What is Compassion?
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- Опубліковано 12 сер 2019
- What is compassion? We'll look at what compassion means and examples you might notice it in your own life. Free Download pdf Quick Guide to Professional Communication Skills: www.alexanderlyon.com/
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What is Compassion: • What is Compassion?
Compassionate Leadership: • Compassionate Leadership
Compassionate Communication: • Compassionate Communic...
Compassion in the Workplace: • Compassion in the Work...
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I'm a compassionate GIVER. Thanks God for this kind of attitude. For me it's a blessing. My dream is to help less fortunate people in our town. May God help me and bless me more in order to continue giving 🙏🙏🙏
Children who grow up with pets having more compassion as adults - so very, very true. It should almost be compulsory that kids grow up with pets.
pets=love?
interesting indeed pets=food?
@@interestingindeed3169 yes basically that
Sir and friends
Compassion is through my eyes, the :perspective of Knowing that it is your actions so NOT your REACTIONS that form your perception of reality
I think Compassion is extremely lacked in today’s society and I think this is a great point to make when talking to other people. I think the kids and pets example was great because most everyone can relate to both of those examples.
Thanks for sharing, Joseph. I'm glad the examples helped.
I thought compassion means empathy... But someone said it means love. And few told me it means kindness! Now i know its all of that! Thank you for the clear explanation.
Well said!
I have to write an essay about compassion and what it means by not giving a textbook definition. Needless to say, your video has helped me understand compassion in a new light, thank you!
I’ve made to decision to Meditate on God’s 5 characteristics as per Ex 34:7
Week by week starting from 1st Feb
So I started to search for a deeper and clearer meaning on compassion.
Your video is exactly what I needed!
I’m also pursuing MBA HRM as well.
Thank you so much 👍
That is true every person is fighting a battle in their own story
SERIOUSLY
The world at large has never lacked compassion & empathy more than now when society needs it the most & the instances in which it’s ever shown is when its people from the same tribe.
LOVE ONE ANOTHER.
It’s humanity 101
I like it when you say that compassion is to think about the other person needs. While sympathy is to feel what other person feels by putting ourselves in the other person's shoes. Thank you.
Thank u... I'm a pet mom to three beautiful fur babies. And compassion is something that I resonate with now more at a deeper level.
Those little kids are so cute!! Thanks for sponsoring them.
I don't understand why this channel with amazing and important information don't have more subscribers, you deserve it! With you I am learning a lot.
Thanks! You know, we've grown like 20000 subscribers in the past 12 months. So, it's moving in the right direction. But, if it grew even faster, I wouldn't complain! :-)
@@alexanderlyon all the best wishes for you it's important that people can get the skills for having better communication with others!
Thank you so much! Yes..sometimes I want to sit in my favorite chair and read a book..but pups is there and looks so cute and happy that I'm happiest sitting beside her and watching over her while I read my book. I know it'd be more comfortable..but that loses meaning and importance when I watch her as my heart wells up with love and happiness. Your video makes so much sense! Thank you so very much!!
You are so welcome, F Gon. I'm glad the dog/pet example was helpful. Thank you for your encouragement.
I love to work in the humanitarian and helping other people but people around me always say to me go make money instead of this you will live sad. I always say to them happiness is when you give is not when you earn.
I haven't really thought about compassion but this video helped and took notice of it. So this was very helpful to keep in mind and I liked the example you gave of the dog.
I'm so glad and also happy that the dog example helped. :-)
Yes, I needed to understand the meaning of the word more fully, and you did an excellent job of explaining that, I believe I have compassion, I tear up at the smallest sad thing, BUT I am very eager to alleviate another's hurts, however, sometimes I feel I'm too OVER THE TOP, and I feel as if others may interpret my actions as controlling....Thank you sir..:)) Shalom.
Glad it was helpful, Pippin. Thank you for sharing your experience.
My dog is a senior (17 yo). He can no longer go up and down stairs, doesn’t bark, partially deaf and blind, and has dementia. We carry him out 4-5 times a day down stairs to allow him outside to pee/poo. It’s taxing and we can no longer leave him alone without him getting stuck somewhere for hours but I feel such a strong pull towards giving him the best end of life care and love. He served me for so long through so many of my milestones. I want to give that back so we cart him around in a stroller and he travels with us everywhere which means we can only travel by car… I haven’t been on a plane in years.
Thank you for sharing your story. I used to have a very old dog too. It's a challenge but worth it.
I realized I’m not compassionate but I’m very empathetic, deff have to work on being more compassionate
Thank you very much for this! Supporting you from far away! Keep up the good work.
Much appreciated, Mariah.
As always, another great video with amazing insight! I have really been following your channel since you launched and it just keeps getting better all the time!
As for pets, we have many, mostly goats and they sure are a lot of fun! Thanks again and GOD bless!
Thanks, man. I appreciate it. It's true, you were one of the first subscribers. Goats rule!
yes maybe goats are rulers, but in reality, it is in more reference about sheep for: " ... The one that is lost from its destiny, needs good help and advice to find a correct path back to our ever loving Lord God Our one and only true Father of heaven and earth and all that is seen and unseen.
@@Robert_G_Ortega amazing stuff man
Compassion is connecting when we authentically extend to, help, or empathize with another person
I think I learned this best in my church. I believe Jesus teaches us best about this. I wasn't great at this when i was in active drug addiction. Now in sobriety, and through a lot of hard work I'm doing pretty good learning to become better. Thank you! This stuff is helping me through this rough patch of life and is making me become a better person. I am happy to follow you till I'm ready to lead on my own.
But I also love it how he puts jerks in their place. It's awesome.
Just to say I love my dog he makes me smile and fill with love when I look at him.
Well explained. Thank you. Worth the time! I got great value from this.
Glad it was helpful, Brent.
Great explanation.
I am 15 years old, I never had a pet, But I really feel the compassion about the other form of lives around me even if it is an ant or any other kind of Animal. I really feel bad when they are in some trouble. Who else feels the same?.
After reading all these pleasant comments, I subscribed to your channel, Goodluck..
I am also working to this process with my own family. It's been really hard for my kids after the divorce and I am endeavoring to work through my compassion centers to help them. I shared your video on my personal page and I want to thank you for helping people in this area. There is a great need for compassion in the world right now
Thank you
You're welcome!
I have compassion for homeless people and stray dogs. I feel sorry for them, for not having a home to live in and for their hunger
thank you for your video.
You are welcome, L S.
Compassion is respect
How do you treat people and other living entities who can do nothing for you in return? A truly kind and compassionate person will not want anything in return from others. Their happiness is in pleasing the Supreme Lord, not in being praised or acknowledged. If we are given some praise or gift, we can immediately give thanks to the Supreme Lord.
Really, thank you for your efforts. I'm so grateful for what I've learned from you.
I wanna ask you to make a video about "How to accept all kinds of people and how to deal with their different personalities". Thanks in advance.
Good idea.
As well as i am concerned, the individuals who has compassion to environment they are environmentally friendly , could you check please.
I think I developed more compassion as I got older as much as I want to help people it's very hard to trust people and assume they will not take advantage of your kindness
Cool explanation
I suffer with compassion. It hurts so much and at times it’s hurt for days. Some times it’s so strong I can’t shake it off for many days. I’ve hurt for others at times where my whole body hurt. All I could do is lay in bed in agony tossing n turning uncomfortably with thoughts of the person suffering flash back and forth in my mind. This lady was beat and stomped in the head in a ally behind a bar on a cold and icy night she was raped and left naked and barely hanging on to life. That story sent me into a deep state of compassion where I was in tremendous pain for her. I couldn’t stop thinking about what her final thoughts laying there was. Was she scared did she feel the cold ? Did she think this is it for me I’m hurt bad??? Another example was a two year old who was raped and strangled. It hurt so bad. I was unable to even walk because my legs were so weak. I kept wondering if she called out for her mom or daddy was she scared? Did she cry and not understand why he was hurting her. Did she feel all the pain.
I searched compassionate men in UA-cam and it was just a bunch of men bashing women lol wtf. This is the first relevant video.
How do I inculcate among my team members the ability to take responsibility for their work/ contribution
Hey Alex... How are you?
I just took your Free course on udemy (Listening skills for Leaders)
I applied the principles ;
1-I listened people without interrupting them
2-took genuine interest
3-made eye contact... Smiled... etc.
But i have one problem
Whenever other person finishes the conversation to say Goodbye most of them say to me... Sorry if this conversation make you feeling bore???
So why everyone say this to me at the end of the conversation...?
What does it mean?
Waiting for your answer and upcoming 3 parts of compassion series
Thanks
You know, I've never had people apologize like that about being boring in a conversation. I'm not sure what it means. What do you think? Do you look interested (or bored) when you are in those conversations?
I wonder whether you are just sitting and listening or being an active listener. An active listener nods and adds little encouraging comments whilst the other person is talking, such as: really? go on... that's fascinating... uh huh... right... yes... I know what you mean... All these interjections encourage the talker to feel you are hearing what they are saying and interested in their content.
I want one of these for gentleness.
Ah, interesting!
I had a dog, named maliky and i miss him so much we had to give him away because we had to move out our house in a apartment and I wonder if he is ok.
Dog's are amazing. My dog I talked about in the video died very suddenly (at age 3) last fall. I was incredibly sad. We have a new puppy now but I sure do still miss my Golden Retriever.
I need to be compassionate
Nice that compassion, any compassion for me also
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its just a part of lovin kind
Sir,could be love synonms of compassion?
Yes, definitely. Compassion is a type of love. But, there are lots of other types of love so they are not exactly the same meaning.
@@alexanderlyon thanku sir
I came here because somebody told me ion show compassion and idek what compassion is 😭😭
Sir good evening
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A rare commodity.
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Still no examples. Can we hear what compassion sounds like ? Or look like ? We all know it exists, but to apply it needs to be a better “example”. The example with pets said “feelings” and needs to be “cared for”, it fills you with compassion, but what is the act? And what is the use of compassion? I feel compassion with pets but that doesn’t mean I’m applying it the way you’re doing it which I assume is the way I’m trying to
Hi, Eyeroc. As mentioned, this video is the first in a series. I give plenty of other examples and information in the follow up videos that get more practical. This video just defines it. Feel free to take a look at Compassionate Leadership and Compassionate Communication, two other videos in the series.
compassion helps for life changes
One thing about compassion is a gift that the good Lord God Our Holy Father of heaven, and it is easy to ser from two different ideologies. 1. Why did not God destroy the evilness of Lucifer, for the power of Creation is not destroying ones creations. 2. We as humans say, " Do not take my kindness as a sign of weakness!"
I thought compassion means "selfless"
I can see how you'd put these together. They have some similarity but important differences, too. Selfless means unselfish, or more concerned about the needs of others than one's own needs. Compassions is explained in the video but has more to do with caring about what others are going through and wanting to help, especially when the other person(s) are hurting.
@@alexanderlyon Some people say Compassion means just doing what is needed in the situation, No more and No less. It is the state of mind in which there is no room "self".
For example in our workplace, someone might try to hurt us due to pride or some sort of comparative thoughts. If the mind is able to see the whole activity and still remain calm, then it could be referred to as a compassionate mind. Consider the real-time case of Lionel Messi, he is very composed in situations where other players tried to poke him. Still, the mind is composed because there is no room for self inside.
In your video, you have mentioned things related to self-satisfaction, empathy, and pains due to conflict. In which there is a lot of room for self. It means there is room for anger in such a state of mind.
The main point I want to say is that Compassion is a state of mind in which there is no room for self. Therefore, I can say it means to be "selfless".
Maybe my view is limited or different from your analysis.
Dogs n african birds,i think if all people have compassion ,theres no war in our world.
Hiare you
Passion or compassion?
Passion,,[this is an example],," I look at my husband and remember the passion we shared when we were first married.".......COMpassion, listen to the tutor, he explains the meaning..O.K.? hope that helps. :))
Before the creator put all into action, he gave one rule to every single angel. Accordingly, they (any angel of status quo) were instructed to not bother the Good Heavenly God Lord our Father's creations. For an arch angel to "claim" that our father said something or gave this angel (regardless, of status quo), in truth is a challenge to "Compassion," of the Holiest Lord God Almighty Father of all that is seen and unseen.
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One thing about compassion is a gift that is of the Good Lord God Our Holy Father of Heaven whose only begotten is Jesus Christ and it is easy to see from two different ideologies. 1. Why did not God destroy the evilness of Lucifer: From the power of "Creation" is not destroying one's creations. 2. We as humans say, " Do not take my kindness as a sign of weakness!"
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Before the creator put all into action, he gave one rule to every single angel. Accordingly, they (any angel of status quo) were instructed to not bother the Good Heavenly God Lord our Father's creations. For an arch angel to "claim" that our father said something or gave this angel (regardless, of status quo), in truth is a challenge to "Compassion," of the Holiest Lord God Almighty Father of all that is seen and unseen.
Before the creator put all into action, he gave one rule to every single angel. Accordingly, they (any angel of status quo) was instructed to not bother the Good Heavenly God Lord our Father's creations. For an arch angel to "claim" that our father said something or gave this angel (regardless, of status quo), in truth is a challenge to "Compassion," of the Holiest Lord God Almighty Father of all that is seen and unseen.