If I merely glance at a woman in the gym, she goes running to the manager to accuse me of S.H. I am sick of being falsely accused. I no longer ask women how much longer they will be using a machine, cuz that might result in yet another accusation.
I would say approach even when she has headphones on. But not when she is doing sets or lifting weights. Maybe when she is on a treadmill just walking or heading to another machine. I always approach by saying “hi, sorry for interrupting you…” and then go from there.
I like to go to the gym to work out. Women are video taping us for looking 👀 at them for as much as half a second. Then post it to their social media page and falsely label us as perverted or creepy. And get away with ruining our reputations. Your husband may be an extremely rare exception but to most of us average everyday men it’s a dangerous gamble.
Come on that’s just rage bait from girls who deserve prison time for what they post .. normal women won’t report you to management. Follow the one strike rule, keep your 🍆 in your pants and don’t follow her around and the worst you’ll hear is a no
The gyms a hard place to meet or approach girls . They’re usually busy with their workout or are listening to Music . It might be easier if you both regularly attend the same class eg Pilates , body attack or whatever .
Yes; I think this was the glaring detail she forgot to mention. If you’ve kept up with her for awhile you’ll know it was a yoga class or something, so niche your way in 😎
As guy i want to be left alone to work out. I don’t want girls looking at me making it feel awkward if i ignore them and don’t look back. I got scoffed at one time for this, pretending i didn’t see them. I want to relax and workout. When will women realize it’s not all about you
No girl ever looks my way, no girl takes their headphones off, everyone has their own water, and finally, if they're off the gym floor, they're in the parking lot. Just because your man is top of the line doesn't mean you can feed us fantacies.
Chad, Tyrone, & Sancho please approach & ask for her number. Everyone else, you are banned for life from the gym if you approach & ask for her number. Choose wisely. Which is more important, one phone number or the lifetime use of the gym?
I've never seen a gym that offers smoothies... This must be a West Coast thing.😅 I learned young on to ignore them and the flirting game. She will make herself known if she wants to be talked to. Women have so many options and are approached multiple times per day. Let the Chad and Tyrone's handle this. They truly only value the ones who are not paying attention to them. Show them attention or worse give them commitment and they will be already looking for something better. Most women are opportunists and do not value a relationship the same way that men do. Their best memories are one night stands. The men that dedicated their whole lives to them are less valuable.
All kidding aside, this is pretty good advice and a low-key approach. The key part is whether she seems excited to be talking to you or not. That's where the decision is made. Also, people raise a good point that you don't want to be reported or accused of anything so proceed cautiously.
As someone who goes to the gym 4 days a week, this advice is completely garbage, lol. 1) Most of the women, well on their fitness journey, (saying that politely) at the gym are actually in a relationship or married. I know it's shocking, but fit women tend to be much more likely to be attached. At most the best you can do it catch them in-between a relationship and that's if you're lucky. 2) People are not at the gym to 'meet' people, they are there to improve themselves. So doing a cold approach is massively off-putting anyway. 3) If you do this too many times, especially if you're at a smaller or mid-sized locally owned gym, don't be surprised if the staff want to have a word with you.
@dimex3362 Partially agree but i think you misunderstood. I think bars and clubs are actually a poor way to meet good quality people for lifetime. I said nothing about bars and clubs in my comment. People can meet at many other places. I met my ❤ at Starbucks for a sales meeting! We were together 21 years until she went to Heaven in 2021. I miss her. What i'm saying, And a lot of the guys here will back it up, Is that guys who go to the gym typically go to workout not to pick up. The second point is that oftentimes women don't politely say no. Funny that you mentioned bars and clubs though. I did security at bars and clubs for years and years. And i've seen time after time where a woman was approached And just because she doesn't like the guy you would think the world ended. I can speak from experience that they act very very rudely oftentimes. This is the TRUE reason why guys don't approach whether it's at the gym or at the market or anyplace else. And yes nobody wants to get thrown out of the gym.
You met your husband at the gym you say. And did he make the first move, or did you give him an opening to make the first move? Or, did you approach him ? Who saw each other first , did you notice him first and think, I want him ? Ah,women are so cunning and calculating.
Why are you at the gym in the first place? If its to workout, then this is not on your radar. It apparently is on the females radar. Is that why they joined the gym? Ironic because they would be the first to complain and get you thrown out.
Weird take because it can be taken to any place you go that isn’t specifically to pickup women. So now you can only approach women at bars and clubs? Ok dude good luck meeting the love of your life that way.
Step 1: Be an attractive man
Step 2: follow her steps
Yup 👍 😅
Instructions are unclear.
to be fair if you're at the gym you're hopefully at least working on Step 1.
I don't think you're attractive; so nothing else will follow.
@@Darth_Anomalous LMAO
Rule number 1. You may never see her again. So ask for the number right then and there
If a woman likes a guy, she will somehow find him.
Might see again but if the gym is the only place it might be a while
You really do give the best advice for dating and approaching women. Wish I would've known this or just realized this sooner
Hehe
If I merely glance at a woman in the gym, she goes running to the manager to accuse me of S.H. I am sick of being falsely accused. I no longer ask women how much longer they will be using a machine, cuz that might result in yet another accusation.
Step 1: Don’t
Step 2: Live life of peace.
I don't approach enemies
😂
Without her ear phones? Impossible.
I would say approach even when she has headphones on. But not when she is doing sets or lifting weights. Maybe when she is on a treadmill just walking or heading to another machine. I always approach by saying “hi, sorry for interrupting you…” and then go from there.
Right! Exactly
Is this how girls ask each other out 😂
Hehehe
Pocket matters
lmfao meanwhile so many women keep looking because they're like 'wtf is this guy *staring* for??"
Lmfao meanwhile she met her husband at the gym.
I like to go to the gym to work out. Women are video taping us for looking 👀 at them for as much as half a second. Then post it to their social media page and falsely label us as perverted or creepy. And get away with ruining our reputations.
Your husband may be an extremely rare exception but to most of us average everyday men it’s a dangerous gamble.
it was almost 3 decades ago 😂 .
So true man. What's hilarious is a lot of these women are completely unattractive and not someone we would ever approach.
Come on that’s just rage bait from girls who deserve prison time for what they post .. normal women won’t report you to management. Follow the one strike rule, keep your 🍆 in your pants and don’t follow her around and the worst you’ll hear is a no
That's not the type you want to be with anyways. Always read signs and keep things casual.
The gyms a hard place to meet or approach girls . They’re usually busy with their workout or are listening to Music .
It might be easier if you both regularly attend the same class eg Pilates , body attack or whatever .
Yes; I think this was the glaring detail she forgot to mention. If you’ve kept up with her for awhile you’ll know it was a yoga class or something, so niche your way in 😎
Like taking advice from a fish on how to catch fish...
This actually worked for me a few times but still dating so it obviously didn’t stick long term
Painfully slow. Can’t you just approach her and tell her you lust for her and you both go to the gym showers together??
😂😂 I’m pretty sure 1 out of 10 times that could work 😂
I've thought about this sooo many fkn times. Or ask a cougar outside for random spontaneous car sex
As guy i want to be left alone to work out. I don’t want girls looking at me making it feel awkward if i ignore them and don’t look back. I got scoffed at one time for this, pretending i didn’t see them. I want to relax and workout. When will women realize it’s not all about you
Gentlemen, let me tell you this. Never take advice on how to get a girl from a girl.
Stay single bud
@@jamesc8709 im married bud 😂
that is bad advice
No girl ever looks my way, no girl takes their headphones off, everyone has their own water, and finally, if they're off the gym floor, they're in the parking lot. Just because your man is top of the line doesn't mean you can feed us fantacies.
Maybe one day ill try that. Hopefully, I'll be a millionaire by then....😊
In what world does a girl not have her headphones on and her face is not buried in her phone? Ive yet to see it. Heh.
What if the end of ger gymn session?
Einstein !
Chad, Tyrone, & Sancho please approach & ask for her number. Everyone else, you are banned for life from the gym if you approach & ask for her number. Choose wisely. Which is more important, one phone number or the lifetime use of the gym?
AWOOOO
I've never seen a gym that offers smoothies... This must be a West Coast thing.😅 I learned young on to ignore them and the flirting game. She will make herself known if she wants to be talked to. Women have so many options and are approached multiple times per day. Let the Chad and Tyrone's handle this. They truly only value the ones who are not paying attention to them. Show them attention or worse give them commitment and they will be already looking for something better. Most women are opportunists and do not value a relationship the same way that men do. Their best memories are one night stands. The men that dedicated their whole lives to them are less valuable.
Any Equinox does
Did he get it on the first coffee date
“She’s not like that”.
All kidding aside, this is pretty good advice and a low-key approach. The key part is whether she seems excited to be talking to you or not. That's where the decision is made. Also, people raise a good point that you don't want to be reported or accused of anything so proceed cautiously.
Yep, i actually liked this one, one of the best approaches really
Why am I not surprised that she met her husband at the gym?!
LMAO
🌷❤👍
A deer can't teach you how to hunt a deer. Only a hunter (that hunt deers) can
Interesting...
As someone who goes to the gym 4 days a week, this advice is completely garbage, lol.
1) Most of the women, well on their fitness journey, (saying that politely) at the gym are actually in a relationship or married. I know it's shocking, but fit women tend to be much more likely to be attached. At most the best you can do it catch them in-between a relationship and that's if you're lucky.
2) People are not at the gym to 'meet' people, they are there to improve themselves. So doing a cold approach is massively off-putting anyway.
3) If you do this too many times, especially if you're at a smaller or mid-sized locally owned gym, don't be surprised if the staff want to have a word with you.
What about they ask you? 🤔😉
This girls is nuts
@dimex3362
Partially agree but i think you misunderstood. I think bars and clubs are actually a poor way to meet good quality people for lifetime. I said nothing about bars and clubs in my comment. People can meet at many other places. I met my ❤ at Starbucks for a sales meeting! We were together 21 years until she went to Heaven in 2021. I miss her. What i'm saying, And a lot of the guys here will back it up, Is that guys who go to the gym typically go to workout not to pick up. The second point is that oftentimes women don't politely say no. Funny that you mentioned bars and clubs though. I did security at bars and clubs for years and years. And i've seen time after time where a woman was approached And just because she doesn't like the guy you would think the world ended. I can speak from experience that they act very very rudely oftentimes. This is the TRUE reason why guys don't approach whether it's at the gym or at the market or anyplace else. And yes nobody wants to get thrown out of the gym.
Good Advice,Thanks! Your Husband, is a lucky man! 👍
Step 1: Never take advice from a woman on how to pick up women!
You met your husband at the gym you say.
And did he make the first move, or
did you give him an opening to make the first move?
Or, did you approach him ?
Who saw each other first , did you notice him first and think, I want him ?
Ah,women are so cunning and calculating.
Thanks dear 😘
Ngl good advice
super boring, this is how most girls would rate these advices 😂😂😂
Why are you at the gym in the first place? If its to workout, then this is not on your radar. It apparently is on the females radar. Is that why they joined the gym? Ironic because they would be the first to complain and get you thrown out.
Weird take because it can be taken to any place you go that isn’t specifically to pickup women. So now you can only approach women at bars and clubs?
Ok dude good luck meeting the love of your life that way.
@@dimex3362love of your life is a lie. we want SEX.
I met my wife at the gym 35 years ago
Im trying this tip
This lady needs to be banned from youtube.
Why?
Where have you been women? I needed this advice and practice 30 years ago. Good job.
No, she’s going to approach me. Feminism
You don't want a feminist unless you want no respect from other real men or her deep down.
@@MrMLBson09 hell, these days I'm so confused with the female, I stay clear of them. I definitely don't want a feminist.
@@MrMLBson09 I definitely dont' want a feminist.
Any chance u may cheat? 😅
I m waiting
Wtf
...Or....just put a large potato in the front of your gym shorts !!
YOU ARE THE MOST BEAUTIFUL HUMAN BEING!
Out of all the stair masters, she decided to get on the one next to mine 🥲