anywhere on the social. it legit makes no sense whatsever. cuz i feel enerrgy. i can literally feel whens something has shifted or change. or somethings wrong. even through the phone
i had a best friend for 2 years and he has ghosted me for a half a year now. I think because he moved out, changed his job and wants to "forget his old life". He doesn't reply me anything. Definitely I feel hurt because normally we would talk almost everyday.. Thank you for this video I'll try to move on.
I got mixed signals. My friend told me how much he loves and cares for me on my birthday. He disappeared and I confronted him about it. Asked if I did something. He told me I didn't do anything and that he has problems he has to work out himself and doesn't want to talk about it like I do. It's been 3 to 4 months. He lives on other side of country but we've always stayed in contact. I sent him the lyrics where'd ya go miss ya so. But nothing. A big part of me wants to tell him off. I dont know what to do I'm deeply hurt not hearing from him.
Imagine this: I met a guy on a dating app and he told me to meet him at the club that he was at with his friends. I get there pay a cover charge to get in, and greet him and his friends. He then proceeds to to say “I need to go to the bathroom.” He went. He never came back. And blocked me on the dating app. 🙃 instant ghost. That’s never happened to me so I felt insecure for a bit after …
Ghosting is bad behavior that society needs to stop making acceptable if you don't to be friends just say don't insult people by going quiet. This is a behavior we need to start discouraging from Early school years up.
I went on a first “date” with this guy 2 days ago, after our date, we text for a while, discussing where we should go to next, all the sudden… poof! He leaves me on open and never texted me back. Hurts cuz it was a good date and was starting to develop feelings for this guy :(
We been together for a year how can he do this my hearts been hurting for days I honestly feel like giving up and crying makes me not want to date anymore.
We been talking for almost 2 months but prior we’ve known each other for 3+ years I have feelings for her I always have and everything was going great our conversations were good and out of nowhere I’m blocked on everything so now I’m hurt and confused and feel I got played it’s been 3 days now
Just found out that I got ghosted for the first time last night. I've been with this coward for some years. Before I got with him. I was in a relationship. This coward would hit my dms semi-annualy for 7 years during that relationship. I gave him a chance thinking that he was the one that got away. His parents passed away and he totally changed. I was there for him while everyone else gave up on him. We were together last week and everything was fine. I called him last night only to find out that I am blocked. I used another number to ask him about what's going on, he said not to call him anymore.
Knew him for a year and a half, he said he loved me more than anything even on our "bad days". 3 weeks ago he stopped caring about me after I sent him nudes for the first time. Didn't seem interested, didn't seem to love me. I confronted him a few days ago and we fought for 2 days straight. Today he ghosted me out of nowhere. Love sucks Update: he said he never loved me and it was all fake
Ghosting helped me realize that she was never into it. We dated for a month, seeing each other 7 times. We spoke every day, but I constantly felt like I wasn't a priority to her. She never asked me out or called me, it was always my idea. She never flirted with me and only complemented me a handful of times in 30+ days of texting and seeing each other. Bottom line; She's just not that into you bro.
I am being ghosted by about 40 people at once. I have no idea why? It’s really hard. Some where my best friends. Like super super close friends. I have no idea why they would do this to me? I tried all your tips, but still two years later i got dreams about it and heavy thoughts. I somehow cant move on. Im really depressed
i feel like such shit :( everytime i finally find a sweet guy i want to date they ghost me after meeting :( im 15 and never had a relationship and thats all i want
One of my closest friends ghosted me out of nowhere, for 4 months, kept posting on social media, then called me back and acted like nothing happened? I was so confused.
Had a recent great in-person date, followed by phone calls and “normal” texting for a few weeks. After a phone conversation he texted was “awesome”, I texted him back. He responded FIVE DAYS later that he had an issue with his iPhone, hence no immediate contact. I gave him space when he didn’t respond but I won’t accept a FIVE DAY period of silence with THAT answer. Apple doesn’t keep phones for FIVE days. Coincidentally, he texted me the day (within hours) I removed our connection from the dating site on which we met. I haven’t responded to that weak-ass text and he hasn’t made any additional attempts to reach out. Will the Real Slim Shady Please Stand Up?
I was ghosted out of nowhere by this guy. I messaged,no answer. Went on tinder to try to get closure (still had me in his matches) , he uploads a new pic on tinder a couple minutes later. I was nothing but kind to him , even sending him healing constantly. The thanks I got smh..I blocked him on everything. I'm not an option
I got ghosted but my first love. I did the best I could she was my first relationship so I made some mistakes and tried to improve but she thought being with me was settling for less. after the break up I messaged her out of grief bc I missed her, she deleted me on all social media and now she’s gone. I have to have peace that I gave her my everything.
Saw a girl at my school and I lowkey like her. I got her snap and I texted her and she was pretty responsive at start but then we were texting and she randomly went away and just left man. I see her at my math class 24/7 saw her got on snap and she be ghosting me so Im finna just tell her to have a good summer once the year ends and then Im just finna see if she texts back if she doesnt than Im just gonna give up
i’m sitting wondering what i did or what was the reason. and it is driving me nuts but i really need an explanation on why!! but i’m scared to ask 😭😭 i don’t even want any type of relationship with them but i just want to know
Drop off the face of the earth on them. If they want you they’ll contact you. Asking what happened makes you look weak if your a man. After a few un responses from calls or text, delete their contact information and walk away. This shows more strength and maturity for a man than asking why. Only ask her what happened if she reaches back.
I met him on fb and we was messaging and he said I really like you and as I got to know him I liked him. I thought he was busy but he would always check his messenger and be active but not message me back. So I blocked him when I found out he ghosted me.
Tbh whoever they are, they did you a favor. Your dodging a bullet, there are some people that don’t deserve your energy, love and friendship.
@umar b I mean if you did nothing wrong then why would you be the one being dodged?
people who ghost those with good intentions are the worst kind of people. users, abusers, and narcissists. walk away.
Lol every time I talk to a guy and I genuinely like them...they ghost me
LoL this is literally me
Same right when I like them it happens it takes me a lot to actually like someone it’s hard for me to just like anybody
Same the one's I really like do that to me 😞 but the one's that I just see as a friend/ no potential in dating hits me up which I don't mind but I want someone that can be something with. Idk maybe it's just me maybe I'm not date able
Same here’ I don’t get it! I’m successful’ attractive’ has great conversion’ I dress well’ I’m clean 🧼 ect…. I don’t get it 😤
Just got ghosted for the first time and that shit hurt. Deleted me off of everything, just after we had a really good conversation and hanging out and such. It just really hurts and I don’t understand and I just wish I knew why
I’ve been through this a bunch of times and each time it makes me look in the mirror and feel like their is something wrong with me . Even makes me question my existence smh
How are you now ? I’m going through this now I can’t even sleep just been crying
@@sharnashields7118 watch HG tudor knowing the narcissist -ultra ghosting video and you'll realize .
Getting ghosted by someone while it’s feels y’all are on mutually good terms is the most devastating confusing thing to try to grasp…
@@tarasteward3271 is it the video that was uploaded two weeks ago ?
Best advice is don’t chase ghosts and don’t let them know that it bothered you. Ghosting is a huge clue they aren’t interested.
Umm but why after sometimes they wanna chase us?
If they don't respond to you within 24 hours, they're playing games. Best to just drop them. Even the richest people in the world can send a text back.
I literally just want to tell this person he hurt me so badly but I know he wouldn’t care.
I was just ghosted by a guy I've been talking to for about two months. Honestly the biggest waste of time. I feel bad only because in my mind he probably thought “She’s not worth it.”
It’s so god damn annoying and unnecessary. Men don’t ghost, little boys do. If you can’t communicate then you aren’t ready to be in a relationship anyway.
Being ghosted is depressing
I’ve been crying for a week now. My boyfriend ghosted me out of nowhere. I did nothing wrong. I’m so hurt. I’m so heartbroken 😔
How are you feeling ?
Girl remember your better than him.I know its hurts sweetie.But trust me there's better out there. 😊
Same , I feel like I’m dying . How are you now ?
Your boyfriend?!? How long have you two been together, if you don’t mind me asking
It called “dumping “ since he was your boyfriend
We texted & dated for a month and a half. He sent pics of his kids & spoke of them!! & he shared his goals, too. We were Intimate a couple times & then he asked me to sleep over and even made me breakfast. I thought awesome next step…what?! I got ghosted 👻 I was super confused, embarrassed and so sad. Thankfully I did go to work & talked to my best co-worker and she explained this to me. It still doesn’t make sense. Why not say..I’m not interested or I only want a FWB? Why string me along? Probably good it didn’t last long & this happened. I feel better now & thank you for your video. It was informative, honest & sweet💛 Love to all the ladies this has happened to, stay strong & keep your faith and your head held up high!
It is not easy being grateful after it has just happened. Maybe overtime I will get perspective but right now it is just downright painful.
Going through this right now...
it just shows their emotional immaturity. I used to wonder why he did it, I blamed myself so much. at the end of the day, I know I deserved better, I was naïve to think he was the one, because someone meant to be in your life will show you that, they'll be consistent, they'll make that extra effort and they'll respect you. moving on is the only was forward. cry, distract yourself, laugh..just do what you have to in order to move on. you will move on and realise one day that although time was wasted, it was a lesson and can hopefully be more cautious in the future. love is dangerous and to be vulnerable is the scariest thing a person can do, they call it 'falling' in love for a reason, you just fall and hope the other person will catch you. but don't let him doing this be the reason you never trust again. stay hopeful, love will find you when you least expect it, I promise.
Aw I took a couple of years off from dating because I kept getting ghosted and was finally approached by someone I liked. We met in person and he actually put in work trying to pursue me. We went on a date that I thought went really well. We talked for hours, then after the date his texts started becoming inconsistent and short. I kinda had a feeling what was coming next. He ended up ghosting me a couple of weeks later….and he still watches my stories too, like he’s saving me for later or something 😅 I tried to avoid it by making sure he was the one chasing me, not the other way around. There’s really no cheat code to this. A ghost is gonna ghost.
I don’t give up on dating buuut…..it’s exhausting. It’s like there’s no way around being ghosted, especially nowadays. People are scared of confrontation and being honest now more than ever. After those 2 years off from dating, I thought I knew how to dodge it but it still happened. I just wish these men would leave me alone bc it’s always the ones who approach me first who do this.
I hate that, because I'm such an understanding person.... You dont have to lie or go ghost on me.... That shit really hurts. Going thru it rn...
Wowwww!! I’m really sorry that happened to you. Ya, it’s better staying single I’ve learned. Unfortunately I think it’s my fate cause I can’t handle heartache like that.
Its a sign of immaturity, I did it once and after a year or so I realized how childish and cruel that was, and I still feel remorse.
Kinda got karma though because I just got ghosted by a girl I really loved, And it doesnt make me mad that she lost feelings its just a deep disappointment because I see myself in her actions.
Wasted 4 months getting close, than as soon as she meets new people I get thrown away.
But its the best thing to happen to me as I've been able to use the pain to fuel self improvement.
Best way to make them regretful and feel pain, Is to move on, Improve everything about yourself, and prosper without them.
Trust me they will feel tiny, And just over all like a piece of shit if they arent a psychopath. I know I do even after over 2 years.
Omg right! You’re so right! I got ghosted for the first time in 2021 from a ex who I lost my virginity too which was yearssss ago. He kept pursuing me for like 9-10 years but deep down my spirit just didn’t take to him. Well, I gave in which was a huge mistake. He ended up ghosting me. I called him out on his bs bcause he would still view my snaps, but he then ended up deleting me. A YEAR later to the exact date He added me to face book. I seen a message from him saying “Hey I need to talk to you“ I just removed the request & ignored the message so I got some satisfaction seeing him come back knowing he could NEVER talk to me ever again....
Fast forward to this year. I went celibate for nearly two years. Met a dude we hit it off petty well. Went on a few dates. We were texting everyday for about 6 weeks. Ended up breaking my celibacy to him and he ghosted me! He went on vacation and while he was down there he was messaging me then outta no where no response. Been like 2 weeks. I totally agree when you say it tends to happen with the ones who approach you first . I wasn’t pursuing or chasing these dudes. I’m kinda hurt but I know I will move on ❤
It's easier said than done,until the moment it happens to you.some days are better and others are worse.my ex, ghosted me 2 months ago and I'm still dealing with emotions they come and go.i try so hard to let go it's just resurfaces when I least expect it.im feeling so lonely right but it will get better with time I know.
Well. If you've been ghosted it really doesn't matter how you react or respond. Because you've been ghosted and he won't hear or see it. You could respond by doing jumping jacks and back flips or you could cry your eyes out and he will never know.
I think one of the biggest reasons why people ghost other people is because we live in an instant gratification world now with all the social media and all the attention if somebody whether they be man or female does not get the attention they think they deserve they go somewhere else
why do I keep getting ghosted
I think utter silence is the best reaction to ghosting. Because ghosters eventually come back. THEN you can reply with “I’m busy right now I’ll get back to you when I have the time” ... then never have the time lol Dont get mad, get even.
The guy that ghosted me still watches my Instagram stories. In return I have been watching his... should I stop watching his stories? I don’t want to give him satisfaction that I still care.
I am literally crying while watching this. You are just like an understanding bff. I feel much after listening to you. (Glad that I haven't done anything to cross your suggestions.)
I get ghosted all time, I find it amusing actually.
“I’m too busy” is not an excuse anymore
Hayyyst got ghosted and it sucks, it makes you think twice about yourself, Have I done something wrong? Is my texting bad? Do I look bad etc. No one deserves to feel like this especially for no reason at all😢
i got ghosted and i dont understand why. I've decided to leave them alone and its been extremely hard for me. watching this video really made me feel better. your voice is so calming and you seem like such a kind person, thank you for this video. this has really helped me to start moving on.
It sucks when they ghost you and they don’t even fucking care how much they hurt you
People men and women know exactly what they're doing... Discernment is key
This whole ghosting thing is becoming a trend and it’s scary asf..I’ve been ghosted by someone and it hurts but time heals all wounds
Hey ty for the video... Out of my own frustrating anger I looked up this topic bc damn, it's so unnecessary to ghost. Man up ? U cant face what u got involved with? Ur tips are good and I liked how you took it seriously and made it chill too. But tbh with myself, the anger is the worst.. feels self-justified like... Nah, they deserve to get hurt back 🙄 hate it
I'm currently being ghosted and it's honestly taking a lot for me not to snap because I don't have the closure. The funny thing is that I recognized the red flags very early on and even blocked this person twice in the beginning stages. Like a dumba** I accepted this person back into my life thinking that maybe I was being too hard and now im paying the price for it. I fell for this person but looking back I'm not sure if it was the person that I wanted more or if it was just the idea of being with someone right now. It hurts like hell but I know that l'll look back soon laugh and ask myself what in the hell was I thinking.
Update: I got closure and now I'm moving on
Same situation I’m happy for you closure sounds very nice
How did u get closure?
my tolerance for that kind of behaviour has become so low that I just walk away... if its someone i care about i will try to see whats going on, but if theyre still weird, its bye bye...
Ghosting = childish = Run meme
Never thought I would be here watching . Never thought it happen to me 🤣😅
if they decide to ghost you, dont disturb the deaths .
i think it's better to let them go
think about it, if you like and genuinely care about somebody you wouldn't do that, so if they ghosted you is because they don't care... so what's the point to keep trying and force something?
it's not worth it
It’s funny how getting ghosted can either be terrible or great. Rough obviously when you really do like the other person, but great when you know it’s not a relationship you want to pursue and aren’t great or feel bad with letting someone else down.
😂😂 “I thought we were cool, I thought that you loved me” Luv ur videos
I was getting along with my crush until somebody came who is jealous of me and they told him lies about me. I hate that he ghosted me for no reason but what goes around comes around.
Ghosts don’t exist.
So,if someone ghosted you, treat them like they don’t exist.
he likes my stuff on FB but ghosted??? Won't answer text or calls
I wast ghosted a month ago and I still feel terribly awful, I look for videos that make me feel some comfort, I’m struggling with depression, I was very polite with her I really don’t know what happened 😔
I was ghosted 3 months ago by a friend that I confessed my feelings for. I recently saw her at an sporting event that we were both working. She walked up to me, hugged me, asked me how I'd been and all I said was "fine". She then walked past me 3 times that evening and put her head down each time as she past by. I didn't say a word to her but I wish I would have spoken to her. I don't think I'll ever hear from her again and that makes me sad.
Sooo the guy I was talking to went on a trip and ghosted me for a week. A WEEK. I understand wanting to enjoy a trip. But he never communicated that. It just rubbed me the wrong way. Then he came back acting like I was just gonna be available whenever he wanted me to be. I cut it off because if they can’t COMMUNICATE which is the BARE MINIMUM then why am I gonna waste my time & energy? Like you said I don’t need that type of inconsistency! 👏🏻👏🏻
TINDER IS DESTROYING ME
Her voice makes me so calm
yes so i thought i was ghosted. not answering my texts or anything . but i dont see them posting anywhere on the social. it legit makes no sense whatsever. cuz i feel enerrgy. i can literally feel whens something has shifted or change. or somethings wrong. even through the phone
Wish I had this back in Sept. when it happened to me for first and last time. Your voice is so convincing and genuine. Again thanks
i had a best friend for 2 years and he has ghosted me for a half a year now. I think because he moved out, changed his job and wants to "forget his old life". He doesn't reply me anything. Definitely I feel hurt because normally we would talk almost everyday.. Thank you for this video I'll try to move on.
Thank you for your attitude. You're so kind and understanding.
I got mixed signals. My friend told me how much he loves and cares for me on my birthday. He disappeared and I confronted him about it. Asked if I did something. He told me I didn't do anything and that he has problems he has to work out himself and doesn't want to talk about it like I do. It's been 3 to 4 months. He lives on other side of country but we've always stayed in contact. I sent him the lyrics where'd ya go miss ya so. But nothing. A big part of me wants to tell him off. I dont know what to do I'm deeply hurt not hearing from him.
Honestly best to just leave it if you don’t get a reply, like Shaela says. Only makes you look desperate if you keep messaging
I did all that texting 💬 & now keeping it pushing
I actually got this for first time it’s actually tuff 🤷🏾♂️
“First things first I poppa.. ..” nobody caught her about to go in like that?? 😂😂 #Energy
Notorious 😂🙌
I should have listened to this video when I was ghosted 👻 last year in 2019 ! 🙁but good thing I moved on
Is it me... but ur makeup is flawless lol
The best response to being ghosted is: NONE.
Imagine this: I met a guy on a dating app and he told me to meet him at the club that he was at with his friends. I get there pay a cover charge to get in, and greet him and his friends. He then proceeds to to say “I need to go to the bathroom.” He went. He never came back. And blocked me on the dating app. 🙃 instant ghost. That’s never happened to me so I felt insecure for a bit after …
Omg wow this is terrible 🥲
“First things first” Biggie line got me
Ghosting is bad behavior that society needs to stop making acceptable if you don't to be friends just say don't insult people by going quiet. This is a behavior we need to start discouraging from Early school years up.
I went on a first “date” with this guy 2 days ago, after our date, we text for a while, discussing where we should go to next, all the sudden… poof! He leaves me on open and never texted me back. Hurts cuz it was a good date and was starting to develop feelings for this guy :(
Update plz did he come back ??!
After 24 hours just move on dawg 👑.
My guy friend didn’t text me for almost 2 weeks and now today he texted
We been together for a year how can he do this my hearts been hurting for days I honestly feel like giving up and crying makes me not want to date anymore.
The worst feeling talking for 1 year and one night he just got up out of bed with me and I never heard from him since . I tore mi apart
Ghosting is vile
😆 .. as a player , we do this bc we see something that we don’t like that we also feel that we can’t fix
Yeah that's because you're still a boy who can't communicate.
i feel like this is my karma bc i did it to a guy who really liked me but this hurts so bad 😭 i don’t even wanna try anymore
We been talking for almost 2 months but prior we’ve known each other for 3+ years I have feelings for her I always have and everything was going great our conversations were good and out of nowhere I’m blocked on everything so now I’m hurt and confused and feel I got played it’s been 3 days now
Just found out that I got ghosted for the first time last night. I've been with this coward for some years. Before I got with him. I was in a relationship. This coward would hit my dms semi-annualy for 7 years during that relationship. I gave him a chance thinking that he was the one that got away. His parents passed away and he totally changed. I was there for him while everyone else gave up on him. We were together last week and everything was fine. I called him last night only to find out that I am blocked. I used another number to ask him about what's going on, he said not to call him anymore.
Knew him for a year and a half, he said he loved me more than anything even on our "bad days". 3 weeks ago he stopped caring about me after I sent him nudes for the first time. Didn't seem interested, didn't seem to love me. I confronted him a few days ago and we fought for 2 days straight. Today he ghosted me out of nowhere. Love sucks
Update: he said he never loved me and it was all fake
Sorry sis same I’m so heartbreaking I feel like I’m dying . How are things with you now ?
Jesus christ wow, I hope you didn't take it personally cause I would've just died fr ☠️
I was just ghosted by a guy I’d been talking to for 4 months & ugh I didn’t think I’d be so sad
Your hair is so pretty
You have such awesome advice, delivered with love and care. Thank you
i never know if its good to message them or just forget it and move on
I just want closure
I keep getting ghosted by girls, it honestly sucks.
you're so gorgeous ❤️ thanks for the advice
My friend set us up to have a meet and greet and he didn't show up. He never called until 8 months later showing interest. Crazy right?
Ghosting helped me realize that she was never into it. We dated for a month, seeing each other 7 times. We spoke every day, but I constantly felt like I wasn't a priority to her. She never asked me out or called me, it was always my idea. She never flirted with me and only complemented me a handful of times in 30+ days of texting and seeing each other. Bottom line; She's just not that into you bro.
What if they’re a coworker? How do you handle working with them on a day by day basics.
I am being ghosted by about 40 people at once. I have no idea why? It’s really hard. Some where my best friends. Like super super close friends. I have no idea why they would do this to me? I tried all your tips, but still two years later i got dreams about it and heavy thoughts. I somehow cant move on. Im really depressed
i feel like such shit :( everytime i finally find a sweet guy i want to date they ghost me after meeting :( im 15 and never had a relationship and thats all i want
Will now that my person's ghosting me. I'm not upset just moving on they're not worth the time an effort to continue.
People ghost me in mm2 and all I’m asking for is a common and I go a rant and ignore me and it makes me look like and idiot >:(
Omg you talk so sweeeeeeet 😍😍
One of my closest friends ghosted me out of nowhere, for 4 months, kept posting on social media, then called me back and acted like nothing happened? I was so confused.
Had a recent great in-person date, followed by phone calls and “normal” texting for a few weeks. After a phone conversation he texted was “awesome”, I texted him back. He responded FIVE DAYS later that he had an issue with his iPhone, hence no immediate contact. I gave him space when he didn’t respond but I won’t accept a FIVE DAY period of silence with THAT answer. Apple doesn’t keep phones for FIVE days. Coincidentally, he texted me the day (within hours) I removed our connection from the dating site on which we met. I haven’t responded to that weak-ass text and he hasn’t made any additional attempts to reach out. Will the Real Slim Shady Please Stand Up?
I was ghosted out of nowhere by this guy. I messaged,no answer. Went on tinder to try to get closure (still had me in his matches) , he uploads a new pic on tinder a couple minutes later. I was nothing but kind to him , even sending him healing constantly. The thanks I got smh..I blocked him on everything. I'm not an option
I wish I saw this earlier...
I got ghosted but my first love. I did the best I could she was my first relationship so I made some mistakes and tried to improve but she thought being with me was settling for less. after the break up I messaged her out of grief bc I missed her, she deleted me on all social media and now she’s gone. I have to have peace that I gave her my everything.
Saw a girl at my school and I lowkey like her. I got her snap and I texted her and she was pretty responsive at start but then we were texting and she randomly went away and just left man. I see her at my math class 24/7 saw her got on snap and she be ghosting me so Im finna just tell her to have a good summer once the year ends and then Im just finna see if she texts back if she doesnt than Im just gonna give up
i’m sitting wondering what i did or what was the reason. and it is driving me nuts but i really need an explanation on why!! but i’m scared to ask 😭😭 i don’t even want any type of relationship with them but i just want to know
Your little jokes are so cute lmao
Drop off the face of the earth on them. If they want you they’ll contact you. Asking what happened makes you look weak if your a man. After a few un responses from calls or text, delete their contact information and walk away. This shows more strength and maturity for a man than asking why. Only ask her what happened if she reaches back.
Thank you, I'm being ghosted by a friend right now :,)
Thank you, I will delete his number after today. I’ve felt very sad about this. I’ve felt alone and I know it’s not me. So I’m moving on.
Thanks for the positivity!
I met him on fb and we was messaging and he said I really like you and as I got to know him I liked him. I thought he was busy but he would always check his messenger and be active but not message me back. So I blocked him when I found out he ghosted me.