HOW TO BE CONFIDENT (+ find love in yourself)

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  • Опубліковано 11 вер 2024
  • The most requested video ever....How to be confident, love yourself and be HOT. Comment any video ideas down below and I would love to make them:)
    Dont forget to connect with me on my other socials
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 192

  • @delfinaalvarez6402
    @delfinaalvarez6402 3 роки тому +281

    just wanted you to know that u have literally saved my life more than once girl

  • @obarry5091
    @obarry5091 3 роки тому +93

    ✨CONFIDENCE IS A MINDSET✨
    ✨BEING HOT IS A MINDSET✨
    ~spencer 2020

  • @emy1668
    @emy1668 2 роки тому +6

    i always stand up for myself and all the boys at my high school are insulting me because I'm "mean". thank you so much spencer i love you

  • @bela5475
    @bela5475 3 роки тому +22

    Your videos are changing my life! I’m in the worst phase of my life. The last two years have been hell for me I’ve had/ have two eating disorders an lost all my grandparents (all of in two years) but your videos are making me so much happier and confident. Sending all the love from Brazil 🇧🇷😍

  • @oliviaburleigh6264
    @oliviaburleigh6264 3 роки тому +32

    i’ve been telling my friends these things lately and they said that it has really helped them. Your tik toks have literally changed my life. Thank you

  • @djwaves8603
    @djwaves8603 3 роки тому +32

    You're such an amazing person! God has blessed this Earth with a beautiful, successful soul! God bless you Spencer! I'll continue to support you for years to come!!

  • @ayda912
    @ayda912 3 роки тому +11

    GIRL YOU ARE ACTUALLY DOING THE RIGHT THING.
    I'M BEING MORE CONFIDENT EVEN THOUGH IT'S BEEN 5 HOURS SINCE I WATCHED SOME OF YOUR VIDEOS.
    YOU ARE AN INCREDIBLE PERSON, I'M JUST SMILING WHILE WATCHING YOU!!!!
    KEEP UP THE GREAT WORK YO! ❤️👍🏼

  • @alyssahey8128
    @alyssahey8128 3 роки тому +16

    ✨The top tho✨I am actually obsessed!

  • @bassantalaa1624
    @bassantalaa1624 3 роки тому +66

    I’m struggling so bad to be confident and Im wasting a lot of chances of becoming successful because I’m not confident enough :( I also want more vids like this!! 💕

    • @brookelynndgafff
      @brookelynndgafff 3 роки тому +8

      YOU GOT THIS!!!❤

    • @judyrojas9596
      @judyrojas9596 3 роки тому +2

      your amazing your imperfectly perfect and don’t worry I also lack in confidence 😎💕

  • @shashat.6861
    @shashat.6861 3 роки тому +6

    I do gymnastics and confidence is a key factor to succeed in that sport. I wasn’t confident but you helped through that!! Thank you so much!!

  • @leaxpea5205
    @leaxpea5205 3 роки тому +15

    Girl your so positive all the time i found your channel on my recommended and ive never heard of you before and like just want to say you are amazing

  • @rosyhanae3539
    @rosyhanae3539 3 роки тому +11

    This video made me feel like we’re just two friends talking about life and I loved it so much so thank you 🥺💕

  • @romamehta9821
    @romamehta9821 3 роки тому +25

    i want you to know that ive struggled so much with confidence before i discovered your tiktoks. spencer, you are changing so many lives and i absolutely love you! thank you for bringing young girls hope and helping them to realize the confidence that lies within them!! you go girl

  • @sherylabishek6570
    @sherylabishek6570 3 роки тому +2

    Bro you're literally filling up with so much positivity. I love your vibe. I'm so glad I found you. You're literally such a queen.😭🥺✨❤️

  • @dishasaini7994
    @dishasaini7994 3 роки тому +4

    Just discovered her channel. And I'm absolutely in love with this girl!!!!
    She is literally so uplifting and cheerful person ever. Thank youu so much for this video. This helped me alot. Lot's of love and support 🥺🥺💕💕

  • @AnaA-me8nr
    @AnaA-me8nr 3 роки тому +7

    You’re so inspirational and like a big sister to so many people 🤍🤍🤍

  • @penelopealderete5668
    @penelopealderete5668 2 роки тому +5

    Thank you so much. I’m been having a hard time and your positivity and happy glow makes me feel so much better. ILY. I love knowing that I have you here to cheer me up. Again thank you so much. I hope you have a fantastic day ❤️

    • @_csinti_
      @_csinti_ 2 роки тому

      i wish you all the best 🤍

  • @hondacivic2054
    @hondacivic2054 3 роки тому +1

    GIRL. YOU’RE SO FUCKING PRECIOUS IN THIS WORLD. i loved from the bottom of my heart. You literally switching my mindset and i love how GOOD impact YOU have in my life cuz i need you always to feel better and when i feel so down . ILY🥺❤️

  • @lillyherndon1511
    @lillyherndon1511 3 роки тому +2

    she needs a podcast right nowwwwwwwwwww!!!!!!!!!!

  • @verdiana.Catherine_24
    @verdiana.Catherine_24 3 роки тому +9

    You are such an inspiration to so many people. And you helped me through a lot ily Spencer. 💜💜💜

  • @melibttgr1486
    @melibttgr1486 3 роки тому +3

    it makes me so happy to watch this video ... im not confident and i had a very bad day but this made my day
    ur a beautiful person in and outside

  • @annalazarenko763
    @annalazarenko763 3 роки тому +5

    You’re bringing so much positive energy, you should definitely do more videos like that, we love them and we love youuuuu ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @wellsjohan
    @wellsjohan 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you for all your help and support watching your video's
    has already made me way more confident about how I look and feel

  • @Genevieveagar1
    @Genevieveagar1 3 роки тому +1

    Wow. Needed this today! Did my makeup wiped it off told myself I was too fat and ugly to wear makeup and cried for an hour 😆 then watched this and it made me feel better ❤️👌

  • @blumahoenders825
    @blumahoenders825 3 роки тому +2

    I first saw u on tiktok and immediately followed you and you’ve changed my life. You’re such an AMAZING person and you inspire me so much. Thank you for everything ❤️❤️. I love you so much❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @yourfavsmith
    @yourfavsmith 3 роки тому +1

    SHE IS A GODDESSSSSSS!!!!!! 🤩🤩🤩😎😎😎😎😎💯💯💯💖💖💖💗💗💗 LOVE YA GIRLLL!!! You have literally CHANGED MY WHOLE SELF. YOU HAVE CHANGED MY WHOLE MINDSET. I found you thru tiktok actually and I AM SO GLAD I DID. LOVE TOU SOOOOO MUCHHH!!!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @zeirymontes6482
    @zeirymontes6482 3 роки тому +6

    You actually helped me a lot❤️ I still need to work on loving myself but I’m doing process because of you🥺❤️

  • @summerluma4032
    @summerluma4032 3 роки тому +4

    Ahhh!!! Literally so motivated now and soooo loving the vibes of being confident 🤩🤩

  • @shiningperfect3542
    @shiningperfect3542 3 роки тому +100

    Spencer is beautiful, lovely hair, beautiful big expressive eyes, and an amazing, bubbly personality to match. She is definitely hot hot hot.

  • @user-xc1712r
    @user-xc1712r 8 місяців тому

    Spencer you don't know what you helped me, today I got up and looked in the mirror, the only thing I saw was an ugly person, today I went to sleep and I saw a person who is more than everyone thinks.
    You have really helped me a lot, I can't tell you how grateful I am. ❤️

  • @aliciayedalian8082
    @aliciayedalian8082 3 роки тому +6

    Your just the best! I LOVE watching your vids it makes me feel great! Thx for everything ❤❤❤

  • @elydeslandes4536
    @elydeslandes4536 3 роки тому +3

    Omg girl you are such an inspirational person to me💕 thank you I needed this so much

  • @Xxcalzzxx
    @Xxcalzzxx 3 роки тому +3

    I love your confidence and you videos! Your amazing 💕

  • @amypomroy8677
    @amypomroy8677 3 роки тому +5

    You're so beautiful and inspirational you have helped me so much to become the person who I've always wanted to be tysm for this video! ❤✨

  • @catiasimoes313
    @catiasimoes313 3 роки тому +3

    I am from 🇵🇹🇵🇹
    And me and my friends love you we need more friends like you!!

  • @sarahjassani5239
    @sarahjassani5239 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you so much girl. This is something I needed right now. I am actually feeling better just after watching this. Thank you.

  • @ARMYBLINK-pp9rz
    @ARMYBLINK-pp9rz Рік тому +3

    You're inspiring ❤.....I also do have a big forehead like you and at start i also hated this thing abt me but after watching your videos I am becoming more confident
    ILYSM ❤️

  • @zoecipriano111
    @zoecipriano111 3 роки тому +6

    when she started singing the hannah Montana song did anyone else start singing and dancing too?
    nope, just me.....ok. cool

  • @BIkopsking
    @BIkopsking 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you for uploading this. I just watched every second of this and it actually made me tear up, but also helped me a lot. I attempted 5 days ago and have been looking everywhere for a reason to keep going and a way to help myself and this video actually helped me a little. A little bit goes a long way so thank you. I need confidence, I need to love myself and your video spoke to me

  • @anjasmit3687
    @anjasmit3687 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you so much, you really helped me with my convidens and now I use your tips and I believe that I’m more and I’m worthy, so thank you so much.So much love☺️♥️🌻

  • @avrielleleonel7206
    @avrielleleonel7206 3 роки тому +1

    You literally changed my life , i love you sis

  • @alisoncordell747
    @alisoncordell747 3 роки тому +1

    Spencer, i look up to you! You make me want to try my best to become more positive and confident person! I really admire your positive attitude and mindset! Thank you so much, you have really changed my life❣️

  • @ryderbenson8472
    @ryderbenson8472 9 місяців тому

    Coming from a Sabres Fan, I have to say that you are by far the prettiest Maple Leafs fan that I've ever Seen.

  • @augustina5957
    @augustina5957 3 роки тому +2

    You have NO idea how much this helped me!! 🥺💞 You are such an inspiration to me!! ✨Love you lots! ❤️❤️
    P.S. Yes, we do need a video called "Spencer hyping you up for 10 mins straight", take it or leave it. 🦋🥺

  • @aliafshar7142
    @aliafshar7142 3 роки тому +4

    I think when people are jealous of you they always make up something to heart you or push you away because they know if you notice that how awesome you are you will be a threat to them which they can't defeat.
    By the way, I think your forehead is awesome but still it doesn't matter what I think, it matters what you think about your self 👍🌺
    Move forward, conquer every thing

  • @polixeni5303
    @polixeni5303 3 роки тому +1

    You are so helpful....I had no confidence.... Your video helped me so so much.... I actually learned how to love myself and be self-confident...Thank so much❤️❤️

  • @graceamodia615
    @graceamodia615 3 роки тому

    i love you spencer, thank you for everything🥺 you may not know it but u helped me save my self.

  • @ceruleanmess
    @ceruleanmess 3 роки тому +1

    I am so happy you are now in YT!!
    LOVE FROM PH 💙

  • @martynakowal6424
    @martynakowal6424 3 роки тому +2

    Omg! Thank you so much for this video! Made my day! Love you so much! 🤍😘

  • @noname-hc9jj
    @noname-hc9jj 3 роки тому +1

    ngl ur smile is contagiousssss

  • @judyrojas9596
    @judyrojas9596 3 роки тому +2

    Lol your hella funny 😂😂 also thank you so much this video means a lot to me I struggle so much with my confident and with social anxiety and this video really did change my perspective on how I view things . Thanks once again xoxo 💕🥺

  • @AlmondBobaClouds
    @AlmondBobaClouds Рік тому +1

    I literally feel more confident already

  • @hondacivic2054
    @hondacivic2054 3 роки тому +2

    Hi spencer !! I don’t know if you really gonna see this or maybe i’m too late but i want you to know that you’ve helped me a lot in my life and you’ve have literally changed my mindset. It’s 4:00am and i just got rejected from a guy that i really liked him a lot time ago. It’s 1st April and because i’m from Greece we have something like a tradition that prank each other and told him that i liked him . Because i kind of found it like an opportunity to finally tell it to him. We’re so good friends and because i didn’t want to lose him as a friend i found this special to prank him with this , for just to see his reaction.( if he would date with me or no) Well .. it doesn’t turned out as i wanted. He told me that even if it was a prank he

    • @hondacivic2054
      @hondacivic2054 3 роки тому

      he wouldn’t date me anyways. So as you can probably i’ll never told my real feelings for him . But right now .. i’m so disappointed , i don’t know what to do and just move on.. always i like guys who don’t like me back.. it’s so frustrating. Anyways .. the only that i want from you is if you could make a video for this situation it’ll be very helpful cause you have so many impact in my life . ily endlessly!! ❤️ always keep going🥺❤️

    • @hondacivic2054
      @hondacivic2054 3 роки тому

      special day*

  • @kristenschubert9824
    @kristenschubert9824 3 роки тому +1

    I luv ur videos so much, Spencer! I luv ur positive attitude and outlook and listening to u makes me so happy! I feel that over the past year I have really started to be more confident and once I found u on tiktok it helped me so much more. You are beautiful (inside and out) and so inspirational to so many people! luv u!!!

  • @abhinavsehgal3713
    @abhinavsehgal3713 3 роки тому +1

    Great great video! I have always been suffering from a problem,i.e, not standing for myself.Thanks for letting me anknowledge this so that i can work on that.By the way,ur smile is just nuclear bomb of positivity that i love❤️ SO EAGER TO WATCH THE UPCOMING VIDEOS!

  • @himavari48
    @himavari48 3 роки тому +1

    Girl, I love your advices and I have to say that it really helps me and motivates me through the day😇😘 keep going, even trough the hardest times ❤️

  • @sophie-bx9ym
    @sophie-bx9ym 3 роки тому +2

    I LITERALLY love you

  • @melissacooke3938
    @melissacooke3938 3 роки тому +1

    You are so positive and inspirational and are so helpful ❤️

  • @ekramahmed1250
    @ekramahmed1250 3 роки тому +3

    Idk why i loves this girl she's so cute that I fell she's my own sister omg !!❤

  • @galaxystar7106
    @galaxystar7106 2 роки тому

    omg literally omg I was so insecure yesterday about what I looked like and what people thought of me and I woke up the next day and I looked in the mirror and I thought wow I'm hot and I'm an insecure teenager so I thought how! and I don't think I'm in love with myself yet but I'm on my way and if someone bullies me at school again i don't care because I know I'm kind and pretty. and I want to thank you for that spencer💗💗💗💗💗💗

    • @_csinti_
      @_csinti_ 2 роки тому

      i wish you the best 🤍

  • @tonymartial1575
    @tonymartial1575 3 роки тому +3

    I feel Spencer is a hybrid of Monica from friends, and Amy Santiago from Brooklyn nine nine

    • @tonymartial1575
      @tonymartial1575 3 роки тому

      @Brielle Ehmann I think we have to let Spencer herself decide. Can she reply to this comment?

  • @Katalina055
    @Katalina055 3 роки тому +2

    Heyyy! Thank u for teaching me more life lessons for a few yt videos than school for 8 years...🙃💅🤝

  • @aprileve37
    @aprileve37 2 роки тому +1

    I LOVE YOUUUUU! You have made me feel so much better about myself I wish you were like my best friend.

  • @kksong815
    @kksong815 3 роки тому +3

    Spencer ur my idol and my favourite tiktoker

  • @jessicamontgaue6579
    @jessicamontgaue6579 3 роки тому +2

    Ilysm, i love your content and you are helping me in ways that cannot be described 🤣🥺💖💖

  • @oaklynn1742
    @oaklynn1742 Рік тому

    Spencer I love you everytime you’re in my fyp you make me feel better

  • @loulouvierabeck433
    @loulouvierabeck433 3 роки тому +4

    Thank you so much ! This showed me how important it is to me to love me and I’m starting to getting more confident Bc of you and your tiktoks and just what you do !! Just thank you and your also a mf hot Girl like every girl that is on this planet !

  • @gera_sacha
    @gera_sacha 3 роки тому +1

    Hi Spencer, I really really love and appreciate this kind of videos! Thank you so much for sharing with us🥰
    I love you so much and I'm so thankful with you💞

  • @rosariocornejo1
    @rosariocornejo1 3 роки тому +2

    GIRL I LOVE YOU SO MUCH!!! hi from Chile (latinamerica)

  • @penellie8232
    @penellie8232 3 роки тому

    I came back and watched this vid from 9 months ago and it melted my heart and I also went to go grab tea ☕️ for it too, and now I KNOW than I AM HOT AND CONFIDENT thx spencer!!!

  • @ENFPSIS
    @ENFPSIS Рік тому

    Spencer, ILY so much!!
    You have helped me gain some confidence!
    Everytime I'm having a shitty day I open your videos and I begin to have a better day
    Thank you so much
    You're so pretty inside and out thanks for all your work and effort ❤️❤️

  • @DonnaJanssen
    @DonnaJanssen 2 роки тому

    you're looking like a bestie for meee, love youuu

  • @abhaya665
    @abhaya665 2 роки тому +1

    Broo u spoke factssssssss tyyysmmm ilysmmm bestieeeee.

  • @itsevelinakp
    @itsevelinakp 3 роки тому

    Tysm for sharing your positive energy ❤️❤️
    I should probably watch this video every day, so it would sink in to my mind

  • @DivyaSharma-ro1tb
    @DivyaSharma-ro1tb Рік тому

    You know all of this is fine now that i reallyyy like how i m and am grateful for the haves and have nots. But what sucks is when i start to feel insecure about my opinions about a guy. Like i could be liking a guy but i m afraid that people would make judgy comments about their looks when i personally find everyone pretty. It's sooo rare to see someone really complimenting someone who may not fit in by the society's standards for looks.
    I just wanted to get it off my chest to people who don't know me and to people who would understand me like your channel here

  • @hannahburke6572
    @hannahburke6572 3 роки тому

    I love your videos because they are just super honest and true. They make mw feel better about myself and everything else.

  • @charlotteprice3404
    @charlotteprice3404 3 роки тому

    Spencer you are actually amazing! I have tried your self confidence tips and tricks and they are so easy and work so well so thank you! You are my hero!!! 🥰💕

  • @salinasmari94
    @salinasmari94 3 роки тому

    I'm grateful that you came in my life in this 2020, thank you for everything, lyyy🥺💜

  • @ahmercdgf8310
    @ahmercdgf8310 3 роки тому +1

    I LOVE YOU SO MUCH 😭💚

  • @Sayantika-ms1dt
    @Sayantika-ms1dt Рік тому

    I was actually having a cup of tea while clicking on this video .

  • @Anime.artsand.drawing
    @Anime.artsand.drawing 2 роки тому

    Yes you go girl. I am on the way to loving myself.

  • @melissaeortega
    @melissaeortega 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much for this, I really needed to hear this🥺❤️

  • @mehakrai6840
    @mehakrai6840 3 роки тому

    Identify the reason
    Being confident is a mindset.

  • @gemriddle6816
    @gemriddle6816 2 роки тому +1

    I needed that I love you you're the best big sister ever

  • @krishijogia9223
    @krishijogia9223 3 роки тому +2

    Maybe do a video about loving your body

  • @avrillenicholle9400
    @avrillenicholle9400 3 роки тому

    omg Spencer this helped so so much! thank you so much!:)

  • @reannaarunodaya5197
    @reannaarunodaya5197 3 роки тому

    I love your videos sooo much!!! I feel so much more confident just watching you ❤️❤️❤️

  • @seymurhuseynli8145
    @seymurhuseynli8145 3 роки тому +1

    Great content 👍👌. Love from an Azerbaijani Turk 🇦🇿❤️

  • @tenziyang
    @tenziyang 3 роки тому

    Okay, you’re my best friend now.

  • @yasminvictoria7652
    @yasminvictoria7652 2 роки тому +2

    Tysm for this 💜

  • @saarsh.904
    @saarsh.904 2 роки тому

    I hate when I tell my man that I'm not beautiful and he says ily for whatever you are
    I want him to say no you are so beautiful 🙃

  • @universe9049
    @universe9049 3 роки тому

    Thank you so much beautiful soul 😭❤❤ lots of love and hugs to you from INDIA ❤❤

  • @olaabbas4217
    @olaabbas4217 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much for reminding me ily

  • @himanshijoya748
    @himanshijoya748 2 роки тому

    thanku so soo much I feel more confident every time listening to u make such videos more

  • @sammiemerida7722
    @sammiemerida7722 3 роки тому

    Your so inspirational and helpful and I’ve been watching you for years now and Ilysm❤️

  • @azraoezz
    @azraoezz 2 роки тому

    THANK YOU SPENCER!

  • @chajapavlidis8198
    @chajapavlidis8198 3 роки тому

    literally you help me so much!! love u

  • @oliwia12536
    @oliwia12536 3 роки тому

    You helped me so much Spencer I love you have an amazing day !!

  • @dazzlingdahlia6868
    @dazzlingdahlia6868 3 роки тому

    girl i literally love ur videos

  • @paulinebrun2968
    @paulinebrun2968 3 роки тому

    More people should see that video