Why Singles Don't Get Married Early | Kingsley Okonkwo
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God please if I will ever make any mistake let it not be in marriage.
Marriage doesn't make you happy
Marriage makes you better... so you have to be happy first
Thank you sir.. More Grace🙏🙏🙏
If you know the purpose of marriage, you will marry well.
There is a level of responsibility and focus you can only get when you start to take care of another
Men CHOOSE who to marry but i don't think that makes it any easier than women selecting from among their suitors. As a man you still have to select who likes you (not just who you like alone) from among the ladies you meet, i ve seen young men get really hurt by ladies. As a young man of early 30's i discovered that the journey is not as easy as they make it seem. People ask you What are you waiting for?.. As though you can just walk into the market and buy a wife like foodstuff. But however I've learnt a lot from Pastor K and wife over the years. God bless you sir.
You are very right
Pastor K thank you sir
It’s not easy on both men and women. These days I don’t understand what is happening in the realm of Love ❤️
@Kyran, I get your perspective but you seem to misunderstand the message. It's about roles, the male is to do the chasing and proposal, the female is to do the attraction, acceptance or rejection. In other words, marriage can only start with the MAN's proposal. You get? Two reasons why it's difficult for men of these days to get married is women are now multi dating like men used to do, increasing her pool, so men are receiving breakfast equally (this is a lengthy discussion). Second reason is Men's of marriageable age will not propose to the right woman. What they are looking for in a woman is ridiculous, their taste is too high, at the end of the day, they get served breakfast.
@@Jenken297 please am really confused, what of a man who says he loves u very much n wants to get married to you by saying it, he doesnt gives but expect instead from the lady, asking from the lady but instead telling you he doesnt have while being an indépendent worker, shld the lady continue or stop pls i need help
The most important thing is to Marry RIGHT and not just to marry EARLY. There are alot of people who married early and later regretted doing so. Everybody's journey in life is different.
Some of the great men in the Bible like Joseph and Isaac didn't marry in their Early 20s.....
Lols, I agree with you o... But using great men in the bible as example doesn't cut it, do you know the life expectancy then??
@@Nexus_Algo I know right?
Exactly. Marrying early has worked for some, but I've also known several people that divorced as well. Marriage is the second most important decision we make after our relationship with Jesus Christ. If we get that wrong, then other areas are bound to fall apart too .
Can't get enough of pr Kingsley..
Not only do I enjoy listening to him, I get to learn a lot
Thank you so much sir. May our Good Lord continue using your vessel
amazing, have been celibate for a long time now, though is not easy but God has been strengthening me by his grace.
Lies. Someone has definitely been clapping your cheeks
@@ichooseviolence2532 i don't have to convince you on that sir.
@@ayaosicharity8295 most of you women are 304's... So yeah you have to convince me
@@ichooseviolence2532 lol oga leme jor
A fine woman can also be virtuous 👌
Marry right and marry early if you can. Balanced teaching. Thank you sir
I am in my last stage of being in my twenties,yet,I am unable to make money for myself:I am working;I only receive a little allowance.
I'M 31 AND I'M NOT READY.
NO ONE CAN PRESSURE ME.
BUT GOOD SERMON PASTOR
Same age . 31 , single christian guy. Stuff to work on, but I trust God that the right partner is out there for me. Singleness in our 30s in a blessing too.
I met a young man who married at 20. Pastor Kingsley is correct!
You're right. Some people are not just desperate to get married due to some experiences they had in the past or probably they are too ambitious. They just wanna take things slow, and wait for when it's right.
It's not easy for our generation, especially if your parents are not financially well off and if you have siblings to support financially...you have to go beyond and above before your finances allow you to even consider marriage...I don't think it's fair to compare us to wealthy western countries, the struggle is real in africa.
These cultural pressures are not helpful either. Why should someone miss out on a good partner because of responsibilities to siblings? It's a good thing to look after one's family but not to their detriment. We need to find a better way of balancing these things.
Indeed marriage is supposed to make you a better Person ❤️
Pastor K is a Top notch ..... You don't fall in Love , You walk in Love....I always say to people , if you fall in Love , you'll definitely stand up.
I enjoy Pastor Kinsley's message but let's not leave out the financial crisis that can frustrate your life you marry as a man without having things in place to take care of the family you trying to start. E no go funny oo! Una eyes go clear.
Pastor K thank you for always sharing!
I will marry well in Jesus name, amen!
Thank you our P.K for always putting smiles and laughter in your messages 😍😁😁😅😅🤣🤣🤣.. I'm always joy-filled.🙌
A simple reason I couldn't marry at 25 was unemployment after service. Got a job with very low income until 28, i got a good career and still growing and now 30. Well, at 28 I broke up 10 years relationship, may be I assumed I was in a relationship but wasn't making sense along the way. But I never had an opportunity to marry early.
Being happy is key. Before taking another responsibility.
It is well.
Thanks for your teaching pastor Kingsley.
Love thy Neighbor (esp wife) as your self.
There is a loving that is experienced by one before it is being shared.
I TOTALLY AGREE with you
@@krissy9581 thank you.
I love the explanation of marriage in relation to school. O boy school can be stressful but so worth it at the end. Eh God give us Grace oooo...na family to di spoil all the matter completely, just had an expirienc
Solid message. I wish I watched this 20 years ago.😊God bless you for sharing your wisdom with us. I believe its still never too late..
We shall marry someday in Jesus name
Amen!🙏
Exactly and most times u won't want those that want you.
And sometimes ;those that want you, aren't good for you ....Some people don't have anything for you to look forward to . Eg. Spirituality -0, Looks -0,Money -0 ,Leadership -0 . Good character -0 . Absolutely nothing ......
@@BlessedAreThePureInHeart 😂 I tell you. Complete nonentity. And I can't use because they want me, and want them. Mbanu
@@colletteikeanyibe1487 my sister .... 😔
@@BlessedAreThePureInHeart God dey nwanne
@@colletteikeanyibe1487 Yes oo.. I'm not married yet . And to be honest ,I don't think about it . I'm working on myself ...By watching vidoes like this and creating the best version of myself .... I believe ;sometimes, we attract who we are ...
23-24 years of age for a man to marry is to early sir, not in this current nigeria economy... I can bet it that the man will be yet to figure out his life's direction at 23-24, talkless of taking care someone's daughter and his kids.. I will advise men to marry at 27-28, and also marry a lady of lower age margin like 25-26
Very sensible and more realistic idea.
@@victorfreeman3371 thanks friend
In developed countries, marriage is often between ages 19&25. The age range common to Nigerians is determined by environmental factors. It doesn't make the early ages wrong. At 18, they have a job, housing is sorted, education is almost done because at 22/23 master's is in the bag, there is a regular income flow, so early marriage isn't a big deal to these people.
@@TheFavourBoluwade we can as well agree that this is exactly why DIVORCE is rampant in developed countries... At age 19, no man regardless of your financial status or stability, is yet to figure out what he wants.. At age 19, a man is still carrying a baby brain .. they need to grow to at least 25-28 years, before making marriage decisions
@@callmezolo Very understandable.
Please may i say this sir and anybody can quote me......Sir K you're one of the wisest men in Nigeria and the world at large am so happy to jam you in this life sir thank you God bless you sir K ❤️❤️
Swears 🙇
The thing is even guys are that chasing you are only in it for the chase the moment you agree they turn the other way and will now be expecting you to chase them
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 my ribs ooo. PK is always making sense in a very funny way 😂
I thought it was only me oo...I laugh paaa
pastor K, you no go kill me with laughter, 'the Lord invited me'.I always love your message. Thank you sir.
Pastor PK God bless you. Pls when are you coming to Port Harcourt
God bless PK for this message 🙏
But can we stop pulling down our own nation with our words, it might sound funny but wrong words have contributed heavily to the problem of Nigeria. We self-sabotage ourselves and laugh about it especially on social media which isn't supposed to be, let's build our nation with our words🙏
Nigeria can have 24hrs power supply and will have in Jesus name!!!
I love your faith but there is nothing wrong with what he said. Does your country have 24hrs power supply? No. That is a fact. Not negative confession. Please you are not "more Christian" than him. Let us be Christians but let us be wise.
Your mate in animal kingdom 😂😂😂😂😂
Great massage. Remain blessed Sir.
The audio isn’t at it best today.
Marriage is not designed to make you happy, it makes you better. When you are better you can now be happy. The purpose of marriage is to be a better person......
All in all what I understood is that you have to be happy yourself, have good self-esteem and marriage would be just an addition.
Thank you Pastor K.
💯 true Linda
Pastor K is very wise. God bless. More grace.
Am in love with your sermons .....though am in Zimbabwe
I wish I know PK 10yrs ago but it never too late,God bless you for sharing your wisdom with us
Pls work on your audio volume: technical team
Yes please!!!
yeah I agree
I agree!
You don't fall in love, you walk in love... continuity
Thank you sir....
Am really blessed to have you in my generation
Wow👏👏👏👏👏😊😊😊😚❤️may you live long Pastor Kingsley......you are such a blessings to me since I started following your sermon.... When God's time comes I'll have my man,❤️🙏🙏🙏
Your such a blessing pastor k 😊 God should continue blessing you
Am blessed! May d Lord continue to enrich u with his wisdom in Jesus name!
Thank You Pastor 🙏
Many men are *"Professional Testers"* 🤔😁
I have learnt so much from you pastor K, God bless you.
Thank you daddy ❤ your message is very enlightening
Please the volume is too low
Diamond rings are not hawked on traffic. Thank you Sir
It’s well 😅God help and give everyone single a life time joyous partner 🙏
I think it's ok for a woman to have agency when it comes to choosing a husband. Ruth was the one who approached Boaz. There really is nothing wrong with a woman knowing what she wants and going for it wisely. No one should be passive about such a life changing decision.
Great point about hunting lol. Women need to change tack then 🤣🤣🤣
I remember my burger disappointment too lol
Ruth never proposed to Boaz
A word to the wise is enough
😊
Or else years after marriage if bad times come, he'll tell you that he never wanted you, but you were the one who forced yourself on him
@@Jesssuuusss_. you need to study your Bible again. In that cultural context, what Ruth did was to indicate her availability to Boaz and he responded positively.
If a man has to throw it into a woman's face that she proposed to him, then it's more of a reflection on him. He too has free will.
I really want to come for this seminar ❤
Very Informative.
Thank you Pastor K
God bless you sir
I'm always blessed by your message
I've seen ladies who go for who they want and both are doing well
What works for A may not work for B. The teaching isn't a one size fits all.
Marriage is first designed to make you better and then happy...
I learnt alot from this message, thank you sir 🙏
God bless you sir
Your teachings are on point Pastor K.🤗
God bless you Pastor K
Thank you pastor for this wonderful teaching. May the good lord continue to increase you in knowledge
Please note there's a serious volume balance with most videos... Below average!
I just want to say thank you for the great impart this message has added to my life. God bless you sir
The reality of this message.. I can relate to the programming of Ladies minds ..
Thank you so much for this, pastor K. But what if you always get attention from the kind of men you don't want, genuinely?
God bless you pastor K
Mr Kingsley okonkwo you're such an intelligent and experience Man 💯🥰💓
Thanks for your lecture 💯🙏
Who is a virtuous woman and whats her characteristics?
More blessings Pastor
Thank you pastor
Thank you so much Pastor Kingsley for sharing the word with us in such a realistic and relatable manner. May you continue to be blessed.
Sir I really love your teachings so so much.....so real and powerful.... sometimes I have to go back to hear some words again......... thanks for being a blessing to this generation....
I have a question.....what advice would you give to a female medical doctor who is single but has only those below her economic status coming to her for marriage
She should pray about it and If it's the will of God, her economic status is nothing.
The will of God comes with interruption.
She should try to level up. Be confident, speak well, be personable. Pay attention to dressing and grooming. Be around the kind of men she would like to be married to (church, conferences etc). What about her male classmates? Colleagues at work? Nothing wrong with showing a man you're interested, if he doesn't chase you no worries, just move on. Know your worth, being a female physician is prestigious. Good luck!
economic status, in terms of money right?? if that is so... I think it isn't enough reason to turn them down... you just need a man who has wisdom, leader not a ruler, hardworking, God-fearing with the fruit of The spirit in terms of character and pray for God's leading, he must be visionary....... although some men can't lead you because they are after your money... once they asking for your money then be careful... understand that they are only coming for your money... let him spend in the relationship... he should be a provider and understand his role as a provider... check the way he treats others around him, don't judge his character based on how he treats you but how he treats others....
I think a woman in such a position should primarily focus on the other aspects of her needs. If a man matches 98% of what you are looking for and he’s making just a little below what you make, why would you sacrifice the possibility of a beautiful and fulfilling marriage because he doesn’t make as much or above? I know we have been conditioned as women to search men who make more than us but sometimes the one who doesn’t is where your fulfillment will be. Just pray and ask God for direction when every suitor comes around. Focusing on suitors who make more than you will be an opening the devil will use to bring an Ahab into your life. And the present income a man makes at the moment you meet his doesn’t determine the future we all he can generate? What are his goals? What is his vision?
Amazing
Ah PK 😂😂😂 you dey think that's why he's not married 😂😂😂😂😂😂. Thank you for your messages 🙏🏿
At 24, a man is not too young to marry! People marry at early ages and do well!
Like pastor Iren Emmanuel
Bless you sir
😂😂 Pst K o, that’s medium rare steak and it’s actually myoglobin not blood. It’s from the muscle tissue.
Wisdom
You are teaching good Pastor 🙏🏻
Awesomeness
Thank you Sir
God bless you Pastor k
Wow...powerful...thank u sir
I wish I heard this years ago. 😢
Thank you so much sir k God bless you greatly
Thank you Pastor K for this
THE VOLUME LEVEL IS TOO LOW!!
I CAN BARELY HEAR ANYTHING
Thank you Pst K
My question, is feeling now not important in choosing who you love? because you offend people's feelings and emotions.
Also I might be wrong, but making women not consider their feelings in selecting who they love and eventual marriage, I think It gives some men a leverage to not consider their emotions and also groom men without emotional intelligence.
Amazing message 🥰🥰🥰🥰
Can’t wait!🔥
THIS MESSAGE 🙌🙌🙌🙌
Great
Hmm they don’t hawk diamond ring in traffic
Thanks sir
We'll join you now and talk to your parents later🤣🤣🤣
That killed me 😂😂
Pastor Kay oh 😂 😂 😂
Your emotions don’t have a mind of their own!!!
Chaiiiiiiiiiii lolz 🤣🤣🤣 I dnt know oooo ladies carry yourself with value