What Every Single Should Know Before Marriage | Kingsley Okonkwo

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 177

  • @Mindful_Mm
    @Mindful_Mm 3 роки тому +100

    Some important statements :
    - " It's marriage/family that feeds society ".
    - your singleness is a gift you should embrace, not the curse you should detest.
    - it's good to desire a relationship, but it's better to be ready for one.
    - use your singleness to develop yourself..
    - it's good to desire marriage but you should not be desperate to marry.
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  • @Principality92
    @Principality92 3 роки тому +85

    I love how the church has decided to teach more about relationships and marriage...
    Thank you pastor K.

  • @adelinarwehabula5091
    @adelinarwehabula5091 3 роки тому +75

    Even if you come from a broken home ,a broken home must not come from you .Amen that really touched me .Thanks Pastor

  • @Arisethriveacademy
    @Arisethriveacademy 11 місяців тому +1

    Your shape will attract a man, but your mental sharpness will keep him. Powerful statement ❤

  • @cleverdgodfactor
    @cleverdgodfactor 3 роки тому +34

    You should read his books: Who should I marry, when am I ready, 7 quality wise men want, 7 questions wise women ask?, A-Z of Marriage, God told me to marry you, I love you but my parent says no!, 25 wrong reasons people enter into relationship, and many more.

  • @dalisobandatv3924
    @dalisobandatv3924 3 роки тому +28

    Am 30 and I don't see anything wrong with being single... focus on building a house.

  • @Amyspicy1
    @Amyspicy1 3 роки тому +27

    Your singleness is a gift you should embrace and not a curse you should detest

    • @Amyspicy1
      @Amyspicy1 3 роки тому +5

      It is easier to be happy when you are single

    • @Amyspicy1
      @Amyspicy1 3 роки тому +3

      It is good to desire a relationship but it is better to be ready for one

    • @Amyspicy1
      @Amyspicy1 3 роки тому +3

      Life only works when all our goals cojoin

    • @Amyspicy1
      @Amyspicy1 3 роки тому +3

      Use your single years to develop yourself

    • @Amyspicy1
      @Amyspicy1 3 роки тому +3

      Sin itself punishes

  • @Debbie_obasi
    @Debbie_obasi 3 роки тому +20

    Men move from sexual attraction to mental attraction
    Very true sir
    God bless you

  • @kingsleyanajemba
    @kingsleyanajemba 3 роки тому +41

    "The family feeds the society", couldn't agree more. The investment in teaching singles and the married folks alike about building good homes is totally worth it.

  • @hertywisdom6249
    @hertywisdom6249 3 роки тому +34

    I’m learning a lot and Pastor’s sense of humour is another level🤩🤩🤩

  • @Nzunghe
    @Nzunghe 3 роки тому +40

    Thank you my father! I learn so much from you 🙏🏽
    After being single for 10years, I recently got engaged & I must say, I THOROUGHLY ENJOYED MY SINGLE LIFE 😍😍.
    I'm still learning & I know I'm on the right path with you 🙏🏽

  • @queensheba5103
    @queensheba5103 3 роки тому +5

    Ever since I started listening to pastor Kingsley and pastor Mildred teaching about marriages, and relationship... It has really helped me and improve me.. God bless u sir

  • @AriyoModupeTV
    @AriyoModupeTV 3 роки тому +18

    This generation is blessed to have you Pastor Kingsley. Thank you so much for the practical teachings and lessons. I have learnt a lot more by listening to your teachings again today. God bless you and all that's yours in Jesus name.🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @brendanzelle4441
    @brendanzelle4441 3 роки тому +9

    I'm from a broken home growing up seeing my parents fight n seperate makes me feel like I'm an outcast
    But I wouldn't love to mk same mistakes
    Thanks alot for the impact PK🤣

  • @kudakwashemukumbi1544
    @kudakwashemukumbi1544 3 роки тому +4

    Rebirth of dr Myles munroe. Thank you Jesus for your wisdom

  • @UdyBee
    @UdyBee 3 роки тому +9

    Thank you Pastor K. I wish everyone can listen to this message. Most single youths do not see kissing as part of sex. In fact, most men will refute this part of the message.

  • @chiemerievictor2998
    @chiemerievictor2998 3 роки тому +2

    Poeple who disliked this video may the Lord heal you.amen

  • @ernestinaamiteye5872
    @ernestinaamiteye5872 3 роки тому +2

    "I failed my exams because I wasn't going to church" that's sounds very much like me...God have mercy, Pastor you are really opening our eyes

  • @beatricechandasampa5759
    @beatricechandasampa5759 3 роки тому +4

    Singleness is a gift! Your single years are a blessing you should embrace not a curse you should detest or try to escape from. Enjoy your single years and be happy! Always thank God for this gift because it's easier to be happy when you're single.🥰🤗💃💃💃

  • @Chekzkrystall
    @Chekzkrystall 3 роки тому +19

    When someone aligns with purpose, it's fire everytime. Thank you PK Sir. God richly bless you.

  • @cleverdgodfactor
    @cleverdgodfactor 3 роки тому +26

    I wonder what is in the mind of people when they dislike a message this amazing! Anyways, this life na OYO (on your own)..... Sink or swim your choice!

    • @Debbie_obasi
      @Debbie_obasi 3 роки тому +2

      As in some people need to think

    • @ruhuomakejeh7633
      @ruhuomakejeh7633 3 роки тому

      Sometimes it's a mistake. They actually meant to like.

    • @temmaokereke7994
      @temmaokereke7994 3 роки тому

      @@ruhuomakejeh7633 lol. You think so?

    • @thobiletutu3886
      @thobiletutu3886 3 роки тому +1

      I'm really surprised at people who dislike this video where theres so much wisdom here. I pray that they should love wisdom because it is more profitable than silver and gold.

    • @cleverdgodfactor
      @cleverdgodfactor 3 роки тому

      Amen!! 1Corintgians 2:14 (KJV)
      "But the natural man receiveth not the things of the Spirit of God: for they are foolishness unto him: neither can he know them, because they are spiritually".

  • @elitefoodhub
    @elitefoodhub 3 роки тому +10

    I thank God for a great Man like you sir , he will keep strengthening you in wisdom and knowledge God bless you sir

  • @edithbateganya9069
    @edithbateganya9069 3 роки тому +8

    Pastor, you killed me with the homework being hard these days😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @lindasspace6894
    @lindasspace6894 3 роки тому +12

    It's not enough to say you love the person,does he love you?

  • @LumataVen
    @LumataVen 3 роки тому +6

    God hates sin because of how sin negatively affects us...waoo

  • @kokonifemi
    @kokonifemi 3 роки тому +1

    Some people are so desperate to leave their single life, me i dey embrace am with my full chest, marriage na work.

  • @nickyprov31pursuit
    @nickyprov31pursuit 3 роки тому +10

    👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 so loaded, attracting vs keeping. beauty they give you, sense is what you develop

  • @balogunopeyemi788
    @balogunopeyemi788 3 роки тому +7

    I'm always blessed listening to you sir
    Watching your videos and reading your books has made me a better single, people now ask me for advice based on relationships. Thanks so much pastor kay

  • @Tii001
    @Tii001 3 роки тому +17

    He told me he can't date a girl he is not having sex with so he prefers to be alone. That's how we separated. I was tired of living in immorality and that was my deliverance from fornication.

  • @aduragbemiflorence7902
    @aduragbemiflorence7902 2 роки тому +1

    I really appreciate this pastor for the relationship advice, this our present generation takes relationship as a normal or everyday activity

  • @patiencemlandeli5464
    @patiencemlandeli5464 3 роки тому +2

    God bless you Sir, i'm blessed and empowered by your teachings.Enjoying my singleness @31💃💃

  • @MalcanniPlus
    @MalcanniPlus 3 роки тому +4

    All these their assignments Sha!!! It is well!

  • @emekaigb3053
    @emekaigb3053 3 роки тому +3

    Thank you Pastor K for being there for so many youths in your generation. Thank you and Pastor M for being out to ensure that this generation do not repeat the mistakes of previous generations when it comes to marriage. God bless you and your family abundantly.

  • @afia6363
    @afia6363 Рік тому

    Pastor KIngsley, you and your beautiful wife are blessing to our generation. I wish I got connected to you earlier. Your teachings are really helpful and blessings to me. Thanks so much and God richly blessed you both❤

  • @chinazouchendu6462
    @chinazouchendu6462 3 роки тому +3

    Six packs doesn't give money neither does one pack does.
    Love your relationship ministering.

  • @shilarida3646
    @shilarida3646 3 роки тому +1

    Laughing from Kenya. God bless all of you.

  • @tamdycer7705
    @tamdycer7705 3 роки тому

    This is a great work you are doing for this generation.. family is the smaller unit of a society..marriages are destroyed the family will be destroyed so goes the country

  • @AbosedeTowoju
    @AbosedeTowoju 3 роки тому +4

    🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 We thank God for Pastor Kingsley.

  • @otoabasibrown61
    @otoabasibrown61 3 роки тому +2

    "To whom BRAIN is given SENSE is Expected"

  • @chiamakaogonna2301
    @chiamakaogonna2301 3 роки тому +4

    I've been laughing all through while learning. Thank you so much Sir

  • @joanneclarke4226
    @joanneclarke4226 3 роки тому

    It's good to desire a relationship but it's better to be ready.

  • @Dhammilicious
    @Dhammilicious 3 роки тому +3

    Hmmmm!This message is SO detailed!! All I can say is,THANK YOU Pastor Kingsley! God bless you

  • @gamergod3026
    @gamergod3026 3 роки тому +3

    Pastor come to the Uk

  • @victoriacutshall7170
    @victoriacutshall7170 3 роки тому +4

    Great word.. so glad I found your teaching.. right on.. 🤗✝️✡️🇳🇬🇺🇸

  • @hadassahkasukumya3359
    @hadassahkasukumya3359 3 роки тому +5

    Powerful teaching. I will treasure my singleness from now on. Lord have mercy

  • @maryblessing5798
    @maryblessing5798 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you pastor for sharing, your realy opened my eyes, my the lord help us to know the value that we hold to develop ourselves and use it to benefitl in every area of ourlives💝🙏🇰🇪

  • @lindasspace6894
    @lindasspace6894 3 роки тому +6

    It's TRUE the homework these days is too hard oo,Its like they are giving homework to parents not kids

    • @Tanyalapatrone
      @Tanyalapatrone 3 роки тому +1

      I have sent my son to Google a few times 😂😂😂

    • @johnprof4033
      @johnprof4033 3 роки тому

      The thing shock me

  • @pualbrown5681
    @pualbrown5681 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you sir honestly I'm honored and happy you just made mention the date of my birthday...May 6...and have dated a girl for three years without sex bcus of my training

  • @angiegrace1028
    @angiegrace1028 3 роки тому

    Most of us will spend money on useless things that had no value in long term but we want free counselling. Where we invest is where we harvest.

  • @thokomatshiga5051
    @thokomatshiga5051 3 роки тому

    Pastor Im single and I am hearing you VERY clearly!!! Actually Im convicted..

  • @Rosemary4Christ
    @Rosemary4Christ 3 роки тому +1

    God bless you Pastor K ! The humour with serious gems of wisdom is unmatched

  • @brendanzelle4441
    @brendanzelle4441 3 роки тому +1

    Always learning something from each teaching from PK 🥰😇

  • @thokomatshiga5051
    @thokomatshiga5051 3 роки тому +1

    Big -ups Pastor! May God forever be glorified through your Ministry. Very very important statements picked up.

  • @SimaokTomas
    @SimaokTomas 3 роки тому +1

    Amen my papa thanks I'm injecting knowledge from Africa Namibia

  • @AdaAda_
    @AdaAda_ 3 роки тому +1

    Wow such a transformational message. Thanks so much Pastor K. More wisdom and grace🙏🏼.

  • @dinahmavismensah5286
    @dinahmavismensah5286 3 роки тому

    Great ministry of God, l love Ur message n Ur wife. God bless u pastor n wife

  • @oviemenablessing2197
    @oviemenablessing2197 3 роки тому

    Thank you so much sir for the teachings, am glad I heard them now, it's better late to hear them now than never to hear them at all 😊😊😊

  • @zeenatsahib6821
    @zeenatsahib6821 3 роки тому +1

    God bless you man of God, more grace

  • @chukwuc6726
    @chukwuc6726 3 роки тому

    "can I sow into his life ?" Was enjoying the vid so much but That statement brought me to the comment section

  • @omordiajpat6395
    @omordiajpat6395 2 роки тому +1

    Praise the Lord Almighty

  • @nshisamba5150
    @nshisamba5150 3 роки тому +2

    Shout out to you PK. 👋👋👋👋

  • @nimusiimatopista1384
    @nimusiimatopista1384 Рік тому

    This has made my day 🤣🤣🤣 thanks Papa may God bless you

  • @joymas1653
    @joymas1653 3 роки тому +1

    Make it 2hrs more , learnt lots ooh , God bless u

  • @blessingchisom6982
    @blessingchisom6982 3 роки тому +1

    Wonderful message! Thank you ❤ 😊 so much Man of God.

  • @omotolanioluwatosin9216
    @omotolanioluwatosin9216 3 роки тому +3

    Hmmmm.... Thank you for this message

  • @ashayhemy3617
    @ashayhemy3617 3 роки тому

    Beauty is something they dash Sense you will have to develop it

  • @juliausiahonusiahon5561
    @juliausiahonusiahon5561 3 роки тому

    Hallelujah hallelujah To the Lord Jesus AMEN 🙏🙌

  • @blessingmarko7034
    @blessingmarko7034 3 роки тому

    Am very happy to listing to this voice

  • @zionitesindiaspora
    @zionitesindiaspora 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you PK for what you and PM does for the body of Christ. May God keep blessing you and your family. AMEN

  • @inezayemarieodile4213
    @inezayemarieodile4213 3 роки тому +1

    Very powerful message. Blessings in abundance Pastor!!

  • @ThatProductGirl
    @ThatProductGirl 3 роки тому +4

    Yayyyyyyy🥳. I'm soooo excited to be watching this ...

  • @its_violet
    @its_violet Рік тому

    "You owe it to the next generation to get it right"

  • @simonerenee9919
    @simonerenee9919 3 роки тому +3

    Powerful powerful word

    • @nemeyesarah9004
      @nemeyesarah9004 3 роки тому +1

      For sure I need this message , for me I have a question it's it possible to ask

  • @rhemamensah6582
    @rhemamensah6582 3 роки тому +2

    God bless you Pastor .

  • @idim9248
    @idim9248 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you sir, the Lord bless you🙏

  • @Chibuzor111
    @Chibuzor111 3 роки тому +2

    Jeremiah 30: 11-17

  • @issuesoflifewithjunemianto6475
    @issuesoflifewithjunemianto6475 3 роки тому

    Wonderful message. God bless you Pastor Kingsley.

  • @shalom3522
    @shalom3522 3 роки тому

    I was brought up in a very loving home but met lions in church. The abuse was terrible from “mother in the lord”, Lord have mercy. There is nothing like mother or father in the Lord

    • @johnprof4033
      @johnprof4033 3 роки тому

      Pls there is,maybe u just meet a mixed multitude..

    • @ogechukwucrescentia3181
      @ogechukwucrescentia3181 3 роки тому +2

      Hiiii. How are you?
      Do you mind us talking? Just to hear your story & all😊

  • @attahprosper3610
    @attahprosper3610 3 роки тому

    Devine strength lord

  • @johnprof4033
    @johnprof4033 3 роки тому +1

    I dey enjoy my singleness oh...I can't kill my self

  • @obilorodinakachi4937
    @obilorodinakachi4937 3 роки тому

    Thank you sir
    More grace of God 🙌

  • @yvonnewambui1306
    @yvonnewambui1306 3 роки тому

    Thank you sir,God bless you

  • @patiencedamala937
    @patiencedamala937 3 роки тому

    I enjoy listening to you sir, God bless you. When you spoke about your schedule for the next two weeks I felt concerned, I don't mean to sound like a critic but what about your kids? It's great to have a wonderful relationship with your wife but please don't let your kids grow up in the care of others please.

  • @blessingmarko7034
    @blessingmarko7034 3 роки тому

    Am learning a lot pastor

  • @happiness_713
    @happiness_713 10 місяців тому

    Am blessed 🙏💕

  • @unyimehenry6395
    @unyimehenry6395 3 роки тому

    Very important learning

  • @godstimejackson140
    @godstimejackson140 3 роки тому

    I learnt a lot thanks so much sir ❤️

  • @ngunan27
    @ngunan27 3 роки тому

    Thank you for blessing my spirit.

  • @zennahchimba2331
    @zennahchimba2331 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you PK

  • @amandaknopp880
    @amandaknopp880 3 роки тому

    Acts 2:17, In the last days, God says, I will pour out my Spirit on all people; your sons and daughters will prophesy, your young men will see visions, your old men will dream dreams. Go to God directly. Not to man

  • @modupeestheradesina7158
    @modupeestheradesina7158 3 роки тому

    Am blessed beyond measures.........

  • @juliausiahonusiahon5561
    @juliausiahonusiahon5561 3 роки тому

    God bless you Sir 🙏

  • @carolinenakiwala9813
    @carolinenakiwala9813 3 роки тому

    Thank you so much sir for the enlightenment.

  • @thokomatshiga5051
    @thokomatshiga5051 3 роки тому

    God help us..!

  • @Williams_Caleb
    @Williams_Caleb 3 роки тому +2

    Dj... 😂😂
    Thank you Pk ♥️😊

  • @MinisterNaj
    @MinisterNaj 3 роки тому

    God bless you sir

  • @thesecretplace_
    @thesecretplace_ 3 роки тому

    Thank you sir! I’m blessed!🙌🏾

  • @johnesther3191
    @johnesther3191 3 роки тому

    God bless you sir i'm realy bless

  • @enny8854
    @enny8854 3 роки тому

    After introduction I don't feel like going on with the marriage but don't think I can live after that cos of the people that might be hurt cos of my decision

  • @juliausiahonusiahon5561
    @juliausiahonusiahon5561 3 роки тому

    Ride on Ride Sir 👌