Help! My Teen Daughter Is Scamming & Fighting! | KARAMO
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- Опубліковано 4 гру 2023
- Nikki is scared for her daughter's life. She says her daughter, Aanasia, has been fighting, skipping school, and even scamming her own mother using Nikki's credit card. Aanasia says it's not as bad as it sounds but Nikki is scared that if one fight goes too far, it could be over for her child. Can Karamo help this mother and daughter get their relationship back on track?
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I don’t think this girl is a bad child, she just need proper guiding and clear instructions
Absolutely! The fact that she reached out for help and for the most part owned up to her actions shows that she wants to be better and she wants a good relationship with her mom, she just isn’t sure How. I really, truly wish the best for them!
Yes! The expectation needs to be clear! But, she had a very unhappy look when Mom explained why she was taking that phone! These electronics have ruined parents and almost a whole generation! Something that could have been a positive has become so negative. Every time I hear about troubled kids most of the time there is an iPhone or some sort of electronic involved. The first time my daughter tried to act like I was cutting her heart out when I took her phone she didn't get one back for over a year. She knew my biggest parent fear was not being able to reach her and not having a location, so she thought the phone was untouchable, that is until I found these wonderful watches online that not only had accuracy when it came to the GPS, but it allowed me to communicate with her and approve a list of numbers for her to call. She wasn't happy, but she moved forward with shaping up real quick!
Exactly...
Thus is the first time I didn’t find the mother absolutely terrible.
Yes, I feel for the mother, too.
Yea
Right 😊
Yes agreed and an episode where mother and daughter felt heard fr
The daughter pretty as hell
They both are 🥰
Right, she’s so gorgeous
Ong🤣🤣😍
That's part of the problem! She thinks because she is pretty, she can do whatever she wants to do! Beauty Fades...😔
School can be torture for some young people. Peer pressure, bullying and keeping up with trends is social media driven. If you are different in any way, you could become victimized.
I hated high school. It’s been 25 years and I still remember how horrible it was.
Exactly! I remember in elementary school there were girls jealous of me because I had real long hair and that day was picture day so they were looking and rolling their eyes and all I could do was think to myself and ask myself why are they rolling their eyes and then they came with threats and asking me do I think I look good and better than any of them. I was damn confused cause I was new to the school so I didn’t have no confrontations with anyone. So every school I went to I dealt with females hating on me cause of my hair and shape I had body wise. It was crazy and sad. I can’t help if I long good hair and a nice shape. But I got not one fight in elementary because the girl had pushed me on the grown and I never been hit on before in my life so I had to whip her azz and after that none of her friends respected her because I guess she was the big person out the group, the main bully that tells others what to do and she was tall and I was a short girl so by her getting her azz whipped by a short girl they looked at that like you can’t even fight and bullying people and that’s a lot of bullies that can’t fight. And still today as an adult I do get shade but I’m mature so I keep my head held high and smile at the end of the day cause I go home to my husband and kids every night and no one has to like me. I have more haters than dust. 😂 But I also have the blessed ones around me and they are truly great and wonderful people.
The struggle is real
@@user-bk7iq3ne7n🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️❤️
So true 💯💯
It don’t matter how much she is well kept she is definitely going through something mentally !
That don’t justifies a rebellious
Disrespectful smart mouth attitude
@@kamillepierce7271it doesn't make it okay, but it definitely explains why it's happening
@@kamillepierce7271yeah but it can be a trigger or what is the root cause of it
@@ndmafiaa6287 that’s the case for some and then there’s some teenagers who just have no respect for authority. Don’t wanna work for nothing. Entitled, Disrespectful and think they know it all.
This is really the attitude of a lot of people I see it all the time.
She said it was school. These kids can be harsh now days
Her daughter she’s a good teenager you can tell she loves her mom they need to put boundaries and love respect each other ❤
Parents always say they want to give their kids what they didn’t have and it’s always material things, what about the structure and guidance etc. it ain’t always material things.
And the Church said " Amen ".
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Exactly! We have to teach ourselves discipline and coping mechanisms for our emotions and teach them to our kids! I learned that early on when my kid was having behavioral problems in kinder thankfully we got therapy and he’s doing wonderful in 3rd grade now
This is very true, but if you think about it, when parents are absent, a lot of times, they either compensate with material things or the person makes themselves happy with material things when they get older. So they're not trying to give material things, they're trying to give the good feeling that happens when you receive something. It's unfortunate
Right, the Mom is talking about hair and nails. She needs to focus more on the child's inner self. My heart does go out to the Mom as well, though. She truly had it rough as a child.
As a teen who just graduated being well dress and best looking can put a target on your back switching schools don’t help sometimes online school is what’s best honestly
What are you talking about my kids go to school dressed nice and they got voted best looking brother and sister and they never had no problems it’s just bull crap
@@user-bt3vx8bm2dmaybe your children attend a school where that happens but it’s definitely true & does happen.
I understand what you’re saying…Depending on students/kids mindset they either going to like you for you fly shit or they going to make life hell for you at school. Also it depends on the character the well dressed/fly student has as well.
@@user-bt3vx8bm2dno it is not your children don't tell you everything
@@user-bt3vx8bm2dit's not bull crap. My twins are beautiful, they were well dressed, honored students since elementary... School sometimes is not best. They had a lot of friends guys and girls ...but many females n males didn't like them first off cause they were twins, Were in the newspaper alot for academics, pictures put up at all public schools. Teachers favorites. Best dressed, best hairstyle....but overall I taught them to treat others the way u want to be treated. I'm glad 4 years ago they graduated with honors. Overall, I was scared cause the twins got in many fights....many respected them ...but a few wanted to always fight them. nowadays, if online class is best ...Then do so. U would not understand unless u lived it with your kids ..periodt
If you think school is stressful, wait until you start experiencing life on your own.
You betta say IT!
RIGHT ✅️
agreed. doesn’t take away from the fact that everyone needs support, no matter the age. everyone has their own struggles.
I understand what ur saying, but that doesn’t change the fact that school is stressful
I feel like the problem with now a days adults is yall fail to sympathize with your kids and stress. Please understand that everyone has stress. They are younger they dont understand how to handle they stress no matter how stressful you may think it may be. Lets stop downplaying someone else situations cause it isn’t a like yours
When parents say things like, ‘MY child is spoiled and rude…’ I just laugh. It’ll never make sense to me. It’s YOUR child, YOU spoiled them or allowed others to.
This is true
That's because you want to give your child the world, especially if you grew up without but you don't realize it will create a rude entitled child until it happens
@@whocares650that's because it doesn't ALWAYS create a spoiled and entitled child...some kids actually appreciate what you do for them while others do not
ok and she said she spoiled? what else u want her to do? she obviously said she spoils her, listen better.
A statement of fact, isn't necessarily a complaint.
She’ll give her back her phone as soon as they get back home 😂
Right 😂😂😂😂😂 that was just for karamo & the cameras
YEP. That's why she ain even hesitate. She knows whats up lol.
As soon as they leave where the cameras are
This is the comment I was looking for. 😂😂
Glad we all knew 😭
They are both grogeous
The girl literally said what her issue is and it was glossed over. Remove her from the environment, you would think the former gang member from a broken home would be on something like that pronto. Public schools is where we lose our kids 🤷🏽♂️, then again that's just schools period. Give her those online classes and lets see what happens, if she fails then she can't say she was never given a chance.
Very logical. Can’t agree more.
I HATED public schools. Glad I am done with it, Black girls got treated so evilly.
I went to an all white school the girls wanted to stab me and throw me on the train tracks I was doing the same thing like this girl, leaving for school in the morning and went to the field and town centre to stay safe!
@@Diamonds2477 jfc
Exactly!
One of the biggest mistakes we makes as parents is trying to give our children the things we needed as a kid, we have to realize that our children’s don’t have the parents, the life or the needs that we had as children. It’s easy to say I didn’t have this so I’m giving it to you but it’s harder to find out who your child is, what they actually need and to provide that but it’s better for our children.
Do you mean want as a kid? Wanting and needing is to different things. Like wanting a phone isn’t something that she really doesn’t need and needing a coat is something she needs and have to have to stay warm. NEEDS & WANTS! You can want all day and that doesn’t mean you’re gonna get it.
@@user-bk7iq3ne7n no I mean need. Each child has different needs and it’s your responsibility to find out what your child needs…..
And I’m not talking about necessity’s to survive, I’m talking about the individual needs each person has
Well my mother spoiled me and I’ve never been to jail in my life touched drugs none of that so to each and their own its more to that young lady’s story than meets the eye
@@mccormick151428 spoiling your kids is not a problem, the problem is when you don’t instill into your kids respect, boundaries, consequences, morals and to be grateful
She thinks her mom is trying to control her but you mark words one day she will thank her
Baby girl… please get a grip before you turn 18 cause the law ain’t gonna have no mercy on you the way your mom does. Take it from someone who has over 5 assault charges & DID TIME!! I understand defending yourself if you have to but every situation doesn’t need to turn into a fight. I will turn the other cheek so fast until somebody try to put their hands on me.
She has braces and she is very well kept. Her nails & hair are done.
Her mom clearly takes very good care of her. She needs to be more respectful.
Or maybe u just need to understand more.. u clearly never went through something as a kid and it shows
@@NicolaN12 I need to understand more? You do not know me. Maybe you shouldn't feel triggered. Pray about it.🙏🏼
A wise person once said: "Appearances can be deceiving."
@@Karen.AboutYou yea u need to understand more, just like u said „u do not know me” so u do not know this girl, she’s angry and hurt from her past trauma and she’s acting out bc of it.. the mum is this one that isn’t giving her discipline, she keeps rewarding it with hair and nails.. the girl literally called karamo to get on the show not the mother.
Physically she is well kept but mentally and emotionally she may not be fulfilled because maybe mom isn’t equipped to deal with that, or maybe mom didn’t have the coping skills she needs and you can’t pass anything down you don’t know how to do. Hopefully they can work it out
as a teenager who has this exact mentality in 9th grade, i moved out of the environment i was in and went to a new school not i get hono roll and i haven't got into a fight or anything since then and I really think her environment is triggering her to have the mentality she is having with her mother and peers at school. She's not entitled and disrespectful but she's anxious, unheard and in fight or flight mode everyday
I believe this is true also. It's like your aura gets saturated with all the negativity in the environment. You can hold your head up, but with all these trying to bring you down you retreat.
Don't let anyone put you down, pray Psalms, do salt/lemon bath, get counselling from a recognised bonafide professional and steady focused on your goals. Journal your thoughts whether positive or negative to reach solutions. A problem shared is a problem halved. All the best 🙏🏾
She’s literally so pretty 😍 I hope things got better with her and her mom
Her daughter sounds entitled
VERY and they overlooking ir
Umhmm..entitled to asz whooping using her mother's credit card buying shiit ..hell no 😂
@cdimplesz324 right ✅️ you want to talk crazy to a b and then use my card. Big no no.....
What she really needs is a job. She 17 and barely go to school, but her mom pays for all her maintenance with all her bad behavior. A job will humble her so fast, she need to realize that if she wants all these expensive luxuries it cost money that she need to work hard for to get for herself, especially that she's gonna be 18 and she need money to survive, she will learn that if she want to keep these rewards she need to work and be on top of her attendance and professionalism which will in turn teach her some discipline
She gotta job
She has a job.. the mom literally said it in their text messages.
She has a job grow the fuck up and realise that this is a broken child, not an ignorant adult
my mom spoiled me growing up and when I say spoiled I mean disgustingly rotten. I barely walked until I was 7 years old. I am short and was very small in stature though a normal child but she made EVERYTHING easy for me and I was never forced to do anything I did not want to do. Listen when I became an adult I found out real quick that life doesn’t bend to suit me! I was crushed when I learned how hard life can be and one day I actually told her once I hit my 30’s how much she damaged me because I had to figure some things out on my own. Thank God I found my way and have a healthy balance but it was deep navigating in a world that ant getting ready to give you nothing and sometimes you can work super hard and still have to accept delay so I pray for this girl that she gets on a even path because I broke the grace of God saved me from myself🙏🏽 always two sides of a coin
They are both absolutely gorgeous. The daughter seems spoiled but really loves her mom. And I get not liking school, some of the kids are demonic.
The mother and daughter are beautiful I wish them the absolute best and the daughter much success in her career she wants to pursue
The daughter is gorgeous
I think Karmo should’ve spoke with the daughter more on how she’s feeling
Her daughter is so pretty the girls at school probably jealous
Beautiful mother and daughter ❤ -- it's so easy to get in trouble and so hard to get out of it
So, so true!
Mom please take her out of that school. Let her do school online. Your daughter needs to leave that environment. It's hard once a girl gets a reputation for bad to change but stay around people that won't allow her to change.
She is beautiful so is mom
Listen girl , this show was a blessing to you
I’m the guy in the red with the crooked glasses in the middle! 😁 The taping for this was honestly one of my favorite experiences of the year. He’s so good! 🔥❤
😂aaaaw, nice! Which minute mark bro? 😊
What a beautiful family. They just need some help, counseling and prayer. I hope that all is well with them.
Such beautiful ladies🥰
That baby is hurt. Talk for real, really listen. Pray, get deliverance. Keep trying.
Amen
She’s so beautiful!
The daughter is not terrible lmao yall dragged it so much. She has so much potential especially in modeling. She doesn’t seem bad, what I was doing at her age was worse I got kicked out of every school until I ended up in night school. Now I am in school with my second degree trust me it’ll work out.
And she clearly cares about her mom and vice versa they’ll be good I think she needs proper guidance and she’ll be good. People in the comments need to be more positive.
"Normal School" isn't for anybody. Daughter should definitely do online schooling if she's stressed out. After COVID, children have changed and difficult to adapt nack into the school system. Mama and Daughter will be ok ❤️
I have a 21yo son and a 18yo daughter they still listen to me they don't curse at me or around me. It's an unpopular opinion however your children are what you grow them to be
Nah not all the time
You’d be surprised
The influence is not just parents anymore.
Not true at all kids go their own way they get influenced by everyone not just the parent
@@dehjhunaeday5743 and again that's how you grow up teach trust and communicate with YOUR children. No one has more influence on my children than me. So again unpopular opinion your tribe is what you put in it and make it. I disagree with you and I've raised 3 in these times homeless struggling social media and what I said goes point blank period. Stop being their friends and be the parent
@@kamillepierce7271 well they need to tighten up on their back strocks what I say goes especially when you're under the age of 18 I'm the parent you will always be the child or go be an adult making your own decisions out there. Which is why I stand on my young adults that I gave birth to and raised listens to me and we communicate with one another. I'm only surprised that parents don't know how to parent the children they bred.
« Alexa is an extremely spoiled child with a bad attitude » - the woman who raised her
baby girl is gorgeous i see myself in her you got this ik school can be stressful but that’s life things aren’t always going to be easy but you got a mother that’s alive that loves you and she’s hurting from you respect your moms cuz you never know when she can be gone build with her same thing to your mom hope you’re doing well❤️
I think Karamo should’ve gone deeper. It feels like something more is going on with this child. What does she really mean by overwhelm at school? If she was displaying this at three years old, there is something more there. Severe ADHD can also manifest in anger/impulsiveness and poor emotional regulation. Or there may have been trauma. She seems like a smart girl who needs more help than she got here. I think that’s why she called in, more so than the discipline issue.
I don’t know everything but they both seem like they love each other. There is hope here.
The problem is parents that had a rough childhood want to give their children what they didn’t have growing up. Which is fine however, make your kids earn it. Stay out of trouble, chores, make good grades etc……and you can get nice things. It’s okay to spoil your kids but set boundaries as well.
I understand how her mom feels because I’m the same way with my son. As much as we want them to have what we didn’t they have to deserve it as well. Handing them gifts and rewards with nothing to celebrate is what it’s turned into. Now my son just expects things without even thinking about his grades or chores. I know I need help. He’s 11 I pray it’s not too late to start being more strict.
Her feeling are valid. These days school is very stressful.
Ngl They Reaction To That Fight Video Was Dramatic Asf
Right knowin they done see worse😂😂😂
You can not be your child’s friend and expect them to respect you. I’m hoping things will change for them.
The confessionals make it looked like it was filmed in 2002 idk 😅
Lol it’s giving early 2000’s Maury
@@mandia868 🤣
Lollll it really is 😂😂😂
I can tell they love each other❤
sometimes i think that these parents are jus mad that their kids have their own opinions and feelings. they mad that they can’t control them like how they did when they were younger
Keep me up to date on her growth I have faith this lil lady going to 360 for the good and make her mother proud.
This is off topic but it’s a 180. 360 just brings her back to where she is right now. Have a lovely day!
She well kept she need to respect her mom I have a mom who ain’t care about me and having my nails and hair done if it wasn’t for my brother my mom has never said she proud loved me smh
You may not pay what you owe but you reap what you sow pray about it all
I still think there’s some deep rooted things that’s really making that girl at the way she does
they both look so good
She's a good kid. Mommy needs to direct her have clear boundaries and use positive reinforcement.
I’m surprised she could still speak screaming and talking back to her mother.
Aww I loved this her and her daughter are so beautiful I hope she as a successful life peaceful life etc and makes the right decisions mom got to try her best to make sure she’s not a product of her own environment like she was❤
Her daughter is so pretty 😍 but you can tell that she really loves her mom but they bump heads a lot
I really love Karamo..
I wish the best for their relationship unless you do what she needs to do thank you for your videos 💕
Beautiful mother and daughter..I hope they can heal.
6:19 I feel and understand exactly what she means tho school would be so much better if it were online. Shes not a bad child is just her situation. I hope God blesses her heart.
Wow I know some people judged her Mom based on how she looks but honestly this woman was the calmest parent I have ever seen!
Best of luck to the both of them!
Awww Mom. My ❤️ goes out to you. Mom's trauma caused her to not discipline her daughter. I hope Mom heals.
Parents publicly complaining about their children is so crazy because it’s literally a reflection of poor parenting. Now you want someone else to fix the problems you created
Just my opinion but I think genetics can play a part. My parents have anger issues and as do I and my siblings. I am the only one who really learned how to control mine. My boys remind me of myself. I am teaching them to control their anger instead of just giving them what I didn't have. Soft parenting doesn't always make things better. I honestly think soft parenting is just an excuse to be lazy to not discipline the child. Just my thoughts
Gentle parenting isn’t treating your child like angel and letting them get away with everything. The issue is that because so many people want to break the generational curses of authoritarian style parenting, they go to the other extreme with is being too lenient. Gentle parenting still requires a lot of discipline, if not, more so than any form of physical discipline. If done correctly, it teaches the child communication, boundaries and many more great qualities without inflicting trauma on the child.
I agree genetics can play a part but it is also up to children to try and control those habits they know are wrong.
@@awhynn8270 You right. I definitely make my boys take accountability.
2 gorgeous and poised ladies ...things will get better 🙏🌹❣️
Mannnnnnnnnnnnnnnn these new kids I tell you !!! They need an old fashioned …. You know what
Aww i hope mom & daughter duo get it together❤ they are beautiful!
I feel for the daughter. I’m currently in her situation right now. Just turned 18 yesterday. My parents made me do online bc the girls always fought me over my looks/clothing i wore. It suck’s to be pretty
Make the child work for what she wants
I Love how passionate Karmo is with his guests especially the kids. ❤❤❤❤
It's keeping the attitude within her going Mom. Stop trying to be her friend.
What are you saying, you sound like a terrible parent, you can be friends with your kids and still set boundaries
@@benitanaluyima8520 NEVER said that YOU couldn't! 🙄
I really liked this one… Great Mother & an amazing young lady
Can’t wait to see Karamo do a follow up with them
Her Momma Raised Her!😮
True!!
Karamo the realest 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
We need Jesus in our homes
That is the answer right there.
Amen ❤
Yes, we do!!
Believe it or not, the children need to be discipline and they will love you for it. I worked with kids with behavioral issues and sometimes they just want to know you care. Don’t abuse them, set CLEAR boundaries
omg why am I cryingg, It's like I could feel the room
Karamo you are doing great
You got this Big dawg.You’ve done a perfect job on her by yourself your super Nik
She just needs her mum's love honestly. That's it.
It's so hard to discipline kids now days. My 14 year old is giving me a headace 😂. Beautiful mother and daughter. They will work it out.
Girl tell me about it!!! Damnnnn
They so grown at least that’s what they think. Social media has driven them crazy man to the point it makes the parents have a hard time raising them
@@leeleekong5800 agree!!
Then they need to limit/monitor their children's social media as much as they can.
Not really. An old school smackdown and taking EVERYTHING out of their room will do the trick. I remember that time I came home to nothing but a bed, a dresser, chifforobe, and my closet. I was devastated 😭 had me like that for 2 years
She got her attorney for what exactly? Let her azz stay in jail.
They love each other that girl isn’t bad at all
I use to fight all the time... but never stole from my momma
Crazy I just went through some issues w/my son who just turned 18 and I got a hard hit!! He began to feel himself and changed his whole demeanor, but that lasted a week or two. Now he's back to realizing he needs him momma. This was such an emotional experience for us both bc I was prepared to love him from a distance. Single parenting is the toughest thing ever.
I see they love each other very much (someone's cutting onions) and I can tell she's a great mother.
We need updates on all these stories.. like a where are they now kind of thing.
I love the level of respect she has seating on stage.However, Mom need too be accountable to mean what she says! Mom I love how you want to break generation curse! But as parents we have to bring some balance! I took phones/games etc! You got this Mom it well work out! Praying for a good relationship Blessing and wisdom Mom
Girl ur soo freaking pretty, I have all respect for u and I love u soo much❤
This story hits close to home. I am and have struggled with this issue with my own daughters. We often parent out of guilt or our own childhood traumas because we know what it is like to be without or have less than. You tell yourself that if I would have had this then maybe I would have done….. or been… when the truth is, look at how this mother turned out despite her setbacks. She appears to be a loving and caring parent. I don’t discredit the daughter’s feelings because their struggles are different than our generation. It takes time, love, and understanding. And this too shall pass. Discipline in the correct way is a form of love and she will appreciate you in the long run.
She’s a gorgeous young lady who needs some guidance. It seems like she was opened to it during the show. Is there a way she can complete schooling online ? I wish the best for her.
Oh my heart breaks for this girl. She seems like a good kid, going through something deeper than Karamo touched on… some how I think subconsciously Karamo knows this too … hence why he made that offer. Something in her environment needs to change!!
I love this man.. he is so awesome ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I Know This Is Not Like A Typical Response To Something As Deep As This, But This Was Beautiful! I Hope They Can Definitely Grow A Deeper Bond With Each Other. MOM STOP BEING HER MOM FOR 5 MINUTES AND THEN TURN INTO HER FRIEND THE NEXT. Karamo Is Right You Have To Be Stricter On Her. You Do Not Want The World To Take Your Baby At No Early Age! This Will Work Out IK It Will
Karamo is the best!
Praying for you all. ❤️❤️
I miss the 10 AM clip/ intro showing a few moments of the 5 PM video. They don't post them anymore
Well said indeed